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Fair enough. I guess it's the extremists that like to pretend that it's impossible for people to deviate from an evolutionary standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 08:17 PM
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The human experience is not 100% biological programming and TRP frequently ignores the fact that different people have different opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/15 11:28 PM
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Humans are animals, but we're more intelligent than other species in that we're able to have complex thought process, create technology and build culture. Biology is important but if you ignore the power of the human mind then you're only getting one side of the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 02:03 AM
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Why would you feel guilty if you're following something you believe in? Sexist or not, morality is subjective. If you feel guilty about being sexist then maybe TRP isn't the right path toward fulfillment for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 07:52 PM
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Not necessarily "no chance" but a lot of factors affect a woman's decision. There are a lot of things that go into what the BP guy is like and what the RP guy is like and the woman's situation. It's not really as simple as blue vs. red.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 06:31 PM
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If the woman doesn't like alphas, she's going to pick BP given that he's already attractive and has a good personality. If you're at a bar or some other hook up environment, there's a greater chance she'll just want to hook up with RP. Women have preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 06:20 PM
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I don't believe in a "friend zone" and there have been many times where I've become spontaneously attracted to and interested in dating friends. That's honestly the only way I've dated; I just find it more comfortable to know a guy well before I really like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 06:06 PM
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I don't see how that has anything to do with a sexist society, though. Men are less sexually selective by nature, so women tend to be higher in demand and therefore have an advantage with looks. You can say the same about men having an easier time losing weight, building muscle and gaining strength, etc. Male disposability and female objection, however, are a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 05:49 PM
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Southeast coast U.S. 18 Not polyamorous Never shared Never been with girls
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 01:14 AM
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He must have personal issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/15 04:24 PM
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In what ways do you mean? I feel that women (as well as men) don't deserve special treatment beyond decent mutual respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 03:45 PM
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I see male disposability as the other side of the sexism coin. While men are disposable for their money and abilities, women are seen as dispoable for their beauty and sexuality. Sexism is a two-way street and you can't really fathom the other side well enough unless you experience it yourself. TRP will believe this is just the way life has to be and we have to deal with it, but I feel there's ways to mitigate both sexes' struggles so that we all can have a more level playing field when it comes…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 12:24 AM
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Alright, I'll take your word for it. If it's truly causing a decrease in marriage rates (and I'll assume also general domestic satisfaction), then the only thing that seems unreasonable is rich women expecting men to make more money than them. I don't know how common that mindset is, but a career woman is sort of shooting herself in the foot if she demands that much from a partner. I've heard of a lot of women being comfortable with marrying a man with a similar job ranking as themselves, though…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 04:54 AM
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I'm in college so I'm not familiar with online dating. I'm generally attracted to guys who are studious and kind of nerdy/brainy but are also confident in a modest way. I ended up with a crush on my math tutor because he was so charismatic and patient, if that helps paint a picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 12:34 AM
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1) No, I sort of just go by my gut feeling depending on how I feel about the guy. I'm more of a sexually reserved person so it'd probably be a higher number. 2) I'm open-minded so I'll go basically anywhere, but I think unique or active dates are pretty nice. 3) No, I'll always assume we're splitting. But if he wants to treat me to be generous sometimes I won't reject it. 4) I expect a decent level of chivalry like holding open a door (not just for me, but others in general), sharing an umbrella…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 11:49 PM
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Not interested in bars or casual sex, so I can't find a way to elaborate on how I would approach it. Personally, if a man is making it clear to me he wants to hook up shortly after meeting, I'd just find a way out of the conversation. I'd approach a girl maybe by making a joke, opening with an innocent question ("do you know where there's an outlet?") or just asking a friendly question about what she's studying or something else about her. You could pull a lot of safe things to say out of mid-ai…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 11:22 PM
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I wish more people understood this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 09:29 PM
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That doesn't really have anything to do with women voting and getting jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 07:20 AM
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How is women working and voting directly causing male unemployment, addiction, crime and homelessness?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 06:59 AM
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Is this really significant enough to make a difference? I mean there's also so many kinds of people who base a marriage more on their relationship and it's not so important who has more money. There's also still so many women who have low-paying jobs. I just can't really grasp the legitimacy of hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 06:32 PM
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How is it that women can't marry richer men? Isn't that what's more common?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 05:19 AM
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What exactly do you mean by fixing it? While it's human nature for women to chase successful men just as men chase beautiful women, what injustices are we focusing on? Not trying to sound disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 03:11 AM
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A lot of them can't seem to accept that people will have different opinions and morals. It's like if you don't agree that evolution is the only factor that influences people's life decisions, you're a dumb blue beta bux slut awalt or whatever lingo they throw at you. Pretty close minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 10:04 PM
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If both people are happy with a shared lifestyle I don't see the problem. I just find it dumb that most people who follow TRP attack other people just for not agreeing with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 11:08 PM
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I don't think there's any positive correlation between being BP/feminist and studying liberal arts or humanities, but I also haven't heard of RPillers being in those fields either. I'm a feminist studying engineering if that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 07:16 PM
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Yeah because humans are robots with no potential to have individual thoughts lol. The mind and body work in harmony, open your eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 12:33 AM
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Gosh it's sooo confusing when a woman has an opinion :/ I can relate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 12:26 AM
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I've never been attracted to guys shorter than me and I can't imagine it either. If he's at least my height (5'6") that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 10:41 PM
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Nah, surprisingly I have my own opinions. No need to be bitter about someone's preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 03:34 PM
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Intelligence is really attractive, but my attraction to a man is based on a big picture. I also consider things like his appearance and how charismatic, kind and funny he is. Being intelligent is great on anyone, but if a guy's lacking in other qualities then his intelligence alone won't make me interested imho. Maybe he's socially awkward, rude or not very good looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/15 03:11 PM
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Everyone's entitled to their preferences, but it's just blatant misogyny when people feel it's okay to put down women for pursuing a non-traditional lifestyle that makes them happy. I see that behavior all the time among other RPillers. If most of them respected other people I'd see no reason for them to receive hate. I'd say white artists are criticized on a more surface/mainstream level because mainstream feminism is very "white feminist," i.e. only catering to a white middle class American au…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/15 12:56 AM
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What is your opinion on women, then? All I've seen from TRP narrative is that men and women must live in these strict gender stereotypes, otherwise they're useless. Enlighten me. Are you saying people like Eminem don't get hate for being a misogynist? Edit: grammar
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/15 12:07 AM
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That subreddit caters to all of the people who believe in the TRP philosophy. That's why this subreddit exists: so that TRP and people with differing beliefs on this philosophical spectrum can discuss. Wouldn't you agree that TRP mindset encompasses the idea that women are slutty gold-digging attention whores who don't deserve any purpose besides being mothers and pleasing men? I haven't observed much else when it comes to TRP's take on women... I can only account for what I and other feminist r…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/15 11:42 PM
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TRP is a philosophy with rules rooted in extreme traditionalism i.e. sexism. Rap is a music genre, which is artistic and fluid. The two really aren't a good comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/15 02:44 AM
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Short answer: Yes, I think RPers are misandrist. Long answer: TRP's values aren't exactly "anti-women," but more so radically traditionalist. You're going to find whacky ideas if you go too far on any side of the spectrum, including this one. Their philosophies are based almost entirely on evolution alone and give little to no regard to the fact that emotions are also important in a species as social as humans. As a result, they're obsessed with putting people in these neat little boxes of mascu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/15 11:34 PM
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Rap music has a lot of artists who tak about misogynist things, but music genres are not necessarily characterized by its topics. The only thing that makes rap "rap" is its vocal style. Rap has been around for quite a while and you can find rap about positive things, rap fusion, rap about real issues, and of course your stereotypical offensive rap artists. As a feminist who's really into rap music, I can vouch for this diversity because rap has evolved a lot over decades. I listen to music with …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/15 11:16 PM
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Obviously someone shouldn't be president just because they're a woman, but someone with that much power needs to be very unbiased, intelligent and just generally good at what they do. It'd be neat to have a female president like that because there's definitely women with those skills and positive representation is an important thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/15 11:02 PM
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If PUA didn't EVER succeed, RPers would've given it up by now. That being said, billions of people inhabit the Earth and everyone's different, so philosophies like PUA will work on the stereotype of women it's aimed at (gold digging, insecure, attention-seeking, all that). If someone were to use PUA tactics on me, obviously it wouldn't work because I don't value that kind of behavior. The world is imperfect and that's why there's different social circles as well as people who manipulate others, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/15 10:52 PM
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Because humans are one of the most intelligent species on Earth, we're capable of complex societies (ex: art, discovery, technology, cultures, etc.). Red pillers and blue pillers will interact and reproduce within their respective social circles because people are just complex and different from each other. Life isn't as simplistic as I've read RPers to phrase it (that's also why I don't think people should be compared to wolves, but I digress...).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/15 10:31 PM
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