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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 16 | Is it okay to let go of friends who don’t agree with this lifestyle?If you stay friends with her a couple years down the line she may grow resentful towards you when she compares her LVM with your HVM. If she wants to dedicate her life to her LVM let her do that and get on with your own life. You will be so much happy than having to constantly hear about her LVM drama. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 01:19 PM |
| 107 | If you have to make him sign a contract to ‘keep him’ - he was never yoursI’m so glad she did not follow through! Never ever get co-sign on a debt with a man EVER!! His problems are not yours. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 01:10 PM |
| 13 | Two men casually threatened to kill meThat is terrifying. I’m not quite sure how I would have acted on that scenario but those men definitely exposed themselves as abusive partners. Men having sadistic fetishises is a lot more common than you think and the scary thing is we don’t know what they are thinking.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 12:59 PM |
| 8 | How scrotes treat “The One that Got Away”“Good luck finding another man like me” ewwww this man is most definitely not the prize. I feel sorry for his current girlfriend who he just called a can of worms.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 07:38 AM |
| 6 | Imagine your boyfriend telling you he won’t hesitate to hit you because he’s afraid you’re a psycho...My analysis of this is that this man was seeing if this woman tolerated abuse. He was looking for women who would stay in their place so that he could do what ever he wanted. It worked because instead of ending the relationship like she should have done, she stayed. A month into the relationship he gave off the biggest red flag that he was abusive... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 05:04 AM |
| 150 | How all of the "Chad" stuff really soundsWhy date men at all? 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 04:53 AM |
| 49 | Wonder if she got picked at the end of the day 🤡This is so embarrassing! The epitome of being a Pickmeisha 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 05:15 PM |
| 36 | I suggest we use this in the futureHahaha this is so funny! I’m subject to mansplaining all the time at work and this tweet describes it perfectly 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 05:13 PM |
| 18 | If you are allergic to accountability or you call it "mean" or "making fun of someone" you don't belong on FDSIf you’re going to blame all of your short comings on external factors which you had full autonomy over then you’re never going to level up in life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 09:36 PM |
| 8 | If you are allergic to accountability or you call it "mean" or "making fun of someone" you don't belong on FDSSay it louder for the people in the back!! I wholeheartedly agree with everything you have just said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 09:34 PM |
| 21 | If he wanted to fix his mental health, he would...I met my ex on a dating app back in my Pickmeisha days and we hit it off. After a while he would only message me every two or three days and said it was because he had depression. In my head I’m thinking if you have depression to the point where you can’t even communicate with other people why are you even looking for a relationship? Of course I was a Pickmeisha at the time and still continued with the relationship and would always check up on him even after a week of him not messaging me like t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 04:57 PM |
| 8 | If he wanted to fix his mental health, he would...I met my ex on a dating app back in my Pickmeisha days and we hit it off. After a while he would only message me every two or three days and said it was because he had depression. In my head I’m thinking if you have depression to the point where you can’t even communicate with other people why are you even looking for a relationship? Of course I was a Pickmeisha at the time and still continued with the relationship and would always check up on him even after a week of him not messaging me like t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 04:57 PM |
| 22 | My 62 year old Airbnb host just told me she's moving to another state for few years to pursue her career and take a break from her husband and I'm in aweInspirational 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 09:32 PM |
| 16 | A cheating man 100% wrote this. By making these unpopular opinions popular and giving them a wide reach it makes women with a HEALTHY mindset doubt themselves and feel as if something is wrong with them for not wanting to be with a cheater. Do not fall for it.Either a man wrote this or Pickmeisha, either way I want to throw up 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 09:20 PM |
| 47 | Pick a Partner, NOT a ProjectI would rather ditch a relationship than work with them on improving their flaws because it’s fruitless. I’m not making my man perfect for his next girlfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 09:19 PM |
| 68 | SINGLE FATHER REFUSES TO DATE A SINGLE MOTHER! HE FEELS HE'S TOO GOOD FOR A WOMAN WITH KIDS!Permission to send men and their audacity to the sun. I’m sick of hearing the entitled BS that comes out of their mouths on a daily basis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 09:13 PM |
| 28 | When you follow a financial literacy page and then they start posting this shit... Unfollowed!What’s the point in bringing a man into your life if everything is going to be done 50/50? What do you gain? If you do end up married to them it’s going to feel like you two are housemates instead of husband and wife.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 09:08 PM |
| 35 | The only man I will consider having sex withWholeheartedly agree with this! In my shameful Pickmeisha days is used to have sex just to please them rather than stopping to think whether I had actually wanted it. I’m no longer having sex with men who only focus on their pleasure and ignore mine! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 05:15 PM |
| 12 | I am just now realizing that I was negged hardcore and I fell for it...My coworker used to tell me that my Instagram was so boring and that I looked so much prettier in real life. This was a failed neg attempt because I blocked him 😂. Another time I complemented my ex’s skin and he goes “babe yours is like my except yours is more red and blotchy. Again, another failed neg attempt because I said back “wtf is that supposed to me” and his face was like 😳😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 12:05 PM |
| 12 | How do you ladies deal with men that always feel entitled to have an opinion in your life?I second this. There are some people in n life (usually men) who I do not enjoy having conversations with and when I do talk to them, they just irritate me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 09:38 AM |
| 184 | This is a sign of a future one sided relationshipI hate indecisive men. I find these type of men to be boring and the ones to most likely be happy staying in their room playing video games all day and meet up with you once a week. And of course, when you do meet up you make all the decisions of what you are doing on your date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 09:36 AM |
| 84 | Got a new, better paying job in May and wanted to reward my hard work. No one treats me better than I treat myself.This has inspired me to do the same! Once I get my masters degree I know exactly what piece of jewellery I am getting myself 💎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 09:16 AM |
| 191 | Ah yes, how could you turn down an awkward marriage proposal in the middle of the street? 😩👏🏻👌🏻I live by myself, enjoy doing what I want and have a successful career. I do not see the point in getting married. I live quite comfortably so why would I want a man to be legally bind to me and, move in with me so I can do all their laundry and cook for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 09:14 AM |
| 205 | Ah yes, how could you turn down an awkward marriage proposal in the middle of the street? 😩👏🏻👌🏻Men benefit more from being married than women do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 09:11 AM |
| 26 | Got a new, better paying job in May and wanted to reward my hard work. No one treats me better than I treat myself.Love this 💕💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 07:34 AM |
| 45 | Don't be a pickme, even men won't like you. Credits: https://twitter.com/finegodmother/status/1410316385545330689?s=20I hate how dinner dates have become so political ‘how much should you spend?’ ‘Who should pay?’ just enjoy the bloody food and worry about that when the bill comes. A gentleman always pays but if he makes you split the bill you must be prepared to split it. If he does make you split the bill you must be prepared to block him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 08:44 PM |
| 78 | When a man cancels on the first date, don’t reply and just delete him. Learn from my mistakes.I was talking to this guy in Bumble and we were going to go on a date. I had to reschedule the date due to unforeseen circumstances ** I didn’t cancel, I just rescheduled**. He then attempted to guilt trip me by saying ‘of course this always happens to me 😔’ and gave me the whole feel sorry for me speil. Date was then officially cancelled and the guy was blocked 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 05:33 PM |
| 29 | **Finally** pinpointed why it really irrigates me to hear a woman describing herself as a wife and mother 10 seconds into any professional meeting...It’s when they put ‘wife and mum’ in their Instagram bios 🤮🤮. I would hate to think my sole existence was based off of my status as someones wife and mother | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 01:20 PM |
| 68 | YOU COULD GIVE A MAN YOUR KIDNEY AND HE COULD STILL CHEAT ON YOU. WAKE TF UP SISWomen bend over backwards for men and get absolutely no returns. The worst investment you can ever make is in a man! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 09:50 AM |
| 82 | Preach.I was quite alarmed when I heard that she was forced to keep her IUD in. That’s just barbaric! I would loose my mind if any man had that kind of control over me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 01:35 AM |
| 16 | "Are you sure you don't want to...." and other things they expect us to respond positively to.I’ve been called stubborn countless times but this is why it is imperative to be assertive and executive in your decisions so you don’t fall for manipulative tactics!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 07:47 PM |
| 109 | Legit fucking terrifying that men like this exist.Completely agree!! Porn teaches men that women are sex dolls and not human beings. I used to think it was normal for men to watch porn but after reading the FDS handbook it gave me a new perspective. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 07:35 PM |
| 428 | Legit fucking terrifying that men like this exist.The most terrifying thing is that we don’t know which men have these violent urges until the act upon them. Usually those kind of men show their true colours once they are married... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 07:31 PM |
| 72 | NOT ALL MEN DESERVE THEIR GENES BEING PASSED ON TO THE NEXT GENERATION - ladies please be careful with who you decide to have kids withI’m also disgusted with the 17% that votes no. By the way, a man posted this picture and the poll on their Instagram story. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 05:59 PM |
| 145 | Sorry if this has already been posted but WOOOW begging a man to shower?! Poor girl I hope she’s since found the lightI remember my shameful pick me days when I was like her 😔 There was this one ex who onetime I was sleeping with him and my coochie meow meow started to BURN 🔥and he goes “oh sorry I didn’t shower so I sprayed deodorant on there instead” 🥴🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 05:54 PM |
| 64 | Today in “romanticizing abuse”When will pick me women stop making themselves emotionally available to their exes 🙄 I wonder if she values and holds her ex to the same high standards as her friends.. probably not! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 05:43 PM |
| 98 | imagine being happy because a little kid is crying 🤡🤡I’m shocked a YouTuber with such a large following would make such a pedophilloic comment. You have to be unhinged in order to be a grown man who receives pleasure from watching a child cry. A sadist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 01:08 PM |
| 44 | imagine being happy because a little kid is crying 🤡🤡I have always thought football was a sport for LVM. It brings out the most immature behaviour from a grown man. This is why I have been turned off by men who have strong interests in football. I just see them as football hooligans and that’s a no from me 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 01:06 PM |
| 69 | Article about 3 women in their 40s who are unmarried. One HVW shares her basic standardsI love this. Educated women are realising that until they find a HVM, they are better off single ☝️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 12:58 PM |
| 50 | Reminder: LVM will pick at absolutely anything to make you feel less than. See it for what it is.Women need to stay alert and agile, They need to be able to quickly identify when a man is using a neg and form a rebuttal. No more uncomfortably brushing off their back handed compliments. call 👏then 👏out👏. Teach them a lesson and then cut them off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 12:53 PM |
| 98 | Reminder: LVM will pick at absolutely anything to make you feel less than. See it for what it is.I dated someone once who would ask too many questions for my liking. They were very judgmental/ critical questions such as “why are you doing this?” “Why are you eating that?” “Why are you wearing this?”. After the first couple times I started to snap back at him and he eventually stopped. I’ve come to realise because the first few times I let it slide, I was subtly letting him know that it was okay to say these things. When I stood up for myself he learnt any attempts of non constructive critic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 11:59 AM |
| 62 | Don’t give wifey energy to someone who isn’t your husbandBe careful of the LVM in disguise though! The ex I mentioned in my post told me on the first date he loved cooking but not once did he cook for me and he refused to do so. LVM have realised that women love a man who can cook so they lie on the first date in order to manipulate women into dating them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 07:55 PM |
| 49 | Don’t give wifey energy to someone who isn’t your husbandMy coworker was complaining about how she had three loads of washing to do (hers, her boyfriends and her kids) and how her boyfriend doesn’t appreciate her. This could never be me 🤮I’m glad you have found a HVM. I was not put on this earth to become a mans maid. Another coworker of mine genuinely aspires to be a house wife - a Pickmeisha as it’s finest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 07:51 PM |
| 92 | THE CORE OF THE DATING WAR: Money.I get bored easily. I can not deal being in a relationship where all we do is have takeaways and watch Netflix. A broke mans ideal date but certainly not mine 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 06:55 PM |
| 14 | Accountability for Pickmeisha actionsThank you for sharing! Women are the prize not the other way around. The whole point of FDS is to help women smarten up and realise this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 03:42 PM |
| 3 | Accountability for Pickmeisha actionsThank you for being open and honest! Identifying were we went wrong and holding ourselves accountable will prevent us and others making the same mistake in the future. It’s frustrating when women do not see the point I’m trying to make and default to the victim blaming narrative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 01:21 PM |
| 5 | Accountability for Pickmeisha actionsIt’s not victim blaming at all. I completely agree with your statement ‘how do you expect people to respect you if you don’t even respect yourself ‘ LVM definitely take advantage of pick me’s and use them just to sleep with them. They are definitely not relationship material. Their self esteems are so low, men see them as easy targets | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 11:13 AM |
| -2 | Accountability for Pickmeisha actionsBut this is you not taking accountability for your own actions. Just say you didn’t understand the assignment a move on 🤷♀️I don’t see the correlation between working hard and achieving bad grades. My lecturer is dyslexic and she has a PHD. She didn’t let her dyslexia be a limitation to her achievements. When you blame your short comings on others things instead of holding yourself accountable, you subconsciously limit yourself from achieving your full potential. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 07:59 AM |
| 6 | Accountability for Pickmeisha actionsIt hasn’t been deleted, it’s still up. The post was locked by a mod because too many people disagreed with my post and those disagreements went against what FDS is about | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 05:45 AM |
| 117 | Facts!!! 🔥I completely agree with this!! I can never sleep with a low value men ever again 🤮I’m so glad I read the handbook on this matter. Remember ladies, never sleep with a man until they show commitment! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 07:13 PM |
| 146 | Ladies NEVER ignore your instincts or dealbreakers. Here’s yet another scrote having broken a woman’s heart after stringing her along for a year.I used to be a Pickmeisha like her. I look back and I am SO EMBARRASSED! I used to date someone who would never text me, unless I texted him he would never text first and he gave me the whole ‘personal issues speil’. I stopped messing him because I wanted to see how long he would go without speaking to me. A week passed with no contact hahahaha A WEEK! I broke up with him and he acted sooo shocked LMAOOO. Ladies please do not date men who say they have Personal issues / do not know how to correc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 01:50 PM |
| 101 | Don’t Date Insecure Men! I LIVE For This Goddess’ Channel.I dated someone exactly as described in the video and I completely agree. He would NEVER reach out to me. It would always be me reaching out to him. He told me he never starts messaging first because he’s insecure and thinks no one wants to talk to him. WELL I wondered if I didn’t message him, how long it would take for him to message me. A week went past without him messaging me and I was nahh this can’t continue so I broke it off with him😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with the realization that I'm a PickmeshaI can relate so much to this!! I consider myself a clown in my past dating experiences. All the things I used to put up with was embarrassing. I was really scraping the barrels in the height of my pickmeisha days, it was awful. All because I was desperate to find a man. Desperation tainted my view and I was unable to tell the difference between LVM and HVM. There were so many pickmeshas enabling and encouraging me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 04:44 AM |
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