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ADVICEapplepies4kittens22/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 10:43 AM
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ADVICEapplepies4kittens22/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 11:20 AM
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ADVICEapplepies4kittens22/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 03:50 PM
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ADVICEapplepies4kittens22/r/RedPillWomen06/08/20 11:11 AM
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ADVICEapplepies4kittens22/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 01:20 PM
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ADVICEapplepies4kittens22/r/RedPillWomen21/04/20 03:08 PM
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ADVICEapplepies4kittens22/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 09:39 PM
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THEORYapplepies4kittens22/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 08:38 AM
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ADVICEapplepies4kittens22/r/RedPillWomen04/10/20 09:31 AM
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DISCUSSIONapplepies4kittens22/r/RedPillWomen24/05/20 05:09 PM
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ADVICEapplepies4kittens22/r/RedPillWomen28/09/20 01:01 PM
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ADVICEapplepies4kittens22/r/RedPillWomen13/07/20 05:08 PM
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THEORYapplepies4kittens22/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 06:26 PM
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applepies4kittens22/r/askTRP02/10/20 02:17 PM
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ADVICEapplepies4kittens22/r/RedPillWomen14/11/20 02:54 PM
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Yours is definitely an “attractive woman” experience, I’m an unattractive woma in my earlty 20’s and have never been reciprocated lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:03 PM
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They are everywhere, but invisible to you, definitely you won’t find them on onlyfans
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre16/01/21 10:57 AM
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Women don’t do those jobs because men are not attracted to women working by nature, for example I’m 23 and a woman and i work as an analyst for a pharmaceutical company, I’m not under the illusion that men care about my job, of course a guy would rather be with a 23 year old unemployed bombshell than a 23 year old plain-jane analyst, i think you could broaden your horizons and maybe find a not-so-hot girl with a good head on her shoulders?
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre09/01/21 01:12 PM
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I want best of both worlds too
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 06:41 PM
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I wouldn’t say deformed but just very unattractive facial features: very small and narrow lips and big hooked nose
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/20 06:04 PM
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I mean a serious relationship
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/20 02:33 PM
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Do you think it’s too late for me?
/r/askTRP02/10/20 03:43 PM
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Of course I wouldn’t keep it a secret :) but people do a lot of things to improve their appearance i.e. braces, if someone had a gap between their teeth why not fix it? The way your teeth crowd your mouth is genetic but people get braces all the time (same goes for other stuff)
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/20 02:56 PM
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Wishful thinking😂
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/20 08:13 AM
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Us women are ostracized if we seek sex outside of a relationship that’s why I may come across as desperate when I’m not, us women need a man in our lives as we’re playing a different game than men
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 08:50 PM
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Porn has made men unable to be attracted to the average young woman
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 04:52 PM
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I’ve never had short hair always boob-length or even longer, except i had a bob a couple of times but that didn’t last very long as my hair grows very fast
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 04:51 PM
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No, what I read is that the wall is the age where women cannot find relationships anymore, and may only find a pump and dump at best from the type of men they used to date. I never had any guy interested in me in the first place so that’s not going to be an issue for me. Also no people finding me attractive for sex isn’t flattering.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 04:48 PM
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what do you mean?
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 04:42 PM
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I don’t have the chance of showing my RMV in the first place tho.. men need a conventionally hot girlfriend (i.e. Meghan Fox) to show other men they “made it”
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 02:41 PM
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porn has ruined a whole generation of men.. i worry for our future kids if we even will be able to have any
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 02:06 PM
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My only requirements for a man are: -non religious -has a job he enjoys/is passionate about (doesn’t have to have a college degree) -has good hygiene (i prefer a clean shave but a beard is also nice as long as is well groomed) -not obese (overweight is fine) Edit: Oh anf obvs needs to want a relationship and not a casual fling
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 01:41 PM
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On one hand I feel like I do not have the wall to fear as I simply never had any positive attention to begin with.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 01:38 PM
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Sorry but the first part is what confuses me.. I thought that around here it is well understood that women can get sex from anyone right? And that we shouldn’t base our value on how many people want to have sex with us? I’ve absolutely never been asked to be someone’s girlfriend or to be in a relationship so I automatically thought my value must be close to zero. As for my makeup I got pretty good at mastering the “no makeup” makeup look to make me look fresh and awake, no bright crazy colours.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 01:35 PM
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By “men wanting a professional model” is that most men, especially awkward or shy who haven’t had much luck with women, are single because their brain has been rewired into only wanting the women they see in porn or hentai or hollywood actresses, thus everyday, young women are simply not enough anymore
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 11:26 AM
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I also forgot to say that men are extremely picky. I believe most men have an advantage over women as their looks don’t matter as much, and they are unhappy they cannot find their own professional model (i can show what I look like just for reference)
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 10:52 AM
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In what universe does the female body turn flaccid after 24 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 05:02 PM
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Exactly, if an unexpected expense comes up you can’t just give the bank a hand-knitted scarf instead of your mortgage payment (although I wish I could :P)
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/20 10:06 AM
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I painstakingly do my hair and makeup everyday so the makeup and style advice doesn’t really work for me, I am truly hopeless but I have no idea how to cope
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 08:40 PM
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I think you got it wrong, men go for “homely” women for sex, hot women for LTR
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 08:35 PM
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In what universe do you live in? Men absolutely need to show other men that they managed to snag a conventionally hot woman, doesn’t matter if she is a bitch.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 06:10 PM
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That’s really interesting, how do you mimick charisma? I have no idea where to start
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 05:18 PM
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That’s ridiculous women don’t synchronize their menstrual cycle (that myth was debunked years ago)
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 09:21 PM
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Interesting. Are average/below average women the “beta” of males?
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 08:55 AM
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Well don’t men themselves say that hobbies/interests absolutely do not add to the attractiveness of a woman and that they are even irrelevant?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/20 08:42 AM
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I have just graduated so yeh I’ve read enough books
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/20 12:37 PM
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I personally think that the OP can date this man and see where it goes but give it a couple of years before getting married, make sure you really get to know him (I don’t want to assume bad about him as I don’t know him). However, as a woman you need to protect your womb and make sure you give the gift of using your body to create life to the right man. I’m sorry for the brutal honesty but some men may want to impregnate women they have just met in order to “breed” them and leave a mark on them …
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/20 12:49 PM
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Only problem is that my face isn’t “alright”, is SEVERLY below average
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/20 12:55 PM
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think that all men (regardless of their age or status) want a model-looking or at least conventionally hot by hollywood standards, popular and successful 20-something y/o woman (basically the top 20% of women), while this 20% of women I’ve just talked about are dating very attractive and successful men with higher status (the top 20% of men). So men come to the conclusion that women only want the top 20% of men, but by the broad term “women” they mean the women that were the most popular in high…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 08:35 AM
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I think that all men (regardless of their age or status) want a model-looking or at least conventionally hot by hollywood standards, popular and successful 20-something y/o woman (basically the top 20% of women), while this 20% of women I’ve just talked about are dating very attractive and successful men with higher status (the top 20% of men). So men come to the conclusion that women only want the top 20% of men, but by the broad term “women” they mean the women that were the most popular in hi…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 08:33 AM
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long-term relationship
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 08:19 AM
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I actually think you hit the nail on the head really, I am doing my best to be a pleasant person to be around, but the halo effect is a real phenomenon and ugly facial features are associated with ugly personality traits (I’ve personally experienced this multiple times) that’s why I’m looking to change my exterior first :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 07:09 AM
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I am actually rather slim and my BMI is 19, what I mean is I have a big nose and small lips. I’m also brunette and I’m looking to become a blonde with the help of a hairdresser and eyebrow lady. And yes I’m aiming to date more mature men. Edit: Also my teeth are straight and white but way too big, I went to a dentist to have them filed down but he refused and said they were fine and that he didn’t want to file them down as teeth get worn out with age
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 01:13 PM
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I’m actually getting a rhinoplasty this autumn, I also have an appointment at the hairdresser this week, I come from a pretty good background financially, I just graduated and found a good job, however my parents are very against physical alterations, so much so that I was always forbidden by my mum to get my eyebrows done, and got them threaded for the first time last year. Another thing that detracts a couple of points from my SMV are my thin lips, I actually had a consultation for lip fillers…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 12:27 PM
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I’m 22 so I totally get that :) However OP can’t turn back the clock so I think she should make the best of what she has now, besides that I think her biggest problem is her insecurity. And of course she should fix her insecurities fast as it’s time for some quick decisions :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/20 05:16 PM
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I’m 22 btw.. but in cities childless women who go to the gym and eat well don’t look bad at all
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/20 01:34 PM
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How is 26 old? That’s ridiculous
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/20 09:05 AM
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I don’t have a PhD, but I used to work in the Chemistry department of a university and most people with PhDs date other people with PhDs or people they met on their course.. just like doctors usually marry other doctors (both my grandparents were doctors and met at uni)
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/20 07:44 AM
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tbh I didn’t get sick of anyone and never dated a bad boy before, it’s just a time to improve myself
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/20 12:45 PM
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What if I’m just average?
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 08:30 PM
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The problem is that the bar for what’s considered attractive is higher and higher, even being young, slim, with long hair and clear skin doesn’t cut it anymore. With the rise of higher standards of living men don’t need a life partner anymore, they just need an arm candy to show off as status symbol, I hope I will find someone who accepts I’m not a model one day.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 05:47 PM
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Maybe true for a hookup but not true for a relationship, most men want to be in a relationship with an instagram-model looking woman, this is coming from an attractive and fit 22 year old who is struggling to date
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 01:49 PM
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TBH the alpha guys have never said anything bad about my body, they’re usually complimentary, (although i’m not hot enough to land an alpha type) it’s usually more “beta” guys (who I thought were in my league) who complain or tell me negative remarks about my body even though I have an objectively hot body
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/20 06:38 PM
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My problem is that guys (by guys I mean the average looking ones, so not alpha types) have always lamented about my body. One guy and also my ex-boyfriend told me they thought my boobs were still not big enough even though they’re pretty big for my frame and even cause me posture problems, I cannot even think how it must be like to have bigger breasts than these, and two other guys on first dates told me they prefer thicker legs than mine. I mean why would you even think insulting someone’s body…
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/20 05:55 PM
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I agree with you about the photoshop and edits. I use some ligh weights and also a band to do some donkey kicks and a mixture of other exercises I learnt from a class and I’m pretty happy with my body My problem is that guys (by guys I mean the average looking ones, so not alpha types) have always lamented about my body. One guy and also my ex-boyfriend told me they thought my boobs were still not big enough even though they’re pretty big for my frame and even cause me posture problems, I cannot…
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/20 05:52 PM
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May I ask how did you get the money so young? I saved £3000 so far and my parents have money but absolutely refuse to help
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/20 12:10 AM
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Do you think that a woman who is feminine but doesn’t have a conventionally attractive face can compete against a woman who is feminine and has also conventionally attractive features? I had men (at bars and even professors at uni) shove me to the side in the midst of our convo just to talk to the button-nosed girls.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/20 11:12 PM
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The average woman doesn’t have an onlyfans though, I’m an attractive woman with a fit body and would never create an onlyfans, even though I have jokingly been told to make one, beside that you make more money working a regular job than with an onlyfans, plus with a regular job you can progress and work even in your 40’s once your kids are grown and most importantly don’t lose your dignity and the respect of good men
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/20 11:43 AM
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Ok I’m listening I was just sharing my experience
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 01:01 PM
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Not true, men bed everyone, both attractive and unattractive women, but marry the most attractive woman they can find (does’t matter if they can’t even boil an egg), I’m talking from my real life experience
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 11:04 AM
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Up until then my only option is to be with an abusive man
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 10:29 AM
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it’s not body dysmoprhia, some people are less genetically blessed than others
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 06:03 PM
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Check their post history I think it’s a man LOL
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 07:46 AM
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is it fine to just not have any social media whatsoever?
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 10:44 PM
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My face looks distorted.. pictures really bring out the asymmetry in my face and make my nose extremely bulbous even though it’s fairly thin in real life
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 09:46 PM
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Me too!! This idea that all men no matter their age prefer to date a 21 years old needs to die (I’ll turn 22 soon), when I was 18-20 I’ve been told by older men in their late twenties and thirties that I was cute and pretty but wayy too young, I think the soft spot for older men is a youthful late twenties woman.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 09:47 AM
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my hair is rather long and healthy, but my point is I feel like it’s becoming harder and harder to impress men as the beauty standards seems to be getting higher and higher every year, so even having long healthy hair and clear skin isn’t enough anymore
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/20 09:34 PM
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Wow, I’ve never heard anything like this before. I met some friends’ spouses who seemed a bit cold and distant at first, but usually warm up if given enough time. Not to sound overly snarky, but he must not be that socially inept if he’s married to a well-liked woman like you? Is he just really socially awkward or actually a dangerous person to instigate such reactions? Hope you’re well and safe. xo
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/20 08:49 PM
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My uni professor would just straight up tell me I looked tired all the time even though he didn’t say that to anyone else in my class..?
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 01:29 PM
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If it helps I’m slender and 21 years old and I only get sexual attention too so it might not be your body necessarily?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:00 PM
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What if I’m non-religious? I grew up in an atheist family and I’ve read about various religions to see if there’s one I fit in but I’m still an atheist at heart.. Edit: my ideal man doesn’t need a degree but a job that makes him financially stable (can be woodworking/ plumber etc)
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/20 04:09 PM
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I have a degree and a job in the STEM field (didn’t want to to mention this as I thought men didn’t care about a woman’s job). I rarely go to bars and I met these men at uni or through friends. I would love an older mature man (but so far most older men I’ve met were in relationships already). I’ve been to a couple of dinner parties of a neighbour of mine who is in his late 30s and everyone there was coupled up (I was literally the only single girl these and I felt like I was seen suspiciously b…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/20 03:46 PM
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It has nothing to do with the ethnicity but it’s about the illegal and unemployed status
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/20 03:35 PM
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Why? My grandfather was also a migrant but not illegal or unemployed
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/20 03:21 PM
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I could have written this myself!! I’m also deeply ashamed of being single.. let’s just hope this will only be a season xo
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 09:52 PM
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