| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 87 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate? | Question For Women | ardasyenden | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Girls, what makes a guy cute? | Question For Women | ardasyenden | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/19 02:10 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | CMV: Flirting with girls is fucking easy if you already know how to make friends with other guys. The only guys who feel like it's a "performance" to get girls are socially inept.funnily enough, for a sub that’s supposed to be about in depth discussion of sexual relations, everyone here is too retarded to get into that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/19 04:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Flirting with girls is fucking easy if you already know how to make friends with other guys. The only guys who feel like it's a "performance" to get girls are socially inept.this sub is so weird it’s as easy as you said. Just go out and have fun. Literally all there is to it. If you’re an internet addict, maybe that sounds alien to you. But it’s literally just common sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?oh btw I forgot to say this but it doesn’t just come down to you being ugly or the guy being gay, it’s your personality, how you present yourself, your hobbies/interests/passions/studies, all that and more, as well. I’m speaking for myself though, I won’t pretend to know what others do about relationships and all that on this sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?well with her it was one on one but that’s cuz we’re best friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?Most people aren’t like this even with close friends I think, it’s just my friends have no sense of boundaries and act super gay as a joke, but then since we knew we weren’t gay, we were fine with getting all close with each other anyway. And my cousins I’m super close with, I’ve known em my whole life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?Thanks for the explanation! this sub was recommended to me and it looked interesting, and i thought it was the right place to ask my question, so I didn’t really understand the stuff behind the pill things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 09:17 PM |
| 5 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?why would they marry a manchild in the first place anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?haha thanks dude what’s blue pill mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?aww thanks bbcakes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?if you got socks on it ain’t gay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 06:37 PM |
| 7 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?yeah seriously cooking and laundry are basic things. I am surprised though that a lot of people don’t know how to cook. My mom taught me and I always thought t was the same for everyone else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 06:27 PM |
| 4 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?dude speaking of mosquito bites if you press a hot spoon or use alcohol on the bite immediately it won’t develop further | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?YOU WERENT JOKING !? WHAT THE FUCK DUDE HOLY SHIT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?it’s not that I have a problem, it’s that I’m confused But I understand now tbh I think I’ll just take the girl route here, if some girl is interested enough to pursue me, then that’s nice, otherwise I’ll just wait for the next one. I don’t wanna waste my time I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?not in this case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 01:34 PM |
| 3 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?I do lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 01:19 PM |
| 5 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?so it’s not really about the guy himself, it’s about getting him? That sounds weird to me. Isn’t it more important to get the person you’re interested in (this is long term) than it is to play around dating wise (this is short term)? That’s temporary. also what do you mean by delusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 12:34 PM |
| 3 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?why would she be upset about that? I don’t tell my gal friends that I’m not interested in them from the get go, shouldn’t you assume no interest unless specified? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 12:22 PM |
| 6 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?but if you don’t go after him, someone else will, yes? same logic for men applies for women here, I think. If a girl is being passive, why should I go for that instead of just going for a girl who’s actively pursuing me? If I was some horny dude then I would’ve hooked up with my chem lab partner last week, because she directly let me know she wanted to smash. Nothing of the sort came from my friend passively trying to get me to notice her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?ehh whatever it’s not like I’m looking to get laid anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 11:45 AM |
| 2 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?As long as they all said no homo (but seriously what the fuck) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 11:44 AM |
| 12 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?I feel the same way, I have more important things in my life and more fun things to do than to spend time pursuing a girl. I don’t see the point. That does make a lot of sense, I think | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 04:28 AM |
| 3 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?hahah I guess that sounds just like me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 04:26 AM |
| 11 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?don’t be racist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?Woahhhhh you were married at 18? What was that like?? and thanks dude you just made me smile :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?well I mean for me I’ve only been interested in one girl my life, that was a year and a bit ago, I haven’t found a girl like that again since My best friend was apparently flirting with me for a year. But it sounds like you guys just move on and get interested in another guy right after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 02:34 AM |
| 6 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?is female interest easy to come by then? And isn’t it kind of a waste to move on from someone you’re interested in just because there’ll be another? If you’re not interested enough in someone to pursue them, honestly it sounds like you’re just settling btw why is your flair a bunny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 02:24 AM |
| 3 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?shit does that mean my friend was an orbiter that sounds so weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 02:13 AM |
| 7 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?yeah I never studied and fell asleep in girl language class a lot so that might be why I didn’t realize | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 01:54 AM |
| 3 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?haha she’s not lesbian but you got the manly lookin part right we don’t really wrestle it’s more of a shoving and throwing thing really, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?What does orbiter mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 01:50 AM |
| 3 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?she’s 17, we treat each other fine I’d say. Neither of us are tryna smash haha. We play games and watch movies and spend time together, doesn’t seem weird to me I’m not lying lol. Why would I? I only realized she may be interested in me after others and finally herself pointed it also... quit being an asshole. I’m not lying, and you losers agreeing with her for whatever reason (probably stemming from insecurity - cuz guess what - you’re not that important, you’re not a catch, you’re not a priori… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?ye whenever we have a get together and we’re watching movies like a horror flick, we usually share blankets and get close up with each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 01:49 AM |
| 4 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?oh ok I see but then why would women be interested in men that haven’t shown any interest towards them in the first place? or does interest only begin when they’re pursued? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 01:44 AM |
| 25 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?lol can relate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?Haha lol you think that’s weird a bunch of my boys act ironically gay and jokingly kiss each other. Then there’s the nut taps too I agree, it’s weird but it’s fun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 01:41 AM |
| 5 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?yeah but I thought she jokingly called me that, we’d make fun of and comment on each other’s looks all the time We went to prom as friends I have a younger sister and we act similarly towards each other, playful, close, etc., it didn’t seem so different. Besides the being called cute i suppose I didn’t know lol otherwise I wouldn’t be here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 01:40 AM |
| 5 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?I’m not trolling, I swear, and I’m not asexual, I still find some girls cute yeah the snuggling happens but it’s only when we watched movies and I assumed that’s what you do with close friends I do the same with some other dudes and my cousins so maybe that’s why I didn’t pick up on it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 01:37 AM |
| 5 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?what how am I dishonest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?what’s a lOls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 01:27 AM |
| 5 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?BRO 😫💅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 01:27 AM |
| 9 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?bro that’s a lot of unwarranted anger I don’t care if you’re hot or not lol I may still not be attracted to you. All my guy friends said my best friend was a hottie and cute or whatever but I didn’t really care. She’s my friend, I don’t think of her like that I dunno man maybe I’m clueless or whatever but I think of her as a close friend, like a sister, so I didn’t think how we acted towards each other was her escalating at the time why not just tell me, ya know? That seems like the easiest form… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 01:26 AM |
| 7 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?Ah I see can’t say I’ve ever found a girl worth time pursuing so that’s too bad I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 01:22 AM |
| 8 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?yeah but if you’re not interested why not just say so? the guy can still lead from there if he reciprocates your feelings, right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Don't chase men. Work hard and be yourself. Under these two principles, the right men will find their way into your life.isn’t this common sense for anyone regardless of gender | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/19 10:49 PM |
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