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2

Literally the only word I can think of reacting to this whole thing as well.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:01 PM
7

You haven't said anything about the relationship, yourself, or the woman, so it's impossible to make any kind of assessment.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 04:48 PM
1

I don't understand the question tbh. "How do I put distance and make her move out?" Like just do it? What is complicated about the how?
/r/askTRP21/03/21 09:42 PM
20

Dude. I think you have to ask yourself a question, but the result is the same. You are waffling on this woman. Do you want to be in an LTR with her? If yes, sidebar. Regain your frame. No such thing as fat and happy. Get yourself and your purpose together first and foremost. Dread. The relationship needs to serve you. Wtf are you doing man. Rub her back every night to help her fall asleep? Are you her best gay friend or her man? JFC. If no, then ditch her, then do the above.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 11:05 PM
2

And you? What do you look like?
/r/askTRP19/03/21 10:38 PM
1

in what way did you treat her badly? seems kind of critical information here.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 07:25 AM
5

What kind of work do you have lined up back home?
/r/askTRP01/11/20 03:38 PM
6

9 going to 3 just based on face only seems bizarre....what about body
/r/askTRP16/10/20 01:08 AM
1

meh. I know lots of women who married rich, prenup and all. wealth attracts. your call if you want to keep it under wraps but I wouldn't.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 04:27 AM
2

this is the only correct answer
/r/askTRP29/08/20 01:39 AM
5

why are you in a relationship my dude
/r/askTRP15/08/20 09:26 PM
1

oof. ok that's quite the explanation!!
/r/askTRP05/08/20 07:54 PM
2

how was she a whore? you say it many times but don't explain
/r/askTRP05/08/20 03:05 PM
1

why did you write this post? are you saying dating is the only thing you want to do and it's not going well? or like... why are you trying to date if you don't want to?
/r/askTRP25/07/20 03:56 PM
5

oof wow. i know this is RP but there is such a thing as taking Iife too seriously. relax dude. the club is fun. there doesn't need to be anything important to be had there. it's just fun. "you're automatically a loser if you hang there"? broooo how old are you? what do you do for fun?
/r/askTRP18/07/20 07:08 PM
6

wow dude. you seem fun... nothing wrong with enjoying the club every now and then. no problem if it's not your thing... but chill out lol
/r/askTRP18/07/20 03:37 PM
2

a little bit to drink can help?
/r/askTRP18/07/20 03:18 PM
1

Jeff Bezos is bald, buff, and the richest man in the world. Don't think he has issues with girls. Stay in shape, keep your frame, make your money. That's it.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 02:18 AM
4

lol don't be a doofus. maintain frame. mostly ignore them. if one or more is attracted to you it will drive them wild and they will throw themselves at you.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 04:59 AM
9

Get out of your head dude. This is what you've said: You are admitting you have self confidence issues. Young women who have many options can smell it from a mile away and you aren't having success. Older women are more desperate and giving you a shot. And you're angry because of this? What were you expecting exactly?
/r/askTRP21/06/20 03:05 PM
2

all this- AND women literally jump to the next one AS a coping mechanism. which you can do too.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 05:29 AM
1

either she never cared whether you saw Lisa and it was a shit test, or she realized she was being cray (red flag alert, OR this is the new shit rest. either way she seems unstable. the sex better be good lol
/r/askTRP18/06/20 05:15 AM
1

that's not beta that sounds like actually like good neg/denial strategy lol
/r/askTRP14/06/20 03:10 AM
2

phew ok
/r/askTRP07/06/20 09:59 PM
3

Pearl shape? like...a sphere?
/r/askTRP07/06/20 09:11 PM
4

learn to code.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 07:03 PM
2

Since you’re 32 and seem to have your shit together, can i ask - are you making good money? Getting a housemaid / other help for general chores and housework can be a big help for keeping a sane life while working hard, and your weekends will feel less crammed.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:32 AM
2

then i think you did it right. what do you think?
/r/askTRP25/05/20 10:16 PM
4

half hour diff for a party (not a 1/1 date) doesn’t sound like that big of a deal. but as long as you don’t sound butthurt, just hanging out with your bro instead, if that’s what you wanted to do, is also fine. if she hamsters a little because she was late, bonus points.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 10:08 PM
1

“i believe in the redpill” “i just want one girl” ok.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 09:58 PM
0

sad.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 08:55 PM
3

is your mom a slut? not a virgin does not mean a slut dude. stop watching porn and get to know some girls, you sound really pathetic. sorry dude.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 08:28 PM
1

nope. your eyes are still closed bro.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 08:26 PM
2

you need to get the fuck out of your head. you’re young but your view on this is whack.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 08:26 PM
3

i would get out. you’ll figure out how to make your music shit work at a lower cost. figure out a budget and stick to it.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 08:25 PM
3

2pac was a rp’d mfer if you ask me
/r/askTRP25/05/20 08:22 PM
1

you’re missing my point though...she will want a father figure sooner than later my dude.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 08:03 PM
2

i agree. it is a weird thing to suggest. what if she doesn’t want to see her family right now, for any number of reasons? i would suggest OP just let this go and pretend it never happened.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 07:08 PM
1

Exactly this. if you think you need to talk to her because you’re having a tough time at work and life (i’m sorry about that btw), you’re really just making excuses to talk to her. she can’t help you. talk to your friends and family.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 07:00 PM
1

the kid isn’t going to disappear, so i’m not sure how you think this will play out.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 06:58 PM
4

lame. decide what you want and tell her that's how it will be. end of story.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 01:38 AM
2

yeah i would like to know if this is a pattern with OP. sometimes it’s you bud
/r/askTRP21/05/20 04:28 PM
2

I agree with many other commenters but also will add that you may not have kept any dread. She has already made you her beta. Chad wouldn't have this problem.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 01:01 AM
1

take a break from them to focus on yourself. don’t go back until it feels right. also find better girls for christ sake. these ones sound dumb and boring.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 03:43 PM
1

I don't really know what you're asking. if you're bored with the girls around you, find new ones. Or, take some time to work on yourself. edit: if you're truly in a funk about this, maybe a break from girls to work on yourself will help
/r/askTRP30/04/20 06:59 AM
2

that's not at all what I mean. aim for higher SMV girls.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 05:54 AM
3

aim higher
/r/askTRP30/04/20 05:47 AM
1

uhh I know lesbians who are married. pretty sure they ain't faking it. grow up dude
/r/askTRP30/04/20 02:48 AM
3

You sound like you are in mania. Please seek help.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 09:40 AM
0

if he had an abundance then he doesn't have to settle until something better comes along. look I'm only going to say this in so many ways. women have a limited number of years to bear children. if she says she wants to get married, you have to tell her you don't. up to her if she stays after that. there are other women to fuck with. if you don't have other women to fuck with, that's YOUR issue. the "plan" you've laid out is a pathetic one.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 03:47 PM
1

as long as she knows that, sure. if she says she wants marriage and you don't, you gotta to tell her it's not going to happen. up to her if she still wants to stay after that.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 03:45 PM
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it's all good and fine when there's plausible deniability. when she starts asking for marriage, it's time to go.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 05:44 AM
182

if you're not going to marry her, and she wants that, then it's time to tell her it's not going to happen and you can both move the fuck on. like what's your long term plan here?
/r/askTRP27/04/20 12:09 AM
0

try an ultimatum before just kicking him out. he might smarten up
/r/askTRP26/04/20 04:08 AM
0

exactly this. stop hanging out withow value women. there are lots of women out there that aren't slaves to social media
/r/askTRP06/04/20 04:19 PM
1

well said
/r/askTRP01/04/20 08:29 PM
6

so instead you are positing on Reddit.... looking for attention and validation... the irony.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 12:02 AM
1

who cares? if you got what you needed out of the relationship, that can be enough. why does "happy relationship" have to be synonymous with "happy ending". if the ending of a relationship devastates you so much that you swear off relationships altogether, then you need help with boundaries and loving (and focusing on) yourself first. sorry if that sounds cheesy but it's true.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 10:22 PM
2

Ok but there's a difference between a warzone and a generally happy couple who have learned to tolerate, live together, and generally support each other. Some people want to still spin plates in their 70s? good for them. Others have chosen a different path. All I'm saying is that just because a relationship ends badly doesn't always mean it wasn't worth it.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 10:06 PM
3

yeah I guess that's what I'm saying. LTRs that are enjoyable and lived on your terms are valuable chapters in life, even if they end badly.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 05:26 PM
13

and ive seen people married happily for life. either way, neither anecdote of data means anything. for yours, unless it was a horrible 45 years, sometimes these are just the chapters of life. doesn't necessarily mean you should swear off relationships, for that reason. with your logic, what's the point of living if you just die?
/r/askTRP28/03/20 04:46 PM
3

oof. this is a sad take.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 04:22 PM
3

imo, this is stupid advice. text her when you want to. just don't be a bitch about it. you are in control and you control dynamic. if you're busy, sometimes that will mean you don't respond or don't text. if you're calculating when to text and when not to, it reeks of desperation.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 04:26 PM
10

if you're focused on self-improvement and your own needs, you can text whatever and whenever you want. if you're being a little bitch, agonizing over text messages, girls can smell it.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 04:24 PM
1

lol this was a dumb ass move dude.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 07:48 AM
2

agree with this. who cares if you don’t end up liking them. you don’t have to fuck them. you don’t have to be a dick for the sake of being a dick. if you aren’t attracted to them, you can still be nice. having a few 7s pay attention to you may catch the attention of a 9 walking by.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 10:59 AM
1

of course it’s good demand sacrifice. but only while they are worth the investment. this relationship is already over. doing this on a zombie relationship is just sad and would only serve a low ego. you’ve already been cucked. move on
/r/askTRP29/02/20 08:02 PM
0

this is petty af. only someone with a really low ego needs this. just move on dude.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 06:50 PM
1

propecia dude
/r/askTRP22/02/20 09:14 PM
5

totally agree. OP sounds like a fragile male, not a strong one.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 05:11 PM
3

it sounds like you did the right thing in this scenario. the criticism would be that it’s not clear you made sure her needs are provided for. in an LTR if you’re doing it right, she should be satisfied and loyal with a moderate dose of dread which keeps a healthy balance. again she sounds cray so you probably did the right thing here.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 02:17 PM
1

Meh. You don't need to approach to live RP, you only need to approach if you're looking to score fast. If you focus on yourself, exude confidence, etc etc, the girls will flock to you and you wont need to approach. Downside is you'll have missed a lot of practice and may not know what to do when a girl comes around. good luck
/r/askTRP10/01/20 09:41 PM
5

hey dude. sorry you went through this. sounds like it was very emotional and you learned a lot. I can't stress this enough- you are YOUNG with your whole life ahead of you. you obviously have some shit together, since you have gotten yourself financially independent. Push both girls out of your mind. I know your ex was your best friend and it's tough. You will get past it. Everyone goes through shit like this, if it makes you feel better about that. Everyone. You're not alone. As for advice, you…
/r/askTRP01/01/20 09:13 AM
1

Worth a try. also maybe therapy
/r/askTRP22/12/19 11:34 PM
3

Oh boy. where to even begin. At 27 you are still young. It also sounds like you might have depression. What you need is a change in attitude. You've already given up. If you think all the women are taken or used up...my dude there billions of women on this planet. You need to set a vision and then start working on a plan to get there. It could take years. But I promise you'll not make any progress until you fix your minset.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 06:30 PM
2

Why should she be obsessed with you at this stage? So far you're the guy she's been on one date with and then bothered here while she was out with friends. Look if the vibes are all wrong here, you should definitely next. Hard to tell from your post. But there's something definitely off about your attitude from the club night. You could have said hello (or not approached at all since you would see her the next day) and then IGNORED her for the rest of the night. Again, since you would see her th…
/r/askTRP22/12/19 03:08 PM
3

You're overthinking it. she was there with her friends, not with you. You haven't earned her obsession yet.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 03:00 PM
1

do you have close friends in similar situations?
/r/askTRP22/12/19 02:55 PM
5

wow your life sounds sweet. get some new hobbies, take a class, play video games?
/r/askTRP22/12/19 02:43 PM
1

seriously, get off these things and spend your free work time on bettering yourself
/r/askTRP22/12/19 02:24 PM
2

gotcha. ok, good man. good luck
/r/askTRP22/12/19 04:52 AM
5

hold up. if you are saying male managers do the same thing and you DONT confront the male ones, tread carefully. there could be an argument that you're only complaining when females do it (which in this case, you are). if you are going to say something make sure you say something to a male too.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 04:48 AM
5

this is exactly right. a narcissist seeks validation. an alpha just takes care of shit that needs to be taken care of, and the people around him just know.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 09:37 PM
5

Agree on keeping it short. “Real Estate investments- you know, boring wealth management stuff” or something (idk just spitballing) if you want to hint that you’re not broke while changing the topic, but gives an opening for her to be like “hey i’m smart i can talk about that stuff” if she wants. Good luck
/r/askTRP11/12/19 08:23 PM
1

good luck sir.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 07:23 PM
6

Maybe the way you are framing the career sounds lame? How are you describing it
/r/askTRP11/12/19 07:19 PM
5

You sound like you are in a bit of a panic phase. There are two things that happen when you're dealing with mistakes. First, you learn from it, which it seems like you are doing, so good on that. Second, you have to deal with the consequences. Sounds like you're having trouble on this front. Yes this is going to suck until your paperwork gets through. You may end up having to leave the country for a bit. Accept that some stuff is going to suck. Put your big boy pants on, work out the different s…
/r/askTRP11/12/19 06:49 PM
2

get new friends that are better than you, then work to become better than them. if they show you the same attitude, rinse and repeat. surrounding yourself with people better than you helps you elevate
/r/askTRP22/11/19 03:02 PM
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