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I'm on mobile, so I'll do my best to reply to your points. I think you make good points, btw, and I think I've done a poor job of portraying that I don't mean to be an adversary to anyone who wants to discuss legitimate gender issues. I hope you'll understand that in many of the pill subs, it's rare to be involved in a considerate conversation about gender rights (on either side of the fence - I disagree with both red and blue pill antics). As far as modern feminism goes, I want to make it clear…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 12:37 AM
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You're right, it's much worse not to be dateable than anything else I mentioned. Definitely. For sure. It's not at all like we all face shitty situations in our lives. No, the scale is definitely tipped in favor of women, therefore it's a competition. Absolutely. Women never have anything to complain about. A fair conversation regarding discrimination definitely needs to focus on the problems faced by only one gender. Mhmm. I'm totally with you. Look, the dating situation definitely "favors" wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/16 10:46 PM
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I've gone back and forth on the issue of the wage gap, and am still largely undecided, but I think John Green makes a decent case for it in his vlogbrothers video. The research he cites seems convincing to me. What do you think?
/r/MensRights05/03/16 01:29 AM
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there are very few bitter and unhappy girls compared to bitter unhappy men. HA! Hahahahahahahahaha. Yeah, thanks to my feeeeemale status, everything in my life is great. I'll never have to deal with discrimination, mistreatment, sexual harassment, or unfair pay in any job I'll ever have (and gee, thank goodness I haven't yet either). I'll never have to deal with being shamed sexually for having too many or too few partners, for being too easy or too difficult too date, or for behaving not ladyli…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 08:59 PM
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I agree completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/15 05:28 PM
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Ok, but TBP is not tumblr?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/15 02:11 PM
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Do you know what a false dichotomy is?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/15 02:15 AM
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Well, he didn't literally say that. I think you're taking it too far. No, he literally said that. What's the point of attempting a debate if you're going to refuse to acknowledge the blatantly obvious point (in this case misogyny)? Also, why the fuck can you reply to someone "insulting" you, but you can't reply to the person you are debating with? Not to mention that obtuse isn't as much of an insult as is it an observation. It doesn't mean idiotic or stupid, closer to disingenuous and stubborn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/15 02:14 AM
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I'm so glad you brought that up. I was considering adding an edit to one of my comments, but now I don't have to! TRPers are convinced that being a fat, ugly, neckbeardy, unfuckable loser would literally be the worst thing in the world. Worse than being a raging misogynist or gigantic dickbag. So, rather than call them misogynists (which wouldn't bother them at all), why not use something even they consider an insult? I mean, when in Rome, anyway. To be clear, it's obvious that neither side is d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/15 02:02 AM
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I thought the same thing about PPD! Was equally disappointed. Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/15 12:19 AM
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I'm with you. I'm so done with these subs. There's literally no point in my being here as I'm not learning anything I care about, I'm not able to have any kind of discourse with someone who doesn't already enthusiastically agree with me, and the subject matter is frustrating and depressing. Fuck the pills. Let them be miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/15 12:03 AM
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You are so obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 11:59 PM
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You either didn't get my point or are leaving out important context. My point is that "neckbeards" are not targeted for the pure fact that they are "losers." If someone is a "loser" (in using terminology here I normally wouldn't just for conciceness' sake) but isn't a RAGING MISOGYNIST or a total fucking asshole like most, if not all, TRPers then he's not "targeted" by TBP. Because, I will repeat this, TBP EXISTS AS A RESPONSE TO TRP. The fact that the neckbeardy stereotype fits so many TRPers i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 07:14 PM
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To be fair, TBP only exists as a response to some of the abhorrently bigoted and scummy shit that can be found not uncommonly in TRP. TBP doesn't make fun of "neckbeardy losers who can't get laid," TBP makes fun of a group of guys who think the best way to get laid is to completely tear apart the opposite sex. Neither behavior is good, but make no mistake that TBP would not exist without TRP and that TRP is the largest target of TBP. General "losers," especially those without malicious attitudes…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 06:26 PM
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Not OP, just chiming in with some thoughts here. I think the answer to your question mostly comes down to personal preference. Some men prefer submissive women, and some women prefer dominant men. For some women and men, they prefer much more equal partnerships, and some women prefer submissive men, etc. I would imagine that the appeal of being 'alpha' to the type of man who subscribes to TRP philosophy is that they feel it is necessary to move from a social status as a submissive man to a socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 12:53 AM
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I agree that fag and flaming describe a certain kind of gay. I have ALSO had gay friends who were not offended by me (as their friend) using it (because they knew I didn't mean it in a derogatory way), and also who weren't offended by it AT ALL. I've also had gay friends who were offended by it in any context. Just because something is applicable to you and your situation doesn't mean it's applicable to everyone and every situation. I'm really not even saying most gay people are offended by the …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 11:13 PM
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The N-word is also used very commonly within the Black American community, but that doesn't mean it's not offensive when used outside that community. It's like the "I can call my mom a bitch but I will kick the ass of anyone else who does," kind of thing. If it doesn't apply to you litterally, don't assume it's not offensive to those it does. You are not part of that circle; it has never been used against you in a literal and demeaning way; you have never been discriminated against for being gay…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 10:04 PM
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Your perception of my intentions is way off. I was interested in having a discussion and sharing information which, from my view, was right and correct. And gaining more information that either agrees with or contradicts what I know. Going back to that whole broadening knowledge concept. I don't care about people agreeing with me, that's not the point of a discussion. A debate, perhaps, yes; but not a discussion. Which you were detracting from, partly by asserting that your feelings about the is…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 03:16 PM
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Alright, I can understand the concept behind that.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/15 01:21 AM
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therefore I do not share his view of himself as female. So, what? For someone criticising strawmen attacks you seem to be missing that you are doing just that. This discussion has nothing to do with your feelings about transsexuals. And how you feel about someone else's perceptions really doesn't matter anyway. It is completely irrelevant. You feel that they are wrong, but so are people with prosopagnosia and yet your feelings about the fact that they can't recognise their loved ones are also ir…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 01:15 AM
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So long as transgender stuff has nothing to do with me, I am happy. So why are you in a discussion about transgenders? It kind of seems like you're just trolling for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 01:06 AM
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I know what a strawman fallacy is, perhaps then what I don't know is exactly the argument behind AWALT.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/15 01:04 AM
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It is true that sexual reassignment will not change XY into XX, but the condition we are discussing is psychological with physical manifestations. The brain believes that what it sees and feels is wrong. Somewhat like in the case of phantom limbs. Or body integrity identity disorder. I don't think anyone here is saying that gender has anything to do with the "soul," which, I completely agree, is a wholly obscure and useless concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 01:03 AM
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I don't fail to see that, I think what you fail to see is that a woman feeling dysphoria about her penis has absolutely nothing to do with you. It doesn't matter how you feel about it. It is not your disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 12:59 AM
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How are my examples strawmen? They are analogous, and are both logical fallacies. That is my point, and I used those examples to illustrate my point. Edit: What exactly does AWALT mean if not "all women are like that," or, "all women have these exact qualities?"
/r/ExRedPill29/08/15 12:57 AM
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Just because you can't comprehend it doesn't mean it's obscure. People are trying to have a discussion here. If you have no interest in contributing to it or attempting to learn from it, it doesn't make sense for you to be here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 12:31 AM
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Here's an example that I think may help you to understand the transsexual thing a little better. You may not identify or empathize with it - I know I don't - but it is certainly understandable. So there is actually a psychological condition pretty similar to gender dysphoria. I like to think of it as the opposite of Phantom Limb Syndrome. It is where a person feels or believes that a certain body part - an arm, leg, hand - a certain appendage doesn't belong to them; it's not right and it shouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 12:27 AM
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What you are describing is your sex. Gender is, in fact, a social construct. Take, for instance, the Samoan Fa'afafine, a third gender defined as a person who was born of the male sex but who fulfill both male and female gender roles. Boys are sometimes raised as Fa'fafine because their family may already have all boys, and need a girl to also fulfill feminine roles (cooking, taking care of the household, etc.). Some Fa'fafine are prostitues, and the men who have sex with them are not considered…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 11:53 PM
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They know most of their dumb ideas fall apart under scrutiny. I'm not convinced this is true, actually. If anything I think there are some higher-ups that know this, and so they have to ban anyone with some kind of sensical dissenting opinion because otherwise, the younger or newer members might catch on, ya know? Like, it's really hard to tell the story of Genesis to someone when someone else brings up evolution and the Big Bang. They have to shun whatever doesn't fit the narrative because if y…
/r/ExRedPill28/08/15 09:24 PM
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You may consider checking out Men are from Mars Women are from Venus by John Gray. An excerpt is available here. My co-worker recommended this to me and said that he learned a lot, and believed many people could. It is a book that tackles communication in relationships specifically, so it may not be appropriate or interesting for you just now, but I think it does a good job of showing that men and women are different, but that doesn't mean that we can't appreciate each other's differences. This …
/r/ExRedPill28/08/15 08:43 PM
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because they use infectious emotional responses to keep these ideas cycling in your mind, making a roadblock to real personal development I subbed to TBP and PPD in an attempt to find some sanity and balance after I started to fear that many men might agree with or think like TRP and found myself putting way too much thought and effort into something I hate and find repulsive. It's started to bring me down a little bit in the last couple of weeks. Your text that I've quoted has really made somet…
/r/ExRedPill28/08/15 08:34 PM
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Thanks, didn't know that was a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 08:01 PM
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No worries, I appreciate the clarification either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 04:50 PM
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I hear ya, but my point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 04:44 PM
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By the same token, then, All Men Are Rapists. See, you just have to tease them enough and they won't be able to control themselves. Welcome to sexist logic and rationalisation. No, it's cool, though, do you. Don't bother seeking enthusiastic consent or learning how to protect yourself from the shitty types of women who will actually make false rape accusations. It requires so much less thought to just generalize an entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 04:43 PM
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Yeah, I hear what you're saying. Maybe I have just been lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 04:10 PM
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I think that's a fair observation. Definitely gives me something to chew on, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 03:04 PM
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You're doing exactly the same thing. You are literally the male version of a Feminazi.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 01:49 PM
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That's not true. You can protect yourself by learning to recognise the type of girl who is amoral enough to do it, and staying away from them. Just like there are things women can do to protect themselves from being raped, there are things you can do to protect yourself from false rape accusations. But if you just jump into bed with any girl who you "convince" to have sex with you, without getting to know her first, you're setting yourself up for potential consequences. Just like a girl who walk…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 01:40 PM
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I'm very sorry that happened to you. No one deserves that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 12:26 PM
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Yeah, whatever works for you. Sounds pretty hamstery to me, though. "Yeah, I'm ok with this being wrong. But it benefits me so it's good."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 12:24 PM
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I mean, I certainly agree with what you're saying - to a degree; if this is what I can expect from the rest of the world, why wouldn't I turn it back on them and get what I want instead? Maybe I am too idealistic or naive. But the way I see it is this: why would you want to become that which you despise? Why would you want to hurt others the way you've been hurt? Edit: So, instead of contributing to the vicious "hurt people hurt people" feedback loop, why can't you focus your efforts on breaking…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 05:16 AM
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All people are manipulable. I would imagine that a great number of men who have turned to TRP have done so because they were manipulated - or believed they were manipulated - by women. I would imagine that a great number of women that have turned into Feminazis have done so because they were manipulated - or believed they were manipulated - by men. Both perspectives are certainly understandable given each party's past experiences, but that makes their core beliefs no less sexist. Here is another…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 04:08 AM
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Why wouldn't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 03:43 AM
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By definition: Manipulate Convince Manipulation acquires consent through deception. Convincing acquires consent through conversation, debate, and agreement, especially on honest terms (when comparing "convince" to "manipulate"). Manipulation of other people generally implies that you are deceiving them for your own personal gain at their expense, or without regard to how it will affect them. Convincing implies that you, well, convince someone that what you believe is right or correct, with regar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 03:30 AM
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Can you explain what you mean by "short-term orientation" and "long-term orientation" in these scenarios? If I am guessing correctly, "short-term orientation" refers to Sally's idea that using her body to get what she wants is good, and Betty's idea that not investing in her looks is good? Where "long-term orientation" refers to Sally's idea that holding out for a meaningful relationship is bad, and Betty's idea that desiring attention from boys is bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 10:41 PM
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As a BPer, here is what I had to say about Jim: Jim's previous experiences have made him an asshole. Assholes don't get a lot of empathy. That's not to say that Jim doesn't have a reason to be an asshole or that it's not understandable why he's an asshole, given what he has had to deal with, but that also doesn't mean it's ok for Jim to be an asshole. Also, Jim might have some new prejudices because of the people he had to deal with. Because his co-worker was lazy and selfish, Jim might now thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 10:33 PM
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Here's the deal with rape: If you regret it later, it wasn't rape, it was a poor decision. Learn from what you did wrong and don't do it again. As a woman who has made some sexual decisions I wish I hadn't, I think women who cry rape in any situation other than rape are absolutely disgusting. You are ruining someone else's life, regardless of whether they are convicted or not. Bar-none. That is despicable behavior. That is shitty person behavior. And of course we all know not to rape. Anyone wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 10:00 PM
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The overwhelming majority of women (95-99%) are incapable of empathy towards men. Alright, hang on. This is just false. For starters, empathy is an emotional capability. It requires that you be able to understand and, to a certain degree, feel what someone else is feeling. I think we can agree that women are certainly the more emotional of the two genders, so I believe it follows logically that they're generally more capable of empathy than men are. As for the idea that women can't feel empathy …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 11:37 PM
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I mean, logically, yeah. You got right down to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 10:02 PM
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People dislike Jim's new business because they think it's unethical. Jim doesn't care; he's getting paid. Jim's previous experiences have made him an asshole. Assholes don't get a lot of empathy. That's not to say that Jim doesn't have a reason to be an asshole or that it's not understandable why he's an asshole, given what he has had to deal with, but that also doesn't mean it's ok for Jim to be an asshole. Also, Jim might have some new prejudices because of the people he had to deal with. Beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 09:56 PM
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I think the title is a little misleading as well. The article does specifically state that she avoided jail, but it also states that she did received an 18-month prison sentence. She has been convicted. And, yes, the situation was irresponsible and skeazy, but as someone else mentioned I don't think the "sex-marathon with an acquaintance" bit is particularly relevant either. IMO what is relevant is that she abused an intoxicating substance that affected her ability to watch her baby, and as a re…
/r/MensRights14/08/15 06:00 PM
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Right? It's almost equal to the butthurt you people display when your circlejerk is interrupted.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 01:36 PM
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Thanks for making it easy to spot those who don't get it. Why do you think I started off that way? To clearly state that what I was going to say could easily be downvoted and ignored. Go ahead, it's a free forum, I'm allowed to be here and to state my opinion, too, just as you're allowed to criticize my perspective. ...she will strangely become more attracted to him. strangely Interesting use of that word, given the context. See, most people like to know what they're attracted to. It's part of w…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 12:06 AM
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When a man needs life advice, he shouldn't seek help from people on the internet. Hence the, you know, see a therapist (read: professional people-helper) recommendation. And if you really think I was chalking the sailboat work up to emotional abuse, you need to read my comment again, and a little more closely. FFS. Edit: Bonus points for knowing everything about me from a quick glance through my post history! Quality work there, internet sleuth.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 11:32 PM
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Or you could grow a pair and say "I'm only interested in sex. If that's not what you're looking for, I would like to not waste my time." After all, there are plenty of other chicks out there who will buy you a drink and fuck you.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 10:31 PM
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This comment goes 100% against RP philosophy here, but in my opinion you're really delusional if you think that an immediate change in behavior - including becoming standoffish - isn't going to warrant a degree of worry and emotional distress on her part (and by the way, doing that to someone intentionally with the hope of getting them to behave differently is emotional abuse thinly veiled under the guise of self-improvement). I get that you're trying to better yourself, but if that hopeful "imp…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 10:19 PM
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It is important to note, amidst all the chaos and confusion lately, that admins of any sub and the mods of Reddit are human. We all have values, morals of our own that we hold above anyone else's under certain circumstances, and that we are all humans. We are imperfect, we make horrible decisions - even those of us in positions of power or authority, even if that authority encompasses nothing more than being in charge of an inconsequential website. We can look at Ellen Pao and compare our values…
/r/MensRights12/06/15 04:03 AM
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*Androgynists/ Feminazis/ Shitty People
/r/MensRights12/06/15 02:58 AM
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Yeah, i dont see how this could qualify as a pussypass denial. Shes just a shitty person. Not a shitty woman, not a shitty feminazi, just a shitty person who did a shitty thing to other people. I'm not sure why this is here.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/03/15 01:56 AM
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That's awesome! Good for you for doing this. I think it's a totally positive thing to do.
/r/MensRights11/02/15 03:13 AM
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Ok, man, I get it. I must have missed the "No Girls Allowed" sign on my way up to the tree house. I'm sorry, I just wanted to play. But honestly, a TL;DR isn't that hard. Here's one you could use: r/TheRedPill - TL;DR: All women are like that. But all men aren't. And how dare you bring up my mother! But I get it, you guys REALLY don't like cooties. And since we're all 12 here I don't think tits would really be appropriate, so I'll be on my way. Have fun playing cowboys and Indians.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 02:29 PM
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I realize none of you care about my opinion, what I was hoping for was someone who could discuss their experiences, what led them here, and what they like about it. That obviously isn't going to happen, but at least I learned I'm wasting my time trying to forge any kind of bridge between the hypocrites who constantly perpetuate the principles they reel against, and the people they hate. Whatevs, y'all, sorry about your mommy issues.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 04:40 AM
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Sounds good. Hey, a quick toke might help you get that dildo out of your ass.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 01:42 AM
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Luckily, the last and most important paragraph provides context to me providing pretext to my question. I understand that given the situation the question could have been written better, but are you going to make any attempt to answer it or just continue to waste both our time with your incorrect assumptions about my intentions?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 01:26 AM
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Whoa, not my intention at all, I just wanted to make it clear where I'M coming from. And I'm on mobile, so I don't have access to the sidebar. AND I was hoping for some more personal input from someone who understands who I am and where I'm coming from, hence the explanation that I'm a woman And a little of my background. Not to mention, I was hoping to get some information from the horse's mouth so that I wouldn't have a tendency to "demonize" you all, as you mentioned in the post. But I guess …
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 01:03 AM
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Alright, I'm gonna delve into some dangerous waters here. I'm a woman, I consider myself a "real woman" in that I have gotten to the point in my life where I would never intentionally fuck over anyone, specifically take advantage of "pussy pass" or anything like that - and I have no respect for girls who do. I was raised by a very independent woman, and consider myself such, but am not misandronous as she is. My SO is a very masculine, dominating type, and I have no problem deferring to and resp…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 12:26 AM
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Dude, I said not ALL women. And I'm not sure where you're getting the idea that not a single man on the planet has entitlement issues. If you believe that, you're just as stupid as any woman who believes they deserve special treatment because they are women. All different kinds of people are fucked up, entitled, selfish, and thoughtless. And all different kinds of people are kind, compassionate, generous, and respectful. I understand venting about a common problem, but how is propagating a stere…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 01:03 AM
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That is exactly my point. The education should exist and it should be equal.
/r/MensRights23/01/15 03:31 AM
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Well and also the assumption that only men can rape is there too. What about a poster depicting a woman taking lewd photos of an unconscious man at a party? Its important to educate both men and women what is unacceptable, as well as educate both on how to protect themselves from being subject to sexual assault or being in dangerous situations.
/r/MensRights22/01/15 06:51 PM
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I think men need to be "taught" not to rape in the same way that women need to be "taught" to avoid being raped, e.g. Don't get wasted with people you don't trust. Be aware of your surroundings. If she can't talk she can't consent. Don't walk down a scary alleyway by yourself late at night. It's all common sense stuff, it's just that sometimes people don't use their common sense or need reminding. I don't think these signs are any more sexist than telling a woman she should be careful how she dr…
/r/MensRights22/01/15 06:26 PM
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I'm right there with ya. The ideas behind feminism are legitimate, but there are so many radicals that have now completely ruined the movement that I would rather tell people I'm a felon than a feminist. I believe there are people who benefit from turning two or more parties against each other (such as men against women, blacks against whites, Christians against atheists and etc.) and that most people have lost sight of what legitimate issues do currently exist.
/r/MensRights27/10/14 10:08 PM
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Remember if she does it with you, she'll do it to you.
/r/seduction23/10/14 07:24 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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