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Discussionaquariuskitty_/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 03:14 PM
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Never. Why am I chasing a man who can’t even speak to me like I’m a human being?
/r/seduction04/12/21 03:28 AM
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Wait…you’re mad that women walk away from you to afraid to speak? Yea bc that’s weird and it’s not my job to baby the strange man who can’t speak to me bc I’m an attractive woman. Work on your confidence and try treating women as human beings and not intimidating sex objects. Like why would I talk to someone who can’t event speak to me?? Its infuriating.
/r/seduction04/12/21 03:26 AM
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Of course you havent heard of it, what experience have you had that would expose you to that? Also why am I a whore if im dating multiple people? It's DATING not a relationship. Also I don't give a fuck why men think its okay to demean women after rejection, Its obvious they have no self esteem but how the fuck does it make it okay??. And if you were a woman constantly being catcalled, afraid to walk home at night alone, and deal with creeps on a daily basis I think youd have a problem with all …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 02:20 AM
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https://encompass.eku.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1599&context=etd https://www.vice.com/en/article/bjg8dz/how-rejection-turns-men-violent https://www.damemagazine.com/2017/10/24/men-are-killing-thousands-women-year-saying-no/ you couldnt google this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 02:11 AM
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Dude what the fuck are you talking about? It’s straight up fact that one is six women will experience intimate partner violence. Not to mention victims of domestic violence or at the most risk when they try to leave. Also honestly you could Google this and find your own sources but if you wanna pretend that Women being raped and killed as a result of them rejecting a man’s advances isn’t something that happens we are clearly living in two different realities
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 03:20 AM
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Most guys literally admit that if they can’t get hard it’s a them thing and the girl shouldn’t take it as an insult. It’s not something to be embarrassed about and it’s super common but it’s a problem that has to do with your body not your partner pleasing you. Like if you have ED nothing your partner does is going to change that. A lot of men have a tendency to be selfish in the bedroom. I’m sure most women have a story of a guy who didn’t do any foreplay, just went straight to fucking, and it …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 03:14 AM
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If a guy had sex with her than he obviously finds her attractive on some level...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:33 AM
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Women get rejected by hot guys- including sexually. Men be assaulting women over a rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:31 AM
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There are plenty of people who just want sex. There’s nothing wrong with being promiscuous. Just don’t lie and emotionally manipulate to get sex bc that’s fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:29 AM
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There’s no such thing as lowering your standards. You’re attracted to who your attracted to period. And attractive doesn’t just equal a nice face and/or body. Dating is literally so much more than what you look like and until you realize that you’re not gonna be happy in your love life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:23 AM
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Women don’t have an easier time in relationships they just have different issues than men. Men are expected to be the initiator and for socially awkward men their desire to meet women is set against their struggles to communicate interest and their discomfort with social settings. Women on the other hand have no issue receiving attention from the opposite sex. Women are not conditioned to approach men. Some do, but those women come to face their own social stigmas: being perceived as whorish or …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:33 PM
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But they don’t get payed the same amount...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:15 PM
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I just started dating this ginger kid and he also thinks that gingers are considered ugly. I don’t understand this? To me he’s ridiculously attractive and is orange hair is cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 02:54 AM
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If you think saying “I chose you out of 15 other girls I could’ve had” isn’t manipulative that explains why you’re single.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 02:31 AM
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Actually no. You have a fixed mindset that is impossible to change your personality. If you don’t believe you can change your personality guess what? You can’t change it!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 12:40 PM
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Oh okay so you you’re the same person you were 10 years ago? People don’t grow, change, improve? This post really just sounds like an excuse for people with crappy personalities to remain crappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 12:36 PM
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I don’t know what a woke supremacist is because that’s not a term that normal rational minded people use. There’s no way to prevent somebody from doing something awful to you if they want to do it. You are responsible for your own actions not other peoples. I assume that you think that if a girl gets too drunk at a party and gets raped that she’s not a victim and it’s her fault right? And the rapist has zero responsibility because she shouldn’t been in that situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 01:47 PM
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Just because you have a fear of dying doesn’t mean that you’re not depressed. Saying “men are more successful at suicide therefor women do not suffer from real depression and their feelings are trivial” is a huge generalization that encompasses such a narrow understanding of depression and suicide. You obviously have a mental illness if you attempt suicide. How does wanting attention, wanting someone to notice your pain and help you, equate to not actually being depressed? It’s a cry for help… T…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 01:44 PM
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Right and I’m sure they tell you “I’m not lonely I get lots of women”. Seems legit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 01:39 PM
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Wait what? Shouldn’t this post be about how sex work in general is overly stigmatized? “John Shaming” wouldn’t be a thing if society didn’t hate sex workers. If there wasn’t such a stigma around sex work there wouldn’t be any stigma around paying for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 03:01 AM
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I in no way implied that men don’t get depressed. And I’d love to see your studies that say depressed women are faking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 02:48 AM
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So if someone attempts suicide by taking pills instead of shooting themselves in the head bc they’re hoping they’ll be found that means they’re not really depressed? Right bc non depressed people risk their lives as a cry for help
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 02:48 AM
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Wait Where did I even say that incels and lonely men are only ones responsible for rape and murder? Im talking about men in general. I literally said SOME MEN ARE ENTITLED and rape and murder when there feelings not reciprocated. No one said anything about incels/lonely men. Stop projecting your insecurities and picking fights for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 02:43 AM
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Who said that women are hopeless victims? Like what kind of fucked logic are you operating on? People aren’t responsible for other people doing shitty things to them. You’re victim blaming and it’s gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 02:36 AM
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I don’t really know what taking financial advantage is but if someone is manipulating you and stealing your money it’s not your fault it’s theirs. You’re not responsible for the shitty actions of other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 02:28 AM
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I don't think thats true but even it was, I don't see women on reddit forming hate groups like TRP and talking about the top 20% of women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 05:42 PM
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How does this updated definition of rape validate your claim that there is no rape culture? And what does rape culture have to do with women being responsible for being manipulated by men? I agree that consent doesn't mean you can't be raped bc conscent can always be taken away and there are terms to that that conscent (like wearing a condom, not recording etc). I also agree that people should not be overly trusting when having sex with people they just met. However, that doesn't negate responsi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 05:38 PM
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Being that 1 in 6 women experience rape in their lifetime i'm sure youd have a fuck ton of pennies. So from you're own personal experience (of being raped and murdered I assume), not any real evidence, you know that that the majority of murderers and rapists get frequent sex? Ha okay, seems like an airtight argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 05:24 PM
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Okay actually yes people are blaming women but you just gloss over those comments. I'm honestly not understanding your logic at all. Why would a sex worker, someone who is consenting to sex, complain about being raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 05:14 PM
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People are allowed to have standards no one is saying otherwise. But if you have rigid standards you're not allowed to bash women just bc the women who fit your standards don't like you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:57 PM
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lmao trivial depression?? Bruh just bc youre a sexist fuck who views women's emotions as trivial doesn't make their depression any less impactful
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:50 PM
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The idea that women are responsible for the manipulative behavior of men bc they are too easily manipulated and should be able to see through it is the dumbest thing i've ever heard and is a poor way to deflect the blame
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:48 PM
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No one said men are entitled for wanting to be loved. Some men are entitled because they expect love and when it's not reciprocated they do things like..idk.. rape and murder women? But go ahead and keep playing the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:42 PM
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Nah I’ve fucked plenty of women and I see them as people with thoughts, opinions, and feelings. You’re just a sexist asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 11:55 PM
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What is this logic?😂 You’re completely forgetting that the woman has a say and if your unattractive, they’re not just gonna fuck you because “chad” said so. Y’all really think of women like human fleshlites and it shows🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 09:02 PM
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This is kinda confusing...women feel pressured to have sex (and have it) all the time. Studies show that 56% of women have felt pressured into having sex at some point in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 05:34 PM
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Actually it’s 30% of men who ARENT having sex between ages 18-24. https://news.iu.edu/stories/2020/06/iub/releases/15-sexual-inactivity-young-men-united-states-no-sex-debby-herbenick.html What do you want? Women to give out pity sex to men they aren’t attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 03:48 PM
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There’s nothing abnormal about being a lesbian. You’re literally just pulling things out of your ass. Show me a credible scientific study that claims “without men women have no sexual desires”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 02:28 AM
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The only guys who don’t have any sex in college are the weird/socially awkward ones. No one wants to have awkward sex with an awkward person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 12:22 AM
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So the sheer fact that lesbians exist proves that female sexuality doesn’t revolve around men. Women aren’t animals who only get aroused around the opposite sex. I promise you, you and your penis don’t cause women to have sexual urges. They already exist. Also nuns don’t go years without seeing men? They go to church where there are also men dipshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 11:49 PM
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I love how you think you know more about a woman’s sexuality than she does. Your logic makes no sense. In what scenario are women not around men for years? Maybe prison? Guess what- WOMEN HAVE SEX IN PRISON. The idea that female sexuality revolves around the presence of a man is actually the stupidest thing I’ve heard. Ever heard of a lesbian? And I’m my experience men can’t keep up with my sex drive. I can go for four rounds a night every other day of the week... but most guys go limp around ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 11:25 PM
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Eh idk about that, may be the case for some older women but certainly not all women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 08:26 PM
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I mean this is obviously not true. First of all- not everyone is attracted to the opposite sex. Second, Somethings we do because they make us happy and we just want to do it. Like I love musical theatre and that has nothing to do with attracting people. Some guys like to fish- I don’t know many women who find that overwhelmingly attractive. Women aren’t expected to be bread winners so how is going to college and not taking housewife classes more beneficial in attracting a mate? Following this lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 04:26 PM
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Loll actually most nuns keep their pledge to celibacy while priests don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 04:18 PM
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You made a whole post parading the supplier and never even once holding the user accountable. If you hate women just say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 10:34 PM
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Right, the Reddit posts aren’t from Reddit. And even if they are from Reddit it’s posted by someone else. There’s no talking to you people because you literally deny reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 11:57 PM
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So I show you proof of people promoting rape on that sub and you choose to deny it and say it’s some one else. Absolutely dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 11:34 PM
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https://i.imgur.com/5iwxRw0.jpg So this isn’t promoting rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 11:31 PM
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Dude really? I wasn’t sure the best way to share these so I made a post on Imgur. How do you not see this shit?? https://i.imgur.com/5iwxRw0.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 11:30 PM
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I was under the impression that unconventionally attractive guys are guys that your friends might not think is cute but you find attractive. Guys with dad bods aren’t conventionally attractive but there are women who love that. Like my friends boyfriend is genuinely hideous. But she thinks he’s very attractive. I have another friend who would never date a guy that looks like one of those hot TikTok guys bc she doesn’t find them attractive. Attraction is completely subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 12:34 AM
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Who said it wasn’t? I’m just saying that getting a divorce isn’t easy and there’s a lot more red tape to go through than breaking up with your boyfriend of 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 04:10 PM
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Right..commitment is dumb. You should tell your girlfriend that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 07:48 AM
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Divorce lawyers are expensive and the divorce process itself is messy and not “easy” by the standards of anyone who’s been divorced. Is it “easy” for the guy who lost his house? Is it “easy” for the parent who doesn’t get full custody? What part of divorce is easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 07:46 AM
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Well if you want to be ignorant and pretend that women are baby ovens go ahead. But your opinion doesn’t matter bc the fact of the matter is surgical abortions are a legal right. If it isn’t can you explain why when conservative states try to get rid of all their abortion clinics it’s unconstitutional? If what you’re saying is true most red states wouldn’t have abortion clinics. But they do, bc shocker, surgical abortions are a right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 06:55 AM
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Consenting to sex isn’t consenting to having a child. If a guy has sex is he consenting to being a father? I don’t know what you mean that women don’t have the power to control wether or not they have a baby. Birth control? The morning after pill? Hell, a fucking coat hanger? Abortion services are important bc if a women doesn’t want to have a baby, she’s not going to and she could very well die trying to abort the pregnancy on her own which is the sad reality. Your second argument makes no sens…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 06:36 AM
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I think it’s much more complicated than your making it. People don’t divorce bc someone lost their job (which would happen if someone in the relationship was just in it for the money). However something like thousands of dollars credit card debt is a huge strain on a relationship and causes stress, arguing, etc. if they break up it’s bc their relationship is too strained and no longer healthy or enjoyable for either party, not because of superficial reasons. Family problems could be literally an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 06:26 AM
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Don’t see how you could have a happy, healthy, and stable relationship that isn’t based on love and companionship. I guess I’m confused as to why you think it’s the norm for the majority of people to date purely for superficial reasons and not love. That’s kinda a big assumption and generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 05:49 AM
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Bodily autonomy is choosing whether or not you want to grow a human being inside you. And your argument about women forcing people to give them an abortion makes no sense. No one is forcing anyone to perform abortions. The doctors chose that line of work and are being paid to do it. Pretty sure if you had the ability to get pregnant you would want to control when and if that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 04:28 AM
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Addiction is an addiction when it starts to have negative impacts on your life. Porn addiction can lead to relationship breakdown, not being able to get an erection during sex, getting fired from your job, not fulfilling your responsibilities bc you spend too much time watching porn, not being able to stop etc. I’m not really aware of any negative impacts from reading 1D fanfics or fifty shades of grey. But I think the equivalent to men being addicted to porn is women being addicted to porn. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 06:19 PM
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Idk asshat maybe the same you reason you told me?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 05:45 AM
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OK so tell them that not me😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 04:42 AM
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Lol okay so why do men on TRP constantly say that? Literally all I hear is “women only want men in the top 20% because they’re shallow bitches”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 04:35 AM
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I kinda identify with this. I’m bisexual but the only reason I might not want to date a girl who’s “more attractive” than me is bc I’d probably be jealous that I’m not as skinny/pretty or whatever, like I would definitely compare myself to them which just wouldn’t be healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 03:10 AM
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I don’t know a fit muscular dude who would even consider dating a “fat ugly” girl. Women who are not conventionally attractive are really not more picky about looks... But let me guess tho- “fat ugly” guys or “nice guys” would date a woman regardless of her appearance right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 03:07 AM
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Lol wait- doesn’t this contradict TRP theory that women only want men in the top 20%? And no, I wouldn’t not date someone bc they’re more attractive than me. Where do y’all come up with this stuff??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 03:03 AM
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I wouldn’t say threatening, I’d maybe describe it as taking issue with TRP. I take issue with it because it assumes all women are the same, I’ve seen a lot of material promoting rape which is extremely disturbing, treats women as objects, and does this all under the guise of “they deserve it bc they’re selfish and only want our money”. Also it promotes huge double standards- women are sluts and whores if they have sex but guys aren’t bc it’s more difficult for them to get laid. It’s more difficu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 05:33 AM
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Yea I could see that too. So either way it sounds like a recipe for disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 11:20 PM
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I can definitely see the need if you come from a lot of money. But a prenup honestly just sounds like you’re planning to get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 07:16 PM
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Lol yes it’s very difficult to grasp. That’s bc like someone else said it’s literally in our biology. Most people have a need for love, intimacy, and connection so it’s hard for them to fathom that someone can be happy without that. Honestly just ignore those people. If your happy with your life why does their opinion matter? The only thing I can think of is telling those people that you are asexual and aromantic (you may or may not find you identify with those identities) but you can’t really a…
/r/MGTOW230/01/21 02:52 PM
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Right except I literally gave you a source that proves it is in our biology. I love how you just ignore The science and research that doesn’t support your ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 01:58 PM
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It’s not an opportunity if you get ostracized for it. It’s not an option because we are literally called whores if we exercise that privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 01:42 PM
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There’s an obvious difference between having sex with someone else and masturbating. And if you’re a sex worker I think your motives for sex revolve more around survival then serve and emotional need. You don’t see a difference between having sex for money and having casual sex? I didn’t say that every time a woman has sex she gets emotionally attached, some women are good at separating their emotions from sex, but a lot of times that’s the case. And yes it is literally in our biology. During se…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 01:24 PM
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Right but also a lot of times women literally are just unable to have an orgasm. It’s a very common problem and you should google “I can’t have an orgasm” and look at aaaaalllll the stuff that comes up for women it if you don’t believe me. And again I don’t see how this is a privilege when if when you exercise said privilege your called a slut and a whore and are deemed not relationship worthy. You can’t have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:21 AM
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Another reason why casualness ruins sex for women and not men is bc most women equate sex with their emotions (it’s literally in our biology) and most men can have casual sex without forming an emotional bond to that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 05:53 AM
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I feel like you’re intentionally missing the point. Men orgasm almost every time they have sex. A lot of women rarely orgasm with their partner or can’t orgasm at all with a partner. And is something really a privilege if when you try to exercise that privilege you’re called a slut, a whore, and according to the men in this sub good for nothing other than sex and are no longer relationship material?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 05:37 AM
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Yea girls don’t exclusively date tall muscular dudes. Dad bods are very popular rn...rock hard abs aren’t that great for cuddling. Yeaa ive never heard of a preference that doesn’t raise a red flag and they sound way more like a fetish to me. Oh you “prefer” younger women? OK so I guess you can never get married because everyone gets old.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 03:13 AM
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No my most recent post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:56 PM
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Actually those are your words not mine I said that nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:55 PM
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It’s literally all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:54 PM
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Dude no joke if you keep making really gross derogatory comments towards me and harassing me and my PMs I’m gonna report you and block you. You don’t get to talk to people like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:54 PM
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Dude you doesn’t matter how you try to rationalize this women are not objects. And a woman who embraces her sexuality does not make her self and object. That’s not how that works?? Why wouldn’t the same apply to men? You’re logic is ✨fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:53 PM
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Well I wish more men were like you. I’m being called a whore and a prostitute on my most recent post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:51 PM
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I’m not a prostitute… There’s no exchange of money. There are lots of guys with their dicks all over the Internet but I don’t see you having an issue with that. Sure I’ll pick somebody to be a boyfriend when I find the right person. Jesus wtf is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:50 PM
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Sorry what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:48 PM
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Honey, the reason why you had to learn that stuff to pick up women is because you’re not attractive. You do realize that hot guys don’t have to have game right? And those differences that your listing LITERALLY have nothing to do with why men shouldn’t be judged for their sexuality but women should.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:47 PM
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Why are women held to different standards than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:42 PM
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But the study you’re using is not specific to women it says men to do you not see the fucking Hypocrisy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:41 PM
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Well that’s good to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:37 PM
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Listen I’m not calling you unattractive because I don’t know what you look like and that would just be rude and presumptive. But following your logic those women don’t wanna date you because they’re not attracted to your physical appearance. I’m sure you wouldn’t wanna date somebody if you were not attracted to their physical appearance. There’s a big difference to not being attracted to somebody and thinking women who have a lot of sex are somehow less then or worthless. If you see no issue wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:37 PM
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I’m fucking DEAD😂. SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:31 PM
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22 next month. I just don’t get how your height and what you look like has anything to do with what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:29 PM
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I’m not really focusing on the top of the male pyramid. Attraction is highly subjective and it’s literally just fact that attractive people both men and women have a lot more sex than unattractive people. Every promiscuous women I know including myself is a hot ass bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:28 PM
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I want you to check out my most recent post and then tell me that men don’t slut shame. In the past two hours I think I’ve been called every name in the book and gotten some pretty insulting PMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:25 PM
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The only thing you can see in that study is the abstract. To see the actual study you need to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:24 PM
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Again not being a smart ass but I really don’t understand what you’re trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:23 PM
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Not even if you knew that she was dating you seriously and exclusively?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:21 PM
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Okay that may be true of unattractive/awkward guys but a lot of the guys I know have body counts that are significantly higher than mine. Like I’m talking 40s 50s. So yes it’s unrealistic if you’re not attractive and you have no game. If you’re hot the world is your oyster.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:20 PM
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I welcome pure reviewed studies. However most of the studies that get cited on here are pseudoscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:18 PM
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In general yes! I would much rather prefer to have a bf than sleep around. But in my experience if I just got out of a serious relationship or a bad break up I don’t wanna just jump into something else serious. Sure I’d still like to have sex and casually date people but it’s OK to want a break from being in a relationship. Also just because you would prefer a relationship doesn’t mean that you know somebody automatically that you would like to be in a relationship with that also wants to be in …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:17 PM
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OK so then why am I being slut shamed on this post. Especially because women sexuality is so widely embraced?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:14 PM
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How? Women with high body count enjoy sex so just because they’re in a relationship doesn’t mean I’m going to stop having sex. Maybe that’s true for some promiscuous women but the majority of women that I know myself included have fairly high body count and have never cheated. Why does a woman making a conscious choice to not be in a relationship but have sex mean that she can’t hold a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:13 PM
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Do you do you not see the men in these comments trying to tear me apart for being a “slut”?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:10 PM
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I’m not even being a smart ass I genuinely have no idea what you’re trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:05 PM
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A mental hamstring whore? Why do I get the idea that you’re fat and ugly and alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:02 PM
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You’re using the studies to say that promiscuous women are worthless. So by your own logic you must think that promiscuous men are worthless to. But somehow I don’t think that’s what you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:01 PM
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How is male sexuality different than female sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:01 PM
1

None of these studies are specific to women so I don’t see your point. I don’t really know what you mean by a top 20% her but I’m not trying to secure anyone right now as I’m 21....?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:00 PM
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First of all if men sexuality was really considered gross and unwanted but it wouldn’t be nearly as widely excepted in western culture as it is. And what the fuck are you talking about? Women are constantly belittled and shamed for their sexual exploits. Listen I’m not gonna read that whole sob story because it’s really long but don’t project your insecurities onto women. Also odds are if a woman was sexually promiscuous in her 20s she’s not gonna suddenly not want sex when she’s in her 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:57 PM
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Sorry I can’t listen to any of your bullshit until I see a peer reviewed study.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:54 PM
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I’m not talking about LTR failures I’m talking about sex. And having sex with multiple partners and being bankrupt are two completely different things...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:54 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:52 PM
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No you didn’t say that you said that women see men as ATM machines and slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:50 PM
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I’m sorry I see no sense in this comment. First of all math and statistics will tell you nothing about women’s personal lives. Sorry to break it to you. Also I’m not comparing women to apes you are. I never said anything like that. Why are you assuming that women with multiple sexual partners are broken in someway? Are women not allowed to go through periods of their life or they don’t wanna relationship but would still like to be sexually satisfied much like men do? What what the fuck is wrong …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:48 PM
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Just because a woman has had sex with multiple partners does not mean she can’t be in a relationship? Are women not allowed to go through periods of time in their life where they don’t wanna relationship but they would still like to be sexually satisfied?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:45 PM
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Because a woman who gives you what you want isn’t worthy of being treated well?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:43 PM
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I guess no one but women are disposable disposable sex objects they’re human beings
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:43 PM
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Oh yes and that is reflective of all women on this planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:42 PM
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No it’s not. Please PLEASE show me what bullshit you found on the internet that makes you believe that you can just guess a woman’s body count. Why is a woman who enjoys sex worthless? and I would respond to that damsel in distress comment but I genuinely don’t know what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:41 PM
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I’m not talking about cheating I’m talking about promiscuous women in general. Don’t project.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:39 PM
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But what specifically makes her not relationship material? And why would the same not go for a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:39 PM
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So your argument is that because men are more willing to have sex it’s OK to devalue women who agree to have sex? Also The situation really isn’t that different for men and women. Attractive people have an easier time finding sexual partners than ugly people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:37 PM
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Sure some women see men as objects but I’m not sure what that has to do with you seeing women as objects. Do you think that some how makes it okay? And I disagree that wanting your partner to meet your needs is viewing them as an object. You’re views on female attraction are oddly skewed. There is nothing inherently attractive or unattractive about a high body count. And a man being surrounded by beautiful women doesn’t necessarily attract more beautiful women. If the man is surrounded by beauti…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:33 PM
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Wow I never thought of it like that but it’s very true
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:26 PM
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If she’s clean And you get along well why would you not date her
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 03:53 PM
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I didn’t say that you did
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 03:50 PM
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I have a high body count and I’ve been in a relationship for a year. So how does that not mix?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 03:35 PM
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Can you please show me one peer reviewed studies with those findings?? (Key word: peer reviewed)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 03:34 PM
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That’s like asking me if flat earth studies are bullshit because I don’t like the results💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 03:25 PM
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So in other words you see women as objects, cool. So why doesn’t the same logic apply to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 03:18 PM
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I don’t get it. You guys shame women and call them sluts for having a high body count which in itself is hypocritical, but then get mad when they lie about it. Lol what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 03:01 PM
1

Okay so you admit that your not attractive. Honey that’s the reason why dating is hard for you. Maybe try putting in some work and see where that gets you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 02:43 PM
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That just sounds like a joke. Women don’t go on dates bc they can’t feed themselves. Stop being a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 02:41 PM
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Correction: dating for ugly guys is hard. And it’s just as hard for ugly girls. Don’t kid yourself- the issue isn’t that dating is rigged against you, it’s that you’re not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 02:37 PM
1

If you’re constantly rejecting women your own age it’s signals Intimacy issues. Also it’s kinda ridiculous not to like women your own age...we all age and no one is gonna look young forever 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 02:30 PM
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Um...no?
/r/seduction20/01/21 03:57 PM
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Reducing a woman to a number is objectifying them. That’s judgmental. Sure there are levels of attractiveness but that’s influenced by more than physical attractiveness.
/r/seduction19/01/21 10:34 AM
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I am a woman and I 100% concur. Take notes.
/r/seduction19/01/21 10:26 AM
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I’m so dead your such an asshole. You really think a woman posting on social media or making money from porn is objectifying themselves. Yet I’m sure if a man is a pornstar or has thousands of IG followers it’s different right? Give me a fucking break
/r/seduction19/01/21 10:24 AM
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Maybe look Into your attachment style. It sounds like you are anxious preoccupied.
/r/seduction19/01/21 10:05 AM
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“I’m able to manipulate ugly girls but if she’s prettier than me I get nervous”. Maybe try not being a judgmental asshole.
/r/seduction19/01/21 09:58 AM
1

Okay so if you’re worried about the affect that porn has on society why is free porn okay? Which as I pointed out has much more negative implications on society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 04:53 PM
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I’m dead. It’s literally their choice to pay for it because they want to. So are women being exploited when they get plastic surgery? Bc it’s mostly insecure women with body issues who get plastic surgery. Your logic makes absolutely 0 sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 04:50 PM
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The difference is porn that you pay for is always consensual. Both parties have consented and are of age. Also sex workers actually get paid for the work they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 01:23 PM
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I don’t think woman are exploited through porn. And it’s not just a “lucrative opportunity for my gender” bc there are lots and lots of men on only fans. Soo again you’re just asserting bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 12:57 PM
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Yes but I’m saying she doesn’t like him solely because he’s an asshole. There are other factors at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 12:44 PM
1

I can’t even argue bc you’re just making shit up. Obviously people use pornhub premium. Where’s your evidence that there are 0 people in the world who buy it? How exactly are men exploited through porn and prostitution? There are male sex workers too btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 12:41 PM
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Not everyone has an addiction to porn. And furthermore it’s not the sex workers fault. Like what? It’s not a drug dealers fault your addicted to drugs. You sought them out! Take some personal responsibility. Also That doesn’t change the fact that without only fans free porn AND paid for porn is still wildly available. Soo not really sure wtf your point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 12:36 PM
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Oh really? What about pornhub premium? Or literally the countless other porn companies that charge for premium memberships? And free porn is extremely problematic (under age kids, trafficking, rape videos, videos posted without both parties consent)and is the reason why pornhub deleted 80% of its content. No one is being exploited. If you pay for the service you are a consenting adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 05:47 AM
4

It’s porn that you pay for. No ones being exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 05:31 AM
8

Well I hate to break it to you but your “morals” don’t really apply to everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 04:21 AM
3

Only fans is essentially porn. So are you saying porn should be illegal?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 04:15 AM
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If they are the same why is prostitution illegal but not only fans? The term sex worker simply recognizes the fact that sex work is work. The term prostitute is derogatory and implies criminality and immortality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 04:13 AM
3

Sex workers use only fans to make money not for validation💀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 04:08 AM
0

Mmmm it’s more likely she chose him because she was never over him and has attachment issues. Abusive relationships are like that and women often go back to their abuser. It’s not simply bc he’s an asshole it’s bc of the emotional baggage she has with that asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 12:52 AM
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Men are so stupid. The reason men who are “assholes” are more sexually successful is usually bc they are more confident. Ever notice how fuckboys are conventionally attractive? It’s this attractiveness that makes them more confident which is why they get more women. “Nice guys” typically aren’t that attractive or are painfully awkward and act like weirdos around women. It’s really more to do with social skills not being an asshole 🙄.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 12:48 AM
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Only things I’ll say are men feel emasculated when women cover the check and I’ve neeeever met a women who would date a man they thought was dangerous....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 01:17 AM
0

You can’t have a civil conversation with insecure ass men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:03 AM
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Awww poor baby... white men are the real victims in society and women are all evil bitches conspiring to overthrow the patriarchy. Bitch shut the fuck up😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 02:07 PM
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I’m 21 and would I fuck a guy in his 40s? FUCK YES. It’s on my bucket list before I turn 30. But bc of his age he’d have to be really attractive and/or smooth as all fuck. And Unless there’s a sugar daddy arrangement it probably wouldn’t be a recurring thing. (If you’re 40 I expect you to have a well paying job and have your shit together). Idk if I would seriously date someone that old though. It’s kinda a red flag if women his own age don’t fw him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 01:56 PM
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