apoykin Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Lonely people don't need to be told how to improve, they need to be told to talk to the people they're attracted to. Now. Thats why I mention it is because I remember being told online how you need to basically have everything in order to actually get love, which isn't true. Sure you should be able to keep yourself afloat financially and have some self love but it doesn't have to be ironclad. Its part of the reason why I stopped listening to dating advice online and moving away from it has actually helped me a lot	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/25 06:44 PM
11	Most problems in the current dating climate would be solved if everyone was at a healthy weight Yeah I was going to mention this, weight is not a huge factor	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/25 05:44 PM
5	Lonely people don't need to be told how to improve, they need to be told to talk to the people they're attracted to. Now. Generally I agree with this, I think people are told online that if you have to get literally everything together which I have also learned to be a load of shit. Being honest you will get more success if you are fit and attractive with nice clothes, especially for first impressions, but the most important thing is interacting with people. Self-improvement is a life long journey and waiting till you reach some endpoint is impossible, and you will feel like you did it all for nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/25 04:46 PM
11	It is very hard for women to take accountability. Yeah like OP puts basically all the blame on his female friend for her getting sexually assaulted	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 10:14 PM
3	It is very hard for women to take accountability. When women try to avoid dangerous situations or are cautious around men, we are demonized and men say we hurt their feels by taking precautions and ever even acknowledging the possibility that they might be dangerous You really can't win because of what you said or they do risk it and then get victim blamed. Like actually what are you supposed to do?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 10:11 PM
25	It is very hard for women to take accountability. I think this is the main thing that OP is missing, this really does sound like victim blaming	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 10:06 PM
1	Feminists are just mad at TRP men for gaming the system that Feminism created Late to the thread but this idea that there are only two groups of men is by definition black and white thinking, so that can be disregarded. I don't disagree that TRP tries to "game the system", but I don't believe that this actually accomplishes anything. Also how did feminism demean religious structures?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 09:49 PM
1	Vast Majority of Women are Landing Men Who Were In Romantic Exile, and They Know It I'll start by saying that in my own personal experience, this hasn't been the case. I have girl friends that have been on the apps and what not and have never taken the hot guy. Neither at the clubs and bars we go to. They were single throughout university and still are. I'm skeptical that this is even the case for most women, I really feel like you feel that women are out to get you and abuse you for their own benefit. I think the real advantage when it comes to dating and relationships are tho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 07:34 PM