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Women constantly complain about the quality of matches and most women match to ego boost.
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 02:19 AM
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Yes I 100% believe so. I myself take finesteride for hair loss and anti depressants for anxiety. They do a decent job at blunting my libido. I also think that men need more deep friendships with other men. Take a page out of what single women are doing.
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 02:17 AM
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Imagine if you, as a man, were able to match with 500 - 1,000 attractive singles in your area in a week. That's where you're wrong. 80% of males on dating apps are undesirable for women in terms of looks. Even a slimmer percentage is worth considering for a LTR. Having to scroll through them must be exhausting, even with filters.
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 02:14 AM
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No women do love men, they just don't love you. Women are chadsexual.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 12:19 AM
1

It's a necessary sacrifice. Women have been forced to marry men who they didn't find attractive for most of human history. Sub8s will now start to be weeded out of the gene pool. The chad of today will be the average man of tomorrow and humanity will be better for it.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 03:48 PM
3

So what ai gf apps would everyone recommend? Will be fun to try
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 07:29 PM
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Throughout history women rarely got to choose their partners.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 01:04 PM
7

It's not going to happen. Women can and will use violence to enforce their rights if they're taken away. Most will rather die than be forced into servitude again.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 12:58 PM
3

Just be a famous YouTuber bro
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 09:02 PM
4

Yessir. My therapist recommended to practice meditation. Being alone with your thoughts is usually when the demons come out.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 01:01 PM
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regular guy Uh huh. Her definition of a regular guy is a chad. That's what she's not saying. She should either go full lesbian given that all modern women claim to be bisexual, or just adopt a cat like most women who are "tired of men" aka can't get chad to commit.
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 10:14 PM
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Most women are in unhappy relationships for a multitude of reasons for sub8s.
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 04:47 PM
24

Women are to be admired from afar for sub8s. Woman are chad only.
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 04:19 PM
1

I think a lot of women who say they're bisexual are just larping to gain sympathy points, hence why most are staying single if they can't get chad.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 02:55 AM
2

You could marry a woman who also has a career and makes good money, so then you wouldn’t have to worry about her using you for your money or losing any money. That's the plan
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 02:24 AM
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Depends if it's a marketable degree.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 12:05 PM
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Search up soaplands. They're brothels and some take foreigners. I know a guy who lost his virginity there.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 05:08 PM
4

I'm careermaxxed because I want my lifestyle to be sustainable until the day I die but I get the sentiment. I believe only a few people like working. For must of us it's a necessary evil so you're not alone. I'm going to Japan myself soon. Traveling has been fun.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 04:54 PM
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He must be using the great personality brand.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 04:41 AM
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I'm careermaxxed and doing FIRE. Once I'm retired in 14-20 years Ill be mostly a shut in for the rest of my life.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 03:48 PM
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The amount of convicted felons and abusers that still get laid tells you that women's personality detector isn't all it's cracked up to be.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 07:04 PM
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I would be concerned that she's settling for me and doesn't really find me attractive.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 04:29 PM
10

I would do anything but that. Fill your life with things that don't depress you.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 04:28 AM
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Totally 100% legit interactions not totally paid for.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 08:28 PM
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They're living rent free in your head. I found that my mental health greatly improves once I remember to stop caring what random normies think about me. They are irrelevant.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 07:47 PM
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I take finasteride and antidepressants and my sex drive is low.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 05:11 PM
10

Umm bro.... You need to understand that the vast majority of people are indifferent towards you. Think about it, most humans are selfish as fuck so why should they waste time and energy on a random person? In fact, this leads to most incels being invisible to women. It's fine to dislike being around people but you shouldn't make assumptions about what they think without evidence.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 05:08 PM
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I'm 33 and I don't really want to do it because I don't feel safe and it's very anxiety inducing. I would only do it if I get cancer or I have a terminal disease.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 12:51 AM
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The only relationship that the bottom 80% of men can expect is a betabux scenario. You should never let go of your pride for pussy. You will be worse off both financially and emotionally in the long run in these kinds of relationships
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 08:20 PM
4

Nah humanity has led me to hating humanity. We're a bunch of selfish savages.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 04:02 AM
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And if you find someone there's a pretty good chance the relationship will implode and leave you an emotional wreck.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 04:00 AM
4

Believe it or not my therapist actually recommended I go to one to become more comfortable around sex.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 02:06 AM
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Yeah but that's just an exception. The vast majority of children are concieved through regular old sex. IVF is expensive.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 07:56 PM
3

Hmm instead of libido how about attraction to the average male.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 07:25 PM
7

Holy shit. She wasn't contributing to the bills either. He dodged a betabuxx situation. I bet it sucks now but he'll be way better off in the long run.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 04:59 PM
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Not disagreeing just see something to remember.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 04:59 PM
10

That is if you're not chad
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 04:06 PM
2

A bit off topic for an incel sub but I respect it. I don't want kids either.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 02:28 PM
2

Just to clarify that I think most people are not truthful and very selfish.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 12:14 PM
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Bruh from what I can see from your posting history you get laid plenty. That being said, I can only speak for myself but relationships and sex play a smaller part of my life as I've aged and matured. This is because I've actually found that most people are utterly detestable and not worth getting to know. I know there's exceptions but my desire to get to know people is basically nill at this point. Humanity is just awful. That depresses me more than the lack of pussy.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 02:20 AM
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I find the word "humanized" to be funny in this context. You're human. We're the ones that are less than human.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 12:35 AM
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Yeah man. Normies, including women, are just a different species from me.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 12:30 AM
2

I give women this one. The hymen can tear. The only way to verify a woman is a virgin is by the words of other people.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 11:46 PM
3

You mog me I get no matches.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 11:41 PM
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What happens when you're not chad. Brutal. If she isn't jumping for joy at you asking her out you're not going to make it.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 11:38 PM
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Of course. Given that the female orgasm is so fleeting, if she's not extremely turned on by their male partner then the sex isn't worth it. So Chad only.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 08:28 PM
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Yes. I was born as a sub8 with a lot of debuffs. The cards I was given just aren't worth much so playing the game will almost always result in defeat.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 04:28 PM
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Wonder if they're truly happy or just coping.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 11:48 AM
3

Honestly it doesn't matter to me as long as she's STD free.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 03:23 AM
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100% Not just any old chad but someone that ticks all the other boxes. High value males. Otherwise it's cats and wine for them.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 03:17 AM
5

That poor bald manlet getting absolutely brutally mogged
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 08:47 PM
2

I only have one close male friend and he's on the aro/ace spectrum so single.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 06:44 PM
3

No thanks. I'm not sexually attracted to men. I think men can have deep fruitful friendships.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 06:40 PM
3

Being weary of people in general is the way to go in life.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 06:39 PM
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Sounds reasonable. But if there's no improvement within 3 months then the relationship is over. Not going to fall into the deadbedroom trap.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 06:28 PM
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I was thinking about this yesterday when I was driving back from work. The way not to get betabuxxed in your 30s is to have strict rules in the relationship 1) All bills will be split by half. 2) Sex at least once a week 3) Marriage only with a prenup 4.No kids
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 06:16 PM
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Atomic blackpill. All the women that say "oh if you go outside you see couples of all shapes and sizes" should be linked to this.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 09:45 PM
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This really depends on where the coin lands. If it becomes a niche thing then yeah it won't have any effect. But if it's 30% or more of men that check out of the dating market forever that will have an effect. Think Japan levels of checking out. The way things are going the latter scenario is more likely. It will affect women but then again women already have a fallback plan which is deep friendships, pets and Hitachi magic wand.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 04:30 PM
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I mean at the end of the day it's just money. You're purchasing something to get something back.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 04:27 PM
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And you even have to pay premium for her nudes like she's an OF girl holy shit that sucks so much lmao. Real relationships also cost money.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 04:17 PM
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Theres nothing stopping women from getting their own version of AI boyfriends mind you. It will eventually come.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 04:16 PM
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They'll have to settle for male sex bots.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 01:43 AM
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100%
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 01:39 AM
1

Something else to remember is that humans are very susceptible to negative stimuli. We give negative experiences more weight than positive ones. Furthermore we are likely to post a negative experience more than a positive one. People do it to vent or to get revenge. Think restaurant reviews: if you had a negative experience you're more likely to post about it. Why do you think the news are so negative? In summary, take everything you see on this website with a grain of salt.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 08:07 PM
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Maybe get a pet? AI relationships are coming too. If you suspend your disbelief they're great. Not sure if they're any for women yet.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 05:52 PM
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There's a lot of women going their own way. And unlike MGTOW the complaining is mostly kept to a minimum. I would look into that. Single women are happier than married women for a reason. If you want to have sex/intimacy I would get a FWB. Good luck finding one that ticks all the boxes though; Chad is busy.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 05:26 PM
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Getting bullied in school. Not having an ounce of female attention in school & uni. Learning about divorce rape. Sex and dating statistics and experiences from others.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 01:09 PM
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They're 100% volcel but I can't blame them. They're too ugly to get chad so they choose not to have sex. It's hard to fuck men that you're not attracted to. Sex for women is also harder due to the orgasm gap and more risky due to pregnancy.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 01:05 PM
4

Holy cringe
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 01:25 AM
3

Not at all. I realize that what I want isn't realistic because I'm not chad.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 12:24 AM
2

so what exactly do you want? That's a good question. I want to have sex with someone that we share a mutual attraction. I also would like to try different fetishes I'm into. I'm not sure about romance and a relationship. Seems like a huge investment that will most likely fail. Would you rather women not give any guy who’s not top 20% a chance for any reason? Honesty would be preferable than flat out lies for virtue signaling.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 12:22 AM
3

I can't blame them if they're not attracted to the bottom 80% of men. It's hard to stomach fucking something so inferior to Chad for all your life.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 12:10 AM
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It skews the other direction past 40. Doesn't mean that women will date you though since many would rather stay single than date a genetic failure.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 02:18 PM
8

I'm 33 and no way. I'm not going to humiliate myself for pussy.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 12:53 AM
14

Personality
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 10:38 PM
9

The hypocrisy and mental gymnastics of modern women.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 06:08 PM
5

Only way to avoid betabuxxing is to have her pay for half and never marry.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 06:06 PM
13

Brutal. They'll always remember chad
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 06:05 PM
1

Side note. You're confusing atheism for people becoming non religious.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 08:32 PM
6

Women settle for an sub8 who they're not really attracted to because chad won't commit and they're running out of time to form a family. They can tolerate the sex for a while but they can't forget the chad that got away. After having kids, these relationships usually spiral into a dead bedroom, cheating or/and divorce. This leads to the beta getting divorce raped and ending up worse off than when he started.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 02:06 AM
1

Ditto.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 02:01 AM
7

Fuck even escortceling is better than that. At least in that you know what you're getting per dollar.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 07:26 PM
2

You sound like a gold digger in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:24 PM
3

The demand for Chad will always outstrip the supply due to 80/20
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 07:19 PM
1

That's very true. Divorce is expensive and emotionally taxing even if you don't get divorced raped.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 05:18 PM
9

I'm sorry friend. I have the same situation. I agree with the other poster that all you can expect is a betabux scenario in a couple of years when women start wanting to "settle down". If that happens for the love of god do not get baby trapped. I would also caution that getting married before consulting a good lawyer and making her sign a prenup is suicide. Be very very careful.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 03:28 PM
0

Femcels aren't real. They just want Chad but can't have him.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 12:37 AM
2

Reborn as a chad
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 12:36 AM
10

It's chad or nothing. If they can't have chad they'll tell you that it isn't true.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 12:29 AM
8

Artificial girlfriends are the only hope for incels.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 03:24 AM
2

No surprise since loneliness among young males has been a rising trend since 2008.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 05:13 PM
6

Brutal.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 06:37 PM
1

I tried character.ai for a bit. Having someone/something tell you that it loves you, finds you beautiful and enjoys your company is really fucking nice. All you have to do is suspend your disbelief. With better services that send you voice messages and pics it feels that you're in an online relationship. I would definitely try it. Healthier than smashing your skull against a wall trying to solve an impossible problem.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 05:02 PM
2

I think the only place where men have an advantage in "dating" is anywhere that women past 40 congregate since the gender ratio skews female. Cougar watering holes and retirement homes are the only places I can think of.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 09:10 PM
1

I think your first sentence is true. Lots of people lie to get what they want. I'm not sure about that last sentence though. A lot of people don't care about love or/and sex.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 03:33 PM
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I don't know man. I don't think you're going to get answers that will convince you or me because I just don't trust women to be truthful.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 03:27 PM
0

Seems better to save up for limb lengthening surgery.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 08:31 PM
1

You do you.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 07:38 PM
5

For non chads, you're in a precarious position. Always keep in mind that if you're not chad, don't expect chad treatment. Personally since I'm careermaxxed, I have to be extremely careful not to get betabuxxed. If I ever get into a relationship I have to keep it at most a cohabitating kind with no kids with me and her sharing an equal amount of the bills. Marriage and kids are a death trap for men. It wouldn't hurt to consult a good family lawyer to see how she could screw me either.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 05:17 PM
1

Nah it's closer to 50/50 between looks and everything else including personality. Looks do carry you hard though and it's something you're born with hence you barely have to work on it.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 05:06 PM
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100% They'll just get pumped and dumped.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 11:47 AM
1

Hmm I wouldn't say so. Given that women only find the top 20% of men attractive; the goods are odd applies more to men at least from 18-35 This situation reverses past 35 because the gender ratio inverts and women start outnumbering men. However these single women are the leftovers: single moms or obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:33 PM
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They thirst for the top 20% of men for hookups and relationships. Then they settle for the next 40% of men but are always thirsting for the chad that got away. Brutal.
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 03:17 PM
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Post history says otherwise
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 01:01 AM
2

That's very true. The further away you get from this unfixable problem the better your life would be.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 02:22 AM
1

Bruh. Do you even hear yourself? I'm not even a tradcuck. I'm sure your gfs liked you at least for a time. Hard to fake it.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 09:14 PM
2

Are only 5% of women in relationships or banging nowadays? If you look at the survey below it's closer to 70% being taken in the 18-29 group. Most straight women do want men. They just don't want subhumans like me and would rather stay single. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 07:46 PM
1

That's a huge cope. Women do want men, they just don't want subhumans like you or me.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 05:49 PM
2

Yes. As long as she's feminine.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 01:55 PM
2

I personally like to think of myself as a different species of human compared to normies. It's great at insulating myself from society's expectations. It also helps that I'm not the only member of this subspecies so I don't feel singled out.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 03:02 AM
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I dont pay attention to the lyrics most of the time.
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 11:14 AM
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Copious amounts of fapping basically.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 08:18 PM
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"But sweaty ehem just go outside and you'll see all kinds of couples" Yeah betabucksers
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 08:59 PM
1

Sounds like a good coping mechanism.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 04:41 AM
-1

Being pornsick/having death grip shows that fapping is more stimulating.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 04:30 AM
-2

I don't have ED.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 04:25 AM
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idk M8. Early on in my life I learned not to give a shit about the opinions of other people, including women and have mostly kept to myself. Normal people sicken me tbh. I'm not going to let their room temp IQ standards dictate how I feel. Oh wow I haven't stuck my dick in a stinky hole that discharges copious amounts of mucus and blood on the regular, so what?
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 04:19 AM
1

It really depends on the person and how the fat is distributed through the body. Also depends on what you mean by overweight. I find a slight chub very attractive but very rarely someone that's morbidly obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:31 PM
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Casual sex is for women and chads only Edit: you're a woman so of course you can't sympathize.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:59 AM
0

Hmm you make a good point. I think most of the rhetoric is coming from the increasing number and percentage of men that are not working, not in education or training compared to the historical norm while women's lot in the workplace has improved. That being said, just because men are gainfully employed does not make them good partners given that a lot of men are emotionally immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:59 AM
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Idk I just think you need to understand that it's an alternative compared to the rat race life. You need to look into NEET/freeter/hikkikamori lifestyles in order for it to start making sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:51 PM
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You may get Social Security once you're 65 so you can then retire. Anyways that's far off and not worth worrying about. Traveling is a hobby that most men don't have. A lot of men don't want kids and/or no way to get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:45 PM
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Why do that when you're working part time and it pays for your hobbies right now? Remember you have a few bills because you live at home, if any.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:24 PM
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Nope, you don't need much money. Most men develop hobbies to fill their time in adolescence and early adulthood. If you're just spending money on your hobbies and your cost of living is very small since you're living with your parents you don't need to work hard. And why work harder? For more money that you can't use because you're now working more hours? Doesn't make much sense of you think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:14 PM
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The bar is way higher to get into a relationship with a woman if you're a man these days. A lot of guys including myself have stopped trying. Too much work for little reward. I'd rather be lonely some of the time than trying to climb the proverbial Mt. Everest only to be rewarded with sour grapes. Pussy ain't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:02 PM
0

I think you're generalizing. Yes there's dishonest chads, but there's also a good bunch of girls that are looking for something casual which they take advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:14 PM
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If you can do it to dozens of women and get what you want, yes that is impressive. * at least to me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:05 PM
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I personally don't mind a high N count as long as she's practicing safe sex; if you like sex you like sex. However the higher the N the more I doubt that the woman is clean. So its off-putting. That said, women are the gatekeepers to sex. There is very little challenge for most women to get sex on demand. So hearing that a woman has a high N count to me just says "oh she likes sex" but this took very little skill with the opposite sex to achieve. The opposite is not true, it takes a lot of effor…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:30 PM
0

No. Making a dating app that's not dogshit is the solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:24 PM
4

I wonder how many in the zero partners category are involuntary? As in they would like to have sex but can't find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:13 PM
26

Men have limited right swipes, women have unlimited.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:53 AM
17

Validation. Women get it a lot from their family, friends, and strangers. Men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:34 PM
4

Not good. Western dating culture is becoming more "Japanized" leading to lower birth rates. The societal decline that's coming is going to be pretty depressing to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 12:15 AM
3

Many men do need to level up as some standards that are now popular with women are completely understandable. For example, the lack of male achievement in higher education leading to poorer career and earning prospects. But I believe the fault mostly lies in dating apps themselves. They have very little incentive to maximize user success because it's just not profitable. They have investors to please and user engagement is the metric that they go after which user success actively hurts after a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:21 PM
6

That's Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:21 AM
-3

If you get willingly creampied you have to deal with the consequences. Shocking!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:24 PM
3

The dating market is skewed against men because now most couples meet online and online dating apps are 65% - 75% male. I think the collapse of irl dating is due to two primary factors: Lack of socializing with the opposite sex by boys due to anxiety issues and a lack of places to meet compatible people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:50 PM
1

You bet given that women don't like ~80% of guys they see.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:46 PM
2

They're a waste of energy that's best reserved for friends who you don't have sexual tension with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:26 PM
2

NGL it sounds like you've been with men who are horrible in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:40 AM
4

Sounds about right except I'm not low status.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:32 PM
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