antwan_benjamin Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why is the physical act of cheating so devastating to men? Did she at least explain to you why you weren't "a real man"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 11:05 AM
0	Do Women Give Their "Sexual Best" To Their Boyfriends or Husbands? Yikes. Feel bad for yo partner. Why? What specifically about my post makes you feel that way?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 07:22 AM
5	Do Women Give Their "Sexual Best" To Their Boyfriends or Husbands? I think you should honestly take a look in the mirror and ask yourself the same question....do you give your "sexual best" to your committed partner, or your ONS? I'm a guy, and personally I'm willing to admit that I am definitely more sexually adventurous with ONS or FWB than I am with my LTR. The fact of the matter is I will never see this person again, nor do I care what they think about me. So I can go all out if I feel like it. With my LTR I am more "reserved" in the sense that I stick to m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 05:28 AM
22	Woman gets a taste of her own medicine after rejecting several dates. Kinda lame they allow them to reject people immediately. They should force them to converse for at least 2 minutes or so before they allow them to smash the button. Also...her nose is way too big to be rejecting people based off looks. Apparently she thinks she's the main character and this show is all about her.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	22/05/22 04:19 AM
4	What responsibility do men have for having relationships with nightmare women? Trauma bonding. Many people mistake toxicity for passion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/22 08:00 PM
2	What responsibility do men have for having relationships with nightmare women? Do you have a source for this? It sounds interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/22 07:58 PM
3	How many women here are actually in shape? I don't think a gym membership would help much since most weight loss is diet. You'd be surprised. First off, if your diet is the exact same, yet you workout every day for an hour...you'll lose about a pound per week because of what you're burning off. But more importantly, I've personally noticed that when I'm going to the gym every day I'm more conscious about my diet. I always go for healthier options...I drink less alcohol...I cook more instead of getting fast food...etc. I want to feel phys…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 05:49 PM
6	Q4W: Thoughts on Kevin Samuels I don't understand that video. Whats the point in shaming the "alive" person just because you don't like the recently deceased person? I don't understand what that accomplishes. Unless she's 6'2 she is definitely nowhere near 300lbs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/22 06:07 AM
12	"I would like to speak to America's men for one minute," the New York Democrat said in a press conference. "Imagine you do not have authority over your own body for 10 months. She asked men to imagine not being able to have that autonomy even if it meant they could die." (OP: called the draft) What I don't get is why are all these women blaming men for all this pro-life shit? According to this study in the United States 50% of men are pro-life, and 43% of women are pro-life. Thats not some huge gap. If you want to blame someone blame conservatives of both genders. They're the ones making up 78% of pro-lifers.	/r/MensRights	06/05/22 10:05 PM
2	What are the dating prospects for the bottom 20% of men? The reason why I formulated my post the way I did was because there will always be a bottom 20%. It’s inevitable. OK but this isn't a very good way to look at percentages. A rising tide lifts all boats. If that bottom 20% improves themselves the difference becomes less meaningful. It isn't strictly about there being a "bottom 20%" the real question has to be what type of distribution distribution how far from the median does that 20% lie? For example...if you live in a city where the bottom 20% …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 03:08 AM
0	It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s value The data states that the average woman only has ~4-7 partners her whole life. I don't believe this. I've never met a woman over 30 that has only had 4 sexual partners her entire life. Every single woman I have dated has claimed her body count was one number...then throughout the relationship I've noticed her actual body count is twice as high. They pick and choose who to count, and who not to count.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 03:45 AM
2	If a man asks you to dinner, is it wrong to accept if you have no intention of having a relationship with said man but instead to get free food? they all knew girls who did this and accepted it as "the cost of doing business." What "business" is this the cost of? I pay for first dates with girls. That, in my opinion, is the "cost of doing business." I want to meet girls that are interested in deciding whether or not they want to date me. The "cost of doing business" is making sure they don't have to worry about coming out of pocket to explore that interest. If they're never actually interested in me, then we're not doing "business" since…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 12:19 PM
2	Huge dating gap in college vs. non college educated pools Whats the issue? The hospital/research center has professionals that work there that are in your age range, right? I mean, you're talking about student nurses and lab assistants. But a student nurse has a teacher and a TA. A lab assistant will assist an actual lab employee. Just date the more established ones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/22 04:11 AM
1	Women believing that men “command respect” proves that the average man’s experiences to them are invisible You mean it's a narcissistic trait to interrupt people that speaking in order to interject their opinion... Yes, that is also a narcissistic trait. Not the same trait I was talking about it my post, but a trait nonetheless. I find it quite interesting you are pointing this trait out as narcissistic. Its pretty similar to what you just did to me. I very clearly and fluently made a point and explained it just fine. Then afterwards you respond with "You mean..." as if you know what I mean better th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 04:27 AM
33	Women believing that men “command respect” proves that the average man’s experiences to them are invisible I don't doubt that the discrimination some women claims happens does is exist. But part of me wonders how many of these women are being overlooked to due their gender as opposed to other factors of their being. I hear these complaints a lot from women who are overweight, unnattractive, rude and/or whiney. 100% agree with everything you said right here. Its something that I've been ruminating over these past few days. I actually find it a bit narcissistic. If you look at some of the traits associ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 05:05 PM
2	Men and Women. Do you too notice that dating advice on internet makes men think women hate them for nothing? I’m below average and the last timeI was approached it was by an obese dude 3 years ago. I kept speaking to him nicely but I let him down gently. why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/22 06:48 AM
17	If older men going for younger women is a redflag as he is using the difference is life experience to potentially manipulate her and take advantage, isn't it the same thing when women with relationship experience date similarly aged men with no relationship experience? Good point. Well said. People look at age gaps and automatically assume a power dynamic. First off, thats not necessarily even true. But people also automatically assume a power dynamic is inherently abusive. Thats also not necessarily true. These are just all, I guess, "yellow flags." Something you should pay more attention to just to make sure one person isn't being abused. But it doesn't mean just because 2 adults have a 10 year age difference that something insidious is going on within their…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 05:07 AM
0	Why exactly does pornography bother you? The initial comment I replied to essential states that if I'm OK watching a porno of a girl having sex with a guy...then I must also be OK with my girlfriend being in a porno in which she is having sex with a guy because they're the same thing. They are not the same thing. Its a ridiculous statement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 04:59 AM
1	Why exactly does pornography bother you? why is it better to sexualize other people than be sexualized In the comment you replied to I never said one was "better" than the other. I am saying they are inherently different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 04:45 AM
16	Why exactly does pornography bother you? This. Whenever I make this point to men - why is it cheating to make sexual content but not to watch sexual content? - they stare at me blankly and/or start sputtering it's not the same thing. Because its not the same thing. Its such a ridiculous comparison its going to catch people off guard. I watch porn sometimes. I don't want my GF creating porn, and she understands that. My GF watches porn sometimes. She doesn't want me creating porn, and I understand that. There is no hypocrisy here. There…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 04:03 AM
1	Why exactly does pornography bother you? Like, imagine if your girlfriend had an only fans. Most ppl would consider that cheating. I don't think they would consider that cheating. I certainly don't consider that cheating. I just wouldn't date someone if that were their lifestyle because its incompatible with mine. So the girl producing that content is cheating on her boyfriend but the guys watching it aren't? That doesn't make sense. Sure it does. I love watching random street fights. Why is it OK for me to watch street fights on reddi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 03:58 AM
2	What is the female equivalent of a 666 male? I don’t watch porn, I was just going based off of what my friends have told me their hookups were like. Oh, OK. Yeah women are notoriously bad at guessing the dick size of their partners. They're essentially just guessing a number between 3 and 9.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/22 08:22 PM
3	What is the female equivalent of a 666 male? This was also Gen X, before tuition got too ridiculous and back when many jobs paid well. Yeah, I would argue your situation is different, then. A 30 year old woman today is a Millenial. Compared to gen X, Millenials weigh more, have more student loan debt, and casual sex is much more easily accessible plus accepted. So it would be much more difficult to find this mythical 0/0/0 30 year old woman today than it was 15 years ago when you were 30. But either way...its a silly metric anyway. I don't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/22 08:21 PM
6	What is the female equivalent of a 666 male? I don't know. I personally don't really care about body count. I'm just quoting the numbers OP gave.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/22 08:02 PM
3	What is the female equivalent of a 666 male? Heroin addicts and naturally thin girls could theoretically wear size 0. I don't think most people are neither of them. OK...show me a 30 year old heroin addict with 0 debt and a 0 body count and I'll show you a liar.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/22 08:00 PM
2	What is the female equivalent of a 666 male? Gross Why is what I said gross? Many people who think a 6.5" penis is "average" is because most of the penises they've seen have been those of guys in porn. Its just the way things work. What you think is "average" is what you've been exposed the most to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/22 07:59 PM
12	What is the female equivalent of a 666 male? Its a pretty ridiculous standard anyway. At 30 years old you are SUPPOSED to be carrying some debt (unless you are super wealthy) so thats not even a bad thing. A very high credit score is dependent on you providing evidence of taking on debt and responsibly paying it back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/22 07:53 PM
2	What is the female equivalent of a 666 male? Ah okay I thought like 6-6.5 was average for some reason lmao Maybe you're watching too much porn	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/22 07:24 PM
50	What is the female equivalent of a 666 male? Show me a normal 30 year old woman (normal meaning like...not in a coma, not mentally disabled, etc) that wears a size 0, has a 0 body count, and 0 debt and I'll show you a liar.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/22 07:21 PM
3	Triggered by a confident woman. I'm assuming he's referring to women that only go on dates for the free food.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/22 02:25 AM