apozyx Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Boomer pickmeisha blames women and feminism for men being "pushed out" of academia Lmao, so since it began? Hahahahaha omg I didn't know that!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/09/21 03:43 PM
34	Sorry ladies but I gotta use this space to mock poly people 🤣 The one penis policy	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/21 10:04 PM
45	Reminder: Men will lie about anything, including their sexuality! An ex cheated on me with a prostitute when he was traveling. This wasn't the only time he cheated on me on that trip, but this was the only time he admitted to having sex. This woman happened to be trans. I thought, huh ok this must make you bisexual, right? No. Turns out the guy later self describes himself as a 'sexual opportunist' and would literally fuck anyone or anything (i.e. animals), although his preference was for good looking women, I'm not sure there would be anyone he would turn dow…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/21 10:10 PM
5	my complicated relationship with beauty attracted LV people. but working through it put me on the path to HV people. It's so true. I'm an artist and I do a lot of figure drawing/painting. I strongly believe that every person is beautiful because of simply who they are. EVERYBODY looks like a human when they're nude and up close. And every body is beautiful, as it is. Any artist would say the same thing. The ' flaws ' are what makes you who you are and therefore wayyyy more interesting. I hate the airbrushing and photographic portraiture that uses lighting to eliminate shadows... people cease to resemble people…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/21 09:35 PM
8	100% That's so funny 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/21 07:13 PM
15	100% And the lie here is that given this night of 'freedom', they will behave... like a good husband in the future? Lol, no He'll keep finding reasons to cheat	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/21 07:03 PM
10	Male business clients - How to set boundaries? I so agree, this guy sounds scary	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/21 05:31 PM
130	This is a silly question but I don’t know where else to ask, pls help 😬 Babe, you don't need evidence, you know he's doing it. You are discounting your intuition. Your body knows the truth, your conscious mind just hasn't been able to rationalise it yet. Your anxiety is telling you the truth and you KNOW it, why else keep searching? Don't let him lie to you anymore. Have enough courage to believe what you already know is true and then act. on. it. This guy's a bad liar. Like, he doesn't even care enough to give you a good lie. Take some time and really look at this …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/08/21 04:47 PM
7	Silly question Exactly!! have an ex who will cross the street at night pre-emptively if he's walking behind a woman. Because he's always noticed women's discomfort or fear and felt empathy for them, and never took it personally. Because he actually is a kind, decent, HV man.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/21 03:12 PM
37	In shock. A post about a woman finding violent fantasies on her bfs accounts but theYyRe jUSt drAwInGS 🤡 no harm in drawwwwingggsss this is a YOu pRoBLeM🤡🤡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/21 05:33 PM
13	A few thoughts on self protection and stalking. Yes!! I have a small dog and I feel so safe walking with him because he's sooo alert I know that nobody could sneak up on me without him noticing. It's given me so much peace of mind and security. He's extremely protective too, and doesn't like strangers (especially men) talking to me, he will growl and bark and throw a fit. This has meant that no man has gotten within 6 feet away from me since I got him. This has SIGNIFICANTLY reduced the amount of street harassment I've gotten. Although I do g…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/07/21 04:48 AM
4	I did it. Ohhh I am SO proud of you for putting yourself first and dropping this abusive man. I think you will start feeling so much better without him, so much weight will lift from your shoulders. You'll sleep better, your mind will clear, you will find peace. I'm so happy for you, and so excited for you to live your life for yourself and your sweet kitty. You deserve the best. You are so brave <3	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/21 08:27 PM
18	If a man sits down next to you on the bus or train, and he's too close and he starts touching you, what do you do? - Aka how Dr Gail Dines finally put into words what I've been feeling. I read in Emily Nagoski's book 'Come As You Are' that the freeze response is the body's way of ensuring a painless death when escape is not possible. This is why in nature docs you see the gazelle just give up and go limp when the lion catches it. The body releases painkillers and induces the state of shock, it's the final measure of self defence. So many rape victims freeze like this because the trauma is so great the body is preparing itself for a painless death. Being raped is as close to the…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/06/21 03:08 AM
8	Men are ACUTELY conscious of our reproductive power. Never forget that. "According to this view, then, males identify the “immortal” soul with biological offspring, and women should feel fortunate in their roles as incubators, shells, hotels, youth hostels, homes, hatcheries for human souls. I have already suggested that it is dangerous for women to accept reductionist theories about the male propensity for “womb envy”. Thus it should arouse suspicion that Karen Horney's “womb envy” theory (with which she countered Freud's proposition of “penis envy”) has been eager…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/21 08:33 PM
7	JOHN MEEHAN FROM "DIRTY JOHN" WAS A HOBOSEXUAL. So many people hate FDS because we warn women about hobosexuals. Women have every right to protect ourselves from men who want to use and exploit us. Yes!! The podcast was riveting! And I screamed with joy when her daughter kicked the knife away then stabbed that fucker right in the EYE when he was attacking her! Because she learned that move from the walking dead of all things. She put him down like a goddam zombie, she is such a bad ass!! My hero for real, I am truly in awe of her strength.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/21 03:17 PM
146	Are you doing the Pickme Backslide? It's me, I'm doing it. I've been doing it for over a year, entertaining an ex 🤡 from 10 years ago. He's just dropped the mask and showed me who he really is and just how much I mean to him. There were red flags all over the place, I rationalized them exactly how you say, 'maybe this is too harsh🤡🤡, maybe he has a reason 🤡🤡🤡' and now it's been almost a WHOLE WEEK that he's been stonewalling me because of an argument we had. And this hurts, so fucking much, because I gave him the benefit of the do…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/21 01:07 AM
4	True crime and age gaps Yes. An almost 40 year old man should be at a totally different life stage than a late 20s woman. There is something wrong with a man who isn't attracted or interested in women his own age. I've found as I get older that my age preference consistently rises to meet my own. The same is true for men who aren't fucked in the head. An almost 10 year gap is large no matter how old you are.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/05/21 06:20 PM
21	Woman have more empathy and compassion for others, PERIOD. I bartended for a while and my co-workers we all women and one man. The dude was nice enough and tried his best but he just wasn't awesome, in contrast to the other women, who were all incredible bartenders. Every fucking shift this guy would easily pull in 2-3 times more money in tips than any of us. It was really illuminating, because I understood his mediocrity compared to the rest of us, but consistently would be richly rewarded by the largely male clientele. It's such a LIE told by men that…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/05/21 05:51 AM
4	3rd Wave Feminism and Hypersexuality have a GORILLA GRIP hold on female musicians. Male friends introduced me to Tenacious D when I was in high school... and I really hated it. I thought the lyrics they thought were so mEAniNgFUl were super creepy	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/21 03:22 AM
12	What are your dealbreakers in terms of looks? One of my exes was a gymnast... his body was incredible, and his dick was huge! Too bad he was also a huge dick 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/21 03:13 AM
20	Luxury home in Montreal owned by Pornhub exec burned down in apparent arson Fuji apples are the fuckin' best apples	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/04/21 12:05 AM
22	To “scrote” or not to “scrote” "Now, if in that bit, you find yourself offended by anything I say in the joke section, please just remember they are just jokes. Even if you find yourself surrounded by people who are laughing at something you find objectionable... just remember the golden rule of comedy, which is, if you're in a minority, you do not matter. Don't blame me, I didn't write the rules of comedy-- men did, blame them, I do, it's cathartic." Hannah Gadsby, "Douglas"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/04/21 11:57 PM
6	Fuck. Him. Please go to the hospital... the damage from strangulation can take up a week to appear and you can die. Even if you don't see any marks, there could be internal damage that can kill you. Please go now, it's so urgent. I am so scared for you, please...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/04/21 05:37 PM
4	I see a lot of ladies here feel shame about the way they used to be. But please understand that most of us have been some level of pick me in the past. Some still have remnants of pick me mentality yet to overcome. Please forgive yourself. Keep growing and becoming. Omg Thais is amazing, her videos seriously changed my life. I am unrecognizable compared to the person I was just one year ago.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/21 04:49 AM
5	Mother of X, Daughter of Y, Girlfriend of Z Rad fems in the 70s 80s wanted to reclaim "crone" or "hag". I like crone a lot, actually... these are words that acquired a bad connotation but are historically quite powerful	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/04/21 12:26 AM
15	Woman asks men who are into exploiting their wives sexually for other men (wife sharing etc) why they enjoy it, gets this response. Imagine seeing your wife as a sex toy that’ll earn you brownie points with The Boys. I had an ex who was exactly how you describe at the end...no sexual orientation. He slept with men and women, but he didn't consider himself bisexual. He said that he was 'opportunistic', meaning, that any time the option for sex presented itself no matter from whom, he took it, no questions asked. Animals were included as 'opportunities'. He was such a psycho.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/03/21 01:47 AM
19	Just realized the extent of the damage caused by a narcissistic scrote Oh yeah... the dead, shark eyes. :shudder:	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/03/21 07:21 PM
40	I'm tired of hearing men complain about how they're expected to "perform" in the bedroom. I'm so sorry that he treated you like that :( that's awful	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/21 03:21 AM
10	Legitimately evil mle tells his gf he had* to cheat on her bc she was r*ped, men in the comments defend him I'm not convinced that men believe rape is real. Well, rather, that they don't believe any man can actually rape a woman. It's never rape to them, ever. Men always find some reason to explain why it was not rape, no matter what actually happened.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 04:20 PM
1	Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen. My mom always just told me that I don't have to get married or have children if I don't want to. It really wasn't much more than that. Just having her consistently present that as a real legitimate option was so powerful. I always knew that I never wanted children, even when I was 5 or 6, and she would always say that I didn't have to if I didn't want to. It was a beacon of clarity that cut through the miasma of environmental bullshit. I wouldn't underestimate the power of your influence as a mo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 09:44 PM
25	I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll. Lol, you stupid jackasses. You men really are so fragile and pathetic! If things don't work out with my current boyfriend, that's it for me. He's the last one I'll ever deal with. Because he's really the best one out of all of you. If it doesn't work out it will be over logistics, or something else out of our control. But he's still a man, and marrying a man has such huge risks it's not worth even considering outside the most marginal cases. Yes, so, he's the last man. I'm not going to lie, a fu…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 05:33 AM
40	Don't let men play stupid. They like it because they know they're in your head.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 05:20 AM
229	Boomers Mad Millennial & Gen Z Women Aren't pushing out enough babies for them to leech off of to their graves. Maybe if they didn't spend the last 40 years demonizing mothers, providing absolutely no support, and raising garbage sons, we'd think about it. It's always amazing to me that the male driven media and male driven science has framed the climate crisis in such passive terms. "The planet is dying" they say. Oh is it, now?? Just passively dying? Lol, no, scrotes. The planet is being strangled to the point of annihilation because of death-obsessed men. I totally agree with you, btw. Bringing a human into this mess is ridiculous. I don't hate my potential children enough to do that to them. I'm so sorry about your medical emergency, and the u…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 05:04 AM
658	Boomers Mad Millennial & Gen Z Women Aren't pushing out enough babies for them to leech off of to their graves. Maybe if they didn't spend the last 40 years demonizing mothers, providing absolutely no support, and raising garbage sons, we'd think about it. Hahahahahaa omg this is hilarious. They don't even see the problem clearly! "We need to have enough working-age people to carry the load of these seniors, who deserve their retirement, they deserve all their entitlements, and they're gonna live out another 30 years," They DESERVE their retirement! Who is THEY here? Because we all know that old women are one of the most impoverished demographics. Old women have never had a 'retirement' to be entitled to. So who is THEY? THEY are MEN! Hahahaha the…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 04:57 AM
13	Man "pwns" woman who asks what men have to offer by showing her his neckbeard nest and "brown cuddling pillow" LMAOO Oh my god your comment is making me laugh so much... a strangle pillow omg 😂 this is brilliant!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/02/21 11:55 PM
6	Hold the line, ladies. Never lower your standards. Men can meet us on our level or not at all. They're our best advertising 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/21 02:21 PM
5	My journey w/ FDS that might be useful for women lurking here (idk if irrelevant but) You are allowed to be let down by this. This guy isn't paying attention to you and noticing what you like. I had a boyfriend once, and while he was a LVM, he was amazing with gifts... he would notice when I would make off-hand comments that I liked something, and he would have that exact thing for my birthday, or vday or just because. Like, he managed to track down an out of print collection of obscure, regional poetry because just ONCE I told him about a poem that I loved. It was such an amazin…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/21 10:02 PM
3	Update: His girlfriend left him after I told her You are so courageous, even if you feel humiliated right now. Everything you are feeling is valid, feel all your emotions, since you have a counsellor don't be afraid to fully process them. You have a right to grieve the fantasy of the man you thought you had, but his behaviour has nothing to do with your worth. He treated you like trash because he is trash and is incapable or unwilling to do better. You have so much love in your heart and that is such a beautiful thing... turn that love inward …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/21 02:01 PM
22	I’m tired of porn affecting my relationships, and I broke up with my boyfriend last night. How can I obtain a porn-free man if it’s so normalized, I’m 23 years old. If anything amateur porn is worse in my eyes... how much of it was consensual? Was the sex consensual? Was the filming consensual? Was the uploading of the video consensual? I'd wager that the vast, vast majority of "normal" couple porn would violate at least 1 of those. There's just no way all those women in those videos are ALL consenting to the sex, the filming AND the posting. It's so fucking predatory, as if porn wasn't predatory enough.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/01/21 11:36 PM
8	I'm a completely different woman thanks to this subreddit. Thank you all from the bottom of my heart. I'm so proud of you :) You have a bright future ahead of you. You deserve the whole world :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/21 02:09 PM
3	Understand? YoU’rE sOcIoPaThS, nOt NoRmAL!! I sometimes reply to women who post about their pornsick boyfriends/husbands when the post isn't getting a lot of comments and all those comments are ripping into her for being iNsECurE. I prefer to lurk, but it's my duty to provide at least one voice of clarity for her and others who are reading. I absolutely plan to shame those who watch porn in my real life, although I don't think it will come up often. I vet my circle ruthlessly. I like the idea of pasting stickers or posters on streets. I l…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/21 03:09 PM
28	I genuinely don’t understand why male redditors have a sub for every specific type of genitalia 🤢🤢 Andrea Dworkin argued that men on the left are just as bad if not worse than men on the right regarding porn. I just read her book, Pornography: men possessing women and it was so illuminating, everything makes sense now. You can find a pdf for free online, I highly recommend it if you are curious about the role of leftists in porn and cultural misogyny.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/12/20 03:46 PM
49	Cheating & murder- The number of pregnant women being killed by their husbands and boyfriends so that they can be with their mistresses 🤮 I watched that last night and it scared me. The scariest part was when she said in a video about the beginning of the relationship "when I was at my lowest, suddenly there he was" I got CHILLS he is a predator through and through.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/20 11:21 PM
16	Men who cry wolf really irritate me - if you want therapy seek it but don’t compare it to “therapy is for women”. Yeah that bit bothered me the most, too. He has no fucking clue what real prehistoric people did and what they thought. Emotional coldness and calculation would not fly in a cooperative, egalitarian (most likely matriarchal) hunter gatherer society.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/20 02:47 AM
50	Hitting his pregnant wife in the face with confetti during the gender reveal. I feel like LVM being blatantly abusive as a “prank” on social media is becoming more and more popular He hates her.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/12/20 02:47 AM
31	On a thread about facefucking... the last response is especially horrifying Me too. Out of everything, that was the worst. I'm sorry that happened to you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/20 05:06 AM
5	Building myself up again, after letting a man take it all I'm so proud of you for taking back your power. Guard it and never let it go. You can do this!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/11/20 12:53 AM
112	Tale as old as time... I love Artemisia! She's one of my favourite artists. She's WAY better than Caravaggio but gets a fraction of the recognition. She made dozens of paintings of women chopping men's heads off. I love to see it 🤗	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/20 09:08 PM
9	The social stress of being unwed is the real woman killer 🙄 He woke up from the coma, and now he's in Serbia with his daughter, and both have COVID-19. Oh, and the medically induced coma he was in in Russia to cure his addiction to benzos didn't work. He's still addicted. And he has brain damage now, too. Couldn't have happened to a nicer guy 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/09/20 01:17 PM
12	I was only trying to help 😭 Seeing a comment about fds on a relationship_advice post is what brought me here... in February I think? This sub has been a godsend!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/20 05:08 PM
33	Why SHOULDN’T we kink shame? When did we all decide people’s sexual preferences were separate from their actual values? I completely agree. I've had only two relationships with men who treated me like a human being, respected me as a person, respected every woman no matter the situation, etc. Decent human beings, good values, heads screwed on right. Both of them were repulsed by the idea of spanking, of degrading language, of any kind of sex act or that could be classified as "kink" or role play that featured any kind of power differential. They were respectful and attentive to me in bed bc they are respectful, g…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/20 01:15 PM
3	Husband upset that wife is tired after 65+ hour work week I hate when people comment on something and say that the post must be fake. Usually (always?) it's men who choose to disbelieve womens' stories about male depravity... ...but reading this, it's just so fucking unreal to me that any human being could be so devoid of empathy to behave like this. It feels unreal because l am selfless and empathetic, but I know how real it is. It is depressingly real, and depressingly common. I don't even know what else to say, except that this reads like satire but…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/20 03:50 PM
5	This is what happens when you date a child... and the comments 😤 Congratulations 😄 I'm so proud of you for prioritising yourself and kicking the bum out. What an inspiration! I've been single deliberately for 4 years and it's amazing. My apartment stays clean and tidy, i do what i want when I want, and I sleep peacefully through the night. It's paradise. Like you, I only accept people into my life who add to it. It's the best way to live. I hope you have a wonderful week in your nice, clean, quiet house 😄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/04/20 01:51 PM
23	This explains a whole fucking lot, actually I did this in 2016, planned to read/support/listen to women, artists, musicians, authors, etc. It was such a beautiful success I still do it today. I make some small exceptions, but everything I consume is by women. I found that for books, I can find a book by a woman on any topic, in fiction or nonfiction, that is just as good or most often, better, than anything by a man. It feels so subversive to support only women, and I make a point to support women of colour primarily. It's wonderful. Espe…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/04/20 02:41 PM
16	'FLYFISHING' def: when men just get their rods out, waggle it, and expect a porno "Jabby Mcfingers" or "Stabby McFingers" No man has ever fingered me and didn't make it an extremely uncomfortable experience. They just jab and stab. Once, Stabby McFingers stabbed me with his raggedy fingernails while Bran-Tubbing and I was bleeding from tears in my vulva for days.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/20 07:21 PM