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Just looked it up, I hadn’t heard of it. Which makes sense because it’s so rare that they don’t even have statistics about it, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:28 PM
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Why dont the fathers try for custody then? Only 91% of men even attempt to get custody. https://www.dadsdivorcelaw.com/blog/fathers-and-mothers-child-custody-myths
/r/MensRights23/01/26 12:07 AM
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Child support is paying the custodial parent back for money already spent. So they can spend it however they want as they’ve already used their money to take care of the kid.
/r/MensRights23/01/26 12:06 AM
9

Or to feel pretty. I like to feel pretty when I’m alone in my house.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:29 PM
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It bc they feel pretty. I like to feel pretty even when no-one is going to see me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:28 PM
2

Who says he got lucky though? I’ve only heard those comments from men. I’ve actively been the one to inform male friends/family that they were molested, while they are telling me that it wasn’t molestation, because they wanted it. Men are the ones perpetuating this.
/r/MensRights05/08/25 12:18 AM
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Have you ever actually interacted with a woman? What you think seem to think women as a whole are like is wild, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:32 PM
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My husband had been separated from his ex wife for years when we met. He left her. He would’ve never filed that paperwork, if I hadn’t shown up and done it for him. The person who filed the paperwork does not mean they are the cause of the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:25 PM
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Yeah, that’s seriously crazy. Like most women dont have male partners, brothers, sons, friends we care about. If every woman in your life hates you, might be time for some self reflection.
/r/MensRights25/03/25 09:45 PM
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I am in a happy marriage of 10 years myself. He started out making more money than me, but I’m the one who has really gotten us to a place of comfort. We are just as in love as when we met.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:40 PM
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Look up the stats on men versus women when their partner gets sick. Women stay, men do not. Also men live longer when they are married, women do not. There’s a reason for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:00 PM
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Women I know would rather be alone than be with somebody who doesn’t meet their standards. I agree. I was single until I was almost 30 and met someone who met my standards. If something happened to him, I would far rather just spend time with friends and family then a man who was not everything I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:46 PM
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The best thing about aging is being invisible, imo. Being creeped on by weirdos at the gas station/store is exhausting. Noone bothers me now, it’s freeing. How they are starting to look at my 13 year old makes me want to tear off their heads though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 11:12 AM
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In my state, if my 11-year-old were to get raped and become pregnant, the state would forcefully rip her vagina to asshole making her give birth to a rape baby. How is that having bodily autonomy again?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:33 AM
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No the equivalent to her sucking dick that she doesn’t want to suck for money would be you sucking dick that you don’t want to suck for money. It’s literally the same action.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:21 AM
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Yeah, I got cat-called more as a preteen/young teenager than than I ever have at any other time in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:22 PM
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I don’t do this and never heard of it until now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:30 AM
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I get it, in some scenarios, like if they are only safe without anything else going for them? I don’t know though, My Husband being reliable, responsible and knowing he wouldn’t hurt me is part of what makes me attracted to him. And I am attracted to him. And more in love with him than I knew was possible. But some of the things I love about him are the things that make me feel safe with him. So I guess it would depend what you meant by ‘the safe option.’
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:50 PM
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Copied from a comment above: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23374102/ Conclusions: “This study confirms the importance of the foreskin for penile sensitivity, overall sexual satisfaction, and penile functioning. Furthermore, this study shows that a higher percentage of circumcised men experience discomfort or pain and unusual sensations as compared with the uncircumcised population.” https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17378847/ Conclusions: “The glans (tip) of the circumcised penis is less sensiti…
/r/MensRights01/10/24 09:06 PM
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Copied from a comment above: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23374102/ Conclusions: “This study confirms the importance of the foreskin for penile sensitivity, overall sexual satisfaction, and penile functioning. Furthermore, this study shows that a higher percentage of circumcised men experience discomfort or pain and unusual sensations as compared with the uncircumcised population.” https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17378847/ Conclusions: “The glans (tip) of the circumcised penis is less sensiti…
/r/MensRights01/10/24 09:01 PM
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Ew, noone wants some disease ridden dude whose been god knows where 🤢🤢🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:20 PM
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How many times does that happen to you?
/r/MensRights26/08/24 01:03 AM
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I mean yeah, but like you said, men aren’t entitled to anything from women either. I think that most people understand that no one is entitled to anything from anyone, except for maybe a kid from their parents. I don’t really understand who would disagree, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:57 PM
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Or they are just lazy, as was the case with my husband.
/r/MensRights07/08/24 07:17 PM
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That just bc the men can’t be bothered. My husband was completely separated with zero contact for years when we got together. He only ended up finally getting the divorce because I did all the work for him, otherwise he would’ve been content like that until she finally did it herself. He is not the only case of this that I have heard of, by far.
/r/MensRights07/08/24 07:14 PM
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My husband was separated from his ex for years when we got together, literally lived across the country. Couldn’t be bothered to file the paperwork. He wouldve gone along that way forever or until his ex finally did it, if I hadnt come along and done it for him. Most men Ive known are like this when it comes to such things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:35 AM
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Its never been an issue for me or anyone I know. Was a single mom when I met my husband. 10 years later he adopted her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:49 AM
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Im a feminist, I have many men in my family I love. And I have some really good friends who are men.
/r/MensRights19/07/24 06:57 PM
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Im a feminist and I would LOVE for more men to be aware of and get help with their mental health. I dont know of any feminists who wouldn’t. Where are these feminists you are speaking of?
/r/MensRights29/06/24 10:00 PM
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As a middle class married woman with lots of middle class married friends, this doesn’t happen in my circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:44 AM
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I’ve lived in the Pacific Northwest. There are bears everywhere. They are in your trash, and your yard, you see them all the time. They avoid people. As soon as they hear/see/smell you, they are gone. If you cornered one, or otherwise provoked it it would be dangerous. But if you leave it alone, it leaves you alone. But when I lived up there, in our town the last bear attack was 30 years ago.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/24 09:49 AM
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Which apps are those?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:38 PM
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It says that women and men kill their kids in roughly equal numbers. The reasons are different though. Women are more likely to have psychotic episodes in which they kill their kids, whereas men are more likely to just be violent, or do it for revenge. But when the whole family is killed, it’s almost exclusively men. What are you seeing that we are missing?
/r/MensRights19/03/24 07:59 PM
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If the man wants a vasectomy bc he doesn’t want to father a child, how is the vasectomy for somebody else’s benefit?
/r/MensRights04/03/24 11:37 PM
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most such aborted fetuses could have survived outside the uterus in the nicu. Are you really that ignorant or are you just making stuff up? A baby has never lived if born before 21 weeks. 98.7% of abortions are in the first 20 weeks and that vast majority of the tiny percentage that happen after that are for medical reasons. 91% are in the first trimester when it is barely more than an egg. https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/volumes/67/ss/ss6713a1.htm
/r/MensRights04/03/24 11:14 PM
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That’s how it always has been for a woman to get sterilized. My sister-in-law was told no because her hypothetical future husband may want kids. She was single.
/r/MensRights04/03/24 11:03 PM
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Who is shaming anyone? The way you’re acting right now is pretty embarrassing though.
/r/MensRights04/03/24 10:58 PM
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No one is telling you that you have to, you just have the option if you want it.
/r/MensRights04/03/24 10:56 PM
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Thats not been my experience at all. I’ve never had an adult man even ask about ‘body count.’ I only know that phrase because of the sub, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:02 PM
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Awe, you’re a real life stereotype. How sad. :(
/r/MensRights26/02/24 08:01 AM
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Everything I can find says the same, that men cheat more. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1525/ctx.2010.9.3.58 https://smithinvestigationagency.com/blog/2024-infidelity-statistics-who-cheats-more-men-or-women/ https://discreetinvestigations.ca/infidelity-statistics-who-cheats-more-men-or-women/ https://www.choosingtherapy.com/who-cheats-more-men-or-women/
/r/MensRights18/02/24 09:04 AM
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Everything I can find says the same, that men cheat more. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1525/ctx.2010.9.3.58 https://smithinvestigationagency.com/blog/2024-infidelity-statistics-who-cheats-more-men-or-women/ https://discreetinvestigations.ca/infidelity-statistics-who-cheats-more-men-or-women/ https://www.choosingtherapy.com/who-cheats-more-men-or-women/
/r/MensRights18/02/24 09:03 AM
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The vast majority of the time men dont even try to get custody of their kids. And when they put in any effort at all, they get same or majority custody. I get that there are issues men face, but this is a myth. https://www.dadsdivorcelaw.com/blog/fathers-and-mothers-child-custody-myths
/r/MensRights18/02/24 08:56 AM
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He left a harmless comment. Wasn’t nasty or rude, just gave his opinion on a public internet forum. You definitely are the only one triggered, dude.
/r/MensRights10/02/24 10:09 PM
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Lol, no its not, wtf 😂🤦‍♀️
/r/MensRights07/02/24 04:32 PM
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As a feminist- no, it’s not. This is silly.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 04:30 PM
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How about instead of killing women, we try and make work sites safer for everyone?
/r/MensRights17/12/23 05:25 PM
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most men who divorce want custody of their kids. This is incredibly untrue. In 91% of divorces, the man and woman mutually agree to give custody to the woman. Less than 4% of fathers try for custody. https://zawn.substack.com/p/family-courts-and-child-custody-are#:~:text=In%2091%25%20of%20custody%20cases,abandon%20their%20children%20after%20divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:24 AM
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91% of men don’t even try for partial custody. When they do , they win full or joint custody almost 80% of the time. https://www.dadsdivorcelaw.com/blog/fathers-and-mothers-child-custody-myths
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:02 AM
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My husband and I have been together 10 years, we definitely don’t want kids. We started dating bc we were attracted to eachother and enjoyed eachothers company. Then we fell in love, became best friends too, so we got married. Bc we want to live with our best friend forever (and fuck them, too), I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:55 AM
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He said both were wrong, though
/r/MensRights16/10/23 09:16 PM
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So both men and women cheat. Profound.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:23 PM
1

I think he’s 2 years older than the leading candidate for the other party (who happens to be the last president). Sure would be nice if we could get somebody a little less geriatric in the White House, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:16 PM
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Men have a ton of their own as well :’(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:00 PM
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You are super wrong here
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:27 AM
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This could not possibly be more incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:26 AM
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The source is his fee-fees :)
/r/MensRights31/07/23 01:42 AM
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I have literally never had a man ask my N-count as an adult. Neither has any woman that I’ve discuss this with because I see you guys mention it so often on forums like this. Not even my husband who I’ve been with for nine years. I don’t know his either, nor do I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:03 PM
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You think only 10% of men have partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:57 PM
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Men are answering too, so it seems it’s not just a woman thing, but universal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:24 PM
6

My experience has been the same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:37 AM
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Literally every woman over the age of 13 that I have ever gotten to know to any depth has a story of either being raped, molested, groped, some type of sexual assault by a man. All of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:34 AM
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Can you show a source that says what you are claiming here? I tried to look it up, this is the data I could find: 46% of homeowners are married couples. Of the remaining single people who own their home, its 22% men and 31% women. That would make me deduce the opposite of what you’re saying unless you have more specific stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:02 AM
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My husband was still married to his first wife for years after he started living in a completely different state and hadn’t spoken to her that whole time. She eventually initiated the divorce when she was getting serious with someone new. I know another couple that ended in a similar fashion, just lived completely different lives but remained legally married until she finally divorced him so she could marry a new guy. The men just didn’t care enough to start divorce proceedings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 11:57 PM
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I’m so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:12 AM
1

Earmarking tax dollars for social programs that benefit individuals rather than spending it on exorbitant military and police budgets, and billions in socialism for banks/big business is not wanting FrEe MoNeY. Ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:35 PM
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They are just scrambling to prove you correct, geez. Buncha assholes, no wonder no one wants to date them.
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 10:07 PM
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Well, you certainly proved her point 🥴
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 10:04 PM
1

What would you possibly do that might ruin your life? Asking someone to get coffee when you misread someone’s interest might be embarrassing, but its hardly life ruining..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:32 AM
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I admire men’s ability to be laid back. To not be driven crazy bc there are dirty dishes in the sink, or to still be able to relax when the floor needs swept.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:33 PM
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I’m happily married and have been with my husband 9 years. It’s ok to be wrong sometimes. :)
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 02:00 AM
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Sure, make some :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:58 PM
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Oh bullshit, most father’s dont even try for custody, lmfaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:56 PM
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What is it you think should be done?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:27 PM
1

Can you say this to everyone who has a decent points against your post. Almost like you were making fun of people for being smart? Do you think being intelligent is a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:35 PM
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I am about as leftist (and feminist) as you get, and happily married to a very masculine man. Ive never had literally any of those thoughts. I support and encourage him. Tell him I appreciate how hard he works to help give us a good life. I listen to him and admit fault when its appropriate (which is fairly often). He would tell you all these things are true. When asked what he loves about me, he says my caring heart, how much I care for him and the people I love. You have some cartoon villianes…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:32 PM
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The face of the Republican party has been married 3 times, and cheated on each wife. The last one he cheated on with a porn star while she was at home convalescing from childbirth. Seems to be some kind of disconnect. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:04 PM
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None of this is my experience. -a woman
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 04:13 AM
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Omg, I loved Daria
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:47 AM
1

I can name like 20 women I know personally off the top of my head with kids that have been abandoned by their biological father. Including my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:31 PM
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You literally just made all that up :/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:27 PM
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And he’s so confident about this incredibly incorrect opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 11:23 AM
2

But noone says that, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 11:19 AM
0

Are the people doing this attributing in the room with us right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 11:16 AM
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I have observed this trend as well. Accurate to a T.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:40 PM
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🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:02 AM
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I am married, but the types of men who I’ve seen talk about being passport bros are not the types of men I would want for anyone I cared about, so more power to them. I have heard some disparaging things about passport bros coming from the women whose countries they like to go to, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:42 AM
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Yeah, but you are missing part of the phrase. Its not just ‘settling,’ or ‘settling down.’ Its ‘settle for,’ which is a different thing. But somehow I feel like you know this and are being disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:21 AM
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Definition of “settle for.” settle for ​DEFINITIONS AND SYNONYMS PHRASAL VERB TRANSITIVE WORD FORMS + DEFINITIONS1 1 (settle for someone/something) to accept someone or something that is not exactly what you wanted because you cannot have what you wanted Injuries and illness forced the team to settle for third place. settle for second best: Why settle for second best when you can have something better?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:18 AM
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Men who fight for custody almost always get it. They just hardly ever try. 92% of the time that fathers fight, they win full or joint custody. Women only get full custody 7% of the time if the man cares enough to try. 83% of the time that the woman gets full custody, the father agreed to it in court. https://www.dadsdivorcelaw.com/blog/fathers-and-mothers-child-custody-myths https://www.liveabout.com/child-custody-there-is-no-gender-bias-during-custody-decisions-3974050 https://www.huffpost.com/…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:52 PM
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So this isnt a woman specific issue, its an all people issue. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:34 PM
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Do you think a woman not giving you attention is somehow disrespecting you? What exactly did this disrespect consist of, that has now gone away?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:33 PM
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On this sub you guys insist that it’s the majority of men with this preference, but I’ve never even been asked in real life. Not by any boyfriend, or my husband. Ive discussed this with other women (after reading this assertion on the interwebz) and they say the same. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:15 AM
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Im a woman, I accidentally wandered in here when looking at the profile of some commenter in r/purplepilldebate. I find the fringes of society entertaining, I suppose.
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 01:00 AM
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I dated and married one, as did my husband. I had no trouble finding men who were willing to commit to me as a single mother before him, as well. He was just the first one I wanted to commit with, and it’s turned out pretty freakin great. Although being a step parent isn’t always all peaches and cream, its worth it for my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:48 AM
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Mine is mostly my plants. Maybe its the type of accounts you follow?
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 03:47 AM
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I was a young teen when home computers first became popular. I wasn’t well supervised, and would go into the chatrooms. It wouldnt take 5 seconds for some 25-35 year old man to want to sext with me, a literal 12-13 year old. So yeah, this is pretty gross, but men are disgusting, too. And I’d argue trying to have sex with an adult is better than trying to have sex with a kid, no matter the circumstances.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 01:31 AM
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I also got a TON of sexual attention from adult men as a young teenager. Im glad you didn’t, but my experience is the norm for most women I’ve discussed it with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:21 AM
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Ive never even had a guy ask after my teenage years, I’ve only ever seen guys seem to care on the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:26 AM
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Im happily married, but at 36 if something happened to my husband, the thought of dating again makes me ill. I would be happy as a single dog mom (once my daughter is on her own) for the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:21 PM
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r/HermanCainAward would like a word. So would several of my family members, but you can’t talk to them bc they are dead. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:42 PM
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I think that’s very sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:15 AM
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Dude really just answered this well thought-out, logical answer with “YoU rEaLlY tHoUgHt i cOuLd ReAd??? YOu pLaYed YoUrSelF LMFAOOOO”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:57 PM
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In half this country you can be ripped from vagina to asshole against your will bc the Christian majority’s god’s fee-fees are hurt by abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:15 PM
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But this conversation is centered in the US. Where the average woman is overweight at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:09 PM
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Great literacy levels :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:07 PM
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I hate it, I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings. I am super empathetic, and being the cause of someone’s unhappiness is extremely unpleasant to me. Its better now that I’m married, bc its easier to say that I’m married that be like I’m just not into you without it seeming personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:55 AM
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Nah, thats gross fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:03 AM
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Same, no man in the real world has ever asked. Including my husband, who had plenty of options before we got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:01 AM
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Do you.. really believe that? Holy shit, dude :/
/r/AntiFeminists03/05/23 09:14 PM
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It’s hilarious to me because they want to talk about how only women “below their league” are interested in them. If those are the only women who are interested and you dude, then that is your league. Its like an artist who wants to sell his painting. Even if he thinks its worth $1000, it’s only actually worth what someone is willing to pay. If the most anyone will pay for it is $10, then that painting is only worth $10. Doesn’t mean he has to sell it, but at that point it’s sentimental value onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:30 PM
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most women are not like that how many women do you know? Because all of the ones that I know support themselves, and most are also in relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:56 PM
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I come here out of morbid curiosity. people in real life are absolutely nothing like the people on the sub, in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:30 PM
1

Same with a trans woman not disclosing they are trans :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:24 PM
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Only fans women don’t fuck men, they take pictures of themselves when they feel sexy in the comfort of their home and have money deposited into their bank accounts for it. Cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:35 AM
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Lots of the women in my family have an only fans. It’s a nice little side stream of income for them. We all know, and we all say more power to them. If I wasn’t as financially secure as I am, I’d probably do it too because it doesn’t get much more easy money than that. As long as they are being safe, and doing some thing they want to do, we are happy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:34 AM
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Most women (who want to be) are in relationships. They can’t all be in relationships with the top two out of 10 men. That doesn’t make any sense. Online isn’t the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:30 AM
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I went and looked at your picture, girl you are gorgeous. Don’t let these weirdos neg you like that. By definition, 99% of the men in the sub hate women. I’m here because it’s like watching a train wreck. Awful but morbid curiosity keeps you from looking away. Men in real life don’t think the way these guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:29 AM
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I love this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:25 AM
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I am married, I don’t care what other dudes do with their money. Edit: just saw that this was for women average looking or below. I don’t qualify to answer this. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:23 AM
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Women’s bodies change as they get older. Hormones fluctuate. Self-esteem fluctuates. Energy is spent doing more or less things, she’s eating worse or better. She’s on a different medication than she was then. There’s so many reasons that her sex drive can change. If you’re not having enough sex to satisfy you, that is a problem. It shouldn’t be a problem because she used to have more sex when she was a different age/in a different situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:08 AM
4

My husband treats me like a princess. There’s nothing more that I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:59 AM
5

Right? I’ve literally never heard anyone be mad about this. Its kinda pathetic, but I dont think anyone cares except maybe those FDS women, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:30 AM
5

Source?
/r/AntiFeminists26/03/23 01:23 AM
1

As you should (jk, I hope you dont actually, its not really your fault)
/r/AntiFeminists16/03/23 11:15 AM
1

My dad said exactly this to me, lol
/r/AntiFeminists16/03/23 11:14 AM
4

Well she can’t read it bc you blocked her :/
/r/AntiFeminists16/03/23 11:04 AM
2

Ya’ll say cat lady like its a bad thing. Single women are happier than their married counterparts. Look it up. And cats are cool. -a happily married woman
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/23 12:18 AM
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Statistically, single women are happy with their lives. Men are the ones who are miserable when they are single. There has been study after study on this. Im happily married, but if something happened to my husband, I would rather be single, hang out with my family, friends and dogs than ever date anyone who wasn’t 100% exactly what I want. Even then, I probably wouldn’t date him either, bc dating is a pain in the ass having to wade through all the shit to possibly find someone worth a damn and …
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/23 12:15 AM
1

i dont think any man us, tbh You dont think any man is celibate, and its not by choice?
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/23 12:07 AM
1

If these women you are talking about are so unattractive, why do these average dudes even want to attract them?
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/23 12:05 AM
1

She’s obviously attractive to the person she wants to be attractive to. As opposed to OP who can’t even attract women he deems less attractive than him.
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/23 12:01 AM
1

we dont need you bitches at all The existence of this, and numerous other forums of men crying that women don’t want them says differently 🤷‍♀️
/r/AntiFeminists22/02/23 09:41 AM
1

https://www.businessinsider.com/unmarried-childless-women-are-happiest-expert-says-2019-5
/r/AntiFeminists22/02/23 09:39 AM
1

https://www.businessinsider.com/unmarried-childless-women-are-happiest-expert-says-2019-5
/r/AntiFeminists22/02/23 09:39 AM
2

many will die alone Single women are happier than married women. https://www.businessinsider.com/unmarried-childless-women-are-happiest-expert-says-2019-5
/r/AntiFeminists22/02/23 09:26 AM
3

If a man wanted to take things slow bc he really liked a woman and didn’t want to mess it up, noone would think that was bad either, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:47 AM
1

why give it up in the first place Bc sex is fun and it feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:36 AM
6

The women who will be with you are “your league.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:51 AM
9

My husband and I each have our own house, 10 minutes apart. Its wonderful for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:42 AM
2

Change my view
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:57 AM
0

“Would drive women batshit nuts” Ironic, considering the only women I’ve seen comment here don’t seem bothered (I even thought it was funny), while you are talking to a man having an absolute meltdown and he’s not alone in these comments.
/r/AntiFeminists03/08/22 11:46 AM
1

Ironically, it seems to be men that are seething about it as opposed to the “feminists” mentioned in the title.
/r/AntiFeminists03/08/22 11:42 AM
1

Did you see the 10 year old in Ohio (I think? One of those “prolife” hellholes) who was recently denied an abortion after getting pregnant when she was raped by her uncle? She probably was asking for it, amirite.
/r/AntiFeminists03/08/22 11:30 AM
1

C-section is worse
/r/AntiFeminists03/08/22 11:28 AM
2

Same, made me snort some air out my nose bc it’s so ridiculous it’s actually funny.
/r/AntiFeminists03/08/22 11:26 AM
0

Cope
/r/AntiFeminists03/08/22 11:25 AM
1

I would split chores 50/50. Taking care of kids is 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, thankless constant work. You don’t get sick days, or vacations. Much more/harder work than I (as a small business owner) do. Only fair that I help with the housework, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:17 AM
1

For what it’s worth, my husband is solidly in the average penis size range, and I’ve been with bigger. He is 100% so far and above the next best I’ve been with sexually, I feel like no one else has even counted until him. In fact, the biggest men I’ve been with were typically the least satisfying sexually bc they thought that’s all they needed to bring to the table (or bed, as it were).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:57 PM
3

That’s the opposite of what the data says. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202102/why-many-single-women-without-children-are-so-happy?amp https://amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/may/25/women-happier-without-children-or-a-spouse-happiness-expert https://www.businessinsider.com/unmarried-childless-women-are-happiest-expert-says-2019-5
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:04 AM
4

Same, girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:01 AM
4

Most women I know, including me, would much rather be alone than settle for anyone we are not actually excited about. But there’s no shortage of men who fit that criteria, so far. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:55 PM
7

The perfect response. Let me know when the meeting is, fam, bc I’m shivering me timbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:53 PM
3

Men catcall no matter what women wear. We might as well not have to be hot and uncomfortable bc men will act like animals either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:07 PM
2

I’ve heard “happy spouse, happy house”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:44 PM
2

I am 5’7, my husband is 6’1. But the average height of a guy that I have dated has been between 5’8 and 5’10. As long as they are taller than me, I don’t care. And I actually went out with a guy who was shorter than me for a couple years, but his confidence was such that he seemed bigger. That guy had tons of women after him, but he was rich, good looking and charming so that’s to be expected. There is definitely such a thing as too tall though, as I went on a date with a guy who was 6’7 one tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:31 PM
1

Same. I have resting friendly face, so I have to combat my approachability, lmfao. When the right wing MAGA types start screeching about my brightly dyed hair and piercings in an attempt to hurt my feelings, that means it’s working.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:24 PM
1

Personality. Bc I know that I’m funny, smart, kind, generous.. I am confident in who I am, and anyone who didn’t like my personality would be betraying some red flag that I otherwise may have missed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:22 PM
2

Pure morbid curiosity
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:51 AM
1

Just like how a lot of people react to the fact that white privilege exists
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:42 PM
3

That’s awesome, fam 🖤
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:46 PM
1

The caliber of women who are attracted to you are your league
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:44 AM
2

All of my girlfriend’s experience mirrors mine, none of us had any issue finding quality men to settle down with after we partied a ton when we were younger. Do you have any kind of source to back up what you’re saying? Or it’s just your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:24 PM
7

My youngest girlfriend is 25, oldest is 37. Most of my friends are late 20’s, early 30’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:22 PM
2

They should do whatever makes them happy, you only live once :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:58 PM
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Weird, I haven’t seen that happen to anyone who didn’t at least physically molest someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:09 PM
9

I have lots and lots of girlfriends in relationships. Most of their significant others don’t fit ANY of those requirements, let alone more than 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:07 PM
1

Like the ones in this sub. Super cringe stuff, it’s surreal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:00 PM
1

You are welcome to not know how women’s bodies work if you want, I guess :/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:00 PM
2

Do you have a source that most men care about body count? I’ve literally never encountered anyone who cared in real life. Only seen this in subs like this where men who are unsuccessful with women congregate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:38 PM
0

Definitely. People get better at things with practice. And if you and your only partners are virgins, then you can practice but neither of you can learn anything from each other. These dudes are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:35 PM
1

It’s like he’s hearing a completely different conversation in his head than the one actually happening
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:33 PM
1

Her comment didn’t come across defensive at all, just matter of fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:32 PM
6

I’ve had a bunch of sexual partners and am currently married to a good looking, successful man who is crazy about me and couldn’t give a shit less how many partners I had before him. In fact I’ve only ever seen people who seem like they care about things as stupid as n-count online and the trend are it’s mostly teenagers, men who aren’t successful with women or religious people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:26 PM
0

I would assume they (like I) would not be interested in someone so uptight about anything sexual, so the feeling is probably mutual
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:16 PM
3

I do for my husband all the time, lmfao. That being said, I’d do the sex stuff regardless, and I know he would get me what I want anyway (not to mention that it’s all my money, too), but I see something shiny at the store and say “Ouu, honey if you get me that I’ll do that thing you like” all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:51 AM
1

I’ve always liked older guys. My husband is 17 years older than me, and he’s perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:10 AM
4

Even if I accepted everything else about what you said as true (I don’t, lol), as someone who on my own hard work has climbed to upper middle class with a guaranteed future inheritance that will place me as solidly upper class for the rest of my life, I would not be ok with getting rid of the social safety net for others. Regardless of what it does to the economy, if the money exists, people should not go without the things they need to survive (I.e. food, shelter, other basic necessities).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:02 PM
1

I definitely wouldn’t commit to a man who wasn’t at least hookup material. The man who deserves commitment has to have the exact same qualities a hookup would have, plus a bunch more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 11:56 AM
2

Not true, at allllll. I’ve met many men who were good looking, but eventually gave me the ick bc of a creepiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:31 AM
1

most men just want someone to fuck and then get on with their day This hasn’t been my experience. I’m married now, but in my dating life I was always pretty phobic about commitment. It has always been the guy who pushed for it, including with my husband. He basically threw a tantrum about getting married, lmfao. Im glad he pushed it now, but at the time I was terrified.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:22 AM
1

This sub is not the norm. Most of the men I encounter (including my husband) are kind, genuine, good people. Idk what’s wrong with most of the men here, but they ain’t right. I mostly read this stuff out of morbid curiosity. Sounds to me like this sub isn’t good for your mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:30 AM
1

I’ve made a move on a man a few times. It would typically be the other way, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:25 AM
2

As long as you are up front and honest with her, you’re good :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:10 AM
6

We don’t know bc he won’t show us, lmfao. We know a bunch of his businesses have definitely failed though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:17 AM
1

I went on a date with a guy who was 6’5. I didn’t like it, too awkward. Most of the men I’ve dated have been around 5’10, although my husband is 6’1.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:16 PM
1

I was 28, he was 45
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:51 AM
1

I’ve only been with one guy who was super buff, did not like it. He wasn’t comfy to have my body against, just hard. He was nice to look at, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:08 AM
4

How should women legally be discouraged from sleeping around?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:01 AM
10

My husband had just started his company when we got together. He was struggling and when his employee wrecked his work truck, if I hadn’t given him 2500 for a beater, he would’ve went out of business and lost everything. He is 17 years older than me, is bald with a dad bod, and I’m definitely a solid 8. 8 years later, we have built our business into something to be really proud of and make good money now, but I definitely didn’t get together with him because for money or his looks. He is smart a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 10:31 PM
1

I got kicked out at 17
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:44 PM
1

Sending all the good vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:59 PM
1

I’m sure the ladies will be devastated without you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:48 PM
2

What if the only way you could keep yourself from craving cigarettes would be to do heroin? I’d say that’s the wrong way to quit cigarettes. There are healthy ways to lose weight and unhealthy ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:16 PM
2

My husband is 17 years older than me. I’m obviously fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:38 AM
-1

I mean, yeah? Trans guys are hot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:31 AM
1

Nah, no way to find out they ordered it as the company isn’t in this country. Sorry to burst your bubble, but you’ll never be able to force unwilling women and girls to gestate and give birth against their will. Sorry bout your luck, homie ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:03 PM
1

Won’t matter. They order the pill themselves and they come from outside the us which isn’t under us jurisdiction. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:01 PM
1

The pill abortion is like having a heavy period, no one will ever know unless they tell someone. And the drugs are out of your system so fast, that even if they did tell, there would be no way to prove it ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:08 PM
1

I’d like to take this opportunity to let anyone reading this who lives in a place like Texas (or anywhere else): If you are in a place where abortion is illegal, or just don’t have a ride, the money, access for whatever reason, go to aidaccess.org and they will send you the pills in the mail for whatever amount you can afford (even if it’s nothing). If you need further help beyond that, DM me and I will point you in the right direction. There are resources out there. You are not alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:31 AM
1

35f: before I was married, it was every time I went out. Grocery store, gas station, airport, walking down the road. Everywhere. Since marriage, I hardly go anywhere without my husband, but it still happens occasionally if I step away from him momentarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:09 AM
0

I don’t think that’s attractive at all. Not even well proportioned muscular. Plus they are uncomfortable to have your body against theirs, be it sex, cuddling, a hug.. it’s a no from me, dawg.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:16 PM
11

The guys I’ve really been crazy about in my life didn’t do much for me at first. Their personalities are what made them sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:33 AM
11

Wtf, why should they not enjoy sex anymore??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:26 PM
3

🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:39 PM
3

Trust me, I think I speak for women when I tell you we are ok with your choice and wish you all the best with it. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:32 PM
1

Can I get examples of the protection, help, respect and support you are talking about? Bc I, and it seems other ppl, have no idea what you are referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:31 PM
1

It seems like that’s all they talk about, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:20 PM
0

Correct. I don’t need my husband. But I want him, bc I enjoy his company immensely, I love sharing everything and experiencing life with him and definitely enjoy what we do for each other physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:17 PM
4

Exactly, I follow a bunch of subs that have no relevance to my life. I follow MGTOW purely for the cringy entertainment. I read the particularly gross stuff to my husband bc we can’t believe these folks actually exist, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:23 PM
1

I stumbled onto this sub and it’s like a car wreck. Awful, but fascinating so you can’t look away. I’ve never seen anyone actually spout these theories apart from on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:19 PM
1

Redpill hasn’t effected my life in any way, other than the secondhand cringe I get from hearing some of the stuff they say. As far as women saying they would be dating if not for redpill, I think you misheard. What they actually said was probably that they’d never date a guy who subscribed to redpill ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:17 PM
1

My husband is bald. I think he’s the sexiest thing ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:43 PM
4

My husband is successful, and is nothing like you people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:46 AM
0

I mean, I didn’t have a problem finding a good man in my 30’s :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:28 AM
7

I’ve never seen this happen, tf
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:38 PM
1

Repubs would tell you to pick yourself up by your bootstraps
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:49 PM
4

Why does it matter that it’s a human? It could be a 25 year old Nobel prize winning (for cancer research) philanthropist. Still doesn’t have the right to rip me from vagina to asshole bc some stranger on Reddit’s fee-fees will be hurt, lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:50 PM
1

I’m far to the left of Democrat and I married a white man, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:44 PM
1

Since most republicans are white, it’s pretty easy to deduce that ‘other races’ would consist of races that are not white.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:43 PM
2

Google ‘education disparity between the left and the right.’ The Google ‘correlation between education and intelligence.’ Then get back to me. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:40 PM
2

No one claimed to be tolerant of racism, bigotry, homophobia, thinking you have the right to force women and children to be ripped from vagina to asshole bc otherwise your fee-fees will be hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:39 PM
2

Trump ran a full page ad in The NY Times calling for their heads, then after they were vindicated with DNA evidence, refused to take it back. “You have people on both sides of that,” he said at the White House in 2019. “They admitted their guilt.” Even though it’s been proven that the police coerced these children to confess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:38 PM
1

I would never ever want to date a virgin, and I imagine most women (who place any value in the quality of sex their partner is capable of) feel the same way. So you do you, fam. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:09 PM
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