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You are the only judge of your true happiness, but it sounds like you are still looking for your wife's approval and you are changing your course to not upset her. Do you not want to have sex with your wife? Are you in line with your mission and moving your life forward in the direction that you want? It sounds like you are trying to justify to us why you are not following the standard RP advice. It is your life, but make sure you are being honest with yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/22 12:16 PM
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So many excuses and covert contracts. Set some obtainable goals and actually get them done. That's what builds progress instead of just putting stuff in your OYS that you're thinking about. You are scared to take action because you are scared of failing. You are going to fail sometimes, but you will never succeed if you don't try. Your approach to your relationship and sex is entirely if I do X then I should get Y result. That is a covert contract. When those don't go as planned you get butthurt…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/22 11:54 AM
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You get a chance to have the kids to yourself and show them a great time. You have the chance to have a week of a freedom to work on yourself and your mission. If you throw a hissy fit about not being able to go with her, it does not show you are a high value person. It shows you are needy and weak and can't handle a week without her. That will not make her panties wet for you. And yes, you should have a consult with a lawyer to know what you are up against when you push this woman away.
/r/askMRP21/09/21 05:00 PM
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It's just your turn. Sounds like someone is lacking abundance and is a little too insecure.
/r/askMRP21/09/21 04:39 PM
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The last time my wife asked me that I told her i have a beautiful wife, two kids, a roof over our heads and our health. I also told her I could think of a few things that would make me even better. Then proceed to fuck with passion. Newb gains are nice, but they will plateau. Keep reading, lifting, and remember you are the prize.
/r/askMRP18/06/20 01:04 AM
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Sounds like someone is looking for some leadership from the captain. Do you know where she can find any? You need to do more than just avoid your wife and not talk to her.
/r/askMRP18/06/20 12:52 AM
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Reset every day. You acted butthurt by leaving the next morning without saying good bye. She was testing your frame. This is probably just the beginning of her trying to break to you. Be prepared for if she does really follow through with asking for a divorce, but it seems like it was just a bluff. You need to determine if she adds value to your life and if you are willing to put up with her antics until you are strong enough to lead her.
/r/askMRP08/11/19 04:53 PM
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I haven't read the book, but I think most people ponder what their deepest purpose is. If they dont, they probably should. I agree that being a role model and molding your kids into extraordinary human beings is an excellent purpose, but it also should not be your sole purpose for living. I also feel that we all have one life to live and there is no reason to not make the most of it. To me, making the most of my life encompasses a number of the goals you have in your mission. I am a father and I…
/r/askMRP05/11/19 04:52 PM
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Definitely you are worried about how you size up compared to guys in her past and guys she is checking out. I wouldn't worry too much about her looking, and when you catch her doing it, tell her something along the lines of "that is one handsome looking dude isn't he". It is a playful way of calling her out on it. 11 people is not really that many considering she probably became sexually active around 18. So 6 years and 11 different guys isn't outrageous. It is telling that she thinks highly of …
/r/askMRP04/11/19 05:17 PM
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It sounds like you are the one waiting around for her to break up with her bf. Your entire post and all your comments are just excuses. Go see a lawyer. Go find a new place to live. Lift, find hobbies, be the best dad you can be, go hang out with friends. Forget about any type of relationship with your wife besides coparenting. It is going to suck, you may get screwed in the seperation, your wife may come begging back to you, but you need to move forward with this. Your kids will enjoy a happy D…
/r/askMRP14/09/19 10:34 AM
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Keep owning your shit. The stay plan is the same as the go plan. Get all the good lawyers in your area on retainer. When she brings up again that she's leaving, ask her if she needs some help packing. When women throw childish fits, they get treated like children. The more you maintain frame and act like you are not phased by her threats, the angrier she will get. It sounds like you are not very interested in fighting for the relationship. There is a chance she will come back to you and beg for …
/r/askMRP27/08/19 09:28 PM
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You do not think of yourself as the prize. You need to sidebar and own your shit. Like others have said, you do not yet understand RP. What you really should be asking is: do you need a mix of beta and alpha when in a relationship. The answer to this is yes. You cannot be alpha rambo dont give a fuck all the time. Women need feels and you have to be the one to recognize when you need to tone down your alpha and be a little more beta. The problem people who need RP have, is that they are too beta…
/r/askTRP02/08/19 03:25 PM
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She does not trust or respect you. You need to prove that you are the leader. These tests are her verifying that she still holds the power. You need to make light of the situation. Laugh right at her when she says some BS like that, tell her how cute she is when shes in charge. Find your frame and maintain it. I am new to the redpill as well and you need a IDGAF attitude. Do not express your butthurt, even through non verbals she is seeing right through you. Ive had to fake it til I make it, jus…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/19 12:29 PM
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You need consent to rub your wife's leg? WTF is that shit. You obviously need to work on this gaming of your wife you said you restarted. She holds all the power in her pussy and youve put it right up on a pedestal. You mention multiple times about your butthurt from rejection. I am sure your wife is noticing and she is using it against you. If you initiate and she rejects you, rolling over into bed and making sure you dont touch her all night is not maintaining your frame, unless your plan is t…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/19 11:25 AM
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Thats why you start off STFU, so you dont say the stupid shit. I think the biggest problem you had that day was trying to be devoid of emotion. To women this means you are butthurt and somethings wrong. It's hard, but you need to fake it til you make it. It also seems like if your lingerie trick had worked it would have completed your day and you wouldn't be here asking these questions. That's your wifes pussy on a pedestal. Your day should be great regardless if you get validated with sex or no…
/r/askMRP29/07/19 05:36 PM
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I am yet to be a pro at passing shit tests either, but your response to her little pout fest about making a mess of the stove, I would hardly consider passing a shit test. Its good you STFU through most of it, but a better response would have been playful, along the lines of "you look so cute when you get worked up" then slap her on the ass, give the stove a quick wipe and joyfully carry on with your day. You say you were not butthurt by this, but from what you described from your actions, your …
/r/askMRP29/07/19 05:02 PM
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Add a little weight, lift, fix your posture and work on your game. Do not be scared of rejection. Dont stop approaching, but if you are not confident in yourself, they will know as soon as you open your mouth. You do not want your main form of communication to be social media. This should only be used for logistics. Do not try and carry on conversations and get in their pants through these platforms. You want to be with them in person when you are gaming.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 02:12 PM
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You are prize, dont bother with her if you are not her priority
/r/askTRP28/07/19 01:31 PM
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Get a real job that requires a skill set and takes years to master. You are associating with people who dont offer any value or knowledge to your life. A better career will allow you interactions with people older and more experienced. It will also challenge you to continue to learn and grow. You will find older people who offer you no value as well, but many will have lessons and life experiences greater than people your own age.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 01:28 PM
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Setting boundaries is about abundance mentality. You let your LTR know what is acceptable or required for dating you. If she can't meet the expectations, you know its time for another woman, and she knows she is replaceable. RP is about bettering yourself as a person, knowing what you want and working towards it with a plan. Boundaries are there to make sure this woman is going along with your plan and not an obstacle. I understand that you do not want to tell her what she can and cant do becaus…
/r/askTRP27/07/19 11:07 PM
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You are the prize, swallow the pill and accept it. You are putting her on a pedestal. It sounds like you are insecure and jealous of the attention your gf gets. That is only going to drive her away. If you are lifting, lift harder. Change up your wardrobe, improve your financial situation. Increase your SMV and stop victim puking about your feels getting hurt cause her friends dont want to bone you too.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 11:10 AM
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Its great that you have been working on yourself and making your self more valuable monetarily and mentally. You need to ask yourself what value your partner brings to your life. Redpill says to not bitch and just take care of business. Sometimes that includes doing things around the house that you think your partner should be doing. You dont do it for her validation or to guilt her into something. You set an example and own your shit. You need to be the leader of your relationship and act like …
/r/askTRP19/07/19 11:03 AM
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I came from a small high school. There were only a handful of girls that were 7 or 8s and no bombshells. Almost every guy at my school would go after the same girls. If you were not the leader of boys, you did not stand a chance. I know some of it is peer pressure, but it was almost frowned upon to go after girls that were not part of the top tier physically and socially. You should do things because of what you want, not because of what others will think of you. If you dont like a girl, don't w…
/r/askTRP17/07/19 05:53 PM
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I read somewhere a good response for girls dropping the boyfriend line is "its alright, hes not invited". Good job on finding some courage. A good friend of mine who slays the females always says that you cant be scared of rejection. Alot of very attractive females get passed up because of fear of rejection, you never know. Lift, sidebar, own your shit and keep gaming
/r/askTRP24/06/19 06:57 PM
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Whats your goal, to bang as many 8s and 9s as possible, or find a girlfriend. A 6 or a 7 is probably going to be much better girlfriend material and maybe better in bed. 8s and 9s look good, but have everything given to them, and get all the attention.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 11:43 PM
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Contracts for sex and youre butthurt when shes not passionate or initiates, what are you doing to lead your GF? Where is the gaming, where is the dread? Get off your ass and own your shit. If you have to make an arrangement to get sex, you have not been paying attention. Yeah the old feels bullshit of you crying to your wife about how you need sex and these are days I want it, might have worked for a little while, but she is not doing it because she values you. You need to work on yourself, lift…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/19 12:58 PM
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I usually shake hands and say good game after
/r/askTRP22/06/19 09:51 AM
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I dont know about always pushing their head to your crotch. I tried that once in high school and it did work. My wife knows when shes going to give me a blow job, because i make it known earlier in the day im expecting one. Occasionally i get them without saying anything, but if i want one in the heat of the moment, i bring my dick to her face and tell her to get it wet for me. You need to be direct, dominant, dont ask, make it a statement. If they are reluctant or refusing and youre not in a re…
/r/askTRP17/06/19 06:58 PM
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If you have not laid the groundwork and just randomly try and pull out and give her a facial, expect to not be seeing her at all anymore. This has taken a few months of me slowly pushing her boundaries on sexual activities.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 06:40 PM
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Ive wanted to give my wife a facial for the last 8 years we've been together. She was always disgusted even at the thought whenever id bring it up or joke about it. Guess what, ive cum all over her face twice in the last week. Ive been putting the redpill into practice the last few months and getting much better at passing her shit tests and comfort tests. Ive been staying in my frame and STFU as necessary. Ive been gaming her, building anticipation and dominating her in bed. If you are not redp…
/r/askTRP17/06/19 06:31 PM
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OYS #2 Stats 32yrs 5'7" 140lbs Married 5 years, Wife 30, Kids 4,1 Lifting: still need to work on a more structured routine, but have lifted more in the last week than any other week in the last couple years. Have a couple workout recommendations i still need to look into. Reading: Still reading alot of reddit, and have researched a few of the books on the sidebar as well as a couple suggestions i got. Havent owned my shit and pulled the trigger to actually get any though. Career: Content in curr…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 03:31 PM
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Thanks for the suggestion. I do need to order a few of the books and dive in.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 06:51 PM
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I agree i do need a lifting program, will look into strong lifts 5x5. I think i handled her shit test pretty well in regards to objectifying her. She did bring it up again last night, i didnt handle it as well this time. I gave her the whole "of course sex is important, youre doing a great job feeding my needs, i understand why you would feel disconnected by always talking and wanting it, but I want to openly talk and engage about our sex life and not be ashamed or embarrassed" She was kinda dis…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 06:45 PM
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Fresh Noob here 32 5'7" 140lbs Wife: 30 2 kids 4,1 Married 5 years together 8 Lifting: Off an on for last 10 years, nothing too structured, not been trying for gains Reading: Skimmed through sidebar, read a ton of stuff on red pill reddits the last couple weeks My marriage was on the brink of divorce around the new year. I had been being a beta bitch for too many years while letting my wife run all over me. Constantly feeding into her frame, giving in to avoid fights, building a lot of resentmen…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 03:22 PM
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Fresh Noob here 32 5'7" 140lbs Wife: 30 2 kids 4,1 Married 5 years together 8 Lifting: Off an on for last 10 years, nothing too structured, not been trying for gains Reading: Skimmed through sidebar, read a ton of stuff on red pill reddits the last couple weeks My marriage was on the brink of divorce around the new year. I had been being a beta bitch for too many years while letting my wife run all over me. Constantly feeding into her frame, giving in to avoid fights, building a lot of resentmen…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/19 11:14 PM
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