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From my point of view it seems like most are full of shit or have only had certain experiences. I think there are others mixed in, but this sub can get into incel territory really fast.
/r/seduction24/02/21 08:30 AM
63

I can honestly say I have actually checked in on guys I was talking to after not having much back and forth to try and reignite things. It’s not always just boredom.
/r/seduction24/02/21 07:17 AM
5

I think you need to cam down there little buddy. You’re getting yourself awfully worked up. I’m sorry you have such a volatile response to a woman making a comment.
/r/seduction20/02/21 12:19 AM
3

Doesn’t particularly make a difference? Either way if you think women are all the same you need to be here
/r/seduction19/02/21 11:58 PM
6

It makes a lot of sense why you need this sub just from that one comment
/r/seduction19/02/21 10:26 PM
1

So in order to pick up women your go to is usually to make negative and off handed comments?
/r/seduction20/12/20 01:48 PM
1

I think when it comes to hitting on anyone that is working (Male or female) it can be uncomfortable for the worker. This has happened to me multiple times and a few of them, the customer wouldn’t take no for an answer. It wasn’t insanely aggressive or mean spirited but it was very awkward/uncomfortable
/r/seduction20/12/20 01:37 PM
1

You can feel how you feel. If that’s how you’d like to view what I’m saying I’m not going to sit and argue. There are many women who have had experiences with men that lean to the violent. I’m not saying to hate men. I’m saying if you’re going to a dark parking garage and a guy happens to be following, it’s not unjustifiable to be a bit nervous.
/r/seduction20/12/20 01:24 AM
1

Why is everyone trying to turn this to race? If a woman who was bigger than me or looked like they had a weapon started following me, I’d be alarmed. Is that as likely to happen with a woman as it is a man? No. There are statistics about this type of thing. I’m not saying all men are shit. I’m just saying that it’s not uncommon for women to be a bit fearful of men in certain scenarios.
/r/seduction20/12/20 01:16 AM
1

Accidentally deleted my comment trying to disable the notifications. But wasn’t. bickering and I’m not showing a prejudice towards men. Just saying that it’s not abnormal to be weary of men in certain situations
/r/seduction20/12/20 12:24 AM
1

Your last piece of unsolicited and exceptionally presumptuous advice? Wonderful! You don’t like my experiences? Fine. That’s your prerogative. It’s not “simple statements” that I wanted desperately to have be a a frightening comment. You need to take a moment and read the post. I was just commenting that my personal experiences back the narrative. I said you’re taking it personally because of the ways you jumped on my comments. Not all men are bad the way not all women are good. I’m not going to…
/r/seduction20/12/20 12:18 AM
2

It was, it was the one and only time he acted that way and it is the reason I broke things off with him.
/r/seduction19/12/20 11:59 PM
1

You’re taking this awfully personally. You’re acting like I said all men are shit. I’m also saying this as response to the original post about how a lot of women feel unsafe with men in certain scenarios. It has nothing to do with me being “special”. In fact I think it’s enough of an issue that to be special would be to not have experienced these types of things.
/r/seduction19/12/20 11:43 PM
1

So because of my bad previous experiences I have a prejudice against men? It’s not prejudice. It’s bad experiences with guys that came off very nice at first. I’m not saying all men are shit and predators. I’m just saying more men than some people realize. If you are simply a person who hasn’t had to deal with that kind of frightening or harassing behavior, I’m happy for you. But just because you haven’t doesn’t mean it’s not a widespread issue.
/r/seduction19/12/20 11:37 PM
1

No of course not murder. But there has been a moment where I may have felt pressured at the very least.
/r/seduction19/12/20 04:42 PM
3

They may not be genuinely dangerous, but men can be terrifying without realizing it. It can be body language or something poorly phrased that can be intimidating. Women have to be so cautious because they never know what could happen. I had a boyfriend who I was trying to make things work with. We were sitting in his room (he had some decorative weapons on the walls) and cheating came up as a topic. We had both been cheated on, but his response was that women should be beheaded if they cheat. We…
/r/seduction19/12/20 02:55 PM
8

Exactly! My coworkers are all men and all so friendly and nice. But the reason I feel comfortable with them is because they’re all in committed relationships. It’s horrible to have to assume a man only wants that from you
/r/seduction27/11/20 12:45 AM
16

Right? I don’t get why listening to a female friend about their love issues is a bad thing. Especially if you haven’t vocally expressed you really like her.
/r/seduction26/11/20 11:54 PM
1

Literally had to block a guy because he wouldn’t just let the topic die off.
/r/seduction26/11/20 08:52 PM
1

Since I’m in a two year long relationship and my last was five years I’ve only gotten the opportunity a few times. But I have been the first to message men in the passed. I make sure that I very open with my communication on what is and isn’t appropriate behavior. You don’t seem like you’re willing in anyway to discuss this in a non argumentative way.
/r/seduction26/11/20 04:30 PM
1

If I know someone had a bad experience I automatically change my behavior. Because someone else’s comfort is more important than my convenience. Women have to live in a world where men are a threat. I don’t know any woman who hasn’t had issues with being approached by men at work.
/r/seduction26/11/20 03:48 PM
1

I’m speaking as a woman who has had this happen multiple times. A guy knowing where you work already and also working there puts women in a situation where they can’t avoid that person if they handle it badly. I’m not saying he did, but as an overall rule, unless a woman is showing interest just leave it be.
/r/seduction26/11/20 03:35 PM
2

When it comes down to it, a job is a place women have to go nearly everyday. We never know if the men that ask us out will handle rejection well. So if they don’t, coming to work everyday and seeing them is something that can be extremely uncomfortable. And in certain scenarios can actually be unsafe.
/r/seduction26/11/20 02:56 PM
5

Don’t know why this is getting downvoted. It’s totally fair
/r/seduction26/11/20 02:54 PM
2

Honestly if things go poorly it can make it extremely awkward. So most people find it better simply to avoid the situation
/r/seduction26/11/20 02:53 PM
3

If number 2 is making you uncomfortable I would maybe invest more time with the first guy. Pressuring people like that is shitty to do
/r/seduction17/11/20 08:42 PM
159

I think it’s great she’s responding but i would be aware of whether she’s wanting to cheat, unhappy in her relationship, or just looking for a friend. It’s all in the experience you have with her
/r/seduction13/11/20 04:11 AM
2

I appreciate that response!
/r/seduction06/11/20 02:01 AM
1

Perhaps that was poorly worded, saying “are you retarded” is a gross way to word, “are you serious”
/r/seduction06/11/20 02:00 AM
2

Both you and the above commenter are wrong. If there’s truly love and compassion, the second doesn’t get old. But using that wording to ask his opinion is disgusting. Maybe you both could use a tune up on it
/r/seduction06/11/20 01:58 AM
18

It is absolutely possible but it takes effort. No matter what happens, that spark is there. But if you aren’t fueling it with your efforts, it will die. As a female I can honestly say it’s disappointing how many men stop trying.
/r/seduction14/10/20 10:47 AM
1

I’m not agreeing that it’s the best route to take for her. But I am saying she was honest. She could have hidden her true intentions and just led him on. Instead she let him know she’s not actively seeking a relationship and why. I see error in her ways but honesty is the best policy
/r/seduction13/10/20 06:19 PM
5

Haha what! She did the polite thing by being honest with him. Why would those two options be better in any possible way?
/r/seduction12/10/20 09:08 PM
4

Why be a dick? Yeah it sucks for the guy. But she was honest and this is not a situation Anyone I know has been in on either side. I’m my best friend literally met her fiancé on tinder.
/r/seduction12/10/20 08:23 PM
1

I don’t understand what your point was there
/r/seduction07/10/20 08:13 PM
0

How the hell did you get that from what I said? I never said men need to show women they’re “better than them”
/r/seduction07/10/20 09:36 AM
3

Yeah, it’s not something most women generalize about men. Even though there’s quite a few
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:58 PM
2

Not really. Every one of my female friends could say the same. I’ve never met a woman who truly goes off of this type of thing
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:36 PM
4

It’s not always attention seeking. I’m still curious as to why being white was even brought up? It’s her body and she’s allowed to showcase it how she likes. Have a problem with it? That’s your agenda. But you made a lot of judgey statements. Not everyone wants into your “country club” then I suppose.
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:17 PM
3

I’ve also been cheated on by men. So does that suddenly make all men monsters? No. I’ve never once searched for a “better” guy.
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:17 PM
4

As an American women I can guarantee you’re wrong. I don’t give a fuck if my boyfriend makes less than me. Or if he’s the most traditionally handsome guy (he is to me, but it’s the whole package).
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:14 PM
4

First off why does it matter if she does posts pictures of herself. Sorry she’s a stunner and you can’t appreciate the kind of confidence that takes. Also the last line makes you sound a touch on the racist side. Personal preference is personal preference but being white and professional doesn’t describe who a person is.
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:13 PM
1

None of that means anything if the guy isn’t kind and generous. I’ve dated more than one guy that didn’t have conventionally handsome looks. But the way they made me feel and treated me was why I was attracted in the first place
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:11 PM
3

Men are brutal too. The amount of times I’ve told a guy I have a boyfriend (been together about two years) I get called a bitch and a whore.
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:09 PM
3

Honestly I have to second this. I was expecting someone even younger because of the naivety of the post.
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:08 PM
3

This post is just dripping with patriarchal generalizations. Men and women can be unsatisfied in their relationships. You can’t label the entire gender. Also the thing about women sleeping around, what about men? Plenty of men do the same thing. And why is it negative only if a woman does it? Men cheat as often as women. Everyone has their own experiences but if you go into a relationship with this thought process you’re setting yourself up for some short ones.
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:06 PM
1

I mean I don’t think those are really different subjects. I know how it feels to be approached by men, and how my friends feel about it. It was always about the approach. That’s what this post is. Don’t take it personally but you’re pretty condescending. I could probably be a potential partner, do these guys not want to hear how a potential partners feels?
/r/seduction06/10/20 02:46 AM
1

You’ll have to elaborate
/r/seduction06/10/20 02:36 AM
2

It’s not about maintaining a long term relationship. This post is about the approach. I think men do the same thing. They like a woman that is more attractive and wealthy. It’s just how people operate.
/r/seduction06/10/20 02:29 AM
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I mean as a woman I know how I and my friends want to be approached. Interesting that a man doesn’t want a woman’s opinion here.
/r/seduction06/10/20 02:17 AM
1

That doesn’t make you not misogynistic
/r/seduction06/10/20 02:13 AM
0

I mean clearly my issue was a guy saying he needs to show women he’s better than them. It’s not my responsibility to educate men on misogyny
/r/seduction06/10/20 01:45 AM
3

Of course! I’ve loved watching you school some of these guys. Especially when they’re telling a woman she’s wrong about how to approach women.
/r/seduction06/10/20 01:13 AM
4

As a woman that has dated women, the post is accurate. And as a woman who has dated men, also still accurate.
/r/seduction06/10/20 01:11 AM
2

Dude you’re super misogynistic
/r/seduction06/10/20 01:10 AM
4

Maybe you should check out r/niceguys. I bet you would really fit in with some of those posts. My boyfriend texts me all the time and I love it. It keeps us bonded and happy with each other.
/r/seduction06/10/20 01:08 AM
11

To show women you’re better than them? I think you may have just shown why you don’t have luck with women.
/r/seduction06/10/20 01:05 AM
4

Actually I really agree with this post! I rarely agree with all aspects of tip posts like this but you really did a good job!
/r/seduction06/10/20 01:05 AM
1

Why would that matter? I wasn’t able to find your original comment so I can’t respond to the rest of this one.
/r/seduction05/10/20 12:09 AM
2

I get what you’re saying and see your side. I’m just saying that pushing it to the point of harassment is too far and the wrong way to go.
/r/seduction05/10/20 12:06 AM
2

I would say that contacting someone should be limited to three times. If you don’t get a response then wait, and then send another two messages (at different times and spaced apart) I would say it’s clearly not a good relationship prospect.
/r/seduction05/10/20 12:05 AM
5

As a woman that has actually been harassed, it generally doesn’t matter if the guy is “attractive”. Unwanted attention is unwanted regardless of your face. It can be very scary. And I’m sure I’ll be downvoted just for being honest.
/r/seduction04/10/20 02:34 PM
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Pretty douchey perspective
/r/seduction04/10/20 02:31 PM
5

I think it’s just something we will have to disagree on.
/r/seduction03/10/20 11:59 PM
5

I guess as someone who has had this done to them, I can’t be that sympathetic. It’s very stressful and upsetting when it happens.
/r/seduction03/10/20 11:36 PM
2

I do think that men should feel guilt for something like that. As someone who has been pushed too much by many men, it’s scary.
/r/seduction03/10/20 10:52 PM
8

I will say a lot of these aren’t bad but a couple are a little meh. Especially about not feeling guilt, there are definitely situations where a guy can take it too far and feeling guilty isn’t a bad thing
/r/seduction03/10/20 08:12 PM
1

Haha I’m far from gullible but at least I’m respectful. I don’t imagine you get laid often. Good luck.
/r/seduction03/10/20 01:09 PM
2

Nope you’re wrong. None of my connections have been like that. I met my person and bonded with them. I’ve never gone through my partners’s phone. Not all men see a person they find attractive and go after them. Men aren’t all the same. Some love and some love. Find your side of it. Don’t judge them.
/r/seduction03/10/20 01:45 AM
2

It’s not the whole point but I do see why you’re bad with women. None of the people I’ve dated (no matter how long or our sexual experiences) have been shallow like that. And the same for the way I view the men I’ve dated. I’ve been approached by many men, and the ones that were always rejected were the shallow or horny ones. I think it’s sad that your perspective is what it is.
/r/seduction02/10/20 11:46 PM
6

You’re totally ignoring the point of the post. Clearly you’re a bit shallow.
/r/seduction02/10/20 09:56 PM
3

Yeah if sex is your only goal you’re going to struggle to find any meaningful connection. And probably a sexual connection too. This post is actually one of the best ones I’ve seen on here.
/r/seduction02/10/20 06:15 PM
1

I mean there’s a difference between needy and one message. I would definitely not flood her with texts. But just a follow up of hey how are you just wanted to check in is good way to encourage a response. I personally never thought of a guy as needy for messaging me not long after we met. It’s when it’s followed with 10 messages that I lose patience
/r/seduction02/10/20 02:39 PM
3

Bruh. This woman has no obligation to speak to you and I can see why she wouldn’t. Your behavior was likely a lot more aggressive towards her than you realized. If a woman loses interest, just let her be.
/r/seduction02/10/20 01:27 AM
2

You yourself said that she is popular with her friends. I find it surprising that you messaged her one time and not more than that. I doubt it has anything to do with possibilities you listed off. If you want to see her that badly just message her again.
/r/seduction01/10/20 03:39 PM
1

I would say be careful with this just in case those really were just jokes. If you’re being flirty and implying you’d like to and they’re not giving you signals, I would just drop it
/r/seduction28/09/20 08:26 PM
2

This isn’t really “seductive” this is just porn
/r/seduction28/09/20 08:21 PM
2

Not every woman is the same but it is something most women look for. At least everyone that I’ve met.
/r/seduction25/09/20 07:42 PM
3

That’s fine but women in a group will want their friends to be acknowledged. It’s not something that makes for a comfortable environment
/r/seduction25/09/20 07:18 PM
6

It is, there’s literally that post about a guy essentially stalking a woman at night for fun. No intention of attacking but doing everything thing to make her uncomfortable and feel threatened.
/r/seduction25/09/20 07:18 PM
1

You’re probably not going to have as much success then.
/r/seduction25/09/20 06:06 PM
4

No not really. Women shoot guys down when they don’t feel comfortable and do so to help friends as well. It can be a really dangerous situation when men get rejected
/r/seduction25/09/20 06:05 PM
2

Well that’s a bit confusing for a woman. Basically it seems like you’re dating but you won’t actually commit to it. It can be super off putting and hurtful. In this situation it sort of sends a message. So I still see how a lot of why she would kind of drop it.
/r/seduction24/09/20 09:10 PM
2

I mean were you literally only having sex with her and then keeping her at arm’s length? Because if that’s the case I would have kind of blown you off too. And makes perfect sense why her mother wouldn’t like you.
/r/seduction24/09/20 06:27 PM
1

If someone made fun of me off the bat it’s going to be an automatic no. My boyfriend roasts the shit out of me now but it took time to establish that it was ok. Now a guy complimenting something like my shoes would catch my attention
/r/seduction24/09/20 05:31 PM
2

It sounds like her mother is not a fan or comfortable with you two dating. It comes down to the fact you wouldn’t commit and if a woman wants that it can be a fast deal breaker. Honestly sounds like she’s also lost interest in a relationship with you.
/r/seduction24/09/20 05:15 PM
1

I think only women with issues going on don’t get enough spark from a nice person. It’s not niceness that creates sparks, it’s chemistry. So if it’s not happening it’s probably because there’s no chemistry between those people.
/r/seduction24/09/20 04:55 PM
1

I’m sorry, But you really shouldn’t approach someone on the phone. It’s pretty rude to do so. You have no idea what conversation she could be having.
/r/seduction24/09/20 04:49 PM
1

I’ve never met a guy that was genuinely nice to everyone and thought it made them look weak. I think it’s a sad patriarchal construct that men think that way. They literally removed the post so I think that’s some indication that this was a shitty post
/r/seduction24/09/20 12:59 PM
1

I genuinely feel for her. She must struggle with her self esteem
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:28 PM
1

Nah I need to hear what kind of woman is digging you
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:24 PM
1

Let me talk to that girlfriend of yours
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:20 PM
1

Wow dude you’re just digging that hole deeper aren’t you.
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:19 PM
1

If this isn’t a perfect example of how much men shouldn’t take your advice, I don’t know what is. You seem very bitter dude.
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:15 PM
1

Oh wow. You’re the perfect nice guy. And no he’s a wonderful, social dude who happens to love me. If you talk to women like this all the time you’re a terrible dude
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:14 PM
1

No but what are you implying about people with autism?
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:08 PM
1

Sure they have, telling yourself that will help you feel better.
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:07 PM
1

Nah, he literally only said “nice guy” and laughed.
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:06 PM
0

Then you’re speaking to someone who is vastly immature. You’re grouping women into one mass. We don’t all act the same or think the same. Men are diverse but women are too. It’s just sad to see this little self awareness.
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:06 PM
1

Because we’re trying to help the guys that might buy into this. We don’t want them to go down the “nice guy” path
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:04 PM
1

Aw, I’m sure you think that’s true but you also lack self awareness so I wouldn’t trust it
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:03 PM
1

Nah he’s happy. He knows he’s totally allowed to break things off if things go badly. He and I are a big fan of open communication and when one of us is truly upset we can sit and talk about it like adults. I feel terribly for your poor girlfriend.
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:00 PM
1

Bro this whole ass post is a red flag 🐰
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:56 PM
1

Bro you’re the biggest nice guy I’ve seen on here. I showed my boyfriend and he just said yikes and left it at that.
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:56 PM
1

Wow you’re a fucking ass. I’m hitting you with the hard news the you are in fact the worst type of nice guy. As someone else in a happy relationship with no kids I can honestly say children aren’t what brings joy. You’re totally gross and wrong to even talk about fertility as a shitty jab. For someone talking about women not understanding men’s struggles, you’re awfully shitty about respecting women’s issues.
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:54 PM
1

Woah! Put pressure? The last thing women want is pressure from a man. A lot of men want to believe what you’re saying but the women are calling it out as bad advice.
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:52 PM
2

Yeah this is a nice guy post if I’ve ever seen one. The comments are digging the hole even deeper
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:51 PM
0

So you don’t want women’s opinions on getting women? Even when some of us (also a bi woman here) have to attract women too? I would be way more likely to message her then you just given your comments.
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:51 PM
0

Shocker, women tend to know what they like. If my boyfriend faked being nice to me just to keep me around is bullshit. Women want genuine kindness.
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:50 PM
0

That last line kind of makes you look like a dick.
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:49 PM
3

This. Being nice with the goal of keeping a woman around rather than because you genuinely want to be nice is not cool. And and exactly what a classic “nice” guy would do.
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:46 PM
2

That you should treat every woman you interact with a sexual possibility. Personally I feel that sexualizes women. I also hate the way you worded the title to your post. It’s very crass, and honestly given the other comments clearly offensive. I would never sleep with someone who speaks that way.
/r/seduction11/09/20 01:45 PM
2

Alright. I appreciate your opinion. I don’t measure someone’s worth by their sexual experience. I do disagree with your opinion. In my opinion what you think is incorrect
/r/seduction10/09/20 09:04 PM
1

So who is? Wouldn’t you want the people who can respond to do just that?
/r/seduction10/09/20 08:53 PM
2

You do you buddy, have a good night!
/r/seduction10/09/20 07:29 PM
3

I think if anyone is triggered it’s you. I made one comment and moved on. You on the other hand are much more focused on it. I never said I was being productive or that I had the moral high ground. If that’s how you feel I’m not going to argue 🤷🏻‍♀️ PS: this is r/seduction. Do you want to see the type of language women respond positively to or something they find offensive?
/r/seduction10/09/20 07:13 PM
3

It’s very crassly worded. It may be harsh but his wording is as well.
/r/seduction10/09/20 07:02 PM
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Yeah I hated the wording. If that’s how he talks to women he’s probably never been inside of one.
/r/seduction10/09/20 06:31 PM
1

There are some subreddits specifically for talking and making friends with people. I’d be happy to talk to you myself too. Feel free to message me
/r/seduction23/08/20 01:12 PM
1

I’m sorry for a second I thought you were the one who posted! Completely my fault for misunderstanding and that makes way more sense now that I understand that!
/r/seduction22/08/20 10:28 PM
2

Thanks for explaining. Although I will say I disagree. You’re never really picking yourself up by putting someone else down. If they suck, they suck. If they were awesome but things didn’t work out, breaking up doesn’t make them worse as a person.
/r/seduction22/08/20 09:38 PM
1

I understand what the fox and the grapes fable is but pairing it with your post doesn’t clear anything up.
/r/seduction22/08/20 07:48 PM
1

Have you tried talking to women through Reddit just as practice. I’ve done this with a couple of guys to help them get more confident.
/r/seduction22/08/20 07:45 PM
3

I’m sorry but this doesn’t make much sense. I’m not understanding what you mean at all.
/r/seduction22/08/20 07:40 PM
3

Seriously! Men do get less attractive! It’s just a stigma that women have to keep lean and pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 08:11 PM
1

As a woman who had this happen once, your likelihood of this working out is slim to none. But good luck with it, you might be more successful!
/r/seduction14/07/20 01:33 PM
1

I totally agree with everything here. But one bonus is make sure you smell nice! I love when my partner smells really fresh.
/r/seduction14/07/20 01:31 PM
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