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Reanimated this account to tell you you're a retard. Motility is a fucking stupid definition of "life." Women don't just make sperm cells bigger, they contribute to the genotype and phenotype of their child, moreso than the father frankly. There's a reason most reproductive research focuses on the maternal side.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 08:47 PM
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You can probably move your boxers and shorts to the side and whip it out if you don't mind a getting a little trashy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 08:18 PM
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Don't hate. Those rompers suck but I have definitely seen a dude rock the shit out of a romper and I support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 07:21 PM
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Oh my God go r/skincareaddiction for your study. Or put fucking lotion on your face and see for yourself. There are more ways to know things than peer-reviewed articles
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 12:24 AM
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Good skincare products absolutely make a difference lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 11:52 PM
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It's not the same but low neuroticism and extroversion certainly help.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 06:42 PM
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I think you may be conflating "raw sexual desire" and general relsationship desire a bit, which often go together, but not always. Her eagerness to cater to you is another - meals cooked, happy shoulder rubs all the time, she always wants to cuddle and be right up under you, etc. Women do this kind of stuff for people they're not sexually attracted to though. Women do this in dead bedrooms. Women who aren't that into sex do this. This is a good indicator for how invested a woman is in the relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 06:45 PM
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To be fair, when we're talking about these relationships, I don't think anyone is out here fucking without building up to it first. So using sex as a litmus test for attraction isn't going to filter out women who would fuck you but not make out in this context anyway. And if a guy told me a woman wouldn't make out with him but would have sex, I'd say that's a red flag and she may not be into you too. I just don't think that's common... right? That sounds more like a fwb relationship completely b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 06:16 PM
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I definitely don't think there's a specific timeline, but I do think a few months exceeds it. Like, if I were attracted enough to someone and they were actively trying to have sex with me, I don't think I'd even be physically capable of rejecting them for months (especially if we've been intimate in other ways) regardless of my fears about trust and getting hurt. Sexy people make you stupid. If you care about getting a partner who will desire lots of sex with you, imo, it's best to get with a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 05:37 PM
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Yea OP says women should wait 2-3 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 04:39 PM
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Not a man, but if a male friend told me a girl he was seeing wouldn't have sex with him 2-3 months in, I'd probably tell him it's a red flag and she likely doesn't enjoy sex that much or doesn't find him attractive. I guess this is a way to filter out players, but at the risk of filtering out plenty of eligible guys who just care about sex and attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 04:23 PM
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When people say that women aren't taken seriously, they do not literally mean that women are not cared for. They mean that compared to men, doctors often listen to women's complaints less, take their pain less seriously, assume that female patients are less trustworthy/histrionic, etc. The existence of obgyn as a distinct entity has absolutely nothing to do with that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 10:09 PM
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James Blake's new album Assume Form is gorge
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 08:09 PM
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In fairness, you can find many American feminists echoing the exact same sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 06:18 PM
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Be civil
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 06:11 PM
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Lol I like the little accent you put on the a of raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 09:02 PM
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wtf is going on
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:13 PM
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I think he's done more recent movies, interviews and such than they have. More relevant and interesting atm. I like his style and personality but honestly when my friend told me she found him sexually attractive I was floored lol. Side note, I know a girl who finds Regis super attractive lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 05:43 PM
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Not once did I imply that men don't adopt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 03:03 AM
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No just born baby is cute. They are ugly as hell. You could vomit if you see a just born baby . I've been in lots of ORs during births, and this just isn't true. Mothers make the most adorable sounds at seeing their babies, which I know is l beside the point because it's their baby, but I'm not even super into babies and I find even ugly ass newborns cute for some reason. They look gross, especially immediately after coming out and the whole procedure is pretty... brutal. But when I see those li…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 09:47 PM
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Bonds are not logical like that. It's just how the human brain works. A baby that has big beautiful eyes, cute little hands and feet, and needs you evokes strong feelings of love in people that you just don't always feel upon seeing that little plus sign on the pregnancy test. But, I'd make the argument abortion then adoption can be logical. Most women want to raise children in a loving, stable family when they're ready. Getting pregnant when you don't have that support system, or just don't wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 08:48 PM
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Well, I doubt she meant all women are capable. I certainly would disagree with that anyway. But I seriously contest the idea that a woman who has an abortion is incapable of raising an adopted child with love. I'm sure this happens all the time. Women don't always bond with their unborn fetus the way they bond with a living, breathing child who they want and see as their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 08:12 PM
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When a woman can abort her own child, how the hell can she be capable of nurturing someone else's child. ????? Are you not aware that adoptions exists? Like, women literally do nurture someone else's child every day and love them like their own. The existence of abortion doesn't change that at all. How are you making this insane argument
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 07:49 PM
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This is true of course, but some people also have clingy personalities and some serious abandonment issues
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 02:06 PM
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Yeah but all 18 year olds believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 09:02 PM
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You're crazy but it's from reading too much ppd gibberish
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 08:50 PM
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Lesbian woman. Unattractive to me, no sexual chemistry, too masculine, history of cheating, not absolutely crazy about me, controlling, has kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 08:44 PM
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This is so fucking funny
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 05:03 PM
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Definitely slutty daughter. She has a better shot at a happy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 04:52 PM
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Ok that's a bummer but this thread isn't the place to seek such advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 04:09 AM
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There are a million answers to this... writing a poem is not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 11:38 PM
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Writing a poem about a coworker is fucking weird dude...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 02:33 PM
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Consent is about power, yeah, but not the way you're saying it is. It's about recognizing the bodily autonomy of others. It's about gaining the power to determine what is done to your body, and yes, punishing people who violate that. What's the alternative here? Deciding that women have to just grin and bear the advances of men who they don't want touching their bodies? When heterosexual men shun the advances of gay men touching them without consent, are they "pushing gay men out of the dating m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 07:03 PM
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Lol ok yes, I misunderstood your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 03:56 AM
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Idk who the fuck that is but I mean running away during a mass shooting shouldn't get your man card revoked....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 03:42 AM
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I'd believe the stat that possibly, at max, 1 in 4 are chronically single and possibly no longer looking. Frankly, even that I find incredibly hard to believe. That's more or less what I assumed he meant. Incels don't have to post online, they just have to be virgins at an odd age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 03:35 AM
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1 in 4 men are incels. What makes you think that? I find this impossible to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 02:26 AM
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I'm wondering if it's an age group thing, in addition to a pill thing. I feel like these sorts of relationships are very common for millenial and younger types, but probably not for older folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 07:59 PM
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Not true at all. Friends who trusted each other with secrets, hung out one on one frequently, shared interests, vacationed together, commiserated together, etc etc etc. Some of my friend circle have been friends since grade school. Like, over 15 years of friendship. If that's not true friendship, idk what is. Edit: in fact, ime, occasionally these opposite sex friendships share a level of emptional intimacy that men tend to avoid in their same sex friendships. My male friends have shared things …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 07:58 PM
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These replies are so crazy to me. All throughout my life I have had some sort of coed circle of close friends. I see men and women befriend each other all the time, even live as roommates together, with it remaining platonic all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 06:39 PM
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I'm a pretty blue pill lesbian, but yes somewhat. Things like outcome independence, not giving a fuck, putting more effort into actually being fuckable I especially think are helpful. One thing most lesbians struggle with is actually having the guts to approach a woman, steer the conversation sexual, actually touch her and indicate interest. I guess you could call that kind of redpill? AF/BB and hypergamy tho, I really don't know. Gay women tend to jump into extremely intense relationships with …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 06:46 PM
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Cars and sports are low class trash interests?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 03:15 AM
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No I get it lol, I didn't understand why they would decline to discuss who judged attractiveness. Not usually a good look to obscure your methodology.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 08:41 PM
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I just explained one theory for how homosexuality can be beneficial evolutionarily. Reread my comment. Studies have shown that in certain species, homosexuality literally results in genes being passed on at a higher rate. Not by the homosexual obviously, but by a relative with similar genes. Let's say that one group of field mice have this gene that makes their sweat mask their scent to predators. So they don't get eaten. But let's say that this group of field mice also has another gene that ren…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 08:36 PM
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Probably incel types. That's not an attitude I see irl often. Though in my experience lots men go through a period where they struggle to talk and relate to women. But this is at a young, awkward stage of their lives that most men grow out of. Maybe it's an age thing as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 06:55 PM
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I'm sorry dude, but you are pretty obviously not that informed on this subject, and are unfamiliar with different theories on why homosexuality exists. Genes don't work that way. They're either passed on to the next generation, or they're not. A homosexual creature isn't passing on its genes. Actually, this isn't entirely true. It's best to have your own offspring, yes, but that's not the only way to pass on "your" genes. Relatives share similar DNA. Carriers for genes exist. For example, I've r…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 06:47 PM
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It is maddening when evolutionary psychology is brought up in this sub. So many people have such a poor grasp on the subject, but are so incredibly confident of their obviously biased conclusions. Red and blue tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 06:25 PM
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Evolutionary psychology has not mostly been debunked, wtf? A lot of theories within the field have had some pretty strong conflicting evidence, but that makes no sense. That evolution has influenced our psychology is not up for debate, really. It's just hard to determine how.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 06:20 PM
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Literally all sexuality is a mutation. There are lots of theories on why homosexuality exists, don't front like you just know lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 06:17 PM
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Oh okay, I'm sure they'll include that in the actual journal. Otherwise that's sketchy as hell lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 06:13 PM
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(the researchers decline to say who did the judging). Uh, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 06:04 PM
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He is saying there are likely evolutionary benefits to homosexuality, which appear in multiple social species.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 05:47 PM
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Yep, normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 05:35 PM
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Probably 2, unless I'm engaged with my own conversation. I'm not about to act like a weirdo because some girl I've just started seeing is talking to 2 other people at a damn social event. I'd probably put my arm around her or something, because at least one of them is probably flirting, and also because I like it. Still, I think it'd be a little strange to get super threatened by this, especially considering it's not a one on one, isolated situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 04:55 PM
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You don't need to do all this girl. Someone who loves you and wants to be with you is very unlikely to be happy about you being away from 730 to 930 5 days a week, completely by choice. I'm sure your routine will get you in great shape, but you could probably do nearly as much in far less time. This is a good way to burn yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 02:09 PM
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Why the fuck did you come here of all places to write a novel asking for validation on another long ass post you made in a different sub? Why should we care about some random's petty reddit squabble?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 02:05 AM
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Bulma is an awalt shrew. I suppose chichi is too though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 09:43 PM
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Even as a pretty big liberal, it's always annoyed me how others describe privilege. Privilege exists and is a very useful concept imo, but it is heavily context-dependent and it's often difficult to tell when privilege is in play or to what degree. It's okay to acknowledge that even minorities have privilege in certain circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 08:09 PM
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I went on this awesome first date with a woman. We went to a warehouse rave, the show was awesome, she's super fun and can dance, her friends were cool and we ended up at a hotel. After that I had good feelings about the second date, she invited me to chill at her apartment. Turns out she lived with her mom who I got to meet, which ok you're only 24, but she was a total cunt to her. I was so incredibly turned off, she was a whiny demanding little brat. Turns out it's easy to make a good first im…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/18 12:25 AM
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People might be a little bit more careful, but I sincerely doubt this will change much. You're looking at this with a ton of bias that most people don't share.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 07:20 PM
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The gender dynamic means women can always be passive and attract mates, and advertising their eligibillity is hardly necessary or even relevant given female selectiveness. Only low SMV women would logically be on dating sites. Apps/sites like Tinder allow for faster filtering. In the real world you get attention from all sorts of men and you're probably not interested in most of them. Tinder allows you to select only men you find acceptably attractive to interact with you. And you can do it in y…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 05:08 PM
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I didn't go super crazy racking up numbers, but I definitely had fun. No regrets, even the ones I wouldn't have slept with while sober. Don't think about it much and don't miss those days, but it is nice to know that I can pull pretty well. I'd say it helped me become more confident because now I know I'm sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 02:02 PM
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Full disclosure I didn't read the whole thing. I am not kidding at all when I say this: if you can get ahold of some xanax, you should take some beforehand. Not a whole bar, just a little to take the edge off. Or drink a little bit This level of overthinking is counterproductive. It's good that you know you need to chill out, but of course that's tough to actually do when it's just who you are. That said, I noticed you said she ghosted you multiple times. That's not a good sign dude. But it coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 08:24 PM
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A smirk is a self satisfied grin!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 02:35 PM
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You can laugh during sex just fine, but you need to be able to pull off that sexy smirk afterward to put everyone back in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 02:20 PM
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This is 100% true. In college I played a sport with the most masculine looking man I've ever seen. Well over 6', huge but still absolutely ripped. Over 200lbs witn a 6 pack, definitely juices. He was famous on campus because he legit looked like Thor with longish blond hair and full beard. Still a virgin in his 20s, likely because he didn't seem to know how to flirt with women. He was chubby and nerdy as a teen apparently, I believe his problems likely stemmed from self esteem issues from all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 02:13 PM
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4 kids??? Oh god
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 05:42 AM
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Lmao you literally just told storffish that you didn't mean a physical location, which is in the definition you gave.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 09:22 PM
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Why did you make this thread if you're convinced you know the answer and are completely unwilling to parse through information that goes against your bias....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 07:39 PM
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This is not my personal experience at all, nor is it how I see my hetero friends dating especially with the advent of Tinder. Most people I know participate in "hook up culture" and have sex at least within the first month of seeing each other. Even amongst my nerdier friends there's no hysteria about virginity, it's assumed everyone isn't a virgin. Whoever tells you some formal dating process is the norm is out of their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 04:23 PM
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I'm wondering if there's a different meaning when conservatives vs. liberals think of society looking up to masculine men. Conservatives might think of like, good masculine men being looked up to, like a military officer, construction worker, or even a Christian man who leads his household, something along those lines. While a liberal may be thinking more along the lines of looking up to a hypermasculine football player who beats his wife, and believe that at least in the past aggressive masculi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 03:51 PM
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I hope you're trolling because this is moronic. That's not even the definition of harem you were using, and is clearly not what was being discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 01:53 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 03:39 AM
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I mean yeah, I disagree that there's nothing you could or should do as a parent that lessens the chance that your child will have a sexual experience that they aren't ready for, but it'll still happen. And I'm all for giving kids leeway if they're close in age - a 12 year old who has sex with another 12 year old is a far cry from an 18 year old who does the same. Still, I don't want my 12 year old fucking anyone and would absolutely take active measures to mitigate that risk while also trying to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 06:52 PM
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Puberty now starts on average 6 years earlier than a hundred years ago, but our age of consent laws are still based on the assumption that puberty starts at 17. Age of consent isn't about puberty. Puberty is a terrible indicator of how mentally ready a child is for sex imo, there are 7 year olds going through it. We can acknowledge that children have sexual feelings very early on without just letting them go at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 05:12 PM
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I think the real problem is getting a depressed person to do hard exercise. Prescribing something with such low adherence isn't good medicine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 02:26 PM
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Southern women frankly tend to be of lower class, or ethics, regardless of income and upbringing. I find it hard to believe income and upbringing don't play into this. You take a wealthy southern girl who goes to college in like, Austin and a girl from an impoverished small town, they're going to be very different. Still not really getting specifics from you either, aside from being more ladylike. This is a class thing imo, sounds more like you're comparing lower class southern women to UMC nort…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 06:24 PM
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It really depends on your values. You want a conservative, religious woman who wants to settle down young, have kids, maybe be a SAHM? You'll find more in the south than the north. If you want a more progressive woman with her own income, less religious, likes traveling, clubbing, drinking or drugs, no rush to settle down etc. I suppose you'd find more in the North/blue states. I'd argue these differences are more about urban vs small town than north vs. South though. When I visit my hometown in…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 05:26 PM
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Of all the people to have a weird obsession over, why her?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 03:11 PM
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As someone who is shitty at keeping track of usernames a lot of posts have been confusing. The call out posts here are weird as hell too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 03:16 PM
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Social skillz
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 11:13 PM
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I'm sure you did 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 11:13 PM
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Oops I just realized this whole post didn't answer the questions at all. I really just wanted to talk about my friend who improved himself, but he helped himself and wanted to improve. Idk if you can really help people who refuse to be helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 11:02 PM
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gay power
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 10:59 PM
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Even an ugly mfer can get laid if he: Works out consistently. Follows a good program. Fixes posture. Your self-hatred and lack of confidence should not show in your rounded back and shoulders. Socializes like crazy, with everyone, until he gets it. Talks to people every day. Compliments old people on the bus. Lots of interactions will go weird, but hopefully he'll learn from them and become less and less bothered. If he really needs help, I'm sure there are plenty of resources for an autistic/ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 10:45 PM
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What the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 02:14 PM
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Lol, true that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 02:13 PM
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But WHY? What's the point? To lower you inhibitions so you stop worrying about if you're being manipulated into sex and just go with it so you can say "I wasn't myself" later? You need to stop making crazy assumptions about the motivations of most women. You don't think like them, and don't understand them nearly as well as you seem to think. When I first did coke, it was because I was absolutely blasted at the club and wanted more ENERGY to party with teammates. Hell, before getting drunk I dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 01:46 PM
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I've heard men talk about fear boners, though usually in the context of like, scary sexy women so probably not the same thing. I'm gonna ask a male friend about this. The fact that this happens to women has actually been a criticism of certain studies that try to measure arousal by genital blood flow. For women, it may not be a reliable indicator of arousal. I've heard that it's to protect damage to the genitals during rape which makes sense but I have no idea how true it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 01:35 PM
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I hate this stupid fucking sub for making me think of incel ideology whenever this country is mentioned, or someone has this name.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 01:22 PM
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Vacation photos scared me though the trees in Alaska I was looking at looked like they were eating the people in the photo Hahaha pictures are scary when you're tripping hard. My ex sent me a selfie once when I was peaking and her eyes were closed so I thought she was dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 03:30 PM
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Feminists would likely say that those are largely due to the social conditioning too. I agree that this would also be part of the problem with healthcare costs. Like I already mentioned and gave examples of, men dying sooner is at least partially due to social/cultural factors. I acknowledge that, but this is not because of discrimination in healthcare as an institution specifically, which is the subject of this debate. But yes, feminists, or at least I would argue that this is an example of mal…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 03:34 AM
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Pay attention to the context of my post. The op is clearly implying that women have "better healthcare" because they are women, MrSmoogs is supporting that with his healthcare expenditure data. Pointing out this is not in fact due to sex discrimination, and aside from pregnancy, men would presumably receive a more similar amount of insurance money is pertinent
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 03:07 AM
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You cannot seriously present the opinion that men and women have evolved over thousands of years to where they would both have equivalent health care costs (all other things being equal). I have no idea, there's probably some difference, but we don't live in a world where men and women make the same choices in regards to Health. There are hosts of social factors that contribute to the lower life expectancy, risk taking, suicide, heart disease, not giving a fuck about taking care of yourself when…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:57 PM
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Hahaha I hate it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:26 PM
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Best part of Italianhood!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 09:57 PM
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Say what the fuck you want about Olive Garden... their Zuppa is great idc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 09:47 PM
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My mom makes Italian wedding soup, but the recipe is entirely different. It's tomato based instead of chicken broth. Soooo good. Looks like shit though. That soup looks delicious too, I'm a slut for orzo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 09:41 PM
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Sorry for pestering you into a solid argument 🙄 It's mostly their longer life expectancy. That accounts for 2/5 difference So, more healthcare spending is spent on women, but this is unlikely due to sex based discrimination. If you're a man who doesn't engage in unhealthy behaviors like drinking, smoking etc that lead to shorter life expectancy, you're not barred from the benefits that women receives so i's not so much healthcare favoring women. Men aren't getting cut off in healthcare, but life…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 09:16 PM
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You're right bro. We need more men to die in childbirth. /#hetoo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:49 PM
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Extra spending due to pregnancy helps everyone; that's not a fair metric at all and you know it. You've got to break down spending more to see if this is the case. The breast cancer v prostate cancer is a good example, but not per capita spending in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:28 PM
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I agree that's not the point. But the reason reproduction discussion is so focused on the female side is extremely obvious. Men have sperm, women have their eggs, these are important, but then you've got a 9 month period where all sorts of stuff happens and soooo much can go wrong, and then you've got delivery where even more shit can hit the fan. This is all important for the fetus' development, plus men aren't out here dying and getting their bodies wrecked from pregnancy and child birth. Read…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:24 PM
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Ok sure. I promise you boners aren't as complicated as pregnancy and maternal-fetal interactions but that's beside the point. What research do you think needs to be done on erections and how would this help make healthier babies? What complications arise from erections that need to be addressed, and why are they equally important to pregnancy and fetal health? How can we improve infant mortality rate by studying the penis getting engorged with blood, before conception has occured? Look man, if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:13 PM
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Maybe in pre-natal care. Right You're underestimating how complicated an erection is from a medical standpoint too, lol. What do you even mean by this dude...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 06:48 PM
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I work in research related to women's reproductive health. Trust me, there's a good reason so much money is spent on it; it benefits literally everyone ever born, not just women. Also no shit we spend less money on the male side of things???? Men don't get pregnant. There's much, much less that can go wrong from their end.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 06:23 PM
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Well I def don't think she has any sort of moral high ground. I just think it's ok and entertaining for athletes to freak out. That time she like, threatened to kill a ref (or her family?) does cross a bit of a line though lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 01:08 PM
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Fag
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 12:55 PM
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Then why did you initially bait counter points with a CMV request at the beginning of your post? Because whether serena is a bitch or not is completely irrelevant to my point.Can you explain why it somehow was I am not arguing that Serena was treated unfairly by any organizations or refs, my argument is pretty obviously that the public's backlash to this is ridiculous. I've got no problem with her being fined, of course she was. I'm talking about the public's reaction to Serena, which is unlike …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 12:28 PM
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IDGAF about any of your points, or if she's a bitch or not. I agree with her that it's pretty unlikely that this would have been such a "scandal" if she were not a black woman and mother, because athletes behave like she did and worse at every level all the time. Someone accuses you of cheating when you (with your very biased POV) dont think you did, you're gonna freak out on a bitch. Point is: thinking her meltdown is all that bad or unique for a professional athlete is retarded. I've seen athl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 01:31 AM
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Sock stealer 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 12:34 AM
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CMV if you think what she did was that big of a deal you're a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 12:07 AM
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Whoa. This is hate speech
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 07:37 PM
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Haha, my arguments in a nutshell
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 07:33 PM
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Sometimes his tactics annoy me but I'm pretty sure I've had a decent debate with him, this sub doesn't get a ton of daily posts so it's not necessarily a bad thing he posts so frequently. He's retarded sometimes yeah but can be smart
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 06:34 PM
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Who doesn't see that as cheating? I definitely do, same with making out with anyone. I've dumped someone over that and would again. Cuddling is a grey area, in my friend group it's not that weird for people to cuddle with each other. I understand why someone would not be comfortable with that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 12:38 AM
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But it appears by this data that not many women are being coerced into doing anal when they don’t like it. Ok, that's fair. I mostly had issue with your acting like anal is the end all be all for women. But your link still doesn't necessarily prove that women aren't being coerced. The article mentions asking about recent sexual experiences, but how recent are we talking? Are respondents including all recent sexual encounters? Would a woman whose partner attempted anal sex mid PIV include that sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 07:30 PM
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You don't understand how to interpret data. Your own article explains why this doesn't necessarily mean anal sex is the best way for most women to achieve orgasm. Yes, some women like anal, duh, and they really like it. This does not mean that the vast majority of women would enjoy anal and would not find it incredibly painful and uncomfortable, as is often reported by women. 31 women cumming frequently from anal (or, rather cumming from the clitoral stimulation that accompanies it) does not mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 06:19 PM
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Yeah but he clearly didn't mean it like that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 02:23 PM
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Just visited /r/anarchism where they're talking about /r/fullcommunism getting quarantined as well, which apparently was a left leaning sub that also broke the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 09:08 PM
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Do you honestly think reddit, a for-profit company that has hosted subs far worse than TRP in the past, is suddenly crusading for ideology at the cost of potential profits? Or do you think that they have received pressure from advertisers who don't want to have their brand associated with controversy? Or maybe they're trying to appeal more to their far larger, more liberal demographic, and trying to become a more mainstream social media platform (potentially with less anonymity)? Why is your the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 09:00 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 08:52 PM
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Is it power hunger or is it pressure from advisterers etc. to make a more palatable platform for the masses? I mean they're trying to make reddit look like Facebook, there seems to be a push to make it more mainstream. I find it hard to believe this isn't about $$$
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 08:18 PM
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Lol that's like me saying that women cant show their faces in public without fear of being murdered, because in some country that's happened before. You realize that would be insane, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 09:23 PM
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Not at all, this guy is just crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 07:20 PM
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Damn, at my fav place the strippers apparently just use the gross common restrooms. Once I ran into a girl there who yelled "hey! I slapped you with my titty" while her very butch girlfriend gave me a terrible glare 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 07:09 PM
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I have and I like them too, but I'm not dumb lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 06:52 PM
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I think they're pretty fun. Only been a handful of times, but I usually go with a group of friends and my girl and we have a blast. Usually get too drunk and throw out all my money unfortunately. Female patrons seem to get some extra love too which is cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 06:50 PM
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You really don't think there are any pretenses in a strip club? Maybe not on the patron's part, but on the people who work there, it's mostly pretense dude. That's why you like them so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 06:44 PM
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Hahahha. I love how people will say stuff like that here as if it's just a fact well all accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 06:41 PM
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Imo, it's the perfect "worst" curse word. It's just so harsh, so blunt. Like it sounds like it has to be bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 03:05 PM
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I fantasize about being a hero all the time, and have since I was young. I was always drawn to stories about the "chosen one" who had to save the world, I'd read those types of books then daydream about being the hero. Now my fantasies are more based in reality. I want to be a super competent doctor who puts my coworkers and patients at ease during an emergency. I daydream about protecting my family. I wouldn't say I'm the norm in this, but I do think many women fantasize about being the hero of…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 02:49 PM
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Yeah, of course being attractive helps with orgasms. But since this particular post is about women not having orgasms, it seemed as though you were claiming that they don't matter as much and as long as you're attractive you'll be seen as good in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 10:13 PM
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I'm sure there's some truth to what you're saying, but I think you're going way too far. Like, female orgasms can be POWERFUL. It's hard to describe the level of immersion a good one can give you, you can just lose sight of yourself completely. And afterward, the feelings of love/awe/attraction for your partner are just unmatched. If a woman has experienced that with one partner, it's hard for me to imagine her being satisfied with one who isn't willing or able to do that for her. Being attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 08:41 PM
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Sounds 100% like an Incel pretending to be a woman 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 10:54 PM
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This is so true. Funnily enough, the comment below yours starts "MeToo is merely another weapon in the Gender War." Absolutely fucking insane. I remember reading that after MeToo, no men would ever mentor women at work again. Yet here I am in reality, witnessing this happen every day. According to PPD, approaching women is super dangerous and could get you a case... yet somehow the men around me didn't get the memo and continue to approach and hook up with random women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 03:13 PM
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Int'l Players Anthem by UGK and Outkast. It's just a classic song by legends that everyone seems to like, and I loved it as a kid. The subject matter is kinda related to this sub too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 05:35 PM
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"It" didn't refer solely to oral sex, I was thinking more of putting in effort with sex, rather than just going at it with no consideration to your partner, or starfishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 04:11 PM
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What you're talking about is real, but I'm specifically talking about men who say they either do this with all girls, or do it with their LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 07:57 PM
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Interestingly, I've encountered similar attitudes from some men. They claim not to care about getting a woman off or perform oral sex, because he's so attractive/alpha that he doesn't need to. It doesn't seem out of the question that there's a grain of truth to these 2 ideas - a lot of people seem compelled to compensate for a lack of attractiveness in some fashion. If you know that you're already attractive you don't feel that need. Doesn't seem like a fun or healthy view of sex though. If you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 04:34 PM
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I'm glad I'm not the only one who hates where the show has gone. I used to always look forward to each Sunday, getting really high with my friends and watching. We'd have the people who had no idea wtf was going on they just wanted to hang out, my friend who overreacts to everything and yells, and people who were really into it and read the books to explain everything to us. Even my parents loved it. But after the last season, I'm really not that excited for it. Very disappointing, it used to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 08:41 PM
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That's pretty intense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 04:56 PM
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We had stuff like that ironically posted in my college apartment, so cheesy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 04:59 PM
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It's a common fantasy among women to cut off their husband's penises, that way they hope he will start giving more importance to the "love of the relationship" than to the "ugly thing between his legs". ....how common do you believe this is, OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 05:49 PM
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I tried gaining weight SO hard when I was taking vyvanse. Drinking old people Ensures and stuff. It was absolutely impossible. Stopped taking it and gained 30 lbs in less than a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 01:02 PM
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Flair checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 11:03 AM
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Oddly enough my parents aren't liberal in most respects. My pops is a pretty typical midwestern fella. I just don't think they would even consider sexualizing my body a possibility. They were not thrilled with me being gay at first, but now we're cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 10:13 PM
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I didnt claim to be pro-nudism? More like neutral-nudism. Nudity isn't necessarily sexual to me, but it can be so actively seeking it out is kinda suspicious. I cannot imagine having any desire whatsoever to compare my dad's dick to anything ever. What exactly are you trying to prove here?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 09:14 PM
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Because whenever I've seen my parents nude it's been incidental. I wasn't trying to see them naked, they just happened to be naked and I didn't care. I wouldn't intentionally seek out their naked bodies, that'd be strange. I also just get a little weirded out when people turn themselves and their families to political spectacles for the world to see in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 08:53 PM
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Lol shit I have been topless in front of my dad. I've also barged into their bathroom when he was getting out of the shower to grab my mom's makeup. If I had to change in front of him, I wouldn't even think twice about it. I guess that's weird? Doing it intentionally to make a political statement does strike me as odd though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 08:10 PM
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If the guys' not attractive, ANY approach will be construed as "pushy" and "aggressive". Disagreed, but for the sake of the argument let's say this is true. An ugly dude being pushy and aggressive in an approach isn't going to be looked upon kindly, but it's probably not going to cop you a rape accusation. Like I've been saying, guys are actually pushy and aggressive all the time. You just agreed with this. I guess there's no way for me to convince you that the vast, vast majority of the time, n…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 07:42 PM
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Well, whatever. I don't think the mods should have removed your comment, despite what a weak argument I think it was. I think doubting someone's lived experience is fair - I suspect a lot of people exaggerate and lie here. But I understand why it wouldn't be permissable here. But seriously, why do you think you know more about how men and women in these situations interact nowadays than I do? I've witnessed and been the object of a ton of approaches from men in the last 5 years... and I have NEV…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 07:23 PM
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Oh damn I thought you were actually joking and being funny. I wasn't doubting your lived experiences, I was doubting that your lived experiences gave you the necessary perspective to know more about how men approaching women at bars and such usually goes than I do. So you do have extensive experience in recent years partying with men and women in bars?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 07:07 PM
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Sexual misconduct accusations and public shaming on a national level are enough to turn most men away from the idea of casual pickups. ESPECIALLY if you profit from your reputation. What world do you live on? Men are still pursuing casual sexual relations with women en masse. Cavill seems to be the exception here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 07:02 PM
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Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 06:58 PM
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Lmao what a convenient place to cut off my quote. What I actually said is: It implies that women are always out here flinging tape accusations at men who simply talk to them. Aziz actually had sex with that woman, and the vast majority of people that i saw (and I believe the woman herself?) didnt say he actually raped her, they just criticized how he acted during the encounter
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 06:51 PM
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Uhhhh, yeah? I don't see how this invalidates anything I've said. Most women have experience with some form of pushy, aggressive male sexuality. My original argument was that it's insane to be afraid of catching a rape accusation by simply approaching a woman. Most women have been on the receiving end of much worse than a simple approach, often without doing anything in retaliation. I was also saying that men often actually harass, grope, or follow women with no consequences, and have seen this …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 06:40 PM
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Sexist may not be the best term - I was mostly thinking of the theoretical j law comment there which is more overtly sexist imo so my b. I do think an argument could be made that he may have some sexist beliefs, but then I would have to interpret what he said uncharitably. But when a man publically says that he is afraid to approach women, which again, is a normal human interaction that most male celebrities do pretty often, for fear of getting a rape accusation, AND then complain about not bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 06:12 PM
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Idk man, I really am just taking what he literally said. If J Law had made those comments, you really wouldn't be like, ok that's a bit hysterical and sexist? Because that's essentially my reaction here. I wouldn't consider myself "outraged" but I'm not left with a positive impression of the dude. He's the one using imagery of hell to describe what most people view as normal human interaction. How am I not gonna call him dramatic for that shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 05:35 PM
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The point is he was asked about his feelings. Somehow even when men are asked their feelings about something, it gets turned around to how women mightfeel about the man’s feelings. Well yeah. When you're a celebrity people are gonna talk about their feelings about your feelings. If J Law said "I dont feel safe being in a room with a man, I dont want to cast myself into the flames of hell like that and potentially get raped," people would probably voice their feelings on that crazy statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 05:06 PM
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While I won't say that this double standard has nothing to do with sexism, I dont think the two situations are perfectly analogous. Almost all women through either personal experience or from hearing about it from other close women have had negative experiences with pushy, aggressive male sexuality. Whether it's stories about rape, rapey/uncomfortable comments and jokes, groping, sexual assault, porn, etc. For example, read some of these responses: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/324…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 05:03 PM
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I'm not saying that he's implying that all women will try to blow up his reputation. But when you say you're afraid of going up and talking to a woman because you may be accused of rape, you sound crazy and dismissive. He could have instead said something to the effect of "well it can be hard for me to pursue/trust women because I'm famous, my reputation is how I make a living, and is always on the line even for personal interactions." That may piss some people off sure, but imo it's pretty rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 04:43 PM
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2 insanities don't make a reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 04:17 PM
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Well this ain't the Salvation Army! What do you think he meant, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 04:16 PM
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Sometimes my sexuality is definitely relevant and produces some blind spots so it's fair to point out, but I'm pretty sure that he just doesn't have a good argument here and is grasping at straws lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 03:50 PM
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Yeah I'm sure a middle aged, conservative Christian man who moderates a sub denigrating random women is 100% objective and knows wayyyy more about US party culture than a recent college grad who went out most weekends. How does me being a lesbian prevent me from witnessing random women and my friends from being approached by random dudes every time we go out? I'm gay not blind and retarded dude. I can pretty much guarantee that I've been on the receiving end of far, far more unwanted male attent…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 03:47 PM
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I seriously disagree with this, and see men approach women without consequence every weekend I go out, sometimes when they are literally harassing women. Every weekend I went walking down the major street in my college town I witnessed me, my friends, or other women being approached or even hounded by drunk men only to respond by silently continuing to walk away, or being way more polite than they probably should've been. There's a reason those men felt comfortable hitting on random women - beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 03:33 PM
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Lol sometimes I go through my own post history, hoping to be impressed by myself, only to be realize that holy fuck every single thing I've ever posted on this site is littered with typos and grammatical errors.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 03:21 PM
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He was probably attacked because being afraid of being called a rapist for "going up and talking to her" sounds insane. It implies that women are always out here flinging tape accusations at men who simply talk to them. He also seems to lament that you can't just go on pursuing women after they say no without any consequences which like.... yeah, if women are saying no and you don't stop what you're doing, some may be into while others are going to be uncomfortable that you're not respecting the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 03:17 PM
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Stupid bot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 02:29 PM
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Poop is everywhere if you look hard enough. Best not to think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 02:29 PM
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Man, I disagree with everything in this OP. The most likes I see on Facebook are pictures of the couple together, not just the girl. Women update their status to taken more often/seem to care more about that thing. But I also wouldn't read that much into it. I've never updated my relationship status, not because I wanted to appear single, but because idgaf and the people that matter probably know anyway. I've always just assumed this was true for most people who don't do those updates. The way O…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 01:30 PM
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A girl wanting to come to your room is usually a good sign but.... I mean I feel like with better game I could have had sex with one of the girls, but I am probably PSL 3.5/9. I have a recessed horizontally grown maxilla and chin, excess skin on my submandibular triangle, high gonial angle, recessed and narrow mandible, 0 xygomatic arch, minimal ogee curve, minimal cheekbones, negative orbital vector, minimal infraorbital soft tissue volume, and hooknose. (In normie language: long and narrow fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 01:33 PM
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Seriously. I worked at a liquor store for a bit in college and I was constantly carding middle aged black women and getting shocked by how old they were. It's a shame so many RPers are weirdos about race, with their obsession with aging women's looks you'd think black women would be perfect for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 09:39 PM
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Lmao what is this dude's deal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 02:27 PM
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Being here has not actually helped my relationships or improved my life in any way Haha, I feel like your relationship is probably pretty fucked up if PPD of all places improves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:19 PM
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It's just homophobia with a progressive seal of approval 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 09:23 PM
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I like this a lot, feels like you're fleshing out ideas I didn't realize I already had. Especially this: And i just don't feel safe assuming that humans are capable of turning off their innate desire paths via higher thought. It's interesting to think that the most virulent transphobes of 2018 would possibly fall deeply in love with the trans people of 2100, seeing them no differently than cis people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 07:16 PM
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Sure. But fat doesn’t make you a woman. A vagina does. I mean, it should be pretty clear that I don't agree with this statement. We wouldn't be having this debate if I did. And this isn't a discussion about what makes a woman a woman to you, it's a discussion about whether or not progressives like myself view transwomen as women. You think because someone is not attracted to transwomen, they must not see them as women. But there are many reasons that I'm not attracted to people that have nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 04:51 AM
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She doesn’t have the physical characteristics you like in a woman. Neither do obese women. Yet I still see them as women. A real vagina is the most feminine thing you can possess, or else trans-women wouldn’t be so obsessed with obtaining one. Okay... but like I said, if a transwoman's vagina looked, worked, and felt like the ones I'm familiar with, I don't really care what was there to begin with. If a cis woman had suffered from some horrific genital trauma, her vagina may not work or look lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:52 AM
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You're missing my point. I used my gf as an example to make the point that theoretically, I would date a transwoman if she looked and acted like a cis woman. Might not be possible now, but it probably will be. I think of it as similar to a physical deformity. I wouldn't date a woman with a serious facial deformity that couldn't be fixed, because she simply wouldn't meet the threshold of attractiveness for me. My lack of attraction to her says nothing about how I view her womanhood, she just has …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:16 AM
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Ehh, I've seen some pretty convincing transwomen. And surgical options are only going to get better, I find it very hard to believe that given some time we couldn't ever make a transwoman who completely passes the eye test.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:41 AM
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The way I see it is it's not "I won't date a transwoman because they're not really women" it's "I'd date a transwoman, but I won't change my appearance/genital preferences for one." For example, if my gf were to tell me tomorrow that she's biologically male I wouldn't care. I like her personality and her body is indistinguishable from a cis woman's. That's what's important to me, not chromosomes or whatever else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 02:22 AM
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I'm a lesbian who has a lot of sympathy for the plight of trans people, however the idea that genital preferences are unacceptable and transphobic/unfeminist is absurd to me. Like, I already went through the ringer as a kid feeling guilty/ashamed for liking pussy, I'm not going to let anyone guilt me for that ever again. I don't think this is a particularly mainstream progressive position though, and have only ever witnessed it on the crazier sides of tumblr. Ultimately, I don't care about some …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:59 AM
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These 2 positions don't necessarily have to be mutually exclusive. Imo, transsexuality is definitely a real thing, but I have seen people out there who appear to fetishize it the way you describe. People will fetishize anything though, and the number of fetishists far outweighs the number of trans people, so this could be responsible for the overexposure of trans fetishists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 01:09 PM
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I don't believe in making quality contributions, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 08:13 PM
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Wtf kind of revenge fantasy diary post is this shit? The original question could've sparked an interesting debate, why did you feel the need to take the longest log of a shit on your own post?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 07:12 PM
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That isn't really what this OP is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 04:26 PM
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This is such a bizarre way of looking at the world. Men are perfectly capable of providing value to the people around them should they choose. Even if women don't need them as desperately as they did in the past they still choose to be with them by and large.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 02:19 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 01:35 PM
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Hey one time you posted this funny video that was like, a parody music video about xanax. Dude was Dutch or something, there was a cat girl I think? Do you have a link to that vid?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 03:38 PM
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I second Benzo, not really super active here but one time I wrote a response to him that was pretty rude and he just gave me some civil ass reply and I was like... well now I feel like a jackass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 02:17 PM
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Because if I were to boycott every form of media that has something misognyistic/bigoted in some way, I wouldn't have anything left to enjoy. When women speak out, they want to continue to enjoy the things they like, but with less misogyny. Nothing is perfect, and at the end of the day, I'm gonna live my life and try not to let the world bother me too much. Many women have been fighting misogyny for decades, some dedicated their careers to this. Clearly some do care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:48 PM
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Imagine the drama if that baby died tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:25 PM
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I love rap, but not the misogyny in it. But I also don't take it seriously. I like not giving a fuck and belting out some of the ridiculous lines. I realize that most of my favorite rappers probably aren't good people, but I love the sound of their music so I listen to it. I enjoy the over the top braggadocio, and recognize it for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:21 PM
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When I watched the season finale (spoiler alert) my friends accidentally "spoiled" that Walts baby dies as a joke that I 100% fell for.... so as the episode progressed I was constantly waiting for it to happen, and growing more and more confused on how it was going down. The last minute of the episode I just yelled "when is this baby going to die???" and my friends cracked up. I was expecting a completely different episode, and was also a little disappointed. Amazing show though!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:09 PM
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Why did this sub make you hate them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 01:32 PM
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That's nice. Large newspapers with millions of readers seem to disagree with you, you problematic sexist: Like I give a fuck lol. Your first and third link are pretty obviously talking about specific kinds of touching, which I would likely agree is socially unacceptable. If someone indicates that they're uncomfortable with your touch, obviously you should back off. The second link mostly appears to be focused on workplace behaviors which imo is totally fair, but kind of in every day life too. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 05:35 AM
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Okay, so evidently we have 2 completely different experiences. Again, I'm guessing this is at least somewhat of a generational difference. Or maybe differing definitions of "touch." Like I said, obviously certain kinds of touch are unacceptable, think back rubs, thigh touches. Also it requires charisma and social competency. No they won't. It's the touching that's the problem. Lmao, right. I'm totally just lying about the male acquaintance who thought I was coming onto him by sitting next to him…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 07:24 PM
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That's very different from light touching/kino, and you know it. Right, which is why I also included the male server example since he's a stranger. That was meant to show that I do not find male touching offensive. No you wouldn't. You just need to not touch those men. But they're still going to misinterpret my attraction no matter what I do, which is apparently the problem. There's practically nothing women can do without some men misinterpreting interest. Shit, I get what that's like. My own w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 06:58 PM
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I feel like one thing you guys are missing is this: if women were to make concessions on their behaviors so that men wouldn't misinterpret them as indicating interest, women would have to stop making eye contact, stop smiling, stop wearing cute clothes, stop talking to men, stop sitting by them at the bus.... I've had a man think I was interested because I was sitting close to him on a couch... I had nooooo idea that that was how he was interpreting me sitting down. Touching is a normal part of …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:35 PM
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How do you live in this world. How do you handle crowded events, where it's sometimes polite to touch and guide someone? Are you just in a constant state of outrage at concerts?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 02:09 AM
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This is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 02:07 AM
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I like what /u/belletaco said about about being hyper aware that unenthusiastic sex is bad for women. Women are probably more cognizant of this than men, so as a woman I know that having sex my partner doesn't want will likely damage our relationship and could hurt her ability to enjoy sex with me in the future. I'm also instinctively aware that nagging your partner for sex is incredibly unattractive... there are much better ways to get the sex you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 06:41 PM
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I guess I don't know if most men can achieve this from women, but hearing my male friends talk it certainly seems they do, though people tend to exaggerate this stuff. I'm a woman but HL so it's rare for me to not be enthused - and my partner's enthusiasm will make or break sex for me. If I don't think my partner is feeling particularly horny, I put effort into making her feel that way instead of jumping into it, seems like a solid strategy. But talking to women with lower libidos, sometimes the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 06:16 PM
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That's true. I said billionaire, but I was thinking high class, old money specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 06:02 PM
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So if a billionaire married a meth addicted redneck with 5 kids, he wouldn't lose status according to them? C'mon.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 04:44 PM
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A hot partner 100% boosts your status, male or female. Desirability is a huge factor in status. I'm surprised people were disputing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 02:52 PM
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Well, yeah. I think leaving > cheating in practically every situation. I don't view leaving someone as shitty at all in most cases. I'm not trying to be an arbiter who determines that leaving for reasons xyz only are acceptable for other people. I guess you could say that means I value fidelity the most, but I'm not sure. A wife who cheats will wreck me, a disloyal wife will depress me, an unattractive wife won't interest me. If she lacks any of those 3 things she isn't a suitable wife for most.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 08:59 PM
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Honestly, it's probably merciful to leave someone you've lost all attraction to rather than lead them on. Is Commitment most important? Or Fidelity? Or Loyalty? Or Attraction? It's hard for me to rank these in order, but i wouldn't want to be in a relationship that lacks a single one of these things, and completely understand leaving someone over them. Cheating on your wife because she got fat or your husband for being too beta is pretty shitty though. Either leave or deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 07:45 PM
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You've cracked the code
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 08:17 PM
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It's definitely difficult for any of us to quantitate the influence porn has had, but porn has really changed. Playboy is a completely different beast than the hardcore porn people are regularly viewing now, often before teenage years. A lot of the young people who were exposed to that are now growing up and feeling its effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 07:55 PM
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My parents helped me fund my college, but only on the condition that I didn't fuck around and got good grades/tried to. Imo that's perfectly reasonable. I'm also gay. If they tried to condition their help on me not dating women, I'd be pissed. I think that's a good example of how liberal/western people in general would view this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 04:59 PM
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I mean, you can only prove this is due to female solipsism and catering to the female imperative if you show that people wouldn't react the same way for a male, which you havent. I'd argue that a good sibling would cover for his/her sibling in this situation regardless of sex, because I just have a personal distaste for parents using financial leverage to influence their adult children's behavior/conditionally financing their children's education in this particular way. I imagine much of reddit …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 04:35 PM
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How could we have possibly known this is what you're talking about? And most of us likely don't know enough about Egypt's culture to even debate it - here in this thread there are multiple people claiming that extra marital sex does happen often. For all we know, this happens in the upper classes who don't practice FGM at the same rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 07:45 PM
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We're addressing the cost and harm of "domesticating our people sexually" and how such a thing is achieved. FGM is a big part of that, and so it's completely relevant to the discussion. Your OP and comments depict this as a sort of ideal, are you really surprised a bunch of western people are taking issue with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 07:33 PM
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I mean, it's a pretty fair assumption that taking most of the joy out of sex, even making it painful, is quite helpful in curbing infidelity. Sure, I'm sure there are other factors too, but come on dude. Deeply religious people are burdened by their sexuality all the time, and still act out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 01:45 PM
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No, the study says that women who were currently living with a same sex partner reported more abuse, mostly from men. Presumably from previous relationships. Many of these women are bisexual I'm guessing, but a lot of women have had relationships with men before realizing they're lesbians, or try to deny their sexuality completely. These women are probably more vulnerable to DV than regular straight women. I don't know the DV rate for lesbians specifically, but since this study reports 11.4 perc…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 01:19 PM
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I'm sure there are many factors, but going too hard too fast is definitely a big one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 09:10 PM
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he genuinely thinks that the majority of people in the US (and in his district) agree with him. He's spent so much time online, on the forums that he created, that actually thinks they represent the average layperson's viewpoint. So many of us on the sub are guilty of this same thing. Our brains aren't that well equipped for the internet imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 05:03 PM
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Idk where you're getting your stats on the largest rate of spousal violence, but one particularly frequently cited NVAW study actually does not show that lesbians abuse their partners more, it's just misinterpreted often: The survey found that same-sex cohabitants reported significantly more intimate partner violence than did opposite-sex cohabitants. Among women, 39.2 percent of the same-sex cohabitants and 21.7 percent of the opposite sex cohabitants reported being raped, physically assaulted,…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:27 PM
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I wouldn't be surprised if that's one big reason at all. I've experienced this when younger, and it worked out as well as you'd think.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:07 PM
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Lmaoooo I've never heard the stereotype that we have good taste, but I'll take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 02:23 PM
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Nah I've never been with men. Can't say I've ever been particularly anxious about sex, but idk if that has anything to do with being gay. Lesbians just tend to really love being in committed relationships, and will constantly stay with the wrong person for weird reasons til it blows up. My first relationship was like this, and it was a complete shitshow hahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 01:58 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 01:37 PM
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As a lesbian, this definitely plays into it. U haul jokes are 100% real. Also this study appears to have taken place extremely recently after same sex marriage was legalized, lots of people married just because they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 01:25 PM
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I very much doubt you see that at work, where most men spend most of their time. Not since getting a big girl job where people are expected to behave professionally, no. Although, a male coworker has asked me out so I guess a little bit, but that's not really what I meant when I said "express attraction to women." I also never claimed that this was happening at work which has a different social code entirely. It is NEVER socially acceptable for unattractive men to express attraction to women. In…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 08:17 PM
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he spends two "INTERRUPT". What does this mean. Spends two INTERRUPT? What's the point system here? Edit: oh nevermind, I see where you explain this. Idk If that was there originally or if I'm just a moron
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 06:54 PM
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What does this even mean dude
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 06:47 PM
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I thought it was a weird gotcha or you were autistic haha
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 05:08 PM
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Are we still talking job interviews? That's gonna be seen as socially unacceptable. Regular interview? Again, depends on context but probably OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:58 PM
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I am listening to a song by a male public figure expressing, very explicitly, his attraction to a woman as I type this. What world do you live in where male public figures aren't allowed to express desire? How this is received obviously depends on context and content but seriously, heterosexual men expressing some form of attraction to women is ubiquitous and understood to be completely normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:55 PM
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Lol no. I mean obviously it depends on the context: when you're interviewing a woman for a job you shouldn't comment on her big titty honkers, but saying something like "damn Gal Gadot is hot" isn't and shouldn't be socially unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:47 PM
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It happens sometimes, I'm sure. And there are often different "rules" for how men and women are allowed to display their sexuality. But I see men express attraction to women every day of my life with no negative consequences... it's not really socially unacceptable to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 03:40 PM
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Damn, I had no idea how many were fake. I always assumed that was rare since I know a fair amount of people who actually have scripts for it. Thanks for the info, I'm gonna be more careful with em. I haven't had any in a year anyway tho, cause whenever I take it I just don't give a fuck at all and will drink anyway. I looooove benzos though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 03:34 PM
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How do you spot a fake bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 01:18 PM
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Agreed. I haven't theorized as much as other people here have about alpha/beta, but still, I'd argue that inhibition and restraint are about as beta as it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 11:01 PM
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It's a happy thing because it's a 3 day weekend. It's also usually a good time for grilling and celebrating freedom 🇺🇸 good weather.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 10:57 PM
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He is quite short, yea.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 09:15 PM
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Conor McGregor. I don't know a ton about his personal life or how much his shtick is just a persona, but he seems crazy. He's very charismatic, aggressive, talks a ton of shit, comes from a rough area, is extremely cocky etc. He also fights for a living... or he did when he was actually accepting fights anyway. And he recently attacked a bus haha. A lot of his antics may just be an act to generate hype for his fights though, sometimes he seems relatively humble. You can look up how he's tormente…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 06:23 PM
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And Im not sure how you can even speak to this since you're a lesbian who doesn't have sexual or romantic relationships with men. Ok, that's reasonable enough. I disagree that I know nothing about it, but it's totally fair to assume there will be gaps in my understanding of heterosexual relationships. I am taking care to give my understanding of my female friends' perspectives on marriage rather than my own though - I may be gay but 90% of the people I'm surrounded by aren't. The observations I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:56 PM
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So when you get down to it, it's "I got some chump who I don't really love, to love me and care about me. Hey, at least it's SOMEBODY. Never mind how it affects HIM. At least I got what I wanted." Not at all what I was saying. This post was about how women gain status from marriage, thus my answer focused on that. It wasn't about love between husband and wife so I did not touch upon that. Your cynical interpretation of how women feel about their marriage is completely divorced from reality. So n…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:17 PM
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You know very, very little about women. Marriage provides no status to women. Even if it does provide some remnant/relic tradcon status, women have made clear they really don't want that status. Or at least they don't want it badly enough to secure it early. Women go through much of their young adult lives without that status, instead choosing casual relationships of varying duration and seriousness. Just because women don't marry as early today doesn't mean it doesn't provide status. I'd argue …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 02:41 PM
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Even so, your last post was 5 days ago and already you've found 2 more potential candidates. That's pretty good man. If it starts to get really late, I'm sure you could visit a majority Muslim country and find a woman who would be happy to marry an American man who is nice and settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:20 PM
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Do you agree with the radfem campaign that no little (mentally healthy) girl wants to grow up to be a prostitute? I mean, yeah pretty much. Prostitution is a heavily stigmatized profession, sex workers generally are not treated well and often suffer from abuse and addiction. It's hard to imagine a situation in which a little girl in a healthy environment desires to be a part of that. When I was a little girl I didn't really know what prostitutes were, but I knew they weren't respected and prosti…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:11 PM
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Honestly this probably isn't the best place for advice, most of the people here, Red and Blue, don't have the same values as you do. I think marrying the girl who only wants you after 2 failed relationships is a terrible choice, but my entire ideological framework is quite different than yours. The Somali girl seems like a better bet. It also seems like you're matching with a decent amount of women in a short amount of time, so I don't see why you wouldn't wait a bit longer to find a better matc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:54 PM
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I guess that's better than whatever Lamarckian bullshit I thought you were pushing, but I sincerely doubt you know a single thing about epigenetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:35 AM
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So instead you just choose to believe in your own, completely made up view of how evolution works? Tell me, what is the mechanism through which mother nature will make women naturally as strong as men if they start training in MMA?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:27 AM
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mother nature only supplies that which is in demand. If mother nature is not given an incentive to provide women with strength, because women continue to defer protection to males, then she will not bring women up to men's level. Nothing will change on the biological level. What the fuck are you taking about??? Who was your high school biology teacher, who taught you this insanity???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:18 AM
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Probably. Shit, if her institution grants free tuition and she wanted she could probably get a biomedical engineer degree relatively quickly and make over 80k easily if she wanted. She's really not in a bad spot, just temporarily not making bank
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 07:26 PM
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Seconded. Working in academia is really cool with nice bennies, but she could do way better in the industry. Worth looking into if nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:52 PM
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Lol, you are so positive I love it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:38 PM
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Okay, I'm definitely getting a sense that you have 0 idea of how normal people think and act in western culture, especially women. Instant girlfriend requests aren't necessarily rude, though they can be, but they are extremely strange coming from anyone. I don't know what you're on about there. But furthermore what I asked is, is it considered rude for a man not immersed in western culture to do so, or is it realized that it was not rude because he wouldn't even know it's considered rude ( assum…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:48 PM
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Is it, really? Is it considered their rude in their culture when a man from outside of it asks to see boobs or to be their girlfriend, or are they fully aware that there was absolutely no such intention in the messages, yet because they were sexually unattractive and culturally "odd", they take the opportunity to cackle maliciously about it? Wtf are you talking about. Yes, asking to see a random woman's boobs is considered rude in western culture. How is this a question you even have to ask? . I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:20 PM
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Yes, of course I agree that these men are acting naturally in the sense that they are behaving in accordance to their cultural upbringing. Expecting them to come to America and just magically, fluidly become typical western men is unreasonable - assimilation takes time. I really don't think that's your point though. Western women are also acting naturally in that they reject people with different cultural norms. They're not being "insane" like you're trying to portray them as. They are people wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 03:45 PM
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I mean... yeah, people will behave and think in a way that reflects on the values of the culture they were raised in. If that's not western culture, those values won't show up. A ton of things shape one's culture, and as humans, it is natural for us to respond and adapt to our environment. Are the "creepy Indian/Pakistani/other" men asking women to show tits/marry them/expressing blunt romantic feelings that are often jeered on the internet actually being creepy and socially malfunctioning, or i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:25 PM
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If you took a child, reared him in isolating while only teaching him neutral language and basic skills without much of any entertainment/cultural/otherwise input, he reaches puberty and becomes an adult man, and then is introduced to a pretty woman for the first time that feels attracted to, what do you think is going to happen? Lol, posing this as the "natural" state of man is absurd. Human beings are a social species. We are meant to have tribes, cultures, societies. We are meant to learn our …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 01:38 PM
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Of course none of the men are truly as good as their wives/girlfriends think, they're in love. You don't see clearly when you're in love, and that's a good thing. Your wife is supposed to think you're the shit, moreso than anyone else. A loving partner giving a truly objective, unbiased evaluation of her partner is going to be rare. Honestly I think this is one of the reasons RP women and blues tend to get along better than their RP male counterparts. The way RP women discuss their partners is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 01:21 PM
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Not the same sex but in the spirit of the thread since I'm not into dudes, Conor McGregor. He's such a fucking jackass, has the most hilarious banter, and has my dream job tbh. If I had to be a man, I'd be him. He's my Larry Bird.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 09:27 PM
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I love Joan! She's incredibly attractive, I'm glad I haven't seen any of those interviews to ruin the mystique.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 09:21 PM
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Initially I thought he was talking about like, a husband who won't let his wife post on Reddit on her own, so he did it on her behalf or something of that nature. Evidently it was some weirdo passive aggressive dig on /u/atlas_b_shruggin though?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 09:21 PM
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I dunno, I think all it takes to notice that women like muscular, confident men is looking around. They're all over movies, hot girls tend to be with hot guys who are often muscular, the extroverted athletes you grow up with do well with women. Some women don't like super muscular men and most women seem to have a limit, but I'd argue that this stuff is pretty common knowledge. I will say that I agree with you on the "getting jacked is gay" thing. Those posts usually feature men who, while they …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 04:20 PM
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wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 04:11 PM
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OP's. 5 means it works
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 03:10 PM
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FUCK, turtles are my girlfriends favorite animal. I just know she's gonna leave my ass for some flaccid dick
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:47 PM
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Huh? You're complaining about ganking, does that not mean multiple people ganging up on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:38 PM
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Dildo pics, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:36 PM
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Well if you believe that sexual success requires taking women off the pedestal, then your example of 1 (it doesn't work) really does work. We are not talking about whether or not you believe it to be literally true, only whether or not it works. This is not always the case though. See: blackpilled incels. Not pedestalizing women can be helpful, but there's a limit and it doesn't always result in success, it's how you depedestalize women. If it makes you capable of seeing their faults and flaws w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:32 PM
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Sure, it seems to knock them off the pedestal into a pile of shit in some ways. But I think even RP men pedestalize women to a certain extent, and this will never change for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:13 PM
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RP makes a lot of claims. Some of them I'd rate a 5 (ex: lifting, confidence, sociability) and some I'd rate a 1 or 2 (ex: certain levels of dread, oldest teenager in the house shit, etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:02 PM
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Lol who cares. If your ideas can't stand up to scrutiny don't post em here. It's PPD, we debate some pretty controversial stuff, you should be prepared for people wanting to jump down your throat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 01:36 PM
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When I was a young gay girl, I obviously never learned how to attract women from anyone else, so I had to teach myself mainly through dating advice geared toward men. I read all sorts of shit on like, askmen.com or some website like that. I can't remember the specifics, but I do believe it was good advice. A big theme was being "cocky and funny" I think. Idk how much I internalized it at such a young age, but confidence/openness and being funny are pretty foundational to my game now. This was pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 01:30 PM
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I have a very vague idea and he doesn't seem to be capable of clarifying
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 12:57 PM
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I have a kind of unique experience with this. Sometimes I use a strap on with my girlfriend, and when we first started, I had to use a hilariously small dildo, and even that was slightly painful for her at first. After a while we moved up to what I guess what would be considered a pretty average-skinny size, and now she can handle one that's bigger than your average guy. Despite this, she still always feel tight against my finger(s), which are pretty small. That said, we don't use the strap all …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 07:01 PM
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Oh god, is that a thing people do?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 06:09 PM
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Yea, it's a shame that many people see foreplay as a necessary evil to get to the good stuff, while that is "the good stuff" to their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 05:43 PM
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Tbh I suspect more women would like it too if they didn't feel self conscious about their bellies. It's just a good spot for kisses!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 05:29 PM
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Okay since everyone has already said pretty much everything I would've said, I'm gonna play devil's advocate here. For the record though, I'm a lesbian and many people probably consider my whole sexual experience to be foreplay so obviously I think it's the best. Sometimes the brain can do all the foreplay for you, especially women. If you say the right things to a woman, and build anticipation that way to get her mind going, a lot of times you can go straight to touching her in ways that are us…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 04:53 PM
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Can you elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 02:30 PM
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Ok but where does enjoying a Redbox rental put you on the Kinsey scale?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 04:37 PM
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Fellas is it gay to watch movies and consistently find certain female actresses hot? That's all it takes for a celeb crush lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 04:14 PM
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Oh god, I went to see the Back Street Boys in concert with a friend and our moms a couple years ago and she opened. She was wearing a classic early 2000s pop punk outfit: pink tutu, black clothes, fishnets... at like 30 😂 loved her back in the day too, but the look just doesn't work anymore!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 04:09 PM
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And the jawline! Social skills reeeeeaaallly matter in college haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 02:52 PM
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Holy shit, I have a friend who looks EXACTLY like Klaus. Doesn't do terribly well with the ladies though...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 01:49 PM
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I don't think it's the MSM's fault per se. The only people I've ever seen call themselves incels are the people who frequent such forums. Everyone else is just a virgin. I think there's a meaningful distinction to be made between self-proclaimed incels and simply self-proclaimed virgins. "Incel" connotates some black pill philosophy, "virgin" doesn't have that same baggage. When people discuss incels, they're usually discussing a specific type of virgin and I think the distinction is useful and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 01:25 PM
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You'd have to hit a much higher bar for your comments to be removed for incivility
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 04:24 PM
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Honestly his post history makes it seem more legit. Troubled people tend to date other troubled people. You're right that /r/relationships has a lot of trolls though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 04:07 PM
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I mean you literally say that you "play with their feelings." Fucking around is totally fine in my book, but when you intentionally fuck with someone's feelings of course that's seen as douchey.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:18 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 04:39 PM
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Why are people listening to black pill thought on TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 04:27 PM
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Can men not be incels either, then? Since there's probably some gay guy somewhere who'd hit them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 01:35 PM
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I also thought slash fiction was like a weird sexual genre of horror fiction for a second!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 01:34 PM
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Not even RP, but jackten seemed wise as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 01:30 PM
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Sure, but this thread is about Chads we know in real life. It's possible that I didn't hang out with the douches enough to see them Chad out because I don't try to be around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 08:30 PM
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A lot less of a difference than you'd think. Consider the difference between a terrible standup comic performing the same routine as Dave Chappelle. Delivery is as important as the material itself, if not more so, and priming the audience to like you via physical attraction is a huge effect. We've all seen a friend laugh too hard at the unfunny jokes of someone they're into. Right, I don't disagree that this happens to a degree but the fact that I've also seen good looking people act like douche…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 08:00 PM
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A slender woman in a city of fat men is not dating within her league so much as she has to take what she can get. I actually disagree. She's dating within her league within that city. She theoretically could get with more attractive men in another city, so her league in another city would be different. I'm not super fond of the concept or a league really, my point from the get go is that men overestimate their attractiveness to women. The fact that so many women desire only a certain number of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 06:53 PM
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I get what youre saying and have had this same discussion before, my position is: if no one is attracted to you, you're not attractive. Your league is who you can get, not your percentile. If you think people are more attracted to you than they actually are, you're overestimating your attractiveness. Further, I have the paid versions of various dating apps. I can absolutely tell you (because I see a list of all the women that liked me) that a lot of women are aiming outside their league. My expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 04:12 PM
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That was a bizarre exchange
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 04:05 PM
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My original point was most men understand how attractive they are The link indicates that they don't. If you think more women are more attracted to you than they actually are, how do you understand your attractiveness? You say they just misread their signals (I'd argue this is a part of overestimating your own attractiveness, really) but perhaps they're instead ignoring signals of romantic disinterest because they view themselves as in her league instead. There's amother study I can dig up if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 03:42 PM
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Most men understand where they stand on the social and dating ladder. Hard disagree. Men tend to overestimate their attractiveness to women. Here's one article about the phenomenon: Men were much more attracted to their female friends than vice versa. Men were also more likely than women to think that their opposite-sex friends were attracted to them—a clearly misguided belief. In fact, men’s estimates of how attractive they were to their female friends had virtually nothing to do with how these…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 01:50 PM
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Yet you say they're all handsome and confident, and the one specific example you give is a borderline professional athlete. But not hyper-masculine! I added him as an after thought, the "didn't strike me as hyper masculine at all" referred to the outgoing, social guys. I mentioned this guy specifically because he didn't fit the mold I was talking about, but there are other good explanations for his Chadness. And while it could be true that the Halo Effect is happening to a degree, there is defin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 01:36 PM
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Check out some of the responses to /u/Poster515 in this thread. I don't personally have that preference so I can't really say, but they make some good points.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 01:31 AM
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Congrats brother!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 10:16 PM
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Not gonna lie, I did consider a BRZ myself, it's pretty cute. I guess they've got their hits.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 10:15 PM
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Classic 😂 I'm definitely stealing "Mecca of muff diving."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 08:37 PM
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Haha, I'll allow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 08:25 PM
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How dare you perpetuate that harmful stereotype! It may be completely true, but as a lesbian, I don't want to be associated with those ass ugly cars 😫
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 07:52 PM
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There are differing degrees of stoicism. That was an off the cuff definition that includes not showing emotion, basically bottling things up. A LOT of people argue that bottling emotions is unhealthy. This is what OP is arguing can hurt men. Again, it has nothing to do with Stoicism as a philosophy and the guy I was responding to was attacking a straw man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 07:41 PM
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Huh? When people discuss being stoic, they usually mean not showing strong emotion or freaking out in the face of hardship, not philosophy. I can't remember the last time I heard about Stoicism with a capital S outside of a classroom. Regardless, I think that what OP meant by stoic is pretty obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 07:29 PM
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Most of them I know are just handsome, outgoing, and charming. Not douchey or polarizing, they're usually quite well liked, although they can definitely rib you pretty good. They also tended to have a lot of female friends, but probably because they had a lot of friends in general. They followed TRP advice in the sense that they were very social and talked to women without fear, but they really didn't strike me as hyper masculine at all. Pretty easy going dudes. The only Chad I've hung out with …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 05:49 PM
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I'm a lesbian, and it does seem to be a thing that other lesbians are into older women. Gay men as well. There's a ton of variation in the community, and status doesn't seem to be a huge draw - lots of the gays seem to reject more traditional forms of status. There's less of a focus on income from lesbians than straight women - but we also have a much, much smaller dating pool. Lesbians certainly seem to be attracted to confidence and presence similarly to straight women, and I have gotten the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 04:18 PM
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Too adversarial means you have decided on a standard where men can fight you in conversation but women are not allowed that same consideration. To be fair, he didn't say anything about men. Combative men probably annoy most people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 03:23 PM
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Lol, I figured this was a lie. Checked post history, turns out you post in Braincels. So predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 01:26 PM
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You call it solipsism, I call it passable reading comprehension. Potato potato 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 04:50 AM
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Frienship: the ultimate act of Cuckoldry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 02:39 AM
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Bottling your emotions, for instance
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 02:05 AM
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I don't understand how you could possibly read this thread and assume she was discussing philosophical Stoicism rather than the colloquial definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 01:25 AM
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She's not saying substance abuse is masculine, she's saying certain masculine scripts often lead to substance abuse "to deal with negative emotions."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 01:23 AM
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Rape, stalking, threats of violence, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 02:42 PM
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Porn probably doesn't help
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 02:10 PM
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Yes, exactly. Plenty of nerds live relatively normal lives today still, but the internet can suck someone in like no other.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 03:49 PM
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I don't disagree with a lot of this, but I do think you're missing a subset of white American nerds who are shocked by hookup culture as well. If you didn't get to participate in any way in the SMP because you're too absorbed in your video games/nerd culture thing, you probably won't understand it and are less likely to engage with it in any way. I definitely saw it in college, and it explains the common "neckbeard" tropes of these types of men having a vitriolic hatred of sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 03:29 PM
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Women most definitely do have a problem with the change, because RPW is populated by women asking how to make their SOs more masculine and how to find masculine men (and don't even get me started on "Where Have All the Good Men Gone" articles). Why are you forming your opinions on women in general from niche internet communities? This is so common from this sub and it's insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 02:20 PM
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Whoa, that put me down an interesting rabbit hole, wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 07:00 PM
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Oh you're right I totally misread that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 04:18 PM
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Oh, I don't doubt that the women who loudly proclaim that they're "strong and independent" are probably less likely to be so. Just pointing out that such a thing is possible, which I assumed you were disagreeing with
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 02:40 PM
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Lmao this is one of the crazier threads I've seen on PPD which is saying a lot. Apparently not seeing two sisters make out is an indicator of lower class. Incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 02:34 PM
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Because the truth is, the strongest most independent woman still depends on men for things. So the whole "strong independent" meme is just that - a meme, a trope, and nothing more. I mean duh, we live in a specialist society. Everyone needs other people to function. When women claim to be strong and independent they're not actually claiming to be 100%, literally self-sufficient. They're not claiming to be Thoreau and living off the land. They're claiming that they're self sufficient within their…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 02:23 PM
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You completely derailed this discussion dude. I'm just describing why women don't feel special because men think they, as a whole, are sexy. You're attacking claims I never made; if you wanted to discuss this you should make a separate post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 02:18 PM
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Honestly the only reason men chase women is for status among other men. You should make a post on this, it's an interesting idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 10:49 PM
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I think what you're missing is that most women want to personally feel desired. The way you're describing men is that they want women not necessarily you in particular; any will do, all of 'em have pussy. Women compete with each other for love, not with men, so being seen as sexier than men jusr by virtue of being female doesn't do much since you're still on equal footing with your competition. That's not even counting the damage that male desire can do to women, and the fear it often causes. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 10:38 PM
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I convinced a girl who knew I was gay and wanted to fuck me to do my extremely laborious physics homework sometimes. I didn't like doing it and felt guilty at the time, but she was down for it and I wasn't able to do it myself since I was out doing other things. I did end up sleeping with her eventually though, so I don't feel bad about it at all now haha, her plan worked I guess. Typically, I actively try not to use my sexuality to get things, and will refuse drinks from men and such. Strangely…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 06:46 PM
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You're joking, but that equivalence is silly. Women don't have the potential for prostate cancer, men have the potential to have anxiety disorders. The idea that doctors misdiagnose or under diagnose certain conditions due to preconceived notions about their patients isn't new.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 07:02 PM
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This isnt the argument that he was making, but it's still possible for women to be disproportionately diagnosed with anxiety by their healthcare providers. Wouldn't be that surprising if doctors are more likely to diagnose women with anxiety for experiencing the same symptoms as men. They're still people with their own preconceived notions after all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 06:50 PM
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I only scanned the abstract, but it suggests that anxiety is more disabling for women because of worse health outcomes and frequent comorbidity with other disorders such as bulimia. It'd be interesting to see if anxiety is still more disabling in women vs men if you controlled for those other disorders, which definitely take a toll on a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 06:42 PM
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I'm pretty BP and I cannot comprehend how anyone would construe any of those situations as sexual harassment. I may not enjoy being on the receiving end of any of these scenarios because I just don't desire sexual male attention, but I understand a guy's gotta shoot his shot to find love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 05:32 PM
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Are you saying his feelings are just wrong? Well, no, I don't think feelings can be "wrong." He also didn't say he himself felt that way, but that a lot of men do. But say a woman said "for a lot of women, Instagram is the only place they feel beautiful" and you might think, how? How does she feel that way when women are cat-called, pursued, portrayed as beautiful all the time, etc. Not a perfect analogy, but I think it may showcase how this someone's feelings aren't wrong per se, but it's hard …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 04:59 PM
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Right. It would be interesting to see a genuine, active femcels sub so we could get a better understanding of what's going on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 04:18 PM
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It could be a mix of trolls and genuinecels. Pretty sure that's the case for /r/braincels.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 04:07 PM
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It's definitely at least partially parody. A lot of the real femcels may just be taking shots at the incel sub, and turning their arguments around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 03:58 PM
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If advice posts are a shitshow flood, would making a single stickied thread each week/month be a viable option?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 03:49 PM
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Okay, most of the things I've learned I've learned in school where I had greater access to the literature and studies but I'll dig some things up quickly: Male pain vs female pain: https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/women-and-pain-disparities-in-experience-and-treatment-2017100912562 Male anger vs female anger: http://gap.hks.harvard.edu/can-angry-woman-get-ahead-status-conferral-gender-and-expression-emotion-workplace https://www.google.com/amp/amp.timeinc.net/time/4089074/angry-men-women Here…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 03:38 PM
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None of those things actually imply that the people around you genuinely listen to you and accept your emotions. Well, that's not exactly what I was arguing, but fuck it I'll give it a shot. The portrayal of men builds and bolsters the stereotypes we have about them. There have been multiple studies that suggest that we do in fact take men's emotions more seriously than women's, and listen to them more. Part of this is likely biological, but also cultural. Men's pain is taken more seriously by d…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 02:20 PM
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I literally say that I don't think it's OK: Should we blame your average US man for all the world's problems and benefits? Of course not. I was explaining that I actually do think it's a nuanced issue that both helps and hurts men, rather than exclusively helps. Men got it bad but they've also got it good. I'm fine with addressing it, and I did address it, I just have my doubts that you and I specifically will have a good discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 03:55 PM
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You have NO IDEA of what the lived experience of a white heterosexual boy and man are in the US. NONE AT ALL. It's funny that you say that as someone who frequently acts as if he's an authority on the female experience and the interior lives of women. But Lewis, I'd also argue that your own experience isn't necessarily the lived experience of every man in the US. You actively seek instances of men being wronged, and women acting entitled. Much like the feminists you dislike, you seek your own ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 03:41 PM
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if you were white, could you be imagine being validated in any significant way by white representation? Yes, absolutely. There's definitely some validation saturation, so it's not often conscious, but I do think white people are validated by our representation. Why do you think white supremacists exist? I've witnessed white people claim that "they" built civilization, which is evidence of our superiority (I've also seen men claim the exact same thing). People love riding the coattails of others.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 01:35 PM
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Men are validated when people appreciate what we ourselves have done, not what other men have done Oh bullshit. Men are social creatures who learn norms, cues, and values largely from other people. They are influenced by their environment like anyone else. They look up to people they can relate to, and definitely receive vicarious validation from the accomplishments of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 05:00 AM
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For a lot of guys, it's been the place where they've actually been heard and validated as human beings. I'm gonna be completely honest with you, I do not understand this. As a homo, I can sympathize with the sentiment... but how can heterosexual men feel this way? How is your existence not validated when you watch movies, wherein you makeup the vast majority of protagonists? How is your existence not validated when the vast majority of athletes are men? How is your existence not validated when t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 02:30 AM
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There's some stuff i agree with, sure. Obviously I think it's worth discussing, since I'm here and at least some of the time I do engage in real debate. I mostly come here to pass time at work, I love arguing. Sometimes it helps me suss out my own beliefs about things too. Edit: I forgot to answer the title question. I wouldn't say TRP is super concerning, I doubt I'll ever interact much with any of them in real life. If that were to change then yeah, I'd probably get concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 11:18 PM
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I scanned the post. OP categorized dopamine, serotonin, etc. as "brain systems" while those categories were its "correlates." Dopamine and serotonin aren't "brain systems," so I assumed Fisher was using them as categories, if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 10:28 PM
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Did she actually name her categories after neurotransmitters and hormones? Idk why but that really annoys me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 08:53 PM
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She's a biological anthropologist, specifically. Anthropology often goes hand in hand with biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 08:33 PM
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try to convince the government to treat it less as an economic relationship - a labor contract - and more of an official declaration to society that they love and care for one another. What would this even look like? Why do you need the government to make a public declaration of love? Would you not be married anymore when you fell out of love? Why would love be in the realm of the court to begin with? You're being so vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 05:57 PM
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Dude, your OP is literally about the economic effects of marriage, now you're putting on this weird theatrical display when people focus on the same thing? Your OP is about the legal aspect marriage, not marriage as a "public declaration of love, adoration, and affection with which two people hope to share with their family and loved ones for the rest of their lives." That's a personal and cultural aspect of marriage, and while I'd agree it's beautiful, not at all within the scope of your OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 05:20 PM
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This is a general trend, not necessarily a hard rule. I'd also argue that compared to a lot of other species, we're not that sexually dimorphic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 05:10 PM
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"Objectivity as found through rational thought, is a western and masculine concept, which we will challenge throughout this text." I really need the context for this, and the following arguments the author makes to judge this quote at all. Is she saying that objective facts don't exist, or that objectivity is impossible for people? One is clearly untrue, the latter you can make a pretty solid argument for, especially considering the scope of the text.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 04:02 PM
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Depends on the situation. If it's obvious that he's about to hit on me, I guess i feel a slight dread at the probably awkward interaction we're about to have. I'm gay so I've never been approached by a man I'm attracted to, but I have been hit on by cute girls while in a relationship. I also feel that dread, but definitely more flattered than when men hit on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 03:46 PM
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I'm ready for that shit to end. This weekend in Kansas we got warm weather, a random storm with nearly golf ball sized hail, and then snow. Spring is supposed to be my favorite season??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 03:58 PM
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Oh, I misread
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 02:28 AM
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How frequently do you suspect men are getting sued for MeToo accusations?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 01:18 AM
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Scratch that, this line is inappropriate in every context!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 07:28 PM
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Well, a funeral would be pretty tacky...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 06:37 PM
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I don't get the point of these questions. Who tf wouldn't be devastated to hear that from a partner they love? Why does this need to be asked? Edit: apparently I was wrong and some people literally wouldn't care. You guys are nuts 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:43 PM
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Also Johnny Depp has a more sordid past so it's not surprising people are more critical of his relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 05:08 PM
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What does this bitchy comment even have to do with anything she said
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:07 PM
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It's so easy to take Adderall and spend all day posting shit on Reddit instead of actually doing anything useful. So goddamn true. When I would take too much vyvanse I'd do shit like play zoo tycoon for 10 hours straight with 0 breaks whatsoever, hardly realizing the time passing. If you tend to do useless shit, you're going to do that no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 07:40 PM
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I don't disagree with you, my point is that "it's in their biology" are the exact words of many RPers, and they appear to have the conviction someone would have when stating any other biological fact... like women have a uterus. I'm sure it's hyperbole sometimes... but I think many of these men really buy that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 10:41 PM
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Red pillers literally claim it's biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 09:11 PM
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They don't argue that AWALT is "scientific fact". This conversation isn't exclusively about AWAIT though, just RP theories in general. I'm sure some RPers do think AWALT is scientific fact, it's a big sub, but obviously not all of them do, since they call it a heuristic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 09:05 PM
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Oh c'mon. They do all the time. They post scientific articles, love evo psych, and use wording as if their ideas are scientific facts. I'm sure if you combed through every TRP post, control + f "scientific fact" you'd get loads and loads of hits. You may not personally say this, but it definitely gets said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 08:09 PM
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All females hold female nature. So AWALT isn't a heuristic at all. It's meant to be a literal fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 08:05 PM
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Gotcha. Yeah, I was wondering about that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 05:34 PM
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The authors proposed this: Women seem to internalize the female sexual role of submission. In the process of fitting their sexual behavior and desires into this cultural mold, women may unwittingly undermine their sexual arousal. Elucidation the ways in which the adoption of a submissive sexual role affects sexual autonomy therefore has the potential to enhance our understanding of women’s sexual dysfunction and to provide ways of improving women’s sexual satisfaction, function, and overall well…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 05:15 PM
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What do you mean by not presented the other way around?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 05:10 PM
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I wonder if this has anything to do with passivity and submission kind of going together. If you're not as into sex, you're probably going to take a more passive, submissive role. Pretty interesting though, and seems to throw a bit of a wrench into popular RP ideas about women's sexual satisfaction. Still, I'm not convinced this isn't more of a correlation between submissive, feminine women not being as into sex rather than a causation of submissive sex making sex less enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 05:08 PM
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Poop isn't okay to eat because it's dangerous. That's why we're disgusted by it, our disgust is meant to protect us from eating shit that's bad for us. Like I said, different people have different dietary needs and health goals. Milk does fit into those goals for some people, but not everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 04:51 PM
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This is why you need to pay attention to who is conducting the studies and how they're funded. But determining what's "healthy" is totally dependent on the individual, their dietary deficiencies and allergies, goals, and needs. Milk does have benefits and can fit into someone's diet. Doesn't mean everyone everywhere can or should drink it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 02:22 PM
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Well, that's pretty cute too. Sorry about your grandparents.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 04:12 PM
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I thought it was a reference to calling your grandparents, which is cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 03:47 PM
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Now excuse me, I have a phone call to make. Awww 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 02:00 PM
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Heathcliff and Cathy is the best fictional example of this imo. Youre definitely right it's a trope. But I'm not sure it's all that related to the alpha widow, like RP describes. More like a love widow. Woman finds someone she actually clicks with and loves, and then is incapable of happiness when she's forced by circumstance to deny him in favor of a man she doesn't really love. I'm not sure you can extrapolate the things RP claims from that, all this trope really shows is that women are more t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 01:57 PM
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Female business attire is still form fitted and they wear heels...it’s very sexualized. Pencil skirts and the like are very sexual too. Fair enough, but it's arguably less sexual than most feminine clothing. You said yourself it's not hot. Women who dress this way usually don't want to look ugly and frumpy at work, but they don't want to look super sexy either. People still want to look good in business attire, but not necessarily directly sexual. Looking good comes with nonsexual benefits too. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 09:33 PM
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This post isn't really relevant to the topic at hand, and it doesn't provide a counterargument to my points. This isn't about how you feel about how certain women look. It's about whether feminism contributes to eating disorders. However you feel about the women who reject traditional standards of female beauty, it's happening. Maybe only to a small, certain type of woman, but I'd argue that tomboyishness at the very least isn't fringe at all. That men don't find suits on women hot is kind of my…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 08:33 PM
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All social behavior has biological origins. Behavior itself is from evolution. I'm not following. I dunno if we can necessarily blame sex positivity on increased pressure to conform to beauty standards, considering how many other confounding variables there are. Women have felt this pressure for ages. They've damaged themselves in the name of beauty throughout history. Cosmetics were often made of harmful material, corsets were uncomfortable at best harmful at worst, Chinese foot binding, etc. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 06:06 PM
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Well I definitely don't deny that that pretty much every social species signals fertility in some way, including humans. It's not all about competition or a zero sum game, though it can be, sure. Obviously I don't think that women don't compete with each other for men. Competition is inherently social though, and often the environment that the competition takes place affects the competing. Clearly you agree with this, it's what your OP is about. Tbh, I don't know about your claim about feminism.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 05:04 PM
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I think lots of blues who come and go here take this to the extreme. The gist of what they are saying is essentially "well since you can't prove it in a vacuum via unethical human experiments, the possibility remains it could be all a social construct. Also, primate studies don't count." I admit that I do take this to the extreme, probably. I have a background in science and it drives me insane how people take studies they barely understand with glaring limitations and try to extrapolate some pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 04:27 PM
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Interestingly, researchers found that during the experiment, a direct link was observed between parietal lob, the area of the brain connected with body perception, and the area of the brain associated with the processing of subjective emotions, such as anger or fear. Women participating in this study demonstrated more prominent brain activity in response to “owning” a body that is obese compared to their male counterpar This doesn't mean that you can rule out the impact of society. Society can a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 03:40 PM
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He posted some advice about how, to show dominance, you should tell her to "shut up and listen" with 0 teasing or mirth. He then wrote a couple of those weird ass prose paragraphs RPers like to write about how she'll totally try to hamster but then she'll submit and in that moment, you will be euphoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 03:15 PM
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FFS dude, this post is about teasing not whatever weird shit you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 02:00 PM
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I hate this sub for making me think of bs internet fighting whenever I hear that line!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 03:45 PM
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Exactly. Some guys have such a colossal chip on their shoulder I'm very, very skeptical people can't pick up on it. Other guys either aren't as angry, or are just better chameleons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 01:51 PM
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Dude I agree. I've checked things out at night because my girlfriend is pretty anxious but I've never actually assumed it was anything or that I was in any extra danger. Houses just make noise. Apartments are worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 01:26 PM
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This made me look it up. Anime was a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 04:21 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 03:17 PM
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This isn't necessarily a criticism of feminist ideology or the movement as a whole, but goddamn Tumblr call out culture gets annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 02:53 PM
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Well, that's why emotional labor is kind of a retarded term. Emotional labor isn't necessarily a bad thing, in fact it's quite beneficial for bonding between people. My male friends who dump their feelings on me are close friends in large part because of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:27 PM
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It is kind of a retarded term, but she's got a point. This is a scenario almost every woman who's had male friends can relate to: he dumps out all of his feelings, vulnerabilities, and insecurities onto you, often too soon in the friendship. My male friends tell me things that they're too scared to share with other men all the time. They go to me to help them sort out their feelings. I like to think it's just because I have a good head on my shoulders, but I do think my sex has something to do w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 01:22 PM
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Welcome to the club 🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 02:10 PM
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Nope! Didn't know that was a British thing. I thought it was a millennial female thing haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 01:56 PM
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3 glasses of champagne at 9am just sounds like early brunch to me, don't judge!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 01:18 PM
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Okay since you self-identify as spergy, I'm gonna caution you on this advice. It is possible to look like you're trying too hard at being alpha and relaxed. If I were you, I'd focus less on "looking alpha" because that can backfire and more on not looking weird. For now focus on not slouching, standing up straight. DON'T move extremely slowly to convey 'extreme strength,' just don't move too fast. Once you get comfortable with that you can work on proactively looking masculine rather than just n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 04:34 PM
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Fast, twitchy movements may convey nervousness and insecurity. Slow, deliberate movements convey being at ease.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 04:06 PM
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Exactly!! This place makes me feel crazy sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 02:25 AM
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Remember those "most interesting man in the world" commercials? If not, look it up. They were pretty popular and amusing. It's relevant because the guy was presented as a masculine ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 02:21 AM
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Lol, you guys will believe anything that makes women look bad. https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/was-all-female-responsible-bridge-collapse/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 12:45 AM
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You're definitely right that many eating disorders aren't necessarily connected to fat shaming and all of that, that was a clumsy statement on my part. That said I can imagine that many of them internalized the disdain people express toward fat women, and when you combine that with anxiety and OCD, an ED is how their mental illness manifests itself. I also think it's true that for most people, validation isn't as powerful as disgust, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 09:28 PM
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Exactly. As will their peers, who will tell them stuff too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 08:20 PM
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Maybe I'm misunderstanding you, but I think men have tons of examples of masculine body language in the media. Watch any movie with an attractive man. Watch Don Draper in Mad Men. Watch George Clooney in anything. Watch those dos x commercials. Convey power, take up space. Slow, emphatic, big movements. Straighten up, shoulders back. Seems pretty easy to see to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 08:18 PM
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On a more general note, any idea which causes a species to not breed is simply destined to be removed from the species. It's not that simple. There aren't genes for specific ideas, although your genetics may influence how you perceive the world and how susceptible you are to certain ways of thinking sure. But there's no feminism gene. Feminists are often born from anti-Feminists. Also, homosexuality. It's not an idea, but it often causes people not to breed. Yet it's still present in numerous sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 08:08 PM
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I think this is definitely the stronger argument, but a lot of (most?) people don't learn about these ideas from their parents. In today's age, children will be exposed to a tooon of information. You can try to socialize your children a certain way, but you can't "inoculate" your child against ideas. The world around them will shape them just as you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 07:26 PM
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Your own feelings matter because empathy is a feeling itself, and feelings get in the way of other feelings. Anger can override feelings of love, empathy, sadness for example and I think that's what's happening here. Couvade syndrome is something partners and close relatives sometimes experience when a woman is pregnant, where they essentially feel symptoms of pregnancy. Presumably they don't feel this around every pregnant woman, just ones they're close to. I'd argue empathy works very similarl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 05:55 PM
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I'm saying that cofeeling is made more difficult by feelings of alienation and hostility.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 05:25 PM
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FYI your post formatting it a little wonky and difficult to read on mobile
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 05:18 PM
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I mean, it's significantly harder to have empathy for someone who espouses the sorts of ideas that the incels making these comics do. Making someone feel alienated naturally makes them feel less empathy. It's not an unconditional emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 05:13 PM
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This is a great comment. The amount of guys in here that think fat women are getting constant praise and have over inflated self worth is crazy. I mean, look at some of the comments in this thread. I've heard some of the most vile shit said about them, and it isn't the same treatment that fat men receive at all. There's a reason so many women have eating disorders and a terrible relationship with food.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 02:13 PM
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I was kinda hoping we'd get into a science slapfight but I can't disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 11:22 PM
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I'm specifically talking about the evo psych theories RPers come up with. Most of them don't know what they're talking about. There are plenty of stupid movements that gain a sizeable and growing following. But I'm not commenting on the efficacy of TRP at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 07:06 PM
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unless they were also free to marry multiple men Even then I highly doubt they'd be down.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 06:12 PM
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Oh I have no doubt that most of it is guys who read part of the sidebar and now think they're experts. And MRP > TRP. But some of the worst nonsense I've seen comes from ECs. Nothing drives me up a wall more than seeing someone use their tenuous-at-best understanding of an already controversial field of study to justify their dumbass biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 05:06 PM
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Funnily enough, as someone who has studied lots of evo psych and evolutionary biology in general, I tend to have the opposite reaction to RP theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 04:45 PM
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Lol, could you be more dramatic?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 02:01 AM
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Sorry to jump in, but I think I can offer some perspective and hopefully lower your insecurity about this. I don't have endometriosis, but I am a lesbian who doesn't enjoy penetration (physically, not psychologically). I absolutely have a fulfilling sex life. I get off every time I have sex and have a very high libido, especially for a woman. Can't say I feel like I'm missing out on anything. My girlfriend on the other hand does enjoy penetration. I can get her off very easily with my fingers, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 01:20 AM
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A+ content very thoughtful post
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 12:53 AM
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It's hard for me to comprehend the victim complex one would need to harbor in order to unironically believe heterosexuality is anything other than the dominant sexuality portrayed in every platform of mainstream media. Hot dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 10:24 PM
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Yeah, most people don't live in the same circles as Hollywood types. That's not what life is really like, even in more progressive cities. straight people are now fringe in movies. You've got to be kidding me dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 09:40 PM
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No, not really, to be honest. It's also the only major trans issue I can even remember blowing up in recent times, aside from that one Trump tweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 08:03 PM
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Who the hell is getting this stuff thrown in their face all the time? I have a strong suspicion that the only reason people think this stuff is everywhere is because they actively seek it out. Like, how many famous trans people does the average American know of??? Jenner? That woman from Orange is the New Black???
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 07:35 PM
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If I said that last sentence as a homosexual, I would get applause on national TV. I get that you're being hyperbolic, but it is so crazy to me that you think this is anywhere near the lived experience of actual homosexuals. Lots of gays today are afraid of even mentioning a same sex spouse or partner in passing to a co-worker. Coming out is a continuous and often stressful process that still, today, often leads to social ostracization. Do you seriously think your average heterosexual male faces…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 07:24 PM
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That's quite the assumption. Also, I'm pretty sure childfree people have higher marriage satisfaction rates. I highly doubt that most of these relationships are non-monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 12:09 AM
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I got hot takes 20,000 leagues under the sea
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 05:33 PM
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If one or both of you refuses to do this the dead bedroom clock is ticking. So in a sense part of taking responsibility for your own orgasm is making sure your partner gets theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 03:29 PM
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I don't think this is the sole reason women feel used, but this definitely happens. Ive noticed many women use sex as a means to keep a man attached to them, rather than having sex for mutual pleasure. Early on they'll have awesome, crazy, frequent sex. But she's not actually a high libido woman, so it's unsustainable, and the relationship ends up suffering. If a woman is having sex in order to get something else out of a person and all she gets is sex, she'll probably feel upset over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 03:13 PM
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I guess I was thinking about how submissiveness can mean a lack of initiation, so it forces men to take that role and sometimes results in no initiation at all. Stuff along that line.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 10:07 PM
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Aggressive male sexuality actively hurts women every day. Female submissiveness hurts people in more indirect, probably less offensive ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 09:11 PM
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I mean, you did just link me to an article that discusses the very topic...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 08:56 PM
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Alrighty then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 08:28 PM
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I mean, I've made the first move on women plenty of times too, and I get that it's not exactly the same but come on. I've missed out on things because I've been afraid to take risks, that's life man. My average ass male friends somehow manage to get laid in a feminist college town in this era without paralyzing fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 08:10 PM
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The formatting makes it look so ominous
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 07:38 PM
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Your advice seems to be stop listening to women. Stop listening to feminists. When that is the antithesis of the hastag metoo movement. Not exactly. Don't go to feminists for advice on how to actively be attractive and get laid. But do listen to women who have had metoo experiences if you don't want to get metoo'd yourself. It's good for men to know that while assertiveness is attractive, there can be consequences for being too aggressive. This protects men and women. Being too scared to make a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 07:36 PM
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Random utilitarians are not in charge of the HR department at work. They are not implementing Duluth model into police training. It's very average, mainstream feminists who are doing this. Well yeah, that's how this stuff works. Philosophers come up with ideas, other people interpret and implement these ideas. The Duluth model was made by feminist thinkers and activists. As far as everything else you said, I think we've got a misunderstanding. You seem to think that I'm suggesting that men shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 07:00 PM
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Not once did I say they aren't feminists. I just don't think they're the feminists you should listen to if you want a nuanced understanding of feminist theory. Maybe the WaPo woman knows her stuff, but it's a single woman in a single article dealing with, again, a complicated issue with many different scholars who have opposing views. Literally all I'm saying is if you want to understand a certain philosophy, you read works from its intellectuals. If you want to learn about Utilitarianism, you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 05:37 PM
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Because like I said your average person doesn't know shit about feminism. Gender dynamics are complicated and you need to be educated on the subject to understand all the nuances and make a good argument. I don't have to pretend that any woman who runs and calls herself a feminist has anything good to say about the topic. But there are feminists who do have a deep knowledge about feminist theory, and they're the ones you should talk to if you're actually interested in understanding the subject. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 04:57 PM
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Look, you'll be able to see people of all sorts of ideologies spouting off their ideas without any nuance. Especially since labeling oneself as feminist has become so mainstream, you'll be able to find a feminist saying any manner of nonsense, or giving awful advice. Any time a movement gets big it runs the risk of attracting reactionaries and morons who just love the label "feminist" but haven't given their ideas much thought. At the end of the day, the average person doesn't have great critica…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 04:30 PM
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So I'm a lesbo, and my relationship with my girlfriend isn't really egalitarian. I'm definitely the more dominant one, I tend to relate to the captain first mate dynamic I see on MRP. I certainly wouldn't call my relationship unfeminist, though I understand that some might, because we're both choosing this dynamic based on our personalities. Obviously I don't feel that women have to be submissive because they're women, and I dislike that notion. I've been in more egalitarian relationships and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 04:03 PM
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the space between your ha's is distressing to me for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 04:36 PM
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It's not even just about the wedding. It's about no marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:42 PM
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I'm still a woman, with the same body lol. I understand that it can be different, but when my body and mind react to getting riled up with no release, it's still a woman's body experiencing it, and it's awful and dissatisfying. What's more, my opinion on orgasms has been echoed by my straight female friends as well. But you're right, youre the only normal one here, we're all media conditioned phreaks 🙄 Also how the fuck is caring about cumming "sex obsessive" lol I get that sex is more than an o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:35 PM
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We wouldn't have taken issue with your comment had you presented it as personal experience. Instead you made up some weird narrative about "the media" forcing women to value their own orgasms. Like no, I love orgasms because they're an awesome culmination of sex, not because I'm told that it feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 04:27 AM
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Hard disagree. I expect to cum every time and you a bitch if you can't make it happen. You can blame the media, but the media doesn't make orgasms feel amazing, mindbending. The media doesn't make me feel frustrated and dissatisfied when I don't get off. Like the other women have said: speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:30 AM
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I would guess that is varies from person to person. This is a good point. The mutability of one's personality may also be another dimension of personality that, ironically enough, could have a genetic component.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 03:39 PM
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This is a crazy argument. Let's take the height example. If you are severely malnourished during your entire early life your growth will be stunted. Doesn't mean height isn't anchored in genetics. Why would it be different for personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 03:35 PM
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Fuck me, I wrote a whole thing only to hit back and lose everything 😤 But It's hard to determine how malleable/genetically linked personality is. Because not only, as someone has already noted, can genes that have nothing to do with personality "induce" a certain environment that can change personality, but environmental factors can literally change gene expression (epigenetics). So really, who knows. But I've taken a bunch of child development classes, and from what I've learned it does seem th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 03:30 PM
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Good lord you're making loads of assumptions here. she did not teach me how to do laundry, I didn't ask her, she does it because she enjoys it. I can do all of these things myself, and when single did, but my girlfriend helps me and makes my life easier... which is the entire point of this post. Never did I claim to be incapable of these things - I'm not. She saw how I lived when single and my apartment was pretty dope. If my girl didn't do these things then I would, but then I'd have less time …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 06:17 PM
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Ok I don't think I'm wording myself properly. Lifting, pursuing your hobbies, playing an instrument and hell, even just fixing your posture all change your brain chemistry a bit and perhaps under the strictest definition alter your "true self." But do they change your personality, your goals, things that bring you joy, your relationship? Rarely, in healthy people, anyway. I'll admit that the incel who does all these things will probably blossom like a butterfly, but normie Norman? Nah, he'll jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 10:57 PM
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I added the caveat that for short term relationships this doesn't apply, but many RP men do seem LTRs and even have wives. I'm sure most of them will at least have long term girlfriends eventually. RP does prescribe them, an unsurprisingly these are the uncontroversial aspects of RP that both sides here have repeatedly agreed with. It's the rest that we take issue with. It's soooo disingenuous when you all act like that's all youll find on that sub. It's true that I don't know the interior lives…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 09:08 PM
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The hunter analogy works well for things such as lifting, cosmetic improvements, exuding confidence, etc. I guess. But Beta Billy from the suburbs, whose mom smothered him as a child and works in IT will never be the aggressive alpha monster who never shows vulnerability. But he doesn't have to to be happy or find love and such an endeavor may end up being more harmful to his psyche than not. I'd argue that he's better off accepting who he is, doing activities to make him hotter/more confident (…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 10:28 PM
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The danger with putting on a facade for LTRs is that people are lazy. They'll drop that mask almost certainly, and suddenly their partner is stuck with your true self. Seems like a breeding ground for resentment. Let's say you based your relationship on say, loving movies and you don't actually love movies, you were just pretending. Well when you're infatuated, it'll be easy to watch movies with your boo. But then you get older, weary, you've got a job, limited time... You're not gonna watch mov…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 09:14 PM
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They might have an ONS here or there I mean, considering you've said that sleeping with multiple women = harem, then why can't you define this as a harem?? This is my whole point, that's a sloppy definition that gives guys too much leeway to be like, "yep I got a harem 😎" they sure as hell don't have three women they can call up on Friday or Saturday night and reliably wind up getting laid Shifting goal posts. This is the comment that everyone was taking issue with: If you don't consider a man s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 02:53 PM
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So I acknowledge and accept that words can have different colloquial meanings than their actual definitions. But the use of harem sooo loosely that nearly every semi attractive man can get/has had one is just ridiculous and comes across as absurdly hyperbolic, and causes silly debates like the one you're having with me and multiple people in this thread. Again: All you're doing is complaining that you don't like the term. Who cares? I mean this is a debate sub and you're responding to me. So, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 09:27 PM
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The idea that women don't provide anything but pussy is so foreign to me. Every girl I've been with, especially my current girl, has improved my life in some way. I haven't done my laundry in 2 years, AND my gf introduced me to this shit you put in our laundry that makes all your clothes, sheets, blankets smell amazing. She helps me organize my shit, find my keys/phone cause I lose them every day. She reminds me of doctor visits. She asks me how my day was, every single day even when I just say …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 09:18 PM
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Harem, even in the colloquial way we use it today means something and conveys a specific situation. Using it the way you're proposing is just disingenuous. No one cares if each woman fully understands what's going on. No one cares if each woman is fully, religiously exclusive to the man I doubt that, because of the use of harem which again, means something. I strongly suspect they use the word harem because that's the ideal for them. Instead, they exaggerate their current situation to cultivate …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 08:43 PM
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I'm expecting one dude in a somewhat long term relationship with several women who are aware of the arrangement and are exclusive to him. Come on dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 08:14 PM
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Sketch
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 05:08 PM
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I can't decide what something is worth to another person. But from the two options you've presented, I'd pick being a normie.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 05:06 PM
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Yea I don't see us making headway here. But for the record, I'm not trying to be logical. I'm trying to lay down how people tend to view these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 03:11 PM
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I've seen this exact scenario and I've lived in the Midwest most of my life. Verrrry white.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 03:06 PM
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What? That's such a ridiculous, watered down definition of harem. Is there a time limit to how long in between sex with each woman for it to not be a harem anymore? Like, with this definition it sounds like most even somewhat attractive men could score a harem, if only for a short amount of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 03:00 PM
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You can try to use an objective model all you want, but attraction is determined by subjective human experience. And it is not because men are just "uglier", women will always be picky no matter what, If women say a man is ugly, then he is ugly. It does not matter what percentile he is in. At all. Think of it like this. Imagine there's a disease that makes 70% of men (and only men) horrifically disfigured, and unattractive to women in every dimension. Are the bottom 70% of perfectly normal, stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 02:52 PM
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Isn't it weird to you that men score women hotter than they are? No. And if men are rating a woman as attractive, she's attractive. If she then gets with a man who women rate as unattractive, she is dating someone below her looksmatch. Do you believe in an objective standard of beauty or something? Because if you do, were coming from completely different perspectives on this. Cause, you know, when majority of men are 2.5/10, there's an obvious problem in the rating. Nope. Where the majority of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 03:50 PM
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Since men generally date bellow their looks match, your initial premise seem wrong to me. Just like most women you're biased to believe majority of men are ugly while majority of women are beautiful. No way do I believe this. Also, who determines how physically attractive a man is if not women? I would definitely agree with OP that a lot of issues in heterosexual relationships are at least partly due to men scoring women who are hotter than they are, who aren't as attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 02:58 PM
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That line is usually given as advice, I think, rather than literal fact. You can't control others, so it's best to take your happiness in your own hands. The idea that others have no bearing on your happiness is obviously idiotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 09:57 PM
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its metaphysical. This + your username is making me side eye you a bit...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 09:55 PM
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Since you're bi, do your clarifications/qualifications for each classification differ for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 12:22 AM
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I think the difference is for women who are bi/straight and want a family, a "beta man" still provides a value -- gives her the family unit and paternal figure she wants. I cannot imagine trying to raise a family with someone I wasn't attracted to, who kept trying to fuck me. A nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 10:19 PM
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Dang, I missed a perfect opportunity to just respond "hunny, let's unpack that."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 10:14 PM
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I definitely like to pursue more, yes, and am typically the more dominant partner in my relationships. But women have pursued me too, sometimes pretty aggressively. I suppose I'm masculine in certain senses, but I dress and look pretty feminine, so it's strange for me to think of myself as the masculine partner. Also, that's probably the least clumsily that that question has been worded to me, haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 10:00 PM
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I'm a lesbian so ill post in here. I can relate to all but beta providers. I would never enter any sort of romantic relationship with a girl I didn't find hot. Tbh I'd be all for my future wife being a SAHM if that worked out financially. But I definitely relate to separating potential LTRs and casual flings. In college I had ONSs and FWBs with some girls that were attractive but just complete messes. Some girls I slept with would have been too much for a FWB situation, much less an option for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 09:15 PM
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The fact that /u/LewisCross is complaining about shaming on a post that seems to be dedicated to "shaming" women by calling them "hyperemotional" and claiming that they're overreacting is rich. And the only example I've seen provided of this phenomenon wasn't even hyperemotional, though I suspect that his definition of the word and mine would differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 05:33 PM
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No way dude. Taming the slutty player is a total female fantasy. Scoring a dude who pumped and dumped others but for you, he is gentlemanly and patient? Music to her ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 04:53 AM
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I clarified a bit in my other responses. But I'd err on the side of supporting your partner 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 10:55 PM
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Wait, what? I thought we were disagreeing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 04:18 PM
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It depends on the situation. If you're having a respectful debate then yeah, it's fine of course. I'm realizing that i may have misunderstood what OP meant. I was thinking more of a rude argument, or even someone being rude about a partner who wasn't present. IIRC, that's what Jammerly was talking about originally. Edit: Jammerly says elsewhere in this thread: I’ve tried dating white betas, but it never ends up in a relationship because but they get intimidated by Alpha Black men, can’t stand up…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 04:17 PM
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Jammerly1 notes that she can't count on the beta nerds she's dated to defend her in an argument. But is this an inherently bad thing... ask yourself what your reaction would be if a man was complaining about his girlfriend not defending him. Be honest... what would you say to him? If it's different than what you'd say to a woman, why is that? Hell no it isn't different. Your partner should be your ride or die who defends your name.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 03:23 PM
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Stuck in lives they never wanted and don't have the strength to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 03:32 PM
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What in the world do you mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 03:06 PM
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This is almost exactly what I would have said. Growing up I was also discouraged from being who I truly was and it was hell sometimes, but it all worked out. I think you're right that while it sucks, if you're resilient, you may be better off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 02:56 PM
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uh, men absolutely do like this. I tease everyone back, and it has made me fast friends with lots of guys. Most flirty social interactions I've seen involve teasing; it's a lighthearted two player game that you don't seem to get. Not to mention all the nonsexual teasing that men and women do, as I touched on by talking about my family. I'm all for teaching men how to playfully tease, I mentioned before that it's a valuable tool for bonding with people. But if you're negging someone with the expl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 02:42 PM
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Yes. I think the concept of privilege is useful, but it's not as simple as, who has more of It? It's very contextual. Most conversations revolving around privilege just don't do any justice for its nuances. That's why I tend to dislike these kinds of questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 02:14 AM
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Ehhhh I'm pretty glad I can't pop a boner in public. Definitely would happen to me at some inappropriate times.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 02:09 AM
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This is a good point. At the end of the day, male or female, most careers aren't that fulfilling. They're boring jobs that you do out of necessity. Having a career has just always been a necessity for men, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 10:23 PM
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Okay, I have an idea of the difference between negging and flirty teasing. Jerkish negging is lame because it's not about building rapport or having fun, but is instead just using humor as a vehicle to take down someone's perceived status. It's like a bitch ass way to insult someone while trying to escape the social consequences of insulting. I guess it does all boil down to intent, and if someone intentionally negs you but you perceive it as regular joking, it'll come across well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 09:48 PM
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So what does it look like when someone teases you the wrong way? Like how does someone come across as a jerk to you vs. jokester? I'm trying to suss that part out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 09:31 PM
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To an extent, you're right. Trust and comfort allow you to go harder when you tease your friends and still have fun. But if I've just met someone and they tease me, I will probably feel closer to them (if they do it right, of course) and we'll form a closer bond, faster. I think its ability to form a bond with a stranger quickly makes teasing a useful tool for flirting. That said, not everyone has grown up with it and everyone has different limits which also makes it a dangerous tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 08:51 PM
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playful disposition This is the key, really. It's the difference between friendly teasing that fun and sometimes flirty and some weirdo insulting you because he's got some problem with you. I grew up in a family of razzers, and my dad is the #1 ballbuster. So teasing is incredibly natural for me (though I will say it has gotten me into trouble with some more sensitive souls) and tbh, if I haven't teased or been teased by someone then I probably wouldn't consider them to be close to me. And being…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 08:28 PM
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This is in the comment she's responding to: I'm sure if you put a little bit of effort, just browsing through some Instagram's, you'll stumble upon a whole group of girls that will be going out to Miami or Vegas for Spring break. And its not a small group... PCB is a classic college spring break destination, like Miami. This is not about girls who drink and go to house parties and it's disingenuous to suggest that that's all she's talking about. Work on your reading comprehension man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 02:34 AM
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She didn't suggest that 5% of women don't go to parties though. OP is clearly talking about hot Instagram girls who travel out to places like PCB and have crazy parties there. Most young girls party and drink, yeah. But most girls aren't travelling out of state and having crazy parties with body builders.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 06:50 PM
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how
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 07:10 PM
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They don't advocate it, but it's clear that that's what happens. Hell, I've even caught myself getting into that mindset and I'm not red pill. I'll read some RPer bragging and I'll think "ha, he thinks that's impressive? Well I've gotten a girl to xyz..." as if that makes me better than some dude I've never even met. And ultimately, the sleazy hook ups I've had in the past don't even mean that much to me. It made me happy then but doesn't matter now. Maybe I'm just some beta bitch, but I do thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 02:48 PM
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Idgaf what a select few women say; I am reporting my experience. It seems to be a myth to me regardless of who says it, but this is absolutely something some members of the manosphere push. Also, "the size of your dick isn't important" =/= women saying their orgasms don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 05:38 AM
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I can only speak for myself, but if my partner is incapable of getting me off, it greatly reduces my pleasure. And since I've had other partners who have made me cum every time, if I fuck someone and they can't make me, I definitely lose respect for their sexual prowess. And let's be honest, tons of women don't come from these drunken ONS. I'm not saying orgasms are the only thing that matter, but fuck, not cumming when you're used to it really is a turn off. Again, I realize some women may feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 04:51 PM
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Shifting goal posts. This is what you said: Guys aren't at TRP or MRP bitching about their GFs or wives won't let them do anal. It's pretty hard to deny that many RP men are upset by the notion of women having anal sex with exes/ONSs, but not their SOs. Not saying they're not upset about bjs either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 07:07 PM
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im not 100% women feel "attraction" to anyone Can you expand on what you mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 03:17 PM
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Dude you're one dude who's been cheated on. Why should we care? I've had many friends whose girlfriends didn't cheat on them, despite being in college where I'm sure they saw higher SMV men daily. Whose anecdotal evidence counts for more, yours or mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 11:57 PM
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Surely you understand that it's unreasonable to demand a layperson "what gene is responsible for x!" I know this because I studied evolutionary science and human biology in college. We did not learn specific genes that caused x behavior. We learned about how things like sexual dimorphism, number of offspring, gestation period length, and social structure influence things like monogamy and parental investment. Also cross-cultural studies. Biology isn't all about finding that x gene does y (which …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 03:19 PM
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I don't think that person meant values in the same way we do, but cavemen absolutely invested in their children. Humans are not fruit flies. We go through long, vulnerable pregnancies and our babies are useless for a long time. Mothers need help, thankfully we're a social species. I'm pretty sure that's what the person meant to convey. I also think you're giving early humans too little credit!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 03:33 PM
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It's a financial loss for women too, since it causes them to leave jobs/poorly affects their performance. Why wouldn't feminists tackle something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 03:50 PM
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That may be true, but I still think this is a bad example. We have no idea if her actions were due to low self esteem, or because she's just a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 04:30 PM
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What's more is that apparently she repeatedly told him to stop his advances, but they continued and she didn't discipline him/get administration involved? BS, she didn't get them involved because she wasn't actually worried, she was excited. My gf was a young, attractive teacher for this age group and the way she'd handle this is just so different, because she's not a terrible teacher or a fucking pedophile. I feel like you're trying to pass this off as normal female sexuality, and a case study …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 04:14 PM
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I know nothing about this case but from the excerpt it seems like she may be trying to minimize her guilt by portraying him as the pursuant while she rejected him at every turn. I mean she's in court after all, strong incentive for some creative narrative building. I find it hard to believe that she totally didn't flirt back/wasn't interested, but then after some "negging" she decides to rape the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 02:47 PM
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Not exactly relevant to the conversation at hand
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 04:26 PM
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Really? When a man walks alone in a nice neighborhood he has an equal chance of getting raped as a woman? Because that's what we're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 06:17 AM
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I think women are more wary of sexual assault than getting jumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 09:55 PM
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This is a really good point. I've spent a lot of time reading MRP, and a lot of it is pretty good. Of course there's tons of RP bs and hyperbole, but when you read some of the "victim puke" you're like, Jesus this dude desperately needs help. The advice is often pretty harsh, but frankly it's what the guy needs to hear. I suspect a lot of the reformed drunk captains see themselves as captains, while their wives simply think "thank God he's finally pulling his weight" and both parties are better …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 04:56 PM
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Also calm down and watch your tone when you speak to me, you will talk, not screech like a petulant child. Lmao you actually wrote this on reddit.com. Wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 10:20 PM
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I think you're spending way too much time in niche internet communities, and it's seriously coloring your perspective here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 04:12 PM
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Uh no, he said: When has she ever said anything along the lines of "kill all men" or "all sex is rape"? To which you directly replied: Her entire career is taking shit she doesn't understand out of context and encouraging everyone to get offended by it for the feminist cause. Look at your own comment. This didn't address his question at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 02:55 PM
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Her entire career is taking shit she doesn't understand out of context and encouraging everyone to get offended by it for the feminist cause. Wow, that's some blatant goalpost moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 03:35 AM
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I mean you're right but almost everyone cares about their social reputation and being liked. It's just a fact that being assertive comes with social penalties, often more so for women. Thus, they have less incentive to assertively express their needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 08:28 PM
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That's nice, but this is a debate sub. Even if you dont care about convincing us, you're supposed to at least make an attempt to support your argument with evidence. It looks like you're now doing that in another thread, which is good. But you can't just be like, "well i don't know another explanation and this may explain the increase in crime, so it must be true!" and act like you have a solid reason for that belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 09:53 PM
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Okay, I'm considering the possibility. It's your job to give me a reason to believe this. I'm not expecting you to go all Freakonomics on us, but who did you think you'd convince with this lazy write up?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 09:33 PM
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Wait why do you think the sexual revolution explains this? Any evidence besides your own thoughts, which clearly aren't convincing us?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 09:16 PM
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it seems very difficult to imagine some way to in which everyone, with all their desires but also their sensitivities, is always happy. What do we do about this? I mean no shit. But someone's right to not be randomly sexually assaulted should trump some dude's slight potential to get his dick sucked. Like, how is that a question you have to ask? Also, like everyone else is saying, that story sounds fake as helllll.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 03:01 PM
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Because it's human nature to want to be liked and seem cool. Yup, even in the internet. Not that hard to understand my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 11:36 PM
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People use PPD as a vehicle to receive internet validation for totally banging a ton of chicks all the time. That said, I think this question has value. Would've been better had you simply asked "what's misogynistic about a man who only wants sex from women?" instead. That way, people would debate the actual topic instead of making this about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 11:15 PM
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I'm female and if I'm being honest, I'm pretty self-obsessed. So meaningful introspection happens daily. I'm sure your dsefinition of "meaningful introspection" is incredibly constrictive, but still. It's insane that you think an entire sex doesn't do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 08:06 PM
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You made an argument that proves itself when someone contests it? Gee, how convenient!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 06:39 PM
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If they're calling you a creep, sounds like they're dismissing you, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 06:20 PM
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I mean you clearly don't represent them though. Not all companies arbitrarily disqualify otherwise desirable candidates for their ink. I work for an industrial lab where people visible tattoos, even some who directly work with the CEO. Saw the same when I worked in an academic lab. Your views are dying out, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 02:45 PM
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segregated schools at least till 18, the college then kids interact together Oh my god college would be a shit show 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 03:07 PM
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There are men who do it as supplication and men who do it as part of showing off they are the best in bed and they know it and because it turns THEM on. This is a very good point. It's not nearly as fun for most women when you think your partner is just doing this to please you. Not only is it supplicating but it makes your needs seem like a burden... not sexy. But when they are genuinely enjoying it, despite no good physical sensations, it's phenom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 03:09 PM
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While I'm pretty limited not being able to read the full text, based off these summaries, these are far more convincing if your point than the bonobos. Although high economic status =/= problematic behavior, so I'm not sure what the second point is about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 09:12 PM
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I can't access either of those links while I'm using mobile data at work, but if you've got the time I'd love a summary of what these say.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 07:38 PM
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In other words, human females tend to separate the appeal of moral righteousness from mate selection. Are you basing this assumption exclusively off these two studies? Because wow, that's a leap.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 05:05 PM
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You've missed my point completely. Yes, there are many different things that people want to be desired for. But notice that all the things you listed have to do with some good thing about that person? That desire is a reaction to that person's good qualities, whether it's personality, looks, or whatever. That is very different from rejoicing that people have issues, because those issues make you desireable. That is far less sympathetic than simply wanting to be desired, an understandable drive i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 01:19 AM
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Of course. But most people want to be desired for how great they are, not because of the emotional vulnerabilities someone has from past trauma. There's something definitely fucked up in being glad that some people have a shitty childhood because it helps you fuck young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 12:38 AM
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Sure some guys don't mind, but gay men have also gotten their asses beat for making advances at straight men...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 11:14 PM
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If you think women are retarded children, why are you throwing a fit about what they say? This makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 08:07 PM
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I mean, the same thing happens all the time with straight women and straight men. I guess anything's possible with anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 06:03 PM
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The male counterpart to these women live like pigs and still take their laundry home to Mom. Yup, seen lots of guys like this in college. It's honestly shocking how many people I've met who are just so poorly equipped for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 01:13 AM
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No one is doubting neural plasticity. But that is a far cry from /u/Love8Death's claims. That's a pretty big logical leap.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 02:47 AM
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Unless I'm particularly lost in thought or pissed I smile at everyone. Bigger smiles for the especially young and old. Sometimes people mistake this for an invitation to talk to me or flirt, which is annoying but fine if they're brief.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 02:12 AM
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For sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 08:41 PM
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You're making a lot of assumptions with a seemingly poor and biased understanding of the gay community. I know this isn't a proper rebuttal and I apologize for that, but you really can't begin to understand the dynamics of homosexual relationships with a cursory glance at a couple studies. There are studies that also show lesbians have higher satisfaction in long term relationships and their sex lives, despite the real problems in the community that you've mentioned (if you want I'll hit you wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 04:19 AM
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I'm a lesbian who has had phases of promiscuity. Certainly never had a harem though, but as a straight looking lesbian in the midwest it'd incredibly difficult to accumlate one. I doubt I'd have the time to maintain something like that honestly. But if I could've done so, I'm sure I would've! I mostly had a steady FWB, while occasionally scoring a one night stand or going on dates with girls from tinder and sleeping with them pretty quickly. I've never been slut shamed about this from lesbians o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 08:24 PM
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Okay... your first link is to a website titled "truthaboutdeception.com" which is raising some red flags. Second link seems to be the research they cite but I can't access it so I can't comment on it. If you can post even just the results that'd be helpful. If you don't know the results of the actual study, and only what a website tells you the results are, you shouldn't be citing these numbers. Still doesn't change or address what I said. If you look at a review of research, cherry pick the hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 02:37 AM
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A 30-60% stat is still a terrible and misleading representation of the data man. Don't even front.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 11:11 PM
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You seriously gonna try to make a man who gets sex whenever he wants it feel bad about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 10:15 PM
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Nah. Usually it happens from a car though, and I can never tell what the fuck the dude is even saying, so I can't really get too worked about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 04:01 PM
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While I agree that short men can and do still slay, I find it incredibly hard to believe that people literally think that you're a half foot taller than you are. Good advice though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 04:50 AM
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How would this fix male entitlement?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 04:57 AM
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lol quit acting like it's some amazing, impossible feat to simulate vaginal contractions. It isn't that incredible, and probably not that uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 03:37 AM
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I'm confused. Are you agreeing with the OP then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 11:27 PM
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It illustrates that men in general displayed more narcissistic traits/dysfunctions than women - not just that they are more likely to be diagnosed with the actual personality disorder. So while you're correct about the limitations of the first study, your comment in no way refutes the implications of the second.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 10:30 PM
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This is BS excuse for avoiding having to back up your claims. We aren't going to just believe something because you say it's true. This is an emotionally loaded topic; /u/iamsamurai, you, and I likely are coming into this post with biased perceptions that skew how we view this issue. Which is why there's no reason to just accept what we say at face value. We're gonna say what we want to believe is true. That's why sources and studies are useful. You're right that we should be critical of these s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 10:59 PM
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Well yeah. That's because you're just ranting about women without providing evidence of anything you're claiming.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 07:18 PM
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Lots of people in this thread seem to be conveniently ignoring that second study.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 05:48 PM
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Okay... but what about the other study?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 05:46 PM
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What are you ever even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 05:36 PM
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That is too much 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 06:24 PM
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Dude, making pre-emptive strike saying "I bet you're gonna say I'm attacking a straw man" and then gloating when it happens doesn't mean you actually haven't just made a straw man. What a ridiculous way to avoid having to provide evidence for your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 03:09 PM
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I don't get those two.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 01:52 AM
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The problem with RN s is that roughly 1/3 are crazy Why do you think this is? Most women I know who are nurses or in nursing school are crazy in some way. I've always wondered if that's coincidence or if nursing attracts em.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 03:17 AM
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why is there a different term? Is there a difference besides the gender it's referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 12:05 AM
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wait is that a joke or is gerbling really what you call it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 10:57 PM
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My bad, I thought that was more of a rhetorical question. I am not claiming to have been held back, personally. I'm very happy with where I'm at in life. I never lamented being held back myself in my posts, so I'm not sure why you're trying to imply that. I'm literally just explaining to you how socialization influences people because you're seeming to dismiss the notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 08:06 PM
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What part are you doubting though, that social pressure could possibly influence women to be less risk averse or that it actually does? No one is arguing that teachers outright tell women they can't amount to much. Social influence can be subtle but still pervasive. Even something like positive reinforcement, like praising a girl more warmly than a boy after she cooks a basic meal or whatever could conceivably influence her to value that domestic task more than she otherwise would if that same s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 06:44 PM
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This isn't a debate about whether certain opportunities exist for women. Obviously they do. It's about the power of social influence, which you seem to doubting or at least underestimating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 05:48 PM
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Social pressure and social norms greatly influence the behaviors and thoughts of individuals. It's why some societies were just fine with brutal public executions while some do not permit executions of any kind. It's why hundreds of people killed themselves at Jonestown, and the rest of the world was like, what the fuck. Its part of the reason why there's so much cross-cultural variance in our societies. Point is, our society/social environment influences us massively, and dismissing a discussio…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 05:03 PM
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I'd also argue that pegging can be physically pleasurable. You can insert a vibrator into your strap on, or get one that penetrates you as well. I'm not sure how common that is though, and would guess that women who enjoy pegging enjoy it for their partner's benefit or the power dynamics aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 12:18 AM
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What do women get out of blowjobs? Presumably the same thing, right? It may not physically feel good but plenty of women love doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 10:47 PM
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I dunno if I'd be so quick to gender or generalize this problem honestly. Sounds like assholes acting in their own self interest. They probably either don't care about the pain they caused you, or don't remember it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 07:04 AM
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Dude you are delusional if you honestly believe that. Unattractive women pursue higher education all the time. Do you not walk around campus or go to class? Yeah there a tons of hot girls in college, but frankly most are just average girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 04:13 AM
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Dude's name is literally BiggerDthanyou 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 02:05 AM
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This still doesn't make sense with what you said. If the most clear headed person is making the decisions, no one is wearing the pants. I'm not making the case that women can be captains, I'm saying that if the basis for decision making in your relationship is who has the clearer head/best reasoning, you are not in a captain/first mate relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 04:49 AM
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Then the person who's the most clearheaded has to make a judgment call and count on their first mate to trust their decision. But from my understanding, the "captain" isn't the most clearheaded person, it's just the male, and this does not change with circumstance. The "person who is most clearheaded" making the decisions just sounds like an equal relationship, not captain/first mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 02:37 AM
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That's really fair assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 02:40 PM
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But it makes sense. If a guy points to a single woman who confirms his beliefs about women, and then someone else points to a woman who doesn't, it demonstrates how worthless single anecdotes are. Then, hopefully, you can move on with your discussion using better evidence to support your claims. Yes, sometimes you have to stoop to someone's low level to show them why their arguments are poor because it's much harder to self-evaluate your own arguments then someone else's.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 03:09 PM
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But they often don't, obviously. And then they deal with the consequences of that choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 12:53 AM
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Bullshit. Being a single parent is difficult for most people. Make all the moral judgments about them you want, but let's be honest here. Poverty rates are high as hell for single parents. Nevermind the time/financial/opportunity cost of raising a child on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 12:50 AM
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Conversely, you should stop jumping to conclusions and maybe work on some reading comprehension. Come to think of it though, considering part of the "negative externalities" speltspelt was referring to would be STDs, then yeah I suppose I do partially "blame" men for the spread of STDs. But I didn't mention that in my original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 12:42 AM
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Where did I blame men? I'm simply stating that claiming that women don't by and large suffer consequences of unwanted pregnancy is a silly claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 01:07 PM
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Regardless, it's ridiculous to say that women don't suffer the consequences of unwanted pregnancy. Raising an unwanted child is a pretty huge consequence that shouldn't be overlooked, even with child support and welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 05:55 AM
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The baby does not have a "right" to someone else's money, not the father or the tax payer. Rights are to be free from things not happening to you, not entitlements to others working for you. IE Free speech is the right to not have the government come after you, its not the same as a right to people listening. I mean, is this true though? If a child is abandoned, do we just leave it there? Or does the state step in? Clearly kids have some sort of right to guardianship, yeah? When the parents fail…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 05:48 AM
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Wait, are you suggesting that women by and large don't suffer consequences from an unwanted pregnancy? That's fucking insane dude. Can you explain why you think this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 02:34 AM
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I'm finding it really hard to believe that hip wideness and pelvic wideness are not positively correlated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 12:38 AM
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"Almost" never??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 06:20 PM
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So they can give you opinions about real topics, but they'll never be able to logically prove any abstract concept they believe is true. The irony of this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 01:08 AM
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Uh, yeah, people care about certain things to varying degrees, and some people choose to invest more time and energy into fighting for or against ideas. Sometimes people choose to spend their time on silly shit and go overboard. But if you read any thread on here, you can see the very real differences between RP and BP. We have substantially different views between and among ourselves, and we hash them out. So, like I said, it's more than just "tribe hate of the other tribe."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 07:21 AM
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Dude, acting like TRPers and BPers don't like each other simply due to arbitrary in group biases is absurd. There are clear ideological differences between the two that are totally incompatible over a controversial, emotional, and often highly personal subject. Our philosophical differences are pretty real. I'll grant that some people on here treat it like a sports team, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 03:19 AM
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We are clearly talking about attention in the context of a stranger approaching you. Not attention from a known partner or friend. Attention from my partner is great. Attention from randos is undesired, except in particular contexts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 07:08 PM
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I am somewhat introverted, enough so that I don't really like random people on the street talking to me for almost any reason. And definitely not random sexual comments. People who are introverted don't "want more attention," why would you even think that? Are you an introverted woman? Or are you just talking out your ass? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 06:42 PM
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You... don't believe in shy, introverted girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 04:48 PM
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This is true, I've had to read numerous papers about ovulating women being more attractive to men (and strippers earning more in tips when they're ovulating!) However, this still follows my point. Men don't smell the fertility itself, they're subconsciously smelling/picking up on these chemical signals that signify that a woman can make babies. And ovulation is clearly not the primary driving factor of men's attraction to women. A hot blonde on birth control is still going to drive you more wild…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 04:45 PM
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Sure, both those men definitely seem to influence TRP theory and shape some of the narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 08:09 PM
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Btw, fertile is a very precise term to use when describing what makes a woman attractive. I think this is only half right. Men are typically attracted to signifiers of fertility, not necessarily fertility itself. If a sterile woman has these fertility signifiers, she's just as hot. Plus, most men don't seem to consciously be after fertility. So when you don't make that distinction, it kind of seems like you're fetishizing fertility itself, which comes across as creepy. That's one reason, I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 08:05 PM
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To be fair, the "confidence" I was referring to is in actuality a blatant false confidence. The kind of confidence that actually shows you that the person you're talking to is really insecure. But yeah, in general, if someone views your confidence as underserved it probably won't go over well. Still, I would consider at least a moderate level of confidence to be crucial in your dating success.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 06:59 PM
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A girl may be fooled into believing a gamma is actually a rising alpha, who is going to go places, and she may expose her precious womb and eggs to his seed. Hilarious. Did it ever occur to you that women don't like those traits in men because they're fucking annoying? No one wants to hear someone brag about how awesome they obviously aren't, betraying their own insecurities with their false confidence. No one wants one sided conversations where a "gamma male" talks at length about a subject tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 12:42 AM
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Plus, the services PP provides for both men and women act as a form of prevention for an expensive condition: an unwanted pregnancy, and unwanted children. Seems like a smart use of taxpayer money to me! Would a brothel provide this same financial benefit? Also, acting like accessible birth control only benefits women is absurd. I'm sure many men really appreciate the reduced chance of being a father from recreational sex. This post is just another example of someone really, really trying to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 03:26 PM
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I don't think a person who's posted here can seriously dispute the distinction between the Chads of the world and the betas. You're definitely partially right, but we debate that exact topic all the time, as well as the different contexts that affect a man's status of a Chad or a beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 12:19 AM
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There is a difference though. Many people leave their small towns to go off to college or work in more competitive places with more opportunities, like big cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 09:25 PM
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Women, no matter how old, were young women once. Often they were subjected to the advances of sometimes much older men and made to feel uncomfortable or were even (in their opinion) "taken advantage of". Women have younger sisters, daughters, nieces, etc. The anger they express is often at the thought of their loved ones being put in that position or subjected to the same treatment by (what they feel are) "predatory" old men. Good comment overall but I feel that this was super spot on. I think a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 12:27 PM
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This thread is a mess. Some truly unhealthy thoughts in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 06:32 PM
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Women used to avoid hot but useless jagoffs. Pffffft.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 04:23 AM
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Wanna elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 07:43 PM
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This just isn't true for everyone. I'm a lesbian, admittedly with pretty conventional tastes, and some of the women my other lesbian friends have gushed over are downright ugly to me. They're more masculine with an awkward (to me) mix of femininity, and are usually bigger. It's way, way too simplistic to say everyone's most attracted to signifiers of fertility in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 05:13 PM
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If that's the case, they're doing a god awful job because I believe women have slightly higher rates of mental illness than men. Doesn't seem to make sense if we're making shit up to pathologize male and normalize female psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 04:26 AM
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Hey gotta run to go watch a movie with my actually feminine not filled with hate girlfriend. Bye Lmao. What a cringey fucking thing to say in the middle of a reddit debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/16 01:36 AM
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You literally just defended yourself 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 08:35 PM
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You totally missed the point, which was that what my female friends consider good looking has way more variation than my male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/16 10:34 PM
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That's all you got? They may share those traits... but there's a ton of variation between those men. I'm asking for actual evidence. Do you have any?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/16 12:16 AM
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When I think of the weirdo men that my female friends have been attracted to it ranges from Benedict fucking Cumberbatch, the actor who played Loki, Channing Tatum, and guys from various boy bands... most of whom look pretty feminine. My male friends, on the other hand like women like Katy Perry, Zooey Deschanel, Emma Stone, and the like. Basically, feminine ladies with sexy bods. And, as an aside, as a lesbian my preference in women seems to vary more widely than my male friends'. While I admit…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/16 10:52 PM
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Do you have any evidence that women have more narrow preferences? Because I've seen TRP push that narrative a lot and I find it a bit hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/16 10:20 PM
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Are female teachers more likely to have sex with their students or are there more female teachers that have had sex with a student? That is hugely important; there are more female teachers than male.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 12:22 AM
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And that's if hurricanes and earthquakes and war and resource depletion don't take out a large segment of the population first. Resource depletion is what I'd be most concerned about in the long term... And you sure as fuck don't solve that by procreating more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 09:19 PM
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so what man shouldn't err on the side of 'nope'? I mean if it's something you care about, it doesn't really matter why you next someone imo. The whole problem I have is the framing of ONSs as mistakes or poor decisions.. Or as the other poster called it, "stupidity." I'm not claiming that you should ignore your partner's previous mistakes or consider their judgment. For the record, I also don't necessarily think passing up on someone who has had a lot of drunken ONSs is terrible. If you're an in…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/16 10:35 PM
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I get that. But what I'm saying is how does repeating an action that has had been pleasant and harmless indicate bad judgment or self-control? And I dunno about your second point haha. I'm turned off by the hair itself. I get what you're saying though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 11:21 PM
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But I didn't ever experience negative consequences. I just ended up having a slightly more enjoyable night and I'd go home in the morning and life would continue just the same. Why should I exercise self-restraint before doing something that has been a harmless, positive experience thus far?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 11:06 PM
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I feel like this is more analogous to a cheating partner, because in both situations the person disregarded their partner's boundaries and desires within a relationship. I wouldn't date someone who cheated or abused previous partners, but high n count is acceptable to me. As with all things, context and nuance matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 11:01 PM
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You know what happened after my drunken ONSs in college? Id wake up, laugh about the situation and be mildly pleased I had fun sex the night before. The only consequence I suffered was an awkward encounter later on. This experience seems to be the norm for the people I know. ONSs are calculated risks that people take to enjoy themselves. They can be mistakes, but not always. So long as you take precautions, why are they mistakes? I seriously want to know, "it's self-evident" is kinda a cop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 10:57 PM
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Having a drunken ONS 10 times is stupidity Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 10:40 PM
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Rom coms and Disney films are mostly watched by women, and the majority have somehow, someway refrained from stalking someone for 13 years. Sooo I dunno, maybe the guy has some responsibility here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 06:17 AM
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Blue female I do a weightlifitng routine that is specifically for aesthetics, building bigger muscles. I'm pretty strong for my size (which isn't saying much 'cause I'm slim), stronger than the average woman for sure. Based off the pictures you gave I look most like 15%, maybe more towards the 20% since I've been "bulking" While I don't think my lifting has gotten girls interested in me initially, every girl I've been with has complimented my muscles in some way, especially my abs. Basically, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 09:09 PM
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But we're talking about the words involuntary and celibate, which have well-established meaning. And at this point, people aren't using the word terrific inaccurately, terrific's meaning has changed. Involuntary and celibate's meanings have not. Just because some people could pay a hooker to break celibacy doesn't mean they are voluntarily in that situation. Well, sure. But it also means they have the means to break their celibacy, but choose not to. Thus, they are still voluntarily celibate. Ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 08:57 PM
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It's a misnomer. Incels aren't involuntarily celibate. They're lonely, voluntarily celibate people. *Some exceptions may apply
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 08:05 PM
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I think strong jawlines can definitely be a plus. It's a model look. I love them, and usually go for feminine girls. I also have a pretty solid jawline, and consider it one of my best features (I'm also a woman).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 05:30 PM
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Oh, gotcha. That makes more sense, but I just assumed bars would be the most popular place they'd meet. I've seen older men at college bars far more often then I've seen younger women at older bars myself. But I have way more experience with college bars so take that with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 07:04 PM
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I'm confused, are you claiming that these men find young women in bars that usually host an older crowd? I have a hard time believing that many young women spend a lot of time in these areas. I'm sure it happens, but "all the time?"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:14 PM
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I'm disputing that men get longer sentences due to "gynocentrism;" a claim that you've made and failed to back up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 07:17 AM
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You gonna make an argument backed by any evidence or nah? A childish socially approved narrative that women just can't be as bad as men is the culprit Show me some stats about abuse rates for men and we'll talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 06:53 AM
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How does sentence effect recidivism, I mean besides some mystery person's vague opinion. I mean, that's all that matters because some mystery person is the person sentencing men and women. As in, the judge and jury. I'm attempting to explain why they do what they do. Not necessarily what should be the case. And you still didn't explain why men are not allotted equal homeless shelters. Could men maybe expect separate but equal treatment? Try to think of real reasons instead of spouting bullshit. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 06:25 AM
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What does sentence length have to do with recidivism Because your perceived chance of recidivism affects how long someone will want you locked up. Why are homeless shelters gendered at all? From the link I gave you: Over 92% of homeless mothers have experienced severe physical and/or sexual abuse during their lifetime 63% report that this abuse was perpetrated by an intimate partner Aside from obvious abuse issues and PTSD, many women's shelters' locations are hidden because abuse is often from …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 03:05 AM
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You can definitely become addicted to porn and jacking off. I remember reading a post recently about a girl whose boss was looking at porn every time she saw his screen. If porn regularly interferes with your work you definitely have an addiction. Just jacking off a lot isn't an addiction, of course, and I didn't mean to imply that your average male has an addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 11:42 PM
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You don't think recidivism should be considered at all when sentencing? FWIW, I personally think it's unfair, but it does make sense. Men, having fewer options to get off the street, are more likely to stay locked in a life of crime just to eat. I'll definitely agree this is a problem that many men face, but do you think this is the sole reason for high recidivism rates? Women on the streets are having a hard time and need help. Men on the streets are just no good. That's a leap. While homeless …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 11:20 PM
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I don't see why it'd be a problem if masturbation is becoming a problem that affects your day to day. It's not a good thing to be addicted to. And if it's affecting your sex life or becoming more desirable than sex with your partner, no fap is basically a must imo. That said, for your average person, a daily 'bate sesh is probably a good thing. Still, I had no idea anyone actually objected to that sub. I think it's a good thing for people who need that kind of support.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 11:01 PM
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How does that prove that lower sentences are due to gynocentrism, especially given the links I just showed you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 10:40 PM
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Do I get to bitch about your lack of citations now?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 09:26 PM
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Not to mention who is honestly going to Reddit to get potentially life changing advice? A lot of red pillers do. Which is kind of funny that one just said people who do this are dumb... Considering TRP and MRP are literally relationship advice subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 05:31 PM
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Reverse the genders and the top comment would be about emotional abuse, controlling behavior... I doubt it. People in that sub mostly get up in arms about people male or female who actually forbid their partner from speaking to friends or strangers of the opposite sex, or actively accusing them of cheating. Doesn't seem like she's done either. And many people are telling him to either end it now, or wait for her to get better, and if she doesn't, end it. I really don't see any blatant sexism her…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 05:28 PM
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Lol, because you provided some excellent citation. Google provided a bunch of studies, many of them too long for anyone to bother with. But here's something I found that includes multiple citations, and again, if you don't buy it, the info is out there without me holding your hand. It also gives a lot of good information about why the sentencing is the way it is. Source: http://www.americanjail.org/10-facts-about-women-in-jails/ Most relevant: studies on prison classification systems indicate th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 05:12 PM
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While I agree that it's unjust, women do tend to have lower recidivism rates than men. I'd link you, but the only study I really remember was long as fuck, but you can easily google this to confirm it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 05:25 AM
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Who are you kidding dude. It's impossible to take you seriously when you attack these low-hanging fruit, virtually non-existent positions. This isn't r/tumblrinaction, it's supposed to be a debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 06:08 PM
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Work on socializing as much as possible. I went to school with a guy who used to have few to no friends, would cry and cause scenes in class, and was generally bad at being social. Years later in high school, he was completely different. He was hilarious, and not in a haha, he's autistic way, but in a genuine, this guy is great way. He had friends, even dated, and yeah he was still a little weird, but people liked him. I once asked him about it and he told me he read a lot of books and practiced…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 10:05 PM
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This is some whacky ass dating advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 09:33 PM
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Admittedly I didn't read the whole thread, but it doesn't seem that most of the people actually disagreed that consent couldn't be bought. Just that buying consent is sleazy. They didn't say that all men who have sex with prostitutes are rapists, which is the logical conclusion to "you can't buy consent" but instead claim that these men are just one step above. And I think they sometimes gave fairly decent reasons; when you hire an escort, you are running the risk of supporting human trafficking…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 02:47 AM
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I don't disagree with any of those things, but dinner is feasible for everyone anywhere at anytime (unless you're broke). But my point stands. If you can't bond with your date over a simple meal, why are you dating? Are you just never going to eat dinner with your SO? Yes doing fun things together is absolutely recommended, but not every single time. Sometimes you need to find out if you're compatible doing regular ass shit, because having fun doing fun stuff is a given. Again, if you can't enjo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 04:41 PM
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This is usually pretty easily snubbed by suggesting they come do something actually fun instead of some boring date crap (like a dinner). If dinner is boring, you've picked the wrong person. I agree it's great to do adventurous things too, but if you can't make interesting conversation over some nice food, your dull ass is getting nexted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 04:28 PM
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I really don't see how you can make that leap with such confidence. So, even if they are feminine in every other way, the fact that they drink a lot means that they aren't really feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 08:48 PM
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???? Yes, hyper-feminine sorority girls intentionally drink to excess all the time, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 08:10 PM
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White suburban people do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 04:55 PM
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No, it isn't. Healthcare is a service that most people have access to, that women happen to use more frequently for the reasons I listed above. If men and women went to the doctor at the same rate, also experienced pregnancy at the same rate, and we still spent more on women, that would be indicative of our healthcare system/professionals favoring women. What the person you were talking to is talking about is a completely separate issue where researchers are actually choosing to use more males f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 04:25 PM
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Yeah I added that just accidentally hit submit too early. It should be pretty obvious why we spend more on women. Painting it like it's due to special treatment is completely ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 04:05 PM
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And yet the majority of healthcare costs are spent on women. Funny how that works. That's not really relevant to her point. These healthcare expenses are due to women living longer (huge portion of healthcare costs is spent on seniors), them being more likely to visit the doctor when ill, and a big one is obviously pregnancy and all things related to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 03:56 PM
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Life as a woman is easy due to women having evolved to gather berries and suck Chad’s cock. Gee, glad you have such a nuanced and informed viewv right off the bat. I'm sure this thread will lead to engaging discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 06:50 AM
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Obviously women do have agency and she shouldn't have done that, but it seems unlikely that this girl fully understood the full effects and the purpose of him giving her the drugs. But it doesn't make him any less culpable. It doesn't matter what poor choices she made to put her in that situation, he should not have raped her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 06:33 PM
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Agreed. Her bad judgment call doesnt make what he did any less worse. Pumping someone with alcohol weed and that much Xanax and then fucking her is fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 01:10 PM
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Almost. Was at a girl's place for an ONS and the more she talked, the more I started to realize she was pretty crazy, telling me about how she attacked her boyfriend with a frying pan and such. Her roommate saved the day by noticing this and feeding me more drinks which helped me overlook all that. Even for just an ONS, someone's personality can ruin things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 06:14 AM
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I have my headphones in, and it's a pet peeve of mine to be interrupted with them in, especially by strangers. I'm very focused on my lifts, and don't like distractions from my workouts. Whenever it happens, it's kind of awkward working out in the same room with the dude and passing by him constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 06:08 AM
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It's rare for me to audibly snort at a Reddit comment!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 06:02 AM
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I personally wouldn't be interested at all, but I'm also not interested in being approached by any man. That being said, I understand being in a position where you can't passively wait for a relationship, you have to actively pursue one to get one, and that usually includes approaching uninterested women. If a guy approached me and wasn't pushy and respectfully accepted my no, that'd be fine, and I certainly wouldn't cause a scene. I do want to be left alone in the store, but I have unwanted int…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 05:38 AM
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By the end of the interaction she was smiling back unprompted, like one of Pavlov's dogs. What a weird fucking way to perceive someone smiling in a friendly social interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 05:21 AM
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Since you reference Game of Thrones it's the first thing that came to mind and (spoiler alert) I thought of a certain wedding scene where Cat offers her life for her son's. That scene is one of many of media portrayals of mothers that shows that motherhood is something that transcends one's survival instinct. Being a mother is often treated as the most fulfilling aspect of a woman's life. Most women who are past a certain age in movies, TV shows, commercials, etc. are mothers by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 04:49 AM
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There's no media encouraging being a housewife or mother, Uh, yeah there is. Maybe not encouraging in a literal sense but motherhood is portrayed positively in the media all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 03:41 AM
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How do you suppose we should hold men accountable for this, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 04:13 PM
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Red pillers tend to take some basic biological concept that they have an amateur at best understanding of and run with it, making all sorts of assumptions that they just can't make. And it's usually quite obvious that they're only doing it to further their agenda or to hamster.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 04:09 PM
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good literature Holy shit dude 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 06:03 PM
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That's interesting, if anything my bio degree has made me roll my eyes at TRP more than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 02:16 PM
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No. He shouldn't lead someone on by making false promises, but I think it's fine to just have casual sex without explicitly stating that it's casual. Women shouldn't automatically assume that sex = obligated to commit. I mean if a woman confesses her love for a man and he proceeds to sleep with her with no intention of forming a relationship, that's pretty shitty, so there's definitely a grey area. But in a casual bar setting? No need to discuss future intentions (or lack thereof) if you don't w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 06:02 PM
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For clarification I don't object to it because I'm afraid it'll hurt her feelings like you're assuming here. I object to it because it's unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 06:56 PM
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Who cares? What does it matter who's "responsible" in some abstract sense? You either get raped or you don't. Don't want to get raped, take steps to protect yourself. That can take whatever form you like. I mean, this alone I can't argue with. I mostly just object to the idea of calling a victim of rape an idiot simply for not making the assumption that any man might rape you, or being hyper-aware at all times of the dangers that any man may pose.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 06:44 PM
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Yeah, I don't think it's unreasonable for a woman to assume any man could rape her. Well, to be more clear, you evidently think that she's an idiot if she doesn't. How far does this go? I hang out with male friends alone all the time, sometimes when drunk, sometimes when high, sometimes when both. None of them have indicated any interest in sleeping with me, all are aware that I have absolutely no interest in them. Am I being stupid for trusting my friends? Am I responsible if I get raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 06:26 PM
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This was about a hypothetical situation, not something you specifically said. Although I do believe there have been times where it seemed that you were claiming that women shouldn't ever be alone with a man regardless of context. I'm glad this isn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 06:15 PM
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So, you think women should treat all men as loaded guns, and assume that they could rape her... you're supporting OP's view then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 06:10 PM
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She's guilty of being an idiot, But she's "guilty of being an idiot" because she was hanging around men, and not assuming that they will rape her. In the threads OP is referring to, people were saying she shouldn't have been hanging around men alone. You see the implications about men here? When you say that women are being idiots when they are alone with men they don't want to have sex with, it absolutely makes a case for assuming all men are rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 06:00 PM
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Our endocrine systems constantly pump sex hormones through our veins. Guess we have a neuroscientist in our midst 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 08:10 PM
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Yeah... but I'm pretty sure you just made that shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 09:20 AM
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Not necessarily, depending on the context. I think that many men and women could benefit romantically from a change in personality. The crux of the matter is we don't like it when people behave in a way that can be harmful to others in order to achieve a goal. That's why it's ridiculous that you claim BPers take issue with self-improvement like lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 07:05 PM
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What? We weren't arguing about DT traits being attractive. Re-read the comment chain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 06:27 PM
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How is that analogous to his objection at all. The things you stated are quite clearly not what blue pillers object to. Working to make yourself physically attractive and getting your shit together alone is not controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 05:59 PM
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Survival is the most important thing, you can't survive without a strong military, which men ensure, not women. Oh my god you don't understand biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 04:20 AM
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Thanks for the personal attack too, asshole. I guess you think I'm an easy target because I'm an incel, and don't think that I'm gonna stand up for myself. No. I had no idea that you were incel. People make shit up in this sub all the damn time, and based off some of your other comments I've seen, you may not be providing the most objective perspective. Everyone is vulnerable to having their biases color their beliefs, so it's important to be mindful of that sort of thing. As far as the link you…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 12:04 AM
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From the article: Glucose levels, which may drop in women who don’t get enough to eat, could have something to do with it, says Elissa Cameron, an evolutionary biologist at the University of Tasmania. In 2008 she showed that in the pre-embryonic stage of development, males have lower survival rates than females when glucose levels are low, causing more females to be born. Trivers believes sex selection may happen even earlier, at the time of conception. Also I totally botched that, I meant hungr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 04:19 PM
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When I was talking about intelligence, I was refering to guys who analyze data, design business models, envision new conceots in theoretical physics Well that's a terrible and stupidly narrow definition of intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 03:35 PM
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Actually, women are typically thought of as better equipped to survive famine and cold temperature. They are often smaller, with more body fat that can act as insulation. In fact, you're totally wrong that more females are born in times of plenty. Hungry moms = less males. Source: http://discovermagazine.com/2013/nov/08-sex-ratios I feel like you might just be making shit up that fits your personal biases?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 03:26 PM
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I actually know a guy who's done this. He's tall and the most ripped as shit person I've met. People around campus called him Thor because that's what he looks like. I was pretty shocked to find out on Facebook that before college he was a pudgy, awkward looking kid. People were shocked and impressed. Totally different looking person, these sorts of dramatic shifts do happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 08:37 PM
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That's a solid post.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 08:21 PM
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I imagine men and women use tinder for different reasons. Men are probably more likely to be there for sex, so they only care about looks and may not care that much, so they'll swipe right with abandon. Women are probably more likely to be there for a relationship, so they're going to be a bit choosier for that reason alone. Tinder is definitely not just a sex app anymore. Now, how much this factors into the results of the study, I have no idea. But I don't think your assumptions about what this…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 02:08 PM
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This is definitely the case some of the time. It's a tactful, perhaps less helpful way to tell guys they need to fucking relax and do more with their lives than chase and think about girls, because that's unattractive. Another reason it can be said is because the places the guy is looking for girls are all wrong. I have a friend who tirelessly tries to keep girls, but finds them all on tinder or chats them up very forwardly at bars, then wonders why none of them stick around. Waiting for love to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 07:41 AM
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Agree completely. People should be able to choose their own relationship dynamics. But you should choose them based off what truly makes you happy and works best for you, not your sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 05:01 AM
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What? How does that post prove the things that OP claims at all? And I think the comments on your post demonstrate its flaws quite well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/16 11:20 PM
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She's not in the right. I understand you're coming from a place of hurt, but I assure you, most people, blue pill or otherwise wouldn't condone her actions. She cheated on you because she's a shitty and inconsiderate partner, not because feminists or the blue pillers think her actions are okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/16 08:03 PM
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Evidently he wasn't using hyperbole based off his latest post. Why is this post of him just "telling it like it is" and stating "facts," but when we say this is just all nonsense suddenly we're held to a higher standard? For some evidence that women are actually held accountable for infidelity, I'd invite him to check out r/relationships again. I literally just read a post about a guy whose girlfriend kissed another guy while drunk and high, and all the comments I read were "she sucks, leave her…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/16 07:51 PM
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You think so? Okay, post a question for blue pillers here asking "hey if a woman in a relationship fucks 10 guys is it her fault or her boyfriend's?"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/16 07:03 PM
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Posts that provide 0 evidence or reasoning and are this absurd deserve smug hand waving. Seriously though, the dude believes that a woman in a relationship can go and fuck 10 dudes and people will blame the guy. Go post this on r/relationships and see how many of them side with the woman. Then maybe you'll understand the scoffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/16 06:45 PM
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Yes because OP provided a nuanced, thorough analysis of feminism just bursting with substance and evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/16 06:18 PM
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Good post, only thing I'll add is that many people most certainly do care about female promiscuity, and generally less so about male promiscuity. Though I do think this is often dependent on region.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/16 06:11 PM
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Your kids should be executed if you get divorced to stop the spread of bastardry. People who are dumb enough to breed with someone they later get divorced to have no business breeding in the first place, and their children likely inherited their shitty DNA. Both parties should also be sterilized by medical professionals, then paraded through the streets and be spat upon by their neighbors and family, and finally exiled from the state Low effort trolling dude, you can do better than this 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 03:12 PM
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Haha nope, my memory was spot on. Here's the link: ,https://m.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2bowat/women_want_to_be_raped_by_a_high_value_man/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 05:37 PM
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IIRC, there was a highly upvoted post that did in fact claim that women want to be raped by high value males.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 03:15 PM
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someone who can share the burden and responsibility of adult life, doubled income but not doubled expenses, someone who will do the chores he hates... someone who will always look after him when he's ill, someone who will put his own happiness before my own, someone he can always always rely on being there for him when he needs them He could get all of those things from his male friends, by himself, or Hahaha what? And seriously, ignoring that some of these things are impossible for a platonic m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 02:24 PM
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There are plenty of examples of ultra-alpha men who can choose between a different girl every night or stable monogamy. And yet, many (most?) of them choose monogamy, or have main chicks with just some on the side, indicating that there's some value to them to coming back for more. Maybe it has to do with social pressures, maybe closeness and familiarity mean more to many men than you assume. They have ample opportunity to date men and get to know each other and establish trust and a loving, war…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 08:08 PM
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But that study gives absolutely no information about the significance and degree of men's preferences. It literally only gives categorical data, you can't make the assumption that there's no significant differences in preferences. The only information the study really provides is that men in the study prefer sex with a stranger to no sex. This gives no information about which types of people men want to have sex with the most, or how much familiarity with their partner matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 07:38 PM
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3, only because she's an athlete and they tend to have higher sex drives, I believe. But I also think there's a high chance I could be wrong. Promiscuous and prudish girls come in all shapes and sizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 07:23 PM
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To be fair, apparently many of the reviews on imbd either had misogynistic content or the reviewer bashed the movie and rated it one star without having even seen it. Conversely, there were many who gave it 10 stars to counter this, without much justification for such a high rating. There was an interesting thread in r/dataisbeautiful about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 05:47 PM
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What do you do for work? Still studying, but trying to become a doctor. Working a shitty job atm to make that happen. Why do you feel you chose this line of work? To help people, have a job that aligns with my interests, money, status, babes. Do you feel men choose their field of work for overall similar reasons? Definitely. I think most others care more about making money than I do though. Are you wanting to reach the top of your career track? Yes, that would be amazing. How much does the pay m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 05:09 PM
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Having a basic conversation starter is all you really need honestly. Imo, the hardest part about flirting is starting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 11:10 PM
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Eh, still sounds like a win. The poster doesn't want to be approached by ANY guys, doesn't matter if they're nice or not. S/he doesn't want to be listened to, s/he wants to play the game. I don't think it's a surprise to anyone that nice people are the only ones who are concerned about politeness and will heed this advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 11:07 PM
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This certainly happens. I've successfully booty called someone using only emojis. That said, I don't call that getting laid on my terms, which just sounds silly. It's getting laid on both of our terms. If she wasn't in the mood for me at that moment, she would've pretended to be asleep. Not all women want to be wined and dined for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 08:42 PM
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Pretty hilarious for a post that was trying to prove women get the benefit of the doubt. Really drove that point home, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 04:38 AM
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You flash that shoulder precisely because you want us to be hot and bothered, whether you consciously realize this or not(the famous "I only dress up to feel good!" nonsense - yes, because you are biologically pre-programmed to feel good about looking attractive to males, so no, you don't do it "for yourself"). This is a misunderstanding of biology/psychology. Just because women may have been "biologically pre-programmed" to feeling good about looking good because it made her more attractive and…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/16 02:11 PM
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Lmao. Women do cardio to not have a flat chest??? Did you even read the comment you're replying to, or are you just leaping at every opportunity to shit on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/16 05:34 PM
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Especially when the lucky people have their entire highlight reel on FB or Instagram flashing in your face. Just some personal advice that you might've already taken, but if this is your attitude, I definitely suggest deleting the gram and FB, or simply visiting them strictly when you have to. It will make you happier. Constantly comparing yourself to others isn't good for you, and those are outlets which make it nearly impossible not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/16 05:14 PM
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I don't have a big circle of friends or very mainstream beliefs. So it sounds like you have an issue connecting/finding shared interests with people in general, not women. I'm female, and every one of my male friends and I share mutual interests that we discuss at length. Some may be considered superficial depending on the criteria you're using, but we are still able to bond pretty well over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/16 08:55 PM
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I did that, and he kept asking me to get in all the way, even as I told him I wasn't interested. He then kind of pulled me into the tub halfway, turned me around, and started to wash me. This part is the most suspect. Repeatedly asking someone to bathe with you after them saying no is definitely creepy behavior, but not illegal. Pulling someone into a tub with you and washing them after they've expressed that they don't want to be in the tub with you crosses another line. I'm not sure about this…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/16 05:50 PM
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so long as it is kept internal? That's a pretty big so long as. Our internal judgments affect how we treat others, even when we insist that they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/16 05:08 PM
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I think you're missing the point. She realizes what the book is about, she's trying to demonstrate why the surrendered wife relationship isn't ideal for everyone. Your original comment didn't address that aspect. And your response to /u/seranade also shows that you personally don't follow the surrendered wife guidelines. Not saying your comments aren't valuable or sensible, they just don't address the surrendered wife aspect of the post, which is the real point of the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/16 04:06 PM
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Yeah, I thought about that and do think it does play a factor. But I think the fact that I specifically run a food pantry, rather than say, occupy a position in student senate, really helps as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 08:47 PM
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Just as important as each person wants it to be. You set these limits in your own relationships, and it's a good idea to communicate them to your partner. For example, I don't have a lock on my phone and don't really care if my girlfriend reads my texts. Some people would find that super intrusive snooping, which is fine. That being said, being sneaky about it is a bit sketchy. If my girlfriend keylogged my laptop behind my back I'd be pretty pissed. That kind of behavior I think would be indica…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 08:28 PM
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I have one. I'm pretty involved in my school's service organization, do a lot of volunteer work, and I run a food pantry. My girlfriend has told me that initially, this is one of the things that attracted her to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 07:49 PM
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There are some answers here that I don't think are trolling. The context matters too. I know that many Redpillers, incels, and MGTOWs do hate women, so they're going to give real answers. And like I said, the dude is a known troll. I didn't decide to write him off because of his answer here, but because he's all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 12:03 PM
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I think there are legitimate answers to this question. I also agree that this sort of question is more susceptible to trolling, but ignoring known trolls is still a solid idea. Can't say what OP's true intent was, but it's totally possible that he was searching for real answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 04:39 AM
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If it's pointless, why did the other user try? Because they got sucked into the troll? Surely crying about someone being a troll is engaging? Surely that's giving them what they want? Lol, crying? C'mon dude. And it depends on the troll, I suppose. But, no, I don't think your typical troll wants people to say "don't bother arguing, he's a troll" he wants people to get heated over bullshit. Plus, who cares what the troll wants. Not engaging in debates with trolls just makes for a more productive …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 03:55 AM
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If you look at this dude's history, he is a troll. Engaging with him is pointless. He only says things to shock and offend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 03:03 AM
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Coming here for relationship advice is a fucking terrible idea OP. People here are biased as shit, and will not try to actually help you. Everyone has an agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 03:58 AM
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Sure thing. hmu when you've got a couple glasses of wine in you tho ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 03:51 AM
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You're allowed to just say "I really don't know what I'm talking about," you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 03:39 AM
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So, why are there exclusively gay men then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 01:04 AM
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Just a couple??? Hahaha. Why do you think exclusively straight women exist but not lesbians?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 11:57 PM
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Why, exactly? Do you believe exclusively straight women exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 11:43 PM
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It was just an observation of well-known cultural trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 10:21 PM
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"Plenty of girls" isn't really a sample size that's particularly convincing. And I'm having a hard time believing that most girls who, at 21 are over the whole party scene typically go out more. Usually, people at this age change for the more tame. There's exceptions for sure, I won't deny that. But early twenties are usually prime going out/partying age... once you start getting older, getting jobs, getting real responsibilities, bars and clubs lose their appeal more than gain appeal. Girls who…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 08:37 PM
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Girls who aren't "into the whole partying thing" at 21 don't typically start getting into it as they get older... not sure if that's something OP should really spend time worrying about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 08:06 PM
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You completely missed my point and went on yet another needlessly long, incoherent rant. I brought up the abuse to compare your flawed thinking to the flawed thinking of a hypothetical domestic abuse victim. You evidently didn't catch this, and went on some irrelevant tirade about... whatever the fuck you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 10:38 PM
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And guess what? Guys have this experience all over the place. Why do you think so many guys are mgtow now? And women have experienced domestic violence all over the place, I'm sure at a higher rate than men going teir own way. I'm sure there are women who have practically only experienced abusive relationships because they have traits which attract abusive partners. Would it be fair for these women to say that a lack of abuse is "incredibly rare from any man?" No, it wouldn't. Because their expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 09:54 PM
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In my life this has been incredibly rare. This does not mean that this is "incredibly rare from any girl."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 09:44 PM
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Rarely she even encouraged me. Which is incredible and incredibly rare from any girl. I can think of maybe two girls that I have dated who did not fairly regularly encourage me to pursue my wants/desires/passions, both short and long term. I find it hard to believe that this is "incredibly rare."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 09:21 PM
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We're basically sisters!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 08:39 PM
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That's the idea I was trying to convey my post but I really like that comparison better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 08:37 PM
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Definitely good. I know from experience how difficult it can be to be friends with someone you feel unrequited love for. It's extremely painful, but usually you can't help yourself. Seeing them all the time makes it way worse, and you will try to interpret every nice thing they do to you as a glimmer of hope that they're starting to like you back, even if it's irrational. /u/cookiebootz [+3] said that it's denying them the chance to choose on their own. I suppose. But when you're in love with so…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 06:04 PM
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Because women want commitment from the beta guys but the children of the top guys. is quite a conclusion from the Sexy Sons hypothesis. Like, you can't just claim that the hypothesis alone supports that conclusion without providing some sort of analysis or evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/16 08:28 PM
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Wtf? Are people redefining the Sexy Sons or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/16 01:23 PM
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No, they're saying both are meaningless. They're just turning the "there is no such thing as a female incel" argument around. Anyone can get sex if they really want to, just not the sex they actually want (barring certain disabled people, I suppose). Incel as it's usually used is a misnomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/16 01:08 PM
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Thank you for actually addressing his arguments. Vaccines I don't think are the best comparison, because an unvaccinated person can harm more than himself, which abacuz didn't factor in. I still like his original idea though. IMO, a better comparison would be something like breast cancer screenings. Would mandatory breast cancer screenings benefit women? Yeah. But I don't think anyone should be forced to do tests they don't consent to... even though this would benefit women. The prisoner example…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 04:15 PM
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Dude, he gave multiple good reasons why it is not feasible, which you are evidently unable to refute. Stop making this into a personal accusation, that's not what this is about. You can't force adults into medical tests they don't consent to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 03:14 PM
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I go out and pick clothing that makes me look good even when I know I'm not going to encounter anyone I have any desire to attract, and even when I'm happily in a monogamous relationship. I wear cute bras and panties even when I have 0 expectation of anyone but me seeing them. Looking good truly does just make you feel good. Is looking good for a certain person/people a goal that many women have when they dress up? Sure. But it truly isn't the only reason they do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 07:39 PM
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guy shoved me against a closet door and continued to kiss my neck when I asked him several times to let go I mean, if this happens to most girls, I don't think it's crazy for them to think "oh shit, this guy might try to rape me." A person who can't take a no is dangerous. If someone obstructs your movement and continues to kiss you when you tell them to stop, this isn't just an unwanted advance. It's obviously not rape either, but still. You can't just go around pinning people to walls and kiss…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 05:45 PM
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Bull.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 04:46 AM
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That does not mean it's normative behavior. It's really no secret that heterosexual men tend to have an aversion to anything that can be perceived as homosexual, I'd say pegging fits the bill. I don't doubt that in some circles, pegging may be accepted but I sincerely doubt this is an issue that most men face.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 09:55 PM
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I find it way, way more likely that a dude would be shamed for enjoying pegging than for not having an interest in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 07:25 PM
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But if they dont have an interest in getting pegged they are accused of being homophobic. You're joking, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 04:35 PM
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I'm so sick of that myth. Women are typically worse off after a divorce, not men. Interesting. Honestly, this is just a talking point I see pretty often from TRP/MRAs and I decided to accept it on its face and grant them that one. It also made sense that, if divorce is more financially beneficial for women, they would initiate it more often, which is true. Also, men may not have control of abortions but they can still use condoms, get a vasectomy, or abstain from sex with a fertile woman. Women …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 04:29 PM
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A couple more cons for men: divorces generally less beneficial for men (which leads to men initiating less divorces as well), child custody, no control over abortions. Their cancers are taken more seriously (breast cancer gets far more attention than prostate for example) While it's true that breast cancer gets way more funding than prostate cancer largely due to awareness campaigns, there have been numerous reports of women's healthcare concerns/pains not being taken as seriously (this can easi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 05:05 AM
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It's pretty much all we do honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 04:56 AM
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You know, I feel like TRP would be 10x more palatable if so many users didn't make these cringeworthy, ridiculous posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 09:29 PM
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I know a guy who has done this. He wasn't scrawny when he was younger though, he was pudgy. Now, he is one of the most ripped human beings I have ever met. He told me to smack his ass once at a party and it was rock fucking hard. He was somewhat famous on our campus, and everyone referred to him as "Thor" because that's what he looked like. People loved him. His transformation just made him more impressive I guess. He was still a nice guy and a little socially awkward, but pretty fun and outgoin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:07 PM
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I mean, I'm female and have gotten my friends laid pretty easily. But I'm also a lesbian so I have some experience with this. I do think the fact that most women don't have experience in picking women up could hinder their advice-giving abilities. But if you meet a socially savvy woman, she probably can teach you a few things. It would make sense that if women give the best advice on how guys can get laid, there would be more female pua's and coaches consulting with guys looking to get laid. Ehh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:00 PM
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The only solution is adopting a highly aggressive asshole personality, something that will lessen the rate of rejection How the actual fuck do you figure this is an effective sexual strategy for an autistic guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 03:44 PM
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Nah. I mean, I suppose in a perfect world, people would have no problem spending their free time helping others regardless of rejections and whatnot. But I see no reason to criticize him. I wouldn't do it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 09:55 PM
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That's a good point. If you're hot enough, whoever you're with is going to make every excuse in the book for your shitty actions. Attraction fucks with your judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 09:41 PM
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I mean, I'm not going to pretend I know shit about this law, but the idea of forbidding a man from asking for a paternity test is certainly absurd. Provided we're talking non-invasive tests for the child. That being said, the state monitoring the results of this paternity test does kind of make sense to me (although, again, I'm not going to claim to know how they do things in other countries). I mean, if they're going to make a guy pay child support, they kind of have to monitor the results of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 12:42 AM
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Completely different scenario. Yeah, it's different. But comparable. One is an accident that happens after birth, while transsexualism is more of a pre-birth accident. Insurance should cover both, no? I guess a better comparison would be some birth defect that left you with a fucked up dick, or dickless. Yeah, that's a different scenario than a transsexual person, but either way, why are we trying to fix your dick? Because it'll improve your life, right? If an insurance company will provide this…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 06:55 AM
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A laughingstock to people who don't have the balls to laugh in front of his face. Lol, you honestly believe that a large amount of Trump protesters wouldn't laugh in his face if given the chance? C'mon. The people on my Facebook feed would relish in such an opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 06:35 AM
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OK, so let's ignore all the political controversy and all that. What's primarily wrong with transgendered people? Gender dysphoria. More specifically, the depression/anxiety they feel because of that. What's a treatment that appears to effectively alleviate their depression/anxiety? Hormone treatment, transitioning. Do you not want insurance companies to cover mental health treatments? Or, say you suffer a terrible accident. Your dick gets lopped off. Yikes. Presumably, this would cause quite a …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 06:31 AM
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I said "How can you reconcile these hypocritical views?" As in not your. I think the fat acceptance example is on point. In one instance we have progs saying to accept people for how their body is. In the other instance we have them saying to do the opposite. You cannot reconcile these views through logic alone - once you figure out what reconciles the views then you'll see the truth. Why are you asking me to reconcile other people's beliefs? How does this impact my argument, exactly? Why are yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 06:11 AM
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Geez, you picked the things that I said that were least worthy of a response to actually respond to. In what way did I do that? By asking me to "reconcile hypocritical views" that I didn't express. I get that you may have just meant "you" in the abstract, but your fat acceptance comment really just seemed out of place and irrelevant. What other people believe isn't the task at hand here, and I don't really care to defend/address someone else's beliefs on a separate topic. No. It's just an accura…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 05:18 AM
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Moreover, I find it a bit hypocritical with these leftist views. When it comes to a fat person, we should teach them fat acceptance. But when it comes to a trans person, let's give them surgery. How can you reconcile these hypocritical views? Well, I'd rather you didn't blindly ascribe these views to me but okay. I think there's something to be said for trying to ease mental anguish for anyone who has discomfort in one's body. I also don't want fat people to be seen as lesser people in terms of …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 09:43 PM
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Rapists, murderers and other scum is deeply hated and their social status is negative infinity. To become one you have to hate yourself so much you no longer care. This is not necessarily true. All it takes is a lack of empathy for other people and perhaps a general detached feeling of other people, or "limited pro-social abilities." This does not equate to self-hate. I think "ego" is a less apt word to describe it, more like narcissism, sociopathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 09:18 PM
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Fixing a body would be much preferred to fixing a brain from a medical standpoint. We know how to fix their bodies... their brains? Not so much. This is unlikely to be solved by therapy, or as ozymandias271 noted, may only be a partial fix. I mean if simple therapy could solve the distress that trans people feel, that'd be great and a preferable alternative to surgery, but I think there's a reason they opt for the surgery. I also don't think that we can necessarily say that either the brain or t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 09:11 PM
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Dumbass feminists don't make you right. This is not a proper defense for shitty research.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 09:16 AM
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That post and the comments in it are fucking ridiculous...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 05:44 AM
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Ohhhh, gotcha. Didn't even watch long enough to see the other guy. Nevermind that then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 09:14 PM
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I mean, isn't the meme referring to him as a "cuck" evidence that people see him as significantly less attractive than his girlfriend? She's aight. But he's a bit of a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 04:08 PM
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Man, I'm calling bullshit on all these sorts of comments. She's not super cute or anything, but compared to him? Much more attractive. And it's kind of hard to tell with her scarf, but she looks like she may have a decent body.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 12:39 AM
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maybe assume I was taking out of my butthole. Don't worry, that's what we all do here haha. Thanks for looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 02:47 PM
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Replying to remind you to find those studies. Sounds interesting!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 12:43 AM
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Well, the fact that they only do it anonymously kind of implies that in their every day life they don't say the things they feel. So they're not really direct and honest typically, unless they can do it without facing the social consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 06:14 PM
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It'd be interesting, but honestly people would probably lie to lend credence to their side.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 04:52 PM
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Yup. Alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 04:09 AM
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LOL what the fuck are you ranting about dude
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 04:00 AM
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I don't believe for 1 second that the other partner's feelings are why women do it. ...seriously? Women know that sexual performance is incredibly important to men. They know men feel humiliated when they don't get their women off. These aren't feelings you want someone you care about to feel. Many women fake orgasms to spare these feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 05:02 PM
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Bodily autonomy is extremely important imo, and limiting reproduction would be compromising that. So, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 07:31 PM
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Dude, the implication was there. Don't even front, we all saw that italicized "you."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 05:43 PM
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In the case of homosexual, asexual, transexual, etc., the answer is obvious since there would be no future generation. What... You do realize that gay couples can and do still have children? Homosexual does not mean infertile. Many homosexual people still desire children, often even biological children. In the case of miscegenation in particular, mixed-race children are notoriously mal-adapted - they have higher rates of substance abuse, underage drinking, many times higher rates of depression a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 11:57 PM
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Well, there's a difference between thinking about a specific person and not envisioning anyone or anything. I know at least some women will think about a certain scenario that doesn't necessarily involve anyone specific. I suppose I don't really know what goes through the majority of women's heads while they masturbate though. Maybe you are right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 11:18 PM
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When I masturbate I don't need to envision anyone or anything. That's impressive, but I doubt this is the norm for women. While I'm sure you're not alone in that, the person was objecting to your use of the word "most."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 10:51 PM
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"The Inner Circle" is a dating app for "high-end" individuals; LOL, and they're actually trying to use this as evidence damning the entire female population? That's so red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 03:51 PM
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we successfully made the sex many times. Great success. Jesus dude
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 12:55 AM
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Any guy with "too much muscle" was vain, shallow, and probably stupid, which is why they have big muscles. To be fair, women who put a lot of effort in their appearance through make up or whatever else are often thought of in a similar fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 07:22 PM
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It is not a big secret that being fit is going to help your chances with the ladies... I don't get this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 07:12 PM
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People act out of character all the time. I mean, obviously one's personality and character influences their decisions. But there are a lot of things that can go into decision making, contexts that you don't know about. If my kid just died minutes ago, my decision making is going to be altered quite a bit, and you can't really make an accurate judge of my personality based off my actions. If you go around making assumptions about people based off superficial indicators you're just going to be wr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 10:43 PM
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Well, then what if you change the scenario? Say this woman always wears revealing clothing. I don't think that changes the argument too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 10:20 PM
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Caught me!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 05:31 PM
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Seriously... "all the guys my age are fat or have girly bodies" is a boldface lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 05:03 PM
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I mean... some people can't afford to have standards. Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 04:38 PM
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Proximity is a huge factor. Which may explain doctors/nurses, and secretaries/administrative assistance, and maybe elementary school teachers. Dancers is probably just based off hotness though, and the fact that that's a sexy career for a female. You also have to consider the number of males vs. females in these high status careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 09:49 PM
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One reason is definitely that you often get treated much, much better when you look good. People listen to you more. I think this makes people feel better about themselves, hence where the "they're doing it for themselves" comes into play. People treating you better = you feeling better about yourself, often. Also, there's definitely some value in just looking at yourself and being struck by your own looks. Like, damn I look good. For example, I'll wear a sexy pair of bra and panties even when I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 04:33 PM
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This subreddit isn't about you, snowflake, it's about trends. ...it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 10:44 PM
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That's all well and good, but my point is you can't be so sure of these broad generalizations that you're making when you're relying solely on personal experience. Especially when, as I mentioned before, your personal experiences are colored by any biases that you may have without realizing it. Your experiences don't lend much evidence to the idea that "women are more entitled in dating than men." Also, another thing that I just thought of with the Tinder thing. I think a big contributing factor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 09:56 PM
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Dude, you don't know what you're talking about at all. Not only did you completely fail to provide evidence for the specific point you were trying to prove: that women love men "opportunistically" while men are the "hopeless romantics" as your link claims. You're just going off on a random ass tangent, arguing against the idea that men and women are the exact same in every way aside from social upbringing. Except this is not a common belief, even here. We acknowledge that there are trends and bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 09:39 PM
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If I have found certain things to be highly successful, far more than what I used to do/believe, why would I change them at this time? You shouldn't. If what you're doing works, keep doing it. But realize that you only interact with an extremely small portion of women, who are all likely within a specific age range, have limited backgrounds, cultural upraising, etc. and these all can have an effect on one's sense of entitlement. Simply put, your sample size is too small and not random at all to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 08:56 PM
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I think there must have been a misunderstanding about the phrasing of "make sure." There's a difference between making sure and being sure. The way you worded it implied that from the get-go your goal in a relationship was to make her love you more than you love her, which sounds very naive. I can look if you'd like - but it sounds like you'll question any resources I point to. You're right! As I should, right? I'm not gonna just blindly accept anything you cite just because you've cited it. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 05:43 PM
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You've never been with a woman who makes it obvious beyond measure how deeply she cares about you? I'm sorry to hear that - it's a really wonderful thing. Most women I've been with make it crystal clear how much they like me. Oh, come on. You are quite clearly deliberately misconstruing what that poster meant. Quit being obnoxious. I've seen many articles, blog posts, discussions, studies, etc. on the topic. My view doesn't compare from purely anecdotal experience alone Sure, but which blog post…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 05:23 PM
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You think there's really a need for a philosophical discussion about the merits of legalizing or prohibiting a violent crime here? Rape isn't "sacred," it's just a violent crime that is illegal for extremely obvious reasons. And your argument for the logic of legalizing is absurd: Problem: Nobody wants to fuck me. I want to fuck them. Solution: Make it so I'm allowed to fuck them anyway. I believe this argument is very logically "based on good sense". Do I believe it's a solution we should imple…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 06:19 AM
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Well I'm a female in my early twenties and I'm a complete fucking idiot too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 07:11 PM
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I really think guys (and girls but especially guys) should have a mandatory year or two off before college to do some kind of single sex work coop dorm style living thing and then finish college at 24, 25 rather than 22, 23. Assuming that a guy needs extra years to mature just because he's male is ridiculous and sexist. There are plenty of men this age who are more mature than their female counterparts. Edit: I actually glossed over the part where you said (and girls but especially guys), whoops…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 05:36 PM
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I'd say it's usually a good thing, especially since I think a lot of the people there are doing it because their frequent masturbation has hindered their lives in some way. But if you didn't have a problem before and it makes you very irritable then I don't see how that's benefiting you. So, it's good when it's good, it's bad when it's bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 05:32 PM
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All I can contribute that wouldn't be blind, biased speculation is that I personally didn't participate because I honestly dislike putting that much effort into a single post and didn't find the exercise particularly interesting. So maybe that's a reason that others shared as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 04:25 PM
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And then you gave a ridiculously narrow definition of sexual harassment. She was contesting that definition, and giving an alternative example of sexual harassment. I don't give a fuck about your life or your problems with your boss. Chill lol. You're not going to win alpha points with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 11:20 PM
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Well, you're a shitty troll, so that's nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 11:06 PM
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Oh yeah it really grinds my gears when someone exists near me. how dare they Honestly, what kind of question is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 10:25 PM
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Im not taking any Ws? Do you realize how stupid you look when you say this? You're not taking any Ws for this either bro And the point of the OP was that his studies somehow disprove some RP concepts, whilst they in fact give credence to them, saying "oh everyone knows that ablooabloo" is not an argument. OP was not trying to disprove this RP concept that cheating and relationship dissatisfaction are linked though... Plus, it's not like you've provided an argument really. You just said "actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 11:48 PM
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Oh, okay. Fair enough then, I definitely misread your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 11:36 PM
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So you can observe the inner machinations of women's minds? What do these observations look like? And there's no possible way that your observations are not tainted by any preconceived notions or biases? Also, how exactly would one go about falsifying what you wrote? By reading women's minds? Don't act incredulous that someone is accusing you of making shit up. This is reddit. We have emotionally charged debates here all the time. People make shit up all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 08:59 PM
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The way you phrased it kind of implied it...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 01:52 PM
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This is some lazy ass logic. You're not right because people disagree with you vehemently, come on. TBP exists because TRP is controversial as fuck. Hell, sometimes TRPers post things for the sake of riling people up and freely admit it. there are plenty of other people to [mock] I mean, you could say that about mocking anything...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 01:44 PM
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Not the person you're talking to but I imagine they'd say something similar. But from my understanding, these types of surgeries are only given the OK after rigorous psych evaluations. And surgery is only an option after other methods of treatment to relieve the dysphoria have been ineffective. This is because, as you mention, there's no going back, so they attempt to make as sure as possible that this treatment truly will benefit the patient. They don't just lop off body parts all willy nilly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 01:39 PM
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Yeah, but it's a part of TRP that pretty much no one contests. You aren't taking any Ws for stating obvious shit that no one disagrees with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 12:43 PM
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I'm sure tons and tons of men have these same exact insecurities of not being as good as the men before. Why isn't this evidence that men employ a similar ranking system? Maybe it's not that deep. Maybe, when their partner is asked, "what's the best sex you've ever had?" both men and women just want their partners to honestly answer that it was with them. Maybe you're just making shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 12:31 PM
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You're painting it in a different way, but you're saying the same thing. You want a low n count girl because you want to be the best boyfriend she's had. How could this imply anything but that you're afraid that the competition would be better? It's insecurity, and that's okay. Most people have had these insecurities I'd imagine, especially when young and inexperienced. I think there's a better way of handling it than writing off average to high n count women as valueless sluts though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 12:10 PM
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This isn't just a woman and a man. This is Kanye West and someone else most people don't really know about. Any time something controversial happens with Kanye, people are going to say he's in the wrong. It's fucking Ye.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 05:59 AM
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My point is that you guys are likely operating under differing definitions of the MRM. This changes the argument. This is one of the common tactics feminists use. It's also a common tactic used against feminism! Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 06:21 AM
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That is not a criticism, that is drive by hate and dehumanisation of any man who wants men to have equal rights. Not really if you believe that plenty of men who want men to have equal rights exist outside of the MRM. When this poster refers to the MRM, he likely is referring to a narrow subset of people that doesn't actually encompass everyone associated with men's rights. I could be wrong about what the guy meant, but from what I've seen when people talk about the MRM they're usually referring…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 05:50 AM
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To be fair, a criticism of the MRM is not the same as not supporting men's rights. You can dislike a movement without disliking the general ideology it claims to uphold.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 05:19 AM
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He's saying that the number of exceptions is likely to be significant enough that trying to apply a rule and generalize is a bad idea. Your brain doesn't even work like that. Yeah, well our brains can be dumbasses sometimes and make all sorts if errors.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 06:50 AM
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I don't know if it's worth responding to a 4 day old comment but I will. I don't actually think it works like an on off switch, where it's all or nothing. For me it doesn't, anyway. It's more like how when you go grocery shopping and you're fucking starving, everything looks amazing and you'll overspend. But when you go after you've eaten, things aren't as appetizing. When I'm in happy relationships I really don't notice the attractiveness of other women as much because I'm in that "fed" state. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 05:24 AM
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Why do people keep calling me a troll? Red pillers call me a troll, blue pillers call me a troll. Because you say some insane shit dude. And your bible comment made you seem like a caricature from /r/iamverysmart. Why would I be salty if women are attracted to men who aren't chad? I was implying that your saltiness likely comes from your lack of success with women, which you discuss often. You seem to blame all women for this, and assume that it's because they can only be attracted to Chads. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 03:46 AM
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So do you have any like, evidence for these outlandish claims? Any reason for me to believe that you're not just salty and ranting? Or a troll? HAHAHAHAHA. When I read that I got the same feeling I get when I read the bible. Seriously, are you a troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 03:03 AM
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Uh, you expect attraction to be rational? What is "rational attraction" to you? It is the apotheosis of self-delusion. I feel like you're reading way too into this dude. Or you're just looking for ways to paint women as delusional. Attraction is a feeling that is influenced by other feelings. Doesn't mean this is self-delusion. To me, being the same amount of attracted to someone no matter what this person does or says is "completely ridiculous."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 02:53 AM
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No, this totally happens. Maybe not always to the point where the men become "so attractive that no other man would do," but definitely to the point where you really don't have much of an interest in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 08:11 AM
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Every guy out there is going to settle down with an alpha widow, therefore the woman they end up with will not be attracted to them. Jesus Christ, your views on relationship are so insanely warped. Every guy out there is going to settle down with an "alpha widow," really?? Healthy, committed relationships where a woman is attracted to the man don't exist? Girls that don't get anally fucked by Chad don't exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 08:00 AM
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Hahaha. I truly hope you're kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 01:28 AM
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Very few women go 'head over heels' for men they date and go out of their way for men they are seeing. Hasn't been my experience. Maybe I'm just lucky, but I doubt it. Truthfully though, I do agree with your sentiment to an extent. If a girl isn't willing to go out of her way to make time for you, she probably isn't into you. But you don't have to be Ryan Gosling for women to make an effort for you, that's crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 01:17 AM
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Marriage is a contract that people enter into for a variety of reasons. Reducing it to "a contract trading providership for paternity" is funny, especially when paternity is not even common to all marriages. If you're going to construct a definition of marriage like that and just expect people to accept it without explaining yourself, expect some incredulous responses like "lmao."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 07:56 PM
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....then what the hell did you mean? You absolutely make it seem like growing pubic hair, having breasts, and menstruation are good determinants for being old enough to have sex with when you say things like: Let me clarify this: teen girls who have started menstruating, and grown pubic hair and breasts are not children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 07:50 PM
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Marriage is a contract trading providership for paternity. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 07:39 PM
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Dude, you're probably missing out on a wild fucking ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 06:26 PM
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Elaborate, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 08:16 AM
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I suppose it doesn't, really, except that I tend to be more BP than RP and am often very much at odds with RP. I've also seen people criticize this view as, like I mentioned, seeing these women as obligated to perform a sexual act simply because she's done it in the past, which I don't think this is really about. To elaborate even more, I do of agree with RP that women are more willing to perform sexual acts that they are even slightly uncomfortable with the more attractive they are to their par…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 08:06 AM
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Hmm, maybe not really what you're looking for, but the first thing that jumped out at me would be having a serious problem if my partner was unwilling to do some sort of sexual act for me that they did with another partner. Don't get me wrong, I firmly believe that a woman should have complete sexual agency and doing an act in the past does not mean she has to be down to do it forever. But, personally, it would rub me the wrong way and could definitely be indicative of her being less sexually at…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 07:34 AM
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Who fucking cares? I mean, couldn't this same exact nonsense be said of a skinnier, weaker male, or one with disabilities/health issues that make him more "biologically inconvenient?" They depend on men too. Why does it really matter if they wouldn't fare as well in the wild? Besides, people were not made to be lone wanderers through nature. We are a highly social species, and we depend on each other's cooperation for survival, reproduction, happiness and all that jazz. So in this sense, no one …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 07:12 AM
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You're assuming that all/most women feel that they are desired. This is totally false. I would want to be a girl just to feel desired, to feel some inherent worth in being myself, rather than worth in what I could give to others, like money, my job, or whatever fancy car or house I had. Except, just a man may feel that his only worth is his earning potential, a woman may feel her only worth is her looks/ability to sexually satisfy. Probably not that much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 05:18 AM
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Yeah... except childcare is exceptionally important for humans. So a mother dying in childbirth is extremely disadvantageous. Childbirth is not a mother's only purpose, child rearing is also nearly of equal importance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 05:13 AM
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It'd depend on the guy and the girl(s) he's pursuing. I don't really believe that general advice is super helpful, and every situation/girl is different. But, if I had to give general advice it would definitely be to take care of yourself better in terms of apparel/hygiene/apartment cleanliness (for when he manages to actually get a girl home) first and foremost. Stop texting her so fucking much, and if she's not texting back/giving you short, uninvolved messages, definitely chill with the messa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 05:03 AM
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He was fucking a girl and she told him to stop. He kept going. She started to scream no and so he punched her in the face and threatened to kill her if she didn't shut up, and then he finished. I'm not gonna judge him since there are two sides to every story I'm referring to the one or two times per year where an actual rape happens and leaving regret sex out of this one. ...what the fuck dude
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 04:49 AM
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Alright, that's fine. But don't act like you've got all the answers and that you're not blindly speculating about these tangential studies with likely an extremely biased perspective that you may be unaware of. Because that's kind of what people (not just RPers) like to do, and why we like to have evidence in the first place. your ideas are either dismissed because there is no evidence, or still dismissed because the evidence is weak. I mean, yeah. That's how it usually works, man. If you don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 11:33 PM
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Dude, this is my number one gripe with red pillers here. For the most part, they don't back their shit up. From what I've seen, TRP's standard of evidence is weak. In a way I kinda like it though, because then I don't feel guilty reporting my own personal experiences like they mean shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 11:14 PM
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I don't think she meant that these shirts are indicative of all men's views. However, they may be indicative of a problem. And, like she said, I have a hard time believing that many women would wear a "no fat dudes" shirt. were generally meant to be used as a joke between men Yeeeeeaaaah. I'm having a hard time believing that most of the people who say things like that don't actually harbor any derision towards fat women. But you're right, the shirts don't prove anything. Still, I've noticed mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 10:52 PM
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Oh, gotcha. Yeah, I can definitely see how a lack of a true BP ideology can result in some unproductive debates.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 09:40 PM
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I dunno, they have pointed a lot of hilarious/ridiculous/terrible content from TRP that has made me realize how full of shit that sub can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 09:08 PM
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RP tends to project a strategy onto us, but they're making it up whole cloth because they want to have something to compare to their own strategy. I've noticed this a lot in this sub. A lot of red pillers will attack strawmen in an attempt to fight a blue pill ideology/strategy that just doesn't seem to exist the same way it does in TRP. I don't blame them though, it can be difficult to argue against someone without knowing anything about their ideology aside from the fact that it's different fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 09:06 PM
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What is Blue Pill sexual strategy, exactly? I admittedly haven't spent much time there, but from what I've seen, Blue Pill is more about pointing out flaws with Red Pill than devising some kind of strategy if its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 08:40 PM
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If you disagree, explain why, specifically, without the profanity, the histrionics and the sputtering, please. lol, okay then. Sorry to hurt your delicate sensibilities with my profanity and incredulity! But honestly, taiboworks put it in better words than I probably would. makes perfect sense that men and women should not care about the sexual desires of men and women they don't want to have sex with. doesn't mean they don't care about them as coworkers, neighbors, relatives, or in whatever cap…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 05:22 PM
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First of all, going from this They don't care about MEN AS MEN, as a group. to She doesn't see him as a unique individual, or consider he might have hopes, dreams, wants or needs of his own. If he dropped dead, it would not matter to her one bit. is fucking ridiculous and dramatic. Also, I disagree that taiboworks' argument is inherently bad. Social workers are paid for their services, sure, but not well and it's well known to be a thankless job. People go into that field because they specifical…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 04:32 PM
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Threads like these keep me coming to this sub. Way to generate excellent content, this is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 03:39 AM
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Don't let it die. Love is fucking dope.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 02:01 AM
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However short of showing me some comprehensive studies published in peer reviewed physical science journals, I'm just going to view your statement as ignorance. I don't disagree with you, but to be fair, the link you gave falls incredibly short of a "comprehensive study published in a peer reviewed journal." It's just some leadership consultant's take on some research and literature on the topic. Given how horribly I've seen the MSM misinterpret research (especially when it pertains to a controv…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 01:50 AM
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A woman who's not sexually interested in a man will not care about him at all. She won't care if he lives or dies. I am floored that you actually hold such an absurd belief to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 01:30 AM
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Completely ignoring all the other dumb shit OP wrote, does this nonsense: Even in our basic biology, the penis is much easier to insert into the vagina than the vagina is to wrap around the penis. really warrant a "well thought out and rational" response?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/15 08:40 PM
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Try to think of every girl as your daughter. Lmao. Okaaaaayyyyyyyy then, great advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/15 02:29 AM
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Those statements are both wrong as hell. I would love it if all women were lesbians though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 09:04 PM
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Well, see, I don't buy that women only want to fuck guys more attractive than them and are just willing to fuck guys at or a little below their attractiveness either. I think that in many instances, they really would want to fuck these men. Sure, maybe men are more willing to have sex with women below them in attractiveness. But is that evidence of hypergamy or just is it more reflective of the "doesn't matter; had sex" attitude that seems more prevalent with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 09:24 PM
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it's a good bet the men she was sleeping with had some good Game and social skills. Some did, but one that she saw the most was one of my closest friends, and God knows that boy has no game hahaha. I agree that one instance doesn't prove anything. But the only evidence people seem to be providing/able to provide here is their own experience. Since I lived with her, I learned a lot about her preferences, and they really didn't match up with anything TRP predicts a hot girl behaves. Do you have an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 07:46 PM
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Hypergamy just means "only attracted to those above me in attractiveness". Only women do that. I really don't buy that. I had a roommate last year who was hot. Hot as fuck. She only brought home guys who were less attractive than her. Not ugly, but usually average or a bit above. These guys weren't rich, athletic, alpha socialites, either. She just liked them. I see hot girls with average boyfriends all the time. My male friends often only seem to go for hotter girls, with limited success, but s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 07:20 PM
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This seems pretty out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 06:33 PM
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See, this hasn't been true at all from my experiences. I see my female friends date far less attractive guys all the time. These guys aren't rich or awesome alpha guys either. And they seem to have great relationships. From what I've seen, even if a woman doesn't have that initial attraction to a guy, upon getting to know him she'll often build an attraction for him, especially if he's funny. Being funny slays women. Not that my experiences are proof of anything, but I've seen average guys with …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 06:28 PM
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There are a lot of things that RP preaches that will obviously attract women. Lifting, dressing well, being more social, cultivating interests and passions, ditching weed and video games are all things I've seen suggested there, and that's all fantastic advice. But, I can also see how some RP ideologies can help with women as well. I think a lot of guys struggle with a lack of confidence and nervousness around women, trying too hard to impress them and falling horribly flat. The extremely negati…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 04:32 PM
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The evidence you provided for that claim was terrible. I'll explain: So some people in TRP/MRP are unhappy in their marriages. Maybe it's because they were female-led. Maybe it was due to a multitude of other things. Even if it were due to the woman leading, that's kind of a shitty sample. Are the people posting in TRP/MRP threads a good representative of the overall population of men and women? Probably not. You can't really draw the conclusions about the rest of the world based on the existenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 06:11 AM
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The existence of TRP is your evidence for the idea that most women prefer male-led marriages? What kind of shitty standard of evidence are you operating under? My God.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 02:22 AM
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Subconsciously, women are seen as complete and whole - the mother ship that accepts the relatively small penis into her body and then her entire body creates a human. Many men would like to take some of this power away - and debase the woman and the sex act via pornography. The more the man is in control, the more exciting it is to him. Because he knows that in reality, women have all the control over the production of human beings. Her breasts and genitals and body are more exciting than his bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 01:52 AM
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We coddle them to much, we raise their ego too much and in the end we end up with really spoiled adults. This is funny to me, because I've seen this exact attitude toward women in TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 01:27 AM
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Ehhhh. Sure a lot of frats have handsome dudes, but lots of frats are huge. Most frat guys are pretty average I'd say. But that's besides the point. I just wanted to poke fun at the insinuation that Greek status means a lot to GDI girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 01:19 AM
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You were clearly implying that GDI girls sleep with frat dudes because of their Greek status when you said: My guess is that greek guys are screwing just as much non-sorority ass as sorority ass. In fact probably more (girls gets bragging rights with her friends "I slept with a guy from Alpha whatever.....). Would most girls brag to her friends about fucking Tiger Woods? Yeah. Would most girls brag to her friends about fucking some Adonis lookalike? Yeah Would most GDI girls fuck a frat dude jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 12:52 AM
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The fuck are you talking about? I was quite clearly specifically talking about where you claimed that non-greek affiliated girls like to brag about sleeping with frat dudes. I know women talk/brag about who they sleep with. I'm a woman and I've done it; this isn't news. But you thinking that there are so many GDI women who apparently fuck frat guys just so they can brag about which house he was in is just funny. The picture you seem to be trying to paint of college life is pretty laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 12:40 AM
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My guess is that greek guys are screwing just as much non-sorority ass as sorority ass. In fact probably more (girls gets bragging rights with her friends "I slept with a guy from Alpha whatever.....). Ahahahaha. You really think that most GDI girls would actually brag about this? This thread is a fucking trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 05:33 PM
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It's the best estimate available. What are you gonna do, blindly speculate over some womanist utopia? No way is it the best estimate. Especially when we know that societal expectations/framework of behavior influence our behavior. You put the same population into very different cultures, they're gonna be different. I'm not going to pretend like I know what things would be like if our societies were largely matriarchal, but come on. That said, I think you can do more than "blindly" speculate abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 06:25 PM
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I think assuming women in a matriarchal society would behave the same as they have in historical patriarchal societies is a huge mistake. And I don't think the person you were responding to was saying passivity = moral. I also see a problem with conflating making technological advancements as inherently moral behavior. But I do get what you're saying. Women haven't had the same opportunities to make the obviously immoral/selfish decisions that have the widescale impact that men in power have. Ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:18 PM
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In the savannah, dying young, killing each other over a fruit, no money, no technology, no freedom. With women in charge we'd still be there, probably. What makes you think that? This seems like a very, very silly claim, even if it was hyperbole.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 03:16 AM
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