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Question For Womenappreciating_men/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:01 PM
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Totally!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:31 PM
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I never once said anything about dating advice. It's overarching dynamics, not dating focused.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:29 PM
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Yeah I think you're right, more encouragement would definitely be received differently. Okay, and yes I agree with you about the general concept of no one being "undeserving" and see how that as an underlying message could be received literally. And totally - we aren't entitled to have a partner and that's why this isn't a dating podcast - it's focused more generally on relationships and dynamics between men and women in all contexts. Again, thanks so much for your thoughts! I really appreciate …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:14 PM
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OMG these are so funny! I love these! I really appreciate the feedback and ideas. Brilliant, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:45 PM
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Yeah that's a really interesting point. I hadn't considered that. It's hard because I feel like for a lot of women the narrative has gone super far in the direction of emasculating men and putting them down and demanding that we deserve x,y,z without being willing to offer anything in return and just straight up competing with men and I think that's super harmful and I want to call it out, but I also believe fundamentally, that we won't be able to seek better understanding and have a more cooper…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:34 PM
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That assumption seems like a stretch and a little unnecessary, I'm just trying to answer your question to help give you a bit more context of the podcast and the goals and why I think there is an adversarial divide. I don't even know what down voting means lol I'm very new to reddit 😂. I'm happy to keep debating and chatting about it, but don't think getting into personal relationships makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:20 PM
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No, it's focusing on the overarching dynamics between men and women and how the feminist movement and me too have marginalized men and led to an over-masculinization of women. I think men in their nature are deserving of women. And I do think women deserve men, too, by nature, but instead of appreciating men, most women are focused on emasculating them and competing with them. Men don't compete with women - they want to have a more cooperative relationship with them, but women continue to insist…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:07 PM
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Thanks, yeah I do think that's the least controversial, but it's also not "punchy" or as engaging is my concern. Also, while the energetics are relevant to a point, I agree with you and that's definitely not my focus. Talking more about men and women versus masculine and feminine "energy" is wayyy more applicable. It does come up occasionally in my interviews, but I hear you, it's too woo woo and not super relatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:03 PM
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Hahah I like that! Thanks for the feedback!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:59 PM
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Interesting, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:59 PM
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I think most men strive to make the women they care about happy. Our happiness and feminine energy is what fills up their cup - like gasoline in a tank. And honestly, I think they're much more focused on how they can make women happy than we are on making men happy (generally speaking). But most of the time, they don't show love and affection and care the way that we do as women so we don't correctly interpret their intention and assume they don't care about us in the same way. When in reality, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:43 PM
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I am a woman and I have a podcast to help bridge the gender divide (between men and women) where I interview men and help them share their experience of being a man in the world, and how they relate to women - it's meant to be entertaining and also educational -- giving women access to learn more about men, better understanding the male experience. It also shows men they aren't alone in their experience. Personally, I absolutely love men and think that the way women are acting and treating men t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:22 PM
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