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You’re splitting hairs
/r/seduction25/04/23 07:25 PM
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Have you never heard “fake it til you make it”? Imposter syndrome? This is normal, every day, human stuff.
/r/seduction25/04/23 06:08 PM
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People skills are a lifelong art you have to hone. Every single person in this world gets rejected, teased, made fun of at some point. Each person has a choice to either close up after rejection and become more of a hermit over it, or decide to persevere and remain confident in themself (even when they don’t actually feel confident.) Confident people will try to say “ya, someone teased me about this thing. That’s ok, it actually was kind of funny that I did that, wasn’t it?” And forgive themselv…
/r/seduction25/04/23 04:35 PM
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You’re still using a lot of terms that make it sound like you’re genuinely trying to learn how to flirt and socialize in real life from weird, manipulative sources, like Reddit, PUAs, YouTube videos, and movies. Really, don’t do that. Just learn from real life. In real life, men and women have to decide how to change their default personalities to make people (not just potential partners, but all people in their life) like them. This is of course the same with flirting or “seducing” someone. Mak…
/r/seduction25/04/23 04:06 PM
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Nix the PUA videos and taking socializing tips from movies. The most reasonable way to learn to socialize is by socializing, not by watching PUA videos. PUA never really prevail because when you have an underlying motive to your socializing, the other person can tell. It’s not genuine. Pick up art is just voodoo. They’re just making money off of you. Just socialize.
/r/seduction25/04/23 01:13 PM
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People. It’s people skills. When you talk to people, and you’re curious about them, it makes them like you. This is a basic rule of socialization that many people pick up on as they mature. What you did was apply people skills.
/r/seduction24/04/23 08:52 PM
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Well that’s tough to put someone on the spot like that. I don’t blame you at all for wanting to communicate directly, but if someone’s shy, they’ll react shy to that. maybe try with a super nice “hey, I know I asked you before, so there’s no pressure to say yes, but I would like to hang out with you outside of school, if you’d like to”. There’s the altérnate possibility that she likes you as a friend or just as a person, but doesn’t want you to be any more romantically interested in her, which i…
/r/seduction13/09/21 11:26 PM
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She could be shy/nervous, tbh, that is what it sounds like, but truth is, you’ll never know until You ask her. We definitely don’t know, we’re just speculating based on what you tell us. Ask her out politely, respect if she says no, but to me if sounds like she’ll say yes.
/r/seduction13/09/21 10:47 PM
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This is a pretty disrespectful thing to track. I hope I would never make it as a “data point” on someone’s excel sheet to be shared with questionable men on Reddit.
/r/seduction24/07/21 08:42 PM
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You attract what you put out in this world. You don’t sound like someone who should give others advice on love, sex or dating. Red flags everywhere.
/r/seduction24/07/21 08:35 PM
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The former
/r/seduction23/07/21 11:01 PM
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I overwhelmingly develop attraction to men only after getting to know them. Guys I swoon over, I had no idea I thought they were hot the first time I met them. That’s not a joke. Once in a rare, blue moon, a man is charming upon first meeting for me to be attached to him. Charm is hard to describe, but it’s like a welcoming feeling. They’re smiling and being kind, snd lightly teasing. You can also tell it’s not an act, they just have a charming personality. On the other hand, plenty of guys try …
/r/seduction23/07/21 09:50 PM
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This is a serious question that you don’t have to answer but should think about. Are you conventionally attractive? Nice structured face, very tall, and/or broad shoulders? If so, then ok, maybe a random strange girl is giving you vibes, because you stand out from the crowd. But if not, honestly, girls don’t give out these vibes men speak of nearly as much as men think they do. And in my experience as a female, 99% of the guys I find attractive I never would have thought he was attractive the fi…
/r/seduction23/07/21 08:55 PM
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(I’m sorry for being creepy but) I saw some of your past posts. You seem like a real keeper just by how you talk. Surprised you’re not the one giving out the advice to dudes in this sub 😂 next time, ask her out (whoever she is) and report back!
/r/seduction23/07/21 03:23 PM
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It means she answered within seconds
/r/seduction21/07/21 11:40 PM
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Seriously! But no one in real life acts like this. Or at least, I brush them off and don’t associate with them, so I don’t notice them lol
/r/seduction21/07/21 11:24 PM
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I’m a sister :) Be careful because this sub tends to have a handful of super toxic tools, who just hate women and try to play manipulation tactics to feel strong. But also plenty of normal sounding men, too. I’m sure your gut is right, just trust your gut. Be genuine and kind. Be confident. Yes, if there’s a reason to be interested that fast, and she feels comfortable, girls do give out there numbers in short interactions :) give it a go! Just don’t take it personal if you get a no. You have to …
/r/seduction21/07/21 09:11 PM
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Not necessarily true. I compliment guys all the time. It’s just being nice. I’m only attracted to a very small few. OP should still shoot his shot! But a compliment, if she’s a normally kind human, is not a sure sign she likes you.
/r/seduction21/07/21 08:18 PM
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Nah, if she’s dropping hints and gets angry that you’re not picking up on hints then she is a poor communicator and not worth your time. What you do is you either ask her out, or you don’t and move on. Don’t get hung up on what if’s, because for all we know, she might not have even been dropping hints.
/r/seduction21/07/21 08:15 PM
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Don’t ask someone out at the gym. Unless they’re giving out some seriously inviting vibes. Even then, take it easy. Cold approaches outside the gym: 1) be attractive. If someone is literally basing a yes or no off of 2 seconds of knowing you, you better look reasonably good. 2) be kind, gentle, and flirty. Smile. Tease but don’t cross the line. Accept that chances are, she’ll say no, because she gets asked out all the time, and she’s just trying to go about her day and she has no reason to like …
/r/seduction21/07/21 05:30 PM
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Those Chad skits are so gd funny In real life, I’d never be interested in Chad but the radical honesty and confidence thing is totally right. Be a radically real and genuine person, and that will be one wildly attractive trait
/r/seduction21/07/21 04:28 PM
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Like, it’s a very good thing to be a nice person. To most humans, being nice is sexy. So in other words, being a good person, and being masculine are not mutually exclusive
/r/seduction21/07/21 04:22 PM
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Hey- tooootally agree that you should be both respectful, and never be a doormat. As a female, I have to clarify there’s a glaring difference between checking someone out threateningly and non-threateningly. Essentially, Don’t stare. Staring is rude, in all forms. Don’t disrupt her day to sexualize when she’s just on her way to work. But as long as you’re not staring and making her feel threatened for existing, then checking someone out fine!
/r/seduction21/07/21 01:03 PM
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Oh! I’m flattered, but I have a boyfriend. But thank you! We can be friends?
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:36 AM
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Just so you know! Your hinge profiles look great. Unfortunately, they’ll never do anything for you if you secretly hate women :/. So I’m always here, darling, ok? Talk to me about anything. Let it all out.
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:32 AM
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I just care. I may not be a therapist, but I can be a friend for you! ❤️❤️❤️
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:29 AM
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Let me know if you need to talk ❤️I know you could use it
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:27 AM
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The attacking again. It’s a sign of being attacked. I’m so sorry.
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:25 AM
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I’m just so sorry you have this much anger ❤️
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:23 AM
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I’m sorry women’s equality hurts you :/
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:21 AM
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No need to attack feminists, my dear. Your attack is an inaccurate belief. Don’t make yourself sound so jaded against people who just want equality. Using your charm to pick up a man or woman is not a bad thing. It’s actually a great thing. The negative connotation stems from when people do it 3x in one day, and making each one feel like they’re the only one.
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:13 AM
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I don’t know how to help much with the negging besides watching your thoughts and constantly working on it to break the habit. It’s definitely got to stop, I can back you up on that. But compliments I know. Don’t say something you don’t mean. That will be totally unnatural. What nice looks do you like to see on a girl? Think of the non-sexual things that still drive you crazy. A nice dress? “That’s a very nice dress!” Great hair? “You have beautiful hair!” Sexy eyes? “You have beautiful eyes!” (…
/r/seduction20/07/21 03:59 AM
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These texts mean nothing. There are too many possibilities. She could be obsessed with you or hate you for all we know. I will tell you that ypu should chill on the whole “I need you for x” thing, that’s a weird way to flirt. It puts awkward pressure on her, even though you’re kidding. But do keep asking questions about her. Make her talk about herself. So much more. Get to know HER- make the effort to deeply understand her. That’s the key to a girls heart. Signed, a female.
/r/seduction20/07/21 03:44 AM
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Did you just post this? Maybe it was someone else. As a female, I’d say just don’t. Doing squats is vulnerable enough as it is. It’s usually not the place for dating. There are rare exceptions, but rule of thumb: just don’t.
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:38 PM
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Hey, I’m a lady, I would really prefer to not be approached at the gym. Not the place.
/r/seduction19/07/21 07:12 PM
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I approach guys I’m interested in with something friendly like that. However, I would also asked that question seriously, just being friendly. I’m a social person. Truth is, take it with a grain of salt. She may have been finding an excuse to talk to you or she may not have. If you’re interested, try to keep the conversation going with flirting. Because it really could go either way.
/r/seduction19/07/21 06:04 PM
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A lot of people out there (I assume especially women) take a while to decide if they’re attracted to someone. There may be some people they definitely find hot the first time they see them, and others they definitely do not find hot, but at least for me, about 50+% of guys take a little getting-to-know for me to really decide if I’m interested or not.
/r/seduction19/07/21 04:58 PM
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I see what you’re saying. I think it’s exactly why there’s more teachability here. I’m a genuine believer that if you raise a man to respect a woman, it will show (with the exception of some antisocial psychos, sure). The whole no really does mean “NO” type stuff is what we need to keep pushing for. And on the other hand, if you never talk about that stuff with your kids, some will still turn out fine, but others will be confused and have to learn from their friends and TV, etc. And confused is …
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