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can you elaborate on the "not knowing where she stands" bit? i recently had a girl tell me that she doesn't know how she feels about me; i make her feel two extremes of emotion. on one hand, she said sometimes she really really is into me, but other times (because of asshole behavior) she wants nothing to do with me and hates me. just looking for some elaboration or insight regarding this point.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 06:37 PM
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thanks for the motivation and advice, you're right. she's pretty damn close, i normally wouldn't either.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 05:56 PM
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I think she's insecure and nervous that she would be bad at sex. I'm two years older and have fucked quite a few girls. She's only had sex one time (at 16 or something) and didn't enjoy it. She knows this. As you said that's just it - I can't get into it because it seems like she's not having fun, it's very one sided because of her insecurity. What should I say? All my plates are amazing fucks but this girl is a definite LTR material, it's just a problem I've never encountered.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 05:31 PM
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I'm just not sure how to deal with the dead fish syndrome. Is there something you've said/done to get them more... involved? It's quite frankly not even fun. She doesn't move/do anything although I'm fairly certain I could escalate to sex...
/r/askTRP27/07/16 05:18 PM
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thanks, this is great advice. she really is hot/cold depending on how much attention i give her.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 02:18 AM
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when i was younger, i used to race around in my car while i was driving. flying down the road, weaving in and out, and being a generally unsafe teenager. we live in a relatively wealthy city so there are lots of super/luxury cars. i was driving with my dad one day and he told me to watch the drivers of the super cars. everyone else uses the road on their terms, they drive with elegance, they leave space, they know what kind of car they're driving. great post. know you're driving the supercar.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 02:26 PM
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this is a great response man, it's something i've been thinking about a lot as well. i'd love to hear some more of your insight on the subject.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 05:48 AM
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a mouse not chased becomes curious about the cat.
/r/seduction02/03/16 10:41 PM
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it's so strange to come across this post. literally the exact same thing happened with a girl and i on our third meetup. we had arranged to meet for coffee, and i arrive early as always, she texts me she'll be 10min late. no worries. she's been playing hard to get for some time now but is obviously in to me. i see the opportunity for dread game, just as you and strike up a conversation with the cute girl at the table next to me. she's telling me about her life, her major, her family and invites …
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 03:44 AM
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really wonderful comment, would like to see it in a post format.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 04:05 AM
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awesome post man! been expecting this since the initial 101. looking forward to future posts. would love to see you go through the date, the kiss, etc.
/r/seduction08/12/15 05:02 AM
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You need to think of approaching conversation in a different way. Each girl is unique, and different albeit many of them act in similar ways, your goal is to screen them and find out what they're like. Will it work? Will it not work? If it doesn't that's okay. In my experience, it has been detrimental to my experience and hers just focusing on getting the number or focusing on closing. Focus on having fun, and being independant from the outcome. That being said, i'm in college too, and conversat…
/r/seduction06/12/15 06:15 PM
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what do you mean by The instant you want to kiss her, you need to telegraph it to prepare her. You're verbalizing something so she realizes you're about to kiss her?
/r/seduction06/12/15 06:05 PM
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can you elaborate on how your situation unfolded?
/r/seduction06/12/15 04:19 AM
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ok. sure, don't see women as 9 or 10s, rather 1s and 0s - i agree with what the other commentators are saying, but this doesn't really answer your question. for the sake of discussion lets assume this woman is what we'd all rate a 1, and 'extremely attractive.' obviously your approach would be different. these women are used to recieving attention, they are used to having value based on their attractiveness. ask them about themselves; their dreams, their fears, their relationship with their moth…
/r/seduction30/11/15 08:54 PM
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what's your process, mindset and response on dealing with girls who are flakey?
/r/seduction28/11/15 12:31 AM
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dude
/r/seduction16/10/15 10:20 PM
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hey man, wicked job. i'm interested to see how the next few weeks play out for you with her. i find with 'unicorn' like girls when you don't give a fuck on a night out like this, things fall into place and they get wrapped up in the magic. it always gets tricky afterwords, especially when i start to actually like them a bit. keep your momentum and move forward, don't get caught up and make mistakes. i'd love a follow up!
/r/seduction30/08/15 08:51 PM
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This is probably the best place to start - as you talk you'll notice out different conversational hooks in which to stem the interaction. http://www.thedatingspecialist.com/blog/the-sherlock-holmes-method-to-always-having-something-to-say/
/r/seduction22/08/13 05:33 PM
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