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| 36 | How to spot good women? | Discussion | apppppppbcppppppa-dc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 10:23 AM |
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| 3 | Men think women “have it easy” on dating apps. Let’s run a thought experiment.right? Having a chance is MUCH better than having no chance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Men think women “have it easy” on dating apps. Let’s run a thought experiment.I understand your point, but I totally would use this app instead of our real apps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 04:32 PM |
| 0 | The real dilemma for men is erotic validation vs work based validationshe would've been happy with "good enough" or "decent considering the other options". it's kinda bad when you say it that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 03:56 PM |
| 2 | The real dilemma for men is erotic validation vs work based validationwhy would I want someone who doesn't add anything to my life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 03:48 PM |
| 3 | How to spot good women?Encourage people to talk about themselves and listen closely I do that, but I didn't really know what signs to look for. One that I learned the hard way is "talking too much about the previous relationship". How are their relationships with family and co-workers? Do they always cast themselves as victims in troublesome situations? Do they tell "little white lies"? Do they keep their word? Pay their bills on time? Are they able to hold down a job? These are things I'll pay attention to! Thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 03:29 PM |
| 2 | How to spot good women?Thank you. Other people here also commented general tips about things to avoid while I don't yet know how to detect nuances in their behavior. Hopefully I can follow them while I gain some experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 03:26 PM |
| 1 | How to spot good women?well, I don't even have someone to fit my basic criteria, so I don't feel like I can ask for much more than that. When I learn what I'm doing wrong, I can have a better criteria he is! I'm happy you found somebody! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 03:19 PM |
| 2 | How to spot good women?that's something I have never considered, but sounds obvious now that you said it thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 02:55 PM |
| 4 | How to spot good women?I mean what would you like in a relationship? someone who likes me beyond money and isn't an emotional abuser Truthfully you won't be able to "spot" a good woman. You'll need to get to know her. yeah, but the point is that probably there are many things to pay attention to when getting to know someone in order to tell whether or not she's a good person. Thankfully, there is a lot of helpful comments in this thread pointing out things to pay attention to. insulting you but trying to pass it off a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 02:53 PM |
| 0 | How to spot good women?alright. I'm reading everything I can trying to find out where is my mistake, but it doesn't mean I'll believe everything they tell me, so don't worry. But thank you for the advice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 02:44 PM |
| 3 | How to spot good women?I see. Thank you! I'll pay attention to it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 02:42 PM |
| 1 | How to spot good women?I'm glad you found each other edit: oh, he's a ex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 01:17 PM |
| 4 | How to spot good women?I see your point. Thanks for the advice! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 12:46 PM |
| 2 | How to spot good women?I sure am a people pleaser. Else I’d recommend to keep your guard up at first with new women you meet and try to build a connection without money and favors first. okay, thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 12:41 PM |
| 0 | How to spot good women?thank you for the book indication. I'll read it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 12:32 PM |
| 2 | How to spot good women?Ouch. That's why I try to hear from as much people as possible, so I can build a better understand... Thank you for pointing it out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 12:30 PM |
| 7 | How to spot good women?I've been reading RedPill content for the last couple of weeks, but my issue with it is it's really hard to have 4 billion women fitting into the same theory and I'm afraid of going too extreme in my views of women. I really think The Game only works on a subset of women who behave in the specific way that makes it work. I don't know how large this subset is, but it seems to me that women who fall out of this subset would make the best partness. But I could be wrong Based on your comment, I thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 12:04 PM |
| 6 | How to spot good women?I never heard about Patrice Oneal before. I'll check it out as knowledge is never too much. I do casually date, but I tend to stick with the ones who look like a good person. I guess I'm just terrible at telling who is actually a good person You also need to self reflect. I agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 11:44 AM |
| 3 | How to spot good women?In my case, I never bring it up as I always thought it was none of my business. But it happened more than once that a girl said "I have never done this before" or "I only did this once" and later I found out were lying. And I don't even know why they felt they needed to lie when I didn't even ask. They could just not say anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 11:36 AM |
| 2 | How to spot good women?I never did as I always thought it was none of my business. But it happened more than once that a girl said "I have never done this before" or "I only did this once" and later I found out they were lying. And I don't even know why they felt they needed to lie when I didn't even ask in first place. They could just not say anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 11:34 AM |
| 3 | How to spot good women?It started with money. I was had a very poor childhood but, since my early 20s, I have a good financial life. I don't buy expensive stuff, I'm not materialistic, but somehow they could see I had money and tried to get that from me. And I spent some tens of thousands on them. I didn't bother spending the money because I mostly don't use it and I thought they needed it. But some friends of mine were horrified when I casually told them and they told me the girls were there just for money. And they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 11:25 AM |
| 1 | How to spot good women?I'm not disagreeing with the RP. I just wanted to point out where the term comes from | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 11:02 AM |
| 1 | How to spot good women?hn... Alright. Thank you for your help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 11:00 AM |
| 3 | How to spot good women?Do you randomly approach, yes. And, in some cases, they're the ones approaching me. Both cases end up the same. or do you have lots of friendships with women or where you can meet women through? I do have many friends. Even in my friendships I had got far too many people (men and women) that are there just to use me. That's how I know there's something wrong with me that are attracting these kind of people and making me think they're good. It can take a while to find the click, but once you do i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 10:56 AM |
| 2 | How to spot good women?but how do you know their body count? Do you strait up ask it? I don't think that's something they just bring up. At least for me, they often lie about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 10:48 AM |
| 9 | How to spot good women?according to the RP, is someone who was in love with a chad and was dumped. She'll be always comparing you with the chad and you'll always be below him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 10:44 AM |
| 8 | How to spot good women?Oh boy have you come to the wrong place! Oh no! I try to observe and immitate successful relationships, but it didn't work so far. I asked my friends about it and they just said I just don't have luck on it. There's cleary more than luck involved but I didn't want to bother them further. I think there's something out there I just can't see. It's not normal to be always choosing wrong. Just by pure chance alone, some choices should be right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 10:43 AM |
| -1 | How to spot good women?Thank you. I've been reading a lot about Red Pill content for the last couple of weeks and it really changed my mind in a lot of ways. But I'm afraid of going too extreme in my views, so I like to use PPD to read some counter arguments, as it looks more neutral | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 10:35 AM |
| 6 | Women and men have different strengths. Guns makes it more even.There's incredibly high rates of domestic violence. And a lot of that violence can be prevented if women carried guns. yes. Doing domestic work while having a gun in your waist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 01:03 AM |
| 6 | The Red Pill is actually quite helpfulTRP have good points. Blue Pillers have good points. Nobody is 100% right or 100% wrong. It's all a gray area. One should read it all and collect the good things while avoiding the bad things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 01:00 AM |
| 12 | Women constantly shame men for lashing out when rejected, however the other side of that coin is that women are insanely picky when they have very little offer themselves, and flake over frivolous nonsense at the drop of a hat.are you living under a rock? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Do men believe that after the third date, women "owe" them sex ?in the general case, the man is the only one paying for these dates. So, yeah, they're expecting something in return. If the woman is not interested in having sex, it would be good if she said id upfront, so the guy can decide if he still wants to keeping spending his money on her. PS: that's not my behavior but, as a man, I know lots of men and they do think like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 11:58 AM |
| 0 | Men and Women BOTH hate being equalYep. I strongly agree with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 08:33 PM |
| 7 | Men and Women BOTH hate being equalAs a man, I don't care if she's less, equal or more than me. I don't even think about it. I don't want to depend on her, tho. I want to be able to take care of myself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 05:18 PM |
| 5 | Women have said they make "relationship material" men wait for sex because they care about them and they didn't care about the other guys or see a future with the other guys. What's the logic?Yep. I agree and this doesn't deny my point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 03:46 PM |
| 7 | Women have said they make "relationship material" men wait for sex because they care about them and they didn't care about the other guys or see a future with the other guys. What's the logic?She IS rewarding them and punishing the one she likes, even if it's unintentional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 03:16 PM |
| 7 | How does personality correlate with women's attractiveness?I can confirm. If a 6 smiles and says hi to me, she's instantly an 8 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 01:18 AM |
| 36 | How many of you have actually dated/hooked up with someone that you don't find attractive?how did it start? It was her birthday and I wanted her to feel happy was it good? No. It was worse than I expected, but not terrible are you still together? No. It only happened twice. I couldn't do it any longer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 08:34 PM |
| 2 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.she wasn't accusing anybody, it just wasn't her thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 10:08 PM |
| 0 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.Fortunatelly, we won't ever get to find out wheter I am right or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.you're being naive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 09:21 PM |
| 19 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.I explained to her I shared some experiences of mine; We made a OLD App male profile just so I could show her how it worked out for guys; I shared some experiences of my friends; And she gradually understood it. She was really willing to understand our point of view, so it helped. Did she accuse her average guy friends of sleeping around? No... She didn't have guy friends at that time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 08:36 PM |
| 1 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.not agreeing with the comment, but rape happens. In every war there's rape. It's happening right now. Every time there's a lack of consequences for rapists, there's rape. If something like what u/ihopeitsnormal describes happens, you can be sure there'll be A LOT of rape. That's what humans do I disgree with u/ihopeitsnormal views, tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 08:24 PM |
| 92 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.yep. My first girlfriend thought any average man had easy sex with hoes out there. It was a very simple thinking process: "there are many man asking me to hook up. I don't accept it because I have standards, but I'm sure many other women do." It's just the "I'm not like the other girls" concept. It took a long time to teach her that, while an average guy might try to hook up with many girls, his success hate can be extremely low because the "other girls" have standards too. Everyone wanna feel s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 04:44 PM |
| -4 | Girls not wearing make-up should be normalised.that's an extreme and rare case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Why are men so mean to women they find unattractive unprovoked?I think OP knows how to solve the problem and is here just to understand what's going on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Why are men so mean to women they find unattractive unprovoked?attractive to me, maybe not to them. Post on r/rateme | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Why are men so mean to women they find unattractive unprovoked?but in my dms asking for nudes or trying to hit on me they think that, because you're unattractive, you're as desperate as they are. When you refuse it, they act like the were doing you a favor, don't they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 03:35 PM |
| 4 | Why are men so mean to women they find unattractive unprovoked?because men see unattractive women as other men, and that's how they treat each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 03:26 PM |
| 5 | Dating is moving on a minefield for womenThen no dates for u/JMoon33 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 02:33 PM |
| 6 | A big and defined chest or manboobs is male equivalent of big breasts and cleavage on womenCommon, bro. I'm pretty sure it's a solid 6 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Why is the female dating strategy sub reddit so obsessed with anti porn views and "porn addicted men"?throwing down in the sack I don't know what it really means and now I feel I have to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 01:50 PM |
| 3 | Women really are wonderful: Men benefit more from marriage than women do, and it's due to patriarchal misogyny that so many men believe it's the opposite.It total getting divorced will cost me about $3.3m WHAT THE FUCK | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 01:08 PM |
| 1 | MGTOW shouldn't have been bannedI agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 01:19 PM |
| 6 | The number of men not having sex within the past year tripled between 2008 and 2018. Why is that?I'll keep it there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 02:20 PM |
| 9 | The number of men not having sex within the past year tripled between 2008 and 2018. Why is that?Maybe I'm being dumb, but I'm not seeing the Standard Deviation in these charts. Anyway, your first link shows the weekly earnings in US is 19% bigger today than it was in the year 1980. But, in the US, the dolar has lost 70% of it's value in the same period. I don't think I have to say more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 01:47 PM |
| 6 | The number of men not having sex within the past year tripled between 2008 and 2018. Why is that?I need source on this. Because I really think your numbers are twisted by billionaries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 01:14 PM |
| 2 | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.did you know that Leonardo DiCaprio dumps women as they age? I didn't. But, to be fair, I don't know anything about the dating life of ANY celebrity out there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 09:49 PM |
| 6 | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.As a long time lurker, that's the most ridiculous thing I have ever read here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 09:31 PM |
| 1 | If you were a catch, you wouldn’t have to announce you’re a catch. At least she posts all her red flagsOh, thank you! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/07/21 02:40 PM |
| 1 | If you were a catch, you wouldn’t have to announce you’re a catch. At least she posts all her red flagswhat is the honey VS vinegar philosophy? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/07/21 02:12 AM |
| 4 | Women should stop having hookupsDude, you're distorting what she said. You're being crazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 11:42 AM |
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