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6

Just relax and enjoy the time you spend with her. You'll be fine
/r/seduction11/11/15 12:41 AM
29

Here're my two cents: Sorry if I make too many generalized assumptions, but your general mindset abut the whole situation seems to be flawed. The reason is that you seem to be too concerned about looking like this completely changed person in front of your ex. In other words, you seek too much validation. A common idea that I see people preach in this subreddit is having an outcome independence mentality. One of the reasons I like this concept is because I think it applies well to so many other …
/r/seduction11/11/15 12:25 AM
1

You know, you could try talking to her about it.
/r/seduction29/04/14 04:30 AM
5

This is what this community is about. I wish more people who hate on this subreddit could see this.
/r/seduction08/03/14 02:43 AM
18

I value myself more than I value her.
/r/seduction05/03/14 02:11 PM
14

I don't think it has to do with your mental capability. I think it has more to do with your ability to shut your mind up under pressure. I think of it as something akin to professional athletes when they're in pressure situations. You'd think that their minds are going out of control at that point due to the stressful environment, but they learn to quiet the mind and run off of instinct. And here's the cliche, but very good suggestion, of trying meditation.
/r/seduction29/03/13 11:05 PM
7

This is fucking retarded.
/r/seduction10/02/13 12:53 AM
1

The girl doesn't seem to have flaked because of a lack of interest - she seems to have made an honest mistake. Saying that he'll text her in the future with a different time won't come off as desperate, IMO.
/r/seduction07/02/13 04:44 AM
1

I'm a guy, and you just seduced me. Good job, mate.
/r/seduction30/11/12 06:16 PM
9

You do realize that there are plenty of attractive people out there who think that they're very ugly, with the OP being an example. Get it in your head that appearance doesn't define a person's ability to see in different perspectives. Your comment on women is pretty ignorant as well. You should really stop judging people.
/r/seduction28/10/12 04:49 AM
11

That's horseshit. So anyone who's considered to have good looks immediately loses any right to tell you that looks don't matter? People who are attractive do have the reasoning ability to understand that appearance isn't really worth a damn without a solid personality to back it up.
/r/seduction28/10/12 04:09 AM
12

Not really. OP was just making a point that the trait that usually makes guys ugly to women is their own insecurity and lack of confidence.
/r/seduction28/10/12 03:42 AM
8

Great job on sacking up and approaching. That being said, if this is the first girl you'll ever be seeing, I would say to take extra caution that you don't fall for her. I could get a lot of hate for saying this, but I'm still going to go ahead and say that she doesn't sound like the most loyal/honest individual just from the fact that she gave you her number.
/r/seduction25/10/12 03:04 AM
100

Only a true friend would say that. That was a damn good save. It's not easy to think in that kind of social pressure.
/r/seduction13/10/12 05:19 PM
1

I see where you're coming from. But you're thinking about it in way too simple of a light. Each relationship/interaction a girl has with you and the two hypothetical, better-looking guys who are also confident will be unique. This is where the concept of who you are comes in. If everyone you're competing against is as confident, charming, etc. as you, what'll make you stand out? Why will she remember you as opposed to them? Every person on this planet is unique in their own way - make your own s…
/r/seduction06/10/12 10:29 PM
11

She wasn't with them because of their good lucks - she was with them because they valued themselves, and it showed. This is a statement that's constantly repeated on this subreddit, but a guy's physical looks aren't that valued by a woman. Sure, they help, but a guy who has the looks of Ryan Gosling and lacks any confidence will barely get anywhere. Learn to appreciate yourself. And if you don't like certain aspects, make efforts to change them. The things that can't be changed? Learn to accept …
/r/seduction06/10/12 09:47 PM
1

I really don't think she wants to play Xbox. And she most likely isn't that excited about the movie either. I'd say you're pretty much in.
/r/seduction06/10/12 09:38 PM
15

You have status. That's alluring to her.
/r/seduction20/09/12 03:15 AM
2

Apparently. My fault for offering a dissenting example.
/r/seduction18/08/12 04:00 AM
3

You could simply just ask her what she likes. Doesn't sound like you are really that into her, though. This is cliche, but looks aren't everything.
/r/seduction16/08/12 03:59 AM
6

Just reading your text gave me vibe that you were probably being too aggressive. You brought too much attention to the actual pageant, when this should more have been about you and her. No one, boy or girl wants to hear a person repeat insults thrown at an event that they chose to agree to go to. I'm not too sure about the conversations you had with her since not much detail was given, but I'm guessing you just weren't being very responsive to her signals and came off as a little tactless. Obvio…
/r/seduction16/08/12 03:51 AM
0

Sorry if I don't say for anonymity's sake. But that makes more sense. Our managers never pushed us to actually be flirty with customers. We were never used as a serious part of the marketing scheme, just as people who wore the clothes and were extroverted enough to create the friendly (and maybe even seductive) atmosphere.
/r/seduction07/08/12 03:38 PM
2

As a floor model for Abercrombie myself, I was very surprised by what you've had to say. At my work, there was no emphasis on any of the human interactions that you've listed. All we were told to do is to smile and look cheerful in front of customers. That being said, I agree with your statement of it being the perfect training ground. Also, good read.
/r/seduction07/08/12 02:39 AM
1

Sounds like you basically didn't have to do anything, except talk a bit at the end. Any more details about the conversation would be nice
/r/seduction14/07/12 01:16 PM
3

I don't think you're looking at this correctly. No guy is going to go out there and pick up the majority of the girls he talks to. The whole basis behind the simplepickup guys is learning not to give a flying fuck. And that's what you're missing right now. The whole concept of race is affecting your confidence. You'll notice that both the Asian and the Indian even poke fun at their own race while talking to women. It shows that they're fully comfortable in their skin, and that they don't give a …
/r/seduction12/07/12 03:34 PM
2

Good job man. I'm curious as to how some of the conversation went during the night. Best of luck in the future!
/r/seduction24/06/12 04:41 PM
23

I'm curious as to what you look like. Not to say you don't have game - you made some pretty courageous moves (like choosing to stay alone at the party/truth and dare game).
/r/seduction03/06/12 06:41 PM
5

If you PM'd him, you wouldn't have to deal with that. Regardless, you shouldn't care what the responses are from Reddit.
/r/seduction26/05/12 02:52 PM
1

No need to be a dick.
/r/seduction24/05/12 04:49 PM
1

It's harmless. I sacked up and clicked it for you.
/r/seduction16/05/12 02:26 PM
2

You have good awareness. You need to accept that actively pursuing this girl is just another way to improve yourself. I'm always supportive of people trying to find different ways to become better people in pursuit of attracting women. But you still need to learn how to deal with them once you have some that are interested. I would say you're trying to make excuses because you're afraid. And that's alright. Go for it. Make mistakes, and learn from them. Sooner or later, you'll become comfortable…
/r/seduction14/04/12 06:01 AM
0

Insecure ones who are in denial might.
/r/seduction09/04/12 03:10 PM
2

Nice job man. Always good to hear someone breaking outside their comfort level.
/r/seduction31/03/12 03:32 AM
7

That's not what I'm trying to do. Your advice really wasn't that great. And your response to someone shutting it down bespoke insecurity and lack of tact.
/r/seduction27/03/12 10:03 PM
9

Thanks for ensuring I won't try it.
/r/seduction27/03/12 06:35 PM
4

You did come off as desperate, and I think trying to k-close on a girl you haven't seen in 5 years is simply the wrong move. Judging from her response, it doesn't seem like she's really into you like that as of the moment. But to be honest, I'd need more information on what happened in order to really tell how you performed and how she seems to feel about you. I'd hold off on texting her for the moment.
/r/seduction23/02/12 03:19 AM
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