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what you can do about it is reflect back to your childhood , what were your dreams that society forced you to give up on? every time you were told that you were aiming too high , or that you'd end up isolated if you tried doing what you dreamt of? spend time with yourself and understand what you truly want to do. not what you "need" to do in order to find a partner, or meet expectations from family , from society. be honest with yourself and do what you really always wanted to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:35 AM
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I think all these can be attributed to the lack of purpose most people have. I don't think these issues were non existent back then apart from social media and porn addiction. maybe to a lesser extent, but people were not always bothered/thinking about social issues such as dating or political alignment as they are now, they had dreams to pursue, ideas to implement, fields to contribute to, lives to save, and wars to fight. they were encouraged by society to be inventors, scientists, firefighter…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:02 PM
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well , there's nothing we can do about it but portray ourselves to be good people. at least that may get rid of preconceived notions men or women have about each other. it's best not to think about socially oriented issues like this much at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:25 PM
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it's easy to tell if you're friends with them. I don't see people obsessing over it as much as they do online. a lot more people care less about it than before
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:22 PM
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that's true
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:19 PM
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I thought so too. until I entered university, most men in my school don't talk about dating at all , and they're mostly single too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:13 PM
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I think a lot of people have a distorted view of what a relationship essentially is. you're not supposed to like someone based on how they conform to certain ideas, it certainly is a component but is not why you do so. liking a person also means accepting their negative traits and is more about connecting with them. just meeting people in random places or dating apps never works because both don't actually like each other, they're just attracted to each other. unfortunately most can't distinguis…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:09 PM
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we are in a big shift in societal expectations and norms. singlehood is now becoming the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:01 PM
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I think anyone that is worried about dating 24/7 essentially has nothing to look forward to in life. no meaningful goals or ambition, but rather just goals that are centered around the usual hedonistic lifestyle: ( have fun with friends all the time, have sex with women, have a family, etc.). if you have a meaningful reason to live you wouldn't be worried about being single. unfortunately, it turns out that ridding children of curiosity through a shitty school system and shooting them down for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:57 PM
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it's becoming more normalised amongst men to accept being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:53 PM
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I'm convinced that a gender equal society is impossible to implement, there a subset of people from both sides that are essentially fuelled by hatred for each other and will take any instance to take advantage of any legislation that essentially gives them the chance to do so. just like how ultra male supremacists did it in the past and how rad fems are doing it now. if you're a normal person , just forget about this pointless struggle. I see no change in any outcomes individually if the pendulu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:49 PM
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I think most women essentially have a negative view on men by default, if you're attractive or have a promising future , maybe they'd want to have a relationship with you. but otherwise they have don't have as strong of an incentive to be in a relationship with men as we do to them. try to understand why exactly you want a relationship, meeting sexual needs? seeking companionship? simply trying to adjust your life to match expectations? from your family? from society? understand why you're doing…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:40 PM
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Where are the lies????? And all what I’ve been saying is that I agree with your ideas but I cannot see how they could be implemented in today’s society. And you’ve been insulting me this entire time so we know who’s being emotional, this entire time you’re yet to show me how you will implement your ideas. And I’m a guy and all my ideas are about agency and freedom from women and societal expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:14 AM
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is this what radicalization looks like? you only think there are two sides don't you? my main enemies are the feminists. I had said that previously before. I avoid women at all costs and make sure my money, my hard work, and my taxes aren't going into a woman's vacation allowance or child support. but I'm also not like you. irrational, enslaved by money, status and your own ego. no substance. all you think about is trying to make the world in your image. stop dreaming about your sexual fantasies…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:57 AM
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not demoralized , I'm just being rational. enough of this andrew tate bs, we know that it cannot be implemented. and whenever you inform other men of these ideas , they adopt their own understanding of them, and most of the time they just become pathetic incels. I'm also not a slave to this society, I'm against it in every way. and I will not yield to it. but I recognized it cannot be changed since there is division. that is the stance I'm taking. we all know that it's impossible to change over …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:32 AM
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I'd agree with you if it's possible to change things but look around you, most women agree with the idea of feminism and aren't willing to change their views, even if they say that they hate feminism, they still follow the same ideas it's just an effort to appeal to men, and not only that. many men are also like that. why should I try to fix society by myself? the same society that hates me, ostracises me, and wants to use my soul? why should I waste my lifetime to try to create a fantasy world?…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:12 AM
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You misunderstood, my point was that you shouldn’t reciprocate what the feminists are doing to us. It creates an endless cycle of hatred. Instead, just stop interacting with women and people in a society that made it clear that it hates you for what you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:48 AM
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I see , that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:20 PM
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perhaps that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:35 AM
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I also think this whole "get back at society and women for not liking me" very childish, I've acknowledged that I want to live life in a way that I benefit as much people as possible , as that is what makes me happy. perpetuating this endless cycle of hatred, dissatisfaction and frustration will eventually result in really bad consequences. if you're a lonely dude like me, just go look for happiness elsewhere, follow your dreams and make sure that do what you really want to do. men should really…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:58 AM
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I live in an Asian country. It’s pretty normal to do that here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:46 AM
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I asked a lot of men about this in the past. Most say it’s just easier to look at p0rn and jack off than just chase women. I don’t think p0rn is enough though. Beggars can’t be choosers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:45 AM
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it's not worth it anymore. stop wasting your time and move on. strive to achieve your dreams instead of chasing after people who hate you and ask you to not approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:35 PM
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not the new generation. I'm 19 and guys my age really just don't care anymore. most guys don't talk about sex, they don't approach women for it. they don't care enough to look for girls. Only the good looking dudes and the tall ones do. I don't know why that's the case but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:31 PM
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it doesn't matter for me anymore whether I find a partner or not , I just want to die knowing I dedicated my life to what is good in a deceptive, dark, and hateful world. that way I'll truly be satisfied with myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:05 PM
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yes that will never happen. which is why this whole thing is pointless , it's pointless for men to rant about our issues, it's pointless for men to chase women because they're more likely to hate your guts for being the way you are, it's pointless to look for a relationship as a man because you'll never be loved anyways. and it's also pointless to take out your anger and resentment on women because that means you'll never be able to move on. love is dead and we men need to accept it. it is a soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:51 PM
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The final stage of grief, acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:34 AM
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The solution is to simply move on. 60% of men from ages 18 to 29 are single it’s now a normal thing. A society that had done this early is the Japanese. It’s the best solution for everyone, women don’t have to feel creeped out and in danger, and men would find other things in life that actually make them happy. No one loses
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:50 AM
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I agree with that. it can happen , but the odds are really looking bad for someone like me , I'm below average height, not very rich, and average looking face. I have deduced that for someone like me it's no longer worth wasting my time looking for women because I'll never be loved anyways , and I'm ready to accept that. not everyone is born equal and that's fine , I have certain perks that others don't and also the other way around. it is what it is. I have found a meaningful purpose in life th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:15 PM
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you've never heard of women saying kill all men? the fact is there are a lot of people like that , it may not be all women but we can all agree that in the view of the majority an average man with an average height and average income is invisible and is a creep for approaching them. just to clear it up I have no resentment towards anyone, I just accepted the reality of my situation. no one's at fault, it is just what it is. I'll just live life in a meaningful way that even if I didn't really ach…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:42 PM
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Iran had never reached the point that the west has in terms of power for women and feminism. My point is, you need a powerful event to convince people that their feelings may not be right and that reality is concrete and logical in a society that allows fantasy and stupid nonsense to be accepted as reality. Such people will never be logical and selfless enough to do the right thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:15 PM
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“All men Should die” “kill all men” “most men are ugly” “never give an ugly guy a chance” most women clearly don’t want anything to do with the average man you know that I don’t even need to say anything about that. I may not like a few women for their behavior but I don’t wish death upon an entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:10 PM
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Yes I agree with you but there’s no way that’s possible unless a cataclysmic event happens. With this idea you’re going against almost everyone. What you said is obviously the solution, but how exactly are we going to achieve that? Men won’t unite the way women do. Most men out there will do everything and anything for sex and validation from women. You think that they’ll follow you? The best and most reachable solution is to come to terms with these changes in the world. 60% of men from ages 18…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:52 PM
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all this is pointless, stop wasting your time and money. it's done, learn to live with loneliness fellas. don't hate anyone for it, it's just another shift in society. just accept it. find a purpose in life you dedicate yourself to. stop this "working on yourself" bs, even after all that pain you'll never find a girl you like unless you're capable of being attractive , rich and super tall. maybe this is a form of societal collapse. there's nothing we can do about it, so try to live happy for now…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:16 PM
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all this is pointless, stop wasting your time and money. it's done, learn to live with loneliness fellas. don't hate anyone for it, it's just another shift in society. just accept it. find a purpose in life you dedicate yourself to. stop this "working on yourself" bs, even after all that pain you'll never find a girl you like unless you're capable of being attractive , rich and super tall. maybe this is a form of societal collapse. there's nothing we can do about it, so try to live happy for now…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:09 PM
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