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i think there's a lot of reasons. Putting your body on display to fish for compliments seems pathetic and pointless. Just because a lot of women seem to think it's normal to seek validation from strangers by posting pictures online, it doesn't mean I think it's positive or healthy. There is already an endless amount of stuff out there from men that look a lot better than I do. Why I would believe anything I posted would get any attention? Even if I did do it and got some attention, I don't think…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:46 PM
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I’ve noticed this too. It seems like there’s a lot more questions from women (girls maybe too) asking questions like “how do I let a guy know I like him? How do I approach him? Etc”. I wondered if maybe we’re at a turning point in our society where males have stopped doing all the chasing and females will be initiating more. But I dunno, maybe it’s my imagination. Hard to read into it too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:33 AM
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The reason you’re saying it is because you want men to get upset and feel uncomfortable, right? Then when they do get upset and uncomfortable, you tell them they’re missing the point and you expect them to empathize with you. Am I missing something? I feel like I’m the one in crazy town. Intentionally telling them things to make them upset is not going to make them empathize with you more, it’s going to do the opposite. This just seems like such a bizarre way to try to engage people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:07 PM
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So if the whole point of all this is to try and get men to understand what it's like to be controlled, why would you be surprised that men are getting upset and uncomfortable? Seems like that just means it's working as intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:48 AM
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vasectomies are great. but getting one to please a woman is stupid and emasculating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:38 AM
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Women posting videos on the internet encouraging it has 0 effect on your personal life and decisions. so what's the point of the videos then? Sounds like you think they're a complete waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:30 AM
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It sounds like they're kinda advocating for vasectomies based on activist goals? Vasectomies are medical procedures and should only be done if that person is doing the best thing for themselves. So yeah...I haven't seen these videos but it sure seems like advocating for vasectomies on social media is fucking nonsense. ​ I mean, I can appreciate that women feel distraught by Roe v Wade being overturned, and I could see why they'd be hurt and angry and understand why they'd take to social media an…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:26 AM
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To me the most surprising part of the story is that doctors were willing to perform vasectomies on 17 and 18 year old kids. That's fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:50 AM
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No. For serious relationships? Definitely not. If anything I filter out the women that are below 30. ​ You're probably asking the wrong sub, as this place is mainly red pill guys that probably aren't representative of reality. If you want better answers go to r/askmen or r/datingoverthirty
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:01 AM
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I definitely don't cosign the part about women liking rapists and rewarding them with sex. That's nonsense. ​ But I think there's some truth to his basic point. If you imagine a typical frat bro type that assaults women because he pushes past consent, he's probably having plenty of consensual sex too. Probably more consensual sex than the average guy, I would say. ​ edit: I just noticed you were asking red pills. I'm not red pill, for the record.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:26 AM
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You’re only focusing on the positive, though. Your post is all about men being impressed by things beyond just your looks. What happens when you’re rejected because a man is unimpressed with deeper aspects of your personality? Or he breaks up with you because he likes another woman’s personality and accomplishments better?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:50 AM
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Well, if not for the biological urge I’m definitely not burying my face right where she pisses and shits out of, that’s for sure. So you’re right about that. But I think you’re missing the point. We have plenty of other biological urges too, like appetite for food. Do you treat those the same way? “Did you enjoy your meal, sir?” “I HAVE SATISFIED MY BIOLOGICAL URGE TO INGEST CALORIES. I HAVE ACHIEVED MY PURPOSE IN COMING TO THIS RESTAURANT” Satisfying biological urges is supposed to be enjoyable…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:28 PM
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but if after all that work they're having sex with someone they don't like, then what's the point? Why would they even want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:22 AM
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I was just trying to emphasize the point. More incredulity than anger. Things don’t translate well through text though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:12 AM
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Do I seem mad? I’m more confused than anything, really
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:34 AM
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Well, I’m on board with you even if no one else is. The amount of over-analysis going on for a woman who calls herself a slut during sex vs. absolutely no self awareness or analysis for the man who is spitting in her mouth during sex is pretty fucking bonkers to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:20 AM
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This seems like such a weird question to me. You’re wondering if she’s damaged because she calls herself a slut and a whore… but she only does it when YOU GIVE IT TO HER ROUGH AND SPIT IN HER MOUTH AND SLAP HER TITS. Bro what reaction were you expecting from her, exactly? Seems like a best case scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:12 AM
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I'm skeptical this AI generated stuff is as good as photographs of real people. I guess I'd have to see it to be sure, but I'm not buying it. ​ Anyway, for me personally part of the appeal of porn is that it's not all just me in my head, and that I'm not pre-selecting and micromanaging every single detail that I see. I try to look for regular people that are exhibitionists, and part of the fun is seeing the pictures they decide to upload, what their bodies actually look like, and the way they ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:45 PM
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A lot of guys are emotionally distant, and I think that’s probably my biggest problem. In terms of red flags, I think just pay attention to how we handle our relationships with our friends and family. If you want an idea of how we would treat you in a long term relationship, look to see how we treat the people we’ve had in our lives a long time. If he’s the kind of person that never calls his mom/dad/siblings and only talks to them when they make the effort to contact him, and if he hasn’t staye…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:26 PM
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I think the reason online dating is ridiculous is because there’s too many people that treat it like a game and don’t respect the other person’s time. Which is exactly what you and you your wife are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:14 PM
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On the other hand, you’ve got the rest of your life to sit around and be retired, you’ve only got another year or two to be able to do what you love and what you’re best in the world at.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:03 AM
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If you’re just talking about a couple rejections, then yeah maybe he’s a great catch and they just didn’t like him or weren’t interested. But if we’re talking over a long period of time, they weren’t able to get a single date then that’s definitely something that he’s doing (or not doing).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:45 AM
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I disagree. The whole point of going on dates is to get to know people, not to find someone who’s enthralled by the intimate details of your hobby. I think you guys are putting the cart before the horse here. After you get to know someone and care about them, then their hobbies and interests become more interesting. You can’t expect them to care about your passions when they’re still basically strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:40 AM
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Moisturizer and fancy soap? You don’t need that,the important thing is to eat right and exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:08 PM
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90% of women looking for 6% of the men? I don’t think the guy that tweeted this understands the graph, because that’s not what it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:17 PM
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But she says she’s fat, ugly and old and she knows they’re out of her league. And she lowered her standards and talks to other guys, but she says the only guys interested in her talk to her about humiliation fetishes. This isn’t an example of an entitled woman who demands a perfect guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:42 PM
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That lady is complaining about the bad social skills of men in her league and the bad conversations she’s having with them. To you that’s aiming too high and going for the top? To me it sounds like a perfectly reasonable complaint.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:35 AM
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Wait why are gay men asking your wife about you? That seems kind of fucked up to blatantly ask someone about their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:26 AM
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I feel like this is a straw man argument. Do they only want men for their money? Well, no not only that. I'm sure they'd choose a good-looking well put together man over a bitter, angry disfigured man who makes more money. So... I guess you win on a technicality. Like most things on this sub, I think people are trying to make this a black and white issue when it's not one. On the one hand, people are of course allowed to have standards, and income and wealth is always going to be a factor. On th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:10 AM
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There's nothing wrong with being a stay at home mom. It makes sense for a lot of couples to have a stay at home parent, It's a luxury and it's kind of ideal if you can make it work financially. The problem is the attitude of "I want to be a stay at home mom and you need to put in the effort to make this possible. Also, I like masculine clothing/activities and I need you to like that about me...what's the problem, are you intimidated by me"? She wants to be a stay-at-home mom and rely on a man fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:10 PM
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But I think those tropes have been broken down by feminism in the last 10-20 years. If you grew up having any passing knowledge of feminism at all, then you'd think those tropes are toxic, they don't reflect women's actual desires, and it's evidence that the patriarchy is trying to control women and normalize abusive behavior, and anyone that believes it is being sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:38 AM
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I really don't know much about red pill, so I guess I won't comment on that specifically, but... I don't know how you think those parts redeem women in any way. Literally every one of those things is him giving her power and control over him. I mean, I get the appeal. It's nice to fantasize about a romantic partner that totally trusts you and is comfortable being vulnerable with you. Men fantasize about women that way too. But you're supposed to do a little self-analysis and be aware that your f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:52 AM
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as it should be. I think this is what most men do. Honestly I think that's one of the most important parts of a romantic relationship, and it's also probably the easiest and earliest thing you're going to learn about someone. I don't think it's fair to either person to keep things going if that's not there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:06 AM
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You're contradicting yourself though. According to you, money is the second part of the mate evaluation; the practical, logical, conscious, frontal lobe part. But now it seems like you're saying women want men with money because they're "biologically geared" to always think of children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 11:50 PM
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No they're not slaves, they're parents. If you want men to take care of you like they would a child, then don't expect to feel empowered in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 11:17 PM
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I don't know... I think people are generally pretty good at spotting people that are acting against their natural personality and instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:50 PM
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You want a guy that competes with your friends’ boyfriends and your exes? That’s not a measure of how much a guy likes you, that’s a measure of how insecure he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 04:37 AM
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Well I don’t know about that. I can definitely understand the desire to be dominant and the appeal of seeing someone give themselves up and trust you. I’d be a hypocrite if I judged them for that. Funny thing is she seems to hate men for doing exactly the same thing she does. Seems like she’s just jealous cuz she’s a woman and she can’t get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 11:34 PM
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I imagine it's a pretty common part of everyone's sexuality to be attracted to people in positions of power over them. Pretty much every man was attracted to their teachers when they were kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 06:27 AM
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huh. well that could be interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:53 AM
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A plastic cock isn't really necessary. I think that's kinda the point...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:53 AM
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Ha. Well played. You specifically I don't trust at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:18 AM
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yeah, I don't disagree. That's why we don't trust you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 03:41 AM
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Maybe. If not Mr. Big Dick, some other guy will come along that makes her feel the same way he did. I am by no means red pill in any way shape or form, but yeah based on this story it seems like she's settling and is missing something from the relationship. Something she'll eventually find elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:32 AM
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Because she's reluctantly choosing him. She's marrying him because he's a "good guy" and it's the prudent thing to do, not because she loves him. She's clearly not able to overlook the sex, if she was she wouldn't be thinking about it so much and venting about it to her friends. It's probably about more than just sex; passion, chemistry, emotional attachment, lust, whatever you want to call it. Plus in the end it doesn't really matter what he decides to do, their fate is sealed. If he has a shre…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:24 AM
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It seems to shit on women an awful lot, though, doesn’t it? Seems like it blames women for the decline of society, and at the same time gives men a free pass. When women participate in it, they’re the ones causing it. When men participate in it, well that’s fine because they have no responsibility to fix it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:18 PM
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I've watched a bunch of his videos, and I agree with you. To me the dude's corny as hell. Sometimes he wears suits that he looks good in, but other times he seems like some dude who's just trying way too hard to look mature and classy. It's not just his clothes, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:12 PM
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Pretty much sums up my thoughts on him. It's backed up by the fact that he's an "image consultant", and his whole philosophy seems to be that it doesn't matter who you are, it just matters what people perceive you to be. I mean I guess it worked for him, because people seem to think he's a suave, knowledgeable, high class dude. To me he just looks like a guy that's wearing a costume and is trying too hard
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:29 PM
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I think he's just as insecure and entitled as the women he complains about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:58 PM
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I guess my question is, what makes you think this has been completely flipped on its head in the younger generations? This third option you talk about where men are forced to adhere to the shitty parts of masculinity and get rid of all the good parts, is that based on people you know, and relationships you’ve seen in real life, or is it based on shit people say on the internet? I’m not young and I’m not in the dating game, so I don’t really know either. I just think things like that tend to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:55 PM
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ah Ok I was confused because you were using plural the whole time. But it's just because you were responding to someone talking about hypothetical "mono women". That makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 04:19 AM
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i dunno man... that kinda sounds like u/Snacksbreak is right. She dates rich guys who pay for everything, you date 8s or above that let you sleep around. I don't know you or your wife, but this relationship doesn't really sound as unique or amazing as you seem to think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 04:08 AM
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so are you building a life and developing joint goals with all your partners at the same time, not just your wife? I'm a little confused on your situation. I thought your wife was your wife and the other relationships were purely sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 03:49 AM
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well, you said you don't like paying for all of her expenses, and yet you do it anyway. So presumably you had a discussion about this, and she told you she wants you to pay for everything, and you compromised to make her happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 03:34 AM
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Looks exist on a gaussian curve? You're just assuming that. Find a reliable way to measure it and attribute numerical values to it and get back to me. I mean, look at this scale as an example. Do you think the difference between a 9.0 and a 5.5 is the same as the difference between a 5.5 and a 2.0? These scales are all stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 01:05 AM
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standard deviations and normal distribution only work when you have real data and real numbers to work with, though. here we're just trying to create a number scale to make sense of subjective traits. The difference between 7 and 8, and 8 and 9 can be whatever you want them to be, because you just made up the scale based on nothing and the numbers on the scale aren't real numbers, they're really just categories. If anyone thinks they can set up the categories so that there's equal "amounts of at…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 09:29 PM
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wait wait hold the phone. Are you saying Seth Rogen is better looking than your example? I think at that point you're not being objective at all, you're just saying you happen to be more attracted to Seth Rogen because he's your type. There's not a man alive on the planet who would rather look like Seth Rogen over the guy in your example.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 06:38 PM
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https://img.a.transfermarkt.technology/portrait/header/216464-1544775694.jpg?lm=1 https://img.a.transfermarkt.technology/portrait/header/423440-1601999671.jpg?lm=1 https://img.a.transfermarkt.technology/portrait/header/349066-1581072119.jpg?lm=1 ​ I looked at the roster pictures of a random soccer team and picked out a few guys I would call average. The 2nd guy is the best looking and the more I look at it he borders on above average, I would say. another example of an average looking guy is emi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 06:26 PM
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Yeah I dunno, to me this guy is way better looking than Seth Rogen. We’re not rating personality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 03:05 PM
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To me this guy is pretty good looking, it’s just kind of a bad picture. It’s kind of odd to me because you seem to kind of be saying the same thing. If he contorted his face for the photo he’d be good looking instead of average? If he was wearing cool glasses or had a 5 o clock shadow he wouldn’t be average anymore? I guess it just goes to show that people rate completely different things. When I rate people I do my best to rate their inherent facial features only, and try to factor out whether …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 03:03 PM
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I’m a guy and this list seems terrible to me. For one thing, why are they applying weird weighted statistics? Why is an 8.0 the top 0.134%? It makes the numbers completely useless, because basically 7-10 are all very attractive and it just becomes like splitting hairs trying to differentiate between them. Why not just do a regular 10= top 10%, 9=top 20%, 1 = bottom 10%, etc. That’s how I’ve always thought of the scale. Also, the ratings in general are skewed. This seems more ljke a rating of cel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:45 PM
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Oh six figures. Duh. Yeah that makes more sense thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 02:30 PM
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$60,000/yr?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 01:54 AM
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In my admittedly anecdotal experience, blue collar people and people in small towns marry much earlier and more often than college educated/big city people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 10:19 PM
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How long were you single for? I mean yeah it can be fun for a while, but when you start pushing 35-45 and you’ve been single for a long while shit starts getting real.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 10:13 PM
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What is 6-6-6? 6’ tall, 6” dick, and ??? 6-pack maybe I’m guessing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 10:08 PM
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Problem is you’re basing this on guys that go to night long parties at hedonistic clubs and feel reasonably comfortable there. Which is probably not a huge percentage, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 10:05 PM
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I don’t know FDS well enough to know what qualifies. All I know is, if a man suggests a bar date, and she vetoes it and suggests a pricey seafood restaurant and insists he pays, that’s bullshit. Especially for a first date. It’s normal for the man to pay when he invites her somewhere and she accepts, but not if she’s the one picking and choosing and deciding where to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 03:32 PM
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Suggesting an expensive seafood restaurant and demanding that the man pay isn’t really normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 11:16 AM
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They do what they do because of a conscious decision to not have a baby though, Not always. I mean, men love cumming inside of women. This survey could be about men who employ tactics to cum in women without a condom, or say they will pull out and then don't. They might consciously employ the tactics, but that doesn't mean they consciously are doing it because the want a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 03:20 AM
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our desires and appetites exist for biological and evolutionary reasons. Consciously people can do things just to satisfy the desire/appetite, or just to fulfill the biological obligation, or some combination of the two. Especially when it comes to sex, people don't usually do what they do because of a conscious decision to have a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 02:16 AM
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Your logic doesn’t make any sense. That’s like saying people that employ a tactic to get an extra slice from a pizza are intentionally and consciously trying to fuel their bodies. I mean, they could be I guess, but consciously they’re probably just trying to satisfy their desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 05:44 PM
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Yeah exactly. I don't like how this whole conversation is based on two options. A. Either he doesn't think about you that way and his motives are pure. or B. He just wants to fuck you and he's playing you and manipulating you. Really, are those the only two options? Maybe he is romantically interested and he's being friendly because he doesn't want to be an asshole about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 05:56 AM
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This doesn’t make sense. So why do religions preach marriage and monogamy? Because they care about women so much? Please
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:35 PM
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I don’t buy it. If you actually decentered men as an aspiration then you wouldn’t need to make them a utility. Outside of a few bits of practical advice like “make sure you are financial independent (which I think is great advice ) the whole thing seems based on finding a HVM, not finding happiness in staying single long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 03:25 PM
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The only reason most women don’t do this is because we’ve been brainwashed since birth to desire marriage against our own best interest. yeah, I think I agree with you on that. So then how come FDS seems to be all about landing a good man instead of dealing with your societal conditioning and finding happiness outside of marriage? Sounds like FDS is part of the brainwashing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 08:34 AM
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Honestly, I feel like TRP and FDS kind of prove each other's points. If all or most men/women thought this way, then those philosophies and strategies actually start to make sense. Which is kind of what scares me about them, because the more popular one becomes the more relevant the other becomes, and it becomes a feedback loop
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 08:14 AM
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so it sounds like you trust that if you give her space and don't put pressure on her, then she'll get horny and start having sex with you. red pill men don't trust that that will happen. they don't think she'll ever get horny (not for them, anyway)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 02:55 AM
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Yes, exactly. I think everyone wants to stir passion in their significant other, and they start feeling insecure about it if they're not sure that they are. Seems like women call this "feeling desired". I once read a post from a woman married to a bisexual man, and she was talking about how she was worried that her husband just married her to fulfill the traditional "house with white picket fence" dream, but that she was never going to be the object of his sexual desires because they were focuse…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 02:08 AM
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I think everyone is pretty fragile about their self worth. It's not like men don't ever get emotional when they get rejected by a woman and start calling them ugly bitches or whatever. I also find it pretty hard to fault women for being wary of guys that seem like they like them TOO much and think those guys are clingy or obsessive. That's normal, because it's kind of a weird dynamic to be in a relationship when you know the other person cares way more about you than you do about them. But I do …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 01:56 AM
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I'm not sure I follow your logic. If you let her know you think of her as a human fleshlight, then she'll KNOW you don't give a shit about her. Isn't that your whole strategy? So you need to tell her ASAP before she starts to think you care about her
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 01:12 AM
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people can leave for a lot of reasons. How do you know their plan from the beginning was to manipulate you and leave you just so they could feel powerful?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 11:36 PM
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And the only way to feel powerful is manipulating them into agreeing to sex when you know you are just gonna leave them after. this is how unhealthy male sexuality works
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 11:16 PM
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hmm and does your "human fleshlight" know you think of her that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 11:10 PM
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looking at their post history, I don't think this is a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 01:41 AM
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(they threaten your friends to not talk to you, isolate you from others, need to know where you are every waking moment) this isn't too clingy, this is straight up abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 01:35 AM
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Having a workout routine and good eating habits shows morals. good morals? I don't think so. discipline maybe, or it shows you're schedule driven it can also show insecurity and vanity
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 01:08 AM
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is this a bluepill thing? Cuz it sounds exactly like the female version of redpill "N count" nonsense. If women are stigmatizing promiscuous men, why shouldn't men stigmatize promiscuous women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 01:04 AM
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I don't disagree. Thing is though, any positive change that this movement helps bring about is going to help everyone, white men included. But if the focus of the movement were to shift to include white men, then that might not be the case. Some of the positive changes not help black men. so for that reason I'm totally fine with race being the focus, especially because black men are by far the most affected
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/20 05:41 AM
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The HVM exhibits the mate guarding instinct; however, he does not force monogamy on a woman - he will wait until she is sure that his offer of commitment is a good idea. These men LOVE competition and understand that a woman can entertain multiple suitors until commitment is established. Instead of being offended that she doesn't zero in on him in the early dating stages, he takes this as an opportunity to show her why he is the best. I'm pretty sure this is just the plot to Twilight. He gets je…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 01:40 AM
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OK... so what does a healthy relationship look like from a woman's point of view? I'm just going by what you're telling me, buddy. That was my original question and you just kept saying "nah we don't care about that"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 12:03 AM
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you don't think understanding how women view things should be part of a sexual strategy for men? this point. Even if you don't think women are trustworthy or reliable, then you could still look at their actions to try to understand them. It's just bizarre to me that a community that is supposedly all about helping men have sex with women wouldn't consider what women look for in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 11:31 PM
5

So what? I didn't say you had to ask women and take everything they say as gospel.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 11:16 PM
4

you don't think understanding how women view things should be part of a sexual strategy for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 11:02 PM
1

So the definition of a High Value Women is a woman who knows her worth and treats herself well. The definition of a High Value Man is man who knows the woman's worth and treats the woman well. ​ I guess that pretty much sums up FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 10:54 PM
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If they truly valued themselves, they'd start with themselves: exercising, dressing better, learning things men like, adopting a better attitude, flirting and hanging around places high value men hang around. I don't think that really makes sense for them. Their problem isn't that they can't attract the right men. Their problem is they can't separate the wheat from the chaff and filter out the shitty men. There's no point attracting high value men if you can't tell them apart from the other ones…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 10:19 PM
1

I don't know about all that. I can assure you that as a young man I did not feel like dating and relationships was a free-for-all where even if I knew nothing about girls that everything would be just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 09:47 PM
12

I don't know much about redpill, but it makes me wonder what they consider a healthy relationship looks like from a woman's point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 09:35 PM
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I dunno, that’s not the impression I got out of it. To me it seems ljke she was always looking for the wholesome guy but she feels like she was forced into the “mommy mcbangmaid” role. And now she’d just rather be single than deal with relationships like that anymore. I guess there’s no way to tell how fairly she’s judging her past relationships, but on the surface this all seems pretty self aware and healthy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 08:23 PM
3

Yeah I was thinking the same thing. You can’t just be using nerdy “boyfriends” in place of platonic friendship. This is the last thing borderline redpillers need to be hearing.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/20 04:32 PM
18

NOOOOOOOOOO don't bring up therapy. She should just stay away from this dude, he's verbally abusive.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/20 01:36 AM
1

it really depends how that woman went about it and how she treated those men. If she was famous, and she was actively searching through social media to find young guys that were her fans, then I'd say that's kind of predatory and fucked up. Which is exactly what D'elia was doing, I think. Not saying it's rape and he should be locked up, but it's fine to call him out on it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/20 02:16 AM
7

I don't know. I looked it up, and it seems femicidio kind of refers to women and girls being killed just because they're female. We don't use that term in the US, but I guess the closest thing we have is like a hate crime against women. So I would say by that definition 100% of femicide victims are female, right?
/r/MensRights06/03/20 09:13 PM
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no, you misread the article. It says that women want men that earn 55% more than what men actually make, not that women want men that make 55% more than they themselves do. According to the study, the kind of men that single women likely would marry, if they married—i.e., the "synthetic spouses"—were not only 26 percent more likely to hold a job, and more highly educated, but they also had nearly a 55 percent higher income than what the available men in the U.S. actually make. In other words, fr…
/r/MensRights06/03/20 08:57 PM
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does "femicide" refer specifically to domestic and intimate partner violence? If so, that probably explains why they're saying more women die than men.
/r/MensRights06/03/20 08:42 PM
1

If a man thinks he's a Brad and believes he deserves to be treated like a Chad so he can feel good about himself, that's just insecurity talking. They can call it what they want, but it's not that complicated. They're basically admitting that they only want to do these things because they think they deserve them and they're entitled to them. It's fine to feel insecure, but if they are demanding other people (like their girlfriend) do things for them (like letting them fuck them in the ass) just …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 04:00 PM
1

idk he could just walk away (which he did now). I don't think he did walk away, did he? As far as I know, she went public a couple times saying he abused her, and she divorced him and filed a restraining order against him, and she ended up getting $7 million from him in the divorce settlement. He defended himself by saying she lied about it and filed a defamation suit. So this isn't him walking away, this is her following through on her abusive threats. She always made it clear to him that if sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 07:45 PM
1

How do you know he'll one day become your husband? Has he proposed? Are you planning a wedding? If I were you I wouldn't listen to random people on the internet but... you sound a little naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 04:53 PM
1

what is UMC?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 06:52 PM
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I dunno, that article seems pretty sympathetic
/r/MensRights13/02/20 12:03 AM
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yeah I agree. It isn't reasonable to ask someone to stay in a sexless committed relationship for that long without giving a good reason. If she doesn't give any reason and she just keeps putting it off, then I'm just going to assume she isn't attracted to me and the relationship is a lost cause. If she tells me it's because she makes all men wait 6 months because men should be willing to wait if they really like her, then no thanks. I'm gone. If she gives me an emotionally mature explanation abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 01:55 AM
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If a woman tells a man that she wants to wait until she’s in love with him and he’s in love with her, then she gets him to do all of the things that a good boyfriend should be doing for a girlfriend. If he doesn’t want to do those things, then he thinks that sex is more important than love and that’s probably not the type of guy that she should be with. maybe he thinks sex is more important than love... More likely though, he doesn't like the idea of being manipulated into doing things, and does…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 01:28 AM
2

well, there's something to that idea, yeah. If you're a woman that prioritizes loyalty and gets jealous easily and insecure about guys cheating on you, then don't go for the guys with swag that have managed to woo you and make you swoon over the course of one night. They've made you feel that way, so don't be surprised when they make other women feel that way in the future. Go for the wallflowers that tend to mind their own business and don't talk a good game. But that's not really what these pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 06:59 PM
1

I want a woman around my age which can keep up with me mentally, which knows what the word 'loyality' really means I don't usually nitpick for grammar, especially when it's probably just a typo, but this is pretty hilarious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/20 03:54 AM
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it's weird to me that everyone's main concern is the "cock carousel". HOW THE FUCK IS SHE SUPPORTING HERSELF AND THREE KIDS WITH NO JOB? That's the huge red flag here. 3 kids, no job, and is single. To me, there's no such thing as a "single housekeeper". Sorry, but that's just "unemployed". If she were recently divorced that would be one thing, but she would've mentioned that. This woman is just desperate to find a man to pay for everything. Good luck with that. I mean, I can can envision a lot …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/20 03:46 AM
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exactly what I was thinking. They aren't buying gifts and being over-the-top nice to their boyfriends because they care about them so much , they're doing it because they're insecure and they're fishing for a specific reaction from these guys. If they don't get that reaction, their "super sweet nice girl" mask falls off and suddenly she's crying and yelling about how he's an asshole that doesn't appreciate her. It's exactly like a nice guy, except the "nice guys" get angry and lash out, while th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 03:18 AM
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why have SO many of my sweet, “innocent” friends gotten cheated on? Treated like shit and abused? One of my friends bought her boyfriend a new gift each week (for his birthday, an entire TRUCK) only for him to fuck a well-known disgusting slut in their bed. Another one of my friends treated her man like a king (putting him way above herself) and STILL cries about him saying vile shit to her. This is going to sound harsh, but... I hate to say this, but some people are just asking to be abused and…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 03:03 AM
4

So you're telling women to pick a man that they think no other woman would possibly think of sleeping with? This is the dumbest advice I've ever heard. But we all know women hate that. well... yeah of course they hate that. If they didn't hate that, then those men would have options and your whole plan would fall apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 02:20 AM
2

you're confused because her scale is fucking trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 02:27 AM
1

I don't know what any of these becky/stacy terms mean. Is this scale meant to go from unattractive to more attractive, or what? If so, you're all fuckin crazy and this scale is terrible. It's just 90% based on makeup and duck faces. "MacKenzie" is beautiful. Aside from "Bertha", none of these women are in a category that most men would think they're "settling" for them in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 02:19 AM
4

I remember one woman commented that i had a nicer watch than her... The envy was not attractive. you sure she was actually envious? Maybe it was just a joke or she was trying to lighten the mood or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 12:11 AM
1

I don't know, I think I would describe Jack Black as having "stringy hair and unkempt appearance", so it seems a bit odd that's your celebrity crush
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 11:47 PM
2

Personally I would say the same if it were men doing it to a woman driver. Not assault. You might be right though, society could definitely look at harsher light if it were guys doing it to a girl driver. I'm sure a lot of people would argue it's sexual assault
/r/MensRights15/07/19 06:56 PM
1

Yes. If it were flipped and it was a female driver and it two drunk frat boy passengers, I would say it's harassment but not assault. The only touching they do is leaning in close and kind of kissing his cheek, right? I don't think that's assault. If they were running their hands up and down his legs and grabbing his dick through his pants, then I would say that would be assault.
/r/MensRights15/07/19 06:44 PM
1

If anything, it's more that she's been taught to think that way by the current state of society, which is ruled by Feminist ideology more often than not. That's what you said. It sounds like you're describing how expectations are being put on men to be emotionless and stoic by feminist ideology. But then you say that men being stoic is a positive archetypal force and part of traditional masculinity, and it's being destroyed by feminists. It seems inconsistent, I don't get it. In tribal societies…
/r/MensRights15/07/19 11:50 AM
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A lot of them are based on biological realities. We could argue all day long about the degree to which all the gender roles are based on biology. You said she's been taught to think that men are that way by certain aspects of our society. That's a gender role. You can call it whatever you want, but according to the definition the rest of the world uses it's a gender role.
/r/MensRights15/07/19 10:29 AM
0

yeah I don't see the problem. I mean, if men are consistently having to wait to go and women aren't, then yeah I'd be pissed if they didn't change it. But otherwise, who cares?
/r/MensRights15/07/19 09:36 AM
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Gender roles aren't natural (aka biological). They are, by definition, societal constructs.
/r/MensRights15/07/19 09:18 AM
-1

Well, these women are bitches and so are their friends. And even they probably know it's trashy and not positive on some level. They know it's wrong but they do it anyway, because they're drunk and they're trying to be cool and edgy and risque. Do you think if their family or coworkers saw this video, they'd approve of it? That they'd encourage the girls for expressing themselves and being fierce? The only people that see the truth and recognize this as disgusting behavior is you and your small …
/r/MensRights15/07/19 01:18 AM
0

​ So you don't see the problem with that, at all? I had no doubts you'd think that, but fucking hell I have a huge problem with them falsely accusing him of rape. Do I see a problem that there's a chance of it happening? You want me to be outraged about something that hasn't happened, but could? I'm not sure what that's supposed to mean. You want me to be upset about every single thing these three people could possibly do to each other, but haven't done? ​ They don't seem that distresses by him …
/r/MensRights15/07/19 12:19 AM
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"No one considers this positive, empowering behavior" Yeah, tell that to feminists I really don't think any feminists would say this is positive behavior. They would probably say this has nothing to do with gender, and say it's all about white privilege, and paint this as two white people harassing an immigrant person of color. Or they might just say this is two drunk, shitty people behaving shittily. I think you'd have a hard time finding anyone endorsing this behavior
/r/MensRights14/07/19 09:15 PM
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There's a chance of it, sure. So what? Do you think these women are emboldened by the fact that they can falsely accuse him of sexual crimes, and that's partly why they're doing this? Maybe. If you want to make that claim then make it. It's a perfectly reasonable claim to make, even if I don't agree with it. Do you think the reason this man isn't reacting is because he's afraid the women might falsely accuse him of sexual crimes? That's a reasonable claim to make I guess, but I don't see it. I t…
/r/MensRights14/07/19 09:08 PM
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I'm not saying it never happens that woman falsely accuse men of sexual assault or rape. I'm just questioning why he's assuming these women are going to do it if he "reacts". Not sure what that assumption is based on ​ I'm not a female, by the way
/r/MensRights14/07/19 08:17 PM
1

agreed. I'd definitely like to see Uber ban them. Uber should be doing that just to protect it's drivers. If I were Uber and I saw this I would ban them, or at least just the woman in the front that's actually doing it all. edit: also the other woman. At the beginning you can clearly see they're both in on it ​ Sexual assault seems like a bit of a stretch to me in this case.
/r/MensRights14/07/19 08:10 PM
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I'm not saying that doesn't happen. I just don't understand why that's getting applied to this situation. Please explain to me how the fact that sometimes women exaggerate or falsely accuse men of sex crimes has any bearing on this situation at all.
/r/MensRights14/07/19 07:45 PM
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I sort of agree with you. I don't think she's necessarily a bad person for wanting to break up with him after that. The problem is her reasoning for it and her complete lack of self-awareness. If her post had said... "I've been seeing this guy because he's really attractive and it's an uncomplicated relationship. Recently after a discussion in the bedroom he broke down and started crying and told me he was raped as a child and he still has some issues he's working through. I don't think I'm real…
/r/MensRights14/07/19 07:21 PM
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Of course anyone can be toxic, but there are specific ways that people behave in a toxic way that has a lot to do with gender. In this case, the guy is getting shitty treatment because he's a man and appears masculine.
/r/MensRights14/07/19 06:40 PM
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That woman in the post has a certain view of what she thinks a man should be, When he reveals that he's been hurt in the past and is vulnerable and has insecurities (ie a regular human being) she is uncomfortable being around him and wants to leave him. The reason she has that unrealistic expectation is because of gender roles. I don't think it makes sense to just say "some people are assholes" and completely ignore when there's a gendered aspect to it.
/r/MensRights14/07/19 06:34 PM
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That's messed up that she would do that to you. She's a bully and that's sexual harassment . Sorry you had to deal with that
/r/MensRights14/07/19 06:17 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about? Literally no one will think that.
/r/MensRights14/07/19 06:14 PM
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What are you talking about? No one considers this positive, empowering behavior. This is posted on r/trashy. Everyone considers it to be trashy, harassing behavior. ​ If he told them to fuck off, or stopped the car and kicked them out, what makes you think he would be accused of sexual harassment and rape? Not sure where you pulled that idea from. ​ I can't believe this retarded post got this many upvotes
/r/MensRights14/07/19 06:09 PM
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group text? that is some cold heartless shit right there. ​ could've copied and pasted
/r/MGTOW17/05/19 05:47 AM
1

that's a fair point I guess. She could have just said that instead. Maybe she overshared ​ I still don't agree that you should expect to "get burned" though. I don't know, I don't use Tinder so I don't know what it's like but it seems weird that you'd expect someone to make a joke about your dead boyfriend. Maybe she's lying, maybe she's just looking for sympathy, but I think she's just being upfront about her baggage and to weed out guys looking for a quick hook up. Maybe I'm naive. ​ also her …
/r/MGTOW17/05/19 05:30 AM
1

I couldn't tell what the recording showed from the article. It just says "he claimed" this and "he alleges" that and and at some point he made a half hour recording. It doesn't say what's in the recording though, or even that it backs up what he claims.
/r/MGTOW17/05/19 05:13 AM
1

yes that's better. but I kind of disagree with your use of the word rape. I don't think anyone is claiming they were raped, are they? Sexual assault maybe also it seems pretty presumptuous. He is claiming she assaulted him, but we're not sure what actually happened. It's basically his word against hers (unless that video actually captures a crime being committed) which is the same story with basically every rape and sexual assault accusation. ​ anyway I agree with your point that it's bullshit t…
/r/MGTOW17/05/19 01:57 AM
2

He asked her why she was using Tinder. It's totally reasonable of her to say her last relationship ended because her boyfriend died and now she's back on the dating scene. That way he knows what to expect. If she just said "dating" it would seem like she's just looking to fuck. Also, she's not "airing it online" it's private messaging between two people. Someone took a screenshot and posted it online
/r/MGTOW17/05/19 01:19 AM
2

It's true that men can just leave and women can't. I mean, she's not wrong about that. I've had a one night stand before, and I didn't have to deal with any possible pregnancy related consequences because I was gone the next day and she didn't know my full name. Maybe she never got pregnant. Maybe she got pregnant and had an abortion. Maybe she got pregnant and miscarried. Maybe she got pregnant and had the baby. I don't know, but she definitely knows. It's weird to say that's the "epitome of se…
/r/MGTOW17/05/19 01:07 AM
-1

I'm not sure why you're so angry about this. I've never been anywhere that celebrates being fat over being fit. Is this really a problem? Where do you live?
/r/MGTOW16/05/19 11:51 PM
1

"Woman rapes boy" That's a strange way to describe it, considering they were apparently about the same age.
/r/MGTOW16/05/19 11:40 PM
2

i meant hollywood to mean mainstream american movies from the big production studios, not just action movies
/r/MensRights22/04/19 06:32 PM
1

I'll preface this by saying I really pretty ignorant on trans issues, but... THREE years old? Really. At that age they have so little life experience and their brains still have a lot of developing to do, I would be hard pressed to take anything they say seriously. "I'm a girl." I'm a boy" I'm superman" I'm a firetruck" . I think the correct response is to say "mmmhmmm that's great" and see what they the next day. They way Theron describes it, the kid just said one day "I'm not a boy" when they …
/r/MensRights22/04/19 05:00 PM
2

That bouncer is a hero. That elbow was savage. It's a little unfair to expect her to do much more than she did, though. She's standing right in front of the gunman, he sees her the whole time, so not much she can do. At least she recognizes the threat and warns other people. Her yelling is it what tipped the bouncer off and gave him time. The bouncer is in an ideal spot, right behind the corner where the gunman can't see him. Did anyone get shot? Looks like the gun goes off Edit: also what do yo…
/r/MensRights22/04/19 04:01 PM
0

was she a street ho or a stripper? I don't really see those as the same thing anyway I agree with you, this outrage seems a little overblown. I'm not sure a man isn't allowed to get away with similar stuff in their past. Plenty of rappers who have sold drugs, robbed people, even killed people and really it just gives them street cred. I do think it's true that if a man did this exact thing (drugged women and robbed them) that he'd get more flak than she got. That's because anything that is relat…
/r/MensRights22/04/19 03:49 PM
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I don't really have a problem with those tests. I like the idea of trying to apply quantitative tests to abstract ideas like bias in popular culture. The bechdel test in particularly made me notice things and re-evaluate complaints I might've otherwise just rolled my eyes at. There really is a dearth of female characters in hollywood movies, people. Well, there used to be, anyway. ​ Some of these seem like a stretch though. "The Anti-freeze" in particular seems stupid. Why should any character b…
/r/MensRights22/04/19 01:41 PM
2

from a seperate aticle they quote the judge who handed down the sentence. ​ The rear wheel went over his “full body, full head,” Judge Curt Benson, who watched a video of the incident, said, according to MLive.com. “It is simply inexcusable,” he said. However, Benson said that he did not want to add to the boy’s suffering by taking his mother away for a significant amount of time. “He’s still your little boy and he still loves his mother," he added. The boy, who still requires treatment, suffere…
/r/MensRights22/04/19 12:44 PM
1

https://slate.com/human-interest/2014/04/male-rape-in-america-a-new-study-reveals-that-men-are-sexually-assaulted-almost-as-often-as-women.html ​ here's an article from slate using much the same data and looks like they link the sources. guy up above posted it
/r/MensRights22/04/19 12:22 PM
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