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I don't care what they are. And that's great for you that you believe you're all that, good for you. I don't.
/r/seduction10/05/26 02:59 AM
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Of course it is, it's another piece of evidence of your worthlessness. Guys with value doesn't get rejected by everyone. As a matter of fact they get approached.
/r/seduction09/05/26 06:04 PM
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But something horrible did happen, you got rejected.
/r/seduction09/05/26 05:46 PM
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Fucking ad.
/r/seduction22/06/25 09:40 AM
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Thinking empirically true thoughts about myself you mean?
/r/seduction24/04/25 09:26 PM
1

No, rejection hurts. What's worse it confirms the thoughts I have about myself.
/r/seduction24/04/25 08:35 PM
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Fun? What else do you find fun? Doing job interviews for the job you always wanted? Testing for that license you always dreamt about?
/r/seduction17/02/25 04:01 PM
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Yes, this sounds totally healthy, lets keep feeding the ego's of these women while saying that nothing can be done and all mena need to change to get girls while women get the "girls will be girls" treatment. That's the definition of putting them on a pedestal.
/r/seduction02/01/25 09:09 AM
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Never go full regard though.
/r/seduction02/10/24 09:42 PM
1

Become rich
/r/seduction23/09/24 08:54 AM
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Same reason they feel it completely ok to ignore their body, women can do whatever they want. Guys in the other hand, be in bad shape as a guy and you’re forever alone unless you can charm yourself out of it. Be in bad shape as a woman, don’t say anything as you’ll be canceled if you do.
/r/seduction03/06/22 09:42 PM
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Since when is being an arrogant self important bitch a shit test?
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:02 AM
0

I usually wake up when that happens
/r/seduction15/01/22 08:41 AM
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That’s what I love about the expanse. There’s diversity everywhere, it’s just never even talked about, it’s just the way it is in that universe. Mars saw a large amount of Chinese and Texan emigration so having a person with a Chinese name speaking in a vaguely Texan accent is just a Martian thing.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/08/21 03:53 PM
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Gozer The Gozerian; Gozer The Destructor; Volguus Zildrohar; Gozer The Traveler; Lord Of The Sebouillia
/r/PussyPassDenied05/08/21 03:48 PM
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Is this news for anyone? The recent body ideal concessions in the media doesn't apply to men. Men still have to look well trained to have basic value.
/r/seduction26/07/21 09:25 PM
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At least their lives peaks at some point.
/r/seduction06/07/21 01:11 AM
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Yes? So? Not every one can be Harvey Specter or Don Draper. And polarizing the difference between the suave super man and the sad “nice guy” isn’t helping. We all have friends who are perfectly nice guys with wives and girlfriends, did they get them because they’re the guys I mentioned above or because that are nice guys?
/r/seduction01/02/21 07:07 PM
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Here’s a new idea, why don’t we take the nice guy syndrome and stop putting it in a puberty situation? The “nice guy that is friendly to a girl” is not the same thing as “a guy that is older and nice” without the tropey nice guy things? I try to be friendly and funny, it has gotten me nowhere, I used to be a “nice guy”™ in my youth but never in the nefarious way this subreddit makes it out to be. I never EXPECTED a girl to sleep with me just because I did beta things. You can still be a beta “ni…
/r/seduction31/01/21 06:19 PM
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I approached a girl once, it was when some friends of mine went out for my 30th birthday. I was shot down immediately. 10 years later and I’m still alone. Yeah, my life is more or less over at this point.
/r/seduction28/11/20 08:38 PM
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/r/SuspiciouslySpecific
/r/seduction22/11/20 06:48 PM
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Tony Soprano was a good looking guy.
/r/seduction20/11/20 03:43 PM
2

I’m not well versed enough to dispute, but if I look back on my life almost every guy I grew up with have found partners, how does that work? They were normal guys, sometimes awkward, sometimes not but they all found someone. How the hell did they get into a relationship? There wasn’t any pickup lines involved, no tricks, they just seemed to have a girlfriend one day. If anyone can tell me how that work I will pay for their lessons.
/r/seduction21/06/20 08:29 PM
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When pet bunnies turn up in boiling pots you won’t think about the rack anymore.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/19 09:10 PM
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What if you’re ugly?
/r/seduction18/12/19 09:37 PM
1

Did you tell your friend that they can’t both have the cake and eat it?
/r/seduction13/10/19 01:43 PM
0

“Here is what I do to seduce hot girls at the club/street/workplace/the world, watch this bullshit video that tells you nothing and click this link for my 1000+ dollar course. Also I am hot and that why I get girls but I won’t tell you about that”
/r/seduction09/09/19 06:08 PM
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My problem is that dating is a great field to go into for affiliate marketing. Make a couple of yt- videos to build a brand and then sell a bullshit course to lonely people. It’s fucking terrible.
/r/seduction09/09/19 06:01 PM
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Sooo, TL:DR, be hot, get girls. People looking for advice about dating won’t be hot. Those guys just goes out and find girls.
/r/seduction09/09/19 05:50 PM
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I would like to say misandry, but who knows?
/r/MensRights12/04/19 06:47 PM
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Many guys wants the big titted hot girls.
/r/seduction10/04/19 05:15 PM
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Plenty of guys that would be considered beta have wives and girlfriends, I’d just like to know how they did it. Maybe they’re going for normal girls that just like everyone else want to meet someone and the “pua” scene is about getting the “high value” bimbos.
/r/seduction10/04/19 04:01 PM
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Anything with saxophones.
/r/seduction03/02/19 03:24 PM
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How do you ban talking to people?
/r/seduction30/01/19 05:07 AM
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What the fuck is a bueno?
/r/seduction09/12/18 06:43 PM
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Tinder is the tip of the iceberg. I’ve tried to find a dating service that ISN’T a designed to be a self esteem booster for women. If anyone can say anything differently please reply.
/r/seduction28/09/18 06:13 PM
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Tinder is bullshit, it’s a hypergamy game for the girls. Go out and approach in real life instead.
/r/seduction28/09/18 05:55 PM
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Yes.
/r/seduction17/09/18 05:48 PM
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The men are too busy slaving away as a line cook or cashier these days.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/04/18 06:39 PM
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Aka the sunk cost fallacy.
/r/seduction29/12/17 06:15 PM
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And if you still end up getting one syllable answers?
/r/seduction20/12/17 04:47 AM
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What if the girl doesn't say anything?
/r/seduction20/12/17 02:58 AM
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http://www.davemech.org/news.html Alpha maleism is false and based on outdated research done by a guy that later recanted and is trying hard to retract it.
/r/seduction07/10/17 03:44 PM
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So you’re saying that I could just go up to Sienna Miller and make her get into a relationship with me?
/r/seduction07/10/17 03:38 PM
1

But how could a mistake be a fuckup? And as long as guys keep changing their behavior to maximize their hit rate you’re enabling shitty behavior. Just like telling a coke head that he’s more fun in a party than otherwise.
/r/seduction18/09/17 07:46 PM
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Sure, but if you are treating them nicely and they wave you off due to a joke what does that tell you about her? It’s an asshole move. I hope no one here puts up with that bullshit you to get in between her legs.
/r/seduction18/09/17 07:37 PM
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If someone were to go into affiliate marketing there are 3 pretty hot markets right now; make money online, retirement/saving and dating. Beware the hacks that buy dating plr products, and throw together a video to endorse their product. It’s a sham.
/r/seduction18/09/17 07:15 PM
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Sorry to be that guy, but is bullshit like this ok to you? Putting a girl on a pedestal and accepting games like this is the same freaking thing. How can someone accept a count list of “mistakes”? I seem to be alone in thinking that there should be equality between the genders, if I have to put up bending over to play her games, why bother?
/r/seduction18/09/17 07:09 PM
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And here we go, the standard reply to anyone challenging the seduction ways(tm). There are real problems in the way the modern world portrays men, but I guess it will all be ok if every dude goes to the gym and become an "alpha male".
/r/seduction20/01/17 11:01 PM
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Well, what do you know. An ordinary guy teaching the stuff, thanks.
/r/seduction20/01/17 10:58 PM
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Or maybe a guy doesn't start liking himself just because he's put on nice clothes or combed his hair back. If the world puts you down for not conforming how can "inner game" ever be achieved?
/r/seduction20/01/17 10:45 PM
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And how does that jive with the larger movement of equality?
/r/seduction20/01/17 10:28 PM
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Sure, but we are seeing a change happening, we see young adult males retreating from dating because they don't have what it takes. They see how men are treated when it comes to divorce, they lose custody of children or are forced to pay heavy alimony just because women are still regarded as potential victims or relationships. This article words my apprehension better than I can though
/r/seduction20/01/17 10:27 PM
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Because of status. What if you're not good looking or exceptional? And I'm sure you know, even below avarege girls get boyfriends. Here's a thought experiment: 2 overweight below average looks nerdy people exist, one girls, one guy. They both go to events of their interest, which one of those are more likely to end up in a relationship?
/r/seduction20/01/17 10:10 PM
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The question still remains, show me a way below average dude pick up pretty girls consistently and I'll trust the guy's advice. The problem I have is that seduction STILL ties into the old ways.Guys having to prove their worth while women get away by putting on some makeup, and in the midst of it the whole world is on their side in how damaging unrealistic ideals are just because of girly magazines and advertising. I can walk around in any city in the world and see good looking guys dating all m…
/r/seduction20/01/17 09:51 PM
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Oh, so a guy lost a bunch of weight and then became attractive, how about that. I wanna see ONE guy with an ugly face and/or body get a 10. Show me him and I'll believe what he says.
/r/seduction20/01/17 09:32 PM
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Because they have no progress to talk about.
/r/seduction20/01/17 09:31 PM
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Thanks for the response, but I feel I'm not even close to the level you need to be at to find any useful stuff in this subreddit. This sub are for people have all their shit together and then go looking for girls. I'm not even at that level yet. I'm also 37 years old and have never had girlfriend, my chance at a real life is more or less over at this point. How the hell can I get the experience to find girl at my late age? All of my friends went through a number of girls to find one that matches…
/r/seduction29/07/16 05:57 PM
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I wish I could, but I'm completely alone, I have no support and I've lost my entire will to change long ago. I might get a rush to change for a couple of days but after that, back to my old pathetic life. All my motivation is long gone, my life isn't leading anywhere and there's nothing in my brain that wants to stop it apart from a sad feeling that my life is all but over, and I have many biological years left.
/r/seduction29/07/16 05:19 PM
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From what I can tell, seduction is about upselling yourself. I don't think a bag of potatoes are woth a 100 dollars, why would I upsell myself? It's a simple question, just because you think youa re the shit doesn't mean you are, there are imaginary values, and there are real values.
/r/seduction03/05/16 07:16 PM
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But I know myself, I know I'm not the awesomest guy to walk the earth, and that's a fact, no matter who we're talking about. So when does seduction become less of about meeting people and more about deceiving yourself? It's not a popular topic in this subreddit but tell me how most sedditors aren't the inflating their own self value?
/r/seduction03/05/16 06:15 PM
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"Their loss" sounds like ego to me, I'm pretty sure that if I finally see girl that I'm attracted to and she shoots me down its my loss. I could hit on the girl I have no interest in, but the girl that I want is forever lost, who's the loser here, I or she?
/r/seduction03/05/16 05:59 PM
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Don't get it either. "Hi I'm putting myself out there to meet new people, oh you don't like anything about me? Awesome "
/r/seduction03/05/16 05:30 PM
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Eastern european philosophy?
/r/seduction17/02/16 06:54 PM
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Oh, so you're pulling it towards your throat and not towards your chest?
/r/seduction11/02/16 07:44 PM
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No, I can, but the term "tuck in your chin" is too vague, how far in should it be? If I tuck really hard my head will tilt forward.
/r/seduction11/02/16 06:02 PM
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Wait, did he say that if you can't touch the wall with the back of your head we should use a pillow? Does that mean that if you can't do it now you'll never be able to?
/r/seduction11/02/16 05:19 PM
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Having all the sexual power is working quite nicely for them, most guys race to have the chance to try to be good enough for her standards, some even fight each other.
/r/MGTOW09/02/16 04:22 PM
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I'm guessing no changes has been made for the Ken doll? Barbie can be accepted no matter body type, skin color or ethnicity. But men have to bed 6.1" and built like a super model.
/r/MGTOW01/02/16 11:02 AM
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I think I got it, I just find it odd that he would walk up to his sister and say "I love you so much"...
/r/MGTOW19/01/16 05:22 PM
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I... dont understand anything of that, who said what to whom?
/r/MGTOW19/01/16 05:13 PM
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No? Of course not, which countries do you think are Scandinavian?
/r/MGTOW28/12/15 05:06 AM
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Except for prostitution being illegal in all Scandinavian countries...
/r/MGTOW28/12/15 04:54 AM
1

So... Being oblivious to your own shortcomings?
/r/seduction07/10/15 03:13 PM
1

You should try hot swedish girls, bitch shield AND generally averse to people approaching them out of the blue :)
/r/seduction21/09/15 06:04 AM
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You wouldn’t buy a dog that bites you all the time. Except all those people that takes care of abandoned and abused animals and often get a very loving pet out of it.
/r/seduction07/01/15 08:43 AM
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Unless you have no interesting family, have a boring job, doesn't do anything fun and all your dreams have been crushed by reality :)
/r/seduction03/08/14 08:03 PM
2

"Why should I choose you?"
/r/seduction02/02/14 04:40 PM
1

So in what way are beta 2 alpha converts fooling themselves? Is alpha nothing else but what you believe or what you really are? If you grow up constantly being fed bullshit about your non existant worth how can that person ever really change and not lie to prospective partners about what they really feel. Not only is society growingly misandric, it's also still no place for weak men either.
/r/seduction02/10/13 05:09 PM
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I can't see why you alone control who you are, if everyone could, everyone would. It's like saying anyone can be the president or start the next fortune 500 company, some do it, most doesn't. The double standards doesn't help, and all this while we have a more and more misandric society, it looks like the only equalisation between the sexes is putting women first and men are rejected to the sidelines.
/r/seduction02/10/13 03:39 PM
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And the question is why this behaviour is acceptable. If I say that I hate fat women or any other woman with a triat I find unattractive I'm a douchebag. But women that friendzones beta guys is A OK!
/r/seduction02/10/13 02:31 PM
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FYI, just because someone has the balls to speak in public doesn't mean that one have them to approach any girl on town, shyness/poor confidence comes in many flavors and can be quite specific.
/r/seduction26/09/13 09:21 AM
2

So why is this bever brought up when talking about "nice guys"? More or less every post I've read about nice guys have started with "have you ever been called x", list a copule of things that might be true. And boom "it's because you're needy and socially underdeveloped", so, every nice guy is needy and underdeveloped? Yes, this really sounds like an objective post that tries to help and not to trip. Where is the blog post about "don't be a genuinely nice/good/whatever you want to call it becasu…
/r/seduction17/06/13 12:35 PM
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TL;DR He is something good, but not something bad.
/r/seduction18/04/13 02:58 PM
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I don't get how "feel something but don't let it control you" works? What level of control are we talking about? And if you can ignore feelings, why do you even need them?
/r/seduction16/03/13 12:28 PM
1

Eeeexcellent!
/r/seduction23/12/12 12:58 AM
0

That's very good and all, but how does that rhyme with being successful at what you do? Either you're attractive because you're trying, or you're attractive because you're an ace at what you do, which is it?
/r/seduction18/12/12 04:10 PM
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When I lost weight and got some definition it looked better, but I never went as far as being "in shape". The thing that changed the appearance the most was that my neck looked a bit longer/thinner with kinda make your shoulders look broader.
/r/seduction18/04/12 01:12 AM
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Well, this is odd because what I see is women/girls (adult women, not only teeny boppers) with some of my handsomer friends they become a totally different person than what happens when I talk to them. Their manner change and they talk more, being a bit flirtatious and act more available, I've also seen this behavior at work, some guys just attract more positive attention. And I agree with you that some features are more important than other, having a six pack and defined muscles is probably gre…
/r/seduction17/04/12 12:53 PM
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I'm in Thailand right now and that's the way it is, the depressing thing is that when realizing that you're only worth the size of your wallet to them, when you actually find a girl that's not interested in your money I'm still as shunned as I am back home. Which hits way harder since you're not even interesting by being exotic. And girls aren't even looking back at me even if you find yourself in a setting where they want your money, they still have their own reasons to trying to get a guy, mon…
/r/seduction17/02/12 09:24 PM
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So, you're saying that if a random girl found George Clooney crying in a bar they wouldn't even think about sleeping with him?
/r/seduction05/12/11 10:00 PM
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"No means Hello"
/r/seduction28/10/11 04:47 PM
1

So you're saying that the 10's would date their boyfriend if he was 60 pounds overweight when they met, had a build like a neanderthal and yellowing crooked teeth, but still had all his other traits intact?
/r/seduction30/08/11 06:07 PM
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These days whenever I see a hot girl with her BF I look at him more just to see what the girls are going out with today, isn't that a good judge as to what kind of guy many girls like? I still haven't found anything I look good in, it's about build, fitness and teeth, that's the most common physical properties I can observe.
/r/seduction30/08/11 05:45 PM
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I'm very confident at my social skills with friends and my competence at work, but with women I feel like you're being judged, I correlate the douche bags with their HB10 girlfriends into "You need to be like them to get girls like that". I've been talking to a girl at OKC for a while but I reluctant to ask her out because I know that it wont lead anywhere since I don't look good and I feel uncomfortable with being "fashionable". Probably too late for professional help since I'm in my 30's and s…
/r/seduction30/08/11 05:40 PM
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the problem I have with all manner of advice how to approach women is this: you seem to have to become a douche bag to get them. I'm not a waxed hair fashion wearing guy who brags about himself and acts like he owns the world, I actually hates those people, they're a pain in the ass to hang with. So why should I become one? Some guys dislikes girls with too much make up or fake tits, but a normal guy who becomes a Jersey Shore douche bag to get women is the male version of that.
/r/seduction30/08/11 05:17 PM
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They're all scruffy nerf herders
/r/seduction26/08/11 01:47 AM
3

That's probably the funniest thing I've read on reddit for weeks. I'm still laughing about the whole imaginary discussion in a viking village 3 minutes after I read it.
/r/seduction08/08/11 03:09 AM
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The advice wasn't given to me by anyone, it's more what I've managed to pick up from summing up all the advice given here and through pick up gurus like DeAngelo and Wygant. But it still remains that I have a number of good qualities, but somehow it doesn't seem to be enough. I have a sense of humor, I can be witty and charming, but when I'm alone with a girl, it dies away like letters in the mail. You were attracted to your bf because he was "outgoing", does that mean being active in talking to…
/r/seduction18/02/11 11:32 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction15/02/11 04:35 PM
1

Yeah, well this monday we were just out to have fun, and I had fun, but wat perplexes me is the apparently magical ability women have to connect such quick strong emotion to a first impression that isn't based on physical appearence (which is in large part what many males often see first). I had fun, I was dancing with friends at a club, I wasn't standing in a corner looking like the guy that's constantly being picked last in PE. I might be physically unattractive, but it's been said time and ti…
/r/seduction15/02/11 10:34 AM
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The second tier to alpha, which is what successful males seems to be, or are supposed to be. (posted from a bar which is supposed to be a "meat market" but has done no good for me.
/r/seduction15/02/11 01:18 AM
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