arbitrarymixture Archive

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3	If she stops texting after a date, should I just forget about her? This is a sign of overinvestment. These questions are in the same realm of "when should I call her?" or "what should I say?" Do you want to be with a girl who texts you immediately, or one that takes a while or never responds to your messages? Texts are good ways to pump the mood or leave little open-ended comments to keep the energy from a great date going. If you want to have a conversation, what's preventing you from picking up the phone and calling? So to answer your question: relax. You mad…	/r/seduction	08/03/15 06:46 AM
1	New to seduction. Problem is approaching & kino. Great job! Remember, it's not about their response to you- it's about your ability to become socially free to do whatever you want.	/r/seduction	07/03/15 08:25 AM
6	Why does it seem like the guys who don't approach anyone are the ones who have most friends and girlfriends? There are an infinite number of ways. Probably the easiest thing to do is find people who are cool and just copy their behavior. Look at actors. Mimic their posture, tone, and attitude. Some things that I've noticed about cool people is that they tend to stand up straight, look relaxed, and speak very slowly. They don't make jerky movements, and they make direct eye contact with you when they speak. They're friendly, they smile, and they don't need your validation. They also make you feel valued…	/r/seduction	07/03/15 05:58 AM
3	New to seduction. Problem is approaching & kino. Baby steps, bro. First of all, you don't have "approach anxiety." It's a non-existent imaginary disease that society created. Instead, just tell yourself that your mind is just "processing something new" whenever you feel uncomfortable. Next, start by saying hi to strangers. Anybody. Boys, girls, old people, dudes. Stop judging people. Instead of saying she's hot, or good looking, or whatever, just say "she could be interesting." Chat up storekeepers, moms, grandmoms, barbers, puppies. Be genuin…	/r/seduction	07/03/15 05:35 AM
1	What rookie mistakes do you see young/shy guys make? Making girls feel like shit, and anything related to AMOGing. Overcompensation. Worrying about openers and what to say. Didn't you learn to speak English when you were 2?	/r/seduction	07/03/15 02:43 AM
1	How can I remind myself how to do things on a subconscious level? (like speaking lower, or acting confident) Consistently practice.	/r/seduction	07/03/15 02:40 AM
10	Why does it seem like the guys who don't approach anyone are the ones who have most friends and girlfriends? Probably because they're very cool people. If you have a solid group of friends, then you don't need to invest as much time approaching people. You already have tons of social proof. But keep in mind that they at one time had to approach people in order to build that foundation. It's very easy to be that kind of guy, but you have to invest in yourself first.	/r/seduction	07/03/15 02:38 AM
2	How to approach girl(s) in buses? You'd probably get suspended or expelled if you f-closed a girl on a school bus. They might receive you with skepticism, but no, it's not weird. Fuck weird, just do it. If you're okay with yourself, then it won't really matter what other people think. Why should other kids decide how you should think and act? The truly attractive man just does it and rolls with the outcome.	/r/seduction	07/03/15 02:35 AM
1	When cold approaching girls on the street and college campus how do you keep a fun and light vibe? How do you make her feel comfortable talking to you, with you being a stranger? Option 1: Smile and say hello. Option 2: Observe something that she's looking at, doing, whatever, and make a comment or question that relates to said observation. "You look like you're on a mission!" or "Wow, those bags look heavy. Are you transporting bricks?" It doesn't have to be brilliant. In fact, most of the time it will be stupid. And it won't matter. Most importantly, speak with authority, speak LOUDLY, and speak directly with good eye contact. If you speak with confidence, it really do…	/r/seduction	07/03/15 02:30 AM
50	To the Guys Older Than 18-22, Let's Post Our Past Mistakes For The Younger Guys To Avoid. There's always an option B. Oneitis will ruin your college years. If you're hung up, you aren't busy enough. Don't be "too good" for douchey frat guys. You can learn a lot from them. Really. Your personality is fluid. Be like water, my friend. Go to a school with a normal female/male ratio. It does make a huge difference. If you fuck things up in college, there's always grad school to come back as a creepy dude who swoops in to pick up inexperienced girls. It's amazing what you can learn in a fe…	/r/seduction	07/03/15 02:21 AM