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3	Are men actually putting in effort when it comes to dating, or do they just think it should be easy? Yes dehumanisation has many forms. When you're a sexual object and don't want it, it makes you feel like shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 11:53 PM
3	Are men actually putting in effort when it comes to dating, or do they just think it should be easy? Whereas the men here seem to think it is easy for them Fair enough, i think you should talk to them more one on one and see if what you think is realistic is also shared as something that they consider to be realistic in terms of effort and social interaction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 03:30 PM
4	Are men actually putting in effort when it comes to dating, or do they just think it should be easy? Its night time for me so i can't reply properly since my brains just not there. Quick question if you don't mind have you ever spoken to the men that have complaints about dating in real life/not over text?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 01:31 AM
3	Are men actually putting in effort when it comes to dating, or do they just think it should be easy? You're projecting hard assuming that he even did any of that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 07:59 PM
13	Are men actually putting in effort when it comes to dating, or do they just think it should be easy? But the guys I knew who were successful with women understood that socializing costs money, and they embraced that lifestyle. They weren’t afraid to buy rounds of drinks, split Ubers, host gatherings, or organize weekend trips. They planned group vacations (think Made in America, Coachella, etc.) and didn’t hesitate to cover part of a woman’s cost if needed. This doesn’t mean throwing money at women to “win” them, but rather investing in a lifestyle that makes meeting people more natural. You're…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 07:57 PM
2	Vast Majority of Women are Landing Men Who Were In Romantic Exile, and They Know It Why do you treat peoples awarness of things as them taking action and changing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 04:19 PM
11	Vast Majority of Women are Landing Men Who Were In Romantic Exile, and They Know It Honestly i read his post and thought "victim and projection", the idea that women think like him just because of his observation is wild, he's not critical enough to recognise why those women have to make different choices when they are older, he's looking at it from the outside. Logically most people in their 20s ain't trying to have some slow lifestyle, they are trying to get what they want, as they age they have to be more selective and smart, what's hard to understand about this in terms of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 04:17 PM
7	Why do men crave romantic interest so much? For the men that do care i'd argue it's because they recognise the reality of being lonely when it's no longer their choice and they see the women as people who will experience that reality later on in life. They've also been pushed narratives that suggest their self worth is validated by the relationships they can get. So you might be able to imagine someone who seeks out relationships to prove their self worth might think it's insane to not want relationships in order to validate their existan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 06:50 PM
1	There are no consequences to being a "bad person" and no incentives to be a "good person" when dating for short-term. Honestly from an external point of view your reality seems pretty frightening.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 10:47 PM
3	Men who say they don't care I feel like things should be taken with a grain of salt and people aren't talking about all men when they respond like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 10:39 PM
11	Would you allow your daughter to go to college? Thank god this is the top reply people are chronically online until it's sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 07:53 PM
41	My husband makes over 400k a year, I dont work and we split all the chores i felt the same, it's almost like a normal relationship is strange or money should define how people care for each other.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/01/24 12:19 AM
1	I'm failing to see how the idea of AF/BB and the 80/20 rule aren't real A woman no longer has to sacrifice her autonomy for financial stability. So personally i know multiple women that are in that situation, i want to have a conversation with you about how you feel about that because i'm very confident that the problem hasn't gone away becasue some people are in a position to financially take care of themselves. There's lots of people that live in cultures inside western countries where they still aren't "free" in that sense and other women that have circumstances …	/r/ExRedPill	19/01/24 12:00 AM
2	Feeling upset after last nights conversation with my boyfriend To answer that question, because i want to get an idea of the future you'd like to have and make my mind up about what i'd like to do. Some people don't express things unless you ask, lots of men are 50/50 on ideas but girls just don't ask so they say nothing. This isn't that "he's saying nothing to manipulate you", it's more "men have different priorities and not everyone's aware enough to know how to handle their partners expectations because they never learned to do that". Like, it depends a …	/r/RedPillWomen	16/01/24 10:13 AM
9	Feeling upset after last nights conversation with my boyfriend I'm not the best for emotional support so i'll say this, do you feel as though he's let you down by not being able to commit to the idea before you've moved and also do you feel like he lead you on by not expressing this earlier? It's selfish of me to ask at this time so i'm admitting that i'd like to know partly for how i'd act in future to make sure my partner is secure in her expectations of me.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/01/24 09:43 AM
1	Why does getting a dog instead of a gf is advice from the redpill? #newbie A dogd loyal, after people get hurt by humans they seek a connection that will not betray them, typically an animal like a dog because it's not going to do that. It's people who are okay with not having a partner/human connection in that way and will have a comfort animal instead.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/01/24 01:09 PM
14	Observing women who married to middle/upper middle class men. Yeah i think this is the expected outcome of normally just falling into the class that has enough funds to do what is considered the minimum at that level, it would look different based on country/location but this sounds expected and normal.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/01/24 06:32 AM
1	Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for men So you just described a cunt not a normal man?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 11:12 PM
12	Not quite sure what else I can do to prove my worth happy cake day ❤ (also she needs to cut him off)	/r/RedPillWomen	10/01/23 08:46 AM
1	When fictitious CVs are sent to employers, women are more likely to get called back for interviews—a result which appears to hold across countries. Yes lad!	/r/BlackPillScience	14/10/22 12:00 PM
2	My BFs reaction to minor inconveniences worries me I think this is the proper response.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/09/22 07:33 AM
1	My BFs reaction to minor inconveniences worries me He went as far as smearing dog poop on the lock box of the agents to deter them further. That's erm, yeah. Not the most normal of responses, i don't think i'd look at my partner the same if they did that, it's kinda wild. Can someone reason/sanity check with me if this is adequate behaviour? It's not, this is one of those types where "seek help" would be a valid statement if my sisters partner did this i think i'd argue with him just because it's very weird and just wrong. Like, that's actually …	/r/RedPillWomen	30/09/22 07:29 AM
3	When fictitious CVs are sent to employers, women are more likely to get called back for interviews—a result which appears to hold across countries. =( they got banned, i wonder what was up	/r/BlackPillScience	22/09/22 01:39 PM
1	A Male Perspective: Why to stay away from porn sick men If a man mentions to you that they watch porn I would urge you to cut ties, no good will come from entertaining the broken soul in front of you. I'm just going to say that people should use their own discretion, porn isn't just a glowing red flag. Addictions are addictions and should be treated as such.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/08/22 07:34 PM
1	Both Men And Women In "Normal" Society Acknowledge Alpha Fux Beta Bux Then when i started developing similar attributes Which attributes	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/22 03:32 PM