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If she wanted to keep in touch with you, she would have given you her number or gotten yours. She didn't accidentally leave without trading contact information bruh.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 12:37 AM
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Have the one night stand first. Then worry about bullshit like ths. You "scratch the surface" and get to know a woman you are ALREADY fucking a little better. If you "scratch the surface" of a woman you aren't fucking yet, you're being weird. If you're on a first date with a woman, don't be an adversarial dick. Make fun and light small talk. Be fun. Flirt, banter, turn things sexual. Show her you know the game. Fuck her brains out. And maybe later worry about getting to know her. Because worryin…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/21 12:31 AM
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The issue is deeper than some guy named Rollo trying to make money, or some guy called MGTOW trying to sell a book or belong to a community. The issue is doubt. Or maybe hope. Or probably both. Some men have begun to recognize that the world is not fair or easy, or at least not as fair and easy for them as it is for most women. This has resulted in a society where women behave badly, or if not badly, at least not in a way that these men like. Not because they are evil, but because they simply ar…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/21 07:34 PM
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Not every week will go as well as your first week. There will be times when you can't get laid for months, all of your friends are losers, and you'll feel unmotivated to go to the gym and have to force yourself. There will be the week you lose your job, the week you're not thinking and say something that outs you to an important social circle as a non-progressive conservative thinker who thinks fulfilling the male gender role is okay, the week you actually like a girl and think she's a little be…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/21 06:06 PM
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A bigger problem than the fact that you're wasting your time is that women see logic as being try-hard and showing weakness. When you use a lot of words and facts and logic to try to convince a woman of something, it doesn't matter if you're right or not. The fact that you're putting so much effort into trying to convince her makes her think you're wrong. Otherwise, why would you be trying so hard to trick her into thinking that. Because for her, the "truth" is just something she feels and knows…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/21 03:46 PM
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That's a really interesting thought. Jeff Bezos has done more for the world than Mother Teresa ever did. Which makes it seem like Mother Teresa is celebrated and Jeff Bezos vilified, not for what they've done for people, but for whether or not they lived a wealthy life. Society doesn't celebrate virtue. It hates wealth and success.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/21 04:23 PM
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It's not that simple. Women do not intentionally marry a wuss that they do not like and do not want to have sex with, all so they can push him around and spend his money and cackle about never fucking him. Women do not actually want to be married to a guy they don't want to fuck. That is not a good experience for them, no matter how rich the guy is. They really do enter into a marriage with the best intentions of trying to make things work and trying to be happy, and even are happy for a short t…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/21 09:23 PM
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This situation does not happen because women are greedily waiting to steal your life's work, which they feel entitled to. It's that women just don't understand life. Women don't work very hard. They gravitate toward activities and jobs that come easily to them. When they go out to meet men, they pretty much just put on a dress and sit around waiting to be hit on while they enjoy free drinks. If they want to look good enough to fuck, all they have to do is not be too fat. In a woman's mind, she c…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/21 09:05 PM
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That's the pedestal part. This notion that relationships are something special, and treating them as some temporary sex arrangement is dishonorable. Bad integrity. When you say the relationship words to a woman, all either of you are really saying is "Right now, this minute, it is my current intention to make an effort to have sex with just you as long as you are making the same promise to me." It is our own minds pedestalizing relationships as something special that add all of these other promi…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/21 02:18 PM
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It sounds like we agree more than we disagree, but there's some hangup between having sex with a woman you're stringing along without saying the words, and having sex with a woman you said the words to then dumping her next week. What's the difference?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/21 06:25 PM
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if you are going to cheat then there is no point of getting into a committed relationship If she won't have sex with you outside of a relationship and will have sex with you in a relationship, then saying yes to the relationship gets you laid. You can dump her next week. It takes five seconds. If you don't want to cheat on her, just send her a text dumping her before you hook up with your next woman. It would make more sense to be in an open relationship Not all women will overtly agree to an op…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/21 06:12 PM
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True. But if you are going to cheat, then why get into a monogamous relationship? And ghosting is for children. This is the part I'd equate with putting the concept of relationships on a pedestal. I see it a lot around here. Guys thinking that giving a woman a relationship status is a big deal when literally it's just words that take five seconds to undo whenever you want. It's not some kind of big sacrifice or investment. If you think a girl is kind of okay and she wants to be your girlfriend, …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/21 05:52 PM
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This post is putting the concept of "relationships" on a pedestal. Think about relationships more in terms of sexual strategy for men than in terms of what you're awarding to a woman. If you have a "relationship", you pretty much get to have sex 3-4 times a week. You're not married. You don't live with a girl. You can dump the girl any time with a five-second text message. Or cheat on her or just ghost. So really all you've done to make a "relationship" is say words to her. If you don't have a "…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/21 05:09 PM
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What are you “paying”? What is a “relationship” if you really think about it? A relationship is just you and some girl saying you will only have sex with each other. It takes 2 seconds to end a relationship. Plus people cheat or just ghost all the time. If you are an average guy who isn’t good enough to be part of the casual sex scene, why be celibate on principal over some stupid notion that you don’t want to “pay” or “invest” in a slut? Go on dates. Have the “relationship”. And have sex. Just …
/r/TheRedPill03/04/21 01:28 PM
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The fact that someone showed up and starts some defend-the-women and tell us how to be better men comment with "as a woman..." and gets this much attention from so-called Red Pill men is pretty funny. Watching all of these cool alpha males rush to debate a woman on the internet and show her up and prove their righteousness and tell her what's what isn't a good look.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/21 07:03 PM
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Did you read the post? Literally the entire premise is that it's okay to use relationships to meet your sexual needs instead of doggedly insisting on only understood casual encounters.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/21 01:58 PM
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This Huel stuff is especially toxic. It's all pea and rice protein (because that's cheaper than egg or whey), which gives most guys serious digestive issues and has an inefficient mix of amino acids. To make you full after drinking this bloaty shit, they add fat. Mostly shitty fats from sunflower seeds and flax. Then, the bulk of the stuff is filler - ground oats. Because feeding you like you're a horse is really cheap. Though that doesn't stop them from charging you like you're buying a premium…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 09:02 PM
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The more common story is that the average guy (let's say 50th percentile) hits the gym and grooms better and gets a little more confident and becomes slightly better than average (let's say 60th percentile). He's still not hot, just a little above average, and he still doesn't know the casual sex scene or how to play the game. In fact, he's completely inexperienced at it and is sending all the wrong signals. So at least for now, he's still failing at getting laid even though he's made some great…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 08:57 PM
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A barely-average looking "beta" guy who tries to act like an "alpha" doesn't get laid. He's creepy and women think he's an ass. A man needs to know where he stands. If you look just average and your game is only so-so and women aren't hooking up with you readily, don't be celibate on principle. Go on dates with women, start "relationships" if needed, and have sex. Just have reasonable expectations and be realistic about what's really going on: this is a temporary relationship with an incompatibl…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 07:42 PM
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This is exactly how it works. With rare exception, women do not overtly hit on a guy (it happens sometimes, but that's a lot less common). Instead, women signal their availability. This is not some unconscious thing either. Women deliberately look at a guy a certain way, sit a certain way that shows things off, etc., and it is not an unconscious attraction thing. She is making a deliberate invitation. If a girl hasn't seen you yet and you can catch her eye, you'll know in 2 seconds whether you'r…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 07:35 PM
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So... do bodyweight exercises from YouTube and swap out your healthy chicken, rice, and broccoli meals with oat-and-protein powder shakes you sometimes see in Facebook ads. April fools?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 07:28 PM
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It's true that you don't have to be some kind of male magazine model with an athlete physique to have causal sex. Generally, you just have to be a little bit better than average. Let's say maybe 60th percentile? But you also have to know the game and how the casual scene works, which most average-ish guys who hit the gym and became a little bit above average don't know and have to make a little effort to learn. If you are just average, not slightly above, or you're really unfamiliar with the cas…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 02:39 PM
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I call bull. You are not a girl. Show tits to prove it.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 02:36 PM
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It is very true that a girl will often prefer to hook up with an ex boyfriend or a previous casual partner than a random stranger from a bar. She already knows the previous partner is safe and okay in bed. But when none of those guys are around or suitable, a girl with a less restrictive sociosexual orientation is usually happy to scratch the itch as best she can through Tinder or a new guy she meets at a bar. The attention and the lead-up and the newness can be just as exciting for a girl as th…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 02:36 PM
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Most guys, "blue pill" or "red pill", are average-ish guys. And most average guys have a hard time getting a woman to have casual sex with them, but a much, much easier time getting a woman to have sex with them during a relationship. Wherever a guy is in the red pill stages of learning, he needs to be realistic. Insisting that a woman have some kind of understood casual relationship with him when he is only average is not realistic most of the time for most women. He will fail. But having a rel…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 02:32 PM
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You would be shocked how often the nerdy, plain-looking girl in your math class is having casual sex on the down-low. Unless she is legitimately ugly. Maybe not in high school, but in college? In her 20s and 30s as a professional working woman in a world with Tinder? The number of plain-looking girls with fuck buddies is astronomical, and I'd be careful assuming some plain-looking "Sally" you meet is different. You may be in for a surprise.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 09:58 PM
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It's a dumb idea. It's trying to turn vague things like "I'm a little above average looking with decent game and lots of confidence and she is really hot and lots of guys keep talking to her" into some kind of number representing how "accessible" you think she might be. And that number just plain doesn't represent shit. Because maybe the most normally accessible girl in the room to you just lost her dog and she's not going to talk to you at all. Or maybe she's the type who needs a good hard fuck…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/21 07:06 PM
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What's the in between? She doesn't fuck you and goes home with someone else, but at least she wasn't a total bitch to you and talked to you pleasantly for 2 minutes, so you can go home and jerk off thinking about her? I'd just mark that one down as a 0, too.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/21 05:43 PM
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The "accessibility" of a woman to a man is 0 or 1. She's down to fuck you or she isn't. You figure this out by talking to a woman. You have no way of knowing whether a woman who is completely in your league and might have fucked you isn't going to tonight because her dad died, or whether a really hot woman who's normally a good girl and normally wouldn't fuck you just broke up with her boyfriend and is looking for rebound sex. This isn't really a 1-10 scale with a bunch of rules about confidence…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/21 02:28 PM
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Unfortunately, some goals are better than others. The idea that "I am miserable because although my life is very successful, I have smarts, money, hobbies, and enjoy myself okay, and I am even able to have sex with women, my life is empty without a committed long term relationship with a woman that eventually leads to marriage" doesn't mean The Red Pill isn't for you. It just means you haven't realized that your goal is to play the lottery. This guy "Brian" is fixated on a certain win-condition …
/r/TheRedPill24/03/21 05:46 PM
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This may not be who you are, but maybe it’s who you should have been. Women are sex. That’s not just their purpose. It’s literally what they are. Every moment of their lives is defined completely by who they’re fucking, who they’re trying to fuck, and who’s trying to fuck them. Every other aspect of their lives is just background to either pass time or help them fuck the right people. You want a meaningful relationship with a woman because you don’t understand that women are sex. You want a seco…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 09:18 AM
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This won't get far if they charge for background checks. No woman is going to pay for that More likely, the system will pass the cost of background checks on to men - something like men pay a fee to make their background check results accessible to a certain number of women. Or just require men to pass a background check to participate at all. And not today, not at first, but down the line, things like where you work and what you've posted on social media will be part of what gets found out in a…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/21 10:04 PM
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The bigger picture is that if a woman is attracted to you, like really really attracted, you can pretty much do whatever you want. When you act like an asshole, she'll laugh and tell you how funny you are and how much she loves it, and when her friends tell her how much of an asshole you are, she'll defend you and think they're jealous of her. When you give her a bag of skittles for Valentine's Day, it will mean the world to her that you cared and got her something so cute and so...you. If she i…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/21 03:22 PM
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Getting "oneitis" for a woman is a mistake to begin with. If you're attracted to a woman, you should be hitting on her within two minutes of meeting her, not spending multiple months vaguely hinting that you're attracted (hint: most guys are attracted to a cute woman and would bang, so this does not set you apart), then hoping she gives you a clear signal to make a move (hint: women do not give that signal because a guy who knows the game does not need one). The fact that this woman is engaged, …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/21 03:13 PM
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Sounds tedious. If it's a 99 cent Kindle buy, though, I'll read it.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/21 03:18 PM
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Don't kiss and tell. Even if this one specific girl might like it, it's a good habit to keep this shit quiet. You want to vaguely subcommunicate that you're a guy with experience who's in on the game, but not be blabbermouth. Because when you get older, women are going to value a discreet guy who keeps his mouth shut and won't make her feel slutty or out her slut practices to others.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 06:57 PM
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The Red Pill is focused on reality and results. Not philosophy. The OP has one option that is actually effective: man the fuck up and quit trying to label himself. It doesn't matter if he has real mental health issues or fake ones. The only thing he can do that will actually result in his success is manning the fuck up. He doesn't need to find books about some condition he's self-diagnosed and learn coping strategies and breathing exercises and study philosophy to learn to accept his lot in life…
/r/askTRP11/03/21 06:55 PM
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Fucking lots of women with your giant penis, too. And a big bushy beard if you can grow one. If you can't, try wrestling a few bears. That usually spikes testosterone enough to make some hair sprout. If none of that works for you, maybe try having an internet discussion where you try to convince everyone that being smart and really self-satisfied and confident about everything counts as manliness and that way you can be in the man club, too, without having to do all of that pesky work at the gym…
/r/askTRP10/03/21 09:30 PM
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Sounds like against all odds, you've managed to trick her into thinking you're guy #1 then.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 09:29 PM
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Go to the gym instead of trying to spark a philosophical discussion about masculinity on the internet. When you close your eyes and picture the manliest man you know, do you picture him on the internet having philosophical discussions about word definitions?
/r/askTRP10/03/21 08:37 PM
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She told you because she doesn't want to date you. Girls tell guys about their sex lives under two circumstances: They know you're a fun guy who's in on the casual sex game and they can be themselves around you. (Because you are asking this question and do not already understand this, it is clear you are not in on the game). They are so disinterested in you that you're pretty much just like a girlfriend they can gab to because attracting you isn't even the slightest thought in their mind, and ma…
/r/askTRP10/03/21 08:33 PM
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We all have feelings when things happen, dude. Sometimes strong feelings. But if you're not in control of your behavior because your feelings are just too much to handle, you very much need to man the fuck up. Otherwise, you're going to be the kind of guy who's going to murder his girlfriend in a fit of rage or drive his car off of a cliff when she cheats on him because your behavior is controlled by your feelings. Society is sick and has decided that men learning how to control their emotions i…
/r/askTRP10/03/21 07:19 PM
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This "highly sensitive person" stuff is modern therapist mumbo jumbo to try to recast all of the criers, screamers, Karens, and other undesirable women as something positive. Something "sensitive" with a lot of "emotional intelligence". It's not a real thing. It's a made up therapist thing, kind of like fat acceptance, but for annoying bitches. It's annoying bitch acceptance. You're a man. Maybe you're an observant man. Maybe you're an emotional man. But quit trying to find some kind of label fo…
/r/askTRP10/03/21 06:50 PM
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Not really. I drive a reasonably-priced fuel-efficient sedan, dress nicely but not like a rich guy, will buy a girl a couple of drinks on a first date but won't have a first date at a restaurant, and prefer to fuck at her place so she doesn't see mine. I don't intentionally downplay that I'm decently comfortable. I just buy normal stuff and live normally and keep money in the bank. Let the girls find out what they find out if they make it longer than a few dates.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 05:06 PM
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If you're hot, Tinder. If you are ugly, go to a wine bar and hit on every chubby older woman in the building.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 05:02 PM
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So you're marrying a girl, huh? Big mistake. So you're marrying a girl who likes tattoos, huh? Big mistake. So you're marrying a girl who likes tattoos and doesn't care that you don't like them on her, huh? Big mistake. So you're marrying a girl who has a past traumatic incident involving being kidnapped by a man? HOLY FUCKING SHIT RUN YOU IDIOT! Then you CAVED and told her to do what she wants after you already made it clear you don't want her to do this? Big mistake. Then, she shit-tests you b…
/r/askTRP10/03/21 04:55 PM
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Ignore. She's finally getting around to starting this project a week before the deadline, and it sounds like you're already mostly done. Unless she's been giving you nightly blowjobs for the past two months, in which case help her out.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 04:51 PM
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Society doesn't want men organizing. And that's not feminism doing it or women doing it. The elite men in charge of society don't want regular men organizing. But us internet guys are mostly on our own, even among each other. We're losers on an internet site about how to get laid and ways to improve our lives. We're men who need to be told to lift weights, and work hard to get a good job because we don't have one, and learn social skills because we have none, and so on. If I get found out as a w…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/21 05:07 PM
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Bitcoin is not the future of money, it's not "digital gold", and it's not even that technologically interesting. It's an investment like any other. Being cryptocurrency, it's a highly speculative and volatile investment. This isn't a bad thing. Bitcoin doesn't have to be some kind of future world-changing currency that redefines the universe to be useful. It's in the news now. It's all over. Big investors and institutions are buying it and talking about it. So in addition to maxing your 401k mat…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/21 03:33 PM
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For society to have "failed men", society needs to have some kind of goal or obligation for men in the first place. I don't understand so many guys' obsession with a "male role model". There's this bizarre idea that if only your dad and grandpa were tougher or if your parents never got divorced or if your teachers were all male, then everyone would have told you these secrets to getting laid that are out there. But because your mom divorced your dad, you never learned these secrets and grew up l…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 05:40 PM
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Why not tie this post into The Red Pill somehow?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/21 03:28 PM
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Nah. Women having any power is mostly an illusion. But letting women feel like they're powerful is a lot easier than dealing with bitchy women costing everybody time and money. Women are better for everyone if they're happy and working jobs and buying shit. The rich guys rule the world but let the women think they're powerful because it's easier. You're more powerful than women, too. Any time you want, 99% of the women you cross are weaker than you. You're strong enough to kill or rape any woman…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/21 03:25 PM
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Women's control is an illusion. Very rich men control the culture. Back when men used spears to hunt meat and defend the tribe from predators, the big strong men controlled the culture. Today, men use money to pay people to make them food and build them buildings and protect them from danger. So today, the super rich men control the culture. Women don't control anything. They're just one more kind of animal or resource that the culture uses, and our cultural norms control women just the same as …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/21 01:53 AM
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What is this bullshit? I don't know what basement you live in, but normal men talk to women and have sex with them. And normal women have sex with normal men. Normal men don't want or need to have sex with machines, and while most normal women kind of suck sometimes, they want to have sex with men and some of them are okay to hang with. Outside of your basement and your internet obsession, normal people are socializing just fine and having sex.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/21 01:39 AM
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Every guy should have a cute girl who's maybe slightly chunky or slightly mousy faced who treats him well that he can fuck when he's too tired or busy to go out or when he strikes out and doesn't meet a hotter woman.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 08:25 PM
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Maybe. What does that have to do with you being 36 instead of 26? Any girl you walk up to at the mall might not be interested. That's true if you're 16, 26, 36, or 46. You don't know the girl. She could be married, engaged, a lesbian, have a boyfriend, or her dad just died. She'll either be interested or not. Same as some 21 year old at a bar when a 36 year old you hits on her. She's either interested or not. No difference. Unless you seriously look old, there's nothing weird or creepy about tal…
/r/askTRP23/02/21 08:22 PM
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And? If you're getting into your life stories with some girl you're chatting with at the mall, you're doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:53 PM
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If you're a bald or prematurely gray 36 with old man crinkles around your eyes and on your forehead and an ugly dad-bod, yes, it will be creepy if you hit on a 21 year old. If you're 36 but are in the best shape of your life and look 26, it's fine. You're just a guy talking to a girl. Sex can happen without getting into your life stories. In fact, if you're getting into your life stories, you're doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:50 PM
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You don't. You already messed this up because you are an autistic creep. In your head, and only in your head, the fact that this woman "started making eye contact with" you and you "reciprocated" means something. In normal people's heads, people look at people, have conversations, smile, and so on and it's not necessarily romantic or sexual. Normal people can tell the difference between significant and insignificant encounters. You and this married woman, however kept "making eye contact ... for…
/r/askTRP22/02/21 10:24 PM
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Think of The Red Pill more like a filter than a religion. It's a way of seeing the world (primarily the women, sex, and relationships game) how it really is and how things really work. As opposed to the way we would like things to be or the way that it would make sense for things to be or the way that we always thought it worked that hasn't been working out for us because it doesn't work that way. What you do with that information is your own business. There aren't any rules you have to religiou…
/r/askTRP22/02/21 08:17 PM
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Women are dramatic. They say big dramatic words to describe mundane simple things. "I like you" isn't dramatic enough for some women.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 08:14 PM
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TLDR: "Dear diary, The Red Pill works. In some non-specific and vague way that does not warrant explanation, actionable advice, lessons learned, or anything useful."
/r/TheRedPill22/02/21 05:55 PM
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If you act like too much of a loser in front of your friend's girlfriend, she's going to think he's a loser with loser friends. The sweet spot is a woman thinking that her guy is awesome and he has a whole stable of awesome friends who are amazing but just not quite as amazing as he is.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/21 05:53 PM
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Women don't really need men any more. Well, they do, but just indirectly. We've built this elaborate system that funnels the fruits of men's labor toward women without the women having to have sex with you. Women's basic needs are taken care of. They have jobs now and safety nets in place if they get poor. They don't need you to buy them things or fix their garbage disposal. They just call someone or fill out an online form. They don't need a man around the house to take care of them because the…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/21 05:48 PM
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The OP doesn't have sex with women. He has no place offering you or anybody some kind of interpretation or advice on anything to do with how to have sex with women. Get your advice on how to fuck women from guys who can actually fuck women.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 05:18 PM
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It's difficult for most humans to be given a blank sheet of paper and told to do something with it. If you pick a bad "mission" and waste your life pursuing it, smug with self-satisfaction because "the mission is you", that's time and resources you never get back. You're now holding a torn, wet, burned, wrinkled piece of paper with useless scribbles all over it because the first few things you did with that blank sheet of paper sucked and made you sad instead of happy. And now you have to make t…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 04:29 PM
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Nobody's not ready for your sage wisdom. But guys who don't actually fuck shouldn't be posting advice around here.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 05:07 PM
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East Austin is supposed to be very up and coming if you're looking for a small house. Same with parts of South Austin. I haven't home shopped in ages, though, so I don't know what's what with neighborhoods out there. Both of these areas used to be places where you'd need to know Spanish to buy groceries and not get shot that have been recently gentrified by liberal yuppies out of college all buying their starter homes. If you're just looking for an apartment, that's not as much of a commitment a…
/r/askTRP18/02/21 05:05 PM
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The reality is that a man can do all the right things and still get dumped by a fickle woman for whatever reason. This is exactly what accepting that it's just your turn, for now, means. Otherwise, men get this stupid idea that if they do all of this Red Pill alpha stuff just right, they can manufacture this perfect relationship that will last forever. Even if you do absolutely everything right, all relationships eventually end, and your turn is over. Frankly, this post is academic bullshit from…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 04:53 PM
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Do you have a job lined up yet? Where you work is going to affect where you want to live. You don't want to spend 2 hours a day in traffic.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 10:54 PM
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Ah, the Domain. I fucked many a girl from the Domain/Arboretum area. It's like apartment alley for late 20s/early 30s women, placed right next door to a pile of bars, restaurants, and outdoor spaces like it was pretty much designed with hooking up in mind. If you're really cute and anywhere within 5 miles of that area, you can Tinder your dick off with all the sex practically in walking distance.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 08:05 PM
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Cost of living is off-the-charts in NYC. The hookup scene is easy-peasy because the women are straight out of Sex and the City and pretty much just grab your balls and drag you into the bedroom because they think that makes them strong and independent. The people are snotty and superficial and you won't form any lasting friendships with cool bros and will always feel like you're in this limbo transition phase of your life, like you just don't belong and probably aren't going to stay there foreve…
/r/askTRP17/02/21 08:01 PM
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You buy Valentine's gifts for someone you're already fucking. Not someone from work you've been "talking to" and "vibing with" or whatever the fuck you call not having sex and not dating. I call that being friends, but you seem to have special words for it. We're talking right now. Will you be my Valentine? You've done as much with me as you have with this girl. She stopped talking to you because the guy she's been fucking and not telling you about because you're just friends and it's not your b…
/r/askTRP17/02/21 05:45 PM
2

It's nothing to be embarrassed about. If the world was a logical and just place, things would work the way that they should work, and the way that makes sense. The fact that the sex and relationships game works in such an illogical and counter-intuitive way, and even an unjust way that shits on good people, isn't immediately obvious until you really pay attention and think about things a little differently.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 05:44 PM
2

The Red Pill is important. A lot of haters out there get their panties in a twist about negative language about women. But if The Red Pill has saved even one man from taking his own life (or going full on crazy and murdering his wife and family or some random women somewhere), it has saved lives. It has done more good than all of the wrongthink the haters hate has done bad. If The Red Pill has gotten just one guy to go to the gym and not die from diabetes or a heart condition at age 29, it has s…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/21 05:40 PM
1

Come on. If she sucked you off in a library bathroom, then you're not the first or only guy she's done that with. She just needs subtle signals that you know the game and aren't going to out her as a slut.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 06:46 PM
4

Yes. You distinguish yourself from the masses by doing normal guy game well. Being fit and well-dressed, and having good game. Distinguishing yourself by being try-hard with creative dates and high investment is creepy. It's like showing up on the first date in a tuxedo with two-dozen roses. You want to be the cool guy who does two drinks at a bar then home to fuck well, rather than the creep who's going for romantic walks in the park on the first date followed by mini golf then coffee then mayb…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/21 06:42 PM
37

I do a lot of the exact opposite of this stuff and get laid. I don't over-text before the date. Maybe a little flirty/dirty stuff if she's that kind of girl. But mostly just setting the date and not too much chit-chat. During the date, most girls who might have been planning to hook up with you get weirded out by clingy date-like romantic touching like holding hands and stroking their skin. They'll make out in the parking lot, but freak out if you try to hold hands at your venue. But if the timi…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 11:55 PM
5

A good takeaway from this story is that women are a lot more likely to fuck you when they are not special. Being special is high pressure. Women want to have sex with guys that are fun. That makes the sex fun, the encounter leading up to sex fun, the anticipation fun, and so on. Some dreary, lovelorn guy chasing the girl trying to make her feel special instead of just like anyone else is NOT FUN. It makes the encounter into this dreary serious thing. It makes sex into some kind of meaningful ser…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 11:38 PM
2

I posit that one thing Reddit definitely doesn't want on its site is a post entitled "F your ethnicity". That post title appears front and center as a link people click on to read the post, then at the top in big bold letters. And that this, alone, would be reason for some admin or moderator to assume racism and click the delete button without even reading the post. The Reddit people don't have the time or motivation to click every post with an objectionable title and carefully consider whether …
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 08:08 PM
1

I'm not arguing that there's not some kind of crazy progressive bias on social media. But this particular post removal was not a calculated move by rabid liberal cancel culture fanatics who read the content and struck back in retaliation. The title alone got it erased. Nobody in charge even read it.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/21 07:35 PM
27

Let's not give Reddit too much credit. Reddit did not read the F your ethnicity post, disagree with the content, and erase it. The only thing Reddit read was the title of the post. And "F your ethnicity" sounds offensive and racist. Like telling a black person to F his blackness. Some admin or moderator saw the post title, it looked racist, post got erased. There was no thought beyond this. There was no contemplation of the issues presented in the post or some conspiracy to promote racial identi…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/21 06:19 PM
8

You're not looking for wisdom. You're looking for a rulebook. Something to follow and belong to. You're literally treating your life like a roleplaying game and asking which character class or deity you should choose.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 08:47 PM
3

You already lost. Whether or not she's actually a lesbian, she has you showering her with text attention, chasing her asking if she's single, and pissing validation all over her as you express all of that interest and desire to date her. If you haven't set up a date by about 7 messages in, maximum, you're doing something wrong. Why are you spending all of this time chit-chatting and being a pen pal for some girl you aren't having sex with? You should dedicate more time toward women who are actua…
/r/askTRP09/02/21 08:27 PM
3

In a society completely lacking a positive identity for men, that hates you and wants to you to shut up and become a productivity unit, it's a bit puzzling that you want to find some kind of written philosophy rulebook to follow. The Red Pill is about saying fuck you to the rules, not finding a set of rules to belong to. You're asking whether you should focus on being a stoic productivity unit who doesn't get dangerously angry or unfocused or unproductive and works hard and responsibly...or on b…
/r/askTRP09/02/21 08:24 PM
10

It's okay to be conscious about your health and finances, but there's a point where you cross this line from being a responsible guy to being a super-strict asshole that's no fun and nobody likes him. "I shant pay for her drinks! I am saving my money to retire! Three dollars saved today will be hundreds when I do so! And I shant drink myself! Not even occasionally! The small health effects may dampen my gains!" You can be a responsible guy who works out, eats right, and saves money without being…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/21 10:04 PM
22

Live a little. Enjoy a few drinks before you're 65. If that's how you think about living in the present, I wouldn't worry too much about getting dates.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/21 08:42 PM
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This is more complex than necessary. 1st date is always drinks, never a meal. If by the end of the date she's not down or you've blown it, you suggest splitting the bill. If by the end of the date she's down or you think you've got a shot, you settle the tab and get out of there with her. If paying for two drinks is some kind of huge and unforgivable investment, you need to get your finances in order. Obviously, if you're taking a girl out for steak dinner, that's a dumb investment. But paying f…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/21 06:39 PM
82

Next time, stick in some actionable advice. "Here's a way to think about something. Do you like my metaphor?" doesn't make for a very useful post.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/21 04:26 PM
20

My body was pretty okay for the longest time. It got a lot better when I did two things: Only eat from noon-8, and cut out processed carbs. You don't even have to be a super strict asshole about it and piss off all of your friends. A little sugar once in awhile is fine. Pissing your pants because some bag of something has 1 gram of added sugar is stupid. But just making that conscious change pays you back over time.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/21 02:57 PM
11

I'd go so far as to say that it's actually the opposite of what OP proposes. The Red Pill is about recognizing the truth. How the world really works instead of how we would like it to work. And in the real world, doing things because they are "right" or because it's true to ourselves or who we think we want to be or some kind of values we've decided are important for some reason, isn't what actually works. We wish it would work that way. We wish we could do what's right and be true to ourselves …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/21 07:24 PM
7

This vaguely smacks of "As long as I am being myself/true to myself (i.e., 'doing what I think is right'), that makes me better than all of those assholes who are just doing what gets them laid or successful or well-liked". Sticking to your personal values is kind of stupid when it doesn't get you anything at all. And really stupid when it actually costs you opportunities for personal gain or happiness. What are values anyway? It's just something you arbitrarily decided is "right." The end goal …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/21 05:30 PM
2

I've always thought measuring food in "calories" is really strange. Because a calorie is a unit of energy, not a unit of matter. A food is XX grams of thing 1, XX grams of thing 2, XX grams of thing 3, and so on. Calories as a food measurement is a shortcut someone came up with based on the amount of energy human bodies generate when breaking carbon-carbon bonds in organic molecules. It's like measuring the height of a building by dropping a rock from the top and seeing how pulverized it gets wh…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/21 03:52 PM
42

"You come in to the cafe sometimes! I recognize your jacket." "Yup, that's me". You knew right then that it was on, right? All you have to do is escalate and not screw it up. You're on vacation, so is she. If she wasn't interested, you would have gotten the cold shoulder 1.5 seconds after opening your mouth. But she responded with interest. At that point, all you have to do is 1) actually escalate, and 2) don't do or say anything stupid.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/21 03:44 PM
2

Spongebob is Red Pill, you moron. Look at how DGAF he is! He literally maintains his shape no matter what happens to him. And he is SHAPED LIKE A FRAME! How fucking Red Pill is that? You know Spongebob would never make a post about non-cartoon Red Pill examples, don't you?
/r/askTRP04/02/21 06:39 PM
6

There are 7.8 billion people on planet earth. If somebody is being a bitch to you, just go somewhere else. Unless you're 14 and the woman we're talking about is your mother, you can literally just go somewhere else where people aren't being a bitch to you. What is this?
/r/askTRP04/02/21 02:33 PM
2

50-50. It really depends on whether you catch them between relationships or between hookup phases. Between relationships, they just want something easy and convenient. Between hookups, that's when they say they're sick of the games and assholes and want their next relationship to be forever. Back and forth like a pendulum.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 02:32 PM
3

She got a better offer that day and flaked on you. When women double-book, you get bullshit texts like "I was too nervous" or "I don't think I'm ready for this yet I just got out of a bad breakup". She was going to meet you, but one of the guys she's already been fucking or a guy she likes better made plans with her, so she dropped her plans with you in a way that would be palatable for you.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 02:30 PM
4

Women in that age range want something convenient. Good sex that will come over at 9:30 and leave by 10:00 because they have work tomorrow. They don't want to date you.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 02:27 PM
6

Lack of autism makes them able to joke around and act socially normal, which makes normal social games not feel like "psychological assault".
/r/askTRP04/02/21 02:26 PM
1

Try again. Some people who are literally beaten by their parents grow up fine. What the fuck did your parents do that has left you so crippled and unable to function that you need special resources to cope with your resentment? Everybody else gets by without bullshit like this. Why are you a fragile little rose?
/r/askTRP04/02/21 02:24 PM
1

It's amazing how our grandfathers went to work every day just fine even though our great grandfathers beat them, but today's kids are crippled by their childhoods and need "resources" to move on because they "resent" their parents.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 02:45 PM
35

If a girl you aren't fucking asks you to do something, it's the same as if a dude asked you to do something. If a girl you just finished fucking or a girl who's naked and is about to fuck you asks you to get her some water, get her some water.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 10:35 PM
1

Just don't try to find a replacement mommy in a girlfriend. It's fine to miss your parents and worry about them, but being up crying every night is abnormal. It's a very worrisome level of attachment. Your sadness about missing home and your parents should be tempered with excitement. New people, places, experiences. Sitting in your room crying doesn't sound like you're having much fun in college.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 09:50 PM
3

I'll tell you what. How about you get to the point where you're non-exclusively having sex with ten different women, you spend 12 months doing that, rotating women in and out as needed, and when you get to that point, then see if you still want to ask a bunch of men from the internet that you don't know for a list of traits that make it okay for you to have a serious girlfriend. Let's worry about your hypothetical girlfriend when you actually know what you're giving up.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:53 PM
6

When your life is excellent, you won't have time to be angry at your parents, your childhood bullies, the girls who wouldn't date you, mean teachers, or crooked businessmen. If you have time to sit around thinking about how much you hate your parents, it's because you need a real job, some real hobbies, and a better gym routine.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:48 PM
3

Sounds like your job and gym routine are pretty okay. Are your finances in order? Your rent is minimal, your utilities included or reasonable, you don't have cable, your cell phone bill is minimal, you're not making car payments? Half of your salary or more is straight-up profit that you save and invest? And you have some kind of hobby? You're going to need to do something beside work, sleep, eat the same chicken breast and veggies every night, and go to the gym. Just make it a good hobby. Not v…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 06:16 PM
1

Your girlfriend's best friend who secretly hates her might fuck you. But some random girl who doesn't know you or anybody in your social circle that you're talking up in a bar or meeting online is going to preferentially choose another guy if you tell her you have a girlfriend, because that's stupid.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 03:33 PM
5

You're creeping me out right now. Guys with poor social skills who cannot approach a GROUP of people and engage the group in a socially acceptable manner that causes the entire group to like them and be okay if he isolates one of the women in the group do not get laid. Women typically don't go places alone because they don't want to be caught by creeps with bad social skills. Waiting until a woman is all alone then pouncing on her is mega super creepy, unless you have a pre-existing relationship…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 02:55 PM
0

Why? Who else I'm seeing is nobody's business. Why the fuck would I whine to some new girl about my girlfriend and her cheating antics? That's about as attractive as some plate you're with blabbing about the other men in her life. Just meet new girls like normal. Don't try to leverage your girlfriend to make them like you more. That's stupid. That's the thinking of some idiot who reads too much Asperger internet theories about attraction and doesn't talk to enough women. There are 1,000,000 guys…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 02:49 PM
3

If you have a "blue pill goal", then you haven't actually accepted what women are like or how the sex and relationships game works.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 11:33 PM
29

My move in a situation like that is to just keep having sex with the girlfriend but start dating other women without telling her. Then just ghost when I don't have time for her any more. But the fact that you're here posting this means you probably don't have what it takes to do that. You aren't used to having power over women and acting like it. So you're going to go the whiny confrontation route and pretend it's not whining. Something like stamping your foot, putting your mean face on, and dec…
/r/askTRP01/02/21 11:28 PM
6

You're thinking waaaaaay too much about sending some text message to some girl. Why? Are you afraid you're going to blow it? There's nothing to blow. She hasn't thought about you for six months. That's 24 weekends. 24 date nights, sex 8-10 times or more, she could even have a boyfriend by now. Do you seriously think the way you word a text message is going to have any significant effect on how this goes? So she gets a "Hey, what's up?" text from you. She's either going to ignore you or think, "O…
/r/askTRP01/02/21 06:45 PM
1

No need to be all black and white. Some women are cool to hang with. If a woman really likes you, she'll make you sandwiches and give you back rubs. Sure, you can do all that with a dude, but I'm not giving you a backrub or making you a sandwich. Women are still human, and there's no rule against enjoying them as people in addition to having sex with them. (Probably not instead of having sex with them, because women make pretty crappy friends). A lot of them are shitty people, but there's no rul…
/r/askTRP01/02/21 05:40 PM
2

You're not going to talk dirty, feel up, and start making out with a girl in front of your mutual friend group, are you? That would be really awkward for everybody. In the big group, it's more about eye contact, knowing smiles, more subtle touches, and being an interesting part of the group. Once you get a girl to the point where it looks like she's probably down, that's when you make an excuse to isolate. If she goes with you, she's down. If she doesn't, you misread things.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 03:14 PM
2

The best sex I've ever had is with those girls who are always like "I hate you so much. I don't even know why I'm doing this." while the clothes are coming off.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 02:40 PM
11

That you are somewhere between age 25 and 40 and in the dating scene?
/r/askTRP01/02/21 02:38 PM
8

After you didn't escalate or come across as socially competent, you blew it with this girl. But that's okay. There are more women out there. Keep hanging with this group anyway, and learn from the guy. In the mean time, make some guy friends. Hang out with guys. Learn how to have conversations with guys and comfortably be part of a group instead of a silent guy who just sort of follows along but isn't really that cool and is only tagging along hoping for an opportunity to pounce on a girl. Next …
/r/askTRP01/02/21 02:37 PM
1

Sounds lazy. That's the attitude of a timid little bitch who's afraid of the shame and embarrassment of rejection, so he wants 1000% clear signals that it's a sure thing before talking to a girl.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 02:33 PM
2

What's important to note is that you can have female "friends", just not female friends. Note the quotes. You can benefit from being "friends" with women, but women are shitty friends. Women are happy to hang out with a male "friend" when they have nothing better going on, and if the male "friend" is cute and fun, they'll introduce him to their other "friends" and be supportive of him hooking up with them as long as he knows the game and isn't ugly or creepy. But a woman won't show up at your ap…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/21 07:02 PM
5

This misses the point of The Red Pill. We're not trying to emulate historically accurate societies or make the world some kind of radical right conservative utopia. We're trying to empower men in the sex and relationships game and disempower women in this game. That's all. And the way we do that is get men into the gym, get men saving money, get men living well, and get men mastering game. Then, these men are able to meet casual sex partners, attract multiple women, and no one woman has any powe…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/21 07:28 PM
1

You're very invested in The Red Pill for some reason, even though you clearly dislike it. In my experience, women aren't mind-readers. I like some women, I don't feel much for other women, I actually kind of dislike being around some women, but they all have sex about the same, with a few fun variations. I can't vouch for the majority of guys around here. Some of them are serious losers. But the ones that do the work get laid, and most women are none the wiser that it was one of us.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/21 03:43 PM
1

You go to prison if you rape someone, silly. Also, if you rape a woman, she's not choosing to have sex with you. That's not very empowering. Using physical force to overpower women is easy for most men. The majority of men don't, of course. But it would be pretty easy if a guy chose to. Getting a woman to have sex with you is a lot more validating. Maybe you're young or just catching on or something, but all relationships are power struggles. Not just romantic or sexual relationships, but every …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/21 03:30 PM
1

It's not about sex. It's about power. If you really just want to have an orgasm, you can masturbate. You don't need a woman for that. If you want to participate in a fun recreational activity, you can hang with your guy friends. Drink beer. Play video games. Whatever your hobbies are. You don't need a woman for that. Getting a woman to choose to have sex with you (especially when you have purely casual intentions, and even if you don't especially appreciate her as a human) is empowering. Not a w…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/21 03:14 PM
2

I had sex two nights ago. I do fine. I think you may have accidentally clicked a link to The Red Pill subreddit and thought you had stumbled across some kind of woke, politically correct forum of young gentlemen who seek enlightened debate and rousing polite discussions about all genders and their traits. We teach men how to fuck sluts here.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/21 02:18 PM
2

Game isn't a marginal thing. Game is nearly everything. With one proviso: You have to look at least average or preferably a little better than average. If you're legit ugly, trying to game women is just creepy. Guys who declare that game is bullshit and that women only fuck the top 20%, 1%, 0.000001%, or whatever crazy small percent of men they proclaim are two kinds of guys: Guys who are legit ugly, and guys who don't have game or whose game is terrible. If you completely remove game from the e…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/21 01:37 PM
3

Are you, like, one of those tone policemen who cries if someone says something not nice about ladies?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/21 01:23 PM
5

This girl you're taking walks with is not a virgin. She has had sex with guys the day she met them in the past. Just not you. But you know what? It's fine if she's making you wait. I normally wouldn't say that, but in your case, you're fucking other women. You don't want to make this one into a girlfriend. You know not to marry her. You know to keep meeting and fucking other girls. So what's the big deal? In your spare time, if you happen to have spare time, go out with this one, try to escalate…
/r/askTRP27/01/21 07:29 PM
9

If you are a strikingly good-looking guy, you'll have girls approach you. But if you're just a normal guy who started working out and making money and practicing game so now you're a normal guy who can get laid if he plays the game well, girls approaching you isn't as common. You still have to talk to girls and play the game. And that's fine. There comes a point where building more muscle and making more money isn't going to help you get laid that much, but knowing how to talk to women and play …
/r/askTRP27/01/21 07:23 PM
5

Sorry, dude. The world is not going to run out of "Chads", forcing women to have to fuck you.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 03:35 PM
1

So... say what I already said, but say it your way? And include a bunch of superfluous information that doesn't get men laid, such as bored men's phone practices and normal woman's meal-eating practices? You're really making this more complicated than it needs to be. If a girl is on her phone sending you Tinder messages, she's bored. If she were doing something interesting, she wouldn't be on her phone sending messages to your sorry ass. Set up a sex date and quit asking her how her day is going…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/21 10:04 PM
5

It's more widespread than that. A good two thirds of the women you meet will be seeing a therapist weekly and taking anti-depressants or anti-anxiety meds. Somewhere along the line, people got this stupid idea that you're supposed to feel happy all the time and life isn't supposed to be hard. I suppose that's at least tangentially related to fathers. Those of us who are a little older remember our fathers as grim but dignified men who worked hard every day to provide for the family. They didn't …
/r/askTRP26/01/21 08:19 PM
9

I suppose we have some non-English people around. It's an expression. A cruder version of "don't shoot yourself in the foot". Essentially, "stepping on your own dick" is sabotaging yourself. Getting in your own way. You would have succeeded, probably pretty easily, maybe even without doing anything, but then you did something stupid and screwed it all up. When you do a stupid thing that screws it all up, and you would have succeeded except for doing that thing, one expression for that is steppin…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/21 07:11 PM
0

The idea that you are supposed to experience but be mostly unaffected by your emotions and other major life events is new age mental health male-control crap disguised as masculine stuff. Society doesn't want angry, unfocused, or hedonistic men. Society wants hard workers who don't step out of line. Stoicism is perfect for making more of those. And it's packaged in masculine-sounding language, like staying in control and being productive. But it's really just more of the modern mental health cra…
/r/askTRP26/01/21 06:58 PM
15

General philosophical books like that don't teach you specific skills or strategies or lessons. They just very slowly, over time and after reading a lot of them, change the way you think about and notice things a little bit. There won't be this a-ha moment where you'll see a life situation that lines up with the 17th strategy of war you read about. You'll just see the world through the eyes of a well-read man, which can sometimes be slightly different from the way others see or think about thing…
/r/askTRP26/01/21 06:54 PM
3

That is great advice for a homosexual man. But if you're a heterosexual man who wants to have sex with women, knowing what women are like and how to recognize and seize your opportunity with women is useful information. Knowing what men are like is irrelevant unless you want to date men. "Men, too" is only useful advice if you're homosexual or bisexual.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/21 06:27 PM
2

Right. So you sent one message to see if a girl was down. She wasn't. You stopped engaging with her and went back to working on that career and fucking current women, right? You're making too much of this. This really isn't rocket science. You don't need some kind of written-down officially-sanctioned Red Pill strategy to deal with random comments on Instagram. Pretend it's me you're seeing on Instagram and I'm pissing you off. I'm not going to fuck you. What would you do if it was me? Probably …
/r/askTRP25/01/21 08:50 PM
3

Are you trying to have sex with girls you used to date using Facebook? If not, just ignore their comments, because you seem like you should be entirely too busy to be having Facebook arguments about your past drug use or your current success. You know, working hard at that career and having sex with current women. If you are, just respond with a private message like "lol. Been awhile. What've you been up to?" or something equally lame and see if they bite.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 08:41 PM
3

This seems like an event that really doesn't matter. What are you, some kind of chaperone at a high school dance or something? Just talk to the people your own age like a normal person. Your high school bullies have moved on. They barely remember you, don't think about you the way you think about them, and have gone on to do adult things with their lives. They're not interested in bullying you. Adults don't bully each other. They just avoid talking to the weird guys, so don't act weird.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 08:36 PM
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Couldn't have typed a better summary myself. Once you get to the point where you look okay and can talk to girls without sounding like a weirdo, not stepping on your own dick is 75% of the game.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 08:34 PM
3

I'd temper that with if you meet a girl in person, AND she turns out to be interested in you, the fact that you approached in person sets you apart from the piles of online men. But over half the time you walk up to some woman in public, she'll have a boyfriend, be a lesbian, won't be into you, or just won't be in the mood, and you'll get two-word disinterested responses as she tries to get away from you. But the ones you meet that way who give you a smile and keep finding excuses to keep the co…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 07:08 PM
2

Treat her like anybody else. She wants to enjoy an encounter with a fun, confident guy, just like any other woman. Like any woman, she wants a guy who knows the game, knows discretion, and won't make her feel slutty or out her as a slut to others. Her tolerance for you fucking up anything game-wise will be less than other women.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 06:45 PM
7

A plate is somebody you are having non-exclusive casual sex with. This is just some girl you're texting. You text your guy friends, too, right? So she's like...a friend. But since this friend is a girl, you're flirting with her. Good for you, big boy. Also, virgins aren't a big deal. Most virgins in the 18-22 age range aren't looking for candles, romantic string music, and a bubble bath. They want to get it over with so they can start hooking up in college. They just don't know exactly how it wo…
/r/askTRP25/01/21 06:40 PM
8

Your ex is 1000 miles away in grad school. She dumped you to have sex with other men while she's there. She did what you should have done six months ago. If you're not having sex with your girlfriend, she's not your girlfriend. The second sex was no longer a possibility, you should have been the one ending things and wishing her luck, then moving on to other women. If you had parted with her on good terms, where you ended things with social and sexual intelligence, demonstrating your dignity and…
/r/askTRP25/01/21 06:35 PM
2

Don't listen to what women say. Watch what women do. Women will tell you not to be a fun, cocky, muscular guy who is sexually assertive and has casual sex with women. These same women (not to mention a lot of other women) will proceed to have casual sex with fun, cocky, muscular, sexually assertive men. Women know what they are getting when they have casual sex with men, and they enjoy the encounter, both for the physical sensations of sex and often the fun interactions with the man. Women will …
/r/askTRP25/01/21 06:31 PM
1

The idea that having sex with a woman without seriously dating or marrying her is "hurting" her is very outdated. Women have sex without wanting a relationship all the time. They know exactly what they are doing and are getting exactly what they want. Your friends (and you, still) are stuck in a blue pill mentality, not because you think relationships are good, but because you have no idea what women are really like. You still don't believe that women enjoy sex and will have casual sex just for …
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:45 PM
3

This post really made me think, but it overlooks the power of laziness and weakness. Which are definitely character flaws and not just a lack of knowledge. A lot of guys out there know how to eat right, go to the gym, work hard, and get in shape. They have the knowledge and resources to do this. They know that this task is just hard, not impossible. They know what to do. They simply choose not to do it because it is hard. There is nothing else they need to learn or acquire to become able to do i…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 03:30 PM
6

Send an eggplant emoji. Quit putting this much stock in the things women say. Especially when you're just flirting and bantering. It doesn't mean anything. If she keeps meeting up with you to fuck, it's fine. Be less awkward. Your sentence is weird. Shorter replies, no complex clauses, fifth grade reading level, no complex topics. Texting is supposed to be light, fun, and easy, without all of this forehead-scrunching analysis. Make her giggle, not think.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 08:43 PM
1

Lift to get fit. Do bjj or another martial art for fun. Just keep in mind that whatever sport you do, it's really just cardio and a little bit of bodyweight. It's not a substitute for lifting. It's just a supplement to your exercise. Don't quit lifting to go ride a bike or play soccer. Normal guys who ride a bike as their primary mode of exercise don't look like professional cyclists. Professional cyclists lift weights and use drugs to train, then ride a bike to compete. People who ride a bike t…
/r/askTRP22/01/21 08:38 PM
1

Too many bad potential side effects. You can get plenty fit without them.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 08:36 PM
5

You were possibly awkward with your escalation on your date (or didn't escalate). Or your social skills were bad. Or you were boring and not fun. Or she just wasn't feeling it for whatever reason. Even if your game is decent, some women don't vibe with you. Of course you're good looking. Or at least good looking enough for her. She wouldn't have gone out with you if you didn't at least meet whatever her minimum standard for appearance is.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 08:34 PM
118

Somebody should start a subreddit where people post creative writing exercises for evaluation so we can get back to the basics of fucking women and improving our lives.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/21 08:31 PM
3

White women who date black men are fetishizing racists. They think black men are great physical specimens who lack intellect and ambition and social status, so the black guys will be great for sex but won't make them feel inferior the way some successful white business man or whatever would. They feel superior to some lowlife thug-type black man. In one fell swoop, a woman gets to rebel against her parents and conservative society, appear woke and inclusive and liberal and cool, have good sex, a…
/r/askTRP22/01/21 04:07 PM
5

I think we’re picturing different stages in the process. You’re picturing a woman who’s already on a date with a guy screwing around with her phone instead of engaging with him. Which is a bad signal, not an opportunity like I described in my post. Playing around with her phone and ignoring you when you’re right there trying to talk to her is an obvious signal of disinterest and disrespect. I’m addressing the situation a few steps before that. When a guy is shitting his pants over what to type t…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/21 10:39 AM
7

You did what you were supposed to do. You fucked. You sent the next day text. If she doesn't reply, she wants it to be a one-time thing. Or you sucked in bed. Nothing to be gained from bothering her any more. Maybe a week from now when you're making your text rounds from the toilet, you can send her one more hey, doing this on this day you should come text. But I wouldn't expect a reply. Just kind of a hail mary while you're sending texts anyway.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 10:05 PM
7

If you want to have sex, you have to say things to a woman that she enjoys hearing and do things with a woman that she enjoys doing. Women do not just start humping your leg when you act all masculine and ignore them for some manly mission. Women have sex with guys who say and do things that the women find interesting and exciting, and that make them feel good. This is not rocket science. If you're muscular as shit and a super confident and accomplished multimillionaire, but you're just sitting …
/r/TheRedPill20/01/21 06:27 PM
27

Men around here have this weird idea where men should never actively try to have sex with women. Instead, men are supposed to strut around being masculine and doing their own stuff and being on some kind of mission and acting like they don't even care about sex, and women will then fall under their alpha male spell and line up to fuck them. Out in the real world, if you want to have sex, you have to actually say something to a woman that she enjoys hearing and finds interesting, and do something…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/21 03:09 PM
1

Depends on the girl. Some are down with an understood casual situation where you just go over to each other's places once or twice a week after work. Some girls even prefer that over having to go to the trouble of getting ready to go anywhere or wasting the time. Others need to feel at least a little less slutty, so you meet for a quick drink after work and hang out for an hour. Others need to casually date.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 03:03 PM
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Women get bored really fast in that situation. For all of the maternal instincts they're supposed to have, a lot of women really seem to hate childcare and homemaking. That situation makes women feel trapped, not entertained. "Barefoot and pregnant" is actually part of a larger phrase: "Keep her barefoot in the winter and pregnant in the summer". A pithy phrase meant to convey the idea is that a woman must be kept busy and kept trapped or she will misbehave. She can't run astray in the snow if s…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/21 08:41 PM
1

Exactly. This old rich asshole who spent 4 years doing nothing much and saying stupid shit publicly has a cult-like following who think he's practically the messiah. He's sitting at home eating popcorn watching people break windows and wave guns around in his name. He's just some asshole who says stupid shit. But the IDEA of Trump drives the radicals forward, same way the mere idea of Trump has kept the left feeling like they're living under a cloud for four years even though Trump hasn't really…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/21 02:44 PM
3

The day after (or if it's still a reasonable hour, that same night after you get back home or she gets back home), it's customary to send a text saying you enjoyed meeting her, let's do it again some time, something like that. If she doesn't respond, she wants it to be a one-time thing (or you sucked in bed). If she does respond, don't get into a conversation with her. Just go to bed and hit her up in a few days to set up your next sex-date. It doesn't have to be that same night you text her. It…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 09:05 PM
2

There's meditation, the actual eastern religious practice. Then, there's "meditation", the modern mindfulness fad. The first one is fine if you're the religious sort. The second is just a mental health fad.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 07:40 PM
5

You were fucked up. You were the bullied runt in your little kid school, everyone laughed at you and thought you sucked, and you even had a nickname. You were so socially clueless that you thought some girl at age 12, when kids barely understand anything about sex or relationships, actually liked you and was your friend. You remain socially clueless to this day. Your use of language and the ideas you've drawn from this childhood situation, and what you actually think is important or that other p…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/21 07:31 PM
3

For a 17 year old girl to remember you from when both of you were 12, you must have been one seriously ugly and fucked up little boy. Like, memorably so.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/21 07:14 PM
4

Women's texting is definitely boring. Because women are boring. When Tinder first came out, guys who opened up a match with "Hey" or "What's up" didn't do nearly as well as guys who were interesting. But when Bumble came out, allegedly to protect women from evil harassing men, women would open up a match with a very interesting "hi". Which was really just an invitation for the man to send his opening message so she could decide based on that whether he got any farther. Women are online or textin…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 05:32 PM
9

Texting is a tool to lead to sex. If you're being a woman's pen-pal and having boring "how's your day going" bullshit conversations, she's going to stop texting you and go have sex with someone who's being more interesting. Text game should be interesting and exciting for her. Not some kind of banal conversational build up where you finally ask her out on a date.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:57 PM
1

It's comfortable to pick out and mock a minor detail isn't it? Do opportunities like this make all of the sex you aren't having worth it? Use your brain. You're not going to make out with a girl while you are walking. It's logistically pretty tough to do, right? So stop her somewhere reasonably scenic and romantic, like a park bench and not the alley between the convenience store and the boarded up crack house, and somewhere that's just a short distance from your place so if things heat up you h…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:49 PM
1

Don't go any higher than the suburban dad quality of life. Bank (or invest) half your paycheck every month, drive a normal car, live in a normal place, eat normal food. You can still go out on the weekends and live. Just don't go any higher than what suburban dad could afford. Get an investment portfolio you could almost retire off of. Then, go travel. If you find yourself having trouble doing that in a reasonable timeframe on 120k per year, your rent is too high or you're spending too much on s…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 03:20 PM
5

A girl will often tell you how many boyfriends she's had as a smokescreen. You will think that a 30-year old woman with 9 previous boyfriends has had 9 previous sexual partners. Not so.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 03:11 PM
2

You're probably one of those kids who sucked at T-ball or karate or piano lessons growing up and your parents let you quit. You think that if something is hard for you and doesn't come naturally, then that's just who you are and you should honor your natural weaknesses. You know, it's a real pain in the ass to cook chicken. It's a lot easier and really tasty to just order pizza and eat ice cream for every meal. Should I still cook chicken and vegetables, or should I accept myself and someone tha…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 03:06 PM
4

Walking dates are the fallback if a woman has already refused to start the date at your place for dinner. Ideally, she should already be coming over for a meal, bringing a bottle of wine so she's a little invested, and sex after dinner possibly with a movie as a pretense. But if she refuses that with some lame "not comfortable yet" or "need to get to know you first and know you're safe" line, that's fine. Your odds of sex just went down from 95% to 20%, but if you've got nothing better to do, ma…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 03:01 PM
85

It's not about having a woman-talking quota. It's about talking to people every time you go out somewhere instead of staring at your phone. Sometimes, those people are women. In your spare time on the toilet, send some online dating messages, or text some women you're already in the texting stages with. In the real world, talk to people when you're out. Don't just target women. Whoever's in line with you at the grocery store or getting coffee, just say hi and chat. It doesn't have to be some goa…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 02:56 PM
1

Always be closing. Next time with the next girl: "You seem nice. Once we drop these packages off, want to grab a drink?" If she's astute and mentions you're underage (assuming the age is 21 wherever you are), tell her you know, you have some beers at your apartment. The fact that she hasn't opened Snapchat isn't a huge deal. Maybe she's ignoring you, maybe she just hasn't read your message yet. Whatever happens happens. But you're too invested in this one girl you talked to for two minutes in th…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/21 10:33 PM
8

Only chumps and sugar daddies buy a woman who isn't their wife a new cell phone. WTF is this?
/r/askTRP15/01/21 09:03 PM
4

"Something came up. I can't make (dinner at 7, or whatever the fuck your plans were with her). I should be back by 9:30. Come over with wine or something and you can make it up to me." Turn your plans into a sex date without saying such. Enjoy feeling powerful for a bit. Do stuff like this every time she fucks with you.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 09:00 PM
9

Quit rationalizing. Your not-girlfriend hasn't seen you in eight months, makes no effort to see you and makes excuses any time you bring it up, and has been going on dates with another guy. And you've been putting up with it, dutifully video-chatting with her and worrying about her stories about texting some guy or meeting some guy "just for a few minutes at the library while I was taking a break from studying" and eating it all up. Your not-girlfriend has been going on dates and having sex, whi…
/r/askTRP15/01/21 08:29 PM
2

You know what a plate is, right? A plate is a casual sex partner that you are non-exclusively having a sex-only relationship with, and maybe hanging out sometimes if she's fun to hang with. You are non-exclusive. You are having sex with other people. So is she. You are not emotionally and romantically intimate with each other. Her stories about some guy who wants to fuck her or is fucking her or who she wants to fuck are just that. Stories. She's just a plate, so it doesn't matter who she's fuck…
/r/askTRP15/01/21 08:23 PM
2

Some kind of compliance test or neg that makes her want to qualify herself to you.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 08:20 PM
12

We haven't met for around 8 months due to covid and us being stuck in 2 diffrent cities 10 hr drive apart You don't have a girlfriend. You should have ended things and started fucking other women. Maybe in reverse order. So long story short we were unable to meet due to one reason or another. Girlfriends make efforts to see their boyfriends. You don't have a girlfriend. there is this guy from a couple of years ago before she met me. She met him on tinder ... he has been texting her for some days…
/r/askTRP15/01/21 08:17 PM
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real 9s and 10s are very rare and will rarely ever talk to anyone not across or UP in status. My experience has been the opposite. Extremely hot women tend to be really friendly and pleasant to be around. They may not date or fuck you but most of the time aren't super bitchy about it. It's the 6s and 7s who are the biggest bitches. They know they're not the extremely hot women, but they want to feel like it, so they're mean to guys they consider beneath them, and extremely slutty for hot guys. B…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/21 07:44 PM
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The only way your self esteem gets to a point where you really don't care that much about one woman or another is when you have had casual sex with a dozen of them and can reliably find other women with which to have casual sex. There's no short cut to that. If you haven't been that guy yet, you will always subconsciously consider yourself below women. Because whatever one woman you're trying to date, she has something you want that you are unable to easily obtain without her doing you a favor. …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/21 07:08 PM
4

If you're going to all the trouble of gaming a girl and getting her home, you might as well have an orgasm. I cast a wide net. Unless a girl is bona fide ugly or impossible to get along with, I'll set up a date. I can always cancel if a better offer comes along. If I go on the date, I always play it as far as it can go. Obviously, a girl can blow it if she's shitty to be around or shows up 40 pounds heavier than a profile pic with bad body odor or something. But in general, if I'm on a date, I'm…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/21 04:55 PM
20

Are you planning on outing yourself as a Red Pill antifeminist man publicly on social media? Arguing and fighting with women is a beta male thing. Real men are above that shit and just let women be stupid. Beta males are the workhorses that contribute their labor and leech the non-sexual pleasures of society in trade for that. When a replaceable dime a dozen workhorse acts up, you beat the shit out of it until it behaves or kill it. Your loser friend didn't know his place and fought with a woman…
/r/askTRP14/01/21 10:42 PM
13

The pandemic is harder, but not impossible. Left-wing blue state women want to have casual sex, because refraining from casual sex is an evil conservative thing. But they want to take the virus seriously, because not taking the virus seriously is something that Trump guy did which makes it evil. The solution women have reached is on Facebook, they pretend to take the virus seriously, but in their personal lives, they still have casual sex, just not as many of them. You have an in to just invite …
/r/askTRP14/01/21 07:37 PM
15

A lot of guys get the wrong idea about this. They assume that if a woman has 200 Tinder matches, that they might as well not try. Some internet defeatist theory that women will only fuck the top 0.000001% of men, which they have access to thanks to Tinder. But this assumes too much attention and investment from women. Women are not computers. They are not reading all 500 messages they get from a dating site and evaluating all of the profile pictures and information, then deciding which one is th…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/21 07:08 PM
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This translates into how you date and fuck women as well. If you meet a girl and get her number, or match with a girl online, or however else people initiate contact nowadays, you have 3 days maximum to be having sex with her. Sooner is better. In fact, spontaneously going out the very night you initiate contact is the best. If you're one of those chumps who's waiting a week to ask out some girl you met somewhere, you'd better have made a really, really strong impression. Because in the past wee…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/21 03:08 PM
6

She's not your exclusive girlfriend. Just a girl you've been on 4 dates with. If you were really done with her, you could just stop dating her and spend more time with the other women you're dating. But you haven't been dating other women, have you? So you decided to try a hail mary with this one by directly and outright telling her you're letting her go due to lack of sex, hoping she responds back "Don't go! I'll fuck you good!" Three things might have happened: You didn't actually try for sex.…
/r/askTRP14/01/21 03:02 PM
6

The general idea that if you approach a girl with personal questions, share personal information, and immediately hit on her, that's going to put her guard and bitch shields up is true. The general idea that it really doesn't matter what kind of small talk you have and you'll be able to tell in about 30 seconds by how she responds whether she's the least bit interested in you is true. The idea that you need to examine each situation carefully and try to find some kind of convincing excuse about …
/r/askTRP14/01/21 02:43 PM
2

You're blaming the wrong stuff for the wrong stuff. Women can have casual sex during their youth, and still end up married, have kids, and society goes on. They can be the sluttiest sluts ever, and still end up okay in the end and society still goes on. As a completely different issue, marriage is stupid and a bad deal for men because it's really easy for women to take the kids, the money, the house, and leave, while the men get fucked over. This doesn't seem to stop most men from getting marrie…
/r/askTRP13/01/21 09:39 PM
4

Where are you getting this? Most people get married. Most families have an average of 2 kids. 85% of kids graduate from high school, 40% from college. This idea that society is just falling apart and the feminists are destroying everything with liberal values and casual sex is entirely an internet invention. If you step out of your house and actually meet these sluts and enjoy their company, you'll find out that they're pretty normal-ish people. And most of them end up married eventually. I woul…
/r/askTRP13/01/21 08:46 PM
2

That's a problem for women to worry about. Guys around here whine about this a lot, though. "OMG! If they're all sluts, how am I ever going to find a good wife and have a happy family and happy life filled with love, sex, and respect? They're ruining themselves and now I can never be happy!" Sure you can. Have sex with women. Even hang out and enjoy their company if they're cool. But have your own life separate from them that you also enjoy. Let women worry about what's healthy for women. Let wo…
/r/askTRP13/01/21 08:39 PM
67

Trump was an interesting phenomenon that really never should have been. The entire Trump presidency was 99% hype. If you ask the left, Trump was supposed to be the next Hitler. He was supposedly going to roll women's rights back to the dark ages, round up and deport every single person who speaks Spanish, burn down every inner city black neighborhood, make it illegal to be gay or trans, start world war 3 with nukes, and turn the US into some kind of nazi ultra-nationalist white supremacist parad…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/21 06:08 PM
8

You are jealous when a woman is slutty because you have difficulty getting laid. Once you've had sex with a couple dozen women and learn how to reliably pick up girls for casual sex, you'll stop hating sluts and start seeing them as people.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 03:59 PM
8

Stop trying to belong to a community or become some kind of word definition and start learning how to get laid.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 03:56 PM
12

Somewhere along the way, this autistic guy woke up and decided that men understanding a concept and acting appropriately wasn't enough. We needed more exact algorithms! Because surfing the internet and imagining how hypothetical women would numerically weigh all of my various traits in triangle-shaped settings is totally more likely to get me laid than talking to women.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/21 03:53 PM
5

Recognize that if you did not have sex with this girl within 3 days of meeting her, her interest has dropped significantly. It's been a couple of weekends now, right? By now, she has been on two or three dates with other guys, probably had sex once or twice, and doesn't remember you. Unless you made a really strong impression, she's going to ignore anything you send her. With that in mind, don't invest so much thought into what you're going to do about her. It's a slim chance, so stressing out a…
/r/askTRP12/01/21 10:52 PM
154

Women who go out to bars in pairs are always looking to be bad girls. If its 1 woman, she has issues and you should stay away. Normal women don't go out to bars alone. If it's 15 women, it's someone's birthday or a bachelorette party or something like that. You can get a phone number, but nobody's bailing on a gathering of friends who will call her a slut for some random guy. But 2 women? That is sluts on the prowl. Married? Not married? Doesn't matter. A pair of girls is out to see what happens…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/21 09:54 PM
1

You absolutely, positively should invite the girl to your place. The lockdown is the ideal excuse. Something like "Hey. So I really wanted to take you out after we met, then this lockdown happened and everything's closed. Come over Friday. Bring a bottle of something and I'll cook us dinner." If she makes some girl comment about expectations or how it's too soon or you just met or some other variation of not wanting a sex date, just make fun of her. Tell her she's got a dirty mind, you're not th…
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:29 PM
8

You're chasing too hard. Probably because you didn't fuck half a dozen other girls over Christmas break, while she fucked half a dozen other guys. You're thirsty, she's not, and it's a turn off.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:22 PM
0

What is this bullshit? Women do not owe strangers that they've never met any kind of explanation, respect, or dignity. They also don't owe you any kind of explanation, respect, or dignity. Not even your sister. Expecting this from any woman is just going to lead you to disappointment when women do not meet your expectations. Learn what women are like already. Women are respectful to you when you have something they want. Accept what women are like and stop having unreasonable expectations of wom…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/21 06:53 PM
12

The talk isn't as big of a thing as it used to be in 2005. A lot of casual girls just plain don't want a serious relationship right now, or at least not with the kind of guy they're hooking up with. As long as you're not the potential boyfriend prospect, you'll never get the talk. Frankly, the idea that a guy would ever want to play the talk situation to try to save a plate is stupid anyway. He has other plates. (If he doesn't, he might as well say yes to a relationship until he does.) But if he…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/21 09:29 PM
24

Feminist talking points are just shit tests. When a woman tells you she doesn't like muscular men, do you stop going to the gym? Nope. They have sex with muscular men. When a woman tells you that men who act masculine are toxic, should you stop acting masculine? Nope. And women have sex with masculine men. You seem too invested in this feminist talking point. Just ignore it and have sex with women.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 02:35 PM
41

Women absolutely hate confrontation. They loathe it. This is why women get so pissed off when some loser guy tries to talk to them at a bar. Now they're stuck in a situation where they have to tell him off if he's not taking the hint. This is tense and uncomfortable for them. This is why women end up getting paid less than men at the same jobs. They accept the first salary offer and are afraid to negotiate because that's confrontational. Then, they spend their entire career never asking their bo…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/21 09:50 PM
46

This is so simple, and I never would have thought of it. Flagging down a girl with your hands like you're calling a taxi makes it so that her choosing not to stop and to pass by without acknowledging you would be a deliberate act of snubbing you. You turn NOT talking to you into a confrontational act, and women hate confrontation.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/21 07:03 PM
3

Never waste a good tragedy. A lot of money and a lot of political gain happened due to the virus. Can you imagine what the presidential debates would have looked like without Covid? Booooooring. Trump would have postured and said cool things about the economy. Biden would have insisted Trump sucks and it was Obama's good economy Trump inherited. And they would have argued about that boring shit for like 20 minutes. Meanwhile, the democrats and media would all insist that Trump's a racist and min…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/21 02:48 PM
7

You know, if there were 300 million Red Pill subreddit men, I might agree with you that we're a political movement. But we're really just a handful of guys in some forgotten corner of the internet who chat about getting laid. We trend conservative/libertarian and anti-feminist, but not universally, and we don't mobilize in the real world to try to change anything, just figure out ways to navigate the world and still get laid. We're not a communist-compatible ideology because being better and mor…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/21 08:31 PM
8

That's a good point. It is very comforting to do what we are supposed to do, then hide behind the fact that we are supposed to do it as a reason for why we never did anything great. Many men like to pretend that doing what is expected of us is a great virtue, and even if nobody likes or respects you for it, living with that pride and dignity of doing what you were supposed to do is allegedly some kind of internal value. Like that horse from Animal Farm who worked himself to death then got sold t…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/21 08:24 PM
190

Too true. And it goes deeper than muscles. Besides the plumbing, risk aversion is the #1 factor that differentiates women from men. That's why you see so many women in government jobs and middle management demanding all jobs be converted to a standardized rubric point system so nobody has to stick their neck out and demonstrate competency or merit or actually ask their boss for a raise. Men who are unable to deal with risk are feminine men. They may have dicks, but the way they approach life is …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/21 08:02 PM
5

You fit in better with all of the people who do what they're supposed to do and expect you to do what you're supposed to do. But at quite the risk.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:26 PM
38

I learned a lot about communication. When you tell somebody something, they only hear what they want to hear. So you need to disguise things that you want the other person to hear as something they actually want to hear. This applies equally to both women and other men.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/21 05:37 PM
1

Don't read books on how to make friends. Just hang out with guys. Take up a martial art like bjj and go roll with a bunch go guys 3 times a week for a year, and you can't help learning a few things about them. Invite your neighbors over to watch MMA or sporting events. Start a neighborhood poker group. And pay attention. Actually remember what people do for a living and ask follow up questions to learn more plus help yourself remember. You get better at hanging with guys by hanging with guys.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/21 04:37 PM
6

You shouldn't get married. The ability to walk away without lawyers, courts, money, child custody, and property division is the only power you have in any relationship. Once a woman has the unilateral power to take your children and over half your money any time she wants to leave, and any time you want to leave the only way you can do it is giving her your children and over half your money, the ONLY thing keeping her treating you even a little bit decently is the goodness of her heart. It does …
/r/askTRP31/12/20 09:57 PM
1

You were all over the place, contradicting yourself half a dozen times with trivial details that really don't matter, when the answer was obvious and could be summed up with six words: Not girlfriend material. Just have sex. But I thought reining in your scatterbrained obsession with this casual partner and the trivial details you're picking out might help you focus.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:54 PM
2

It's very strange to commit to this idea that you stop meeting women when you have a girlfriend. Why sit around waiting for some woman to dump you before you have another sex partner lined up? Why not keep being social and if things work out, maybe find someone better now, and you be the one who dumps your girlfriend for a change? And what's the hang-up on cheating? If you're not going to marry the girlfriend anyway, the worst that could happen is she finds out and dumps you. And that's if you'r…
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:51 PM
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Plate keeps mentioning other guy She's a plate. So what? Have sex with her. Hey guys, Hey. Been seeing a girl for a couple months. We really vibe Cool. Have sex with her. and I could see her being my GF in a couple more months. What? Didn't I just read two lines above something that contradicts this? Do you have ADD or something? And why this arbitrary "couple more months" time constraint? I have no problem keeping it casual though Are you sure? Because it sounds like you're trying to talk yours…
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:42 PM
2

Don't ask your girlfriend about her exes or her history. Have sex with your girlfriend. A lot. Don't get married. Just enjoy the sex. Accept that this relationship is eventually going to end. Due to #3, continue meeting women and living your own independent life untethered from your girlfriend while continuing to have sex with her. If you find a better woman or your girlfriend becomes too much of a hassle to deal with, dump her and start having sex with one of the other women you've been talking…
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:31 PM
1

OP isn't fifteen years old sitting at home watching his dad sneak out every weekend. He's 27. Most 27 year olds have a full time job, a friend group, lots of hobbies they're into, and usually a steady girlfriend or an active dating life. It's unusual for a 27 year old adult to be paying close attention to his dad's behavior. How does a 27 year old with his own place, a full time job, a friend group, hobbies, and a girlfriend or active dating life somehow not only notice signs of his dad behaving…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 07:53 PM
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Yeah, though I look kind of funny with one. I tried rocking a beard a couple of years ago and just looked silly. Got rid of it a month or two later. I look way better without one, and that was reflected in my sex life. A beard can totally work for the right guy with the right look and face shape. I just don't buy into OP's bro-science that beards are this masculine testosterone-laden sign that the female body unconsciously picks up on. Or if they do, it's not enough of a factor to overpower thei…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 07:26 PM
3

There's definitely a big picture component and ways to do facial hair right and wrong. Anyway, my observation has been that a woman will say something stupid like "I don't like muscular men" then proceed to fuck muscular men. However, when a woman says "I don't like beards", the idea in her head that she's not supposed to like beards seems to be strong enough to overpower any unconscious desire she might have for a manly bearded man.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 06:12 PM
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Think about the kind of person who is taking the time and putting in the effort to investigate his father's activities in his spare time. What kind of person sees something his father does and goes all detective on him? That's not the normal behavior of a successful guy who's got his life together. Normal people with girls, professional success, friends, and fun hobbies don't play detective on their dad in their spare time. It's not a normal side interest you'd see a successful person undertakin…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 06:07 PM
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A lot of women see stubble and their mind unconsciously thinks dirty hobo, lazy, lack of discipline, etc. Not "OMG masculinity me want fuck!" Manly beards seem to be one of the rare signs of manliness that don't make women involuntarily wet. In fact, they seem to disgust some women.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 06:05 PM
5

Not always. Your girlfriend is definitely going to end things one day. It might be tomorrow and this picture is the sign. Or it might be months from now. The better question is how many other women you have lined up to replace her at any given time. Because judging by this post, my guess is zero. If you are high and dry and sexless without her in your life and can't replace her in under a week, that's what you need to fix instead of worrying about her selfie habits. Because if you were comfortab…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:48 PM
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You're 27. Aren't you an adult or something like that? You should be too busy working full-time, making bank, gaming women, having lots of sex, and developing skills and hobbies to be keeping track of who your dad's fucking or how he's spending his spare time. What your dad, who is also an adult, is doing with his spare time and what he chooses to tell you about his life is his business.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:44 PM
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This is more of a fashion trend than a masculinity attracting females thing. The beard has made a comeback. Twenty years ago, you hardly saw any beards, and girls wanted nothing to do with those guys. Goatees started to come into fashion for a little bit, then went away. In another few years when everyone starts shaving their quarantine scruff, maybe the beard trend goes away. Plus, some face shapes look really good with beards, some look silly.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 02:39 PM
7

Straight from the introduction to The Red Pill on the sidebar: Welcome to the red pill The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. Sure, there is a place in the world for a general discussion about general self-improvement, masculinity, success, and life achievement that is independent from and extends beyond sexual strategy. And I encourage the OP to go participate in those forums or start his own. If you are not discussing sexual s…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/20 06:38 PM
3

Because I'm calling you out. You're an internet philosophy loser who isn't actually valuable. That's why you resort to calling men who are actually valuable "empty shells" and refuse to acknowledge that real people actually wanting to fuck you, date you, be your friend, hire you, promote you, and see you succeed is the sign of real value. While being a guy who can't get laid to save his life is the sign of absence of real value. People like valuable people. People refuse to fuck non-valuable peo…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/20 06:36 PM
1

It's comforting, from the outside pointing in, to think that the men who are actually valuable are "empty shells". Nobody on the inside, that people actually want to fuck, befriend, hire, promote, and see succeed, is faking their value. They don't have to. They're actually valuable. The MGTOW philosophy retards on the internet who pretend that some variation of being true to themselves as some kind of stoic Buddhist who hates society, some way, somehow constitutes real internal value are the fak…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/20 06:02 PM
3

If you do all of this powerful self improvement and become an awesome and valuable man, and you STILL can't get laid, that's even more pathetic than some fat virgin living in mom's basement. Value is something given to you by others. Not from smug intellectual masturbation about missions and internal value. If nobody wants to date you, have sex with you, be friends with you, hire you, promote you, or give you money, you are NOT valuable. No matter how much you tell yourself you're still mommy's …
/r/TheRedPill29/12/20 03:23 PM
4

Who the hell are you? Why don't you go invade some forum for discussing steak and tell them that you think they should expand to include chicken because it's healthier? And that the word "steak" has always just meant meat as a whole to you. And make sure to talk in the plural when you do it so the steak people think there are a lot of you who feel that way.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/20 03:19 PM
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You'd have to be a moron not to see that America has been hyper right wing for decades This is something Americans only understand if they travel and spend a lot of time in other countries. America has very definitely had a very strong shift further left. But they have no idea how far left the left can actually go. If you ask Europe, they think Biden is center-right and Bernie is a moderate centrist. They think Americans are yee-haw crazy conservative cowboys who need to get with the times. We h…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 09:44 PM
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The next 5 years are going to involve huge increases in censorship. If you post anything even vaguely racist, sexist, or anti-gay/trans on the internet (and nowadays, simply expressing that something benign is not bigotry after someone else says that it is counts as bigotry), or post anything socially objectionable (such as things about elections or viruses that the government-media complex has declared to be "fake news") will affect you in the real world. All online activities will be required …
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 08:06 PM
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Where guys get confused is that they want a one-path solution, but there are three working parts: Be fuckable. This is where self-improvement comes into play. If you're fat, ugly, broke, no confidence, etc., then you need to self improve until you are no longer un-fuckable. Game women. This is something that loser men who haven't even done #1 right yet like to use to derail The Red Pill because they're afraid of rejection. They insist that "women aren't worth it" and the "huge investment" that c…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/20 06:18 PM
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I'd advise the opposite. If a woman is on the warpath, do not engage. You can't win with a woman. If you are fighting, you've already lost. The very act of engaging with a woman provides validity to whatever issue she is getting on about. The fact that you are rising to defend yourself or attack her over the issue means that the issue is important, and that she decides what's important to you by bringing issues up. It doesn't matter if you are logically correct or if you present good points and …
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 11:14 PM
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Somewhere along the line, a bunch of autistic internet mgtow weirdos hijacked The Red Pill subreddit and decided that it's no longer about sexual strategy and is instead about becoming some kind of manly hermit who is above his sexual needs and only gets laid as a side effect of the herculean greatness he achieves. Sexual strategy is, as its name implies, a strategy to improve your sexual outcomes. One possible sexual strategy is to spend a decade or two struggling to become the most valuable ma…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 07:31 PM
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Yep. Don't get married. You don't get anything out of marriage you can't get out of unmarried life. Marriage is either a neutral thing that adds zero to your life that you couldn't get already, or a huge negative. Marriage is not a positive thing that adds to your life. Sex? You can have that without marriage. Love? Same. Sharing money? That too if you really want to. Nothing is added to your life by entering into a government-sanctioned legal arrangement with a woman that requires lawyers and m…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 06:18 PM
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Yeah. It's gotten kind of weird. Some guy shows up and asks for advice on how to drive a Honda better, and gets told "Forget about Hondas! Spend the next block of years getting certified to drive commercial trucks, formula 1 race cars, off-road vehicles, get a job as a trucker for a little bit, as a driving instructor, as an off-road safari tourist. And after years and years of developing your true value as a driver, you'll be able to drive anything, including that Honda you asked about years ag…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 05:54 PM
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This is good advice. Men never do it. Treat EVERY SINGLE INTERACTION THAT YOU HAVE with your wife as though it is being recorded with the intention of being used in court. Never say or do anything to or around your wife that you wouldn't want aired in a courtroom. In fact, assume she's recording you. Even if she's not, act like she is. Any time you approach your wife with anything that has even the slightest potential to set her off, RECORD THAT SHIT. Treat every interaction with your wife as th…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 05:30 PM
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There are things you can do right now that can get you laid this weekend. Or maybe in a few months if you're hideously ugly and need some gym time before you're fuckable. There are things you can do to build some kind of long-term internal value as a great valuable manly man. Those are not always the same things. If a guy comes to The Red Pill and what he wants is to get laid this weekend, it's not very good advice to tell him to forget about women or external sources of value, study stoicism, r…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 05:12 PM
3

This is really just an extension of not getting married. Which really just falls under the larger umbrella of not being legally and financially responsible for another person. Kids are cute and rewarding and stuff, but much like when you have a wife, when you have a kid you are now financially responsible for another human. And just like when you have a wife, even if that kid human is removed from your life, you remain financially responsible for it. The biggest difference is that kids don't hav…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 02:45 PM
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When you waste a lot of time on reddit reading The Red Pill sub, you start to think that things you read here are a big deal. So when you see two or three "onlyfans sucks" posts on The Red Pill sub, you get stupid ideas like people talking about onlyfans on the subreddit is a significant issue that is having an effect on the system. You then get an even stupider idea that it would be a good idea to post something addressing the non-issue of people posting about another non-issue.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/20 11:11 PM
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A lot of the time, it's not about you. There's no secret code where if you do the right Red Pill moves, you can be that kind of guy for one specific woman every time you try. Most of the time, The Red Pill is more about how to recognize and accept what's really happening than how to win every single situation. If a woman is looking for fun right now, you can be a "beta" or "BP" guy who's a little above average looking, right place, right time, who seems cute and fun when he tries a little bit of…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 08:45 PM
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This is one of those things that only makes sense in a woman's mind: Sex is completely contextual. A woman can be a slutty little whore with a casual partner and do all kinds of things she'd never do with her future husband, and love every minute of it, and consider all of it positive sexual experiences. Her next boyfriend can pressure her into the exact same sex acts, and she'll hate it and resent him for it and consider it creepy borderline rape and one of the worst experiences of her life. An…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 05:57 PM
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Typically, we say that a woman hits "the wall" when she plays the game for too long and is now blocked off from the future she thought she could always fall back on. The stereotypical example is a woman who spends her 20s drinking and having lots of casual sex, always assuming she'll eventually end up married one of these days. But suddenly she's 35 and chubbier from all of that alcohol and eating out and slower metabolism, and her skin and hair aren't as nice and show signs of that party lifest…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 09:52 PM
1

There needs to be some kind of new rule in this forum where posts have to be based on a man's actual interaction with a woman, what happened, and why he thinks it happened, which we can then discuss. This thing where random nobody men post vague, general advice about some strawman caricature summary of some vaguely but not really red pill concept that isn't grounded in any kind of real experience and doesn't provide any actionable advice or discussion points isn't helping anybody get laid or imp…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/20 11:47 PM
1

For every woman you see making real money being an internet camera whore, there are 1000000 who failed or who are trying and can't make anything. This idea that some average nobody woman can just hop on the internet and make three times more than the average household income in the USA for barely working doing something any unskilled woman anywhere can do is internet rage-porn for loser men to get salty about. It doesn't actually happen. Once in awhile, a woman might get lucky, but she's one out…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/20 11:41 PM
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I've noticed that guys around here tend to very seriously underestimate the average man. The average man with average looks and average social skills tends to have average success when it comes to relationships and casual sex. The average man goes out an average amount of time and has no problems being social in a social setting because that's what average people do. Sometimes he gets lucky, sometimes he doesn't. But the average man has some success with relationships and some success with casua…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/20 02:29 PM
1

Creepy is definitely a thing. If you don't know how to hit on a girl who turns out not to be into you, read her signals, and change or exit that interaction based on her signals, you have poor social skills and are "creepy". Men aren't "creepy" just for hitting on a girl who isn't into them. Men are "creepy" when the way they do it is socially weird, or when they don't pick up on signals and shift the conversation or exit the conversation in a socially appropriate manner. If you can't propositio…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/20 11:20 PM
2

A woman who does something extremely heinous and is publicly interviewed is an outlier. I don't think posting some youtube clip of an interview of an outlier and saying "Look at what women are like!" is a very good Red Pill lesson. Or really any kind of lesson about anything in life.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/20 11:16 PM
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This Onlyfans thing isn't as huge and widespread as a lot of men who live primarily on the internet think it is, but it's definitely good to remain aware of the fact that the landscape is changing every day. And as a result, the best sexual strategy changes every day. And that's the entire point of this forum. To discuss the best sexual strategy for men. The way you'd try to get laid in 1997 wouldn't even get you a date in 2004. And all of the OG Redpill stuff from 10 years ago is sorely outdate…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/20 05:37 PM
0

This idea that the majority of women are cam-whores isn't really true. Obviously, vet your women by pretending to be sex-positive, and know that women are going to try like hell to hide any whiff of sexual impropriety from you. And know well that most women have a casual sex history. But the idea that any significant number of women you meet will have a history of whoring themselves on camera, or that society is trending in a direction where every woman is encouraged to and will do so, is silly.…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/20 10:54 PM
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It's important not to fall into the trap of making excuses for yourself or other unfortunate guys. The world does not care whether you are a good guy in other situations or whether you have hidden value that is not evident in this situation right now. A normal person with normal value and normal social aptitude is able to function in a non-ideal social situation and continue looking normal, valuable, and therefore non-creepy and potentially worthy of sex and attention from women. We're not talki…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/20 02:43 PM
2

You are assuming, based on something you read on a website, that you were improperly passed over for a job due to being male. You are assuming, based on your own subjective analysis of your life, that you are highly qualified for this position and entitled to it, and passing you over is clearly discriminatory. Do you have anything to go on besides assumptions? Talk to the guy in charge who supposedly wants to work with you. Don't mention sexism. Just mention that you were surprised your applicat…
/r/askTRP14/12/20 07:06 PM
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I'd counter that regardless of what walk of life "Chad" is a part of, the problem is normally with not-Chad. In addition to an inability to get laid or interact properly with women, one of the biggest tells of a low quality guy is that he has no clue how to interact with other men. When Chad and all of the cool guys hate you, and you are unable to interact well with those men, that is an indication of your own low social skills. You know those guys at bars and parties who are kind of off and cre…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/20 05:47 PM
3

The quarantine has made it difficult for you to step outside and experience the real world. You are extrapolating your experiences with a small number of women who are not representative of the average woman into some kind of general rule. Most women on dating apps will meet with you if you are cute and fun and your game is tight. Most women are looking for sex and romance and are not just trying to milk men for money. Even the ones who pretend they do on fringe internet sites. Most women do not…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/20 04:09 PM
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What's with these unreasonable expectations of women? OF COURSE women have casual sex. Stop hunting for a wife and just enjoy having casual sex like a normal person. You have this weird bitterness where you feel like this woman somehow lied to you because she met you on a hiking trail instead of at a club. She outright told you about her sex history. Nobody lied to you. Nobody pretended anything. You had your own idiot expectations about what women ought to be like that this woman didn't meet be…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/20 08:05 PM
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A lot of guys fall into the trap of hating "Chad". They tell themselves that sure, Chad is hot and gets all the girls and sex, but he's a real asshole and one day, he'll end up washed up and a loser. That's hardly ever the case. Because not only is Chad hot and socially skilled. He's going to the same colleges the not-Chads are, getting the same engineering and computer and business degrees, and with his looks and social skills, he's going on to get good jobs and make money just like the non-Cha…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/20 07:15 PM
1

It sounds like you're a lazy shit who is "SO stressed out" because finding a job is hard and working is hard, and you don't want to do hard things. You were probably that kid whose parents let him quit T-ball and quit piano lessons and quit karate and so on because every time something actually got hard, you didn't want to do it any more. And now you're an adult who thinks that if something is hard, you're not meant to do it. Which is why you think "the regular 9 to 5 life is not for me". Becaus…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/20 07:10 PM
2

Sure. It happens. But I'd say 3/4s of the time, it doesn't. The sex goes on without either one of you talking about what it is (because that makes women feel slutty, plus overtly talking about it is unpleasant social behavior that turns women off due to low social acumen). Usually, a casual relationship ends when she finds a guy she wants to date seriously and lets you go (but sometimes picks you back up if it doesn't work out!), or one of you gets bored and stops returning the other's texts. Th…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/20 02:36 PM
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Sex is not a waste of time any more than eating is a waste of time. When you are hungry, you make dinner and eat it. Then you go back to being productive. When you are horny, you hook up with a woman. Then you go back to being productive. Sex is not a waste of time any more than eating dinner is a waste of time. This idea that we're supposed to be 100% productive 100% of the time is very stressful. All of that stress just makes people less productive.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/20 02:32 PM
3

The man isn't the one having the not-medically-necessary medical lab run that might lead to negative consequences in his life. I'm not saying paternity fraud is okay, but you asked what the legal basis is for not allowing paternity tests, and that's the legal basis. It's a medical procedure done on a child that isn't necessary for medical reasons and could have bad consequences for the child. To act like there's no legal basis and it's crazy for paternity testing to be illegal in some places is …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 08:59 PM
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Not so. Women will intentionally have fun sex with guys they absolutely do not want to date seriously, who are absolutely not relationship material. They know going in that a guy is an asshole, isn't suitable to date, and so on, but the sex is good and fun. Women very much do have sex just for fun with absolutely no intention of trying to change or date the fun sex guy (who is often chosen for sex specifically because he is not suitable for a relationship). Women will continue to meet guys and g…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 08:01 PM
3

The legal reason in most countries is that a paternity test is a medical procedure. You're taking a child's DNA and running a lab on it. If there isn't a family history of genetic issues, the test isn't medically warranted. In which case you'd be performing a medical test on a child that is not for the child's benefit or in the child's interests, because subjecting the child to the test and discovering false paternity could lead to abuse, neglect, abandonment, loss of financial resources, a less…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 07:58 PM
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I don't think we'll see mandated marriages, but a bachelor tax is definitely on the horizon. It won't specifically be a men-only tax, because that would be tough to pass, but it will be for all people who aren't married and make more than a certain amount of money (which will primarily be men). I also think we're going to see more normalization of open marriages, with the feminist idea that marriage has historically been used to control women. The narrative will be that you don't own a woman jus…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 07:23 PM
2

You let go, enjoy the sex, let her get fat and behave badly, find one or more other women, then dump her. This isn't a punishment for you or for her. It's just the natural end to the relationship. Every relationship ends. It's not a mean consequence for anybody's behavior. It's just what happens. Eventually, she will destroy herself or the relationship. All women do. Some do it faster than others and nuke things early. Some bleed the relationship slowly over a couple of decades. It's fine. This …
/r/askTRP09/12/20 07:01 PM
4

You are overinvested. You are supposed to have a girlfriend, not a toddler, not a dog. If you have to babysit your girlfriend to make sure she doesn't eat all the candy in the house and take her out for exercise a few times a week, you have a pet. And you don't want a pet. You want a girlfriend. But you know you have a pet. You know the second you stop babysitting your pet woman, she's going to scarf down all the chocolate in the house, put some extra wear on your furniture, and start misbehavin…
/r/askTRP09/12/20 06:54 PM
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That depends on your 30-40 year olds. A never-married 31 year old is definitely looking for a serious boyfriend and eventual husband. But that doesn't mean she's necessarily looking for that in you tonight. Women in their 30s have casual sex pretty freely when they're single (even more easily than women in their 20s), and keep casual guys in their phone for hookups when they're not on dates with more serious boyfriend candidates. Just make sure you're not a boyfriend candidate. Previously marrie…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 03:10 PM
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A popular Red Pill misconception is that women are fucking you to try to angle for a relationship. This is rarely the case. Women who want to fuck do not typically want a relationship with you. In fact, they specifically want you to NOT be a relationship type of guy. They want you to be fun, hot, sexy, and good in bed. Many of them aren't looking for a relationship right now, or at least not with you tonight. And if they were looking for a relationship with you, they wouldn't be fucking you the …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 01:35 AM
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If you assume women are computers, this sounds like very good advice. Because a computer is going to go through all 1000 matches and read all 400 messages and select the one candidate with the greatest looks and the best game. But what really happens is just a bunch of luck and timing. If you're reasonably cute and catch a woman with a message when she's looking at her phone right now and she's bored and horny, you can close the deal right now and go meet for drinks. The other dozens of messages…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/20 09:59 PM
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How are you responding to her insecurity? Because if you are validating her insecurity by verbally reassuring her, explaining yourself, and so on, you are being feminine. That just makes her more insecure, because feminine men are little bitches that lie. If you're putting a finger to her lips, making shushing noises, and telling her that you're going to show her how amazing the two of you are together as you pick her up and carry her ass to bed and fuck her like she's the only woman on earth, s…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 09:10 PM
1

Not your wife. Not your problem. You're her fuck-buddy. Not her husband. Not her bodyguard. Hell, she can be fucking this orbiter on the days she's not with you, and it's not your problem or your business. You know what a plate is, right?
/r/askTRP08/12/20 06:40 PM
2

It's the opposite. You've never been able to pull women and sex has been very scarce for you. So you're starting to become desensitized to the lack of sex and borderline asexual. Your brain no longer associates women with orgasms, so you no longer get turned on and get a raging erection for women. The second you pull out your cell phone and load up a porn site, you're probably getting hard before you even see the thumbnails. Because that's what your brain associates with orgasms.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/20 06:32 PM
1

Sounds like you need a third plate. Two weeks without plate #2 and you're already freaking out about who this girl is texting?
/r/askTRP08/12/20 05:50 PM
1

How many other women are you having sex with?
/r/askTRP08/12/20 03:08 PM
2

Why does the things some girl does when you're not having sex with her bother you so much? Obviously, if she's on her phone texting some other guy when you're with her, that's something to address. But the fact that she's entertaining herself with some other dude she doesn't even like when you're doing your own thing? What's that matter? Is this your wife or something?
/r/askTRP08/12/20 02:31 PM
1

Having done both, I can assure you that it isn't that different. But more importantly, fucking a really slutty girl today does not somehow stop you from fucking anybody else in the future.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/20 06:51 PM
2

You're asking the wrong questions. I think what you mean is: "Will my girlfriend leave me for or cheat on me with another guy if the circumstances are right?" To which the answer is yes. All women will do so if the circumstances are right. Another question you might be thinking is: "Is the reason she would leave me or cheat on me her past sex activities with other guys?" To which the answer would be no. Even if she were a virgin, under the right circumstances, she would leave or cheat on you. No…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:58 PM
2

Sounds like you should fuck that one twice a week and this one once a week. Maybe twice if the other is busy. And keep gaming other women. If a woman lets herself go enough that she's actually no longer passing the boner test, just stop returning her texts. No need to have a conversation about being fat. You're not trying to build the perfect girlfriend are you? If you want something to train, buy a dog. It's easier and less bitchy.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:52 PM
2

Think about a relationship like one more tool in your toolbox for getting sex. What's a "relationship" really? It's a spoken agreement that the two of you will only have sex with each other. The relationship can end in one text message. That's all it takes. Or one of you can just ghost. Or one of you can just cheat. So honestly, what kind of "investment" does a relationship really involve? So if entering into a "relationship" helps you get more sex or get sex easier, go for it. But keep in mind …
/r/askTRP07/12/20 03:07 PM
1

How many other women are you currently having sex with?
/r/askTRP07/12/20 03:03 PM
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What's this drivel? When did The Red Pill become a creative writing exercise? Some metaphor about sluts being gross, like stinky used Muay Thai gloves? What's this crap doing on my internet? You use sluts when you need them, the same way you use the stinky gloves when you need them. The same way you sometimes eat a hamburger instead of a prime NY strip every night. The same way a used Altima gets you where you're going and gives you less trouble than a Ferrari. IT IS OKAY TO MEET YOUR SEXUAL NEE…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/20 03:01 PM
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Once you have your first girl, a lot of this falls away, too. When it doesn't matter how things go with this one girl you're meeting for drinks because if it goes bad you'll just text some other girl you're already fucking later tonight, you just naturally find yourself saying what comes to mind, escalating like you're not afraid of screwing it up, and coming across as natural because you're in the right mindset. It really doesn't matter what happens with this current girl and you're just having…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/20 09:51 PM
1

Your friends don't know what's up. They have (perhaps correctly) assumed that now that your sexual needs are being met this way, you won't "move on" and find some amazing girlfriend. But...what if there's more to life than women? What if you can meet your need for sex this way, with a minimum of investment and time, and spend all that spare time you're not spending on maintaining a relationship with a girlfriend at the gym or making money or learning new skills? Plus, you can be meeting and dati…
/r/askTRP06/12/20 08:04 PM
1

Casual relationships exist specifically for the purpose of not holding you back. You don't have to date seriously, go out for meals and activities, tend to her emotional needs, or really put much effort into connecting with her beyond the light interactions needed to meet up for sex. You can meet your sexual needs whenever you're both horny and free with a lot less time and investment versus maintaining a serious relationship with a woman. If you're putting a lot of time and energy into a casual…
/r/askTRP06/12/20 07:12 PM
3

I don't understand the question. You have an understood casual sex relationship with a girl. When you feel like having sex with her, you should text her to have sex. When you don't feel like having sex with her, you should do something else. This is how casual sex relationships work. If you aren't enjoying meeting up with this woman and having sex with her, find some other woman that you actually do enjoy meeting up with and having sex. And accept that this is temporary. Eventually she's going t…
/r/askTRP06/12/20 06:47 PM
9

This post puts the cart before the horse. Essentially: "Men should be respected leaders because they're men." RESPECTABLE men should be respected. Not just men. The idea that men are naturally supposed to be at the top of the pyramid is silly. That's never been the case. Not even in ancient times. A small handful of respectable men has always been on top (though what constitutes being respectable has changed a little in different times and different cultures), while the majority of men are nothi…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/20 04:22 PM
14

I think the OP is a little too focused on fat versus not fat and when the fat happened. If you take a step back and look at the bigger picture, it makes a lot of sense. The average woman in the US is kind of chubby. Not huge and morbid, but kind of chubby. The average dress size is 14. So the average woman is 160-180 pounds, give or take, depending on her height and bust size. A woman with that build, a nice rack (perky, not flabby, and big enough that her belly doesn't stick out past her tits),…
/r/askTRP04/12/20 08:22 PM
13

It is very entertaining spare time activity, when you are an unsuccessful and powerless kid on the internet, to be an edgy internet tough guy. But you don't see a lot of powerful billionaires ranting about the Jews this and feminism that and blacks this and sluts that and trying to fix our "degenerate society". Powerful and successful people don't waste time arguing with nobodies about edgy internet stuff. The only people who run their mouths about that bullshit, desperate to win arguments with …
/r/TheRedPill04/12/20 06:15 PM
14

Running your mouth arguing with nobodies and spouting off edgy viewpoints all the time is, 100% undeniably full stop hands down, pursuing unnecessary difficulty that serves no purpose. "Real alphas" shut the fuck up and let stupid people be stupid while they go on about their successful alpha lives because they are above some kind of little bitch man need to prove stupid people wrong in order to feel powerful. If your goal in life is to make huge piles of money and be hugely successful, all so y…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/20 04:18 PM
91

Hot 9/10 girls are fine to be around. Most of them are secure, pleasant women most of the time. Dumpy 4-5/10 girls are usually fine to be around. They're happy for the attention and know to be nice if they want to keep it. It's the 6-7/10s that you have to watch out for. They're not the pretty girls and they know it but don't want to admit it, and definitely don't want to be mistakenly classified as one of the dumpy girls, so the storm through life with an axe to grind and something to prove. Th…
/r/askTRP04/12/20 03:16 PM
53

If you had to choose between: having a successful life where you don't pursue unnecessary difficulty when it serves no purpose; or winning arguments against nobodies because running your mouth without a filter is something super-important that you consider being true to yourself and a real "alpha", Would you really choose #2?
/r/TheRedPill04/12/20 03:10 PM
99

Such is the way of the world. Even the greatest man is disposable alongside the lowliest woman. The wealthiest and most intelligent scientist and businessman in the world who has the cure for cancer in his pocket would be expected to give up his seat on the Titanic lifeboat to one of the waitresses. In fact, the more prominent and successful and important the man, the more it's expected that he knows and accepts his disposability. You expect little bitch men to act like little bitches. But could…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/20 09:43 PM
2

Unless you are so morbidly obese that you will literally injure yourself trying to move around, start now. Combine BJJ with your gym routine and you'll lose weight faster.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 06:01 PM
5

Do BJJ. You'll start out weird and awkward because you don't know how to interact with men, but after a few months of rolling around getting choked by a bunch of guys, you'll have friends. There's nothing quite like rolling around choking each other (no homo!) three times a week to bond with people.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 05:40 PM
12

Go outside and meet women. Have sex. Enjoy life. This feminism thing is a huge fireworks issue people love to talk about on the internet, but when you're walking around in the real world, you have to look really hard to find a girl who's worried about feminism or toxic masculinity.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 05:37 PM
3

Normally, you don't go from friendship to casually fucking. The way you get into casual relationships is to meet a new girl and have sex with her the night you meet her, then keep in touch and keep meeting up for sex once or twice a week. I guess if you're 18 and you just started college and some of your friends are there and curious about getting into the hookup culture, you can suggest practicing to one of your friends so she'll know what she's doing. But really, you don't typically turn a nor…
/r/askTRP03/12/20 03:11 PM
3

If you and your fellow citizens select your oligarchs, that's called a democracy. We're doing that already. You know, socialism also works really great on paper if the people on top are great people. Just like this model aristocracy you're picturing.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/20 02:15 PM
14

All of these radical ultra-conservatives seem to think that if we had an old-school aristocracy, where certain classes of people were just plain better and the lower classes of people were controlled, that they would be the aristocrats. Some random dude who posts on Reddit in his spare time wouldn't be in charge of anything in an aristocracy. He'd be a factory worker somewhere with next to no rights, and if the aristocracy ever found out he was posting complaints about his life on the internet, …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/20 07:52 PM
14

This is a hard one to read because it touches on a few key truths that are really uncomfortable, but maybe not the right reasons for all of them. The main issue is that there is always tension between "freedom" and masculinity. Which sounds strange, because being free to do whatever the hell you want, get buff, own some land somewhere, run a successful business, and become rich and powerful and fuck lots of women seems pretty masculine. But then if you're free to do that, other people are free t…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/20 07:29 PM
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A lot of that came more from the culture than the religion. Women being property who couldn't earn income and support themselves and would starve or freeze without husbands was a lot more effective at keeping them in line than telling them they'll go to hell if they're sluts. Women are way more afraid of being uncomfortable than they are afraid of God.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 05:52 PM
1

One girlfriend is better because your religion actually requires it? Or one girlfriend is better because you are not receptive to any advice that does not include a committed exclusive long term romantic relationship with this one girl in your post?
/r/askTRP02/12/20 05:49 PM
1

So would dating multiple women that you are not having sex with be degenerate sin? Would God be okay if you went on non-sexual dates with multiple women instead of just having one girlfriend that you go out to eat with every weekend?
/r/askTRP02/12/20 05:33 PM
2

Jesus also never said don't fuck until you're married. That came a lot later when a bunch of gay pedophiles in charge of the church decided they needed some rules to help organize society in a way God might like.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 05:29 PM
1

Right. So what CAN you do with a woman? When you're on a date, do you even touch? Is kissing okay? Is seeing each other naked okay? Is touching her breasts okay? And is this girl on the same page with all of this or did someone like me spend the past eight months fucking her silly while you went to the gym and church?
/r/askTRP02/12/20 05:19 PM
1

So... Are you allowed to hold hands with a girl? Make out? Finger her? Get a handjob from her? Get a blowjob from her? Is it just the act of penetrative intercourse that sends you to hell, or are you not allowed to even see a girl naked?
/r/askTRP02/12/20 05:12 PM
2

You're right. Stealing is wrong. But definitely start fucking other women and quit putting up with entitled girls who think it's their place to put you "on probation".
/r/askTRP02/12/20 05:05 PM
4

As a 17 year old, you should be having clumsy back seat of the car sex with lots of girls and sneaking girls into your room when your parents aren't home and stealing whiskey from the liquor cabinet. What the fuck are you doing with a girlfriend who puts you "on probation"?
/r/askTRP02/12/20 05:02 PM
2

It's not surprising. Arabs are the ultimate beta males. They come from strict Muslim cultures where women have to hide who they really are and have limited rights. As a result of this culture, women need husbands and have to play a role or they face real consequences. The end result is women who don't respect their men and aren't really attracted to them pretending because the consequences of not having a husband are worse than having to deal with a husband they don't really want. Beta men liter…
/r/askTRP02/12/20 02:10 AM
2

Why are you looking for a wife or serious girlfriend anyway? And why are you fetishizing some kind of low n-count woman, as though a woman like that will somehow be special, not like other women?
/r/askTRP02/12/20 01:48 AM
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So you are specifically looking into western culture to find a woman who will make a good wife? Did you hit your head?
/r/askTRP02/12/20 01:14 AM
3

Why are you looking for a woman who isn't into casual sex and has a low n-count?
/r/askTRP02/12/20 01:11 AM
6

Just remember that your woman is still a woman. This doesn't mean that every relationship always fails all the time and all women lie cheat slut dump and bitch their men to death. But no matter how good a woman is, she is still a woman. If any woman, even yours, has a perceived opportunity with somebody who she perceives to be legitimately better than you are, this will make her unhappy. Not all unhappy women cheat or dump you. Some just start acting like a bitch. Some just start being more dist…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/20 10:43 PM
11

You are fat and have poor social skills, and absolutely zero romantic or sexual experience. Instead of fixing your diet and working out and going out every night to meet people and practice game and socializing, you are weirdly fixated on clothes shopping and making sure you only talk to 18 year old girls instead of 21 year old girls.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 07:05 PM
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The real trick is doing all of that and shutting the fuck up about it. Never let anybody know that you're working hard. Look, act, and seem normal like everyone else, while this great body and success at work just sort of seems to naturally come to you like magic. Don't tell people you go to bed at 8:00 because of your insane gym and dietary habits. Just tell people you can't make it to the bar tonight because you have plans, but maybe next time. The real trick is even though all of this excites…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/20 12:01 AM
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People look at the guys around here pursuing sex in a really weird way. Sex isn't the "goal" of life any more than eating dinner is the "goal" of the day. It's just one more thing you have to do to have a complete life that doesn't suck ass. A life without proper food sucks ass. A life without proper sex sucks ass. You don't want your life to suck ass, so you learn how to get women to have sex with you. That way your life sucks less. A guy who tells you that you're wasting your time "chasing pus…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/20 04:51 PM
1

God the idea is healthy. If you don't believe in something bigger than you are, then in your universe, you are God and can do whatever you want. If everyone feels that way, we have a bunch of gods murdering each other and fucking each other over. Hence modern day. In modern, anti-God times, people still search for meaning. They need something bigger than they are to belong to. Those things become worship of money, technology, science, political ideology, nature, and so on. Even guys here at The …
/r/TheRedPill28/11/20 04:48 PM
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There are a lot of factors in play with women and when they fuck a guy, some conscious, a lot of them not conscious. For women, there's this backward situation where it makes perfect sense to have sex with a guy she just met two hours ago that she doesn't want to date because he's cute, fun, and she's horny. While making a guy she actually likes wait three dates for sex. You'd think women would be more eager to have sex with guys they actually like and less eager to have sex with strangers they …
/r/TheRedPill27/11/20 03:58 PM
1

This is pretty much the opposite of how attractive "alpha" guys behave. Well, I mean, "alpha" guys do piss and brush their teeth and wear clothes. But not the rest of this.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/20 10:23 PM
21

This is a lot of thought and investment you've put into feminism. There are a lot of reasons women suck at a lot of things, but they're reasonably competent humans who can be assigned basic tasks, manipulate tools with their hands, and express thoughts using written and spoken words. Society would be pretty stupid to not leverage that. Instead of fighting women over how much they suck, maybe just have sex with some of them, and if you run a business, leverage other women to manipulate tools, wri…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/20 07:21 PM
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This is definitely true. As long as a woman passes the boner test, she's hot enough to fuck. At that point, 7/10 girls are often pretty bad in bed. 6-7/10s are the sluttiest. They know they're not the really hot girls, but they definitely don't want to be lumped in with the average/ugly girls, so they're the ones you always see making out in bars with strangers and having lots of casual sex. Oddly, despite all of the casual sex, they kind of suck in bed. Because good sex requires attention, and …
/r/TheRedPill24/11/20 03:17 PM
1

"He says he fucked 5-7s, but I know they were all actually ugly and not worth it!" <-- Incels As I said above, anybody who read this guy's post and thinks it's not possible for most men or that the women must all be ugly (hint: you still have to game ugly women, same as average women. They don't just automatically have sex) are bottom 20% men who can't fuck ugly women anyway. But I'm sure you're the exception. Anyway, splitting hairs over OP saying he fucked a dozen 5-7s, but maybe you'd only th…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/20 02:50 PM
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98% of the guys who reply "One or more of these girls aren't worth fucking! I wouldn't waste my time!" are guys who couldn't fuck them. Any of them. Or anyone else. Any guy who declares that average men can't have casual sex and insists on some kind of mythical 80-20 rule is bottom 20% loser who lives on the internet. If you are at least a 6, which really just requires a gym habit, a job, and reasonable social skills, you can fuck a stable of 5-7 women with a little practice. And that's the less…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 07:09 PM
3

What's the point of what? Of life? Beats me. Your issue is that you have this false idea that if you find a woman who checks off certain boxes, she will be a perfect, well-behaved, loyal, respectful, excellent woman for you. You've romanticized the idea of strict orthodox cultures in your mind. Strict cultures keep women in line by making them dependent on men. Back when women couldn't have jobs, money, or property and were essentially their father's property until he married them off, then they…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 02:47 PM
3

The pandemic has been weird for me. It was a lot easier to get a first date that starts out right away at your place or hers for wine, so the odds of scoring go up to like 90% versus playing the meet up at a bar game. But it's been a good bit harder to get that first date overall. I ended up grabbing a girlfriend instead of dating.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 02:39 PM
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Sounds like there's nowhere to go but up. Just look back with the right lens rather than that rose-colored lens. You had a casual sex relationship with an average slutty college girl. Which is fine. You caught feelings for her because she's the first girl who'd ever do that with you. That's normal. You just didn't catch yourself in time to see the situation for what it was. Seeing her through the lens of all of those feelings made her seem like more than she is when she was pretty average as far…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 02:37 PM
4

Like a lot of guys who stumble across The Red Pill, you suffer from the fantasy. You think that if you find this magical woman with the perfect set of traits (religion, father figure, sex history, education, and so on), and if you behave in this perfect Red Pill way (confidence, masculinity, leadership, etc.), then you'll finally be able to achieve that blue pill fantasy of a happy marriage full of love, sex, respect, and children. You've put this idea of some kind of religious virgin with an go…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 03:16 AM
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Joining a very strict religion that you don't believe in and partaking in foreign cultural practices, all for the hope of a woman who won't act like a woman is the ultimate blue pill. It's an insanely high investment involving huge changes to your life, not even for an actual woman, but just for the hope of a woman. You've put this hope of a woman on a pedestal so enormous that you'll invest anything for a chance at her.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 02:56 AM
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LMAO! LOLZZZ! Seriously, I just don't think a guy who was a virgin until maybe a year ago and has had sex with one and only one woman (who did in fact have sex with another man after he confessed his feelings to her, which broke him) who is still thinking about this woman...has any business from his one experience with one woman telling us Red Pill guys how it really is out there.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/20 09:34 PM
8

There's not a lot to envy here. Whatever this girl is or isn't like, the guy in question isn't somebody any of us should aspire to be. Not because of his choices with this specific women, but because of who he is in general. He's a virgin loser (his own words) until he goes to college. He hooks up with a slutty college girl (again, mostly his own words, as he describes their relationship as a fuck-buddy relationship). This is the first and only woman he has ever been with, and he confesses his f…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/20 08:56 PM
6

All right. So she wants to be with you. At least right now. Good for you? I think you misunderstand "All Women Are Like That" as some kind of strange, autistic rule, where if you ever do anything weird or unattractive, a woman immediately hates your guts. When we say that women are "like that", what we mean by "like that" is more like: If a woman has a real opportunity with someone better than you are (or at least she perceives that she has the opportunity and perceives that the other guy is bet…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/20 05:47 PM
18

You met a college girl, age 18-22. She had casual sex with you because, like most college girls, she is slutty. She may or may not have been having casual sex with other guys since you were not exclusive. You tell her you like her over the summer, she tells you she likes you. But even though you like each other, you're not all exclusive and official, so she has sex with another guy while you're apart. I guess the fact that she likes you doesn't mean that much. Because she's an age 18-22 slutty c…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/20 04:38 PM
6

Those bullshitters who are always going on about this business they're running but never quite seem to be living well are a dime a dozen. Everyone knows a guy like that. And they're never as well off as a regular guy with a six figure salary who did the college, job, promotion to management route. This idea that you can just go start a business and end up rich and happy and free has been very romanticized by the internet. Most businesses do not succeed. No matter how hard you work or how much yo…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/20 02:58 AM
9

Starting a business is hard. Most businesses fail. It's hard enough to provide a good or service that people will actually pay you good money for, that's scalable enough for you to live on. And then the deck is stacked against you. You're regulated and administrated to heck by the government, pay a lot more taxes, and it's stupidly hard to turn a profit. If you work a regular job, your employer is taking all of that risk for you and paying you a regular salary every month. The amount of money yo…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/20 09:01 PM
15

It's scarier even than that. We have entered a world where an IDEA is considered an attack. The fact that an idea exists, even if nobody does anything to anybody else and just has an idea and expresses it, is an attack that must be prohibited. Take that Trump guy, because he's such a good example. Trump didn't start a nuclear war or decimate women's rights or do anything racist against black people or do anything discriminatory against gay people, or any of the other stuff everyone seems to thin…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/20 03:53 PM
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Very true. "I'm not weak! You are!" is just the beginning, though. A 25 year old liberal middle class white woman accusing a hard working white man of "privilege" when she's had an easy life is the same kind of projection. She feels guilty because not only has she been afforded privileges a poor minority person doesn't have, but unlike a hard worker like you, she's wasted them. She's worse than either of you, so she feels a burning need to try to feel like you're worse than she is so she can be …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/20 02:21 AM
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This lady was very literally waving her gold-digging flag in this guy's face and flaunting it. When she says, "I make 32000 a year, before taxes, and intend to send my son to an 11000/year private school", she is literally telling him, "One of the reasons I am marrying you, and as a condition of our marriage, I expect you to pay 11000/year to send my son to private school". There is no other way to interpret this. There is no generous way. She very blatantly expressed an expectation that he woul…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 11:42 PM
6

The concept isn't "Reddit can't do this because it's wrong!" The concept is that Reddit's stated purpose for doing what it does is to control the spread of certain ideas, make the website more palatable to other users, and get people who run certain forums to change their behavior thus reducing the amount of offensive content in society. But instead, the ideas spread to other websites, the behaviors don't change, and since those other websites aren't censored more people can be offended. Now sur…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 07:33 PM
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The internet shouldn't exist except the anointed approved websites That's more true than you think. The modern progressives literally have trouble making it through the day knowing that people like us exist. The very fact that Trump has been president for four years has made every woman and every gay person and lots of colored people in America drown themselves in prescription medications because they feel like they just can't go on and the world is falling apart. That Trump guy never actually d…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 06:02 PM
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Normal people don't understand the elites, the politicians, and the business owners. Reddit quarantining undesirable content is more of a "Not in my Back Yard" type of policy. They don't want advertisers to see us and they don't want bad publicity, but don't care what happens on any other website. But the regular people's thought process goes something like "Censoring this speech and behavior is supposed to change things! It's supposed to stop the spread and get these people to change their beha…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 04:52 PM
6

True. And that's a two-fold problem. Because someone identifies by their beliefs and those beliefs become who they are, this makes speech against their ideas (or in support of ideas they don't like) into an attack against their person. Which makes them feel bad, and in our feel-good, anti-depressant, see-your-therapist culture, you're not supposed to feel bad ever. So if you make someone feel bad, their psyche is literally harmed. Their mental health worsens. They feel afraid, anxious, depressed…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 04:48 PM
20

In part, this whole issue stems from the race to bring everyone down to the lowest common denominator. Police used to show up at KKK rallies to protect them and ensure their right to free speech, while political liberals who absolutely loathed them said great lines like "I disagree with your idea and think it's disgusting, but I will fight and die for your right to speak it." I don't like the Klan, myself, but I sure like that idea of free speech for all. But today, offended people don't just wa…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 04:13 PM
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The whole point of speech is to communicate thoughts and ideas and feelings to other people. The idea that you have to "stop the spread" of certain ideas, such as by preventing new people from discovering those ideas, is already suppression. Preventing the communication of the ideas (e.g., the "spread" of those ideas) defeats the very purpose of speech. The idea that a forum is supposed to still be grateful that at least it's allowed to exist and speak at all is kind of silly when the entire poi…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 02:49 PM
14

Over time, I've moved away from "text only for logistics" to more of a "just don't text like an idiot" philosophy. Those guys who send a regular "good morning" text to a girl to "stay on her radar" are morons. They're one of a dozen guys who keep bothering her that she'll never fuck that aren't taking the hint when she doesn't answer for the 100th time. But on the other side, if a woman is texting you and showing interest, it's okay to respond back like a normal person. No need to stick to weird…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 02:17 PM
1

What am I reading? What issue is being addressed or problem is being solved, and what am I supposed to do or think or change with regard to this issue or problem?
/r/TheRedPill17/11/20 04:33 PM
3

For someone who has been reading The Red Pill for ten years, you're doing a lot of strange things. You were in a long distance relationship. Unless you were having sex with other women, this doesn't make a lot of sense. Agreeing to be in a relationship where you're not regularly having your sexual needs met because this one special woman is just so darn great is not something I would expect to see from a guy who's been adhering to the Red Pill way of thinking for 10 years. You're clearly elevati…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 07:47 PM
6

"If I think I'm awesome inside my head, I will unconsciously start to act more awesome and women will fuck me!" <-- You. "If I think and act awesome but I'm not actually in shape from the gym, dressed and groomed well, successful at work, well connected socially, and demonstrating good social skills, everybody is going to think I'm really weird and nobody is going to want to hang out with me." <-- Reality. Reality > Attitude
/r/TheRedPill15/11/20 04:01 PM
19

Honestly, pig is probably better than french fries and spaghetti. Unless you're a religious muslim or jew. But the bigger issue is the culture's gotten kind of fucked. People used to go out to eat primarily to get things they couldn't make a home. Now, people go out to eat just to get out of making things at home because they're lazy. Filling the belly with a fast food value meal because they can't be assed to buy and grill a pack of chicken from the grocery store, and God forbid maybe pick up s…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/20 10:20 PM
57

In 2020, everyone sits at a desk 16 hours a day, 50% of their calories (or more) are empty starch, and they're always stressed about money because it takes six figures and/or two incomes to have that wife, two kids, SUV, and four-bedroom house. Lock a man in a work cage sitting on his ass for more than half the day, feed him ramen, and dump a ton of cortisol into his bloodstream 24-7, and he's going to be a flabby, low-energy, low-T mess. It's not birth control piss in the drinking water or femi…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/20 06:47 PM
16

"Screeching feminists" are mostly an internet thing, and sometimes a tiny corner of college thing. It's not really a widespread phenomenon. You don't see "screeching feminists" everywhere you go, spouting off their feminist doctrine while men are forbidden to speak. You see the occasional weirdo feminist or small group of feminists spouting their bullshit, while the majority of people think they're weird. Just like the majority of people think men making anti-feminist comments are weird. 99% of …
/r/TheRedPill13/11/20 04:51 PM
3

Thank you for the very generally applicable, relevant, actionable advice. Not only will I adjust my plans regarding prison based on your clarification, but I hope other men who read your comment will also choose to avoid prison.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/20 02:35 PM
111

Modern autism is funny. "The Red Pill says girls like bad boys and thugs! So I know all of you guys think women will fall in love with you deeper while you are in jail because that's one of the Red Pill rules! I'd better warn you about this before you guys do anything stupid!"
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 06:48 PM
86

This is surely very generally applicable information to most men. I, for one, was planning to get myself incarcerated for something really cool, hoping it would make women dig my bad boy vibe. Now that I have read this post, I know better. My girlfriend would surely cheat on me while I was in jail instead of loving me more due to how cool bad boys are.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 06:22 PM
4

Practice. Talk to your waiters and coffee shop baristas like people instead of vending machines. When you can get that down, move on to more significant people.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 06:18 PM
5

ALL women are like that. ALL. 30s, 20s, whatever. "Like that" doesn't mean "out to screw you over and cackle evilly to herself while high-fiving those evil bitch friends of hers." "Like that" means that if she perceives that she has a real opportunity with someone she perceives to be better than you, this will make her unhappy. If she's unhappy, she may end things, she may cheat, or she may treat you bad. She will not blissfully stay content with you, smile, and thank her lucky stars that a man …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 06:16 PM
5

The Red Pill is not a forum for homosexual men. Nobody here is trying to date men. Therefore, discussion about what men are like and what to watch out for while dating men is completely irrelevant and off-topic. When someone makes a negative statement about women, the statement "Men, too" does not address the negative statement. It does not make the negative statement about women false or add anything to that discussion. It's just a random off-topic statement you are making. One might wonder why…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 01:38 PM
7

Don't try to control women. It's exhausting. Just control you. If you are attractive, socially skilled, confident, and your game is good, you'll be able to attract multiple women. At that point, it really doesn't matter what a woman does. Because if she's not having sex with you regularly, you just stop seeing her. You don't have to have a dozen plates or anything like that. You just have to be attractive enough to know you can find someone else without too much difficulty. And if she's whoring …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 01:33 PM
5

All women are like that. But let's explore this: Do all women have at least one guy trying to get with them, or if there's currently a break in the action and they don't right this minute, is it pretty easy for a woman to find another guy who's interested (even if not actively looking that hard) or to remain pretty confident that other interested guys will come along eventually? You bet. What does it mean for a woman to be "like that?" It's really not that objectionable. What it means for a woma…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 02:56 AM
8

You really only need three things for that: You have to be attractive enough and have good enough game that finding new women who will have sex with you isn't some rare and difficult feat. This is going to be the hard one for you: You have to accept that you are actually important and stop making yourself subservient to women. If you want something, that is enough. If you want sex, it is okay to try to have sex. If you want only sex and to keep things casual, that is okay. If you want to stop se…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/20 10:17 PM
9

Of course you couldn't do it. You couldn't even do it to a woman who was actively disrespecting you and deserved it. You still thought that woman deserved your explanations and reasons and justifications. You're a man, but you're afraid of confrontation. This is going to hurt you when you're negotiating for salaries, asking for promotions and raises, finding better jobs and moving on, etc. Or God forbid if you find yourself in an actual confrontation with somebody who's possibly dangerous. Take …
/r/TheRedPill11/11/20 08:44 PM
4

I'm not sure that you really believe this. I'm not sure that you really believe that you have the right to just up and dump a girl, just because you feel like it. When she's been a good girlfriend, hasn't done anything wrong, and is a good person. But you just want to end things. I don't know if you really have it in you to just tell her that you're done and you're moving on. No explanation, no excuses, no reasoning with her. I don't think you could do it.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/20 08:30 PM
16

You don't have to mistreat women if you don't want to. They're still human. If that makes it hard to look at yourself in the mirror, no sense becoming someone that's hard to look at. It's fine to not cheat on women and officially dump them when you're done with them if behaving honorably means something to you. But this thing where you explain yourself to them, as though you need their understanding and approval and permission to make changes in your relationship status? That's dumb. You don't n…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/20 08:20 PM
35

The very act of dumping a girl because she did something wrong, and explaining yourself and your line of reasoning to her, is too much of an investment for a woman who isn't respecting you. In fact, the only reason you would bother explaining your feelings and thoughts is because you're desperately hoping she hears you, tells you she understands, and can find something to say or do to make things right for you so you don't have to lose her. If you have never, ever ghosted on a girlfriend. Like j…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/20 07:50 PM
256

Talking about this shit demonstrates poor social skills. Normal people know not to talk about weird gender war shit. Normal people barely even think about it. By revealing yourselves as people who think about this kind of stuff (e.g., who blurt out "Feminsits, amirite!" in response to another radical person when a normal person wouldn't have a response because they haven't been thinking about stuff like this very much), it costs you social cred. It's not just what you said or your position on th…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/20 06:35 PM
284

Every girl has at least one, if not multiple guys trying to get with her. Sometimes it's an ex. Sometimes it's a current boyfriend. Sometimes it's a guy she's dating but it's not official yet. Sometimes it's just a friend who keeps bothering her. There is always another guy, and any time there's a break in the action and there isn't, it's easy for her to get another guy interested. It's important to remember that even when you're fucking a girl, you're just one guy. You're the "another guy" when…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/20 03:02 PM
57

There's one more layer to it: attraction. If a girl is attracted to you (for example, if you are good-looking, confident, successful, popular, connected, etc., and have good game and social skills), she will appreciate attention from you. Even "simping" attention. If she is not attracted to you, she does not want your attention and finds it annoying. She'll take the free drinks, because come on, it's free shit, but she's hoping you'll take the hint and go away eventually. Simping is, itself, una…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/20 01:42 PM
30

I'd say be present. Connect. Know who's talking to you and pay attention to how they're talking. When someone gives a woman a hard time about something, she feels attacked. She feels hated. She's pissed off. She wants to lash out at you to discredit you. Ruin you. You are no longer her friend. She never wants to see you again and hopes you die. Getting your panties in a twist over something someone says to you is a woman thing. It's womanly. It's feminine. Men don't get their panties in a twist …
/r/TheRedPill10/11/20 02:13 AM
102

The interview actually took a lot of the things I don't like that much about this guy and explained them in a way that make sense. Guys who get easily offended or annoyed by other guys tend to have weaker frames and be kind of unmasculine. In fact, when you're at a party, you can spot the fakers pretty easily. Just look for the guys who are only talking to women but have trouble holding a conversation (or even holding eye contact) with the other guys in the room. Men who don't know how to intera…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/20 07:44 PM
2

You're trying to find some kind of autistic formula to convert the very understandable idea of "Look good and don't be boring" into some set of rules where if you live in city A, a certain type of car or activity equals non-boring high status stuff, where if you live in city B, a different type of activity might signify non-boring high status stuff. Normal people pick up on what counts as high status and what counts as lame in their hometowns without a Red Pill post detailing the rules for them.…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/20 03:03 AM
1

This post is some kind of concealed attempt to buy women in the beta blue pill way. "If I wear this kind of suit or show up to the club in this kind of car or have expensive season tickets to this thing and offer to take women to it, will women assume I'm rich and want to have sex with me due to the money and pretend status I'm displaying?" Let's cut to the real issue: You don't look hot and are hoping if your online pics show you on a fancy vacation or doing a rich person thing, you can still g…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/20 02:42 AM
12

The big lie men are raised to believe is that women need to feel emotionally connected in order to have sex, so you need to spend weeks if not months dating to build a connection with her for her to fall in love with you so the sexual relationship can begin. Sex and love are connected, yes, but it is the REVERSE of what men are told when they are young. Women need to feel sexually attracted to you in order to become connected emotionally. They can have sex whenever they feel like having sex, wit…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/20 06:09 PM
60

I don't understand what people are supposed to take away from this post.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/20 02:54 AM
3

The same way sometimes you see an out of shape ugly guy with a boring feminized personality who still has a hot wife and three kids. Just because something could possibly happen doesn't mean you should be betting the farm on it. Nobody is going to tell you that you should stop working out, be ugly, and act feminine and boring to get a hot wife just like that guy. Likewise, nobody is going to advise you to get married just because sometimes you might get lucky and it might not screw you.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/20 01:50 PM
10

There is this pervasive myth that if you follow the Red Pill algorithm perfectly, you can have that Blue Pill happy life with a wife and family that you always dreamed about. If you vet for just the right woman who meets this checklist of traits when it comes to age, sex history, education, all the way down to her relationship with her father, and if you maintain this perfect Red Pill set of behaviors, then this unicorn woman you have vetted for, groomed, and prepared will love you forever as lo…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 10:03 PM
1

I am so happy to hear that there are women like you who are different than all of the others out there. You seem really smart. Want to get a drink when you're done with Reddit for the day? Because of Covid, we should probably just go to my place. I make some great martinis and have a cool sound system in my room. It would be a great environment to discuss your smart ideas and how different you are.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 01:55 PM
26

There is no "Okay, I've had enough of this red pill thing so now I'm going purple and finding a wife". There is just how things are, and how we wish they were. You don't change how things are by believing differently. You just get badly hurt because the way you believed wasn't how things really are.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 03:13 AM
118

The end goal should be to reach a place where you don't have to control women. If you aren't going to get married, it doesn't matter what a woman does. What does it mean if she's your "girlfriend" anyway? That's just two people with no skin in the game saying they promise to only have sex with each other. And the penalty for cheating? Losing the relationship, which if you're cheating you don't care about anyway. So once you can accept that no woman is ever yours, not ever, even if she verbally s…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/20 07:52 PM
36

If you are not decent-looking and socially skilled, acting "dark triad" is just being a weirdo. You're some creep in a hoodie with no social calibration for what he says who's acting like an asshole. Once you actually have some social potential due to some decent looks and the ability to interact with people in a socially normal way, only then does acting like a narcissistic asshole look like it comes from a place of abundant opportunities with women.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/20 02:00 PM
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One major thing to understand is that first dates are very low-priority for women. A woman with an active dating life may go on half a dozen first dates a month, at least, and finding another guy for a first date is pretty easy. It's not personal when she flakes on you. It's just a very low priority event for her. Very rarely is a woman so excited about this one specific guy that she just met and barely knows that a first date becomes a high priority event for her. Even if you're hot and your ga…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/20 02:18 PM
0

Essentially "Better behave and make those numbers look good or big daddy government is going to take more rights away...and I'm sure when they say it louder you'll listen for sure this time!" I guess we might get to a point where law enforcement with guns are standing in the roads and keeping people in their houses, but it's more likely that things will just flare out instead. Especially given how unpopular the men with guns route would be politically and how expensive it would be.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/20 04:35 PM
0

Yes. Living life as normal is exactly the way it's going to end. There is not going to be some momentous day when the president, Congress, all doctors, scientists, and whoever else people think everyone should listen to all hold hands and declare that we are all-clear and can go back to our normal lives. The way it's going to end is going to be people just getting sick of the bullshit and going back to normal on their own. Not through some kind of revolt or protest or any huge event where people…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/20 03:45 PM
1

Sorry dude. If you're having that much trouble getting laid, you're not a bottom 80% guy. You're bottom 20%. Your dogged insistence on internet manosphere talking points that are clearly not true to anybody who actually does the bar and online dating game outs you as one of the many pretenders around this forum. I get that the academic stats and rules are interesting to some guys because it helps them feel like it's less their fault, but I don't see the attraction in pretending to be something y…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/20 01:24 PM
5

My friend circle has changed a lot due to this covid thing. I'm hanging out with a lot of younger and more right-wing people than usual. I'm not typically a radical, but when I look at the kind of people who are living their lives and the kind of people who are giving up and subsisting, waiting around for others to tell them it's safe to live again, sign me up. I'm a radical now. Apparently, living like you're not already dead is radical.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/20 01:40 AM
3

I'm shocked how many faithful virus rule followers there are on The Red Pill, really. I think it's mostly incels who are thrilled to be able to use the virus as an excuse for why they're not going out and getting laid.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/20 01:35 AM
2

It seems to me like as long as there is any significant number of people like me, who don't take the virus or the rules too seriously, people like you are going to be treading water with this virus forever. People like me aren't actually dying off (we're hardly even getting sick). So we're going to be around doing our thing for the foreseeable future. It seems like everything you're doing and sacrificing isn't going to accomplish much and you're doing it all for nothing, just kind of waiting aro…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/20 12:47 AM
0

You can always have your groceries delivered. But that's inconvenient. So people instead decide to go grocery shopping, exposing others to the risk of them being in the grocery store. For them, the quality of life improvement that comes with the freedom to go grocery shopping is worth inflicting that risk of the virus on others.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/20 12:45 AM
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Do you know what happens when everyone hides under the bed? Then humans win. ^ Today, this is what society wants you to think a hero looks like. The decline is already here.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 09:44 PM
5

If you hide under your bed, the virus doesn't get bored and go home. It just gets you when you come out next month. But don't worry. You have a very, very good chance of being just fine when it happens. Your life is not upside down because of the virus. The virus hasn't done anything to you. Your life is upside down because of people who have placed restrictions on your life. They are the ones who wronged you. Not the virus, not the people who are living well in spite of the virus. You and the c…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 09:40 PM
4

The virus safety theater is pretty amusing. So where I'm at, the gov'ment reopened restaurants with a bunch of restrictions. So if you own a 1000 square foot restaurant, you can have something like 50 people inside at once. These 50 people are going to sit in close-ish but not too close proximity to each other. They are going to remain in each other's proximity for about two hours enjoying a meal, while not wearing masks. Totally legal. Nobody minds. The big rules for this situation is that ever…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 09:24 PM
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Sure, if you don't believe that quality of life has value. If you're fine stripping your life down to just the necessities and you don't think any quality of life improvement justifies any sort of risk because quality of life has no value, I've got nothing for you. I'm happy to risk your life and the lives of others to improve the quality of life for me and those close to me. You can keep subsisting on groceries and Netflix if you want.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 08:24 PM
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Quality of life has value. Am I willing to inflict a small risk of death on myself and others for a quality of life improvement for me and those close to me? Everyone does it. When you go to the grocery store, even wearing a mask, that mask isn't a magical 100% effective wall. You are putting everyone there at risk for the quality of life improvement of being able to buy groceries whenever you want. You have decided that this small risk you're imposing on others is worth the quality of life impr…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 08:15 PM
0

If it weren't "pandemic", you'd find some other excuse not to do something like this. Probably one of those "women aren't worth it" or "they only fuck the top 0.000001%" rants instead. But using the virus as a socially approved excuse lets you sound virtuous.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 07:41 PM
19

Maybe if you didn't live with your parents like a loser, you could have a party without exposing them.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 07:31 PM
3

Even so, when you're fucking 5 women, and every single one of them is fine fucking only you and not dating, at least for now, you might be keeping a guy like me from fucking 4 of them, but you're not keeping a low-value guy in the cold. (The penis-measuring you're doing leads me to believe we're pretty different age-wise, though, so I doubt we're competing for the same women.) Anyway, those women you're seeing would not fuck low-value men were it not for the option to fuck you. They would fuck o…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 01:49 PM
2

This idea that only a very miniscule portion of men are able to have casual sex only exists on the internet. It doesn't pan out in the real world when you actually get out there. TONS of average guys have normal casual sex lives. Now yes, if you are legit ugly, or if you are socially weird and creepy, that will very much repulse women. But if that is the case, you aren't an average guy. You are a bottom 20% guy. And yes, if you are a top 5% guy (or whatever percent you think it is), you can have…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 01:44 PM
7

Regardless, the main premise is flawed. You having sex with five women isn't preventing four low-value men from getting laid. Those guys weren't going to get laid anyway. Women would rather be alone than fuck them. Unless we go back to the dark ages where women don't have jobs or rights and require a husband in order to not starve to death, anyway.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/20 06:05 PM
8

In modern times, a LOT of this has changed. Biologically, yes, mating is all about the female of the species selecting the best male genes, and the males competing for the opportunity to mate. So biologically, a male "tricking" the female with a "strategy" and the female rooting out male trickery are competing interests. But we're humans in 2020, not pigeons. In our world, cheap, widely available, and extremely effective contraceptives exist. And casual sex has become socially acceptable (even e…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/20 02:44 PM
13

This example assumes that every woman who is having non-exclusive casual sex with a man is having sex with only that one man and is not having sex with anybody else or dating to try to find a real boyfriend while enjoying sex with a casual partner (which is very common). It also assumes that each of these women is being a consistent casual partner and not just having one-time hookups with different men when they're in between boyfriends (which is also very common). It also assumes that these wom…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/20 02:36 PM
3

More bullshit self-help philosophy. You're assuming the reason other people like you, women fuck you, employers employ you, men befriend you, is because you like yourself. The real reason other people like you is if you're actually worth a damn and valuable. If you don't have that, you can like yourself all you want and act like you're the shit, but you'll still be a friendless, sexless, broke loser. If you don't have any value for others to like, liking yourself anyway just makes you look like …
/r/TheRedPill27/10/20 01:27 AM
3

I would counter that if you feel good without external gratification, something is wrong with you. If your life sucks and nobody likes you, this is something that needs to be fixed. Not something that you should stubbornly ignore while insisting that true value comes from within and none of those external factors matter. If everybody likes you except for that one woman, of course that doesn't get to you. Because everybody likes you. But if nobody likes you, all of the "inner value" in the univer…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 11:12 PM
14

Weird guys who can't get laid would rather get upvotes and comments and have discussions about strange theories explaining why they can't get laid instead of actually getting laid.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 10:33 PM
11

Not only pussy. Everything external. If you are broke, sexless, friendless, and absolutely everybody in the world thinks you suck, but you still have pride in yourself, that just makes you an even bigger idiot. That's not value. That's just being too stubborn to accept how much of a loser you are. If you are accomplishing absolutely nothing and nobody wants to pay, hire, promote, date, fuck, or befriend you, that's a message you ought to really pick up on. Maybe everyone else in the world might …
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 06:57 PM
12

It's not just thugs. Average non-thug guys get pussy, too. All of this hyper-analysis comes from a place where this guy just doesn't understand women. A lot of men around here just don't believe, in their heart of hearts, that women enjoy sex and have casual sex, on purpose, just because they like it. They aren't wowed into it by an amazing alpha, or deviously manipulating a loser beta to get resources from him. They just plain enjoy the way sex feels and think it's fun and exciting, both physic…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 06:03 PM
119

This is taking "I think he's hot", "I like him", "I think he's hideous", and "I don't like him" and putting a lot of autism into it.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 02:44 PM
10

"I love myself and that's all that matters" is bullshit cope that women learn from their therapists. If a guy can't get laid, he should recognize that he's low value. Not stomp around declaring that he doesn't care and that real value comes from within or other philosophical self help drivel. Men should live in reality. Not in feel-good self-help therapy land trying to avoid discomfort and anxiety.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 02:17 PM
10

This idea that value comes from within is silly. Other people decide whether whatever we're selling in life is worth buying. If other people don't like you, your business doesn't get clients, employers don't hire or promote you, women won't date you or have sex with you, and men won't want to be friends with you. Your place in society defines your value. If you're some weird loner who doesn't fit into society, and basic things like money, friends, and sex are out of reach, all of the mental mast…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 12:46 PM
2

"Female ego" isn't an issue at all. The idea that women have big egos or feel entitled to stuff is exclusively something that unattractive men have come up with, primarily because women are not having sex with them. Women have the lowest self-esteem they've ever had in history. They feel lucky to find love and attention and think they're unworthy. However, when a shitty man tries to buy and complement his way into a woman's bed, like a needy dog, this is annoying as hell for women. Not because w…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 03:20 AM
6

I have a counter-theory for you. The problem today is that most men suck. Back in 1950 or whenever the "good ol' days" were, most men automatically ended up with a wife just for having a job. But today in 2020, it's okay for women to have causal sex with guys they actually want to be with, so they don't have any need for a guy who sucks. Men who suck treat women like princesses instead of like real people. They try to buy affection with luxuries. As if these men didn't suck enough, this behavior…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 02:20 AM
1

Women like stories both among each other and occasionally with guys, but only casual guys not boyfriend prospects. If you're a boyfriend prospect, hide and be vague with your sex history because there is no right answer that won't seem like you're either qualifying yourself in her frame or less of a man than she initially thought, neither one of which is good. But if you're a fun casual guy in her world, fun stories are okay, but just stories, not information. Girl sex stories go something like,…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/20 06:59 PM
118

You have a long way to go before you understand the signs women send. Talking about an ex on a first date can mean one of two things. The woman is either obsessed with her ex and/or not really into you and is just going out with you for free food because she's bored, or the woman is signaling to you that this is not a real date-date, just a hook-up, and she wants you to move things forward toward sex instead of getting bogged down chatting over dinner like a good boy. Giving a false name at dinn…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/20 04:10 PM
16

Women like to reinvent themselves a bit. If you dig too deep, it almost seems like women don't really exist. There's no real person in there, or if there is, it's buried and she hides it behind layers and layers of fake. Women are mostly just a collection of masks and dances and performances. They've been dancing for so long, I don't even know if women themselves know who they really are inside. If a girl is driving to meet a guy off of Tinder for a hookup, that girl will be unrecognizably diffe…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/20 12:48 AM
2

"Not all women..." is a bad way of thinking. The Red Pill is not about being fair to women and avoiding generalizing. It is a bad sexual strategy to hunt for the exception or to assume any one woman is the exception. Invariably, doing what works 90% of the time is a better strategy than trying to fine tune your approach based on an individual woman. And invariably, when you let yourself believe you've found an exception, she will eventually prove you wrong. All women are like that. All women.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 09:31 PM
34

That was good advice 15 years ago. Today, it is very risky to be overheard saying anything about "women". If you are heard by the wrong person saying "It seems like 'women' tend to do (insert negative thing here that isn't really that negative and everyone knows it's true)", your ass can get fired and your girlfriend can start getting harassing calls about why she's dating a sexist. If you're alone with a good friend and you trust him, sure, be more open. But if you're in mixed company or with s…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 04:37 PM
22

You can say the exact same thing a woman says back to her, essentially agreeing with everything she just said, but if you use synonyms she doesn't like as much or a tone she interprets in a way she doesn't like, you might as well be speaking a different language. Women don't speak facts. They speak feelings. Facts are just the backdrop. The feelings are what they're communicating. For example, let's say your girlfriend comes home from work and starts telling you what she did at work today. The m…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 04:28 PM
6

There's a reason most of the warriors are uneducated hillbillies marching around waiving rifles in the air and spouting radical lingo while normal people keep their mouths shut. Guys like that don't have as much to lose as a regular person.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 03:49 PM
2

Just lie about your age and let your appearance do the talking. A girl who sees "45" on an online dating site will immediately pass on you, when she would have been all over it if you'd just typed "37" when you signed up. Just be 37 and date 25-35 year olds until you're too gray to pass for 37, then be 47 and date 35-45 year olds until you're too wrinkly for that.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 01:21 PM
5

The old moral code of the left fostered ideas like protecting KKK rallies. Because real freedom and real justice was embodied by the statement "I don't agree with your viewpoint, and actually I think it's disgusting, but I will fight and die for your right to express it." The new, more socially just moral code is that offensive speech must be silenced because it inflicts fear and psychological harm on its targets and may incite others to participate in the offensive speech or to escalate the off…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 01:12 PM
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The most important take away of this post is the importance of keeping your mouth shut. Live well, but don't argue with people. As far as the real world is concerned, you have never heard of the manosphere. You are just a socially skilled professional with business acumen and fun guy that girls like who has always naturally had these skills. In the real world, you are a liberal-minded, sex-positive feminist. In the real world, you don't march in parades about dead black thugs or where trans peop…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 12:55 PM
2

I don't think an apology is enough in this case. I was really mean. I'm thinking maybe I'll write her a poem.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 12:43 PM
3

I really missed out. I should have been nicer to her. College-educated women with psychology degrees are a really rare find. You definitely couldn't fill a few stadiums with those women, and I definitely haven't had sex with an entire bleacher's worth of them. You know, now that I think about it, except for my high school girlfriend, I don't think I've ever had sex with a woman who doesn't have a college degree. Most had graduate-level educations. One even had a PhD. Two lawyers. No doctors yet.…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 12:13 PM
6

It's not really a conservative-liberal split any more. It's an individualist-collectivist split. The moral code of the right used to be individualist Christianity. You have freedom, but you have a job to do and a role in society. Freedom, but with moral responsibility. The old moral code of the left used to be secular individualism. People should be free to do anything they want as long as they're not actually hurting someone else. Freedom, and only the very basic responsibility of not harming o…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 11:18 PM
5

What if we told you that after extensive experience and testing, from lots and lots of men across lots and lots of different cultures, two alternatives have been thoroughly compared and discussed: Trying to form healthy relationships with women by assuming they are logical, rational creatures, and consistently explaining yourself to women and engaging women in logical debates about your viewpoints and theirs; and Working out and dressing/grooming well, keeping things conversationally fun, light,…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 10:10 PM
5

Seriously. Nowhere, on anybody's list of advice for how to get laid (even the conventional sources of blue pill wisdom) will you see "engage women in a logical debate and try to convince them they are wrong about something". Avoiding debate and argument with women is just plain good sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 08:56 PM
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It doesn't matter if it's your wife or a complete stranger. If a woman truly feels a certain way about an issue, never argue, debate, or engage with her on it. Take note of the woman's comment below. Reading the words in front of her and imagining emotion and anger (i.e., "he's being mean", "he's so emotionally invested in this") is exactly what I'm talking about. You can't tell a woman who feels like something is right that she is wrong, because she will feel attacked. She will see anger and me…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 08:27 PM
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There was a time not that long ago when "As long as I'm not hurting somebody, I should have the right to say and do whatever I want without any restrictions and the power to defend that right" was a hard-left, super-liberal viewpoint. Today, that's regarded as a crazy alt-right viewpoint. The left went so far left that whoops, it became fascist, and now viewpoints that used to be liberal look like radical right viewpoints.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 08:19 PM
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You thought about it, huh? Do you hate yourself for considering it? You strike me as a vodka girl. I make a mean lemon drop martini.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 07:58 PM
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OMG! You do science? Maybe you even have a college degree! I was wrong. Many women are like I say. But you are surely different! I like smart women. Want to grab a drink once you're done on Reddit for the day?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 07:47 PM
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From the 30 or so women just like you I've dated. You all think you're different and smart and rational. I assure you, you are not. But there's really no point trying to convince a woman who feels this is so that it is not so.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 07:21 PM
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It's more like when a woman feels like something is right, trying to logically explain an alternative to her is like trying to convince her to change her identity. If you happen to stumble upon an issue that she doesn't care about or hasn't thought about, sure, women understand English and are reasonably intelligent. A woman can understand what you're saying and decide whether she agrees with you. But if you ever find yourself in a position where you are arguing, debating, or trying to convince …
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 07:17 PM
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It goes deeper than this. Never try to convince a woman about any issue. For a woman, how she feels about things is her identity. Her feelings about issue A and issue B are what make her who she is and make her different from some other woman who has different feelings about issue A and issue B. If you disagree with a woman about issue A and you tell her what you think and why, this is not a discussion. It is an attack. You are attacking who she is. You are telling her that who she is (how she f…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 05:19 PM
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I always hug a girl when she shows up for a first date/meeting. Based on how comfortable she is with that (does she stiffen and quickly pull away, or does she relax and sink into your body - this is not necessarily a reflection on you, but on her comfort level with touch and what she's expecting out of the date), I may keep a hand on her arm or hand or back as we sit. If she's not the touchy type, I'll still sit close and do the usual banter to see if she loosens up. Honestly, if a girl is the t…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 12:56 PM
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A lot of people consider The Red Pill to be a "conservative" movement. Part of the reason for this is because the men around here who aren't getting laid tend to dump on the women who are and express strong disapproval of casual sex. They want to go back to the good old days where a man pretty much automatically got a wife just for having a job, because they suck and can't meet their sexual needs or make themselves not lonely unless societal standards force that to happen for them. However, the …
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 12:57 PM
1

Yeah. The whole point of man-tribes wasn't companionship. It was accountability. If you weren't a productive member of the tribe, you wouldn't get the benefits of the tribe. Women only wanted to have sex with men who were on good terms with the tribe. The tribe only wanted to be friends with guys who are on good terms with the tribe. They only give good wealth and opportunities to guys on good terms with the tribe. That punishment of being marginalized was enough to keep men working hard and bei…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/20 06:28 PM
1

There's this idea that long ago, in some golden age, there were male groups, male role models, father figures, tribes, and so on. And with those things in place, everything was just peachy-keen for men. We tend to glamourize and idealize this idea of a male tribe. These male groups would just tell boys all of the secrets to life and how to be men and demonstrate it for everybody, and men would grow up happy, well-adjusted, successful, and know everything they need to know. And without these trib…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/20 02:29 PM
2

This is just a Red Pill filter over the modern feminized view of men. There is this annoying modern feminist theory that men are emotionally stupid and spend all of this energy pretending to be masculine when we are actually just like women. And when we get upset because women don't want to date or have sex with us, we can replace all of that with close, intimate friendships with other men that include a lot of touching and talking about feelings. And the only reason men aren't doing that is bec…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/20 01:13 PM
5

We're probably saying the same thing. You don't try to extract a specific verbal agreement or promise about sex (unless you're dirty-talking and she's into it). That's something guys who don't know the game would do. It's just understood that "wanna get out of here" or the equivalent (wanna come over and see a movie, have a drink, etc) means a hookup. She's not actually interested in using that material later with her friends by telling them "I went over to see a movie and it just happened". Her…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/20 01:04 PM
1

Society already knows this and has compensated for it. Society has created highly effective anger sinks. What does an angry man do in 2020? He posts angry man stuff on Facebook. He reads angry man material that makes him mad at politicians, at political movements, at people who feel different politically, at people who are certain races, at people who are a certain sex, at internet authors, at YouTube videos, at online dating sites, at online attention seeking sites. His anger is skillfully redi…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/20 08:15 PM
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Among slut-friends, deniability isn't really a thing. Slut friends are open about their hookups with each other, while telling their more judgy friends and their next boyfriend "it just happened". Women go out deliberately looking for possible hookups. They do not go out innocently then get swept away by the feelings and excitement. A woman hooking up with a guy is not some kind of masterful act of alpha male trickery as he pushes her buttons and escalates and swindles her into sex she wasn't go…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/20 06:20 PM
2

For 20 bucks worth of vodka, you literally double your odds of sex. If 20 bucks is some kind of serious investment to the point where you have to decide whether a mere woman is "worth it", your problem isn't how you're prioritizing women. It's that your finances suck ass.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/20 06:13 PM
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This sounds super cool. The old school "loveline" shows were all like "Did you try listening to her talk about her feelings and taking it really slow? Six dates is the normal number of dates before having sex!"
/r/TheRedPill18/10/20 08:47 PM
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Buying a girl a drink or two more than doubles your odds. That hour at the bar lets her see that you look like your pics, you aren't creepy, and that you know the casual sex game. After a drink or two, a girl who showed up to fuck will hint that she's down and you can go home with her, when that same girl would have thought you were a creep if you'd tried to meet up at one or your residences right away. If you've had a couple of drinks and it's obvious she's not feeling it, is annoying, or that …
/r/TheRedPill18/10/20 06:03 PM
3

That's a weird one. Dropping 65 pounds and liking what you see in the mirror a bit more doesn't make you want to continue not getting drunk? Are you lifting weights and watching yourself become capable today of things you wouldn't have even thought about trying six months ago? Meditating and seeing a therapist is bullshit stuff millennial women like. And some of the losers around here who post philosophical self-help motivational drivel instead of actually getting in shape and getting laid. Don'…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/20 11:08 PM
5

Your parents got divorced and you got bulled in school, and you call your life "a journey through hell"? Give me a break, drama queen. It has always been within your power to be everything this Mike guy was, and more. It was always your choice to be you instead. You could close your browser, right now, right this very minute, and start working out and clean up your diet. You could stop posting on the internet and stop playing video games, right now, and stop thinking of defenses for yourself, ex…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/20 10:34 PM
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The OP feels like he was "used" by an "asshole", when he was the one using this guy Mike. He had no other friends because he sucked, so he'd dish out whatever Mike wanted to keep him around. He didn't deserve a friend, but he'd offer his time, money, a place to crash, someone to listen to his stories and stroke the guy's ego. Anything to keep this Mike fellow around, because it's not like any other guys were kicking down the door to be this loser's friend. It's not like this guy was sacrificing …
/r/TheRedPill17/10/20 09:15 PM
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So you were jealous of this guy named Mike when he was doing well. He had girls, game, played sports, made good money for awhile, and sounds like a decent enough normal guy except for the drug habit. You added no value to his life, except maybe a place to crash sometimes, but he hung out with you anyway. Eventually, he stopped hanging out with you because you sucked and were drinking yourself into a fat lonely depression. Just you, your cheap whiskey, and your video games. Mike fucked up and dev…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/20 09:07 PM
5

Women do not do what they do because they enjoy attention from "simps". In fact, most women find low quality men really annoying and wish they would leave them alone. Part of the reason we've seen this feminist revolution is because women want men to self-filter. They want to be able to have a drink at the bar without being bothered by low quality men because a low quality man thinking he's good enough to try to take her home is insulting. The majority of women do not have onlyfans accounts and …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 01:35 PM
9

You fell for it. You learned the game and how it works, but then you forgot it was a game. You slipped backward into your old blue pill way of thinking, where women are special, and "hurting them" makes you some kind of terrible human. Women are people, just like you. And when you have sex with them and don't marry them or treat them like goddesses and they're sad about it, that is no worse than any of the women who wouldn't go out with you when you were less attractive. This is how the game wor…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/20 02:00 PM
1

Same way you do anywhere else, same places you've always met women. Everyone's wearing masks. You just walk up and say hi, and in about 5 seconds, you know from the way she's looking at you and responding whether she's open to continuing the conversation beyond that. Maybe a few more women than normal shoo you away, because virus, but if a woman appreciates the attention, you'll know in about 5 seconds. If every single woman at the grocery store, coffee shop, public park, book store, or wherever…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 04:10 PM
4

This is how the game works, but it is a good thing, not a bad thing. If a woman wants to have sex, tonight, she can make a Tinder profile right now and have a hookup arranged with an above-average looking guy in about 10 minutes. And the number of women who have casual sex on the down-low when they're between relationships is much, much bigger than most guys think it is. This is not a bad thing for guys. This means that there is a LOT of casual sex out there for the having. And it might as well …
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 09:00 PM
6

That's just a straw-man coming from the other side. "Duuuuuh...hrrrr....U don't think ALL lives matter? Thats so stupid!" Using ridiculous language to dance around the racism issue being discussed is the same thing the BLM people do with their issues. "Duuuuuh.....Hrrrrr...U dont think women deserve access to healthcare? Thats so stupid!" Neither side of the US political spectrum is better or smarter, really. They're just two idiots with different moral codes. Individualist Christianity vs. Soci…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 09:16 PM
9

If you have no interest in having sex with women, you should get your hormones checked. Or you may just be homosexual. Not wanting to have sex with women is not normal. It is not some kind of power play that separates you as a superior man. It is an oddity that marks you as a defective man.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 07:29 PM
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He who controls the language controls thought, or something like that. It used to be that if you vote for politicians who represent your interests and do things that are good for you, your family, friends, and neighbors, etc., and you and most of these people just happen to be white, that's not racist. Because you don't hate non-white people. You're just doing what's best for yourself like everyone else. But today, not being racist isn't enough. If the movement is called "Black Lives Matter" and…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 06:38 PM
3

How's the counter op work? If you live in the US and you're fucking women who own smartphones that pretend to care about racism and viruses and feminism on Facebook even though in person they don't give a crap, and eventually (maybe 5 years, maybe 20), shit is going to change enough that you can't get laid, making money gets hard, and being a normal white guy with a job gets you looked at the same way people look at black tranny burn victims in wheelchairs today, what's the next move?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 03:55 PM
1

Yeah. Love is just another emotion. And it is no better or worse, and no more important or less important, than any other emotion. You can't be angry forever. You can't be hurt forever. You can't be happy forever. You can't be sad forever. And you can't be in love forever. I suppose the conventional blue pill end goal is to get a girl trapped, dependent, and comfortable enough that when the love ends, the benefits of keeping you around outweigh the combination of the drawbacks of losing you and …
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 12:54 PM
3

There's really no such thing as a "Good woman" or a "Bad woman". There is just a woman who is acting good right now, and a woman who is acting bad right now. Women aren't really a person the way we think about people. They are not defined by their personality or their thoughts on various issues or by their talents and skills. What makes a woman who she is is how she feels about things. Which means how she feels in the moment is who she is right now. You could actually argue that in this way, wom…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 01:48 PM
4

This route seems like a lot more trouble with an elevated level of risk for the same sex you could get the normal way.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 06:08 PM
18

"Controlling" and "insecure" are more common code words than "abusive". Claiming abuse will get other women asking "OMG! He hit you? Did you call the police?" But saying he's controlling or insecure is a good code word.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 02:00 PM
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Indeed. It goes even deeper. Women want to be sex. The subconsciously want a man who gets it, knows they are sex, and treats them like sex. Everything else, absolutely everything else they do, is one giant shit test. Their social lives, friends, jobs, degrees, personalities, every single thing they think defines them as a person (and that most men think defines them as a person) is completely secondary (or even meaningless) alongside the fact that they are sex. Their lives are literally defined …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/20 09:06 PM
9

"Hey cutie" or something like that is usually bait, to get a guy acting really thirsty. Openers like that are usually thrown out there by women who are on Tinder for attention and not planning to actually meet you, or by women using it as a test to screen out really skeezy or thirsty guys who jump at the chance like they've never seen a girl before. It doesn't mean don't reply. A reply takes you, what, 30 seconds? It just means don't get overly excited and think you're in. A "hey cutie" is often…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/20 02:59 PM
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It's an interesting time. If you live in a college town or a city with a large population of transient young professionals, during this Covid thing, getting a woman to invite you over off of Tinder is a lot easier than it used to be because going to bars is frowned upon. In more normal times, the usual script involves meeting at a bar near her apartment and having 1-2 drinks, just to make sure you both look like your pictures and neither one of you is giving off dangerous vibes. However, it's im…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/20 01:33 PM
3

This dude was a FULLY invested pussy beggar. I don't particularly agree with the courts, but I do see where they were coming from. This is literally the legal standard. Marriage, as far as the court was concerned, is a financial arrangement. She quit her job and he supported her. Paid her mortgage. Sent her money every month. As far as the court is concerned, that is acting like husband and wife. That is 99.9% of being married. It doesn't matter who slept where or how often, who had what address…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/20 07:12 PM
2

Big dogs are all bark, no bite. Nobody is going to assault you in public, in front of other people. That becomes a police issue, and nobody is going to commit a crime over your sorry ass. If a big guy comes up and tries to shoo you away, just ignore him or say "What's your problem?" then keep right on talking to a girl or whatever it is you're doing. No matter how big or how much of a douchebag, nobody is going to literally commit a crime and start hurting you. Start taking a martial art. Either…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/20 03:49 PM
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It's a pretty messed up interpretation. The common law rules in Canada are supposed to be: 1) Cohabitation; 2) Sex; 3) At least 3 continuous years. The court just sort of threw out #1 and half of #3 and said "Cohabitation doesn't mean cohabitation. And continuous doesn't mean continuous. Really, the law just means sometimes living together for short stretches of time and acting like a married couple when you do it... oh yeah, and the woman's explicit refusal to marry the man despite numerous req…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/20 05:50 PM
3

Making money on the internet is hard. Most women, even hot ones, don't just get lots of money and free shit for posting pics and chatting on the internet. If a whole bunch of women did this, a tiny fraction of them would make any money, and the other 99 percent would be like those 50 year old former housewives who play at being a realtor and selling makeup or nutritional supplement ponzi schemes but don't actually make any money or have a job.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/20 07:31 PM
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The general idea that good sex is intoxicating to women is true. Good sex is one thing that makes a man seem more attractive. In fact, if you are not that hot, your life is not well put together, and there are many things wrong with you, a woman will see you as hotter than you really are and see your life as cooler than it really is when she is attracted to you due to good sex. All of that being said, having three orgasms like a porn star, talking dirty the whole time like Sex God Method says to…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 10:01 PM
1

A guy ceases to be a boy and becomes a man when he is able to experience this situation, and instead of thinking "How could she! I had all of these expectations!", he thinks "Okay." If you know that you'll be able to find another woman without too much trouble, losing one isn't a huge deal. If you've had enough women to know that a "relationship" is just a piddly little verbal promise anyway, and you're too busy to over invest, losing a woman is something you just shrug at. If you've had enough …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 02:27 PM
16

This isn't a man vs. women thing. It's a dumbass poor people thing. Most of the time, a single mother did not get duped and left by an "alpha" and is now paying the price for her slutty alpha-fucks years. Most of the time, a single mother is just an uneducated, low socioeconomic simpleton. And the reason her children grow up shitty is because Mom is a broke dumbass, and Dad (assuming he's around at all) is also a broke dumbass. So the kids grow up to be broke dumbasses. Even if Mom and Dad were …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/20 05:21 PM
2

This is the human condition, at least in modern western culture. People assume: If I do what I am supposed to do, I will get what I am supposed to get. This doesn't just apply to men trying to get women. It applies to people in all situations. I studied hard and went to college. Why can't I find a job? I work hard at my job. Why aren't I getting promotions or earning more? I'm helpful and go out of my way for others. Why don't I have lots of friends? Why does nobody like me? Why am I never invit…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/20 05:14 PM
8

This is one of those areas The Red Pill gets a little wrong and over-theorizes about. The Red Pill has this theory that women have extremely high standards when it comes to casual sex partners. If the woman is an 8/10, then clearly she has options with 9/10 and 10/10 guys and will only have casual sex with the hottest of men in the world, but will have lower standards when it comes to finding a dufus nice guy boyfriend who will buy her shit. It's the opposite. If you were going to be her next bo…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/20 02:38 PM
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You matched a woman on Tinder. She wanted to fuck and probably never see you again. In that situation, women take their good girl costumes off. They are there to fuck. So are you. All you need to do is have a couple of drinks and demonstrate that you look like your pics and aren't dangerous. You don't even need to trade real names or contact information if you don't want to. This was a situation where she wanted dick, not her next boyfriend. But you shit around over-analyzing her eye contact, as…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/20 03:27 PM
7

Usually no, because usually what flips the switch is attention from another guy or her friends or family or someone else she cares about giving her social consequences for dating you. And once her mind has rewritten history so that not only does she not like you now, but she never liked you and hasn't been happy in ages, it's hard for her to convince herself to go back to you. But once in awhile, when a girl ends things, if you just shrug like she never mattered in the first place and keep fucki…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/20 01:22 PM
9

This applies even to an "alpha". If she likes the alpha and wants a relationship, she'll play the girlfriend game and pretend she's not a slut. If she doesn't like the alpha, but he's acting like he likes her (even if he's hot, etc.), she won't usually fuck him because she's afraid he'll make too much out of it, get clingy, jealous, etc. And honestly, if a girl is just looking to have some fun tonight, and you play the game right, you don't even have to be all that hot or act all that "alpha". J…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/20 04:52 PM
6

If you're not actually working out with other people and just happen to be in the same building, it doesn't matter who's going to your gym. Go wherever the equipment is better that's convenient to drive to. I guess if you're the kind of person who can't be accountable to work out hard if other people in his gym don't look ripped, and you think you get something out of nodding at "alphas" as you walk around the gym, sure, go work out with the bigger guys.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/20 01:34 PM
15

Women have a backward situation where if she is attracted to you, but she likes you or thinks you like her, she will be less sexual with you than she would with a guy she is attracted to that she doesn't like and isn't worried likes her. Women compartmentalize. If she doesn't like you, and she isn't worried you like her and will get attached, she will do all kinds of fun and crazy shit with you because she doesn't care what you think. This is especially true if you met on Tinder or at a bar or s…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/20 09:29 PM
77

One of the benefits of a world where most people suck and are barely mediocre is that it doesn't take much to be above average. If you eat right and go to the gym like you mean it, get a college degree and a full time job that requires more than a pulse, can walk up and talk to a stranger without sounding like you're autistic, and you actually do enough with your life that you have things to talk about, you're above average. I don't really recommend marriage, but if you really want to find a wif…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/20 08:22 PM
28

We've all experienced this one. Today, she loves you. She thinks you walk on water. She wants to spend the rest of her life with you. She's so happy. Tomorrow, she's out with her girls and some guy hits on her or her girls say something bad about you that makes her think. The next day, she's closed off and bitchy but insists she's fine. She's finding fault in everything you do. Things about you she used to giggle at and find charming she now finds annoying. She's not in the mood for sex. The day…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/20 05:38 PM
1

I guess the onlookers, and not enough onlookers give a shit. In fact, most of the internet masses don't care how Reddit is run. We are evil. It's obvious to everyone. We were punished for being evil. And we're whining about it. And most of the masses don't think evil people like us are owed fairness. And we're especially not owed explanations when the reason what was done to us was done is obvious: we're evil. Maybe there's a small segment of Reddit users who care about the principle, but not en…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/20 02:18 PM
5

That's my take. There is no debate. Acting like there is a debate and we're winning by Reddit's failure to answer just makes us look silly. Reddit's in charge. They do what they want. And when some red-headed stepchild backward hated forum of bigots like us complains that we were "unfairly" treated when nobody cares if you treat the sub-human bigots fairly, that's more likely to make the masses pat Reddit on the back than hate them.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/20 12:57 AM
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Doubtful. Reddit's admin don't read this stuff, and if one of their moderators happens to read it, they'll just chuckle with each other over all of this long-winded impotence and powerlessness and get a kick out of watching all of those bad men scurrying around helplessly while they feel powerful. They are not afraid of some kind of Reddit uprising, led by The Red Pill, over how they moderate things. No significant number of users is going to depart from Reddit over some unanswered debate posts …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/20 06:25 PM
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It's way simpler than all of this. The internet is unlimitedly large. You can start your own anything you want, but if it's not one of the main, best-known, most used websites, you've got very little traction. There have been many Reddit alternatives that just haven't taken off because Reddit is Coca-Cola, sold all over the world, and all of the upstart online forums trying to be uncensored Reddit are store-brand brown fizzy stuff sold in a single chain of supermarkets The internet is the modern…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/20 05:11 PM
2

A common problem, especially with younger men and women nowadays, and very especially with young autistic men, is the tendency to think about everything as black and white, and to catastrophize everything into the ultimate battle between good and evil. For example, modern women are fun slutty hedonists. That is evil and bad. Therefore, enjoying them for what they provide is evil and bad and not enlightened. Therefore, they must be harming your life by draining your semen. Only by defeating this …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/20 01:45 PM
2

Not all of that is as feasible as it used to be nowadays. In the idyllic days where Dad was the head of the household and the family respected him for working hard and supporting everybody, Dad could tell Mom what neighborhood they're going to live in, what they're going to drive, and what household items they can and can't afford. Mom would have input, of course, but if Dad said they had to live in a middle class 'hood instead of paying 70% of his net pay on a mortgage in a four-bedroom in uppe…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/20 01:35 PM
74

My biggest mistakes at age 16 were that I didn't make moves until I was almost absolutely certain they'd succeed. I wasn't asking out girls until I was certain they liked me. When we were out, I'd do that creepy thing where I'd slowly inch closer to them and see if they pulled away before I'd risk trying to touch them. I wasn't trying to kiss girls until several dates in. And I never, ever went for anything sexual until I'd been someone's boyfriend for at least a few months and was getting very …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/20 06:33 PM
4

You're probably a little older like I am. If you were born in 1980, then in 1990 at age 10, you and all of the neighborhood kids probably got out a lot. But kids born in 1998 weren't wandering their neighborhoods unattended in 2010. Kids being kids is mostly a thing of the past among the two parent upper middle class homes. Today's kids are over-scheduled little college application builders who don't manage risk well, think the world is extremely unsafe, and enter college with no idea how to be …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/20 06:21 PM
9

It's actually worse in two-parent homes. Little Raeshawn, who's growing up without a dad in the bad part of New Orleans while his mom works two jobs and barely parents him learns how to be tough. He rides his stolen bike down to the 7-11 on his own to buy mom a pack of cigarettes, knows his way around the ghetto, and has been traveling the neighborhood on his own and making his own ez-mac since age 6 while mom works the night shift. He'll never go to college because his family is poor, the schoo…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/20 04:32 PM
16

A long time ago, the US was much more open about the idea that "hate" speech (which is really just a buzz word for speech that offends some people) is actually protected speech. Even the courts recognized that the entire point of the First Amendment is to protect offensive speech. Because the bland, agreed upon, mild, inoffensive speech doesn't need to be protected. Nobody's trying to stop that speech. It's the offensive speech that needs to be protected from being silenced, whether that's a gay…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/20 12:17 AM
40

The overarching issue isn't about who is and isn't a hate group. If it's not calling you a hater, it'll be some other reason. The wrong way of thinking must be silenced. Not just because it makes people uncomfortable. Not just because people want to conceal the truth. It's an attack. If you must keep quiet under fear of consequences, it prevents wrong-thinkers from organizing. And it makes every wrong-thinker feel like he's all alone and a bad person and that the other kind of people are the win…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/20 09:01 PM
17

The really tough part is that when a girl is looking for a hookup, the bar is actually pretty low. The Red Pill is wrong about that one. When a woman is just looking for some fun, she's not looking for some kind of amazing 10/10 perfect looking "alpha" with perfect game and turning down all other men. When a woman just wants to fuck, you just have to look above average, be fun, and catch her on a night when she's looking for that. When a woman just wants sex, doesn't want to date you, and probab…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 01:55 PM
34

This is something a lot of guys who have never been the fun guy are not going to believe. No matter how much edgy internet Red Pill stuff they read, in their heart, they still won't believe that women will intentionally meet up with a man they are not secretly pining for emotionally, just to have completely recreational sex because it feels good and is fun. They're convinced that even when they become a cool "alpha" man, this will just be their ticket to a good girlfriend, and every woman they m…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/20 06:27 PM
3

There are also different shades of living the truth. You'll see a lot of guys who go to the gym, eat right, and have a good job (or at least say they do all of this), but still struggle with sex. Turns out that when it comes to solitary habits, like working out in the morning, they find those easy, but when it comes to stuff like walking up and talking to women, they struggle and act all awkward and don't approach a significant quantity of women after getting embarrassed once or twice. They're m…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/20 01:56 PM
3

That's part of the myth of America. The country was not founded on ideals of individualism.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 08:40 PM
5

Both coastlines of the USA trend very liberal. There are large urban cities, hardly anybody white who's actually a citizen works with their hands, and everything costs a lot of money. So you end up with huge population centers filled with college educated people who have too much money and think that working hard means a 12 hour day in the office instead of 8. When people have too much money and too much free time, they get bored, so they drink a lot, use drugs, and have casual sex. This also fr…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 08:33 PM
3

White culture is European, not American. What exactly was the "American tradition"? Pilgrim stuff? Guys in wigs singing facts you learned from the Hamilton musical? Fireworks on the Fourth of July? What exactly got thrown out or torn down in favor of modern politics?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 08:18 PM
5

The American experiment wasn't really about what the founders said it was about. It was just one group of elites fighting off another group of elites to take control of the colonies. The USA was never supposed to be ruled by the masses. It was a fight by the local elites to take control from the overseas elites. That's what the whole revolutionary war was about. Then a bunch of internal squabbling over the paperwork figuring out which of the local elites would benefit how. Once the US was establ…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 05:55 PM
14

Most men do not bother. They just read stuff on the internet. They mentally masturbate. They nod as they read. They think edgy thoughts in their head throughout the day. They consider themselves to be some kind of elevated or elite man because they "know the truth" or some bullshit like that. But the only thing they really do with their lives that most men don't is read edgy stuff on the internet. Otherwise, they're just like everybody else.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 02:46 PM
6

The USA is not going to explode and disappear from the map. The land and some portion of the people are still going to be there. Shit will get bad, it will stop being a first world country, life will stop being so lavish and easy and the nice things will disappear, food and money will be harder to come by, and there will be an uptick of people with guns taking shit from other people. That is when small groups of like-minded people who value hard work and practical social roles can come together …
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 02:38 PM
7

It's a funny situation. Not that long ago, America's ideas of the masses being in charge (which wasn't how America started, voters were originally white male landowners), everyone's equal, tyranny of the masses coupled with some kind of moral obligation for the masses to bend over and do whatever the loudest minorities say, and everybody gets to be as much of a hedonist as he wants because freedom, was all brand new and mostly regarded as idiocy by the rest of the world. Today, America, a mere 2…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 02:32 PM
2

It sounds like the advice you were given was a correct assessment of your situation, but by not listening to the advice of men who knew better than you, you were able to experience their correctness first hand. That fact that you thought The Red Pill was wrong and you were possibly right about your girlfriend and had to see for yourself isn't a virtue. You wasted time and energy and emotional resources going down this road, and for what? Because you didn't want to always wonder whether you were …
/r/TheRedPill24/08/20 02:43 PM
0

There are two sides of thought for this one. Some guys want to understand the matrix. They want to see 1s and 0s and lines of code, and understand the truth of what's really happening, so they can be a badass like Neo and fly around the matrix like a superhero as they fuck all the girls and make all the money. The idea of escaping the matrix and fighting the robots in the real world to try to change everything seems stupid to them. They learned how to succeed within the system. Because in our si…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/20 03:09 PM
10

It goes even farther than this. Women do not actually want you to emote or connect emotionally with them. They want to feel emotionally connected with you, but actual emoting from you just gets in the way of that feeling. Women feel emotionally connected with you when they feel safe. They think that they would feel safe if you were comfortable enough to open up to them, so that's what they verbally ask for. But that's not what actually makes them feel safe. Women don't just hate your vulnerabili…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 05:00 PM
1

If you are ugly and a woman doesn't think you're hot enough to talk to, much less go home with, that's not really falling into her frame. Refusing to accept her opinion on your appearance and pushing your luck is just being socially clueless. I'm not saying to define your reality based on everything women say and do, but the idea that you aren't subject to the judgment of women is a little silly. Of course you are. Women choose whether you are hot enough and fun enough to have sex. You don't get…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/20 07:03 PM
1

44 pounds is an enormous amount of weight to gain in such a short time. The weight is clearly not the only significant issue. This is a woman with no impulse control whose life is so empty that she just eats constantly when she's bored because she has to be doing something and gratifying herself and feeling good all the time. Under more normal circumstances, there's more she could do to obtain that gratification, but with less to do, she's just eating to pass the time. Curl up with a good book? …
/r/TheRedPill20/08/20 01:47 PM
1

So essentially, nobody is high status? Because whoever you point at and say there goes a high status person, he can be taken down. Which means he wasn't really high status to begin with because he was able to be harassed. And the people who take him down aren't necessarily high status people. It can just be the masses. Angry manosphere men who make the big Gillette company lose money. Angry leftist activists who make a big rich professional athlete kneel or get fired. Angry leftist voters who ma…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 07:28 PM
2

That is a very pretty academic theory that does not pan out in the real world. There is always someone bigger, and even when there is not, there is someone who can influence the masses or just the masses themselves. CEOs of major businesses who should theoretically be able to do whatever they want on account of how much fuck-you money they have are forced to pretend to be "woke". Some get dragged in front of Congress and grilled by politicians, who don't care about any actual issues and are just…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 06:37 PM
2

It's a question of what you're willing to compromise. Life in a first world capitalist nation is lavish. If you play along, you can make money, the women are loose and easy, and there's all of the alcohol and good coffee and good steak you can consume. You have to work hard, sell your soul to the system, keep your mouth shut about what you really think, and pretend to be one of them, but in exchange, you get the first world capitalism lifestyle. You're free to work as hard as you want and consum…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 04:42 PM
5

I'm starting to come around to the idea that the only "real red pill" thing to do is to leave the West. Or maybe start a revolution if you really think you have enough men to do it. Which sounds crazy. Radical. Like I'm just some edgy internet guy. Leaving the West? Who the fuck would do that when you can get a good job here, make good money, the dating scene is good, and you have a lot of freedom to go places and do things and be better than most other people on account of having money? It's a …
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 01:33 PM
1

It's not even about you judging her. It's maybe a little bit about the friends she came with knowing she's a slut. But even more, it's about her feeling like a slut. A lot of the time, she doesn't plan on seeing you ever again. Whatever judgment you have of her inside your head doesn't matter. As long as you don't make her feel used, slutty, or bad about what she does with you. She doesn't care how you judge her. She cares how she feels about herself. She needs that game story for herself so she…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 08:07 PM
28

This is a decent summary, with one caveat: Women cannot be made to feel like sluts. In all of the approaching, making your intentions clear, and acting like you expect her to just say yes and go home for sex, it helps to make all of this a bit indirect. You can't just walk up, squeeze a girl's breasts, and tell her you want to fuck her. Because even if she's attracted to you, she can't say yes and leave with you without admitting that she's a slut and feeling like one. The flirting and the game …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 03:42 PM
3

Your initial STFU approach was the right one, if you didn't have it in you to be light, fun, funny, or playfully dismissive. Engaging a woman's feelings with logical debate as you try to explain and discredit her feelings is giving her feelings credibility. It's not a game for women. On some level, her subconscious assumes that when you spit out a lot of logical words and attention, you're worried about her feelings, and you're trying to convince yourself of something you're not sure of. Discuss…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 01:17 PM
41

So you're a divorced guy smoking weed on a boat with a girl he's fucking. You're both high and you're not doing a good job steering the boat, at least in her opinion. She expresses worry. And instead of saying, "Nah. We're fine. Shore's that way. Wind's even blowing us that way", then changing the subject to something that has a much better chance of leading to sex, you play 20 questions with her by quizzing her about the logic of her feelings, like you're her CBT therapist or something.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/20 08:32 PM
3

It's August 13, 2020. You wrote a post on August 8, 2020, in English. Understanding your post and what the hell you're trying to communicate to people shouldn't require pouring over the text for hours by candlelight, pondering your deep meaning and the layers of complexity you used. If you were a 1400s philosopher or Shakespeare or something, writing with the language of the time about the ideas of the time, and we were studying your writing to figure out your intent, sure, that would be necessa…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/20 01:33 PM
20

Thinking like this is heresy nowadays. We are supposed to believe that boys and girls are biologically equal, except for a few plumbing differences, and any difference in behavior that we observe is 100% a product of environment and how the kids are socialized. If a woman is not getting into bar fights and being cut throat in the corporate world, it's only because she was force-fed sexist messages her entire life about how women aren't supposed to be like that and how being successful and aggres…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/20 01:18 PM
4

Most socially aware men are able to tell the difference between a hard "No get away from me you creep!" and a woman who wants to go home with you but is uncertain at first as part of the not-a-slut dance, but feels better about it and comes home with you after you've made her feel okay about it. This thing where women have consensual sex with a partner then turn around the next day claiming rape is extremely rare but blown out of proportion to be a huge and alarming issue on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/20 01:04 PM
25

One thing to remain aware of is that women do not do this consciously. They are not saying "no" with the specific intent of weeding out men who do not know the game, while welcoming men who do. They're not really thinking about it. They are simply doing what they always do: saying what they feel right now this very minute. Or sometimes saying what they think they are supposed to say. If you can be that fourth type of man who makes women feel all right, like it will all be okay and it is perfectl…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/20 10:36 PM
2

Sometimes, when you type a post, and people think "What the fuck is this guy even getting at? What is this even about?", it's a failure on your part to communicate effectively, not a failure on their part to be on your elevated intellectual level.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/20 08:36 PM
5

The two large essays, one satire, one explaining your satire, seems like a bit much. You write this first silly post. People are like "What is this? Is this guy just being funny? Trolling? Is he trying to make commentary about some other people or a past post? Is he actually one of the crazy fucks and being serious? What's his deal?" You then write this second post that goes something like "You guys are all dumb! I wasn't being serious! I was satirizing all of you by acting like an idiot who thi…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/20 07:25 PM
2

Instead of writing stuff to try to get the blue pill subreddit and to try to get autistic people, write stuff to try to get women to have sex with your readers. Internet games are stupid.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/20 06:03 PM
1

Controlling women is exhausting. Just let them do what they do. A woman doesn't have to be a good wife candidate for you to enjoy the sex.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 01:28 PM
73

This is a good summary of how to interact with women. It is hard for men to imagine what is like to be a woman. To actually be controlled by feelings. If a woman feels like you are hot, then in her world you are hot. Even if you are not that hot, if lots of other women are paying you attention, and you seem like the life of the party in your end of the bar, she will feel like you are hot. If you make a woman feel like going home with you is normal, she will feel normal doing it. If you act like …
/r/TheRedPill10/08/20 09:19 PM
6

I don't think there is much to learn from any woman you'll hear about on the internet. Once a woman is even a little famous, she gets weird. Analyzing things celebrities do doesn't offer much insight when you're trying to take home a girl you met at a bar that nobody has heard of before.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/20 03:29 PM
1

We may be picturing the same thing and just disagreeing on what it means to "interact" with a woman. Obviously, you don't just walk up, pull your pants down without saying a word, and a woman you've never met starts to suck your dick. You also don't need to put on a seven-hour-long show where you sing and dance and act like a clown and spend 500$ on drinks trying to entertain a woman. But you do have to talk to a girl in a manner that leads to sex.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/20 12:54 AM
-2

That last line is the key. They're going to tax everybody with income into oblivion. Like 90% taxes and some kind of government-run social structure that sucks. When that happens, you'll need international income sources, crypto, whatever. It's not enough to not be a 9-5 wage junkie and run a business. They'll take your business income, too. You need to have money somewhere they can't see or touch. But if you're going to go that far, why even live in the USA?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/20 12:47 AM
1

That's a funny one for me. If there's a woman I'm attracted to, I can talk to her in a way she'll enjoy, the same way I'd talk to a guy I enjoy talking to, and if things go well, because she's a girl and not a guy, we can also have sex. That's a bonus, not a penalty. This idea that interacting with women in a way that leads to sex is some kind of waste of time or enormous effort is really, really strange. If you do not like interacting with women, sex might not be a good hobby for you.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/20 12:41 AM
1

Talking to women in a way that they enjoy (the same way you would talk to a man at a job interview or your coworkers that you don't want hating you) is hardly "changing" for women. It just doesn't compute to me, this idea that talking to a woman in a way she likes is some kind of sacrifice of who we are as men, some kind of huge investment, or changing who we are. If you really don't like interacting with women and consider it a huge investment, a waste of time and resources, and a tedious annoy…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/20 05:37 PM
2

I suppose it's a philosophical difference. If I'm having sex with two women, some lesser man somewhere is having sex with zero women and complaining about sluts. If I cared about society, I'd give up one woman so that everybody could have one. I don't think the woman I gave up would actually have sex with some loser, but that's the theory as long as every single man in the world commits to monogonomy for the good of all men. In fact, if I really cared that much I'd push for a society that enforc…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/20 01:05 AM
0

This is the party line for guys who have a hard time having sex. You think the world is going to hell, when really, you're just lonely. Your world is going to hell. The nuclear family isn't going anywhere. Most guys who have sex eventually get married. Most slutty women eventually get married. Most rich and middle and upper middle class families don't divorce at the rate lower and working class families divorce. I wouldn't call most of them happy, but they stay together at higher rates. Most ric…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/20 11:56 PM
-3

The only men who want to go back to some kind of hyper-conservative culture where women aren't sluts are the men who can't have sex with sluts and want to be guaranteed a wife just for being some regular guy with a job. The women aren't happy there. The men who can actually attract women aren't happy there. The only people who benefit from that kind of arrangement are low quality men. And even those guys don't really end up happy. Just married to a woman who doesn't like or respect them that muc…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/20 07:08 PM
-4

The top 50% of men are dating and having sex. Sure, the top 20% has more options and more action, but any guy who's even a little above average can get laid. The next 20% of men are struggling but get some dates some of the time with crappy women. The bottom 30% are untouchable. The majority of men date and have sex. Not this mythical "top 20%" The majority. You're asking the majority to stop having sex to give the worst of men a chance at locking down a woman who will be unhappy to have them. N…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/20 07:06 PM
1

The differences between men who game and men who hate game are 1) skill and 2) enjoyment. If you honestly do not like interacting with women and you find talking to a girl and playing the game tedious and annoying, this may be an indicator of poor social skills in general. Most humans like interacting with other humans. When you are honestly not enjoying your interactions with a girl and are just putting on a fake show, your game is usually not as good. Somebody who doesn't like interacting with…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/20 06:33 PM
-5

Once you get past the judgment of this, it's a lot easier to enjoy sex and enjoy women. Don't get married, obviously. Most of the men who hate sluts aren't guys who have lots of sex but lament that they cannot find a good wife. Most of the men who hate sluts are men who are unable to have sex. They think that if only women were not slutty, this would somehow be better for them. But it wouldn't be better for them. It would just be worse for everyone else.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/20 06:28 PM
1

I wasn't really getting this post either. I think he thinks that feminists are going to read his post and seethe with rage over how he so smartly got them with his brilliant analysis, while anti-feminists are going to high-five him. It doesn't really say anything. It's just ... revenge porn or something.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/20 09:06 PM
32

This is a bit backward. Women did not establish society to claim men's resources for ugly women. Men established society to claim women's sex for unattractive men. In the absence of society (formerly aligned with and created in the image of religion), powerful men fuck all the women, women spurn all but the best men, and the lesser men either sit and contribute nothing or revolt and create chaos. Society made rules that incentivized all men to be productive contributors. The powerful men could o…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/20 05:50 PM
6

There are two parts to this issue. I think the second one is actually the bigger part. The first part from this post is right on. Boys don't grow up, or at least don't grow up correctly. So they don't have relationships as men. They have relationships as children and are looking for the same kind of love their mothers gave them because they're not grown up yet. The second part is that because boys aren't learning how to be men, they're sucking hard at attracting women in general. This leads boys…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/20 04:06 PM
1

Your opinion is the majority opinion. It is well heard, all the time. You are not offering new information. In response to your question, I would not break up with a rape victim assuming she's not too annoying to deal with, but I'm also not hunting for a wife. So a woman's history doesn't matter so much to me, or only matters to the extent that she is dangerous or difficult to deal with. Assuming the sex is good and she's not too terrible to be around, I'm okay enjoying her for what she is until…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 07:42 PM
1

Before we get into that, what is your skin in the game? Why is this issue important to you? Why did you wander on to this corner of Reddit and dig up a month-old comment thread, become so incensed that you had to share your opinion and work so furiously to prove this month-old comment thread wrong? Do you just randomly troll the internet for things you disagree with so you can become frustrated and deliver your opinions?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 07:21 PM
0

I don't see why you think you need my permission or approval to date whoever you want to date. If you think it's a good idea to treat all people like everyone else and that no one type of person is a better or worse idea to date than any other type of person, go live that way. I have done nothing but agree with you and encourage you to do what you think is a good idea. I disagree with what you think is a good idea, but I'm not trying to convince you to change your life like you are with me. I do…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 07:12 PM
0

So go get married then? I'm not trying to convince you of anything. You're the one hell-bent on trying to convince me that I'm wrong about everything and that I and all men should be seriously considering marrying promiscuous rape victims for some reason. Start a discussion forum and share your experiences. Hell, if you have proven evidence that marrying promiscuous rape victims is a good idea and beneficial to men, cite that evidence. Tell the world. Change hearts and minds. I'm not stopping yo…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 06:44 PM
0

You got me there. You should go ahead and fall in love and marry that rape victim. Preferably a really promiscuous one so she's gotten that out of her system and found herself before she met you. Because there is no proven evidence that this is a bad idea, it is just as good of a decision as any other. It should not sound wrong to you in the slightest. In fact, on paper, there are many aspects of that situation that sound good. If anything about this sounds wrong to you in any way, you are just …
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 06:14 PM
0

Nobody locks 1000 humans in a dome and conducts a double-blind peer reviewed study on their sex and relationships. I think there are laws against that. So as a species, we rely on the wisdom and experiences of those who came before us, and come together to discuss our experiences. Insisting on "evidence" is for autistic people who don't have the social adeptness to interpret the world based on their experiences and the experiences of others the way normal people do or the social skills to learn …
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 05:53 PM
0

You shouldn't believe anything I say. You should find a woman and marry for love. You know better than any of us here at The Red Pill, so you should go find that happiness you know is out there and leave us to our misogyny.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 04:49 PM
19

If you consider sitting down at the chess board and saying "You can be white so you go first" as making a move, yes. Though in a crowded bar, a woman is not noticing and signaling every single man regarding her receptiveness to that individual man. Sometimes, you walk up to a woman who hasn't noticed or signaled you and make a move anyway.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 04:23 PM
0

You got me there. I'm totally just a woman-hater. You should marry a rape victim due to the lack of written evidence proving that you shouldn't.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 04:21 PM
70

In addition to showing up, women will signal to men they want. How they look at you and position their bodies is intended to invite you over to flirt if you are interested, or to warn you away if she does not like your look. She won't make the move, but she will signal availability and receptiveness if she is interested. They also start out with an idea in their minds about the type of relationship they are looking for. A woman will go out looking for a hook-up, or she will go out deciding she's…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 02:11 PM
4

Marriage is not a good bet. There is no way to be or traits you can develop that is going to for sure make your marriage one of the ones that works. No matter how hot, rich, masculine, and confident you act for the rest of your days, this will not save your marriage. And there is no set of characteristics you can vet for in a woman that is going to make her one of the ones who never leaves you. There is no checklist of traits that will give you better odds than a coin toss. No matter what you do…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 01:54 PM
4

That 30 day guide is what most guys who can't get laid do already. It is not the path to happiness and abundance. Not approaching women and doing your own solitary hobbies like you just don't care doesn't create abundance. It is just learning to live without it by resigning yourself to never having it. Don't approach girls and watch your favorite movies for 30 days is the exact opposite advice guys around here need.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 05:09 PM
4

Situation 1: You think women are bad. You find a bad woman who tries to lie and pretend she's not bad but you see through her. She lives up to your bad expectations. You dump her. Situation 2: You assume the best of women. You find a bad woman but assume the best of her. She lies and manipulates and fucks you over. You are sad. Situation 3: You think women are bad. You enter into relationships with women with zero expectations of them being good. You just enjoy them for what they are without bur…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 02:03 PM
7

I'm kind of getting that, but kind of not seeing it at the same time. Like, "I'm sitting on a rock, just chilling with my friends, having a drink, without a care in the world, and I just feel at peace" is something a masculine guy might say. It's also something a chick might post on Facebook. I get that being a calm, controlled guy who can touch that feeling and isn't neurotic about reading books the Red Pill told him to every spare minute while trying desperately to think up the next game line …
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 09:32 PM
7

Essentially, this post is proposing that masculinity is a feeling? You were sitting on a rock smoking and felt at peace with the world, while doing something kind of rugged, stoic, and manly, and therefore you were masculine in that moment? I'm all for chilling out sometimes, letting the world go, and basking in how great it feels to just be not-stressed, at ease, and watch the world go by for a little bit. But I don't know if that's the definition of masculinity. But I definitely agree that peo…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 02:22 PM
2

Maybe. Depends on your generation. A 35 year old millenial is worried about catching covid, missing work, and not being able to pay her bills. She reads internet crap all day and isn't entirely sure what's true or how much danger she's in, but she's fucked her way through college and grad school and the decade that came after and figures it's not worth the risk for just another fuck unless the guy is really exceptional. A 25 year old gen-Z girl is worried about anybody in her friend group shamin…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/20 07:06 PM
3

This is a good perspective. Too many men sound like they're looking for wives or something. If she is not your wife, it doesn't matter how much sex she had or under what circumstances. You are just taking your turn, for tonight, a couple of weeks, a few months, or however long it lasts. You are enjoying her for what she is, and she is enjoying you for what you are, and because you aren't burdening her with all of these good wife expectations, she can just be herself and not get stressed out abou…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/20 02:15 PM
3

Polyamory is just a particular type of manipulation. Normal women who don't want to be locked down date non-exclusively. And when a guy wants to become more serious, she says no, loses that guy, but there are more where that came from. Being poly is a trick women play (usually low self-esteem women) to keep a guy around that they're just okay about and don't really want seriously. If she actually wanted the guy seriously, she wouldn't play the poly card. She'd jump at the chance to lock him down…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/20 02:10 PM
2

I don't know you. But where I was going with this is when some random girl sees your picture on Tinder and you're Asian, unless you're lumberjacking a tree in your pics, she's picturing the president of the math club in her head and swiping you into the no category. It's not the Asian-ness itself. It's the other stuff you have to dispel. But if you're walking up to a white girl in person and you have the body and swagger of a lumberjack and the confidence of a frat boy, that dispels any notion t…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/20 03:06 PM
3

It's not the race thing. Girls are not avoiding you because of dark hair and narrow slanted eyes. Maybe a few, but not as many as you're thinking. It's because you are probably also short, skinny, have a baby face, nerdy mannerisms from a strict Asian upbringing, and if you're only a first or second generation Western Asian, you might even have an accent. If you were 6 feet tall, buff, talked like a white guy, and were the son of a construction worker and secretary who works with his hands for a…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/20 02:47 PM
3

It's not worth getting into a large internet argument with guys around here about what's essentially a difference in philosophy. Some guys think playing the game to get laid is a win-win situation for both boys and girls. Boys get sex, girls get the attention they crave, both parties walk away happy. Sex is like eating, and once you're done with dinner you go do something productive. Some guys think playing the game is a lose-lose situation. Boys inauthentically invest time and energy putting on…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/20 02:25 PM
5

I'm not sure that women winning or losing ought to be that much of an issue to begin with. It's weird to me that some guys get upset by the idea of women "winning." That women can have casual sex with impunity, the guys will make it fun for them and pay them attention that they enjoy, and all parties involved walk away getting what they wanted. Everyone wins. Except for the guys sitting on the outside watching and getting angry about not having sex. I think that after a lifetime of getting crapp…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 05:03 PM
1

It is a sliding scale. Right now, today, if your game is tight and you're fairly confident, looking exactly the way you do, you could meet and have sex with chunky girls in bars. Not necessarily even the super fat very obese ugly faced girls. Just the kind of chunky friend who always tags along with her pretty friends. You know the type. If you want to have sex with her skinny friend with the pretty face, you still have a little bit of work to do, but that's okay. But get this idea that you are …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 02:16 PM
14

This is a very important point. Lots of men here think that they must strut around and demonstrate manly control at all times lest they be anything less than 100% true to themselves. That kind of thinking is autism. Playing along with a woman so that she has a good time and has sex with you, when that is the outcome you wanted, is you controlling the situation to get what you want. You gave her a little of what she wanted, too, by making it fun for her. Nobody loses the game that way. Everyone w…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 01:29 AM
0

Outright insulting girls doesn't work that well unless the girl has issues. But a lot of the time, when you don't care and are just saying whatever comes to mind, that helps your banter be more natural. You're more interesting and authentic because...you're actually being authentic. Something that works really well for me is acting like preposterous things are normal, and like women are strange if they think otherwise. Like when the time comes to ask a girl you just met at the bar two hours ago …
/r/TheRedPill30/07/20 03:17 PM
0

Hmm. You are right. I know it would be good to read more. I used to, and I should again. I don't have to read more to get laid. I have sex okay right now. And that's a real disincentive to spending Saturday nights with a book when there's something more fun to do. Once I figured out the sex game, I kind of slacked off on the whole being a better man thing. If it were harder to get laid, maybe I'd be a philosopher or something. But I should definitely read more. I don't think I realized I was try…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 11:30 PM
3

That's a good compromise. Bringing a friend or two he respects to witness her crazy and help him pack his things while she cries like a lunatic is a decent alternative to just ghosting on her.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 09:42 PM
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Know your audience. Read this man's post. Think about what he is like. This man will not be able to pull off what you suggest. He will waver weakly and be drawn into her crazy and he will engage. At the sight of his weakness, she will become hysteric, possibly violent, possibly threaten suicide, injure him or herself, get him into legal trouble, and various other consequences. Or he can just vanish.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 09:35 PM
1

We are talking about two different things. If I am an unsexed man who wants to have sex, becoming enlightened about the state of the world by reading various philosophy texts is a very inefficient way to get laid. If I am concerned man who wants to understand the world and escape my programming, getting laid is a waste of time and I should be reading. But that becomes the answer to everything. A guy wants advice on how to drive cars better? Tell him forget about cars and read philosophy. Cars ar…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 09:17 PM
14

Mental illness. Probably BPD. Potentially bipolar. She is not in danger. You are. The next time she is out of the house, pack your things and ghost. Change your phone number. Find a new place to live. Do not engage. Do not have a talk about her behavior. Do not officially break the engagement. Do not officially break up with her. Do not engage with her at all. Just ghost. Attempt to never hear from her again. If she shows up at your workplace, do not engage. Immediately have your employer call s…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 09:05 PM
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If you're not able to have sex with women and want to have sex with women, and you'd like advice on how to have sex with women, "read philosophy" isn't good advice.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 08:01 PM
0

There is this very bizarre and radical sect of hermit men who think that the very act of talking to a woman in a way that gets you laid is "beta," and that "real men" just exist and women fall from the sky on to their dicks because the women can smell how masculine and authentic and deep these real men are. Sex is something you do, just like eating or going to the gym. In order to do this thing, you need to know how. Just like you need to know how to buy groceries and make a sandwich. You are no…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 02:03 PM
1

This is a sexual strategy forum. It is where men congregate to discuss how to improve their outcomes with women. How to improve their sexual options and their success at sex and relationships. Thinking deep philosophical thoughts in your head doesn't get you laid. Learning how to talk to women like a normal person gets you laid. The only blue pill thinking from your past you need to undo is the idea that you need to become friends for six months and pine after women, showing off what a great guy…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 01:43 PM
0

People have a hard time compartmentalizing nowadays. It makes it impossible for them to stay on topic. The idea that you might use one specific forum to discuss sexual strategy, meaning ways to improve your outcomes with women and meet your sexual needs, and that this one forum isn't going to be some kind of holistic whole-life philosophy is just mind-boggling to some people. People who come to a forum about getting laid looking for whole-life meaning are the ones who need to figure out somethin…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 01:43 AM
15

It's best not to overthink women. They do what feels good at the time. Right now, going home with Mike might feel good because he's cute and fun and paying attention to her. Tomorrow, she might go to the gym and spend half an hour on the treadmill because that makes her feel good about herself. The next day she might post something about racism on Facebook and get a bunch of likes because that makes her feel good about herself. Doesn't matter much. Whatever she is doing, it's what seems like a g…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/20 06:55 PM
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I say this a lot: Online dating is about 50% looking slightly above average and 50% timing. Once you're just a little bit above average, it is ALL about numbers. Messaging lots and lots of women. You have to be cute enough to get the date, and not absolutely braindead in whatever bio you write or whatever you say in your messages, yes. But the rest is just timing. Women are absolutely buried in messages. If you are message 72 out of 100 messages, it doesn't matter how good your game is or how ho…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/20 04:36 PM
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The advice of your post is false. Your assertion is that if you do not brag about your accomplishments, they are invisible and do not exist to women. Therefore, by bragging to women about your accomplishments, this excites women, makes them jealous, curious, etc. My assertion is that bragging is always seen as try-hard attention seeking behavior, and while the loud asshole who can't shut up about himself will still do better than the timid and socially inept guy who never talks or approaches, th…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/20 01:52 PM
3

This is poor advice. There is nothing women (or men) hate more than a try-hard who is constantly seeking attention and never shuts up. You attract women (and people in general) by making a very accomplished life appear effortless. Like good things just naturally flow to you. You know how long you spend at the gym and how closely you watch what you eat, but women don't want to hear about that shit. Talking to her about that is attention seeking behavior that turns women off. It looks like you're …
/r/TheRedPill28/07/20 01:39 PM
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"Sexual strategy" means discussing how to get women to have sex with you. That is the "goal" of a sexual strategy. Not necessary the goal of life itself, but definitely the goal of having a sexual strategy. While becoming some kind of self-directed man who is awesome and all that is a great sexual strategy, let's not steer the discussion toward some vague, general, male self-help how to be a better dude off-topic garbage.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/20 06:59 PM
18

This isn't women in their 30s being abnormal. It's women in their 20s being abnormal. Women in their 20s have the "it won't happen to me" approach to life. It's part of the reason they're so comfortable going home with a guy they just met tonight, even though logically, that seems pretty darn unsafe. If you look at places where the virus numbers surged while things reopened, it's places where bars were open, especially college towns, and the surge included an unusual number of people in their 20…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/20 12:42 PM
13

Correct. Many defeatist men think that when we say "women like attractive men", we mean a perfect face and body. This is not the case. You absolutely must be at least very slightly above average looking. If you are average or worse, you will have few options no matter what else you have to offer. But nowadays, nearly every guy can become slightly above average. You just have to work out, eat right, and dress and groom well. Unless you are obscenely deformed and ugly, just doing that will make yo…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 08:40 PM
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Women who post advice confirm what you already know. The only danger is that they're telling you and a lot of guys what they want to hear. The idea that there is some kind of "good man" you can be and that by being good, you will attract women. That is not the whole picture. You need to be an attractive man. Full stop. Period. That's it. If you are an attractive man, your options for having sex increase exponentially. It doesn't matter if you're a good man or a terrible man. If a woman has a cho…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 02:40 PM
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It's not as complex as this. Women get bored easily and have short attention spans. When a woman talks to a guy, or starts trading messages on a a dating app, or any other method of engaging with a guy, she's bored and looking for some fun. She doesn't need to be groomed and prepped over a period of weeks. She's already looking for fun, right now. So you need to ask her out. Right now. Because the next time you see her, she might not be looking for fun right now. It's been two weeks. She's been …
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 02:34 PM
8

Women also like a freak in the sheets, wrapped up in the body of a good guy they can bring home to Mom. The idea that he's secretly a fuck-machine player, but looks like a good guy to all of her friends and family on the outside, and she somehow magically won him over and he's chosen her over all women is women's wet dream. Look at the 50 Shades example, for instance. Some random nobody average girl is hotly pursued by this handsome, wealthy, dominant man who shows her this new world in the bedr…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 02:36 PM
2

If we were talking about your wife, you would have a good point. But since you are not getting married, like a smart man, and these are just women you occasionally have sex with, it doesn't seem like it matters so much.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 02:28 PM
8

Bundy was a sick man. Severe mental illness. Women were an event that tipped him over the edge. Most men do not have this severe mental illness. A normal loser who gets rejected by girls is not going to commit murder. The idea that any random loser is about to snap and kill people is what feminists think about men. But it's not actually the case. Most men are not that severely mentally ill.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 09:29 PM
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Ultimately, every time a woman has sex "without consequence", regardless of whatever words she uses to define her "relationship" with the guy, she is gratifying a guy, and he was gratified by her. A man was pleased sexually. What does it matter what words a woman uses to rationalize this? She is pleasing a man for a night. Let her think whatever she wants in her head as long as she continues to please men.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 07:30 PM
4

The guy's behavior changes based on whether or not a woman is in the picture? Also blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 07:06 PM
9

This is something that has always been so with women, and men who know the game, but surprises men who are on the outside of the game. Short term "relationships" is how much of the casual sex happens. Adult women who are "dating" have adult sex if the date goes well. At that point, they are "seeing" a guy, but "it's not really that serious yet". After a few dates, if neither one is having sex with anyone else, they're kind of sort of in a "relationship". But what is a relationship anyway? All th…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 06:56 PM
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The blue pill mindset is that if you work hard, get a good job, and achieve the kind of lifestyle a woman would want to marry into, you will get true love. That is blue pill. Blue, not red. Blue. Especially when you do all of this crap for the purpose of impressing women. Being so mentally weak that you become obsessed with the first girl who will say yes and getting dumped in college fucks you up and you murder people is blue pill. Blue, not red. Blue. Getting revenge on a woman who dumped you …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 06:47 PM
14

Being friends with a woman is kind of like having a relationship with a woman, but without the relationship. What "friendship" typically means to a man is different. You can be "friends" in a sense with women, but it's not the same kind of friendship. There is always sexual tension or romantic longing somewhere in the mix, even if it's just one of you and it's on the back burner. And women have a hard time being consistent. Their feelings change every five seconds. So your friend-woman who does …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 04:55 PM
3

Good stuff. Complaining about problems is something women and children do. Even if you had a problem last week that you heroically solved like a boss, talking about that problem you had and then solved like a boss is something women and children do. It is seeking attention and a pat on the back and is a turn off to see men do it. Women come to men like us for fun. They want to be uplifted into a fun experience, not drowned in problems. When a woman tells you something stupid like she wants you t…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 02:00 PM
1

Somewhat. A lot of men exaggerate this. You definitely need to look a little above average to have hookups using an app. But you do not have to be some kind of sculpted model. It is more a question of luck and timing. An average looking girl is not carefully going through all 500 of her Tinder messages to select the one hottest man with the most amazing game and deny the other 499 of them. She's just going through her messages in the order they appear, and by her 10th message, she has a date lin…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/20 08:18 PM
2

That is a good breakdown of the relationship side of hypergamy. Another point to add might be that women's perceptions are pretty messed up. A woman always thinks she is better than what she actually is. Men buy her drinks and try to sleep with her for her entire life, because she is a woman. So she believes she is more attractive than she actually is. You don't just have to make her feel like she is trading up in an objective sense. You have to make her feel like she is dating above her own inf…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/20 07:33 PM
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By your unusual definition, farming is hypergamy. By growing crops, you are infiltrating the higher class of people who eat and leaving the lower class of people who starve to death, thus improving your options.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/20 07:12 PM
15

Hypergamy is important to understand, but I do not believe this post conveys an understanding of it.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/20 06:06 PM
6

Feminism is about trading bosses. Bringing your loving husband a cup of coffee because he loves you and you love him is oppression. Bringing your boss a cup of coffee or you're fired is empowering. Except that's not really the case. If she loves you, she'll bring you ten cups of coffee and smile while she does it, and bitch about serving her boss. It's when she doesn't love you and feels like she is doing something for you out of duty, because you have the title of husband, that she suddenly bec…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/20 04:38 PM
1

If you are not getting married, I don't understand what the big deal is. So let's say you are "dating" some girl. What does that even mean? You spend time together once in awhile and have sex? This is not some kind of life-changing investment. You can stop at any time. She can stop at any time. You can start again at any time. She can start again at any time. You can date 50 other women at once. She can date 50 other men at once. Why does there even need to be a "behind your back"? If you don't …
/r/TheRedPill21/07/20 02:46 PM
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Why does this bother you? If you think this kind of thing is beneath you, then you should become the kind of man who does not have to pay for sex. Then, you can have sex with these women, and with women who do not do this, all for free. What women do doesn't matter. Why would it? Are you hunting for a wife and worried a woman who does this will slip past detection and end up married to you? There is a perfect solution for this that is 100% effective: Don't get married. If you are not hunting for…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 10:39 PM
9

The dark triad is not just a Red Pill thing. Upper middle class white women are usually very narcissistic. We live in the modern age of mental health worship, where everybody sees a therapist, everybody takes pills to not feel bad about normal life problems, everybody matters and everybody's opinions are valid even when they're stupid, except that expressing a different opinion is also seen as an attack that makes people feel unsafe, and somehow those two ideas both coexist. Today, an upper midd…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/20 04:22 PM
3

The idea of deliberately "negging" is dumb, yes. But the concept is not bad. Think about what PUA is. It is guys who do not know how to interact with women trying to figure out how to interact with women by watching guys who get laid do so. If you have good social skills, you interact with women in a way that is fun and not always bending over to please them, you tease, you banter, and you are interesting. Baked into this interaction is something kind of like "negging," but less stupid. Delibera…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/20 02:19 PM
14

There is a modern anti-masculinity craze. In the past, orderlies would tackle actually crazy and dangerous men and force medication on them to make them calm and zombie-like. And that is fine. These were actually sick and dangerous men. But today, there is an undercurrent that all men are dangerous, and a man who raises his voice or stands too close, or a teenage boy who does not listen to authorities, is not a normal interaction but a dangerous mental illness. An oppositional teenage boy (espec…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 09:35 PM
68

The man-control path in the future won't be administering estrogen. It will be suppressing testosterone. That will keep boys from being aggressive and competitive and developing muscle. It will be spun as something good for the boys since it will curb disruptive behavior and improve attention in school, and leave their options open to choose other genders and sexualities in the future, which many will do since they don't have testosterone making them feel male or desire sex. Lower sex drive and …
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 06:00 PM
36

Most people stand around finger fucking their phones all day. Guys and girls alike. If you walk up and talk to some girl, sure, she might blow up at you. Or it might be stupid and awkward and embarrassing. But even if that happens, it's still probably the most interesting thing that happened to her in weeks. She can tell their friends that this weirdo tried to talk to her. Post about it on social media. Remember fondly how she told this guy off. And you never know. She might talk back instead of…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 12:50 AM
23

Allegedly, the story is that this guy pretended to be a legitimate networking and mentorship contact who was offering an actual opportunity to women. Then, after a little bit, he would start making sexual propositions. Then, he'd bail on the women if they wouldn't get sexual or weren't as hot as the other women. Women do not like it when you cross modes with them. If they are in work mode and you make a dating mode move, they get bitchy. Like trying to pick up a girl at a coffee shop when she's …
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 08:07 PM
78

The light switch effect is something a little different. The light switch happens when today, she thinks you are amazing. She says she wants to spend the rest of her life with you. She's the happiest she's ever been. Then tomorrow, the new guy at work hits on her and she can't stop thinking about him and subconsciously begins to feel trapped. Two days from now, she's picking fights with you, acting bitchy, things she used to like about you she now finds annoying, and she's not in the mood for se…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 06:31 PM
1

It seems like you may be getting older and have reached a point where the effort you need to make to have casual sex has increased. Rather than pretend that you are too cool to waste time gaming women and advising men against doing so, recognize that you have changed and consider providing more honest advice about growing older and how the scene has changed for you.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 05:32 PM
3

There is nothing quite like a woman fucking you the night she met you, for free, just because she wants to. You are missing out.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 04:51 PM
102

Shit tests serve two purposes, depending on the man she is shit testing. If you are attractive, have options, etc., then most of the time, a woman is going to not give you shit and is going to treat you with respect because she does not want to screw things up and lose you. But every once in awhile, she will act up and not know why. This is her subconscious shit testing you, and her subconscious wants you to win. When you show her you will not tolerate her crap and are prepared to leave, she fee…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 02:40 PM
5

There is definitely a cultural shift in play, but it is not about robots.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 01:46 AM
9

Why do you need to know? Are you hunting for a magical unicorn wife? And do you seriously believe that if you find a magical unicorn wife who checks off all of these boxes about sexual history on your notepad you're actually going to have a good marriage?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 01:22 AM
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You will never find out. Whatever she tells you, it is probably a lie, and even if it is not, you will never know and probably suspect it is a lie. Whatever she lets slip, it will never be all of it. You will never know this about her, no matter how you ask or don't ask. You can only hurt yourself by asking. It can never help you. Asking a woman to tell you this is going to keep her from being herself around you. You are imposing your expectations on her, which stresses both of you out. Once you…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 09:32 PM
51

Not playing the game means your sexual needs are not met, or that you end up like the example guy in this post. Judge women inside your head. But on the outside, be a man who has sex.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 09:00 PM
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She will learn the game quickly. Some guys are for fun, some guys are for relationships. She will learn to play the right part for the right guy. Guys who send signals that they know the game will get her fun side. Guys who don't get it and think they need to be her boyfriend before they can start having sex will never know her fun side existed. She will hide it furiously from them.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 08:42 PM
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This guy in the example story has no frame to begin with. Never ask a girl about her sexual history. She is just going to lie anyway. And it puts her on edge. She will think you are suspicious and she will work harder to hide her true self from you. The slut tells she would have let slip if she thought you were cool will not slip out. The slutty things she would have done with you she will not do because she will be concerned with hiding that part of herself from you. Do not be the guy in this e…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 08:09 PM
5

Your expectations of women stress you out more than they stress women out. Consider letting women be who they are. A childish woman with an avoidant personality and bad habits makes a bad wife, sure. But a woman like this makes a fine casual partner. If you enjoy her for what she is instead of what you want her to be, she is free to be herself without trying to meet your expectations, and you are free to not worry about whether or not she is meeting your expectations. It is less stress for both …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 02:32 PM
28

Many men use the "mission" idea to hide from the fact that they are unattractive. They claim that women are less important than work, they work to try to bank money, they go to bed lonely, and they tell themselves that women would be a distraction or a waste of time. But deep down inside, they know that they would have great difficulty getting laid this week, and that there is nothing stopping a more attractive man from having sex this Saturday, and still doing whatever "mission" is so important…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 02:04 PM
-7

Killing yourself by falling on your sword because you messed up on the battle field is a man thing. Killing yourself because life is hard and you are an emotional wreck and you can't go on is a woman thing. The modern, narcissistic approach of 2020 is to worship the god of mental health. See therapists for everything. Whine to your friends. Be womanly. Only by expressing your emotions freely and like a woman can you process them in the only way that is deemed healthy, and clearly, the reason men…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/20 05:24 PM
1

It is definitely done to keep making money in the future. If you are the CEO of a company, you are not the most powerful man in the world. Above you are the even bigger elites who make money trading currencies and manipulating the political landscape on a larger scale. If one of these elites tells you to do something woke, you do it, or things may get bad for you or your company.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/20 12:39 PM
2

Most women are not mean most of the time. They are pretty much the same with one big exception. Where I have noticed the biggest change is talking to strangers. If you begin to talk to some woman in line in a coffee shop, there is a decent chance she will be rude and loud and tell you to leave her alone with enough loudness that other people will overhear. This is a symptom of a bigger thing than just women getting more rude, though. Everybody is on their phones all the time, so a real person ta…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 04:06 PM
1

It is always about money. When you get to the top of any big corporation, the reason the corporation does something ideological is to make money. Sometimes, idiots with liberal arts degrees think that being publicly woke will actually make money, because they believe that most people are like them and think the way that they do and everyone will buy their stuff because they are woke. The idea that most of the world is actually capitalist and cares more about a quality product at a fair price and…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 03:58 PM
125

There are many psychological reasons for this. Rape shatters a woman's psyche because it breaks the illusion that she has power or safety. Men are just plain stronger, and she is only as safe as men let her be. This leaves many rape victims with a lot of difficulty connecting with men romantically, and also leads many of them to act out sexually. They go off the deep end with strangers in bars and off of the internet because if this random sex is their choice rather than a rapist's choice, they …
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 09:31 PM
272

It is more simple than this. A rape victim is damaged goods. Traumatized. Mental illness. Rape victims do stupid shit like getting drunk and crying at a gathering while word vomiting about their past. A woman has options. Therefore, she can dump a male rape victim and replace him tomorrow. However, if you reverse the story, and a man dumps a woman rape victim for being damaged and too much trouble, he is regarded as a monster. This does not happen often, though, because most men do not have opti…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 06:18 PM
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Dating apps are as much luck and timing as they are being some kind of extremely hot guy. As you have noted, a woman will have hundreds of matches, likes, messages, or whatever format a dating app uses. She will never see all of them. Even if you are very, very hot, if you are her 97th out of 100 matches, she will never, ever see you. She will start going through her list, and by #10 on that list, she'll have a date lined up. You do not have to be extremely hot. Just hot enough, then have lucky …
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 04:24 PM
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This is an important concept. Every woman is always "seeing" someone. There is always a guy, even if she is not dating anybody and doesn't have a boyfriend. Every girl has a guy who likes her who is currently trying his luck. She may be ignoring him, she may be friend zoning him, she may be having causal sex with him, she may be dating him, she may want to be his girlfriend. But there is always a guy. Sometimes more than one guy. Every time a girl goes out, if she wants sex and attention, it is …
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 01:53 PM
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Where is a good place that is not the US? Not just fantasy theory about how cool it would be to stick it to the US and succeed elsewhere. For real. Where should people be looking to move, and why those places? And what is a good and practical way to liquidate your life and do so?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 05:52 PM
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Sex is more of a physical need than it is a sense of accomplishment. Think of it more like eating. Getting a blowjob from a woman off of Tinder is like stopping for a quick bite on the way home from work so you are not hungry. You do not feel as though you accomplished anything. You just had a hamburger. After fulfilling your needs, you can focus on better things to do at home. It is okay to enjoy the hamburger for what it is. But it is just a hamburger. You need to eat and should enjoy it, but …
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 03:54 PM
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This is a difficult lesson for many men. A woman does not want a man who is focused on making the woman happy. A woman wants a man who is focused on making himself happy, and in doing so sweeps the woman up into his fun and his happiness. If a woman is sad, she wants to forget her sadness and use a man's happiness as a tool to do this. She does not want a man moping around dwelling on her sadness, trying to fix her or change the way she feels. Women want to have fun. Dwelling on their sadness is…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 03:51 PM
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First step is look good. If you do not look good enough, you do not get in the door to say hello. Second step is social skills. If you are creepy or weird and talk about strange stuff instead of small-talking normally, do strange stuff with your face or body or your tone of voice while interacting, and stuff like that, that is like having ugly social skills. Social skills includes paying attention and knowing what hooks a girl is nibbling on and what hooks she wants you to nibble on, and to pick…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 03:49 PM
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The exact same tab is there, just two spots over. It's still perfectly visible on the screen. I see some guy who typed a number wrong in the code, or just an algorithm that sorts tabs by amount of content or some other metric. You see a feminist conspiracy.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 10:01 PM
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Google has an algorithm that arranges tabs and buttons based on the amount, relevancy, and popularity of content. And they constantly run weblabs where they present small sets of people with user interface tweaks to decide what changes they're going to make. For this specific woman, the news tab is fourth instead of second. Probably because there is more information or more popular information in the other tabs that come first. People at Google are not sitting down and designing special versions…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 09:38 PM
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Women are weaker than men, and women get pregnant. Women do not have power. Men have power. You are strong enough to rape and murder pretty much any woman you pass today. The reason you do not do so is because other men will kick your ass and put you in a cage. Women are not winning anything. If a woman chooses to have sex with another man instead of you, then another man was gratified, and she gratified him. Women are not beating men. They are just beating you.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 02:51 PM
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When women enter a crowded bar, all of the girls in the room know who the prettiest one is. And no matter what a woman tells you about her job or her education or how cool or sweet she acts to demonstrate a good personality, she always knows she is not the prettiest girl. All women are insecure in this way. This is why women have a hard time being friends.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 06:40 PM
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The women gatekeep sex and men gatekeep relationship idea is false. Women want sex with attractive men. Women will have JUST sex with attractive men. Sometimes women will deliberately have sex with attractive men that they do not want to date because the sex is fun and by having sex with a man they do not want to date seriously, they can keep things fun and not have their feelings hurt. Some women will deliberately have casual encounters with assholes who are attractive or who are not suitable f…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 06:36 PM
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You should get a job and work for money. Pay attention to your elders. They are giving you practical advice. You are not more enlightened than them. You are a kid fresh out of school who reads weird stuff on the internet and gets silly ideas.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 01:20 PM
2

Do not talk about fight club. I know you think this Red Pill stuff is really neat and you think about it a lot and you have a lot of strong opinions about it, but running around spouting these opinions is bad for you. Not just because they are unpopular opinions, but because socially normal not weird people don't run around getting into debates about stuff like this. They have normal small-talk. Women do not attack the red pill like crazy. If you act like a confident, masculine man, most women w…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 01:15 PM
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There was another post that was along similar lines to this. The ultimate question is really "What is the purpose of life?" Is a man supposed to do just enough to get a certain set of things he wants, then just enough to maintain having those things, and not bother doing any more? Invest the rest of his time playing around being happy? Is a man supposed to be on some kind of never-ending mission and driven to do that at the expense of all other things? And is one possible mission eternal self-im…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 01:08 PM
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Part of the problem was you. You had expectations. When you try to shove a girl into a certain mold because you are looking for a soul-mate or something stupid like that, the damage is twofold. First, it makes you blind. All you can see is the mold you're trying to fit her into. Second, it suffocates her. She has to start hiding things from you and pretending other things. You never get to know the real her. Having expectations of women prevents them from being free enough to be themselves aroun…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 08:16 PM
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Women are not animals acting on instinct. Not entirely anyway. They are humans acting for personal gain. Sometimes personal gain is whimsical fun. Sometimes personal gain is physical pleasure. Sometimes personal gain is status and attention. Sometimes personal gain is money and things. They will intelligently (and sometimes immorally) pursue whatever flavor of personal gain they feel like in the moment, and if they did anything immoral for that gain, they often backward-rationalize why it was ok…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 04:28 PM
3

What do you mean? Like from God? From your wife? From your kids? From your boss? From your subordinates? From the government? From a large male peer group who looks up to you? Who gives a person's life meaning, and how?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 09:52 PM
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The deep philosophical question behind all of this is what is the purpose of life. Is life supposed to have "meaning?" Or is life supposed to be "enjoyed?" Are we supposed to be chasing happiness, chasing productivity, chasing self-reliance and independence, some combination of these things, some way of being productive that also makes us free and happy? I think much of this is beyond the scope of the red pill. People much smarter than any of us have been thinking about this for thousands of yea…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 04:23 PM
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This post conflates two ideas. Women cheat. And men should cultivate options. The kind of woman who lies to her husband about working at a homeless shelter to have an affair was probably still going to cheat even if her husband spends his spare time flirting with other women and cultivating possible options. The real lesson is just don't marry. Then, cheating is not an issue. Be the guy women cheat with rather than the guy women cheat on.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 03:20 PM
1

This is very true. Most women do not handle responsibility well. Most women are afraid to pick a restaurant for dinner. They want you to pick it so they are not responsible if dinner sucks. Women are very, very good at checklist jobs, where they can follow the list they are given. That way, if something does not go well, they are blameless. They were doing what they were supposed to by following the list. They are never wrong. The checklist was wrong. Women would prefer that all jobs everywhere …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 01:59 PM
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This Ferrell guy is not a feminist. He's something even worse. A men's liberation activist. Feminists want to break the gender norms for women so that women can have more power and do whatever they want. Mens libbers want to break the gender norms for men so men can be free from any expectations or power. They think women are better and smarter than they are, and that if we communicate openly with women, women will hear us and appreciate us and start eagerly having sex and falling in love with e…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 08:42 PM
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To add to this, male disposability is universal. Even the highest value, most wealthy, famous, productive, useful, masculine, amazing men are expected to be disposable over the least of women. If the ship is sinking and the hot rich famous actor saves himself over an ugly fat waitress, the fact that he is a valuable man makes his inability to accept that he is disposable even more hated. As a valuable man, he's supposed to get it. People would expect an effeminate loser of a man to not get it an…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 03:20 PM
1

The deeper question might be what is "self?" Am I my resources? Am I my current happiness today? Am I my freedom and my lack of accountability to others? Is what's best for me, the individual, whatever maximizes my resources and gets me the most stuff and the most options? If we follow that too far, I'm wasting my life away buying a beer for a bro. I should only surround myself with friends who buy me beers and let me get away with never buying. But many of my friends are good guys and deserve t…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 01:39 PM
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The root of this is that modern men are feminine and immature. They do not approach life or relationships as men, but as women and children. Wanting a woman to love you the way they love children is wanting a mother, not a lover. Treating a relationship the way movies and fairy tales treat them is being a child, not a man.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/20 01:53 PM
7

Modern humans have trouble saying no. When somebody asks them something, it does not matter what or why, the immediate instinct is to accommodate them. They don't need a reason. If somebody says, "Excuse me. Can I cut in line to use that phone? My mother is in the hospital", your tendency is to accommodate that person. But even when the person has no reason, our first instinct is to accommodate them. There was some social experiment where some guy did the thing above, then also asked people "Exc…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/20 01:49 PM
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Exactly like that. People are no longer separated from their viewpoints. You are your viewpoints. Dehumanized. You are no longer human. You are your ideology. Therefore, if somebody has a wrong idea, that person is a lesser human. A wrong person who should not exist freely and safely. It should not be okay to be that kind of person and exist freely. This is where we are today. If you have an idea that is disagreeable, the idea is not wrong. You are a wrong person for existing.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/20 01:42 PM
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That one special gal may be out there. But if I have one hour to teach a guy who's only going to live 100 years how to maximize his life and be as successful and happy as possible, it's not going to be a lesson on how to find that one special gal. It's going to be a lesson on how to deal with the other 99% of them and be successful at sex, relationships, and his interactions with those girls. If he happens to meet the other 1%, he'll know how to get laid with her, too.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 04:48 PM
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What men do doesn't matter. This is not homosexual forum for discussing how to date men. This is a practical forum for maximizing your success. Worrying about finding that one special woman who's not like that is not a good strategy. Because all women are like that. Having sex with the 99% of women who are just like that and not getting fooled by the 1% who are pretending not to be like that is a much better strategy.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 03:14 PM
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Women change. Today, right now, this very minute, she loves you. She thinks you are the greatest man she will ever have. She expects to be with you forever. Tomorrow, she meets the new guy at work, or some guy hits on her while she's out with a friend, or whatever. She feels something. That feeling eats at her. Two or three days after that, she's picking fights with you. Nothing you do seems like it's good enough. Things about you she used to like she is now finding annoying. She's not in the mo…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 02:08 PM
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Most men are not pretending to be feminine to try to trick girls into liking them. They are actually feminine. Men are no longer taught to be masculine. They are told that women do not like that, society does not need it, and that masculinity is all pretend and make-believe anyway. They are told that acting masculine is something fearful men do to avoid being called gay by our bigoted culture, and they are just pretending to be that way but really wish they were free to be feminine. Masculine me…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 01:07 PM
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Thanks for the book recommendation. Just downloaded it. I work with families and was recently skimming How to Raise an Adult (Julie LythCott-Haims), and the author says a lot of the same things about kids. Over-parenting is destroying the next generation. Parents literally think that the second their back is turned, a creepy molester is going to leap out of the bushes (a white male molester of course) and run off with their child. I grew up getting on my bike at 8 in the morning on a Saturday, h…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 01:00 PM
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Many men make the mistake of assuming that they are special simply because of a title they have. Boyfriend, husband, whatever. Just because you happened to come along 2 years before the current guy she's attracted to and you have the title of husband doesn't make her not attracted to the other guy.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 12:51 PM
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This conflates two issues. Women want to have sex with masculine men. Women also want power. Feminism is about women getting more power. There is some overlap with sexual liberation, because one power is the power to have sex without consequences. But feminism isn't just about sex. It's about power.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 01:00 AM
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True. The US is on a mission to try to make the melting pot thing work by pretending being white isn't a culture. If anything in the US is declared a white cultural thing, even if the thing is not a racist or anti-minority thing, you are being non-inclusive and a bigot for having a white culture. What's funny is that if you ask most people, they think Europe is less racist than the US. Europe is way more racist when it comes to direct racism, like making monkey jokes and cussing out black people…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 12:56 AM
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There are many who genuinely believe that the only reason you have accomplished anything is due to the privilege of being a white male, and that you have not truly worked hard to get what you have earned. There are some who look at you and see the devil, despite the fact that you help people who are in need of medical care. If some innocuous thing you posted on Facebook 20 years ago that could be interpreted as racist under the current dead black guy in Minnesota climate, if taken completely out…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 10:34 PM
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It is very hard to be a white male. You have no culture. Nothing is exclusively a white male thing. If it were, it would be bigotry. No matter what you accomplish, it is assumed you did not earn it. No matter how true blue you are, you are the enemy of all that is right and good. You have a special obligation to go out of your way and sacrifice for others, or else you are the devil. And when you do sacrifice, it is never good enough and never done in the right way and you are still the devil. If…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 07:26 PM
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Holy shit! Yes, around 2013 is when things started getting really crazy. Suddenly, a white man with a variety of viewpoints on multiple issues, one or two of which aren't hard-left crazy viewpoints, is regarded as more of a potential terrorist than an Arab with a gun. And anybody who disagrees with a hard-left crazy "woke" viewpoint is offensive and lesser for having his viewpoint. The viewpoint is not what is regarded as wrong. The person is. If you have a viewpoint that is not agreed upon, it …
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 06:50 PM
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The bigger story here is about women and their tactics. Petitions don't mean anything. What legally controls this situation is what she signed and agreed to. Porn sites can tell her no and wave the contract in her face, and maybe she can sue but she'll probably lose. But women, especially famous women, consider themselves above their word, binding legal agreements, and stuff like that. If something pesky like a legally binding contract is annoying them, they will simply stir up the shit and dest…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 04:54 PM
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This is what happens when women have power over you. Remember, all women except for the absolute most ugly of them can get somebody to have sex with them tonight. It takes 15 minutes to set up a Tinder account on their phone, snap a pic, and start messaging with guys. This may be a little more difficult right this very minute due to the virus situation. But most of the time, if a woman wants to have sex, get attention from men, or even find a guy who wants to date her more seriously, it's not th…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 04:49 PM
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You're mistaking a middle-aged woman acting normal with some kind of secret Red Pill truth. A woman who is 50 today went to college from 1988-1992. This was after the free-love 70s and getting into the AIDS scare and the abstinence only sex-ed generation. When casual sex became a wide open and acceptable thing in 2001, she was already in her 30s and married. She missed out on the fun times due to coming of age in between them, and is insecure about that, so she's acting like she knows what it's …
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 02:35 AM
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It's less wicked than you're imagining. It's not even intentional what women do. Women genuinely believe that they hate masculine men and like smart, funny, nice guys. When they meet a man they are attracted to, because they are attracted to him, they assume he must be smart, funny, and nice. You, me, and all men know that he's a hot, confident man and whether or not he's actually smart, funny, and nice is completely irrelevant. But the women don't. They just assume since they're attracted to th…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 02:17 AM
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It's a pendulum. The key isn't to try to grab the pendulum, drag it, and hold it somewhere you think is best. The key is to recognize where the pendulum currently is in its swing, then behave accordingly and win. We live in a feminine society. That's not necessarily a bad thing, or a good thing. It's just a thing. It's where the pendulum is right now. Women have everything they want, and like spoiled children, they've eaten all the candy society gave them, puked, and blame society for their disc…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 02:06 AM
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