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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit.	Debate	areealdeal	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 02:47 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. I'm definitely working on that. I'm in therapy trying to learn those atm. I guess I'm only just now learning looks don't carry you far enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:51 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. I do have a RBF, I try to remind myself to slightly smile all the time but even in pictures my eyes tend to look dead. I do try my best to give good responses, maybe I'm too direct sometimes, or say something kinda weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:49 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. Sure, I guess the best way to describe it shortly is Adriana Lima's slightly less attractive cousin. Same coloring, similar basic facial features.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:47 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. I guess my problem is I'm not on the apps. I worry those won't end in relationships. And yeah, it's a mixed bag with women. I had many female friends that targeted me to make fun of in friend groups. Some are still nice tho, just always ended up growing apart.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:46 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. I meant my type for partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:43 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. I'd give my kidney to my partner if they needed it deadass	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:37 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. I don't exactly want to be remembered as the girl who can't get bitches on reddit, so I'll just say like Adriana Lima's slightly less attractive cousin. Same coloring and basic facial features.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:35 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. I do both. I don't know how that fixes anything tho.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:34 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. I am neurodivergent tho.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:33 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. That's true. I had hoped there was, but even my types aren't exactly the norm. I guess it just complicates things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:32 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. Surprisingly the only 2 men I dated in my teens had no self respect. I haven't met many of those since.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:31 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. Maybe I come across as a psycho then. I have BPD and neurodivergency. Wish "I can fix her" was a thing in real life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:30 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. Nah, we straight up sexted that time. He rejected me when I asked him out, several times. Same thing with a woman, asked her out, pursued her for several months, no luck. I bring up my neurodivergency cuz it might fuck up my social skills bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:28 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. I may have threatened them in the past (I have BPD and neurodivergent)	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:26 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. Thanks for the advice and for caring. I have a weird thing of initially making people think positive of me, and lose interest fast. I've been told I'm an excellent listener. Although my eye contact is usually a bit too much. I kinda struggle with boundaries too. I also have BPD, so it adds a lot of emotional problems, but I keep it to myself these days. I'm trying to push myself to go out, it's a struggle but I'm trying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:25 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. They aren't random. I've tested them out on several different people, always gives a similar result by .5 variation. I just thought it's more objective than real people, which roughly say the same thing anyways. I subtract points from real people because women tend to hype either other up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:16 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. I legit tried tho. I sent one bra pic to open up a sexting thing with a guy, and yeah, we sexted. But I asked him out and he rejected me. No matter what other advances I tried, he wouldn't date me. I hardly ever went as far to do something like that again, it's just a lot of missed failed relationships. I should add I'm not interested in casual sex, and I'm neurodivergent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:13 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. Neurodivergent, yes. I think you're right. And you can't exactly undo neurodivergency. I guess I'm ahead for a rough time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:10 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. I've used 2 from chat GPT, this popular one, all the top results of Google.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:08 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. I approach both men and women, I didn't approach this time cuz I was going into a panic attack for most of the event. It was a meetup group.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:06 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. I say AI because it's more objective. Girls hype eachother up more than what they objectively are most times, so people are unreliable. Which in that case, I got called sexy by an employee at Walmart a couple days ago.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:04 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. I kinda seem hostile at first for whatever reason, I don't understand why.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:03 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. On the spectrum, yes. I have been told I come across as angry and unapproachable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:02 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. Having no friends or love isn't a flex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:00 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. Yeah, I don't look for casual sex at all. I am currently in therapy to work on my inner issues and personality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:00 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. I legit cried myself on the bus after making no friends and not being approached at an event just last week. Hands were shaking the whole time. I absolutely do agree my personality is failing me tho.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 02:57 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. Both 3/10 men and women rejected me. I actually spent months pursuing a 3/10 bi woman. I don't know how what I write would be sus.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 02:53 PM
–	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit. I speak bluntly. I myself am a social reject.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 02:51 PM