araisbec Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	The "Dating Market" is not broken - the rules have changed.		araisbec	/r/seduction	07/03/18 07:12 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Is it normal as a man for girls to NEVER flirt with you or express interest in you? I would never expect this - not unless your very attractive, or have some other defining characteristic that makes you an outlier. The most important thing with women is confidence - by far. You want to be careful not to take this mentality too far, and develop low self esteem, because women seem to smell that shit a mile away. Me in high school 100%. I would focus on just being you. Try to talk to women at some parties, joke around, and keep things light-hearted. I’ll be nervous as shit, but as…	/r/seduction	24/11/18 11:38 PM
1	Great sex with previous casual partners, can't stay erect with gf (a 10) End it dude - you clearly are not compatible if you have to think/worry this much about it. The fact she gave you “expectations” based on her ex is just weird, too. I know she’s hot - many great men have faced this dilemma before you. Not worth it.	/r/seduction	22/08/18 12:28 PM
4	Seduce her with your eyes! Can confirm this works. The trick is to open your eyes as much as you can, stare directly at her cleavage while remaining otherwise expressionless, and halt all attempts at conversation.	/r/seduction	26/02/18 02:33 PM
1	28 years old female virgin I have no idea why you've posted this on the seduction board on reddit... but I truly feel for you. Ideologies can be so incredibly damaging in this way. As others have said, find a therapist you can trust, and speak with them about it. I would advise you put the relationships on hold until you are able to do this. The old saying "You cannot love someone until you love yourself" is very true, and is something I am realizing myself at this moment. I also have no problem attracting people, but ult…	/r/seduction	29/11/17 10:07 PM
18	How are you supposed to have an "interesting life" when you have to work and go to school full time? You really don't need an interesting life. You just need to BE interesting. Obviously having an interesting life helps, but it is not required. I have a fairly mundane office-job lifestyle, but I can make conversation like a motherfucker. I keep up to date on as much stuff as I can, and always have opinions on basically everything. I do alright. Just talk about stuff that interests you, and explore her thoughts on said topics. Or vice versa? Also, just because you don't do much in the way of int…	/r/seduction	27/11/17 06:05 PM
0	Do guys appreciate girls asking them out? Honestly, it really depends on the guy. For instance, 10 years ago, I would have loved it if a girl asked me out. Nowadays, for better or for worse (more-than-likely worse), I've realized that I'm most attracted to the hard-to-get types, and I struggle with women who are very lovey-dovey, etc... no idea why. That being said, if you approached it as an offer, jut through it up on the table directly to him, and managed to keep it very point-blank and emotionally neutral, I think that would be very…	/r/seduction	03/05/17 12:30 PM
3	I AMA former sex addict, who initially didn't get too much action. AMA You're only being pissy because he gets laid more then you lol...	/r/seduction	06/12/13 10:28 PM
3	I'm curious what's the most common mistakes are Failing to speak english.	/r/seduction	23/11/13 11:55 PM
3	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/22/13 It means that she doesn't want it to be a date, for whatever reason. Or, she doesn't realize that it was supposed to be one in the first place...	/r/seduction	22/11/13 10:38 PM
2	[FR] Prom Night...I failed I don't post here, and am not into the whole PUA thing, but I would advise you to move on. She made out with your friend when you were right there, and when you asked her if she was ok she grumbled and walked away. I dont know you, but (and a looot of guys tend to do this) I personally used to misinterpret girls being nice or just polite to me as interest in me. From my interpretation, you are a friend to her. It also does not help that your good friend dated her, and there are still emotions th…	/r/seduction	10/06/13 01:42 AM