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LTR/MARRIAGEarabiandoll/r/RedPillWomen20/01/21 08:49 PM
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ADVICEarabiandoll/r/RedPillWomen08/02/21 07:20 PM
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Idk how no one is mentioning how men don’t have to fear for their safety anywhere as much as women. As a young woman, I literally have to be very cautious every where I go and still feel unsafe due to being the weaker sex (physically). Especially at night
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:11 AM
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I am immediately turned off. I like men very masculine and only attracted to women. The fact that he likes men is just soooo unattractive on a very instinctual level. Obviously I don’t care if someone is bi I just personally can never be attracted to that. It’s annoying that some people are calling that homophobia like straight people can’t have preferences that they can’t control.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:11 PM
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THANK YOU. like this mindset is so objectifying and weird. This is why it makes me so uncomfortable when older men are attracted to me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:39 AM
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Umm no… I’m a young woman myself and find it creepy and weird. And idk where you got the idea that men don’t lose their sex appeal with age. Never once in my life have I been attracted to a man over 30-35. Idk how in shape they are they’re old to me lmao. And 95% of girls my age agree with me. Young men are WAYYY hotter and more attractive than older men. The only reason women still date older men is because there are always exceptions to the rule, and then the obvious which is for their money. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:37 AM
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It’s the way you worded it that’s icky. It’s fine to have standards lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:50 PM
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Uhhh my own brother is like 18 and has been naturally big since he was 16. Some men are just tall and have big wide shoulders, arms etc. sorry lmao and I know a lot of men like this naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:07 PM
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Idk I just like big men. I guess genetics are important not just weight lifting. Some men are just naturally big :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:50 AM
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that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:58 PM
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i’m so confused though, what’s the difference between how a 21-23 year old looks and how a 18-20 year old looks? i’m 21 rn and people always assume i’m in high school (17-18) and it’s weird, like do y’all expect us to actually look different in our early 20s? this not only happens to me but literally ALL my friends that are ages 21-23, people always ask us what high school we go to and always tell us “oh i though you were 16-18”. like?? we don’t look that different lol we look the exact same.. j…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:09 PM
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wait… wym female women? is everyone ok like come on guys
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:32 AM
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you guys are over complicating it so much lol. it’s so simple. older guys like younger women because they’re usually a lot more attractive (not saying you can’t be attractive at an older age but for the most part this is true) and younger women like older men because of the recourses and their money. it’s only a problem when the older men think the younger women like them for them and not for the financial stability lol. older men seem to be in denial about the fact that they’re genuinely not th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:09 PM
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we don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:56 AM
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i have brothers and they’ve all been obsessive with women who are older than them multiple times, but you know what they all have in common? they’re beautiful and atttactive. irl men don’t give a shit about age they just want a beautiful woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:45 PM
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this is so weird like is it that much of a foreign concept to some men that women value sex too because… we get horny too? it’s not just something we give to someone it’s something we do because we enjoy it and want it too. like isn’t that common sense? and this is coming from someone who IS waiting for marriage but the way this is worded is so ignorant lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:54 AM
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This question makes me uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:16 PM
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That’s really not true, being kind is genuinely attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:45 AM
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No, like literally most men lmaoooo. Like even the ugliest most unattractive man was attractive to me in that phase , I was soooo horny. Thankfully that didn’t last too long haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:45 AM
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Lmao it’s true. In the very very rare times my sex drive was insanely high I was literally attracted to most men. That lasted for a very short period of time though and I’m back to being attracted to like, 9% of men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:03 PM
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idk as a women getting literally all those things from family and friends doesn’t replace having a man in my life at all. i still want a man, and pretty much all i want in life is to have babies and have a husband so yeah, i can’t have babies and a family without. a husband
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:55 AM
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i’m not joking, if this has been a pattern for you it means that you’re bad at sex. trust me this is the only real explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:51 AM
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i know but i just can’t imagine how shattered i’d be. like i feel so sorry for anyone who’s had to go through this with someone they genuinely loved
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:46 PM
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this topic gives me so much anxiety my biggest fear is getting cheated on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:40 PM
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that’s so stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:27 PM
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how so? you’re close minded and don’t understand how sexuality works. do homophobic people even still exist? gay / bi people exist, idc it’s just their sexuality and i respect it. who cares, i’m just not attracted to a man who’s attracted to dick . just so you know , even IF i was homophobic i wouldn’t be able to control what i’m attracted to. that’s not something i can control. so how does something that’s completely out of my control mean i’m homophobic?? it makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:09 AM
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i don’t want to date a man who likes dick. it’s that simple, i would be soooo turned off and weirded out if i tried dating a guy who likes men too. nothing against ppl of any sexual orientation obviously but i am not attracted to bisexual men at all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:28 PM
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no and i would never do that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:56 AM
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wrong about what? as a woman i can tell you i will not date or even consider dating a guy who’s not physically good looking to me. it’s a HUGE deal and effects everything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:52 AM
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as a 20 year old girl who’s attracted to men literally anywhere from 24-55 depending on the person. USUALLY the men i find attractive are 24-27. men of all ages flirt with me so i assume men are mostly attracted to younger women. it’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:53 PM
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idk, i had a healthy childhood and was never abused but that’s still what turns me on and still what i desire from a man. like i literally want to be abused during sex and a man being violent turns me on, like ssooo much. i was literally watching tv yesterday and a scene with violence came on and i suddenly get wet and turned on lmao. i guess it sounds crazy but it’s true and i’m just a normal girl so idk where it comes from. i think women just like being dominated by a strong man.. it makes us …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:23 PM
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that’s not true lmao. you make it sound like straight people are attracted to literally anyone of the opposite gender and have to constantly control their urges around each other 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:02 AM
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i RARELY meet or see men i’m attracted to. maybe a few times a year😅 but i am picky compared to most girls most of my friends aren’t like this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 07:08 PM
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LMAOOO for real
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 06:53 PM
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just out of curiosity, why would a guy in his 40s be interested in a girl that young? are 20-25 year olds more attractive to you than older women? does it not feel weird that they could be your own childs age? just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 05:03 AM
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lol ok, well i hope you turn out to be right and get to talk to her next time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 05:01 AM
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men worship sex. not women. and btw, women (as one myself) know that men will fuck anything with a vagina. we don’t take it as a compliment at all when we get attention from men, because we know y’all are just desperate for sex. i’ve been treated very nicely by men and treated completely differently the second they find out i’m married. we aren’t stupid, we know men are just horny lmao. also, it’s not as extreme irl as you are making it seem. i see men daily treating women the exact same way the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:54 AM
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lmao trust me your making stuff up in your head. i can guarantee that she probably just accidentally made eye contact with you and didn’t even realize that she did. this is why women have to be mean to men because y’all will consider ANYTHING flirting, in your case her looking in your direction is flirting to you. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:48 AM
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idk where you live. that’s not true, i have guys talking to me sometimes that are clearly just being friendly. the only guys who think like this are on reddit, irl it’s not like this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:44 AM
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honestly i’m sorry but i can’t answer most of these questions because i genuinely don’t know how to. i hope someone can it explain it to you do you watch porn btw? it’s weird that you aren’t asexual but have no desire to actually have sex. i’m not judging at all, it’s just strange to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:19 AM
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um this is a weird question to me. i can’t imagine being satisfied with life without a long term partner. and are you really asking why people want sex?? that’s like asking why people want to eat. it’s something we can’t control, we feel sexual desires and want to have sex because it’s something we naturally crave. are you sure you’re not asexual? it’s not even just because we want sex itself but because of the intimacy that comes with it. i want a husband because that would make me happy. like …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:59 AM
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then why are you on it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 12:37 AM
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i get stared at and even followed more than i get approached. i will say though i have gotten a few random marriage proposals by men saying i am very beautiful and want to marry me.. it’s weird because my other female friends have never experienced this even though i’d say they’re quite pretty and everyone is always surprised when i tell them this happens to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 12:35 AM
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why lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 12:29 AM
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i have a brother and his life is significantly easier and better than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:50 AM
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11 is the only good looking one (i’m a woman) if your wife can’t see that the only explanation is that she’s kinda racist / colorist tbh. he has very good and attractive features . the rest are all mostly average to me, some below. edit : oh and 3 is good looking but definitely not a 9, he doesn’t look masculine enough. id say he’s a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:57 PM
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exactly. it’s not as simple as “men are horny women are not”. our sexuality’s are just different. what makes us feel desire isn’t the same as what makes men feel it. we’re just different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:43 AM
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i’m confused does this genuinely apply to all men? i’m not bragging but i am objectively above average (nothing crazy but i am pretty) and have a few male friends and they all treat me like they would any other friend. i really can’t imagine them thinking of me in a sexual way at all. how do you know all men are like this? genuinely curious because as a woman i’m only gonna be attracted to like 1 out of every 10 men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:23 AM
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EXACTLY lmao not makeup. this is why so many women i know are getting plastic surgery. makeup isn’t enough at all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:02 AM
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this only works on some type of flaws.. like flaws that involve skin and hair stuff. is there a way to hide a huge hooked nose? a recessed chin? a long midface? a tiny narrow mouth? huge cheeks? no lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:19 AM
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honestly as a woman HOW?? how can they do that. i’m already a pretty girl but not a 10 and if i can use MAKEUP to become a 10 just please teach me how lmao. i’ve personally never seen it happen (and i have friends who are MUAs) and haven’t been able to do it but if there’s a way i’d love to know how.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:58 AM
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dude this person said it HIDES their flaws and makes them 3-4 points more attractive. that’s not the same as it making us a prettier version of oursleves
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:57 AM
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can you not read lmao? i stated already that this is only possible on camera and i stand by that. it’s true. this shit wouldn’t work in real life lmao. it is hilarious how ignorant men are about this . OH how i wish it was that easy😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:29 AM
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it makes us a prettier version of ourselves, you know what i mean?? like it makes my lashes look longer and my skin look clearer but my features are still my features. my friends with big noses and are literal makeup artists STILL have big noses with makeup, they still have whatever flaws they have even with makeup. they just look like the best version of THEMSELVES but in no way are in competition with an actual pretty girl who’s pretty because her actual features are pretty and makeup only enh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:13 AM
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oh my god men really think women can “disguise” their flaws with makeup. no they can’t lmao. if it were that easy no woman would 1) have self esteem issues 2) get/want to get plastic surgery. i cannot think of one flaw you can hide with makeup. it’s literally just colors it doesn’t change your facial features and proportions and sizes of your features. men are so stupid about this stuff it’s unbelievable. please these pictures are just pictures. makeup only changes your face on camera. because y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 11:39 PM
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oh my god. no woman wants a “pretty” man. ok some do .. but most women aren’t really attracted to that. what makes a man attractive is not the same as what makes a woman attractive lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:03 AM
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oh sorry i’m new here lmao. i’ll delete it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:56 PM
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no. i’m 20 and older men are more attractive to me. men (boys to me lol) in their 20s are so unattractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:07 PM
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Wow this is so beautiful
/r/RedPillWives27/09/21 12:20 AM
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I'm a girl and same, most women don't want to be tall. We want a tall man BECAUSE we want a big height difference. Women thinking men like taller women is just inaccurate imo
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/21 06:48 PM
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Hey, I’m really curious about how you wear your scarf, do you have any pics(not of you ofc, just of the same style)? Thanks :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/21 11:56 AM
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He’s calling you a sex addict bc you want sex with your HUSBAND more than less than once a month??? Not only is he not meeting your most basic needs , he’s making you feel crazy for being human and shaming you. Can you live like this? It doesn’t sound like he even cares enough to try to fix the problem. That is very heartbreaking and unhealthy I would leave.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/21 07:45 PM
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You’re the crazy one here lmao. There’s enough blood to soak a t shirt and you don’t even know where it’s coming from and you didn’t freak out? He’s the one who should be concerned lol Also if you expect a man to not have emotions don’t get married. They’re human too
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/21 09:51 AM
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Yeah I randomly got banned too lmao
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 10:23 PM
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Washing the dishes in a sensual way? What?
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/21 02:43 AM
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tbh I’m so worried this will happen to me when I get married. I have no advice but I’m so sorry you’re going through this, it must suck:(
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/21 05:24 AM
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Are you ok? I literally said I don’t disagree, and it doesn’t make me uncomfortable, i just turned 19 myself. It’s a fact that men of all ages are attracted to young women and I’m not denying it lol. But the way you DESCRIBED it made me cringe, that is just how I felt.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 07:53 AM
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That’s not true. I know a woman who is in her mid 40s who still has men obsessed with her and chasing her. All you have to do is not be desperate, be fit, take care of your appearance aka be pretty and be feminine and soft. Obviously there would be more options if you were younger but don’t worry I promise that it’s not too late if you just get it together. But if you’re desperate and anxious about it it’s never gonna happen. The type of men who are around 30 and want to marry a 20 yr old are no…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 07:47 AM
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I’m not saying men aren’t attracted to 18 yr olds and even younger if they’re sexually developed and attractive but the way you talk about it is beyond cringe. Ew
/r/askTRP13/02/21 07:42 AM
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If she’s Muslim she most likely only dates Muslim men anyway. I believe she’s using a Muslim dating app
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/21 03:43 AM
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My aunt has this and I while it makes her life harder it’s no where near over! She’s happy overall
/r/RedPillWives11/02/21 09:58 PM
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Ouch, that hurt to read. I’m scared this will happen to me. :( seriously I get your pain like that is genuinely a horrible place to be. Have you tried anything to fix your problem? Have you seen a doctor about it, it could be a hormonal thing? Ugh I would hate to be like this for any more time
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 05:21 PM
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Yeah I’m pretty sure it is. I thought posting here would help but barely anyone replied lol
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 06:49 AM
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I don’t have any health issues though (checked a few months ago for another reason) and literally no other symptoms, this is the only new thing. As I said I honestly think it’s a mental thing because I kept overthinking it so much that I created a mental blockage. Did your sex drive come back or was there a reason that it dropped? Also I honestly think the more pressure you place on something to happen the less likely it will happen, same thing with your sex drive.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 03:32 AM
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Thank you, while I 100% agree with you and everything you said, I still don’t see what’s wrong with trying to get back in touch with my sexuality? Yes I obviously shouldn’t depend on that to feel like myself and i definitely worked on that and will continue to, but I still believe it’s an important part of a relationship / life even and I want to work on getting it back. Should I just let it go and let it come back naturally?
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/21 10:35 PM
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Wow. I would never spend a minute with a man like that. He’s obviously not a provider, and sounds extremely stingy. I’m so sorry
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 07:44 PM
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What’s wrong with that?
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 07:05 PM
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Umm.. that sounds very feminist. There’s nothing wrong with a man not being comfortable with his girlfriend/wife having male friends. In fact it’s healthy and normal and if my man was okay with that I wouldn’t be with him. It has nothing to do with trust, men with healthy levels of testosterone are just usually protective and possessive over their women and feminine women crave that. I want a man to be jealous and protective of me, I don’t want him to be cool with me hanging out with another man…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/21 07:05 AM
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Really? Are you a man? Because most men seem to care much more about the face when it’s for a long term relationship. I personally have an above average face and slim body but very small boobs which isn’t ideal for men but my man gets really turned on by seeing them and it’s really not causing any problems at all. Maybe SOME men absolutely need a woman to have a perfect body and that’s valid but most men don’t seem to care that much. I don’t think it’s a losing game, or by that logic 99% of wome…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/21 02:34 AM
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An average woman’s body is attractive to 99% of men (if it’s healthy/slim) most women who aren’t overweight are sexy to men and have some curves. A rectangle body shape is rare for a woman to have. Most of us are pear/hourglass. When I say men would choose a pretty face over a curvy body I mean most men would choose a woman with an above average face and average body (which is still attractive and when it’s attached to a gorgeous face it seems more attractive) than an average face with a very cu…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/21 02:13 AM
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I’m 19 and when I think about sex I definitely fantasize about it being with an older man like mid to late 30s. I am not attracted to them in any other way nor would I date them (for many reasons) so idk tbh
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/21 10:55 AM
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Thank you for your advice. But why 2 goes?
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/21 01:58 AM
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I disagree. Like really, really, disagree.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/21 01:51 AM
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I went through the EXACT same thing. My ex made me think I was asexual too, turns out I love sex, just not with short feminine men 😂
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/21 01:48 AM
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What are the reasons?
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/21 01:32 AM
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I feel so bad for short men though. Like you can control not being obese but there’s nothing you can do to become taller. I don’t think short men are invisible though unless their really short, like 5’5 or below. Although my brother is 5’5 and women have been interested in him. Could be his beard. Idk.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/21 12:35 AM
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That actually sounds like really good advice. Thank you so much ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/21 12:12 AM
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I actually know some that I would’ve never guessed were not real. Maybe you do too but you just don’t know they got plastic surgery bc you can’t tell
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/21 07:38 PM
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I think if you’re overweight enough you become invisible to most men. The bare minimum is being a healthy weight. What makes a “hot” body for men is the amount of curves. A rectangle shaped body with wide shoulders and no boobs or butt is not the same as a girl the same exact weight but more curves and feminine bone structure. And I 100% think that a pretty face is more valuable to men than the curvy body, but it’s definitely a plus. Also, if you store most of your fat in your hips, butt, and bo…
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/21 07:11 PM
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I’ve seen girls going from literally ugly (and I don’t use that word a lot) to drop dead gorgeous with plastic surgery, don’t underestimate it lol
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/21 07:03 PM
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I personally wouldn’t want to date a man with many female friends. From my experience men with many/mostly female friends are very very feminine and not the type I’m attracted to anyway. The type of masculine men I’m attracted to wouldn’t even want a female friend
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/21 03:21 AM
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5’11 for men isn’t average, it’s above average in most places at least
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/20 05:10 AM
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Oh I’m so sorry! These are my beliefs and I didn’t know they were anti rpw. I apologize, I’m definitely still learning <3
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/20 05:51 AM
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I’m sorry I’m asking so many questions, but I’m surprised that both of the men that answered know that ig models pictures are edited and not real- do most men know this?
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/20 01:30 AM
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I mean it would make sense for men to like bigger butts and breasts .. usually a thin women isn’t gonna have these things. Also celebs and ig models are usually thicker and a lot of men follow them so Idk I always thought that men prefer women like this.. I thought it was more feminine. I’ve actually been trying to gain weight because of this but it hasn’t been working haha. So you’re saying most men prefer a thinner woman without much curves to a heavier (overweight but not obese) woman with a …
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/20 07:00 PM
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Do men really notice a difference THAT small? And I thought they liked boobs and butts? Obv both these things will be very small at such a low weight ?
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/20 06:28 PM
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That reminds me of this one time I went out with my friend who has a really pretty face but is overweight. I am pretty thin and I got a lot of attention while she got none. I was truly confused because she’s very pretty but I guess that’s why
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/20 06:25 PM
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I’m interested in this too. I’m confused lately because Ive always thought men preferred curvier, thicker women but apparently women get more attention when they’re thinner. So idk
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/20 05:26 PM
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In my culture I am considered very beautiful. I am ALWAYS praised for my beauty, and people always tell me about other people bringing my up in convos and saying I’m the most beautiful girl they know. The call me a “beauty queen”. However I am so insecure and trying soooo hard to fix this. I think it’s because I am valued so much for my beauty that I am extra conscious about it. I see every little flaw that I have and obsess over it. I am always afraid that one day they’ll see me and think “actu…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/20 09:52 PM
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I agree 100%
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/20 06:39 AM
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No it isn’t black or white. He wants to have kids with you and he probably wants to marry you. The fact that you’re pressuring him is probably what’s making it hard for him. You need to get into your feminine energy. Stop pressuring him, even if you don’t say anything, literally let go of any expectations, he will feel it when you truly do. Please don’t “hint”. Men don’t do things when someone pressures them especially if it’s their woman. But at the same time stop giving him wife benefits. But …
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/20 05:53 AM
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It’s really hard for internet strangers to give you answers for questions like this even with the information that you give. Trust your gut.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/20 01:37 AM
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I personally think there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it, just take your time getting to know him a little while being engaged (before you get married. I honestly don’t believe that it’s necessary to spend too much time getting to know someone before getting married, you’ll always know from the first few meetings if you’re compatible or not, and if you have that connection. Your intuition will know. I am Arab (this is common in my culture) I know a lot of people who met like this and they are…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/20 07:35 PM
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Yes IMO the way you describe it does sound masculine, I understand what you mean. There is this YouTuber that speaks about feminine sexuality and feminine energy that I believe would help you, I personally haven’t watched much of her vids bc they don’t help me but they may help you. I will try to find her channels name and be back!
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 07:17 AM
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Oh okay. Thank you for this explanation, I might have to work on this mental blockage then in case this comes up for me too. But I feel like at a core level I feel disgust and absolutely turned off by the idea of a man wanting to be submissive in this way. I’m okay with being dominant every once in a while but for him to be feminine/ want to be humiliated is too much to me. If this ever came up in my relationship I wouldn’t be able to respect my parter or be fully attracted to him anymore. Do mo…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 04:17 AM
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I- this kink in men is common? Where did you get this information from? (Please be wrong)
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 12:12 AM
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Lol I am sure my SO doesn’t but now I am a liiitttttllleee worried since this guy hid it so well.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 11:58 PM
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Can I ask what the signs were?
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 07:54 PM
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Also I want to add that it IS normal for men to have the desire to look at other women, it doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you or anything like that. It makes us feel insecure but they’re usually not comparing us or anything they just see a hot woman and it’s their instinct to look and they usually forget about it 2 seconds later. But it’s just disrespectful especially when he does it in front of you. Imo if a man truly respects you he would stop doing it at least not in front of you
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/20 05:39 PM
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It is extremely disrespectful imo. I would tell him exactly how you feel. I would say “I feel so jealous and hurt when you look at other women” and “I feel so disrespected and betrayed when you do this” but that’s it. Don’t tell him to stop. Just express how you feel and refuse to be in the same place as him when he does something like this. Like literally get up and go somewhere else (if that would make you feel more comfortable, that’s just what I would do)
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/20 05:35 PM
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Yes, but you should never debate a man (that you are interested in) other than that it’s fine.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/20 01:17 AM
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you’re in the wrong place :) nothing wrong with depending on a man.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/20 11:40 PM
2

Yea this is def not the feminine energy that attracts men. This is nurturing energy which you should save for your future kids or kids in general
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/20 02:53 AM
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Feminine does not equal nice. I recommend Adrienne ever heart on YouTube she def helps explain this. It seems like she’ll help your problem. Also again femininity does NOT equal nice lol. It has absolutely nothing to do with it. I believe that your problem is probably too much masculine energy tbh so she will help you ALOT
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/20 02:51 AM
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Men think all women are sexy? Lmao how do you know this?
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/20 02:43 AM
2

Honestly I struggled with the same thing. I started learning about femininity when I was 17 (I’m 19 now) and I’m just starting to genuinely act and BE feminine. I was so much in my masculine in my teen years (just like you if not more) it takes a lot of practice. But you need to put in effort. Keep reminding yourself daily of the changes you want to make. Trust me it WILL take time. But it’s worth it!! For example I had to keep reminding myself to keep my voice volume low and pleasant and soft i…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/20 07:46 AM
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