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Ah I see we agree on the “if he wanted to he would” approach to men providing 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:50 PM
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Most men are 50/50 men tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:26 PM
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What’s frightening about Robert Pattinson? Bc he played a vampire in twilight? That’s obviously not real.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:15 AM
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Seems like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:15 PM
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No you can also not chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:38 PM
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Have you considered that the balanced women are more desirable and out of your dating pool?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:35 PM
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I hope my friends respect but don’t “get” my partner lol. He’s mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:31 PM
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To who? Everyone? Husbands? Men you’re not commited to? And what traditional roles are men still upholding?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:43 PM
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It’s hard to argue bc my aesthetic is more minimal and I love how big my room is and refuse to full it up. But what I’m saying is compatible w chic masculine minimalism which the men’s photo is not. This isn’t a perfect representation, it could be a lil more masculine, but this is an example off the top of my head: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:39 PM
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Which standards do women not live up to?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:34 PM
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What time is the ufo war supposed to start today?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:34 PM
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There was a bunch of photos for both living spaces but I had to grab only the image w text on it or it wouldn’t make sense to yall
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:32 PM
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He has lots of clutter already
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:31 PM
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He doesn’t look poor to me, just looks like he doesn’t care to make things nice for himself. Not talking about money but like a frame and a nightstand, a color or 1 piece of art he likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:30 PM
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🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:28 PM
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Yeah and chic masculine minimalism has always been fashionable so it’s not like you couldn’t keep it sparse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:27 PM
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You’d have a point if he had a bed frame, nightstands and tidied up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:27 PM
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And women are motivated by that too. But they aren’t fucking incels. So the question is how to motivate them to change their values/interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:26 PM
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There’s a clear pathway
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:25 PM
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It looks like there’s a syringe on the floor in the bottom left
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:20 PM
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Me: you have to motivate women somehow You: ok money What does that have to do with what is “the most important thing” (whatever that means)?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:19 PM
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There’s garbage on the floor. I don’t think it’s overly dirty, I’d say more messy. But the second one looks clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:18 PM
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No, red pillers are going over the wall, I think there’s a couple okay ones. I also think most would drop the bs when they see the loudest/meanest ones go over the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:16 PM
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I’d be happier in the second room
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:15 PM
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Yeah that would be fair
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:14 PM
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It’s not functional (no nightstands or bed frame, weights on floor to trip over), messy, bad feng shui (computer facing desk) and worst of all UGLY.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:14 PM
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It’s squalor
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:12 PM
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It looks like the platonic form of living in squalor
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:11 PM
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I think I’d be moral but for that to work 5-15% of the population (the ones who will always be anti-social) gotta get dumped over the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:10 PM
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Probably. But you’d have to figure out how to entice/motivate women to take on charity projects.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:09 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:08 PM
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Don’t worry I hate her too 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:08 PM
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<image> Like???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:07 PM
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<image> This is why the “cat lady” threats don’t make any sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:07 PM
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Gonna guess it’s overwhelmingly male politicians taking play out of school. Like yeah men can’t be crude everywhere? Is femininity under attack bc it’s not appropriate to cry everywhere? If men won’t do “any of the housework” then yeah, I expect their partners will complain about their deadbeat men. It’s unacceptable to live w someone and not do your fair share of housework, much less ANY housework. Like Jesus. The vast majority of men are with women who ALSO WORK. It’s not like 9/10 times this …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:03 PM
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Can’t find a man attractive if he’s dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:49 PM
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Who is preventing men from being masculine? We literally elected a guy twice who said he grabs women by the pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:49 PM
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Yes. I agree. The dif is traditional masculinity says all the things that help you become resilient are gay: experiencing your feelings instead of running from them, vulnerability, relationships (all kinds), seeking help if/when you need it, encouraging yourself (instead of berating yourself), etc. So both people will experience hard things, but one will have more resilience to weather the storm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:47 PM
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Is your sis not getting a 19k purse that appreciates in value over time? That’s literally exactly what I’m talking about… You could collect rare books, not bc they are meaningful to you, but bc they hold value in case you ever need money, you can sell them. And they come in a huge range of prices.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:20 PM
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Reciprocal communication, is interested when we talk, active compromising, makes me cum
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:17 PM
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Today you learned you can just be a person and do what works for you without performing masculinity or femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:16 PM
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All emojis are tongue in cheek
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:15 PM
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I wanna go on a bougie gay vacation w my gay tech bros and my bi boyfriend and dance all night and take mushrooms on the beach and stuff. Straight men could never. 🙅🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:13 PM
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Men are easier to get than women tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:11 PM
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Depends if their behavior was good enough for a healthy foundation or if they were too low effort due to low interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:09 PM
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Like, with eggs?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:08 PM
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So then choose things that aren’t sentimental but hold value well so that you have assets 1) to build wealth 2) to hold wealth in case of emergency. Be pragmatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:06 PM
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Hermes bags appreciate in value at least
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:05 PM
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Men can fix their own mental health problems by divesting from traditional gender roles: https://www.snf.ch/en/HTIYFmVEjJyqgfkE/news/conforming-to-roles-increases-mens-risk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:04 PM
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What is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:33 PM
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Teens should not be allowed to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:38 PM
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Because I don’t believe you think that Trump will fix the loneliness epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:32 PM
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So you can’t name a single thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:31 PM
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I don’t see how
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:31 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:30 PM
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Men wanna go pick fruit in the fields?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:23 PM
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What about Trump is modest or Christian? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:19 PM
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Republicans are lowering the ages for child marriage and child labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:13 PM
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What is trump gonna do to fix the loneliness epidemic? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:11 PM
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Explain how Trump helps men’s issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:10 PM
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lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:39 AM
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Women say it all the time on tiktok. It’s def still a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:38 AM
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Average girl could also be on a date w Chad, unaware that he is dating other women. His disinterest frees her up to date and average man as she takes it at face value and nexts him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:36 AM
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This is why you flash red at bulls
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:12 AM
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Because she’s an ex. You don’t do all the things you did for her when you were together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:06 AM
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It sounds like you had a conditional relationship with your ex, which is why she’s an ex. Perfectly fine/normal to still having some kind of love there. But you agree it was conditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:33 PM
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Provided makes it seem like it’s one way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:25 PM
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You don’t get “provided” love. It’s a relationship you build. Not every relationship gets there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:12 PM
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It sounds like you’ve never even been in an adult platonic relationships. A conditional relationship would provide the feeling you’re talking about, you just have to build and maintain trust instead of being gifted it for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:01 PM
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Parents love is unconditional. Partner love should always be conditional (ex: leave if they become abusive). So it’s weird to compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:54 PM
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That’s awesome 🙏🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:09 PM
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I’ve talked to women on here who have had drastically different experiences w men than I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:23 PM
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Girls age 14-18 So High school students And adult men 28+ 🚨 🚔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:26 PM
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The commenter said “nothings gonna stop that” 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:34 PM
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This is my argument for safe, legal abortions lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:00 PM
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You asked
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:28 PM
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Why would she have to demand you practice basic hygiene?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:05 PM
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That’s what you made it sound like
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:02 PM
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It was a pet research project in college
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:58 PM
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Reading about it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:47 PM
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So they made a sacrifice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:46 PM
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They’re deluded and they know it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:39 PM
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So you only practice basic hygiene if a woman makes you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:38 PM
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Infliction how?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:17 AM
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So which metric are you using?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:10 AM
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Why can’t yall believe in your arguments enough to state them plainly? I hate playing the guessing game.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:08 AM
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Okay but 80% of divorces are initiated by women. So it seems like both women and men agree the relationship is unhealthy but respond in different ways. Which is how men staying is being used as an example of men’s morality in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:07 AM
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What does emotional abuse mean to you that “most husbands” are victims of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:57 AM
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Not sure if you’re just talking about yourself or relationships in general
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:54 AM
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The sub haha sorry i had an edible 🤪🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:53 AM
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Yes. I’m saying the failure should be when the relationship stops being healthy. Not when you physically break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:52 AM
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I feel like you literally made a point to distance yourself from passport bros and then said “not that there’s anything wrong with it”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:50 AM
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I’m banned 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:49 AM
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People like that are my #1 opp
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:48 AM
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But you’re implying the duty is to stay in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:44 AM
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Must be male humor
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:35 AM
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No? No one said anything like that. My point was both men and women risk for their loved ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:34 AM
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I guess we’ll never know how you’d react to the risk given we both know you will never have to experience it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:31 AM
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Oh okay well we agree men aren’t innately more logical than women then 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:26 AM
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And yet 100% of moms take this risk or no children would be born
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:26 AM
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The duty should be to keep the relationship healthy, not just be physically present.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:16 AM
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But if you’re logical, why wouldn’t you just fix the relationship (troubleshoot it and test out different solutions like any other engineering problem) so that they 1) don’t have to suffer indefinitely 2) don’t get left by the woman (not saying breaking up is bad but obviously if you can troubleshoot and have a healthy relationship that’s better for a number of practical reasons like alimony and child support).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:14 AM
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By which metric? Like… women literally die in childbirth every day for all of human history. Since day 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:11 AM
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You really think abortion is killing a baby? Like sincerely that’s what you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 11:33 PM
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Do me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 11:28 PM
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I’m Ms treat yourself and I only do this like once a year, once a month is wild 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 11:27 PM
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I’m usually very pro luxury treats but if you get it every month it’s a good idea to skip for a month, like you’ll appreciate it more when you get it back. Like remember where you came from lol Edit: if you need nice nails to fit in/be confident at work then mani only
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 11:25 PM
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How do you know what their other options were and that they were better options?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 09:36 PM
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Less and less based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 09:04 PM
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Lots of women are with men who don’t do all that It’s a carrot on a stick
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 08:58 PM
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I don’t know what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 07:42 PM
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You can choose politicians and policies that oppress you. Just like poor people vote against their interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 07:10 PM
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Well I guess the vast majority of dads don’t want this since they are with women who work full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:08 PM
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He chose a woman who wasn’t aspiring to be a trad wife tho. It’s not as if he picked on of the red pill women who wanted to be picked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:05 PM
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Ok but most Americans live paycheck to paycheck and don’t do good financial planning. Like yeah in the best case scenario it COULD work out, but for the average woman who tries it’s stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:03 PM
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Uh that’s monstrous? Having a body count preference is one thing but thinking rape is okay bc a woman slept around????? Literally what the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:00 PM
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Birth control is def part of financial independence. Harder to be independent w a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:27 PM
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I mean literally less women marry and have children
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:21 PM
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Sounds like you’re talking about a couple random idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:21 PM
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So then what are you talking about? Other people acknowledging that women in the military exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:14 AM
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Yeah in America they’re free to have their opinion. Love that for us 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 04:13 AM
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It’s very easy to see how men’s lives are harder than their fathers and grandfathers bc women weren’t financially independent and therefore were more desperate to partner. Even good choices may have some drawbacks. It’s just overall the right thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:08 AM
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Oh Like I thought it was cool to read bc I related so I was like ok cool another person has the same experience as me. That’s social media 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:41 AM
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Then tax them on income. That’s not what Trump is doing. He is paying billions of dollars to deport the 96 billion in income instead of spending substantially less money to tax them better. What a fuckin business man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:40 AM
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I’m just pointing out that no one is going to feel bad that men are rejected in return for low effort advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:07 AM
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Because the only reason to be anti-immigration if you actively want more workers in the economy (birth rate) is racism. Illegal immigrants paid 96b in taxes in 2022. All revenue Trump wants to PAY BILLIONS OF DOLLARS to eradicate on day 1 of his presidency. The only way this clown logic makes sense is racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:05 AM
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That’s what she said. She framed it as her problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:59 AM
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I relate to that and I’m sexual.🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:59 AM
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Same girl
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:59 AM
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Wdym “claiming” women literally are in the military and have done this. Idc about war and think the military is brutal squalor so I have no aspiration to do this and do t claim I could. But I presume the people who say this are talking about women who actively want to be in military and pursue it. That’s already happening and has been for decades
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:58 AM
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Nah vast majority of men watch porn as virgin teens. The number of men who don’t watch porn until after they have difficulty dating is minuscule.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:56 AM
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Thousands of times means the vast majority was extremely low effort attempts
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:55 AM
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Porn brain is just another form of capitalism brain. The way we all conceive of people has been fundamentally changed by video porn. It’s just a phrase to refer to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:54 AM
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Not doing something is easier than doing something
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:53 AM
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Worst rule
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:52 AM
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In male culture what does that mean? Like what do you think of a man who is with a trans person? Like he’s freaky? He’s a simp? He’s not a “real man”? Or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:52 AM
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Obviously? Some women are big and/or muscular and some men are small and/or weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:50 AM
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Yay
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:49 AM
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Midwives aren’t in medicine?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:48 AM
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I don’t really understand what point you’re trying to make. You’ve never heard an insult before? I used a derogatory phrase to refer to people I don’t like. Btw no one, and I mean NO ONE, is cooler than an art hoe. 😎🚬
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:46 AM
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Yes that would be one example of oppression. Not the only form lmao. If you think abortion is oppressive you have the right to not get one. This is America 🤷‍♀️. That’s freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:41 AM
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And castration laws aren’t meant to harm men but to prevent unwanted children from being conceived.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:39 AM
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So… racism means women should be forced to give birth? That’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:37 AM
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And fuck those bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:34 AM
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Not sure how any of what you said connects Oppression being on the ballot makes it not oppression? Being able to stay single means women can’t be oppressed in any way?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:34 AM
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Most people deny they are forced birthers and claim they only care about abortion bc human life is sacred.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:26 AM
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Feminists also hate pick me women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:25 AM
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So if we made a law to castrate all men but only .1% of American men ended up being castrated, then men wouldn’t be oppressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:25 AM
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Yes and a society where men don’t have to die for their rich bosses would be even better. At least in hunting or war there’s a point to it. If we built a society based on humans, not money, we wouldn’t need unsustainable amounts of energy and we wouldn’t be cavalier about sending boys and men to die in coal mines. lol what childhood trauma causes feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:01 AM
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For instance, women used to do most healthcare (makes sense if you think about women in caregiver roles + midwifery) then men invented medical school and barred women from attending. Suddenly medicine was male for hundreds of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:53 PM
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“Best manner” Lmao No one could look at the state of the world in 2024 and think the system we built is the best The loneliness epidemic alone shows this is not true We could have built a world where everyone’s basic needs were met before some people have second homes. We could have good food (I’m rfk for a min), stewarded our natural resources better, made products that do more than lip service to the health of the end user and the planet. Instead, we chose a system that prioritizes making mone…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:49 PM
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“Small minority of states” It’s 1/3 American women Get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:47 PM
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Why can’t they get healthcare? Because men disproportionately support conservative policies that make it harder for the average man to access healthcare?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:46 PM
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Wrong. Hillary literally got more votes than trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:45 PM
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1/3 women live in a state where trump got abortion banned yall lost the ability to play the “women aren’t oppressed” card
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:42 PM
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Your face gets bashed in either way. Do you want 1) your brain to get hijacked with emotion or 2) to be able to stay calm and level headed and know the pain is temporary and you will get through it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:41 PM
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Google “dbt skills” and you’ll find like 30. You can play around with them. Some are for like “it’s an emergency I’m so overwhelmed” and some are for when you’re calm but trying to change behavior or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:35 PM
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Cool. I def wouldn’t. I’m not gonna talk about vulnerable shit in front of people who might be assholes about it. If someone does that in therapy the facilitator at least checks them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:50 PM
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It might be. It might not be. But there’s a whole scale of how bad the problem affects your quality of life than can be changed even if the problem can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:49 PM
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No one says ignore. In my example I said the problem was clearly accepted as existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:48 PM
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Yeah I think that’s true and therapy can help. It has limits, it should acknowledge that the world is fucked up and capitalism is keeping us down, but it’s helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:46 PM
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Yup that’s a good point, it can be a stepping stone to something more effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:44 PM
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That beauty standards exist and only a minority of people get to meet them all 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:39 PM
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Before therapy: “other people treat me bad bc they can see that I’m bad” After therapy: “other people treat me bad 🤷‍♀️ sucks for them but not really any of my business 🤷‍♀️”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:38 PM
2

Prob 58%++ of people who go to the doctor regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:37 PM
1

Before you can move on from something you have to accept what happened. Most of us run away from admitting someone, especially a parent, hurt us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:36 PM
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Acknowledging what others have done to you and taking accountability aren’t mutually exclusive it’s the same process
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:35 PM
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The difference is your friends could shit on you or tell you to suck it up while therapy groups have rules about what you can do/say so people feel safe enough to be vulnerable knowing they aren’t going to be told to man up. Not saying venting to friends isn’t great, just saying there is a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:31 PM
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Takes a lot of time and building up skills before you can trust yourself enough to unpack those things, and idk if the peeling back of layers ever stops. But the noise the issues create can stop. I went from “can’t think about this because it’s too painful so I’ll act out to distract myself” to “wow this thing really hurt me but I’m so ashamed I’ll just keep telling myself to get over it” to “I guess telling myself to get over it won’t work, wow it must have been really bad if it affected me thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:29 PM
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Well yeah. Obviously life going well is the ideal scenario. Therapy is to help you tolerate when life is bad since that is inevitable for all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:21 PM
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Usually it’s not the problem that hurts us, it’s how we think about and deal with the problem. Therapy gives you tools to tolerate unpleasant emotions and experiences more effectively (like, without spiraling or acting out).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:20 PM
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If you agree to monogamy, you would have to break that agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:45 AM
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If someone wants monogamy, they are free to look for a partner that shares their values. You are looking for a way to force one of those women to partner with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:57 AM
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Okay and? You don’t make promises you can’t keep just because someone is complaining. I think what you’re trying to say is you might get dumped if you don’t offer commitment. Which, yeah, people are allowed to want monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:18 AM
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Depends who you want to attract
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:54 PM
9

Gym selfies or a lot of wealth flexing like every pic is him in another country/private planes Obviously gym and travel is also done by normal people but I feel like you know what I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:50 PM
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Usually bc his pics/bio seem like someone I’d meet through friends. There’s a relatable aspect to it that is hard to find. Most men I don’t click w. Or if his bio is interesting and he’s good “enough” looking I’m open to a convo. I always tried to left swipe overly attractive men/men who looked like players so it’s not as simple as “just be top 5%” (tho obviously they had plenty of matches too)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:29 PM
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(Not on apps anymore) I don’t wanna swipe on any guy I don’t wanna talk to. Whats the point? I get a notification and open the app only to be disappointed?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:09 PM
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So men are similarly entitled to women’s labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:52 AM
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How do you know the behavior is innocent? You’re just guessing. The consequences don’t affect you either way so you don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:51 AM
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But you said that was specifically due to biological entitlement. Surely you have a reason to believe this is the cause and not some other explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:55 AM
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Bc if the man dies, gets disabled, loses his job, or divorces you’re fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:47 AM
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So you agree women also provided for men. So if there was a biological entitlement it would go both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:43 AM
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Bc women are more likely to be attacked by men than by other women…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:30 AM
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Agree this is so fulfilling
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:29 AM
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Women provided more calories than men in cave times so biologically men would be more entitled to women providing than the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:28 AM
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People dream of being rich… by paying more for childcare than they make in income?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:27 AM
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It’s not just current income tho, it’s the woman’s lifetime earning potential being affected. Take 5 years off and you’re prob getting a shitty wage to start and you have to go up from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:25 AM
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Men don’t like giving women half the couples money at divorce. Only way to live in a world where each person is responsible for their own financial situation is to farm out all aspects of pregnancy/deliver/childcare and then go 50/50 on the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:23 AM
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This is what he campaigned on. Why would he not do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:21 AM
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<image> She’s right of course
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:20 AM
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Yes. And yet women are primarily attacked by men, not women. Men are also primarily attacked by men, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:17 AM
-1

Women also know women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:10 AM
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But men always put themselves in the shoes of a solo provider when discussing housework while they are literally not solo providers. It’s so disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:15 AM
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But all those groups, except men, primarily commit in-group violence. White people are less likely to be attacked by a minority person than another white person. Women are more likely to be attacked by a man than another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:45 PM
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You don’t have to ask for commitment. Then you are never obligated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:20 PM
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Faithfulness isn’t expected. Until you commit to each other. What’s the point of committing if you don’t wanna commit? Just… don’t take that extra step as no one should assume faithfulness if you’re just dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:19 PM
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Straw man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:15 PM
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The vast majority of men are with women who work full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:05 PM
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Time will tell 🤷‍♀️ People said it was hysterical to think roe would get overturned. Instead of admitting it happened, now they just say “it’s up to the states”. A bunch of bad things are going to happen that conservatives will similarly hand wave away. To what extent? We’ll find out together!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:04 PM
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Bc incompetent people can cause massive harm
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:57 PM
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Praise Jesus this kind of love has never found me 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:24 PM
2

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:25 PM
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I feel like kids eat healthy snacks that their moms make, like “girl dinner” Like I literally make ants on a log and cut up fruit and feel like a lil kid 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:23 PM
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Someone come get your thot son
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:21 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:20 PM
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Desperation doesn’t equate to talent or ability to show up and do the work. We all know people who are both poor and lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:18 PM
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Project 2025 offers a pretty believable way they can get women to have more (unwanted) children than forcing them to be “government incubators”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:13 PM
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Not sure why your standards for either scenario wouldn’t be very high. Your quality of life and business outcomes will depend on this person. And it’s hard to guess what people think is fair compensation. Some people are more attracted to me than others. Some will say they want 100k more than I’m offering, some are overjoyed by what I offer. Life is more complicated than red pill truisms.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:11 PM
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Are you embarrassed about what you said? Not sure why you refuse your state it plainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:10 PM
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Men say it all the time. We should be able to read chads mind and see he is only pursuing us for sex. We should be able to read random men’s minds and see they have good intentions. Saying we shouldn’t have to talk about relationships or conflicts, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:08 PM
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Lack of women in above the line roles in the industry Same sexism as in Hollywood at large, which is actually very behind other industries in terms of gender equality. 90% of directors are men and 80% of writers are men. Even when women helm successful films, they are not given the money and opportunities of men with similar success. And they are allowed less failures. Men can direct flops and continue to be gifted opportunities, women can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:06 PM
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A generous baddie
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:03 PM
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I’m asking you to explain a comment you made. Sorry that feels complicated for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:03 PM
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Acknowledging that children make it harder to accomplish goals is anti-feminist?? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:59 PM
6

Your argument is that they do want project 2025 but are incompetent?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:57 PM
1

How would Kamala be the next Obama? Bc they’d both be president? Like, what are you trying to say? Doesn’t sound like you are the person to say who dems should be catering to if you make weird statements like this… you’re a trumper.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:56 PM
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Did you also say it was hysterical to think roe would be overturned? Bc that was the dominant conservative narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:54 PM
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If you believe it’s hysteria you don’t have to reason. We’ll know one way or another in the next decade. Plenty of my irl people told me I was hysterical for thinking roe could be overturned. Incidentally crickets from all of them when it happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:52 PM
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Those are girlfriend benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:51 PM
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I love this for him 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:49 PM
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He needs a slave
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:49 PM
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Haha that’s funny bc I find hiring talented, reliable people to be incredibly difficult even when it’s a job lots of people would want to have. The person has to have talent at the job, be reliable enough to sustain effort at it over time and then be a fit for the role/company. Big ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:46 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 07:13 PM
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Wdym hiring?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:25 PM
3

Which part of what I said specifically is wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:44 PM
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So what I said was correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:38 PM
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Do you have an argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:30 PM
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“Who lies more” implies both men and women lie, so ops framing is inaccurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:27 PM
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“All of them” except the ones that don’t want to see you again. Which makes your characterization sus.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:07 PM
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“It is known” 🔮
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:57 PM
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Again you’re assuming men who are dateless have nice personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:03 PM
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You’re assuming men women don’t date are not degenerates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 08:35 PM
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Yes but “radical feminism” refers to specific beliefs not the intensity of belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:26 PM
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Can you give me an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:25 PM
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No I think your parents are a rare exception
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:24 PM
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Men who are popular in social circles that are unable to find a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:13 PM
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Unheard of in my experience 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:13 PM
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You’re changing the subject from “how did feminism help women” to “why do women date imperfect men” Feminism allowed women to leave when they discovered men were bad. Before they would most likely be trapped in a house w this man for life. That’s a big improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:12 PM
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So because people kept their bad actions a secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:09 PM
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I feel like seeing people disagree w the news or say “that’s awful” would do this but so often the comments are full of people doubling down, “they did nothing wrong”, “that’s not abuse”, “he/she could have done xyz”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:08 PM
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Yes. How is that on the level of misogyny? I WISH misogyny was just men leaving women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:06 PM
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Got it, glad you learned something (couldn’t think of a better way to phrase this but I mean it as a compliment 👍)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:06 PM
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No parents I know would allow boys to sleep over in middle and high school
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:05 PM
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How does that work? If you marry, you know that person very intimately eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:17 PM
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How do you know men in the past were morally decent?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:15 PM
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You never hear about popular incels
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:14 PM
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“Exes” So you see how feminism is a benefit right? To not be stuck w these men forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:13 PM
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How is preferring to cross paths w a bear vs a man in the wilderness misandry? Surely misandry is when women actually hate or harm men, not just preferring not to be around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:11 PM
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So how do you know the women you’re observing are radical feminists? Are you using “radical feminist” to just mean “extreme feminist”?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:09 PM
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Rad fems literally believe men have lots of problems, many of which would be solved by feminism (ex: getting rid of gender roles would allow men to form better relationships w all kinds of people and be less lonely).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:07 PM
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Explain your claim that the left is “equally corrupt” as the rapist president elect and his cabinet of sex predators? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:04 PM
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😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 10:51 PM
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Ik but that took away from the meme for me personally. Hot people aren’t supposed to have anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:26 PM
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<image> This was good
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:22 PM
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😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:17 PM
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She fell for you when you didn’t shower?? 😮 I need more info!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:44 PM
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Every single time something didn’t work out I did something different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:42 PM
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“Trust me bro university” 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:24 PM
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Define specifically what “acting above them” means? Do you mean mediocre women don’t want to fuck/marry them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 11:46 PM
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Red pill podcasts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:23 PM
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I mean women are hoping for an emotional bond. But marriage isn’t assurance of that. Might as well stay at the hookup level where men are willing to at least try.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:26 PM
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So again, you seem to be saying the cock carousel is the best path for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:12 PM
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I mean MAYBE he will emotionally bond to you. Maybe not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:07 PM
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Read the comment I responded to and tell me how that’s preferable to cat lady. (Also, only boomers drink now)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:05 PM
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So women would be best served riding the cock carousel for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:51 PM
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We aren’t say do that for a pump and dump tho. And you know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:12 PM
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I assume blue collar men are happy w blue collar women? Lots of women want a manly blue collar man and not an office worker w soft hands. Just speaking for myself, blue collar men complain about my personality and wish I was less sensitive and took life less seriously. Prob too much of a tangent for what you’re saying, but my point is just, you don’t have to worry about appealing to all women, lots of women like blue collar men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:02 PM
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Do you have an argument or are you just insulting me?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:39 PM
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I mean I want a million dollars. Doesn’t mean I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:54 AM
3

How huge? What is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:34 AM
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The couple loses half of the couples belongings. If a man loses half of his belongings that means it was a 100/0 relationship. The vast majority of men are with women who have jobs so that’s impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:28 AM
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Any kid is chill if you just dgaf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:30 PM
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There’s like an international hot dog day. There’s no reason not to have a day for everyone who wants one unless it’s like International Nazi Day or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:03 PM
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Not my fault either. I don’t control grown men. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:54 PM
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I’m honored
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:50 PM
3

No. Break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:02 PM
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If I was a dad I’d think kids were easy too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:58 PM
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He said 3 year olds were chill Like Objectively no
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:58 PM
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“Shows how it’s done” By turning on cartoons and teaching them “commands” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:57 PM
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I don’t have any friends who are so immoral or mentally ill that they are the cause of bad relationships bc then… we wouldn’t be friends. My friends dating issues have been caused by men not wanting to commit (but also not leaving her alone) or their partners being selfish assholes (spending joint money recklessly, non-consensual sex stuff, etc). I have one friend that toes the line up to “too selfish” but when I’ve kinda asked her partner about it, he had no idea what I was talking about. So if…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:51 PM
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Yeah kids are different. Her older brother cried over little stuff all the time but he was wayyyy easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:45 PM
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Why is it a “her”?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:19 PM
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Yeah I will never understand wtf those people are talking about esp if they are American Got into a long fight w a guy here once who was like “living in poverty is fine” even after I showed him how it reduces your lifespan by a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:18 PM
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Dropped who off?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:58 PM
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No one is claiming bullying doesn’t exist Yes it is a fact of life 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:28 PM
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Surely men aren’t animals and can restrain themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:26 PM
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Well yeah, you’re the dad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:25 PM
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Yes you said you give them commands
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:22 PM
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“More chill” than a baby isn’t saying much. I had a 3 year old for 8 hours last month and couldn’t find 5 min to order a pizza. I eventually called her parents and asked them to pick her up early bc I couldn’t take it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:18 PM
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Because most people think it’s wrong to bully and that adult men can have preferences without bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:16 PM
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So men are unable to refrain from bullying a woman they are not attracted to? Why else would you conflate having preferences and bullying? You don’t think there are good men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:15 PM
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Uh no the cliff notes is he hit his kids and didn’t try even when opportunities for custody were handed to him on a silver platter
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:10 PM
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Bro he hit his kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:08 PM
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Imagine self immolating bc you are being asked to support the child you brought into this world 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:06 PM
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Because that’s the moms job 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:04 PM
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This is hysterical. Kids don’t chill out until they’re like 8
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:03 PM
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I mean I see how people use them as an excuse to be an asshole and bully.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:01 PM
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Hahahaha bro what? Someone literally said she was unqualified so I responded. That’s why it was mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:59 PM
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Explain why you’re repeatedly conflating having preferences with being a bully.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:58 PM
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The top men want money and power not just to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:41 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:11 PM
0

What does that have to do with feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:11 PM
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Today you learned you can vote for someone you think is less qualified bc you think they will do a better job. That’s why incumbents don’t always win.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:11 PM
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You asked how men can be healthier.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:10 PM
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No part of having a preference requires you to be an asshole about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:06 PM
1

So hide unless you have high self esteem?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:03 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:02 PM
5

Right to sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:57 PM
3

That’s not how ptsd therapy works at all from someone who has gone to therapy for ptsd
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:49 PM
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She’s much more qualified than trump
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:46 PM
2

Tell him to read freakonomics
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:31 PM
1

Men being able to be their authentic selves and deeper relationships w other men for instance
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:29 PM
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That’s not a thing in the us, I’ve never read anything about it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:28 PM
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I don’t believe anyone who doesn’t think money is nice everything else being equal
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:28 PM
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He would prob do this w a 50/50 girl rather than me so I would be saved by gods protection
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:48 AM
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Because he’s asking me out and I literally don’t know him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:42 AM
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I meant that boys anger is punished (by their loved ones) less than boys crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:42 AM
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Yeah you shouldn’t do that. I’m not sure how she’d ever be able to trust you or think of you as a good guy. Would have to be something she brings up and then you can inquire about obstacles and offer to pay if she brings up money/insurance. Easier to just date someone you already like. I’ve been w fat guys so I can always fall back on 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:30 AM
2

🤷‍♀️ Ozempic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:25 AM
0

Yeah a bunch of dif ways of arriving at the same place
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:33 AM
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It’s primarily about women achieving equality but women exploiting men would be antithetical to feminism. Like we don’t want to uno reverse patriarchy. The larger ethos is a non-hierarchical cooperative system that is intersectional where the community works for the vast majority of people, not just the few at the very top.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:14 AM
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Yeah I’m saying more it matters for blue collar people when they talk to middle class people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:52 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:23 AM
2

What’s not to like?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:07 AM
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If the class signifiers are silent, it’s bc they are above your class.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:37 PM
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The vast majority of people who get divorced tho k this before they get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:15 PM
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I said if he’s abusive then I’d fight for the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:11 PM
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Thank uuuuu 👏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:09 PM
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That’s any hypothetical tho That’s why the expression “hindsight is 20/20” exists 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:09 PM
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I mean what’s the worst that’s gonna happen? No parent gets zero custody unless there are documented reasons for it so I’m gonna get every other weekend and send a check 🤷‍♀️ I already do that w my nephew 😂 If he’s abusive and I worried for the kids safety then I would fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:06 PM
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I don’t think anyone plans to divorce. I feel like you’re confused about what a hypothetical is or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:04 PM
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I acknowledge it’s my worst take. I just can’t deal w it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:02 PM
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I want them but I’m not gonna be controlled by my ex. You can have em. I’ll send a check.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:56 PM
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And if they complain to others hit em with “idk they’re crazy 🤷‍♀️”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:51 PM
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I hate them so much
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:50 PM
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This is my biggest terrible person take but unless my ex was abusive this is me: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:49 PM
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It’s very obvious when someone is lower class than you and very not obvious when you are lower class than someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:46 PM
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A real man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:45 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:43 PM
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I gotta get the Carrie Bradshaw bathroom
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:43 PM
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Me when the “boys don’t cry” men in my family become lonely, depressed old men bc they never valued forming relationships w anyone <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:30 PM
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Where do they tell you to hide? 😭 I wanna turn my master bath into a hidden panic room 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:27 PM
5

Yes American men haven’t been drafted in 50 years
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:27 PM
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I feel like class signifiers are very loud when it’s below you and silent when it’s above you. So you won’t think “he’s doing well for himself” you’ll just think “oh he’s not cringe like that blue collar guy who is also talking to me” (I think this is bad just explaining how I think it works)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:22 PM
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I feel like class signifiers are very loud when it’s below you and silent when it’s above you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:20 PM
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Morbidly obese + 175k is a yes for me unless his personality is bad. Especially now in the age of Ozempic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:19 PM
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I don’t drink and I don’t smoke (cigs) but she’s so right
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:17 PM
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Yes like under the bed is a terrible spot to hide.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:17 PM
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Yeah nowadays men don’t have to go to war either so that cancels each other out I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:08 PM
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Born on the Fourth of July radicalized me so hard 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:32 PM
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Feels like I was living in peaceful nonexistence until I got drafted into this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:29 PM
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I think living as a man would be like living in squalor. Which is probably why I’ve had an aversion to men my whole life. As a boy all emotions other than anger are punished out of you. Growing up you are beat and bullied if you don’t conform to “masculinity” Sent to war or to dangerous jobs to die or sent to school and a good job to make money for your wife and kids All for the eventual goal of having a happy family but since you repressed emotions due to bullying and trauma and refuse to be vu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:26 PM
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Bc red pillers think men are suddenly trustworthy when you marry them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:32 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:31 PM
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Okay so I think you’re confused? Married men and women aren’t doing either thing. And at least for 4b I don’t think people doing it seriously think it’s ever going to be anything but a small minority of people doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:28 PM
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There are so many things that could improve men’s health and happiness and instead people focusing on getting unwilling women to fuck and mommy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:18 PM
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No im 40
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:12 PM
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Male loneliness epidemic explained
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:11 PM
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Omg here we go again
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:11 PM
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Yeah he seems like a fuckhead. Took Daria Nicoldi’s work and passed it off as his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:10 PM
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Okay? 1. I don’t aspire to be visible. 2. Men aren’t like us. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:09 PM
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He’s got style
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:08 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:03 PM
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Very Dario Argento
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:02 PM
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If you taste rancid meat you’re gonna go off all meat for awhile
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:01 PM
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What’s crazy is I’ve seen this posted on multiple men’s dating app bios
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:01 PM
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Lots of born people need medical procedures or they will die and the same people are accepting of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:59 PM
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When you’re upset some people instead of talking to you about it will act like it’s just a huge inconvenience to them that you aren’t happy and compliant 24/7. “Here we go again 🙄” as if you are always being hysterical and dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:56 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:55 PM
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100000% feel this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:46 PM
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If we’re not a monolith then you’d be happy for women who are old, single, and happy. You’d just know you wouldn’t be in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:45 PM
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Men won’t even file for divorce when they’re unhappy. We are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:44 PM
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No i wanted this and didn’t get it. God chose to protect me from myself bc I’m his fav 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:43 PM
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Titrating medication
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:40 PM
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<image> I needed this trend when I was 20 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:38 PM
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Not sure what there is to debate. But yeah it feels like a collective awakening.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:27 PM
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Give me a for instance
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:34 PM
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Omg we are not compatible lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:55 PM
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It’s just curious bc I’ve seen lots of videos of maga dancing to it when no one else ever plays it bc it’s so corny. The subtext being ironic is secondary.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:53 PM
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Why do you think maga is more obsessed with it than others?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:50 PM
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I asked you to be specific and you were vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:49 PM
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It’s what you hear at a cornball suburban wedding with a cash bar
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:47 PM
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I was to cash app her
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:43 PM
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Orgasm gap
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:39 PM
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Why does maga love YMCA so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:38 PM
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Trashy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:37 PM
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What specifically are they doing that you interpret as “grasping and clawing”? Be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:34 PM
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“Why is a man more attractive once he’s more attractive?”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:31 PM
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Then they aren’t ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:29 PM
4

Who withheld that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:12 AM
3

None of my business
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:00 AM
4

The existence of suffrage
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:40 AM
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Being anti abortion is culture specific
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:39 AM
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If it was baked into politics suffrage wouldn’t have happened
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:34 AM
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I mean males were leaders in societies where infanticide was practice?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:30 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:06 AM
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If men have always supported women then suffrage and feminism would have never been needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:49 AM
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Another thing someone with self control doesn’t do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:45 AM
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If he had self control he wouldn’t troll people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:41 AM
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Why would suffrage have needed to happen if men cared about women? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:40 AM
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How is that men caring about women? Surely Supreme Court justices are litigating the law and not handing out favors based on their feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:38 AM
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As opposed to what? When did men care about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:04 AM
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Totally possible that he’s gay too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:56 AM
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I don’t think anyone believes he is voluntarily celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:31 AM
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No. Lots of pick me women exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:41 PM
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Yes. If you are willing to put a rapist in power for revenge, you don’t belong in my party. Stay the fuck out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:43 PM
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It’s always easier to sell hate and lies What is right is usually harder and less popular than what is easy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:26 PM
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Alimony is awarded to either gender in less than 10% of divorces. You’re afraid of the boogeyman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:36 PM
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That’s spineless lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:32 PM
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Men are happier to stay in an unhappy situation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:14 PM
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Don’t agree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:58 PM
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The inverse is the man being the head of the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:13 PM
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Yeah it really flips once/if you have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:12 PM
3

A large number of people aren’t getting partners so efficient isn’t the word you’re looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 11:04 PM
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So then the bar is in hell
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 11:03 PM
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The concept of mediocre people is toxic Not everyone thinks how you think
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:06 PM
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If you’re not offering commitment why are you arguing the bar isn’t in hell?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:05 PM
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Bc the bar is in hell Men will say things like this and then include themselves in the “good men” category without thinking twice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:03 PM
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There are not enough good quality men (based on what women want, not on what men think is good enough) for women. That’s why they say the bar is in hell. If the dating market was efficient marriage rates would be higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:01 PM
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What space?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:00 PM
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Men are very loud about tattoos
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:46 PM
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It’s unwanted male attention
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:34 AM
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They do but not in proportion to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:27 AM
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Does she freely elect to do it as an adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:03 PM
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The existence of porn, for example would account for a large amount of lust that is entirely one way
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:02 PM
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Then I don’t think it’s a cosmetic procedure. That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:50 PM
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?? Most lust isn’t shared
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:50 PM
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Be where?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:45 PM
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I don’t consider cosmetic procedures and mutilation to be compatible ideas of the same procedure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:45 PM
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Cosmetic is something you elect to do for aesthetic reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:05 PM
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In every area of life it is easier to get ahead by cheating and manipulating than being honest. This is not novel to getting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:26 PM
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Women don’t gain affection from men, they gain lust. If you think being lusted after by men is valuable, you can make a Grindr account and easily get it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:25 PM
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FGM is not cosmetic. What the actual fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:22 PM
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I just said the issue is socializing men and women so differently that we are incompatible is the problem so… not doing that is the solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:24 PM
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This isn’t a good argument The times I haven’t turned down a guy once his pants were down and his dickwas weird was bc I was afraid of causing conflict or hurting his feelings so I just went through w it. Not ideal or pleasant. Not what I would want if the tables were turned
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:42 PM
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This isn’t a good argument The times I haven’t turned down a guy once his pants were down and his dick was weird was bc I was afraid of causing conflict or hurting his feelings so I just went through w it. Not ideal or pleasant. Not what I would want if the tables were turned
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:33 PM
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Barbaric is indeed not a slur
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:31 PM
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Which health benefits does female genital mutilation have?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:30 PM
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Children are treated as objects in a million dif ways. I’m against that, but men tend to be more conservative about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:27 PM
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Because it’s not comparable to female genital mutilaton. You have a point about it being wrong but bringing it up into convos about FGM or comparing it to fgm comes off as so disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:23 PM
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Nuke gender roles
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:13 PM
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Right. It’s the lowest hanging fruit of equality that primarily benefits men. And it’s all men want to discuss. Says a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:07 PM
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It has to all equal 50/50. If men don’t contribute in other areas they are limited in how they can get to that 50/50 overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:06 PM
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My dad has never even heard of anyone I’ve dated bc he doesn’t ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:22 PM
2

Okay yeah that changes things significantly Most women are not only going on dates w men they already know
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:20 PM
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Money is finite. Even wealthy people view money as finite. So you having a certain attitude isn’t about rich vs poor. Whatever amount you tell me you guys had at that time, there were people w more money who were cheaper. Plenty of rich people don’t treat their poor friends. Not saying it’s right I’m saying you’re trying to argue that money wasn’t a factor. Money is always a factor. No one can “buy whatever they want” unless MAYBE they are a billionaire and even then those guys are still misers.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:12 PM
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You didn’t say “at my company” I literally asked you if you were aware this was a norm and you said no. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:07 PM
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Yes I’m confused too. To me that seems like you got the worst of both blue and red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:27 PM
4

I’m not gonna keep talking to people who blame me for men’s behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:26 PM
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Well I’m not gonna do the same thing that got me a rapist president
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:25 PM
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Why deny reality? https://www.quora.com/What-are-some-great-places-to-take-potential-business-clients-to-impress-them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:24 PM
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Stranger as in I don’t know him. Not someone I’m friends w or have gotten to know already. I already turn down men I don’t guess I have a good chance of connecting w. A free dinner isn’t worth that. I’m saying in this situation where I have accepted the guy always wants the date way more than me and it sounds like we differ on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:06 PM
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Men and women are socialized to be too different to be compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:04 PM
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Paying for meal isn’t the end of vetting or foolproof, it’s to eliminate a large swath of low effort men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:04 PM
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Cool. The result of that was we got a rapist president.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:43 PM
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lol you’re telling me you are unaware sales people take new clients out to dinners, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:43 PM
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I can buy my own dinner but I’d rather eat alone than w a stranger man. But yeah it sounds like you feel as excited as men do so 50/50 makes complete sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:41 PM
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And? I’m supposed to be silent about it for what reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:40 PM
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I can’t control whether men lie to me. If there was a foolproof way to avoid this women would do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:38 PM
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If men want dates more than me then it makes sense that they would treat me. Like how a sales person treats a client they are wooing. If we are both equally interested, 50/50 makes sense, like a friend you are excited to hang out with. My Arab ex was a 50/50 man (but a 100/0 man in bed) 🤦🏻‍♀️ should have seen the signs he was selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:02 PM
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Good. Let them pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:59 PM
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Sounds like a sales tactic to make women desperate enough to do 100/0 w men. Why does your sister accept a 100/0 relationship w your dad? Do you not lose respect for your dad if he expects love but gives nothing in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:59 PM
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Screwing over a boss and screwing over a loved one aren’t similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:57 PM
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I guess you seem to think there’s no dif between dating and sleeping w some men and not dating at all/decentering men. It was a big change for me. Really shifted my perspective into a healthier place. If women have no leverage than what is the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:56 PM
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Being nice was also fruitless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:54 PM
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So no
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:46 PM
4

Yes horror movies are a form of entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:46 PM
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Good call
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:45 PM
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If it’s red pill how is it 50/50 if you pay? Doesn’t he get to be the leader for no reason other than his chromosomes?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:45 PM
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That’s homophobia
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:44 PM
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If men don’t want to be rejected, I support them not asking women out. I personally would rather exchange numbers and chat for awhile rather than just going in a date w a stranger. Not sure how else to answer this. Yes women who are more than happy to go in stranger dates exist. I’m not sure how to help them be more identifiable. If you’re talking about like helping strangers in need, I think both genders can be asked to do this when it’s reasonable for them. Also agree that my approach is prob …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:41 PM
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Talking about it just results in “just say no if you don’t want to” “that’s your fault” Only thing to do is set boundaries (can’t come to my place if I’m not ok w sex happening)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:32 PM
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You said you would work slowly to take up more hours. The only reason to do that is to trick your partner into doing more than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:28 PM
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If they’re partying w other American men how is that sex tourism? Sex tourism = going to another country for the #1 purpose of sex. Just having sex on vacation isn’t sex tourism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:17 PM
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Gay travel is not inherently sex tourism? wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:16 PM
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Yeah but friends are people you have a relationship w. This is a stranger who could be playing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:16 PM
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I don’t want men to ask me out if they don’t know me. That’s why I turned down men who walked up to me on the street and asked me out. It doesn’t make sense to ask people to do things for strangers for equality. I’m transparent w men. If I don’t think there’s a good chance we’ll hit it off I don’t go out w them. When they reach out, I either respond w freely giving affection or being transparent about where I’m at. Men don’t do this when I reach out so I stopped doing it. It’s only 50/50 when th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:15 PM
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Then read a book about it. I suggest Recreational Terror by Isabel Pinedo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:12 PM
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lol literally 5x per day when I’m walking my dog i worry about a Prius being behind me and hitting me or my dog bc I can’t hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:10 PM
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You’d be shocked how often women have sex for reasons other than because they want you to have sex I’ve had sex so many times just to get the guy to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:08 PM
3

Emotional connection is also a good thing yet men demonize it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:07 PM
3

Most men want to get laid regardless of who pays
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:07 PM
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I mean Id feel like a bigger chump paying to get pumped and dumped than getting treated and pumped and dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:06 PM
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They all say they aren’t going to pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:04 PM
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It’s feminist to want a 50/50 relationship. In America we socialize men to feel like expressing emotions, being romantic, caring about women, cooking, cleaning, childcare, etc is feminine. So they grow up and expect women to do everything. And now they want women to pay too. So 100/0. Lots of men are only comfy showing love through money. My dad is like this. Isn’t rich, doesn’t buy much, but he does treat me when we do activities. Haven’t heard “I love you” from him. Never asks questions about …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:02 PM
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Do you feel you were as interested in all these dates as the men were? Maybe that’s what is not adding up for me. I feel like “maybe, I’ll give it a chance” not like “I’m excited to spend time w this person” and I’ve actively rejected anyone I didn’t think I had a chance of connecting with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:56 PM
4

He’s red pill and you pay for him? Is that not the worst of both worlds?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:55 PM
5

Do you think men don’t watch horror movies?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:54 PM
10

Two women have been raped on walks in a park in my town this fall. I live in a very low crime area.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:53 PM
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Have you ever feared for your safety on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:52 PM
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That’s kinda the whole point. If men would go along w ANYONE who asks them out, then the woman has no way to know if he is actually interested in HER. But since effort is finite, women do know that men who ask them out are at least more interested in them than a tree/any random woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:51 PM
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Being a penpal is free. I don’t need to meet in person until I already like you and I won’t like you unless we connect through talking first. Problem solved. I wouldn’t have an issue going 50/50 if we were penpals first but I wouldn’t go 50/50 w a guy I don’t know. For what? 99/100 chance he turns out to be bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:48 PM
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For beaches. Even in the wiki it talks about activities. Passport bros don’t care about activities, they want to prey on desperate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:45 PM
2

I think it’s wrong to use women to rack up your n count. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:43 PM
16

Hahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:33 PM
0

I would never participate in something so disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:33 PM
1

Google what collateral damage means pls The us uses it to describe bombing civilians.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:27 PM
2

So then it’s not about being on her level it’s about being masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:27 PM
2

You think the “your body my choice” video is not wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:26 PM
0

Do you have a source for this? I read 2 of his books in college and liked them but never looked him up as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:24 PM
2

Drop the household budget sis
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:18 PM
1

I don’t date women but 💯 if they use this excuse it’s a hell no for me. I’m not your servant bc I studied and worked my ass off for my desk job.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:16 PM
1

The agreement to share the labor of your lives together. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:16 PM
1

Aka putting a rapist in power, but with plausible deniability 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:12 PM
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For what? They can just go on Grindr.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:11 PM
1

How would choosing not to engage w stuff that repulses you not be something you can respect yourself for? I never had control of any man, more do I desire that. Women who want that def aren’t celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:10 PM
3

This is just reason for me to not date blue collar men if they can’t pull their weight at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:54 PM
2

This would make you a shitty partner if you were trying to game the agreement you two have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:53 PM
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I literally never see men popping up in my feed. I don’t want to. So yeah I don’t “yass girl” men bc I don’t care to watch their videos or see their posts. Other men should be doing this for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:51 PM
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Foucault was a passport bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:29 PM
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Never heard of gays doing sex tourism. It’s always straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:29 PM
0

It’s literally punishable by death to be gay in some countries
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:28 PM
4

There is no other side that justifies putting a rapist in power. Now we have a pedo sex trafficker AG. These people, including the women, want predators to rule us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:57 AM
3

Take over the party and move it center then, or beg Trump to center your needs. I personally dont think groveling is going to get people to not elect a rapist. They had every reason not to and still chose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:20 AM
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If they’re the same why vote for one over the other? Clearly people preferred Trump. We have a sex trafficker child rapist as attorney general now. Y’all’s values are chef’s kiss. 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:07 AM
2

Yeah but the other option is republicans.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:59 AM
1

Collateral damage can be anything. The military considers bombing civilians collateral damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:04 AM
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The right has collateral damage in their attacks all the time and these same men are okay with that though. So that doesn’t add up. And no, Fuentes doesn’t repulse everyone. Lots of men shrugging and saying he’s just a joke. They don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:42 AM
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You called me anti truth for a claim. Pls confirm the claim so I can link you to people saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:21 AM
1

Okay so to confirm you’re saying Trump voters aren’t saying they voted Trump bc they think the left acts too morally superior?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:12 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:53 AM
3

How has shaming them for being shitty people been effective then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:50 AM
4

And if you don’t seal clap for her it’s not bc you have a bitch attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:49 AM
2

You could throw a dart in this sub and probably hit one, for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:43 AM
2

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:13 AM
2

How would a woman be able to achieve the same level as the man without adhering to patriarchal norms? If a woman is a nurse, you’d be at her level if you were also a nurse, which isn’t a patriarchal norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:11 AM
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It’s been like 50 years since mlk, it’s not working.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:59 PM
2

No I think a man (or woman) could just be unlucky and born ugly, or born to a situation that creates an unattractive personality. I think lots of people give advice when they hear a problem but almost none of those people think that 100% of people can be helped by following the advice. And since there is a lot of misogyny in incel spaces, and we’ve all seen men who identify as incels whose misogynistic personalities make them repulsive it’s definitely true that 1) this advice would help some inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:26 PM
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I don’t believe it’s convincing, but conservative men do. Conversely if I shame them for not being wholesome men, they don’t gaf. They aspire to be bad boys. What insults do you think would be both moral and effective to shut down Fuentes types?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:20 PM
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How so? Not quite sure what you’re saying in the first part.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:11 PM
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If they weren’t a slut they wouldn’t be in porn. Men nut to porn, which means men like sluts. I will always agree w you that men don’t respect sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:45 PM
2

lol guess we’re fucked then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:29 PM
2

But they are sluts. And men get off to them. Men may get off to shit they don’t respect, but by definition you don’t nut to something you don’t like. If men only liked women they offered relationships to you’d have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:28 PM
1

So then what’s your suggestion for something that is effective?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:53 PM
2

I mean isn’t virgin shaming Fuentes affecting others?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:45 PM
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I agree it’s a flaw and I am against virgin shaming on principle. I just struggle w it bc clearly being principled isn’t working.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:38 PM
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Collateral damage
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:26 PM
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Yeah I’ll never argue that’s not a cultural norm
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:25 PM
2

I guess we’ll see whenever he emerges from his moms basement
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:58 PM
2

But shaming them for being shitty people has no effect. Actually tons of Trump voters said they voted Trump bc the left is too morally superior and they hate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:57 PM
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Yeah like on principle I agree. Like fatshaming/ugly shaming trump feels good and is prob effective but at the cost of revealing to the ugly/fat people in your life how you really feel about them. But I’m torn bc humiliation is really the only thing that works w these people. Nah I def judge immoral people. Like I’m not friends w any cheaters for instance even tho it doesn’t affect me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:56 PM
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Men wouldn’t be able to get off to porn if they didn’t like sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:49 PM
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He gives no fucks whether he’s a shit person. He cares that women shame him for being a virgin tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:56 PM
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If calling men virgins causes them to become red pill extremists, how are they already red pill extremists? Like, what’s the difference if they are red pill extremists either way?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:54 PM
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Yes. Exactly. Men love sluts. Yet they use it as an insult bc it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:53 PM
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Gotta hit em where it hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:52 PM
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Because a leader in a business has a responsibility that people in their personal lives do not have.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:30 PM
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No it didn’t. Search the hashtag. It goes back years. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:17 PM
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Yes and men generally don’t grasp what these reasons are, so yeah, based on their bad understanding it’s not rational
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:46 PM
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4b didn’t start w Trump. I’ve been seeing it on social media for years. It’s like you stop eating meat bc you got sick from it and then you see all these political arguments for why eating meat is bad and you’re like “ah that’s great, I like these things too”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:45 PM
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A not emotionally intelligent guy will repress his feelings until he lashes out. An emotionally intelligent guy will deal with his feelings so he doesn’t lash out. Ex: I know I get very frustrated and snappy when I am late so I always plan enough time to be somewhere. If things don’t go right and I’m going to be late, I have strategies to deal with my emotions* because I am aware they exist (instead of repressing/ignoring) and I know I prefer to deal with them rather than succumb to them. In rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:42 PM
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Why would I get it for me? I can just not have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:35 PM
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What difference do you think that makes? You think the guy that’s not gonna stop to put in a condom is gonna stop for me to put in a condom?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:34 PM
10

Yes your last paragraph is exactly what I decided.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:31 PM
8

I’ve been celibate for 4 years. My chad ex literally messaged me yesterday trying to get together and he’s still on read.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:29 PM
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Men lie to get women into bed. I’ve had men brag about how much they love going down that never went down on me. —easier to do no sex than some sex and then stop —not getting an extremely painful procedure for men. I’ve gone to the er bc a REGULAR gyno apt where all the do is insert the speculum was so painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:28 PM
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You think high quality men are fucking bald women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:24 PM
2

The same reason people gamble in a casino
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:23 PM
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Men who are perfectly fine using condoms are an extreme minority
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:22 PM
5

Well if he voted for Harris he probably wouldn’t use her first name.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:21 PM
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I’ve made it extremely clear that I am saying no to PIV sex and just done oral. He stuck it in anyway. You saying he’s a rapist doesn’t change the fact that this is a risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:18 PM
5

I don’t think women who could recognize a Ferrari are doing 4b my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:17 PM
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God thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:16 PM
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*to you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:16 PM
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—lol I’m not doing anal sex. Get fuckin real. —most men dont go down on women —You are fine w the risks bc you are not a woman —condomed sex is bad. —birth control is bad (preferred method is nfp/pull out/monogamy).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:13 PM
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When I was a young Christian 15-20 years ago it was the opposite. Churches were full of Christian women who wanted to date. Like 8:1 w men. Makes me happy women are fleeing the church 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:45 PM
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I guess I was never friends with the kind that cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:35 PM
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So villains
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:00 AM
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Red pillers don’t have social skills imo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:59 AM
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Everyone thinks the guy the club girl dates is cool af or else she wouldn’t be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:33 AM
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It’s lovebombing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:27 AM
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How does that make it ok
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:27 AM
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Which is reasonable. As someone who would love to be a stepmom. Plus lots of parents are very weird about their kids while dating, like complaining about not having custody (red flag), paying child support (red flag) or acting like strangers are desperate to meet their kids or be more important than their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:50 PM
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The debate is that they think women should give them sex so not wanting to have sex w men for these reasons is mean and men should just lie about who they are to trick women into sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:49 PM
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Women: reject men they don’t like Men: fine I’ll lie about it and trick you into liking me! And just like you said that’s quickly followed by “it’s too much work to be with women” bc they have to maintain the lies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:47 PM
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So lying to women to string them along
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:46 PM
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Trumper/asshole/red piller/pua Risky behavior (drunk, non-psychedelic drugs, bad with money) Bad social skills/conversationalist Gives me no signs he likes me or lets me know he wants just sex Looking for an instant gf Most guys are weeded out by 1-3 I think these are very reasonable for a 39 year old When I was younger number 2 was more acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:44 PM
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Yup disgust meter is way down when I already know him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:39 PM
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What do you mean by dif kinds of relationships? Like friendship vs dating? Or like fwb vs official? If men can’t fly by the seat of their pants, would t they be more pro-communication because they’re serious about moving towards a goal? If you mean men “don’t know what to say” bc they could easily say the wrong thing and then not get sex, that’s not about not knowing what to say, that’s not accepting that it’s okay for women to say no if your goals don’t line up. There’s also plenty of NEET and …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:37 PM
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If 4b was just about orgasms it wouldn’t be connected to the election. I don’t find women difficult to please and have a bunch of 20+ year relationships w women. I find it hard to get relationships like this w men. They don’t want to talk enough to get on the same page even though there’s way more drama in not being on the same page. It’s like pulling teeth to get a cooperative relationship. I could also excuse the orgasm gap if it was normal for men to do foreplay and men and women did oral in …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:18 PM
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No it’s one of many factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:16 PM
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Not seal clapping for bare minimum men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:26 PM
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I think 10 years and 20 partners is a solid try.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:24 PM
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The same reason people gamble at a casino even tho the house always wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:23 PM
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Education isn’t common when the average American reads at an 8th grade level. As I just said I don’t think all the extracurricular education programs took away my childhood, they are maybe the biggest chunk of the pie of things I remember fondly. I also had friends and played sports. I don’t think women will be out of the workforce, I think they will still bring dependent on men for other things project 2025 outlines (getting rid of abortion/birth control, no no fault divorce, no government bene…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:44 PM
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Easy for a man to tell women what’s good enough sex. You’re comparing a couple times w routinely not orgasming while your partner does.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:55 PM
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Go watch the Nick Fuentes video. Tell me it wouldn’t affect you if the genders were reversed. My nephews school is already warning that it will likely close bc of trump. This is in Oklahoma, you can google it. His options are dystopian and it is gutting that even if we can fix it for him, so many kids in the us are getting terrible educations. My Minnesota schools were so, so good. I had great teachers and endless opportunities for extracurriculars and sports. Graduated college a year early (sav…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:51 PM
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Don’t men complain women want sex less as relationships progress
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:39 PM
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What a weird and telling assumption. I’m not talking about sex. I’m talking about rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:37 PM
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If I meet a great guy I’d break my celibacy. But I don’t think I’m losing anything by not being on apps or seeking out opportunities for men. Like last time a guy hit on me I could have talked to him (I smiled and said thanks and went back to dancing) and exchanged numbers and it prob would have just lead to him trying to get a hookup and nothing more. Plus who knows if he was a good person. And the opportunity cost would have been less time dancing w my friend which was one of my fav nights of …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:36 PM
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Dating for 20 years (15-35) didn’t get me marriage or kids and I was a virgin for 10 of those years. I moved in w my sis and her 3 year old to really learn if I wanted kids bc I would have needed to prioritize having kids over everything at that age (32) if I did. Living w a kid put it into perspective that I don’t want to spend 24/7 365 responsible for another human being, so no. If dating didn’t help me meet an amazing man for 20 years what would be different now? 🤷‍♀️ The kind of man I’d be h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:57 PM
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Orgasm gap says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:51 PM
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Not having sex w men didn’t put my life on hold unless you mean I haven’t been raped in 4 years since I started.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:50 PM
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That’s literally not what feminism says
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:48 PM
2

What is hateful about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:48 PM
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They’re pro mass deportation, anti universal healthcare, anti living wage, anti free school lunch for kids, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:23 AM
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They don’t care about helping living people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:15 AM
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It’s not okay just bc it’s a woman doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:35 AM
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This is starting to be homophobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:18 AM
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Men have even less reason to be afraid of women than other men. The reverse is not true for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:16 AM
9

Who is being left to die?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:14 AM
6

Why are you begging me to be gay? I’m literally already celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:13 AM
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Stereotypes aren’t based on facts…. So he has no reason to say he would do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:02 PM
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If he’s too embarrassed to explain his argument that’s on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:52 PM
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Oh please let me crawl on my hands and knees for men to (supposedly) view me better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:50 PM
2

So your body, my choice but women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:38 PM
1

Great for you that the benefits outweigh the costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:36 PM
2

😘
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:23 PM
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But if you’re white you’re more likely to be hurt by a white person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:03 PM
4

I’m so sure conservative men thought well of the same women before 4b 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:58 PM
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They’re obsessed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:57 PM
4

lol 4b has never been supported except by people already doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:56 PM
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Good? I don’t think that’s bad at all as a celibate woman. Happy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:55 PM
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You’ve had better experiences w men than me that you are willing to take the risk. I’ve been celibate 4 years bc after many traumatizing experiences I decided the chance that I will meet a good man is not worth the costs of meeting bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:54 PM
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Non-action isn’t lashing out. Like Jesus I wish men lashed out at women by leaving us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:52 PM
1

What is matga?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:47 PM
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How would “society” birth someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:53 PM
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What does wanting to associate w someone have to do w equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:52 PM
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4b women are not at the epicenter of anything. You’re in an online bubble. No one knows what this is outside of social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:11 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:10 PM
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“At the epicenter” No it’s a tiny minority of Harris voters. How many women do you think shaved their heads? It’s not liberal women’s responsibility to birth more liberal voters and that’s not even how it works. My parents are republicans.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:02 PM
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It’s their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:28 PM
-3

Why would you avoid black neighborhoods?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:27 PM
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Men everywhere cry about misandry constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:18 PM
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Yeah I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:17 PM
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Right. American prisons turn men into more violent people when they come out than they were going in. I don’t want more violent people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:49 PM
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I think bad people cross a line when they authentically admit they did something wrong. Until then nothing you do will change them so might as well lock em up/freeze em out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:48 PM
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I was laid off and then got my dream job which is infinitely better in every way than any other job I’ve ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:45 PM
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That’s like the hottest look ever, tiny boobs and deep v.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:44 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:43 PM
3

Incel means involuntarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:32 PM
1

I’d have to see data.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:30 PM
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Black violence is mostly in group. Male violence is not. Men commit 9:10 murders.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:08 PM
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You’d have to show that in an argument not just share your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:56 PM
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Bc black people are victims of white supremacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:53 PM
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If it’s not important, men wouldn’t care. “Just do it and shut up” Gee I wonder why we dont wanna associate w men? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:43 PM
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So then why did you pivot to complaining vs disagreeing? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:42 PM
2

And most of them are congregated together.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:42 PM
2

I live in the north. It’s way more expensive to be poor here than in the south bc of the cold. People who are very poor can not afford to live here or move.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:41 PM
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It depends if they follow Reddit rules or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:39 PM
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And what’s the problem w that? Men should be allowed to opt out, just like women. I wish men leaving me alone was one of the top 20 biggest problems I had w men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:38 PM
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If I touch a hot stove I’m going to look at stoves differently. Not all stoves are hot, but I’m gonna be suspicious and check first, or just avoid touching them all together.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:37 PM
0

Poor people do not move across the country all the time. Poor people move between different shitty living situations in the same area.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:34 PM
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Red meat didn’t choose to be red meat. If you want a group of people then I think men w blonde hair and blue eyes aren’t sexy and don’t date them. I think men w English accents are cringe. I don’t like stupid people of either gender and you don’t determine your own intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:34 PM
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It has accomplished more safety and peace for the women who practice it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:27 PM
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Ignoring that poor people exist
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:26 PM
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I’d assume the guy saying men risk their lives for abortion would know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:24 PM
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Pro life people are also only pro life for fetuses It makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:23 PM
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Both are “reacting” which you claimed is not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:18 PM
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4b in America existed before the election by your own admission.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:17 PM
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Okay and? I try not to eat red meat. Is that bad bc I’m making a decision based on a group?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:16 PM
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The same way the Starbucks protest didn’t affect Starbucks, but it makes individuals feel better about their choices and be able to respect themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:00 PM
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How are racism and misandry similar?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:58 PM
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“Par for the course” Which is why 4b women don’t want to associate w men. It makes perfect sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:57 PM
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Yes. Read the comments. They’re mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:56 PM
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It’s not manipulative to not associate w people you don’t trust or enjoy being around.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:54 PM
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There are like 10 posts from men complaining about it on ppd alone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:52 PM
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The guy threatened to rape women so she’s telling them how to defend themselves. Y’all just want women to take rape and rape threats silently. Fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:47 PM
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That’s a great idea I hadn’t thought of! Maybe I will stop at Starbucks too and bring it prepared.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:40 PM
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I was thinking cake. I’m rolling her some joints, we don’t drink. Nice chocolate, I’m not sure about flowers if she’s gonna leave to be with her fam for a couple days :/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:40 PM
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I’d say above average. Like 60-70. But 90 is insane. 90 is objectively hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:36 PM
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Suggestions for lil treats I can pick up at the fancy grocery store to bring to my friend whose mom died today? I’m gonna go drop some stuff off and hug her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:34 PM
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Not for men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:26 PM
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You were crying men didn’t have bc. I explained why.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:16 PM
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I’ve found shorter, chubbier men a million times more attractive than this bag of milk
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:15 PM
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Lmfao call me when there’s a twox mass shooter
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:10 PM
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Yeah when men miss it really helps me realize they’re just grasping at random straws that don’t apply to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:09 PM
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Men hate Ozempic too. Makes no sense. Vance and rfk are gonna get rid of it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:07 PM
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Allergic to accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:07 PM
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If they break into the capitol then I’ll admit dems are just as dumb as conservatives
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:06 PM
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Bc men cried over the same side effects women are expected to deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:04 PM
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Both abortions and having a child are taking responsibility While the man sits on his ass
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:02 PM
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Yet yall obsess about 4b 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:01 PM
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Men argue about which sports celebrity is better
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:00 PM
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Holy fucking shit THIS is 90th percentile???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:58 PM
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But you get mad when people say women are more responsible and men are children.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:57 PM
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You’re responsible for your own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:29 PM
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The world is very different from 2015. People are way more divided. Trolls are way worse. I used to basically never see online homophobia for example and now it’s common. Can’t really go into detail on how I’ve noticed the uptick but I’ve seen a big change since Trump 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:28 PM
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Then no
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:25 PM
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Not unless it was like a pivotal moment that led to change for the better in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:24 PM
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Just calling something hysteria doesn’t make it so I think the issue is randoms seeing complicated topics in passing and making judgements based on their gut feelings about what the words/phrases mean Like feminism 401 isn’t for beginners
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:52 AM
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Period!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:49 AM
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I dont get it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:50 AM
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You’re justified in this situation. If one person initiates, the other should be welcoming and helpful. If this doesn’t happen, next them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:37 AM
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Bc my frustrations w men go beyond the election
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:35 AM
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You prob just see ragebait
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:26 AM
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Yes there are also Harris supporters shitting on white women. Lots.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:14 AM
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Show me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:13 AM
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Worked just fine during wwii
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 11:54 PM
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Feminists have to approve of all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 11:53 PM
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Are feminists not for getting rid of the draft? Yeah I thinks it’s abhorrent that rich men could buy their way out and poor men couldn’t. Someone who does that is not leadership material.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 11:53 PM
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No harris voters are targeting black men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 11:07 PM
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We literally are pointing it at maga women tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 10:39 PM
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Some women are okay being in a harem, most aren’t. That’s why men have to lie and obscure that they are dating other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 10:16 PM
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If everyone’s unemployed then my point stands. It’s also harder to cheat if you live together so there will be less harems and more women available for other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 10:10 PM
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Nope. Fuck em.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 10:09 PM
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🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:49 PM
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Do you not believe he is a draft dodger? Or you just think it’s okay trump is a draft dodger bc women are also draft dodgers?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:48 PM
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Sometimes it’s racist, which is wrong. Sometimes it’s people enjoying people who voted against their interests being harmed by their choices. They are doing the same w ex: a white maga woman who discovered Trump dismantling the department of Ed will negatively affect her autistic son’s education. They are also cheering on hurricane Raphael. This is mostly unrelated, but did you hear about the woman on tiktok who discovered her undocumented bf was cheating on her, so she drove him to Mexico and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:38 PM
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Yes. And golddiggers and foodie calls would still exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:35 PM
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I don’t think you made it clear you were talking about maga Latinos but I don’t want to argue about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:34 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:32 PM
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Not Latinos. Maga Latinos.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:31 PM
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Even if it did maga women would still exist 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:31 PM
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People are confused about why liberal women are blaming men. The chart is why. Liberal women are also blaming maga women and maga Latinos.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:20 PM
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No. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:16 PM
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I mean I hope you’re right but I think we’re cooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:15 PM
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I don’t think 4b women use coke. It’s like old umc white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:15 PM
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“No more golddiggers and foodie calls”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:14 PM
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The left hates maga women esp the group you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:12 PM
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Then enjoy maga? Not sure why Trump voters are so mad they weren’t catered to by a party whose values they disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:11 PM
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Dumptrucks father was also a draft dodge. If wwiii happens Barron can continue the Trump family tradition.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:09 PM
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But these white women are thanking black men for voting with us. It would be maga white women who are mad at black men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:07 PM
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I’ve noticed this too. I don’t think I’ve seen this in previous elections.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:06 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:06 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:06 PM
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<image> Bc if men stayed home our country would be better
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:05 PM
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But other people are saying conservative men don’t want to fuck liberal women anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:05 PM
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No I def believe an unstable economy will lead to more partnerships. I can’t speak on the quality of those relationships tho. But if you can’t afford rent and groceries having a partner becomes a lot more valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:04 PM
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So maga meth heads
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:03 PM
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Maga women exist
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:01 PM
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Women were doing 4b before Harris. I started celibacy early in Biden’s presidency. Been seeing American women talking about 4b for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:59 PM
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No it’s not. 90% of custody decisions are made outside of family court. So what is the mechanism by which one parent can’t just make the other do all the heavy lifting and do way less than 50/50 without paying child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:56 PM
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Yes. If a man isn’t signaling he sees me as valuable, I don’t want to be with him. I’m not sure how a relationship w a man who is lukewarm about me would work. I don’t think the sex would be good. I don’t think he would be motivated to work through our problems. I’ve never had a relationship issue with a guy thinking I’m not being loyal. I’d be happy to comfort him and let him go through my phone e or something if he did. I don’t have anything to hide.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:33 PM
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I don’t think so. Only a small minority of women expect to not work full time jobs once they get a bf/husband. I grew up conservative religious so I was heavily socialized into female gender roles. Once I left the church in my 20s I also figured out how to make enough money to support myself. I think I’ve been taken on 2 nice dinner dates in my 20 years of dating and that’s the biggest financial contribution men have given me. No rent or bills paid or anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:24 PM
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I’m only talking about sex tourism not relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:20 PM
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Sex tourism isn’t marriage Sex tourism for minors is illegal in the us
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:21 PM
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Please stop saying disgusting things about animal abuse to me 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:16 PM
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I think red pillers argue for gender roles and bootstraps mentality which don’t align w the left at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:15 PM
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So not a men’s conference. A single controversial speaker. You lied.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:46 AM
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“I may or may not know” what are you referring to? No idea what Jusie smolett has to do w me, rape, or feminism. He’s literally a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:45 AM
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I already told you I don’t think you are a person until you are sentient. Google sentience, you will find out what the metric is. There hasn’t been a draft in 50 years. I can maybe see your point in like wwii times but this is stolen valor. You’re objectively wrong about a fetus being sentient. You’ll see when you google it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:43 AM
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Puerto Ricans are illegal?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:40 AM
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So which conference was protested?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:37 AM
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So rape victims are just fucked bc women spoke out about being raped and men treated it as a joke I think I’m in hell
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:02 AM
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So then why did you bring up me too if you mean Trump doesn’t matter bc he’s powerful
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:55 AM
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😭 I would Venmo you generator money but I really believe people are all evil scammers rn
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:52 AM
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So then we can stop saying accusations ruin a man’s life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:51 AM
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I have zero doubt that we are already cooked and that it’s over. The solution is for me to make as much money as possible, buy a generator and find people who live close to me to support each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:39 AM
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I don’t get the Obamacare comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:38 AM
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I’ve literally made so much money i feel GUILTY but not that guilty 🤪🤑
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:37 AM
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If you follow the thread I’m being asked to court men specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:36 AM
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Trump invented the stock market? Or do you just mean right now? Like Obama actually did Obamacare this is just speculation right now. If economy improves under Trump then sure. I also picked the #1 best performing stock in the s&p 500 this year so that’s kind of a me W more than a Trump W.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:28 AM
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Racist is when you hate someone for their race not for who they voted for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:25 AM
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It’s illegal if they’re minors and you know they don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:15 AM
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They’re gonna be denaturalized and deported by 2026. But if I’m wrong then yeah, hopefully!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:10 AM
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I just said it. And you agreed w my characterization. Why are you fighting me? We agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:08 AM
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Yes. That’s what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:07 AM
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If it was McCain or Romney I’d agree w you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:07 AM
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No it’s not okay to kill a person. Yes it’s okay to prevent a person from being born. No I think infants become a person as they gain sentience. I think any infanticide is wrong, but other cultures have practiced it in human history as a humane way to prevent another mouth to feed when they don’t have the resources. Catholic saints have also performed abortions, which were considered miracles. My point with saying we kill/neglect others is that we ask way more of women than anyone else. For inst…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:05 AM
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You want people to join. I want to be free to have my values and talk to like minded people. If people are fiscal conservatives who believe limited government will end up benefitting everyone, I can respect that even tho I disagree. I cannot and will not fuck with people shitting on minorities, taking women’s rights away, wanting to reverse gay marriage, wanting to end no fault divorce, telling poor people they just need to work harder, allowing rapists to lead them, etc I am not in politics and…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:52 AM
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LMAO your argument is “good” men are mad women think they are the bad guys so they…. Vote for a rapist who takes their rights away? They are proving women were right about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:44 AM
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I was also premature. If my mom aborted me that’s okay. I would never know. Some babies are stillborn, so they never become a person as they never made it to sentience. Also we kill/neglect persons all the time. We’re gonna mass deport grown human beings in 2 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:41 AM
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Just saw this <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:20 AM
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<image> The song playing on this one was “celebrate good times come on”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:13 AM
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You’re moving the goalposts. We were discussing why you think it’s okay for maga to hate on groups of people but wrong when I do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:06 AM
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You literally just blamed women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:55 AM
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I’m seeing plenty of maga woman hate. Also plenty of Latino hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:55 AM
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Yes I think they are systematically not included but the majority of people think they should be included.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:54 AM
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Random men having an opinion on abortion down to the week will never be fathomable to me. We are so far apart in our politics and values there is just nowhere to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:50 AM
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If trumpers hate on ONLY illegal immigrants (doubt) the point is still the same. Trumpers can hate on groups of people and you’ll support them but it’s different rules for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:45 AM
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I don’t want the people who support a rapist to support me. They aren’t a rape apologist for disagreeing w me. They are a rape apologist for putting a rapist in power.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:42 AM
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And maga women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:42 AM
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So then men aren’t being blamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:41 AM
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I literally don’t know a single person who thinks people without degrees couldn’t work office jobs. I wish I didn’t have a degree w my same level of success for the street cred. I agree our community support sucks ass and most people do not have enough friends w enough resources to really be there for them. I think republicans want to run us raged and isolate us into nuclear families and stigmatize differences so we are afraid to be open w each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:10 AM
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Okay yeah in political messaging I agree everything should be accessible to the average American. In private/professional convos people should express themselves how they want. Yes. Bc I am highly educated and so is everyone I interact with. I agree w you that this is not appropriate for politicians public messaging tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:07 AM
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Win the votes… of people who are okay w a rapist being in power? That’s just a hard stop for me and I guess that’s why I’ll never work in politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:04 AM
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🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:01 AM
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men are complaining that Trump won (even tho they didn’t support Harris so idk why they are complaining) bc dems didn’t cater to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:00 AM
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Show me a video that says only then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:00 AM
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No they aren’t. They are also blaming maga women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:37 AM
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By that logic it’s also men’s fault they didn’t vote Harris…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:37 AM
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They’re doing the same thing you are. Blaming men but not only men. They hate maga women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:33 AM
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I’m rich, especially after this week in the market, I don’t need advice. The other user asked in generalities. Most women will never have the earning potential of the average man due to pregnancy and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:31 AM
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Doesn’t compute. If a rapist is in danger of leading our country I’m showing up to vote. The people who don’t care enough and stayed home have very different values from me, but I’m being asked to cater to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:30 AM
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Okay so you agree. Our values aren’t close.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:28 AM
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But liberal women aren’t saying it’s only men’s fault either?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:28 AM
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I didn’t realize trumpers knew he lied. Good for you and fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:26 AM
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My parents are republicans
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:19 AM
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“Stop using jargon” I have no idea what words other people know so idk how I would avoid them. Like yeah if you mean the NYT should have some more accessible columns to educate the average American (written at a middle school level) I am on board w that. But how are you gonna police what words people use in private or professional convos? Is that not what you are mad wokes do?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:15 AM
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Does he have any single friends 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:11 AM
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Finally a logical take. Not sure why everyone who is ostensibly happy w the election results are so focused on telling dems how to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:11 AM
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Trump voted for the Florida abortion ban. Of course he told us he wouldn’t, but that’s Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:09 AM
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Trump treated Latinos like dogs and they voted for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:08 AM
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Hahaha I appreciate you including us plant forward people 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:06 AM
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Men are literally saying “your body, my choice” and then crying that we aren’t nice to them. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:04 AM
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you are blaming women. But when women blame men, it’s a problem. Why the double standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:01 AM
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Why is it okay when men say it’s women’s fault (like you just did) but when we say it’s men’s fault then it’s bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:00 AM
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The men who think women are hysterical will never vote with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:59 AM
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I mean technically the judge in his case also called him a rapist so it’s not just op
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:58 AM
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So are women. Men are saying we are the reason Harris lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:57 AM
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I think stuff like this is just a cover for people who want maga but also want plausible deniability to say “well I don’t actually like maga but”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:57 AM
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Why can trumpers hate on immigrants and call pr a garbage island but we can’t hate on men? Like if these people like maga values, at least enough to put them in power, they shouldn’t see anything wrong w us doing the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:54 AM
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Because we are not aligned w people who want maga in power. Why would we appeal to them? They have trump for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:52 AM
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That’s the funniest part of trump winning. Especially w it causing the stock market to surge when the vast majority of his voters have nothing invested. They’re shitting on us for losing but they literally can’t buy eggs?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:51 AM
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I don’t get how we deserve to eat shit for thinking Harris/Walz are better leaders than a rapist. Like??? Doesn’t compute for me. Almost anyone is better than a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:48 AM
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If men are okay putting a rapist in power because they’re mad 1% of the population has rights then we are too far apart to be in the same party.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:46 AM
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Because they are stronger and richer and don’t go through pregnancy so they don’t see the need to care for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:44 AM
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What did Biden do that’s worth electing a rapist over?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:43 AM
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I mean how moderate are you if you are okay with Trump being in power?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:42 AM
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I never saw a single woman shit on terry crews. What men’s conferences were protested by feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:41 AM
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But men are already represented by Trump. So why do dems need to compromise our values to court them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:39 AM
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So then why would dems try to court men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:39 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:25 AM
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Department of Ed is over so you can stop complaining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:25 AM
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So we are supposed to abandon our values to chase votes?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:23 AM
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Is that not the values the overwhelming majority of the country just told us they support?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:23 AM
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Then why would men vote for dems? You already have someone who represents your values. You want two identical parties?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:20 AM
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Those people felt okay enough about maga being in power to stay home, so no, our values are not aligned. They can beg maga to include them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:19 AM
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I have no idea what the law will look like if they get rid of no fault divorce and how cheating will have to be proved. I think the whole point of it is to make divorce difficult so they will want to deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:12 AM
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Most people don’t get evidence when their partner cheats
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:06 AM
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Makes no sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:51 PM
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Red pillers are embarrassed by being in love with anyone lol Emotions are for libs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:23 PM
1

In the country as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:06 PM
1

Yes and was shown my values are an extreme whackadoodle minority so given that new info I’m changing to maga.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:43 PM
1

Sharpening my nails 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:37 PM
9

Most times you won’t have proof that holds up in court
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:36 PM
1

Maga convert
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:11 PM
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Plus there are plenty of maga women for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:30 PM
2

Those women aren’t doing 4b
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:29 PM
0

I think we should close the borders
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:27 PM
5

That’s okay with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:45 PM
2

That’s a choice men make. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:44 PM
6

How are you this out of the loop?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:42 PM
1

Trump said he wouldn’t vote for the Florida abortion ban and then he did
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:15 PM
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I think we’ll find out together which it is!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:07 AM
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Ok that’s not what a zealot is then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:03 AM
3

The religious zealots aren’t what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:33 AM
1

Surely maga women aren’t hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:14 AM
0

Good luck 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:40 AM
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I live in maga land
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:39 AM
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So oppress us then if you want to so bad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:25 AM
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Conservative men have plenty of maga women to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:21 AM
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he’s about to be POOR poor
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:20 AM
0

So male sex rates will increase and loneliness will decrease?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:18 AM
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Sex is like alcohol. At first it’s hard but after a couple months you only indulge when you really want to (like, it makes sense, not in the moment caving). #2 is not an issue if you wanna be celibate enough to try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:17 AM
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There are plenty of maga women to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:15 AM
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No thanks random
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:12 AM
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Rape is already almost impossible to prosecute. I’m not saying we should change that. I’m saying this isn’t far fetched. Project 2025 has ideas on how to force women to be w men once they have a kid. Then once they are w a man, project 2025 has ideas on how to make it impossible to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:02 AM
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🤷‍♀️ I did it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:00 AM
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This is what project 2025 sets up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:58 AM
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Yes. Rape is illegal. We all like to say we are against rape. Yet only a tiny percentage of rapists go to jail. We just elected a rapist president. We de facto do not think rape is bad or our actions would match our words. The worse we say rape is, the more “serious” an accusation is, the less accusations there will be. I struggled a lot with trying to figure out how rape could be so bad if regular men who were well loved by friends and family could do it to me. And not feel guilty. And not apol…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:54 AM
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I don’t get how you go from emphasizing consent to forcing people to wear dresses, the logic doesn’t work. If I was a monster, I’d be raping men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:45 AM
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I mean how can you say it won’t be more than a rounding error if you can’t quantify what a rounding error is. It makes no sense to me. I don’t think it is going to be big or affect men at all. I just want to know if I look in the future and see 3% of women are celibate that weren’t before whether that’s what you expected or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:42 AM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:40 AM
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I mean you confidently made a claim. Now you won’t even give me a hypothetical metric to verify whether it comes to fruition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:43 AM
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I used to go into incel subs and try to chat w them bc I felt bad 😓 I have a tender lil heart I have to protect
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:40 AM
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What about my celibacy means I have no worth other than my vagina?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:38 AM
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It’s not a threat. I don’t want to be around men. Plenty of conservative men complain liberal women won’t date them but I completely agree w you. There’s enough maga women for everyone. Enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:37 AM
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Follow your own reasoning and realize this is what I think is gonna happen. I’m not lying. I was raised conservative religious. I’ve known men like this and how they oppress women. Nothing will change in 4 years. We’re cooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:35 AM
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Wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:30 AM
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I would like to live in that world I just think the opposite is going to happen. My confusion is like, that’s clearly not going to happen they’re just going to remove contraception and abortion. 100% agree it’s a penalty, that’s why I’m childfree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:29 AM
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🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:28 AM
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Maga women might want divorces but maga men dont
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:27 AM
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I’ve been celibate 4 years after the first couple months it’s just the way I like it Like if you’ve ever stopped drinking at first it’s really hard but then after awhile the idea of drinking repulses you (different story if you’re an alcoholic obviously)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:27 AM
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It’s an incel to not want to date? Isn’t that volcel?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:25 AM
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Why would you not give me a number? Men don’t offer companionship or connection. They offer orgasmless sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:22 AM
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I don’t think it matters. They’ll do what they need to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:22 AM
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No sex > condomed sex I find condoms very repulsive. I can do it if I’m seeing someone but I wanna establish monogamy asap so we can stop using them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:19 AM
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Voice of reason
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:36 AM
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How would we stop penalizing women for having kids as a society? That seems so far-fetched.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:36 AM
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Never heard of an incel in denial before. I thought the whole thing was black pill/blaming women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:34 AM
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Voting won’t change men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:32 AM
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What would be the cause if it wasn’t women being less into sex w men than previous generations? Or do you mean since not every celibate woman or woman not very interested in sex is 4b that it’s not related?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:32 AM
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Are men not complaining of loneliness and sexlessness?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:30 AM
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4bs requests will never be granted. No one doing it thinks men are going to change. It’s just a way to live without men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:29 AM
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It’s not a bargaining chip. What did I bargain my 4 years of celibacy for? Like??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:28 AM
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Nah they’ll make rape impossible to prosecute (well, more impossible) and then when your rapist knocks you up, you have to marry him, can’t divorce him and marital rape is legal. They’re gonna give every guy a woman to beat and rape so men will be compliant workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:27 AM
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What percent of women would you accept as more than a rounding error?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:25 AM
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I am 1000% positive this is what those in power want. Well all find out together 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:23 AM
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They goalposts will immediately shift from “we would never do project 2025” to “project 2025 isn’t that bad stop whining”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:22 AM
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I don’t want to hear about male loneliness ever again then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:21 AM
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I don’t think the vast majority of women doing it think it will be done en masse You don’t have to obsess over us, plenty of maga women for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:20 AM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:18 AM
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Yeah. I def realized I am very alone in my values.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:11 AM
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What made it terrible? I feel like most terrible can be fixed w effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:11 AM
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Yeah that’s not me. If it’s bad I just want it to be over so I can move on. If I liked him, sure, but it’s never been bad w someone I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:46 AM
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And also bc the sex is rarely good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:40 AM
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I lost bc I have different values than the majority of America. Most people’s values align w Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:28 AM
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Why can’t you accept that we just have different values?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:27 AM
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The ex I dumped for the most was Arab. I have gone out w a couple black guys, I think I am too reserved for them. The last one kinda laughed me out of his house for bringing a bowl of grapes over to his house. Like, he wasn’t trying to be mean I just felt really stupid. I thought it was a good movie snack but he said it was like childish. Anyway yeah I am always open to it and have tried. ETA: sorry I thought you meant black men voted for harris
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:17 AM
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No I don’t trust men to: Be alone w me and accept no for an answer Be monogamous (which means I can never feel relaxed about std transmission, I don’t mean far fetched stuff even but like hpv/cancer risk) I feel I might choose badly and the guy gets mad at me and then he knows where I live (not going to his house bc it’s even more dangerous than #1) I’ve had sex w like 20 guys in my life, only 2 went down on me (I went down on all of them) and I came w 3 of them. So the reward is low. Sometimes …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:14 AM
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Most of the guys here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:32 PM
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Good luck 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:59 PM
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Haha yeah in my dream world we are penpals for months before meeting
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:38 PM
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Then you personally don’t follow it. Marry whoever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:27 PM
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The only men I know who have been accused did it. One had installed cameras to catch his gf cheating and they caught him beating her instead 🥴🥴🥴 im related to this one fml The other confessed to it when police questioned him. He was high and drove under the influence and cops were called bc of that. Idk if an under the influence confession counts in that situation but he went to jail for it, possession and breaking his probation. Idk why there wasn’t a charge in there for driving. Literally neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:25 PM
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You can not believe me if you want. I have a user here who can back me up that we’ve been talking about me dating again. A Harris presidency had nothing to do w my celibacy. I had a lot of bad experiences in a row and went into hiding lol. I went to therapy and found more stability in my life through the psychological benefits of home ownership. I’m in a much better place to have boundaries and not get steamrolled. But I also still believed most people were good people until this week and I got …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:16 PM
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Literally red states rely on welfare from blue states. I’d like to cut them off. Close the borders on my blue state to maga people. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:12 PM
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I don’t really care. If it’s any states at all my advice is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:08 PM
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It’s bewildering that they keep begging us to try and win next election (there won’t be one)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:38 PM
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I’m so sad for you if you think porn is the only way you can get off on your own. Usually I just think about my exes but I will also do stuff like FaceTime phone sex sometimes. It’s completely safe and you still get to connect with another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:24 PM
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Trump got elected bc most of the countries is aligned w his values.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:24 PM
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Yes but now it’s a maga house, senate, presidency and court. Maga is gonna enact maga policies. That’s what they were elected to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:20 PM
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What does that have to do w my comment? You’re moving the goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:19 PM
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No I think they are going to move to only at fault divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:19 PM
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😂😂 Yeah I never say never but I’m not really open to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:18 PM
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Figuratively
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:27 PM
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You’re gonna be trapped in that marriage forever so hope you picked well 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:25 PM
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I learned that celibacy is superior to marrriage from Paul. 💜💅 He says marriage is for the weak who can’t hack it. 1 Corinthians 7: 8-9 “I’m telling those who are single and widows that it’s good for them to stay single like me. But if they can’t control themselves, they should get married, because it’s better to marry than to burn with passion.“
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:24 PM
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I was close to ending my celibacy of 4 years and dipping my toes in again. Now I’m going to enjoy my big empty house, being a rich auntie and get some more dogs. Fuck em.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:23 PM
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Sorry, do you not think it’s wrong to be a hypocrite?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:17 PM
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No and I have never been more proud of myself for this decision than the last 2 days. 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:47 PM
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Trump also said he wouldn’t vote for a ban in Florida and then he did so good luck believing what Trump says 👍 We’ll have a federal abortion ban by summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:46 PM
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Maga is in power. They are the only ones who can solve problems now. Take it up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:39 PM
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The top men learn how to follow the rules and get an education, the rest don’t care. They wanna be alpha bad boy or need special ed or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:21 PM
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I wouldn’t vote for hitler bc I thought the other guy was incompetent. We have different values. Idk why maga people are spending their victory lap trying to convince me we share values as if they didn’t just vote for Donald Trump. Own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:20 PM
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We know why. Because their values align w maga.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:15 PM
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What’s that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:15 PM
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Gross. No. We are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:14 PM
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I disagree there is no difference between abortion being legal and illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:14 PM
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What do you mean? If boys choose not to follow the rules in school what do you want us to do about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:13 PM
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How are anyone’s rights a political tool? We literally vote on people’s rights. That’s part of politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:10 PM
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I don’t think we can force change. And that was just proven in the election. The country overwhelmingly has maga values, not dem values.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:37 PM
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Finally you get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:36 PM
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You don’t see how legalizing abortions would make abortion more accessible for poor people without pto? Why bother making it illegal if that’s the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:33 PM
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The above comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:32 PM
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“I’m not asking you to change your values” “Change your values”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:31 PM
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Lmfao call me when women stop dying and we have a maternal mortality rate on par with other western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:31 PM
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You want dems to change to fit your values. They already fit my values. We have different values. You don’t get to erase my values to support yours and then cosplay that were on the same side.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:30 PM
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If you cared about them you would have included them in your comment. “Neither one of us is better” Girl what? Your side passed laws that killed women and raised infant and maternal mortality. We are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:26 PM
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Yes. I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:24 PM
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You are not on the same side. Being on the same side means we agree. You are asking me to change my opinion to be on your side so you can say we are on the same side for (???) reasons. It’s like you can’t handle that people disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:23 PM
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Bro the election already happened. We lost. I voted for my values. Most of the country voted for other values. You’re saying “you should have changed your values to get votes” No thanks. You wanted your values and you got them. Now there is no plausible deniability that we’re on the same side.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:21 PM
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The lesson is most people agree w maga values. I thought most people were good and I have already admitted this election taught me I was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:20 PM
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Okay? Go your own way. You guys keep saying “change your values and we’ll vote with you” No. We have different values. Yours won. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:19 PM
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Fan behavior. Yes. I agree that people don’t share my values and that’s why they voted differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:14 PM
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Cool. I live in a blue state and consider it one of the best places to live in the world. I also have money to travel and a job w plenty of pto. The difference between us is I care about women who don’t have these things too. Glad you got yours tho. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:14 PM
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Lmfao what? I gotta keep silent about what I observe? Why? What’s in it for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:12 PM
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Yes. Which means their values are with Trump over what I believe in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:12 PM
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Sure you would.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:10 PM
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Cancelling Kamala bc Biden said Trump supporters are garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:09 PM
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The world you picked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:09 PM
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lol maybe you do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:09 PM
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And plenty can’t. A bigger percentage than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:08 PM
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Literally
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:07 PM
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Because they chose those things over women’s body autonomy. The prioritization of values is a choice. Im criticizing that choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:06 PM
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How would feminism be crushed? If you let people think they have a lil freedom and hope they fight less than if you are honest about oppressing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:04 PM
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It’s a debate sub not a safe space for snowflakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:04 PM
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Men aren’t taught following rules is important whether the teacher is male or female. Girls are taught to be good and follow rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:39 PM
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Yes. We are headed toward collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:38 PM
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They’re going to oppress women so women become desperate to partner with men. Men happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:36 PM
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Enjoy 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:35 PM
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We already lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:35 PM
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We all see why. Because people have maga values. That’s what they chose. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:34 PM
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No. We don’t. Oppress us and kill us if you want to so badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:33 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:33 PM
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What accountability are we supposed to take for other peoples beliefs and voting choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:32 PM
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We don’t like maga women, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:32 PM
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Maga people are the biggest Karen’s on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:31 PM
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If people wanted maga and voted maga, what is the obsession with telling the other side how to win? It makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:30 PM
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No cancel culture is an everyone thing but conservatives pretend it’s okay when THEY do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:27 PM
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You believe women murder as often as men? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:23 PM
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You got what you wanted. Why are you acting as if you wish the other side would have won?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:42 PM
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Yes. Everything is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:00 PM
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You’re being disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:00 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:59 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:58 PM
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P-rn also affects your ability to pair bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:58 PM
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People everywhere are saying people voted maga not bc they align w maga but bc liberals were too mean to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:57 PM
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It already goes that way. People tell me constantly I am too sensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:55 PM
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If men toughened up this wouldn’t be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:52 PM
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Lmfao if that were true this convo wouldn’t be happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:51 PM
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People voted for maga. This is mutually exclusive w being a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:50 PM
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We aren’t talking about botched abortions. We’re talking about women who wanted to be pregnant but needed a lifesaving abortion due to pregnancy complications. Maga moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:50 PM
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So then men shouldn’t be snowflakes about misandry. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:39 PM
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Lmfao we literally chose maga, this is obviously untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:38 PM
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Maga will take away free speech so that’s no longer a problem we need to worry about
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:36 PM
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🤷‍♀️ Did you want to be a DEI pick?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:36 PM
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Yes maga won. I agree. Our country overwhelmingly has maga values.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:23 PM
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Yes killing women is much more important to most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:22 PM
2

My actions show I cared. I did what I could 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:20 PM
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If there is an alternative to Trump and you don’t unwaveringly take it, you support maga
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:43 AM
3

I’m 4 years celibate you’re preaching to the choir
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:40 AM
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No your values are
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:23 AM
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Don’t be offended by people’s words snowflake Women can hate whoever they want it’s a free country You voted for your values. You won. Enjoy. The solution for men is too pick themselves up by their bootstraps. Toughen up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:18 AM
1

This is what I’m talking about. Sounds maga.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:03 AM
4

We disagree about whether people support maga without actually believing in maga
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:53 AM
8

Cool. I can still talk about our different values.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:51 AM
6

You don’t have to be American to support maga. Putin isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:31 AM
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You’d have to believe women get away with it at an astronomical rate compared to men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:30 AM
5

The right was federally protected by the constitution and now it’s now. Idc about word games.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:29 AM
7

Truly ETA just watched a video about how my home value is gonna skyrocket when maga takes over and pushes interest rates down 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:28 AM
3

I don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:20 AM
8

Idgaf if they didn’t vote, supporting maga is choosing to support some values over others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:19 AM
-1

Oh god not some plausible deniability bs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:16 AM
-2

Is he single
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:15 AM
0

Yes. That’s the whole point. We have different values. You value money for yourself and I value a better community.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:15 AM
7

Same I made 7k since yesterday on tech stocks so me personally? At least I get to watch maga cry about groceries 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:13 AM
7

Guess we’ll die 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:49 AM
9

Yes at the expense of women’s rights. That was acceptable collateral damage to you. Own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:48 AM
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It’s very weird they are obsessing over “what we need to do better”. Like? You voted for what you want. You got it. Why are you telling me to convince you otherwise? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:47 AM
10

You wanted maga, you got maga. You have nothing left to threaten.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:46 AM
1

Naivete
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:31 AM
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I mean technically way more men get away with murder than women as 9:10 murderers are men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:44 AM
1

In my case when a man starts talking to me and we hit it off and he seems into me, I believe him. Idk the difference between love bombing and just acting like myself bc that’s how I am with everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:46 PM
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If YOU want common ground then you find it. You get your way now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:40 PM
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Rectify it how? Go to red states and force them? Republicans vote for it bc they want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:22 PM
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Exactly. So if you think that’s fine and you voted for it to be fine and now a done deal what are you yelling at us about? Life of mother exceptions don’t exist in real life it’s just something people get to say they believe in while in practice it’s something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:05 PM
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