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| 2 | PSA: Feeling like you have to “do it all” to prove men wrong is *still* internalized misogynyI have 32E size boobs, mostly because they’re full of cysts 😞 I certainly don’t love the cysts and they always worry me, because they feel like lumps, but I’ve had many scans and apparently they’re just harmless cysts. But still. I’d rather have C-sized breasts and not worry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 09:44 PM |
| 22 | What are warning signs that the man may become physically abusive?I wonder if we dated the same guy 😅 Mine also had beautiful blue eyes, that also had that snake-like stare... Funny, when I first came across a venomous black snake, the muted perfection of its scales also somehow reminded me of him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Why is the blame solely on Meagan Markle and not Harry?I lived in the UK throughout my twenties, and saw some of the most vile male behaviour there while I was in a position with almost no human rights. It’s a great place to observe someone’s true nature. There was a significant difference in presentation between working class men (who were most openly vile) and upper class men (who would not physically harm you, but would treat like a XIX century maid with nowhere to go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 05:40 AM |
| 94 | She Needed FDS a Long Time AgoIt’s the same piece of paper as any contract is! Most of us wouldn’t hire a builder for repairs without a contract (even the one we know, a really honest one), why do we hand our whole lives (and those of our children) over to some Johnny-come-lately without legal protection? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 12:30 AM |
| 30 | girl whatThey’re straight up sociopaths, those quiet IT nerds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 09:57 AM |
| 7 | girl whatI will say that it is fucking unnatural, and she should have dumped the broke scrote ages ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 09:55 AM |
| 3 | Man who used woman for sex is mad that she used him for sex. There is no such thing as casual sex. They will always want to keep it casual but do not like it when you treat them the same wayAwww, my dude, sorry to say, but she did not think sex was “good” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 10:12 PM |
| 6 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 44 - Billie Eilish & How The Media Groomed A Generation of GirlsIn Australia tax payer’s money (where at least 30% of each person’s tax goes to welfare) funds prostitution. Yes, you read that right. Under national disability scheme, those with a disability (physical, mental, intellectual) can legally use their welfare money to pay a brothel and to pay a support worker to take them there, and wait for them while they do their deed. Does not mean that those working in brothels get any better treatment by the society as they ever did. Furthermore, someone with,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 05:57 AM |
| 32 | Why you should vet harshly. Please learn from my story.It really doesn’t matter what gender your partner cheats with (other than the risk of certain STDs that varies), but in this case I would be very hurt to be used as a beard ( a decoy) to purely fulfill some guy’s needs without any regard for me as a human being and the children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 02:01 AM |
| 31 | Would *YOU* be angry? If not, stop making excuses for men!!!I had an abusive ex, who told me he didn’t want to “lose the fantasy” that women are perfect and demanded I do not use an epilator on my legs (I barely have any hairs and they’re translucent) in his presence, IN MY APARTMENT where he refused to pay rent. When I did to taunt him lightly, he got really furious. That man was and still is a puke. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Would you date someone divorced/ have kids?To add to this, I was having this conversation with a friend - I am also child free, but not particularly against children and would be in favour of adopting at some point. I said to my friend that perhaps it would be easier with a widower, but she said she had been through this - her exhusband was a widower and a psychologist (!) and she always felt like she had to compete with a dead woman. Really sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 12:31 AM |
| 30 | Normalize telling men they don’t turn you on anymoreMy least abusive ex was also very good looking, and still is almost twenty years later. He was quite attentive in sex and did everything the way I wanted. I was kicking myself for suddenly being turned off by him and couldn’t understand why, because I still found him very handsome and we both enjoyed physical affection. My friend helped me to come to this conclusion that since he moved in to my apartment from his parents’ house, then promptly lost his job due to low performance and sat on his as… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 12:17 AM |
| 34 | He wanted a free prostitute… he was ditched and ghosted instead 😂OMFG, what planet does he live on? 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 06:20 AM |
| 17 | A refusal to engage: How I came to terms with the reality of pornSounds like my last scrote - tall, dark and handsome. Except that his dick never worked properly, so sex was always a disappointment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 09:34 AM |
| 3 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 37 - Body Shaming Men For Their Own GoodI never though of it that way, but just had a lightbulb moment: the ugly exes I “gave a chance” to were all bloody entitled, including the ones that were the “humble” IT service guys, virtue signalling every step of the way. Their crap treatment of me, their continuous childish sulking, moodiness, terrible hygiene (a nasty surprise after they would move in after a year of dating) meant that they felt THEY were giving me a chance and felt totally entitled to treat me like crap, because they eithe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Please don’t enable menWell, we only have the mother’s side of the story here. The son may have been doing all sorts of things to increase his independence from her that she just discounted as silly or useless. The mother might have been controlling and terrible to the deceased woman. He may have actually resented her moving in, but the kids might have needed a familiar figure to cope with their grief, while he was at work. We don’t know anything about that. My male cousin is a LVM, and his mother (my aunt) turned out… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 11:04 PM |
| 14 | No man is ‘seemingly HV’ — he simply did the bare minimum on the first couple of dates. Stop labeling men HV too EARLY on!I’m not a newbie, just a new account, which is what I do periodically. I agree with you and wonder whether each wave comes in after FDS gets some publicity either by being mentioned in some other media, or after a particular podcast episode etc. Surprisingly enough, I see approved posts with the daftest questions along the lines of: “he does these two things that are oh so high value, but then goes to drive around at a drug and red light district at night, and comes back with a bloody shovel and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 10:42 PM |
| 10 | Reminder: Nobody is nicer than a man trying to have sex with you for the first time.What a pathetic existence they must be leading: nose down to the ground, sniffing out the pu$$y, skating on the surface of life... Not my phrase, it’s from one of Irvin Yalom’s books. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 09:18 AM |
| 31 | Reminder: Nobody is nicer than a man trying to have sex with you for the first time.Ok, fine and if he doesn’t? You’ll end up feeling like a sock he’s just masturbated into. There are other, less degrading ways to find out if he likes you. Like not spreading your legs at a whiff of a dick in the vicinity. Would you go on a blind date to the forest at night to find out if he just really likes to serenade by moonlight or if he’s a serial ki||er? Use the same response to other unreasonable requests. Laugh him out of the room. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 09:14 AM |
| 33 | Hookup culture is a scamSame here, the last time I had sex and it also happened to be casual, was June 2020. It was with an acquaintance, he had two chances and both were absolutely disastrous, with him finishing in less than a minute, I kid you not. Then refusing to even touch me, groaning that he was done and that I was insatiable. My stupid ass also faked orgasms on both of those occasions. He must have been so full of himself to believe it. While I did have some good casual sex, it was probably a tiny exception to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 10:56 PM |
| 6 | If it’s not a fuck yes, it’s a no!My last ex was a very pleasant man, never an argument of any kind, but as it turned out, some five months before the end of our eight month relationship he had said something, didn’t say the other thing, nodded his head silently in other places, which in his mind gave him the right to demote me from a girlfriend to a friend. And I had no idea that had happened. But once I had enough of non-existent sex life and a few other things, and pushed him in the corner to tell me what the fuck all this me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 12:59 PM |
| 43 | Man hides 14 y/o daughter from fiancé for the entire duration of the relationship. Either he was trying to have two separate families ,or he was trying to trap her into supporting the daughter. Something malicious is at play.He’s not a single dad, he’s a deadbeat dad. Weekend dad at best. Single dad, like single mom, raises his children singlehandedly with the mother nowhere in sight. I hate it when men on dating apps declare themselves to be “single dads”. Really? What does your child eat for breakfast on weekdays? What’s the name of their dentist? What extra tutoring/help are they receiving and on what days/times? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 01:25 AM |
| 6 | Is bad sex a deal-breaker?We don’t owe any guy any lessons, especially a fully grown man.Do you think he didn’t have many other women who thought the same and enlisted themselves as his free sex tutors and practice dummies in one? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 05:36 AM |
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