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aphroditespearl/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:46 AM
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Women pay more for their looks and spend more time getting ready
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:47 AM
2

What about blowjobs? You know you can get STDs in your mouth right…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:45 AM
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If he claimed to be Messi it is rape. Imagine twin brother fucks your wife because he pretended to be you, is that not rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:43 AM
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I always offer but most refuse to let me pay AND don’t even ask to have sex with me. This sub makes it seem like all men are trash, I’m glad I took a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:40 AM
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I think I might’ve grown up in a fucked up area lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:27 PM
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I find it funny when men say we’re trying so hard to be oppressed by just stating facts. They’re the ones DENYING facts because they want to be more oppressed than us soooo bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:16 AM
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Id love to see actually! Thank you. I’m definitely open to changing my mind and I know quite a few men who have been through sexual assault. However, in my personal experience in talking to people it seems to happen to women more often and more violently. The statistics I have seen seem to prove that as well but I’d love to see some that state otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:12 AM
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It’s not rare at all. And whether or not it happens on tinder or in a relationship still means it’s happening while dating. And it has A LOT to do with the dating process for many reasons. Scared to go on dates, having ptsd issues come up while trying to date even a good guy, having to take extra precautions, etc… it’s definitely easier for women to find a guy but the quality of the guy can be dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:09 AM
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Do you honestly think that men get sexually abused more than women? Like really? I know they do and I know they don’t report it as much but come on, the difference in numbers is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:03 AM
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In my opinion, the risk of not finding someone who likes you is a lot less scary than finding someone who will rape or abuse you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:57 AM
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I linked quite a few studies in another comment! If you’re too lazy to scroll, I can provide them here too (:
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:55 AM
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https://time.com/6256395/dating-app-safety-tips/#:~:text=A%202019%20ProPublica%20report%20found,through%20an%20online%20dating%20platform. https://www.refinery29.com/en-gb/dating-apps-sexual-assault-stats-2022 https://www.vice.com/en/article/wjapkw/online-dating-rape-reports-rise-450-percent-in-five-years Here’s more though!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:54 AM
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You did not read them thoroughly. There’s sections in a few of them that talk about how often date rape and even rape within relationships happen to women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:50 AM
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I linked studies on another comment showing how big the difference is of female offenders vs male offenders. Of course it can happen to anyone it just happens to attractive young females the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:48 AM
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Did you read any of the studies I linked? It’s also just common sense, would you rather have sex with an attractive woman or an ugly woman? Attractive women are more sought after sexually, you guys say this all the time on this sub. Of course people also rape easy victims as well but sexual harassment overall, even “just” getting groped at a club or on a subway, happens more to women the man finds sexually appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:41 AM
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Women have higher risks in dating, especially online. Men fear a woman will reject them and women fear men will kill or rape them. This makes us more selective with the men we go out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:40 AM
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He made a typo and I have no idea what he’s trying to say. It’s not a cop out. I listed several studies that show that attractive women are most likely to be sexually abused. If that makes you angry because you don’t want to believe it instead of angry that the world is like that, then you have problems my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:39 AM
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You said “more likely” not “only”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:33 AM
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I don’t know what you’re trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:32 AM
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Not only, but way more! I edited it to add another study about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:25 AM
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https://www.who.int/news/item/09-03-2021-devastatingly-pervasive-1-in-3-women-globally-experience-violence https://www.rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violence#:~:text=Women%20and%20Girls%20Experience%20Sexual%20Violence%20at%20High%20Rates&text=Young%20women%20are%20especially%20at,adult%20rape%20victims%20are%20female.&text=Females%20ages%2016%2D19%20are,attempted%20rape%2C%20or%20sexual%20assault. https://www.livescience.com/37024-sex-assault-young-attractive.html http://hrlibrary.umn.edu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:09 AM
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I see what you’re trying to say. And I think if we take away bad things happening outside of their control women could definitely have it easier. However, like you said, bad things happen to everyone. It’s part of life. The fact that the type and amount of times bad things that happen to women is usually far more impacting than what happens to men makes life harder for them in my opinion. I really don’t see how this is off topic but agree to disagree. Thanks for sharing your view!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:14 AM
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Sleeping with a man who is using you for sex and that you’re not attracted to isn’t ideal. Especially if ever since you were a little girl you wanted “true love”. It’s also not that easy. Being a sugar baby is very dangerous and there are many vídeos girls make about it if you’d like to research! Finding a rich man who you love and find attractive and doesn’t make you clean or have children is VERY rare even for extremely attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:08 AM
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You literally said the only way to fuck up is if you do it on purpose? The post is about who has it harder in life. Obviously the person who’s been through extreme trauma will have it harder than the person who’s parents got divorced. Being the main target for evil people does make life harder. Being oppressed makes your life harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:02 AM
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So you think attractive women don’t go through anything tough? In my personal experience talking to attractive men and women, women’s worse trauma will be something crazy like being gang raped at 14 and drugged and raped twice in college while guys say their first girlfriend cheating on them and their parents divorce fucked them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:55 AM
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I don’t think I’ve personally met any attractive women who don’t work at all. Except the ones who had to bear children and take care of them and the home which I consider work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:51 AM
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I feel like attractive women are more likely to be sexually abused on dates and just used for sex though which makes it harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:49 AM
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What does tutorial mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:48 AM
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I feel like it could get our rape numbers down so I’m cool with it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:43 AM
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Well women tend to lie about NOT doing this and here you have women telling you that they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:57 PM
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Idk what you’re opinion of average so idk how to answer that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:57 PM
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Right? He says he doesn’t know anyone who has but then says he does he just doesn’t believe them??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:14 AM
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I met the guy I’m with now on cinco at a Mexican bar lol. My friend thought he was cute and wanted me to help her talk to him but then we ended up hitting it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:09 AM
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As a girl who casually hooks up it definitely happens. A lot of my girlfriends go home with guys from bars too. You and your friends might just not be attractive to girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:06 AM
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Where do you live? I’m in a college town and the girls here are so aggressive, even when the guy says he isn’t down they’ll still try to get him in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:59 AM
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The guy in my bed I met at the bar last night would tell you otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:57 AM
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Lmao I just started talking to another guy and he grabbed me real quick. I honestly didn’t mind him being nice and talking to them for a bit but if it took any longer than it did I probably would’ve been annoyed. Same night a girl started trying to dance on him and he put his hands up and kinda just backed up. I think it’s fine to be nice until they cross a line.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:41 AM
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This isn’t an uncommon amount of stories for a woman. I’m from a suburb in California and I have insane stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:33 AM
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I only have fear of men when the situation calls for it. In a crowded Starbucks, in a nice suburb, broad daylight, I’m fine. Walking home from my bartending job in a big city when my uniform is considered sexy? Yeah I’m fucking terrified.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:24 AM
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Idk. I wear way cuter stuff when I’m doing girls night in because I know they’ll appreciate it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:27 AM
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I go up and talk to whoever I think is attractive and has attractive friends for my friends
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:19 AM
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I’ll be out obviously WITH my man and girls will cut in between us to try to talk to him, or wait till I talk to one of our friends to talk to him KNOWING he has a girlfriend. These girls are getting aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:18 AM
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I’ve been through A LOT and people consider me pretty emotionally unavailable. I just absolutely couldn’t stand the first guy when I was around him. The only reason I somewhat liked him is because I felt bad that he got sucked into this redpill shit and saw little glimpses of him being a good person underneath it all. I realized it’s not my job to help him and that I’m the one who needs help if anything. I considered being friends with him still but honestly being around him gave me such a gross…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:38 PM
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Girls are just as down for meaningless hook ups as guys. Being attractive alone with the help of alcohol definitely is enough to get you laid. Guys hook up with annoying girls just because they’re hot all the time. Point is, if he wasnt as attractive as he is it wouldn’t work and if he didn’t do this redpill shit he’d get wayyy more girls and higher quality ones. He would have to move to a different city and rethink his strategy if he wanted a relationship, absolutely no girl here would consider…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:15 PM
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He wants a relationship. The only reason girls hook up with him is because he’s attractive and gets them drunk. Nobody likes him after talking to him and he’d get to hook up with way more girls if he wasn’t like this. I’ve met a few girls who’ve gone on dates with him and said they thought he was really cute until he started talking. We live in a town where everyone knows each other and girls warn each other about him. He mostly hooks up with tourists who haven’t been warned and just want a vaca…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:53 PM
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I feel like I’m pretty emotionally broken honestly. But if im faced with 2 attractive men obviously im gunna chose the one who makes me feel special not the one trying to pretend im just another bitch to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:38 PM
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He didn’t ignore me at all. He gave me just enough for me to like him but not enough for me to know if he liked me back. He kind of tried to be an asshole too and it was annoying. He’s probably one of the best looking guys I’ve ever seen and I know he hooks up with girls they just never go back for seconds. Also he’s not gen Z he’s a couple years older than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:36 PM
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Meh I’m very upfront and give everything away for free very fast and they still offer me commitment. If you vibe you vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:18 AM
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I’m gen Z and recently went on 2 dates with 2 different guys. One of them was playing hard to get so I genuinely didn’t think he was interested even tho I really liked him, the other was very obvious about being interested. I obviously chose the one who I knew was interested right off the bat and now the one who tried to red pill me is pissed and blowing up my phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:14 AM
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Just kiss bro
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:01 AM
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I’m a woman who lifts to be attractive to guys and I admit it lol. I think it’s funny to be that open with people and so far nobody has reacted poorly to it. Also, every red pill man I know in real life is diagnosed autistic. I totally understand why they gravitate towards it and I feel really bad for them. My brother is one and he used to actually have girl friends and date very nice girls because my best friend and I would give him advice. Idk why once we all grew up and moved to different sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:54 AM
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I’ve never been asked my body count in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:46 AM
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Sometimes it’s not an asshole thing or “addicted to drama” thing. I just can’t date someone who hasn’t been through anything when I have been through a lot. A lot of good men are good because the worst thing that’s happened to them was their dog dying. If that’s the worst thing they’ve been through there’s no way in hell they’re going to be able to deal with me. I try to find the rare guys that have been through shit but are still good people though. I just connect more with people who had a sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:44 AM
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I’m making the point that your one example does not equal “men have it harder than women”. The reason women are more unsuccessful in suicide attempts is because they are more worried about how someone finding them is going to affect that person. They are more likely to take pills than to shoot themselves because they are worried about their loved ones reactions to finding them dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:54 PM
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Ahhh so every FTM ends up killing themselves? I had no idea…. In my experience I saw more MTF in the psych ward for attempts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:19 PM
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People with options usually just date who they like
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:15 AM
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Can you read like at all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:11 PM
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You guys really don’t talk to people in real life huh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:04 PM
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Because they give of feminine vibes of a nurturing spirit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:31 AM
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Sometimes u just don’t give man. Don’t let it carry on to your next date. If you do that then it’s your fault it didn’t work and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:27 AM
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The main post said “you go on a date and the girl puts no effort and nothing comes of it” im talking about first few dates not someone being your actual girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:58 AM
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You’re seeing women’s lack of interest or lack of comparability with you as a lack of effort. If someone’s not interested in you move on and don’t carry that energy into a date with someone new.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:46 AM
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You just keep constantly missing my point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:42 AM
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This isn’t a man vs woman thing. If she’s trying her best but the vibes aren’t there of course she’s gunna seem boring. If you’re not trying your best then that’s obviously a recognized flaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:40 AM
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A flaw in your eyes could be a match in someone else’s tho. Don’t shame people just because they don’t mesh well with you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:32 AM
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Im not a single older mom lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:52 AM
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That’s literally all they do and it’s not enough. Please floss and clean your fucking finger nails. The amount of people I’ve been on dates with with bad breath and dirty finger nails is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:43 AM
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What is the root of the problem? You can’t change other people you can only work on yourself. Taking a break is completely fine and should be encouraged if you feel this way. Why do you think because I’m a woman I don’t initiate??? You really need to stop looking at so much redpill content if you REALLY think women don’t initiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:41 AM
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Yeah and men don’t do that. It’s gross so of course we’re not interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:38 AM
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That’s on you bro. What if the 10th girl was the one and she didn’t like you because of the low effort? The other girls just simply did not like you. Idk why you guys take it so personally, sometimes people just don’t vibe and that’s ok. I’ve been randomly ghosted a million times in my life and it never makes me want to put in no effort? I feel like with anything in life you should try your best or accept that the results may not be what you ideally wanted. Don’t go on dates if you’re feeling bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:34 AM
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A lot of men show up with bed head and haven’t flossed since they were 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:27 AM
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You need to get offline and look at the real world around you tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:26 AM
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Like I said. If they don’t have a good personality it’s pretty rare to just randomly develop one. Some men don’t care about personality and just want a hot trophy wife. Leave those girls to them and move on. I honestly don’t think most the men I meet have a personality either but that doesn’t make me think it’s all men that are like that and all men need to step up. Maybe they do have a personality and it’s just not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:25 AM
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I don’t wanna give out my location but it’s a big city where it’s pretty hot chill surfer vibes year round if that helps
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:22 AM
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So they are showing up just rolled out of bed? That’s crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:16 AM
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Eh idk. Most redpill guys yeah but it’s extremely common nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:14 AM
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You can’t make an effort to show what you don’t have. Dating is trial and error. How would you feel if all these girls made you stop putting in effort, then you go on a date with an amazing girl, and she doesn’t hit you back up because you put in zero effort? The only person you hurt here is yourself. I feel like you should try your best at everything when you can, if you don’t try your best then why are you expected great results?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:11 AM
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This is literally what guys have said to me man. Not all men think the same. Some men actually prefer to date a single mom. I think that’s the biggest thing about this whole red pill thing that fails. They assume all men think the same. I know I’m on Reddit so this may be hard to believe, but I’m very social in the real world and MOST men don’t think like these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:04 AM
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Omg I was arguing with u on a different post in this sub earlier! How ya doin man? And I don’t date girls so I have no idea what that experience is like but I have just moved to a new city and have been doing bumble BFF to make friends. Most girls I’ve met are super interesting and great at keeping conversation when we have a good vibe off the bat and have similar hobbies. Maybe you guys just don’t vibe? I consider myself a great conversationalist, I can keep a conversation going with the driest…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:00 AM
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The guys who’ve said this to me compared it to when girls like a guy more when he has a hot girlfriend. Women see it as “omg he’s boyfriend material and he’ll be as sweet with me as he is with her”. While guys with moms see “wow she’s so nurturing and feminine, if she can love and care for them unconditionally she can love and care for me/our own kids the same”. I’m not saying I believe this it’s just what a few of my guy friends were agreeing on the other night
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:56 AM
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All you gotta do is be the one to plan the date. I’ve had guys come up with insanely high effort dates for the first date and it kinda freaked me out so I said no. But I also hate when they say “what do u wanna do?” Or “just come to mine/lemme come over and we’ll figure it out from there”. Just stick with a simple “hey I really wanna check out this new spot Friday night wanna go?” And make sure your hygiene is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:50 AM
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Are they showing up with no makeup bad breath and sweatpants or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:46 AM
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“Men won’t want you when you’re an old single mom” I’ve had so many men admit to me that they find moms the most attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:02 AM
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The parent comment? “Well they better learn. That’s their job” referring to girls keeping their legs closed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:21 AM
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So why is it bad if the girl tries to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:12 AM
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This just boosted my ego so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:22 PM
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Exactly. I started seeing all this dating advice pop up on my tiktok and decided to try it out. These tricks failed SO miserably. Most people I know who have trouble dating have so many “rules” while the people I know with basically no rules for dating have the best relationships. Congrats on your hopefully soon to be engagement btw!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:21 PM
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Girls like sex too?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:06 PM
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I’ve never been pumped and dumped. I slept with both my exs first night and I’ve been seeing this guy I fucked first night for a couple weeks now. If the vibes are there the vibes are there. No need to trick anyone into taking you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:04 PM
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Not really… they’ll just fuck other girls until you say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 09:39 PM
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What if I’m horny too tf
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 09:35 PM
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If a guy wants to “pump and dump” they’re going to do it regardless. If there’s a connection there it doesn’t matter how long you wait. You shouldn’t try to “trick” people into liking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 09:29 PM
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Then why does the dude always try to fuck on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 09:26 PM
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Based on the makeup pallet you sent me. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:55 PM
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I changed the subject to my nail appointment. I won the dating argument
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:53 PM
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Guys literally think that is a privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:50 PM
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I’m a bartender, those will fly off the second I open a can. You want a nail in your drink? My boss asks for well done gel extensions for a reason. Idk why you think you know better than women with this stuff lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:48 PM
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Of course it feels bad if you’ve never experienced it cuz you don’t see the bad sides
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:48 PM
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Anyways nice chatting with you. I gotta go to my $100 nail appointment so that my boss will let me work tomorrow. Oh how I love female privilege!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:31 PM
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Girls will be more comfortable and talk to him and he may win them over with his personality. Guys will laugh at him. So again. Do u want male approval or female approval?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:29 PM
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You do know that all these celebrity men women are obsessed with do most the things I mentioned right… Harry styles and Noah beck wear dresses and makeup and we don’t get the ick…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:01 PM
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Guy or girl who ghosts you for trying to look your best is an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:56 PM
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Why are u assuming all women are the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:56 PM
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You said makeup (as cheap as possible with still looking good is around $200 dollars which you buy throughout your life) hair extensions (in salon is $200-500 every 6 weeks) heels (anywhere from $20-$1000s) implants (breast implants are 20k) and etc which I’m assuming is skincare($30-$1000s) nails ($30-$200 every 2 weeks) and haircut/dye ($50-$1000s every 6 weeks) . So yeah dude…. THOUSANDS
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:54 PM
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Guys will also ghost you if they find out you’re only pretty with makeup wtf? What do you think fillers and Botox are to women? There’s risks and it’s also something they have to keep up with for life. It also takes women a while to look good from the gym Girls do not care if you use hair dye idk why you care about men’s opinion of u using these options when you’re trying to appeal to women You said implants. That’s invasive surgery. I didn’t know we were just talking about lipstick The penis en…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:44 PM
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There’s a reason women don’t buy that product dude. If you buy bad makeup it makes you look 10x worse. It also runs out fast so you have to keep buying it. Look up “makeup routine” on YouTube or tiktok and google each product.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:35 PM
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If you don’t want to that’s on you dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:32 PM
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Platformed shoes like Tom Cruz (hey that rhymed!), hair transplant, gym membership, personal trainer, hair dye, hair cut, beard growth, beard trims, beard dye, skincare, nose job, Botox, chin implant, literally any kind of plastic surgery, jaw filler makes a really impressive difference, there are literally penis enlarging procedures for christs sake. Y’all can wear makeup too if you want you just don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:30 PM
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I really don’t see how women HAVING to spend $1000s of dollars to keep up with what men find attractive is a privilege…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:20 PM
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Men can literally use all those things u mentioned to make themselves look better as well. Only thing you can’t change is your height. Which goes for tall women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:19 PM
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Those all cost probably A LOT more than you are thinking and have negative impacts on us as well. Men also have access to MANY things to make them more attractive if they have the money for it as well. So are we talking rich privilege now?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:16 PM
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It’s different because serving someone who is too drunk can kill them or they can get in their car and kill more people. I don’t see how “overserving” someone porn can kill them. If it has negative impacts on their life that’s on them to fix not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:13 PM
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I think we agree on this tbh. I’m not gunna quit bartending because some people have a problem and the OF girl shouldn’t quit for that reason either. She can totally take that $500 dollars even if he’s already given her thousands. That’s his money and he can spend it how he likes. If he says this is my last $500 and I should give it to this drug dealer who’s gunna kill me if I don’t maybe talk him out of it and don’t accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:09 PM
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Ah yes. He raped me but at least he called me pretty, teehee!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:01 PM
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So is it even a woman privilege or is it an attractive privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:59 PM
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If something is bad for you that’s on you to fix. We don’t have to take things away from everyone just because some people can’t handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:41 PM
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That’s life dude. Anything can destroy your life. Are fast food employees awful too? Should they refuse service to a fat person? Should we not sell meat, gluten, and dairy in stores because it’s bad for some people?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:40 PM
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If I knew they were in danger no. I’d hope an OF girl would block a man who says “this addiction makes me wanna die” . I agree that if they explicitly know that their customer is going to die or something if they keep interacting and they still do it, they’re a terrible person. It’s hard to compare alcohol to porn because alcohol can actually kill you. Which honestly in your eyes should make me WAY more of an asshole then an OF girl. And yes I do have to serve the alcoholic I just can’t overserv…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:14 PM
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Basically the only time I’d be bothered if it’s from someone inappropriate. Inappropriate doesn’t mean ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:07 PM
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I would also assume it’s because he wants to sleep with me. If it’s appropriate I’m into if it’s not then I’m not. If an ugly guy, my age, single, not related to me compliments me im also not uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:04 PM
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I mean I sell alcohol and I don’t think I’m abusive… some people can enjoy it and some people get addicted. Doesn’t mean we should ban alcohol. Porn and alcohol are both legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:53 PM
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I was definitely talking about compliments based on physical attraction. But also if my boss is ONLY complimenting my presentation when other employees have way better ones it’s also uncomfortable because I know he’s just complimenting me to manipulate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:47 PM
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Yes. My boss shouldn’t want to fuck me. My friends boyfriend shouldn’t want to fuck me. That married man with kids my age shouldn’t want to fuck me. My dads friend shouldn’t want to fuck me. There are more situations where it’s inappropriate for a man to want to fuck me than it being appropriate. That’s why 23 year old at the club complimenting me is cool while my dads boss saying I’m very attractive is uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:44 PM
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It depends on age and frequency. When you’re an 11 year old girl and you realize your dads friend is complimenting you because he’s lowkey a pedo it’s uncomfy, same with getting catcalled that young. For some women it stays uncomfortable and for others they take advantage of it. Unless you have something wrong with you as a kid it always starts uncomfortable, we just get used to it and try to see the best in it sometimes cuz it hurts less. Also depends on the guy for sure. If it’s someone I know…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:39 PM
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I think it’s more of “starving or choosing to eat poison”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:15 PM
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I can’t wait till I get older and can start complimenting men again
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:14 PM
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What if they falsely accuse you after
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:13 PM
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The advice you guys are giving each other is basically how to pick up shallow Instagram models. If you value a woman’s personality as well you’ll learn that these tricks don’t work on most of them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:10 PM
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They don’t see women as people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:08 PM
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Not really. Many women get very uncomfortable when random men compliment them because they know it’s just because they want to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:51 PM
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Most normal young people make sacrifices to do this because of how much societal pressure we have to look our best
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:47 PM
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Sucks they don’t get to experience pregnancy? Yeah right. They wouldn’t survive a week and we would have never even started this abortion debate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:46 PM
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You used a lot of words to basically say “you should be grateful we sexualize you”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:42 PM
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