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| 1 | Asian guys, how do you deal with Asian female syndrome?Lol god damn man. You want everything handed on a platter? That’s what this entire sub is for. Go read the side bar. Go lift. Put on muscle mass. Dress well. Don’t be a needy ass bitch. Have a sense of humor. Have a good social circle. Work hard at your job. Have interesting hobbies. The bottom line is exhibit behavior that is attractive to women. That will only come with rejection. Rejection is part of the process. Jesus Christ. | /r/seduction | 07/12/18 12:35 PM |
| 3 | Asian guys, how do you deal with Asian female syndrome?I AM telling you that you fucker. I’m an Asian guy who’s blatantly telling you that’s not true. I’ve never felt that way about Asian American girls, because they were never a huge problem for me. If I couldn’t attract an Asian girl, I didn’t chalk it up to a race thing, but other things (humor, personality, mental frame, dress, fitness, NOT race). There may have been times where I did feel jealous when I saw Asian girls with white guys, but I didn’t drown in self pity. Again, I asked myself what… | /r/seduction | 07/12/18 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Asian guys, how do you deal with Asian female syndrome?Lol what the fuck were you looking for in this thread? Clearly no one can change your victim mentality regarding race. It looks like the only answer that’s acceptable to you is that Asian men are hopeless in America, and that you should just give up and move to Asia. You’re only looking for your opinion to be validated. | /r/seduction | 07/12/18 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Asian guys, how do you deal with Asian female syndrome?I said white dudes CAN attract any race (implying they have all their shit together). I didn’t say white dudes have no problems with women. I see plenty of white guys who suck with ladies, including yourself. They’re usually out of shape, needy as fuck, poorly dressed, never approach, humorless, socially uncalibrated or some combination thereof. | /r/seduction | 07/12/18 12:10 PM |
| 4 | Asian guys, how do you deal with Asian female syndrome?Lol. Your replies here speak volumes about your insecurities about race. Again, what are you going to do about it? Cry in the corner while you jerk off? Bleach your skin? Move to Asia? You don’t attract Asian women because you’re Asian. You don’t attract women period because you’re insecure. | /r/seduction | 07/12/18 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Asian guys, how do you deal with Asian female syndrome?If you have the confidence to pick up white chicks, you’ll be able to pick up Asians. Bottom line is don’t do anything different. Hit on the Asian ladies if you want. You’re projecting your insecurity about race onto what you think Asian women want... aka white dudes. The bottom line is white dudes can attract any race, that isn’t a question. But what are you gonna do about that? Quit trying? Do the best with what you got man, that’s the only thing you can do. Hit on white women in front of the … | /r/seduction | 07/12/18 02:56 AM |
| 5 | Asian guys, how do you deal with Asian female syndrome?Fuck this country? Lol what are you talking about dude. Go hit on some white chicks. If you can’t... go lift, dress well, and have a personality. Asian women usually aren’t well endowed anyway. | /r/seduction | 07/12/18 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Nervous about college next year and aspergersIf you truly believe you have aspergers, get professional help ASAP. Don’t do meds first, find a good therapist and do good social skills training. Work hard at it and actually do the homework. You’re 18 and about to head to college. Having solid social skills, finding bros you can be friends with, and having a solid social circle in college will help you get laid more than anything. Now is your time to prepare. Work on general social skills to compensate for your difficulty with social cues. | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 03:24 AM |
| 2 | HelpYou’re welcome man. I know it’s hard when the oneitis is strong. I give you props for having insight and acceptance. A lot of dudes won’t. Pursue other girls until you no longer feel that way about her, and return to her in the future if you feel like it. As you said, your state of mind is not currently conducive to pursuing this girl. So go out and get rejected. Preferably by hotter women. | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 02:30 AM |
| 5 | HelpYou’re not in love. You’re infatuated with your projection of who you think she is. Essentially you’re in love with yourself, and you think she’s the perfect girl for you. Mack on other girls. | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Was this stupid of me?And what the fuck man, looks like you’ve posted this same question before. It looks like you’re trying to find people to validate your oneitis, and for people to tell you to that there’s still hope - there isn’t. Move on. You sound like you’re 15. Listen to people if you want advice. | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Was this stupid of me?Movies suck for dates suck because there’s no opportunity for an emotional connection. Think of action dates you can do that will be fun for both of you. You went straight from no talking, no eye contact, to trying for a kiss. Escalation should be done in a graded manner. Think of a thermometer warming up. So ideally before the kiss, you have an idea that she WANTS to kiss you. You’ll know by her proximity, eye contact, how she responds to you holding her hand, etc. With all that said, you took … | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Hot and Cold - Whats my move?My man. You learn the most from failures. This was good for you. | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Hot and Cold - Whats my move?I feel your pain man. I wouldn’t overtly play games though. You made a mistake, you don’t need to try to “control it and make her feel like it was my decision...” a smart girl can see through that and know that comes from a place of insecurity. At the end of the day, you did something right because she was wanted to have sex with you. Not many guys even get that far. You just messed up later. Interestingly, her statement of LJBF can be treated like a shit test in of itself, especially since you … | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Topics of conversationMy response rate when the interaction is brief, like < 5 min is generally poor. If I’ve been talking for a good 20 min, and a true connection is there, then a response is usually not an issue if she’s single. At the end of the day it doesn’t matter about the time. It’s about the emotional connection. And if you’re running scripts, she can usually sniff an air of superficiality and weirdness about you. That’s why I usually don’t follow strict routines per se. | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Topics of conversationNah don’t know what you’re talking about in terms of repressed desires. I struggled with the opposite, wanting to escalate but not knowing how to, or being too afraid to. | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 01:30 AM |
| 4 | Topics of conversationBro that’s why you fuck openers, scripts, and all that other garbage. It’s nice when you’re starting out, but you have some of that engrained in your memory now. You sound like you know what’s generally attractive to women when it comes to behavior. So now relax, let go of routines, and let muscle memory kick in. FORD - talk about family, occupation, recreation, dreams. Instill your own personality. If conversation lulls, your natural memory can sprinkle some of those statements you’ve “memorize… | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 01:16 AM |
| 5 | Hot and Cold - Whats my move?Dude the fuck man? Stop sending goodnight messages. You can do that in person if you choose to get married, and when she’s in bed next to you. You’ve only been on a few dates, and aren’t exclusive. Even if you were, bf/gf doesn’t equal a virtual marriage. Stop with the goodnight texts dude, that dries the ladies out. Every other needy dude will send shit like that. | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 01:04 AM |
| 1 | A question about eye contacts with girls.Dude my man. You’re 16, it’ll come naturally. Work on eye contact with dudes. You’ll be ahead of your peers that way. You’ll need it for work and your male bosses some day anyway. It’ll teach you how to not stare other dudes down, but communicate with body language. If you stare dudes down, they will think you’re a weirdo, or want to fight you. Once you understand that, add some sexy with the ladies. | /r/seduction | 03/12/18 09:36 PM |
| 1 | A question about eye contacts with girls.Then do what feels natural. It seems like you’re picking up on defense body language because she senses you’re staring, and not communicating. What do you do with other dudes? Do that but prolong it when appropriate so that you communicate a sexual energy. And I don’t think you read my comment. The whole comment was about making sure she feels comfortable. She feels comfortable when you feel comfortable. | /r/seduction | 03/12/18 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Could Tinder dating be considered a hobby?Bro dating and especially online dating ain’t a hobby. It should be the natural result of the success you have in life in other domains - work, play, platonic social relationships. Those who make dating a hobby get oneitis hard, and end up getting sucked into a girl’s world, and wonder why that girl isn’t attracted to him anymore, because his whole life revolves around her. Get some down time for yourself, and never stop evolving. That by itself is a key masculine trait. The dating will take car… | /r/seduction | 03/12/18 09:23 PM |
| 4 | A question about eye contacts with girls.Dude its not about how much or any specific time, or hard and fast rules. What’s important is what is subcommunicated from eye contact - essentially what your intent behind the eye contact is. It should be confidence (comfortable in your own skin) and desire for the girl. As long as you convey that you’re okay. Confident people are comfortable with sustained eye contact. Socially aware people know when it feels too long, and where in the conversation it feels natural to take a break. As long as … | /r/seduction | 03/12/18 09:17 PM |
| 4 | Do girls not go for big/buff normal guys? opinionsMass helps with attraction. But in the end you either have game or you don’t. Game is honed with rejection after rejection, until you learn what behavior is attractive to the women you want, and what isn’t. Go approach the beautiful women you want, and learn from your rejections. Develop an iron frame (state of mind) that is imperturbable by rejection, just as you train your physique. Experience will be your best teacher. As for physique, train for what YOU want, because that will make you feel … | /r/seduction | 01/12/18 12:20 AM |
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