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Homosexuality is rising, birth rates are declining. Mom teaches boy, I'd rather be gay than put up with that.
/r/MensRights16/12/25 08:53 PM
1

Anecdotal provide some evidence for your slur on Muslim men, I have know many well from Pakistan and have not heard these complaints.
/r/MensRights16/12/25 09:28 AM
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They the men In management of the company would prefer less pay than promoting above the level of incompetence (DEI). Makes sense incompetence in upper management is a special kind of cancer.
/r/MensRights16/12/25 09:19 AM
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Afghanistan is a basket case war torn nation and exception. Not something to base your opinion on.
/r/MensRights14/12/25 03:06 AM
1

I doubt there is any more sexual abuse of boys in the third world than here. Mulism countries are more ethically bond to the koran and abide by those principles. We have lost our morality not them.
/r/MensRights14/12/25 03:04 AM
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no shooting here, sorry... take care bother.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 01:07 AM
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Was your mother a feminist, how do you relate to your father? This self loathing comes from somewhere its's not present in all cultures.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 12:59 AM
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No you cannot not in Australia it's a closed court, bloody feminist BS and self serving law society its a huge money spinner.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 12:54 AM
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Rent boys are alive and well (hopefully). Yes, gay men exploit too.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 12:47 AM
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One support group and their approach https://youtu.be/xgvEd1eNszI?si=9sB1p98dmXcs6FWt
/r/MensRights12/12/25 11:18 PM
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It's 3/4 of all crime is committed by men. Until we count death by emotional abuse.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 02:11 PM
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infraction or breaking court orders. Like I said, you obviously have never been there or had to fight for courts orders that are not worth the paper they are written on.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 02:05 PM
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You would shut up! Best never to go to court, it just highlights how much control they have and you loose a lot of money. At the end of the day the access you get is what she gives you.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 02:00 PM
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You must be a family law court lawyer or worm.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 01:57 PM
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It costs $4000 AUD to bring an infraction to court. The judges don't punish, they don't fine, there is no community service. The women are in complete control they just pretend that they are not.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 01:55 PM
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It's not ego, it's grief at having your child removed from you, and the lies the system believes. If you get angry obviously you are some kind of problem person. It's sadistic. Good luck with your court orders, if they choose they just ignore them.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 01:23 PM
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You have far more self control than I did... period. I started boxing again exercise everything, still got so pissed off in the courtroom.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 01:06 PM
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It's not boys don't cry that's the problem. It's men don't yell, because when they are distressed they do. Fact. We need space for men to yell, rant whatever.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 12:35 PM
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In scouts (pubescent boys) the girls have a sort of social capital above their position in the hierarchy, same in the military. This interferes with the power dynamics and structure its disruptive.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 12:25 PM
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While any type can lead, the ENTJ ("The Commander") is often seen as the quintessential natural leader in Myers-Briggs, known for vision, strategy, and getting things done, alongside other assertive types like ESTJ, ENFJ, and ENTP, who excel at organizing, motivating, or problem-solving for group success, prioritizing logic and decisiveness. That is because the ENTJ can lead women and men, they are the best alpha's.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 12:19 PM
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That works, did that.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 11:52 AM
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True, that is background positive pressure, I think many men need something a little more intensive and will enjoy social networking old school. Call it dramatic flair or advertising close to the truth but not quite there.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 11:45 AM
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How do these groups go? I think maybe the military could help out. The LT (lieutenant) gets some training on how to manage the guys when the shit hits the fan. Basically it’s untrained men supporting each other (squad 6 men with 1 LT) through phycological trauma and it’s specific to men. I think it might be of some use in a mens support group. What do you think?
/r/MensRights12/12/25 11:39 AM
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Not to disrespect the women of MRA but they do the speaking cause men get the #MeeToo treatment.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 10:25 AM
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I hear ya, I feel it too. I cannot even tell people the I don't support feminism without getting strange looks.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 09:52 AM
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Okay, I hope nobody close to you got murdered by a women. If they did that is shit, you have good cause to be angry.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 09:44 AM
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Men need to vent, it's best done offline in person. They need to be heard in a non-judgemental way even if it is offensive and misandristic. They need to be heard. Then they need advice, and acceptance from men.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 09:30 AM
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One problem is there are angry men, "white man privilege" fuels well neo nazis and the like because it raises racism against white men. The left shits itself every time there are more than 12 of these people because they know it's the tip of the discontentment iceburg. We need to hear these grievances out give them space to vent and pull these men back into line. That is the way men do things as a group. Let them loose, hear them out, let them yell cry whatever, then bring them back into the fol…
/r/MensRights12/12/25 09:16 AM
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So you think the suffragettes were feminists? Look I've been around I don't care what you textbook that has no "heterosexual male voice" tells you. All this bullshit started as girl gossip spread by mothers now it's bigger than all hell. It's time it stopped, your gender studies subject is very new. With endless justifications for lies these first waves (notice I mean the mothers from the 60's) told their daughters with good intentions for the girls.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 08:55 AM
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If it was just boys more men would volunteer because the boys don't make complaints.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 08:49 AM
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When I am in a hierarchy of men the alpha is the leader. In US it's clearly Trump and Musk as they have the most status among men. At work it's the boss, if you're in the military you know damn well what the order is. One big problem for women and men is the lone wolf thinking, we don't want lone wolves we want teamwork and pack members.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 08:37 AM
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Why is it a patriarchy? Because most women given the choice of well nearly anything want "A nice house and children and all the things that go with that." That's not going to change.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 08:07 AM
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men and boys. Boys need to learn they are far from Alpha but perhaps will be one day. They also need to model what an Alpha male is. The outcomes for society are very bad when fatherless boys become men.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 02:54 AM
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Not in my world https://menswellbeing.org/open-mens-groups/
/r/MensRights12/12/25 02:14 AM
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I dunno my buddhist group is firing one up. The is also another starting nearby at a community centre.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 02:13 AM
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Think atmosphere and breathe
/r/MensRights12/12/25 02:08 AM
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Show it them, it will probably change if your convincing enough.
/r/MensRights11/12/25 11:08 PM
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I think it's important to hold space for the gender development of both boys and girls. I understand that women want to see girls in the male hierarchy possibility resulting in them being better managers in their future careers. But the truth is that the organisations was set up that way to enhance the lives of boys and later girls in a gendered world.
/r/MensRights11/12/25 11:02 PM
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The censorship is real, the motivation is profit.
/r/MensRights11/12/25 10:09 PM
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Good question! Perhaps thats why we need the movement.
/r/MensRights11/12/25 09:52 PM
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Boys need space to form a "pack" and understand male hierarchy. This is a most primal requirement for their development.
/r/MensRights11/12/25 09:42 PM
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What was all that bra burning all about?
/r/MensRights11/12/25 08:37 PM
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hhmmm, no comment.
/r/MensRights11/12/25 08:31 PM
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This may be true but you need to acknowledge the risk of losing something important.
/r/MensRights09/12/25 12:30 PM
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Actually misandry goes back to Ancient Greeks, although these people existed before that.
/r/MensRights09/12/25 12:29 PM
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Don't you think understanding where it came from is important? If you want to dismantle it.
/r/MensRights09/12/25 11:17 AM
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Do you know more about what these first wave feminist mothers taught their children, both boys and girls?
/r/MensRights09/12/25 11:11 AM
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I'll refine the term, like women.
/r/MensRights09/12/25 11:00 AM
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How surprising you are an American and that is your understanding.
/r/MensRights09/12/25 04:08 AM
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Thank you that does make sense and would be the case for many 2nd wave feminist. As a 2nd waver all my peers were debasing each other. I was in a relationship and did not go through this rite of passage.
/r/MensRights09/12/25 03:19 AM
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Female micro-aggression effects my wellbeing.
/r/MensRights09/12/25 02:59 AM
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I think most men's desires for wealth is actually a desire for status and to provide. Women are far more materialistic in that they desire to "nest" and attract a mate... Look at things women purchase.
/r/MensRights07/12/25 03:17 AM
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I agree that in part. In that it's not work it's fatherhood and everything goes with it.
/r/MensRights07/12/25 03:12 AM
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Are we supposed to abandon our identity as fathers? Clearly we cannot, fatherhood is as much in a man's DNA as motherhood is in a women.
/r/MensRights07/12/25 03:09 AM
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Mens sense of justice and egalitarianism has been manipulated by feminists. Men because of thier beliefs have supported women and feminism. Now it's tilted you women are being unjust and feminism will learn that their factional politics are now transparent. Feminists chose their hill..
/r/MensRights07/12/25 12:28 AM
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Your three categories are utter crap, better go add some more and account for fact that people can move between these categories. What of acquaintance and colleagues you assume men feel instant sexual desire clearly you are not a man. .
/r/MensRights07/12/25 12:19 AM
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Back Lives Matter, escalated it even in Australia.
/r/MensRights05/12/25 06:57 AM
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What racial group or ethnicity / nation do you identify with? I ask because it alters your understanding of this topic. This topic is about humans like all humans I can and will converse honestly as a white man from my cultural perspective. You can DM me and ask me anything.
/r/MensRights05/12/25 06:54 AM
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What I have noticed is that we (white people of Australia well sort of) are the only group in Australia willing to come forward and admit to being racist. It's like people very few are will willing admit that they have racist feelings (accept within the group) although will accept that other do. It's too shameful they just won't do it. White people by admitting to racism invite criticism, feminist have focused this on white men. Women are generally racists too in that they mate with similar men.…
/r/MensRights05/12/25 06:39 AM
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Okay I'm not even going to try to logic you into changing Peggy's mind. History is full of injustices like Jesus being crucified, so I ask you do you stand against racism or just racism against your group?
/r/MensRights05/12/25 06:07 AM
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She is priceless, got any more like this princess. The more honest and extreme they are the bigger the platform they need.
/r/MensRights05/12/25 04:03 AM
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I’m trained fit and 90kg I just dress conservative. I won’t get hurt. But good advice in the US Australia is not a violent place nothing will happen.
/r/MensRights05/12/25 03:26 AM
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When the discussion starts on emotional violence it will be progress and it will be slanted towards men. As men typically repress their emotions and do not express them. Hence silence and no manipulation. The problem is getting men to recognise that when they are angry at women it is often because of emotional abuse. If the DV industry starts the discussion about why men become angry it will get dismantled.
/r/MensRights05/12/25 02:33 AM
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The emotional abuse of women is horrific and does kill men without a doubt.
/r/MensRights04/12/25 04:27 AM
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All completely logical and consistent, a compelling logical argument, completely missing the emotional joke on men. Women routinely humiliate men "laughing at them" this is emotional abuse, we do not use violence against women hence it's double funny on an emotional level to abusive women. While convincing stupid women that men are violent.
/r/MensRights04/12/25 04:23 AM
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You probably wouldn't survive 100 people in your laughing in your face you don't know what it feels like.
/r/MensRights04/12/25 04:15 AM
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All completely logical and consistent, a compelling logical argument, completely missing the emotional joke on men. Women routinely humiliate men "laughing at them" this is emotional abuse, we do not use violence against women hence it's double funny on an emotional level to abusive women. While convincing stupid women that men are violent.
/r/MensRights04/12/25 03:15 AM
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This is good, break the rules of feminist speech, make generalisations that can be backed up. Point out difference between men and women USE FEELINGS (like you did). The feminist "intellectual" speech and the things they enforce are actually telling you how to appeal to the most unintelligent women who largely make decision based on feelings. Women in general act as a group we need to convince most of them and isolate the fear mongers.
/r/MensRights04/12/25 02:53 AM
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Are you sure they don't suicide cause they did it and were found out?
/r/MensRights04/12/25 01:22 AM
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Distrust of society, dissolving of belief in justice, anger at the state, anger at people?
/r/MensRights04/12/25 01:21 AM
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Why would a false allegation result in someone feeling so terrible that they suicide? What do these men feel? Shame, the assumption guilt from men and women, total inability to describe what they are going through. Isolation?
/r/MensRights04/12/25 12:24 AM
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I think this phrase points out that women use emotional abuse "humiliation" is emotional abuse that is their weapon of choice and men supposably use "physical violence". I feel this is injustice as men are not violent but women often are abusive, I say this as victim of emotional abuse.
/r/MensRights03/12/25 11:41 PM
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How does this make you feel and why?
/r/MensRights03/12/25 11:27 PM
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The point is that most women / men switch off when the feminists are too verbose. What happens then they go oh "I feel ..." maybe it's "I feel that woman I trust is highly upset by this and I support women" or maybe it's something else. We need to try to influence the emotional dialogue. We need to get across the pain and injustice suffered by many men possibly minority men. We need people to feel that often false allegations do more damage than the crime, this is because often they do. We need …
/r/MensRights03/12/25 10:33 PM
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I fear a rape allegation, I feel that it would be worse than being raped by a man. It would destroy my life in so many ways and would be more difficult to leave in the past than one violent act.
/r/MensRights03/12/25 10:07 PM
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Boys need men period. This https://service.vic.gov.au/services/working-with-children and the IVO and the fact that in Victoria that excludes so many men and the ones that are left can lose their career with an accusation that is unfounded. Result is only very stupid men going into roles that involve children. Even nurses and university lecturers need a working with children check. That is the level of fear, each year the are 2 to 3 convictions for the "crime". It is in the press daily. Hence I s…
/r/MensRights03/12/25 11:42 AM
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Also the courts do operate like that https://www.police.vic.gov.au/family-violence-safety-notices-and-intervention-orders no evidence required just a word perhaps a lie.
/r/MensRights03/12/25 11:34 AM
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Clearly you argue and write in a way that would put most men to sleep. I don't care that feminists don't like generalisation men find them useful they are based on observations. If you are too stupid to understand the meaning and intent that is your problem. Look into the laws of Victoria Australia, you can legally change your gender for around $50, https://www.bdm.vic.gov.au/change-record-sex
/r/MensRights03/12/25 11:17 AM
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Okay let me be very clear, if men had even a fraction of the propensity to violence, sexual and physical that is the currently held view the human race would be extinct long before police and the law was invented. Now I will give an emotional argument, this notion is hurtful and offensive to the tradition and indigenous people. The extremists boomer women and others with lifelong bigotry and will not change you are correct. I don't seek to help them change their opinions on men, I do seek to cha…
/r/MensRights03/12/25 11:03 AM
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The trouble with fight fire with fire is they fight differently. There are so many men willing to throw all other men under the bus for female approval. If the injustice of the 'red pill' becomes too widely understood and this treatment continues the patriarchy will get pissed off and dismantle anything that gets in its way. That is the nature of history. Part of finding some balls is trusting other men and working with men and boys. Pedophilia fear is weaponise at very least we need to reclaim …
/r/MensRights03/12/25 04:02 AM
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Most women are like most men are reasonable. Men are emotionally driven as well. Mens feelings need to expressed very vocally. Because they will enter into the emotional reasoning. At the moment there is near silence on anything but angry men or highly logical debate. I have noticed that with the exception of muslim men because of negative reinforcement in the press men do not trust other men either. We are divided.
/r/MensRights03/12/25 03:30 AM
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Feminism promotes causal sex, which is the type of relationships where people get used for sex. This proves the feminist point that men use women, to many women, after they end up used and abused. It also proves the point that feminism is manipulative even when it comes to the advice they give to women.
/r/MensRights30/11/25 05:42 AM
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Noted I share with her and two others men at the moment. IVO is a phone call away then I'm a statistic which is about 1 in 6 men in Victoria Australia. Or worse I get a sexual assault allegation which of course requires no evidence either.
/r/MensRights30/11/25 05:14 AM
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What I’ve noticed about myself is that I naturally pay more attention to all the ways I contribute to a relationship—probably because my contributions often require time, effort, or doing something visible like washing someone else’s dishes. What I don’t always notice, though, are the small acts of service or kindness others do for me. I’ve also realized that, much like children eventually learn, life isn’t always fair. Because of this bias, I tend to feel like I’m contributing more, and even th…
/r/MensRights30/11/25 05:10 AM
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When they state they are in my experience they don't tend to keep it to themselves.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 11:53 AM
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Hence the praising of prostitution in a sense feminists who have relationships are prostituting themselves.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 06:07 AM
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One other thing that I have heard multiple times is that feminists in the workplace do not get along. This would be due to the fact that they are both users and know it.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 05:59 AM
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The more people who talk of equality the better. As if it needs stating equality does not mean that two things are the same 5 + 2 = 7, 7 is a little different from 5 and 2.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 05:52 AM
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The police love this shit, it’s all about power and the more reputable and successful the man the more they want to take them down. You have more than me and I hate that, I have the authority and I will use it even if I don’t believe it even if it’s immoral cause I am cruel and that is what I want to do. Read about Cambodia, the police the courts and their relationship to Pol Pot.
/r/MensRights07/11/25 12:40 PM
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Calling women girls is an Australia thing it just is and has been that way for a very long time.
/r/MensRights22/05/25 07:25 AM
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Maybe after they realise you are a father.
/r/MensRights22/05/25 07:22 AM
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Shit is that a look into our future in Australia? What are we going to do can we build enough prisons to stop the outbreak of rapists? Never in history has it been so bad. If I was a women, I would move to Saudi Arabia at least I would not get raped.
/r/MensRights22/05/25 07:19 AM
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Women are also becoming more aggressive as aggressive women is perceived as empowered and someone to be admired.
/r/MensRights22/05/25 07:10 AM
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This increase in perversion towards minors is increasing at a slower rate than grandmas who lead the way your beloved data. Also, the rates of aggravate sexual assault are stable and even that is not rape. Rape is a very rare crime.
/r/MensRights22/05/25 07:08 AM
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I am a father and I was a scout leader, children are hypersensitive to this stuff. OMG I will never forget the look this young girl gave me when I touched her thigh when making and awkward catch from a zip line. My heart just sank she didn't make report probably due to the look on my face. Why are there so few male teacher and scout leaders gee I wonder.
/r/MensRights22/05/25 06:54 AM
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Look actually you can hang out at a playground I get the shame that is spread. Mostly it's just a few misguided in ill-informed militant women. When you become a father and go to the playground you will understand this. Generally, it not what they say it's all in the tone of voice and body language they become defensive when they realise you have a kid they calm down. It's really shit cause young men without children in the family get isolated from children and that's unhealthy for children and …
/r/MensRights22/05/25 06:47 AM
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Yeah, sure it does costs about $100 for 45 minutes it's worth it. I do it when I get feelings of emotional isolation and it helps for me it takes a few months for these feeling to return. I first noticed this when a female friend touched, and I felt shocked it was weird, and I thought how long it has been that's not healthy. Boys wrestle and have their mum; younger men have more friends and partners. I do hug my male friends but female friends only if they initiate. I really feel for the homeles…
/r/MensRights22/05/25 06:37 AM
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Naturopathy places do this sort of stuff and well I would like to do it more but it's not like smokes.
/r/MensRights21/05/25 11:03 PM
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Read other comments.
/r/MensRights21/05/25 10:56 PM
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Stop mocking and baiting us.
/r/MensRights21/05/25 10:31 PM
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Especially in high schools, those boys need some fatherly advice and education. Trouble is can you even find any men willing to go near with the IVO and Working With Children Card requirements. It's no wonder there are stuff all male teachers, I met a teacher who lost his profession on a false allegation. I have met x soldiers who lost their gun licenses and profession from IVO. Let alone the possibility of becoming homeless from an IVO. Boys need to hear this shit.
/r/MensRights21/05/25 07:14 PM
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Women are becoming aggressive, weightlifting, martial arts, playing football and getting lot's of tattoos. Are they preparing for a male prison take-over? It's very clear that DV or the real DV where a man beats hell out of a women is a very rare thing. You can look at the number of serious grievous bodily harm victims, cases whatever it's a total provable crime that should never be ignored regardless of gender. Taring all men with the same brush or using the umbrella of DV is no good. Men who h…
/r/MensRights21/05/25 07:06 PM
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In Australia due to anti-discrimination laws men are not permitted to have men only clubs.
/r/MensRights21/05/25 06:45 PM
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It is hard to understand why the victim stays, usually it's because they are a good person who loves someone who they think has a problem they will get over with help. The truth is these people are lying manipulating shit heads who know no limits to their malevolence. Then there are the vast majority of DV cases where there is just something to be gained through accusing. The scope of DV is so wide I think everyone experiences it who stays in a relationship long term, cause they do have ups and …
/r/MensRights21/05/25 05:15 PM
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I would use my affidavits and story, if redacting is all it takes. That's one nice thing about the court we all have heaps of sworn statements.
/r/MensRights21/05/25 05:00 PM
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You failed to highlight the fact that feminists hate Islam. Indian feminists vs Islam Brotherhood, please explain to world who hasn't read the Koran the dynamics of an Islamic family and the concept of female modesty. My culture is obsessed with women showing everything as mark of freedom, you can look but don't touch. Perhaps this is best explained publicly by Islamic women, we are not oppressed! We know what you are like and we disagree?
/r/MensRights21/05/25 04:47 PM
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Yeah it's about time I went for a massage to get that human touch. It's a thing, but there are non sleazy massage places where you can get touch.
/r/MensRights21/05/25 04:17 PM
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In Australia you can prosecute privately, perhaps there is a beaten man who want to convict his X partner. That takes money $$$ and the court would fight to not prosecute and the women would have coarse get her legal defence for free (more sexist BS from legal aid). But it's a public court so at least it would be talked about. I have never heard of a women being charged with domestic violence offences maybe they are but its muzzled. If you think our court are better than the US think again 99% c…
/r/MensRights21/05/25 04:09 PM
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Hope your kids are okay, as adults they carry scars. doh maybe that's one.
/r/MensRights21/05/25 03:42 PM
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You guys operate on letter of the law don't you? Meaning if you set precedence others can use the ruling in a similar circumstance. Most of the time I think US law is bit sucky TBH, under Common Law we have no hope of doing such a thing :( Even still I'll give you AUD $50 if you can prove you're a charity and you're not ripping me off.
/r/MensRights21/05/25 03:16 PM
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Yeah stick it to the ABC, I'm going do the projections on DV and current rates. I want to know what portion of relationships are healthy and over a lifetime if any women can statistically avoid DV. Given the we are now gathering the "true" statistics. The point is this game has been going a long time and now the misandry and fear spreaders have control. They are collecting the numbers that will eventually hang their cause. The game goes like this "the warrior wants a wife and knows he is a good …
/r/MensRights21/05/25 02:11 PM
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What is the outcomes for the boys? Strong heterosexuality? Gender confusion? Feelings of shame? Regret? She maybe she is a true pedo-phile or child lover maybe she did it to help the boy on his way? Definitely would not be the case with gender reversion, girls do not need that type of help.
/r/MensRights21/05/25 01:46 PM
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The rate of SA has doubled since 2010 for females reporting SA. With older women much older and perhaps undesirable women leading the charge look with rates more than tripling of reporting over the 2010 to 2023 at the top age bracket for female sexual assault grandma's are in crisis! Wow I wonder who the most militant feminist group is? I wonder would they distort reality to suit their misandrist purposes? This is not about personal safety this is gender politics that dates back to ancient times…
/r/MensRights21/05/25 12:34 PM
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On the data ABS there is SA no rape, or pedo but violent crime is broken down there is murder, attempted murder and separately. This is for victims and for court case and SA is a huge number. Punch in rape on the Vic Pol website and you get SA. I get that these are serious offences but spreading misinformation in the name of a good cause just doen't cut the grade. The government is altering people perception of the crime making people scared. Okay I accept date rape is hard to prove I will tell …
/r/MensRights21/05/25 11:59 AM
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Actually, my mother didn't mess me up and I don't resent her I am surrounded by feminists it's like a contagion as is this father resentment. It's just a fact she thinks she's justified and as I systemically question her beliefs now as an adult they change or at least she agrees with me. To be honest patriarchy was not a major feature of my upbringing both my parents particularly my father were "hands off" parents very different from now and how I am as a father, values change. I never said wome…
/r/MensRights21/05/25 09:49 AM
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The left attacks patriarchy and religion enforcing their ethics on everyone. Even if you believe in big government and lots of services and regulations the right offers liberty of opinion and respect of individualism. I like centre politics but am so sick of being told what to think that next time I probably will vote right wing. In Australia the Liberal party gets an 'F' on policy and were perceived as going to follow Trump, this caused them their ass kicked. Our right wing party 'one nation' h…
/r/MensRights21/05/25 05:34 AM
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It's true for me and probably a lot of men. With a feminist mother what can you expect...
/r/MensRights21/05/25 05:06 AM
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If you think there’s an attack on motherhood try being a father.
/r/MensRights20/05/25 12:29 PM
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This is due to mothering, boys are expect to be responsible do what it takes, blame yourself, you are the problem. Girls just aren't bought up like that the mother emphasises with the girl and projects her dissatisfaction on the boy. Shake it off, it's not your fault you are an adult trust your judgements.
/r/MensRights20/05/25 10:33 AM
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Perhaps they want to scare all women in being lesbians like them and the men into trans women.
/r/MensRights20/05/25 09:45 AM
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You are a dangerous liar, you are like the devil incarnate.
/r/MensRights20/05/25 09:17 AM
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You prove you self a misandryist/feminist by exploit fear, you quote an extreme case of violence in order to draw attention to your cause. What to outrage people into fighting for less of that? You use rumor and heresy if your going to say some back it up. At least you admit that you do understand women enough to know that they are motivated by fear. Then you become divisive as a manipulation tactic it's not me and men I know that aren't a problem it's men in general and the statistics back that…
/r/MensRights20/05/25 08:43 AM
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You have probably made attempts in the past to prove to yourself that men are a certain way. It's no wonder prostitutes think men treat women like pieces of meat. Everyone with issues probes into their childhood sooner or later, what do you find? You find your primary carer was your mother and naturally you feel better about your mother than your father. If the primary carer, was your father it would be the other way around. So nearly everyone feels for their mother and probably some negativity …
/r/MensRights20/05/25 08:32 AM
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In ancient Greece there was the misogynist and the misandryist, humans have not changed much. Women use shame and our instincts to protect to motivate us to do the correct thing. Women are motivated by fear much more than men, the media scares them, the stories spread my feminists/misandryist scare them on it goes. While some do not necessarily believe the lies that are spread about men they support the supposed objectives which is to get men to behave better. Hence the perception that if you sp…
/r/MensRights20/05/25 08:19 AM
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Its because they use fear to motivate other women and put pressure on men to fix things.
/r/MensRights20/05/25 05:45 AM
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How did that happen? Was it referred to police?
/r/MensRights20/05/25 05:14 AM
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Rape and SA are different generally is rape something that happens when a man knowingly and deliberately forces himself on a woman. There is intent to cause harm. SA is mostly misguided unwanted sexual attention without intend to cause harm. If its men's behavioural change that you want i.e. less SA don't fight it in the courts. When you brandish too many men as perpetrators it stigmatises men and is counter productive to your cause. With the loose definition of SA nearly everyone is a victim so…
/r/MensRights20/05/25 05:05 AM
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Feminist, thanks for correcting my typo
/r/MensRights19/05/25 04:25 PM
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because of critical race theory and the concept of "privilege" and the intersection with gender studies which is a joke and was dumped by the University of Melbourne for very clear reasons.
/r/MensRights19/05/25 02:36 PM
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I never understood that side of female sexuality, I think it's somehow linked to their competitiveness in their appearance. The ultra success some men enjoy would come at the cost of well reducing sex to what the feminists say it is. Just about any woman can be a whore but only a chosen one can be a stud. Perhaps it due to the infrequency of female orgasms they just want to try it with the most experienced guy they can to see if it them or me?
/r/MensRights19/05/25 02:06 PM
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Oh my heart bleeds for them, really an emotional backlash perhaps even some regret? Maybe they will all be charged if she changes her mind.
/r/MensRights19/05/25 01:13 PM
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Thank you so you concede "that's narrowing the frame until the problem appears small enough to ignore" Again where is the publicly available data like the family law court data it's withheld stop saying it isn't unless you can give me a link. The definitions of SA and these statistics exaggerate the problem and cause fear. What do you want to talk about what should be addressed rape or unwanted or misguided advances by men? Cause these things are different. Or would you prefer to talk about the …
/r/MensRights19/05/25 01:04 PM
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I think the definition of SA needs to exclude rape its not an assault its more that that just like violent crime and homicide. The number is so low it will not affect the statistics. It is clear non aggravated SA is so speculative as to be unreliable. At least you do concede that more serious offences have stable rates. I don't think it's the courts that should be leveraged to pursue a society agenda or leant on by government. It's a separation of powers thing, it's really important. If police s…
/r/MensRights19/05/25 12:53 PM
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Thanks for taking to time to criticise this. I don't excuse this as lack of attention to detail if the government is advertising numbers of SA cases we all need to know what SA is not go digging in the fine print. I did reference a Victorian Government site and stuck to its definition what you imply is that I'm simply lazy or stupid to understand. How many other people are to lazy or stupid to understand. You didn't address the main point of the second graph that Australia is not becoming more s…
/r/MensRights19/05/25 12:36 PM
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Settling from you is the first of a lifetime of criticism designed damage your self image to the point where you will never leave. Don’t be second best you’re better off with self respect alone. At the beginning of a relationship she is behaving herself it will get worse.
/r/MensRights19/05/25 11:38 AM
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ohh I feel for you... better no partner at all then one like that.
/r/MensRights19/05/25 10:27 AM
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I have been baited and abused although not like that. The problem is that they think all men see them as a piece of meat. They are the prostitutes and women who have degraded themselves to the point where they do get treated like a piece of meat by men which proves the feminist point. From that basis, all men see women this way it's okay to do anything in an attempt to prove that either 1. you are that way or 2. I am not what you think. They have dehumanised themselves and seek to dehumanise you…
/r/MensRights19/05/25 10:08 AM
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Are you sure that's not the plot of 50 shades of grey? I dunno I never read it ;)
/r/MensRights19/05/25 09:59 AM
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Thanks for sharing your view, I know you're not alone in this. So you feel abused by a feminist society wait till you go through the IVO process or have a false allegation made. Reclaim the play ground go watch some kids play it might make you feel better.
/r/MensRights19/05/25 04:47 AM
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So, you're a moderate welcome to the group. Our culture is polarised what you need to understand is that being anti-feminism is a reasonable thing like being anti-racist. Mostly the moderates sit on the sidelines shaking their heads and saying nothing. Do a quick word association either in your head or blurt it out to me. If a white man is anti-feminist this means ......
/r/MensRights19/05/25 04:32 AM
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Agreed this is tactic used by abusive women.
/r/MensRights19/05/25 03:59 AM
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That definitely happens, this concept of getting a pass to go out with the guys is shit. Work is not always a good place to socialise.
/r/MensRights19/05/25 03:57 AM
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This isolation older men face is a product of the weaking of communities and male distrust.
/r/MensRights19/05/25 03:55 AM
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I think that guy was being sarcastic. Perhaps it is the intellectual and emotionally in touch that get hit by the isolation. The men who play football and work on building sites and stuff do vent to each other and use a lot of the humour that you mention. These men are a minority also the Muslim men do have strong brotherhood, I'm not sure but I think this hits the white men the hardest probably due to white women holding more feminist views. These people frame everything as a zero sum game, the…
/r/MensRights19/05/25 03:49 AM
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The lonely women of my generation (X) are feminists they're lonely because later in life they get rejected by both men and women. So many things said so much water under the bridge.
/r/MensRights18/05/25 04:13 PM
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I think the 16 per 100000 is a fair upper bound for the true number of rapes. The reporting is of rape at least 42 per 100000 is way too high. Fair to say more than half of rape the reports are false. SA numbers are a scare champion to justify funding for the industry. What is a rape is far less subjective than SA. But that statistic would show women to be paranoid and or manipulative.
/r/MensRights18/05/25 03:54 PM
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That's one of their tricks, you're not one of those men are you?
/r/MensRights18/05/25 01:59 PM
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Seriously isolating a person is a very serious form of abuse.
/r/MensRights18/05/25 01:43 PM
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Clearly the bar is going up, so is rate of SA its speculative, what is a SA? Clearly there more reports each year that is no surprise. Also, I don't think a man reporting a women for SA to police would even be taken seriously. What is point of SA, to shame men into behaviour change... whatever that means.
/r/MensRights18/05/25 12:56 PM
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Male relationships with men are being eroded by mistrust and the stigmatisation of men. If women don't like that men are isolated perhaps, they can help their partner to trust other men more rather than criticising men. Framing it as women labour is ridicules, it's women that are causing the problem and men who a suiciding.
/r/MensRights18/05/25 09:25 AM
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Someone near to me criticised the Catholic Church as an example of a patriarchal power structure. Needless to say they worship a man. Where does freedom of religion come into that thinking? She honestly believes that her values and beliefs should be enforced on the largest religious organisation. That her opinions are justified in that come from statistics on pay gaps between men and women. It doesn't matter to her that everyone votes it's a patriarchy that needs to be smashed. She is not stupid…
/r/MensRights18/05/25 08:15 AM
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Forget 50 50 if your in Australia you can expect every second weekend and half the holidays if she let you. Truth is it's up to her how much you see your kids fighting makes it worse.
/r/MensRights18/05/25 07:05 AM
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Get a lawyer for any criminal allegations. Do not go to the family law court it will destroy your life. Let her live in the house for the moment. Remove her access to your money like now. If you're on the deed as in it's your house sell it.
/r/MensRights18/05/25 07:01 AM
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The white man is the bogie man.
/r/MensRights17/05/25 12:19 PM
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You have no chance, in a closed court they make any accusation they want and you cannot even defend yourself because there is no trial unless it's bad enough to get charged. My X purged herself then amended an affidavit contradicting herself it made no difference to the outcome.
/r/MensRights17/05/25 11:52 AM
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That's horrible, why did she accuse you?
/r/MensRights17/05/25 11:47 AM
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I can computer program for about 16 hours without a break
/r/MensRights14/05/25 08:30 PM
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Nice!
/r/MensRights14/05/25 03:30 PM
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The most toxic thing they do is twist young mens identities to the point that they are so shamed for being male that they want to called women.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 11:18 AM
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Encouraging the rabbids to get more rabbid needs to be done with a high profile "moderate" feminist. She needs to be made to look stupid for being a feminist, we need a respected women in the public spotlight who has publicly declared themselves as a feminist.
/r/MensRights13/05/25 06:42 AM
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As I see it the basic problem is that the politicians like all men are shamed in silence. The feminists divide us and make us think of our brothers as domestical violent, sexual predators and racists. As we trust each other less and less their power grows. We need convince men that men are not as bad as feminists would have you think. Who will fight feminism we judge ourselves as wanting due to false information.
/r/MensRights13/05/25 05:12 AM
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Thank you for brining me up to speed, more people need to know this history. How about freedom of information and the CSA?
/r/MensRights13/05/25 05:07 AM
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What it comes down to is the law has been slanted to guilty till proven innocent. As I see it the only function of these laws serve are to separate people who start to argue and fight. This may well reduce police callouts but in practice it is too tempting for a women going through a break-up not to make an allegation. As if she does make an allegation he is kicked out, she gets to separate property without discussion and many men end up on the street because they have nowhere else to go. Societ…
/r/MensRights13/05/25 04:51 AM
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Thank you.
/r/MensRights13/05/25 04:45 AM
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