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| 1 | Purple Pill Theory: Women aren't attracted to men with money because they're attracted to money. They're attracted to men with money because of what having money implies about their character.I dated a guy who made...quite a lot of money, but he didn't really care about his job, and was kind of lazy in my opinion. I was very uninterested in him. Do you think a guy who makes $11 an hour who has a zest for life can be sexier than a boring millionaire? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/18 04:35 AM |
| 8 | Men and women of PPD: do you ever experience a "freeze" from younger (20-34) year old women?One unfortunate result of this is it kind of becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. Because a lot of women act standoffish towards men they consider undesirable in order to avoid making those men believe they're leading them on, there's a higher chance that if a woman is acting friendly towards a man that they ARE interested in them. This feeds into the thirsty "she's talking to me, she must want my dick" type mentality and makes it even harder for women to be just friendly. It's a vicious cycle. M… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Men and women of PPD: do you ever experience a "freeze" from younger (20-34) year old women?Where do you live? I live in Oregon and I've always thought it was customary to hold doors, but then again I don't get doors held for me that much, so maybe I'm just old school? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Men and women of PPD: do you ever experience a "freeze" from younger (20-34) year old women?Oh yeah, that is often true. But couponers too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Men and women of PPD: do you ever experience a "freeze" from younger (20-34) year old women?Oh yeah like aggressive couponers. Those are usually older women haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 05:49 AM |
| 2 | Men and women of PPD: do you ever experience a "freeze" from younger (20-34) year old women?And I'm not meeting them at bars or asking them prying questions at work. To give myself some credit, in both of these situations I was seated at the same table with these women, so if anything it would be weirder if I didn't talk to them. It's not like I was cold approaching them or bothering them when they were busy. Maybe your body language is off, maybe your eye contact is all wrong, IDK. Eye contact doesn't really come naturally to me unless I feel really comfortable with a person, so ... p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Men and women of PPD: do you ever experience a "freeze" from younger (20-34) year old women?You live in the South? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 05:45 AM |
| 5 | Men and women of PPD: do you ever experience a "freeze" from younger (20-34) year old women?Thanks for your input! Yeah, I think it's probably a "wary of men in general" thing and not a case of me unknowingly putting out bad vibes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 02:14 AM |
| 8 | Men and women of PPD: do you ever experience a "freeze" from younger (20-34) year old women?Yeah, I envy people who give off an innocent, non-threatening vibe. I think you might be right - she probably wanted to make it clear she wasn't interested in me, and it came off as being a bit over the top and rude. To be honest I wasn't interested in her in that way, but I was a bit sad she wasn't a bit more friendly to me. It's nice when your co-workers like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Men and women of PPD: do you ever experience a "freeze" from younger (20-34) year old women?Good tip! I should wear my silver ring more often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Purple Pill Theory: Women aren't attracted to men with money because they're attracted to money. They're attracted to men with money because of what having money implies about their character.I guess it really depends what you mean by superior? Are rich people nicer? Probably not? But intelligence and ambition can definitely get you wealthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/18 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Purple Pill Theory: Women aren't attracted to men with money because they're attracted to money. They're attracted to men with money because of what having money implies about their character.Now that I think about it, a hot woman spending money on me would probably turn me on too, even if she inherited most of it. I get what you're saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/18 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Purple Pill Theory: Women aren't attracted to men with money because they're attracted to money. They're attracted to men with money because of what having money implies about their character.Probably true, I think INTPs can be pretty emotional too, it just tends to come in spurts for us. We can go long periods of time without feeling much, then break down in intense emotion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/18 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Purple Pill Theory: Women aren't attracted to men with money because they're attracted to money. They're attracted to men with money because of what having money implies about their character.Apparently ENTJs like to call themselves the "coldest robots". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Purple Pill Theory: Women aren't attracted to men with money because they're attracted to money. They're attracted to men with money because of what having money implies about their character.Aren't they like equally rare though? Haha. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 12:15 PM |
| 3 | Purple Pill Theory: Women aren't attracted to men with money because they're attracted to money. They're attracted to men with money because of what having money implies about their character.Yeah, I'm an introvert who likes talking about stuff like life in the 1980s, the weather and culture of foreign countries, and psychology. I'd rather watch Netflix than go out and party, and while I enjoy hanging out with friends I don't actively seek it, and I don't use texting or social media much. I'm lazy but I do have a job and I don't mooch off other people. My fantasy is to plug into a Matrix-like dream world for weeks at a time where I could mindlessly indulge myself in dream-drugs and a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 11:09 AM |
| -1 | Purple Pill Theory: Women aren't attracted to men with money because they're attracted to money. They're attracted to men with money because of what having money implies about their character.Total cop out. Billions of other men heard the same things and never murdered anyone. I'm not excusing his behavior, I'm just saying that his psychological problems likely would have manifested differently if our cultural narrative was different. And lots of them have physical characteristics that are downright repulsive (eg trump) but they still get women. Trump gets gold diggers. Do you think Melania actually likes him? It's pretty clear she despises him if you ever watch videos of them togeth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 10:57 AM |
| 5 | Purple Pill Theory: Women aren't attracted to men with money because they're attracted to money. They're attracted to men with money because of what having money implies about their character.I do think the "rich Silicon Valley engineer who can't get a girlfriend" problem is often compounded by the fact that they think women should fall all over them because they're rich, and/or that as rich guys, they should only date swimsuit models, regardless of whether or not they have anything in common with these women. A broke guy who gets a lot of girls is usually going for fellow broke girls, and/or is content being someone's fling--although if they're very interesting and charming, and/or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 10:53 AM |
| 2 | Purple Pill Theory: Women aren't attracted to men with money because they're attracted to money. They're attracted to men with money because of what having money implies about their character.Fucking FINALLLYY BROOO. Finally someone comes clean and tells the truth that WOMEN, I ain't talking about gold-diggers, are not sexually attracted to money, nor are they sexually attracted to social status. There is no fucking wayyyyy Melania is getting wet or ever got wet for Donald Trump, but these women and many others will have sex with a guy if he's rich and he spends money on them. That doesn't mean she is getting wet for him or that she's gonna have hella orgasms, or any at all. Yeah, no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Purple Pill Theory: Women aren't attracted to men with money because they're attracted to money. They're attracted to men with money because of what having money implies about their character.I'm talking more about the alpha bux. You know, guys that are at least a 4 in the looks department, but have interesting personalities and are highly driven and competent. I acknowledged the beta bux don't get women horny, that's why prostitution and green card marriages are such a huge thing in the Silicon Valley where you do have high numbers of men who have a lot of money but lack social skills and diverse interests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Purple Pill Theory: Women aren't attracted to men with money because they're attracted to money. They're attracted to men with money because of what having money implies about their character.To be fair personality is extremely important to men too. Yeah, I might want to have sex with a hot woman who has a mean spirited personality, or is super boring and basic, but I'm not going to be long term attracted to her. I'd rather have someone who's a bit below average looking than a woman like that for a LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 10:38 AM |
| 2 | Purple Pill Theory: Women aren't attracted to men with money because they're attracted to money. They're attracted to men with money because of what having money implies about their character.The real reason is because life is a whole lot easier with money. No need to moralize it on either side. Rich men aren’t better people as a rule. Women are no more or less moral for preferring men to be financially successful than men are for wanting women to be attractive. I'm not saying rich men are better people, I'm just saying they tend to have sexier personality traits. There's nothing immoral about having no hobbies and little ambition. It's just not hot. Eliot Roger’s problem was mental … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 10:35 AM |
| 3 | Purple Pill Theory: Women aren't attracted to men with money because they're attracted to money. They're attracted to men with money because of what having money implies about their character.No, it won't; but don't forget that being born rich can also affect someone's standing. If you can afford the coolest clothes, get a nice sports car with your license, throw wild parties and generally have the confidence of a princeling, of course women will also flock to you. That has some truth to it. Money can be a good way to sell yourself. But I think if you have inherited or lucked upon money but have a boring personality, women will see through it. You might be able to get more one night … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 10:29 AM |
| 3 | Purple Pill Theory: Women aren't attracted to men with money because they're attracted to money. They're attracted to men with money because of what having money implies about their character.Yup, exactly. I think men without money can attract women almost as well if they share the same personality traits that are common in high earners. Money still has advantages for showing off in the same way a nice ass has advantages for a woman, but ultimately money attracts women because of what it implies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Purple Pill Theory: Women aren't attracted to men with money because they're attracted to money. They're attracted to men with money because of what having money implies about their character.Good points there. I think on a deeper, evolutionary level the reason the diligent rich guy is sexy is because he's a better provider, but it might not be the personal reason the woman finds them sexy. It's more like women in the past who found disciplined, diligent men attractive had more offspring that survived to have children themselves, compared to women who were attracted to impulsive underachievers. But evolution is a dumb process and the evolutionary reason women find drive and diligence… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Is It Difficult to Not Be Creepy?I think it's actually pretty easy to be creepy, but it's easy to avoid it as well if you know what not to do. You don't have to be a bad person or have bad intentions to be creepy. Even having bad hygiene will make you come off as creepy to a lot of people. Basically, don't ogle people or touch them without permission, understand when people want to be left alone, shower at least every other day, brush your teeth and hair and wear clean clothes, get a tan (you don't have to go to a tanning booth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Is there any correlation between someone's MBTI type and whether they're likely to be feminists/MRAs/red pillers/incels/blue pillers etc?I've always said that about people with autism. There's nothing macho about them at all, yet they're like from another planet compared to neurotypical women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/18 08:34 AM |
| 2 | Is there any correlation between someone's MBTI type and whether they're likely to be feminists/MRAs/red pillers/incels/blue pillers etc?Do you agree about NT men not understanding women as well as other types though, being part of why they're likely overrepresented in the manosphere? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/18 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Are male bonds superior to female bonds? If so, why can't females achieve these same bonds?I think female bonds tend to be stronger. The media will have you think that women are catty and always fight and compete with each other, but this paints a false picture. You have to remember most movies and TV shows are written by men and make it appear like women's live revolve around men and competing for them. In reality most women (with some exceptions, like autistic women and other women with more "masculine" personality profiles) naturally trust, relate to and like most other women, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/18 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Are male bonds superior to female bonds? If so, why can't females achieve these same bonds?They can, manospherians and bros do, but I should note even in those cases it's only to men that are similar to themselves. Bros like other bro types, but that doesn't necessarily mean they feel a kinship to all men. I read something that said women sort of have the mindset that "I'm a woman, and I'm good, so women are good", whereas men don't think this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/18 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Is there any correlation between someone's MBTI type and whether they're likely to be feminists/MRAs/red pillers/incels/blue pillers etc?Interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/18 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Is there any correlation between someone's MBTI type and whether they're likely to be feminists/MRAs/red pillers/incels/blue pillers etc?Thanks for the clarification. That makes a lot more sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/18 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Is there any correlation between someone's MBTI type and whether they're likely to be feminists/MRAs/red pillers/incels/blue pillers etc?Neuroticism overall is correlated with being left leaning, or in favor of protecting that which is considered infantile. It's interesting, because the Northeast for example is neurotic and left leaning by US standards, but California is also more left and not particularly neurotic. I think one aspect of neuroticism, a low threshold for feeling disgusted, is associated with conservatism. But yes overall I think the left is more neurotic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/18 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Is there any correlation between someone's MBTI type and whether they're likely to be feminists/MRAs/red pillers/incels/blue pillers etc?That could explain some of it. I think people who are highly ideological tend to be more neurotic (Reaper555, being very anti-feminist, is likely turbulent/neurotic too). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/18 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Is there any correlation between someone's MBTI type and whether they're likely to be feminists/MRAs/red pillers/incels/blue pillers etc?ENTP is a Ti type. Ti-aux to be precise. Did you make a typo? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/18 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Is there any correlation between someone's MBTI type and whether they're likely to be feminists/MRAs/red pillers/incels/blue pillers etc?Seems like most Redditors are INTPs and INTJs, and oddly enough both feminists and manospherians seem to have an over-representation of xNTx types, despite being opposite in their gender ideology. I think it's because NT males tend to be less successful with women, and being psychologically more masculine than other types they understand women less. And NT females have personalities that are atypical for women, which drives them towards feminism because they hate how they're expected to be more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/18 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Is there any correlation between someone's MBTI type and whether they're likely to be feminists/MRAs/red pillers/incels/blue pillers etc?Assertive or turbulent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/18 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Does the internet de-pedestalize beautiful people, because it's overflowing with elite models who make your local "beautiful" people look like trolls by comparison?I think a lot of people I see on the street are better looking than famous actresses/actors like Angelina Jolie, Brad Pitt, ScarJo, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/18 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Is "femininity" feigned?Has the person who's wrote this comment ever been around a bunch of women together? They act more feminine when men aren't around, not less. If anything I've noticed women try to act more like "one of the guys" when a male is present, or they tone down their femininity because women tend to be more nurturing around other women. I agree with the commenter here who said femininity is more about taking care of others than wanting to be taken care of. I think most men are naturally masculine in char… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/18 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Are tall/hairy men usually more masculine psychologically than short men with little body hair?Maybe. Live in Oregon? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/18 05:34 AM |
| 2 | Are tall/hairy men usually more masculine psychologically than short men with little body hair?You probably have to factor ethnicity when considering hairiness. I'm glad I don't have back hair lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/18 12:49 AM |
| 3 | Are tall/hairy men usually more masculine psychologically than short men with little body hair?Neckbeards are masculine alright, just not in an honorable way lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/18 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Straight women of PPD - do you prefer masculine or feminine looking men for partners?Wait, don't men actually tend to have rounder faces than women? I heard that a rounder face is a sign of higher exposure to testosterone and that women generally have longer, narrower heads. I don't think Merritt looks masculine at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/18 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Straight women of PPD - do you prefer masculine or feminine looking men for partners?I LOVE the band Keane. You have good taste. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/18 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Straight women of PPD - do you prefer masculine or feminine looking men for partners?What's a good example of a "kitten cute" looking woman, versus a "hot" one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/18 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Straight women of PPD - do you prefer masculine or feminine looking men for partners?man also prefer a certain masculinization in women (that is the attribute we call hotness Interesting. What exactly do you mean? Would Gisele Bundchen be a good example? I don't personally find her attractive (I tend to like very feminine looking women, for example the TV actress Merritt Patterson from The Royals), but a lot of guys do. Would Mila Kunis also be a good example? She's not super feminine looking either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/18 12:44 AM |
| 2 | What are representations of gender roles that you think should be shown in media?Also I’d like to see more lazy grungy women on film. Like the Apatow men, but a woman. Have you seen Mike and Dave Need Wedding Dates? Aubrey Plaza and Anna Kendrick play exactly those kind of women, and they're great at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/18 06:17 AM |
| 3 | Who are more sexist - men or women?That's true. I left out "social power" because I do think much of our social discourse, which includes the media is largely female-centric. For example women tend to pioneer when it comes to evolution of languages. Women have always had that sort of power, even if they had to wield it through influencing the men in their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/18 06:03 AM |
| 1 | CMV: the blues here are redder than 90% of redditThing is, racism towards Gypsies and Poles is also increasing. It's not just towards Islamists and criminal elements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 06:14 AM |
| 4 | CMV: the blues here are redder than 90% of redditAnti feminism is only a big thing online because society has become so much more pro feminist in the past few years. Same with racism, people are rapidly becoming less racist (at least in America, the opposite seems to be happening in Europe with the backlash against migrants) so the people who are still racist are getting redder in the face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 03:08 AM |
| 1 | One thing about the concept of hypergamy that doesn't add upMen are motivated almost entirely by looks but every guy has his own definition of physically attractive. I don't agree. Maybe if you're talking one night stand type scenarios, but I have no interest in dating a dime with a boring or nasty personality. I can't speak for all men though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 12:33 AM |
| 1 | One thing about the concept of hypergamy that doesn't add upAgreed. I'm fairly tall (6 feet) but I'm pretty ugly and I don't get any attention from the opposite sex. Height helps but it certainly isn't everything. A cute short guy will generally do better than an ugly tall guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Is anyone else physically attracted more to one sex and emotionally more to the other?Fair enough! :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 12:29 AM |
| 9 | Does "the wall" include non-physical aspects?Yup. The media and Hollywood relationships make people think there's cougars and gold digging kittens prowling around everywhere, but in reality most 18-early 20s women find the idea of dating someone more than a few years older than them gross, and most middle aged women find the idea of dating a man in his 20s gross. The vast majority of women want a man close to their age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 03:05 AM |
| 2 | One thing about the concept of hypergamy that doesn't add upI do think men have more varied taste in women than you might think, though not as varied as women's taste in men. Speaking as a dude, I find a lot of stars who are universally considered hot, like Jessica Alba and Angelina Jolie be not that great looking. In fact I find a lot of women I see on the street are better looking than most supermodels and famous actresses. It's true though that Hollywood's image of a "beautiful woman" is very limited - mostly to women who are thin but have huge breast… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Movies That Should Be Required PPD ViewingsNice, I'll have to check it out one of these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Movies That Should Be Required PPD ViewingsNo is it good? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Movies That Should Be Required PPD ViewingsHe has good taste. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 01:35 AM |
| 2 | One thing about the concept of hypergamy that doesn't add upYeah they probably do care some, but I don't think it's as big a deal as people make it out to be. Height does matter though. I think for women attracting men too. A lot of guys aren't into tall women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Movies That Should Be Required PPD ViewingsGuys like to dismiss Gone With The Wind as a chick flick, but it's actually a pretty badass movie. Its depiction of war got to me in a way that no other movie, including war movies, ever has. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 01:22 AM |
| 2 | One thing about the concept of hypergamy that doesn't add upWhat is wrong with Will Farrell? He's funny, tall, not ugly, and famous. I always thought he was the type women would find ugly, even though personally I don't think he's bad looking. But yeah, it's not that weird some women are into him when I think about it. It would be way more unexpected if she was into Rob Schneider or something. I still can't get over the fact that men find Mila Kunis, Anna Kendrick, Elizabeth Moss insanely attractive while thinking women like Jessica Biel are not that att… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 01:14 AM |
| 5 | One thing about the concept of hypergamy that doesn't add upThat's a good point. I think when Red Pillers say women are hypergamous, what they mean is they only go for men who make more money and look better than they do. Personally I think that's bullshit. Women are definitely picky (for example, most won't date a guy 10 years older or 10 years younger) but I don't think they're particularly picky about money and looks. It's more that they have a fairly specific cup of tea when it comes to guys. Men do too, but it tends to encompass a broader section of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 01:08 AM |
| 6 | One thing about the concept of hypergamy that doesn't add upMen are way more varied in their tastes in women whereas women are very unvaried. They all want a tall man, bigger than average dick, handsome for casual sex even if he is broke. Majority of women can fuck these men but only a few can get them to commit. Really? I've always thought women had very unpredictable taste in men. I mean my sister is super picky, but for some reason she's attracted to Will Ferrell of all people (I get why, he's an awesome dude, but he doesn't seem like the type women w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Women who are concerned about their personal safety should sign up for MMA classes.I've heard that conventional martial arts (I don't know about MMA) actually aren't really that effective for self defense. Does anyone know how true that is? If I was a woman learning a martial art though, I think I'd learn Krav Maga or whatever it's called, the Israeli martial art. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 12:46 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Is feminism responsible for the rise of the Redpill?I do think it's a backlash against the "women are wonderful" effect in general. I'm a purple pill man and I find a lot of Red Pill ideas go too far or are downright false, but there is some truth in women being predominately hypergamous though let's be honest, plenty of women date and have sex with losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 12:36 AM |
| 3 | [Q4All] Is feminism responsible for the rise of the Redpill?You should talk to radical feminists. They take a very conservative stance on trans issues (though they'll hate it if you compare them to conservatives). Interestingly a lot of the conservative arguments against transgender rights are essentially identical to radical feminist arguments, in particular the argument that transwomen are colonizing female space. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Is anyone else physically attracted more to one sex and emotionally more to the other?Thanks! :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Who are worse bullies, men or women?I think there's definitely some, sometimes unpopular guys will bully popular girls and sometimes girls will bully unpopular guys by fake asking them out and things like that. It seems like most bullying is within genders though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Is anyone else physically attracted more to one sex and emotionally more to the other?Good point. People break up for a lot of different reasons, and not loving the person anymore is only one of those reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Is anyone else physically attracted more to one sex and emotionally more to the other?Maybe the real issue is that romance might just not be for me. I mean, I like the idea of it, but honestly it sounds like a lot of hard work and really I enjoy my independence. I don't know if I'd ever get used to sharing a bed with someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Is anyone else physically attracted more to one sex and emotionally more to the other?I don't know if I'd say women are "too much trouble", I just don't have that much interest in them romantically anymore. I feel like being with a guy might be more laid back. Thing is, I don't think I could ever get into gay sex. The idea doesn't gross me out per se, but I don't think I would find it very pleasurable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Is anyone else physically attracted more to one sex and emotionally more to the other?I don't think women's love is less genuine, I just think romantic love for a man has more conditions than the kind of love you get with friendship does. Also women tend to be less forgiving in relationships (aside from the psycho dudes who kill their cheating girlfriends/spouses), and initiate most breakups and divorces. So I do think women's love in general tends a bit more towards being more conditional. But yeah, maybe in the gay world it's just as conditional having romantic relationships wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Is anyone else physically attracted more to one sex and emotionally more to the other?Haha good one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Is anyone else physically attracted more to one sex and emotionally more to the other?I'm not saying women aren't funny, or that no women are chill, I'm just saying in my experience most women are quite serious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/18 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone else physically attracted more to one sex and emotionally more to the other?Well I've never really thought much about men as partners until recently, but yeah I think I do idealize my friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/18 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the average man struggles as much romantically as some RPers claim?Nah, I think most guys can get girlfriends. Usually of their own range of attraction, but that's the same for women. Do you think Brad Pitt is gonna date a 2/10? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/18 05:20 AM |
| 3 | Is anyone else physically attracted more to one sex and emotionally more to the other?It's true that the love a woman has for a man is usually very conditional. That's part of why I've lost interest in finding a companion, I was looking for someone to be my rock (and me hers) but most women value their man proportionally to what he provides for her. If you want that kind of devotion you should just get a cat or a dog. I think men are funnier because they're less serious minded. Women are more afraid of offending others, and more prone to being offended themselves. As far as music… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/18 05:10 AM |
| 3 | Is anyone else physically attracted more to one sex and emotionally more to the other?Yeah I don't think I would identify as gay. Physiologically I'm mostly straight, but I think I prefer the company of men overall. Even given the stigma gay people face, I kind of wish I had more sexual interest in men, because I relate more to their personalities. Women are wonderful but there's nothing like hanging with the dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/18 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Is anyone else physically attracted more to one sex and emotionally more to the other?I don't find women's personalities repulsive, most women just don't appeal to me as partners because they're too neurotic and we're unlikely to share that many interests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/18 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Is anyone else physically attracted more to one sex and emotionally more to the other?What is the main difference you notice between men and women that makes you feel that way? For me, like I said, it's that most women are so serious. Men are more into pursuing their own happiness, which I find very attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/18 04:35 AM |
| 3 | Is there any personality quality that men are generally better at than women?In that way I'm definitely more feminine, despite being a guy. I tend to prefer talking about stuff over playing a video game or catching a ball with a friend. Though the subject matter might be more masculine, like I might talk about geography or science as opposed to people or feelings (cats come up often though!). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 03:51 AM |
| 2 | Is there any personality quality that men are generally better at than women?I'd say it's both. I'd say people who use the Ne function as opposed to the Ni function in MBTI tend to be better at humor, but I'm not sure which gender that leans more towards. I don't know if men are really funnier than women. I personally prefer male comedians, but it could just be because I'm a man. I don't find Broad City particularly funny if you're talking about female-centric comedy, but I appreciate it. It's better than fart jokes, some male comedy can be pretty stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 03:47 AM |
| 0 | Is there any personality quality that men are generally better at than women?I don't know if that's really a "quality". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Is there any personality quality that men are generally better at than women?Haha, to tell a woman to relax is one of the worst things a man can say! Do you think when it comes to judgment, men and women judge for different things? I find that most people who hold demographically based prejudices are men (for example, people who don't like immigrants or LGBT people) but women are more likely to judge people negatively for their personality, like men are more likely to accept people who are weird, have annoying personality characteristics, or have other flaws. I think wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Is there any personality quality that men are generally better at than women?I think men have a longer bell curve with work ethic, like they do with most personality characteristics. There's probably more extremely slothful men and more workaholic men than there are women of those extremes, most of whom range from a tiny bit on the lazy side to moderately hard working. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 03:30 AM |
| 4 | Is there any personality quality that men are generally better at than women?I'm not buying these points. It could just be my experience and not representative of reality, but I find that women are less likely to get obsessed with stuff than guys are (for example, knowing everything about basketball or Star Wars) and tend to put their interest eggs into a larger number of small baskets. In marriages husbands enjoy more leisure time than wives do, I question the idea that men are more industrious in reality. Most of the laziest people in society, you know the cheeto-duste… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 03:09 AM |
| 5 | Is there any personality quality that men are generally better at than women?True. Like my example of men being more laid back is the flip side of them being less neurotic. Women are generally neurotic because they're empathetic and worry about others. Studies have shown that anxious people tend to feel more empathy than non-anxious people. Men are less neurotic, which means they might not think about others as much and may be more self centered, but on the flip side it often means they're less judgmental, less easily offended, and less risk-averse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Anxiety is more common and disabling in women. DiscussI have OCD (though it's in remission, partly because I take Klonopin) and that's equally common in men and women (I'm a man). I think part of it is that women are wired to be more neurotic, because they're more empathetic and conscientious than men on average, but also partially because women have more concerns about their safety and face more social anxiety due to society/men having higher expectations on them to look good and care about others. Interesting, autism is mostly a male thing yet pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Which MBTI type is most likely to be a "nice guy"?Maybe a genuinely nice guy, not a "nice guy" though. Unless they were so sick of being rejected for being effeminate they started blaming women I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/18 05:54 AM |
| 1 | MBTI theory: Fi/Te men are more attractive to women than Fe/Ti menAdded a question at the end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/18 12:06 AM |
| 0 | Do men need women more than women need men?It doesn't make it right, but it makes it more understandable I guess. Actually, I have heard a lot of misogynistic men had bad relationships with their mothers, so you might be onto something there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/18 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Who are worse - "nice guys" or "Chads"?Fair enough, but I think you could label yourself a purple piller (that's what I call myself). Blue pill to me more means that you believe women don't care about looks or status (that much anyway), but are 90% interested in a man's personality and if they're a good person. Nice guys are actually the ultimate blue pillers. Red pill is bullshit too, the truth definitely lies somewhere in between I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/18 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Who are worse - "nice guys" or "Chads"?For someone who calls themselves blue pill, that's a pretty red pill thing to say! lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/18 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Who are worse - "nice guys" or "Chads"?Hmmm, I'd say they're not really a "Chad" if they aren't a player. To me the term "Chad" means a bad guy, though some incels will call any attractive or successful guy they're envious of a Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/18 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Who are worse - "nice guys" or "Chads"?I used to be a nice guy in the sense that I’d lay it on thick and think I had to take them out to expensive dinners on the first date but I never got mad if they rejected me. I just internalized it and basically ran a metaphorical flow chart of everything that happened and figure out what I did wrong. I'd say that's like "nice guy lite". You might have felt to some degree like a relationship was something you paid for by impressing a woman, but you never took it personally if they rejected you. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/18 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Who are worse - "nice guys" or "Chads"?Nice guys are never that bad, they just suck at being fun and have passive aggressive online behavior I used to kinda be like this, but then I grew some balls. I didn't even realize I was kinda being a dick, I was so desperate to be in love and be loved. Now that I realize the mistakes I made I feel a lot more confident about women, and a lot happier and content being single. I think when you truly feel like you don't need a relationship to be happy, women pick up on that, and they gravitate mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/18 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Who are worse - "nice guys" or "Chads"?I don't think most women like arrogant men either, unless they have something to be arrogant about (like being a rock star or something). And even then they'd probably prefer they were humble. I think most women want a middle ground. They want a guy who knows what he wants, but they don't want a guy who's too cocky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/18 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Who are worse - "nice guys" or "Chads"?I'd say lash out at least in the sense of saying something angry back to them after the rejection. It doesn't have to be full on abuse to make them a "nice guy". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/18 07:29 AM |
| 4 | Do men need women more than women need men?Hardcore feminists usually hate men because men abused them. Incels hate women because women won't date them, or called them a fag once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/18 07:08 AM |
| 1 | A couple things about the "male brain" theory of autism that puzzle meI got INFP :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/18 06:09 AM |
| 1 | A couple things about the "male brain" theory of autism that puzzle meThanks! :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 03:11 AM |
| 1 | A couple things about the "male brain" theory of autism that puzzle meI'm not really sure if I'm a feely INTP or an under-developed INFP. I find INTPs are too cold, INFPs are too whiny, and INTJs are too sarcastic lol. Be proud you're a female INTJ. Only 1 in 400 people are! Well maybe not proud, it's kinda dumb to be proud of something you can't help, but it is cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 03:00 AM |
| 2 | A couple things about the "male brain" theory of autism that puzzle meIt's interesting how autism/Aspergers so strongly correlates with INTJ and INTP personality types. I wonder how many people are wrongly diagnosed with Aspergers or high functioning autism when they're really just an extremely disorganized INTP or a very anal INTJ, haha. INTPs and INTJs are actually totally different too, but they both tend to be intelligent and awkward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 02:53 AM |
| 1 | The "comfort theory" of genderI think for many, low openness to experience is also a part of it. Definitely. A lot of people on the spectrum are obsessed with routine. As I said about my husband, he actually has high testosterone but high of some other hormone. I don't know if you know anything about it, but what happens when you add estrogen to a high level of testosterone? Do the two hormones "cancel out" or does something else happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 02:51 AM |
| 1 | A couple things about the "male brain" theory of autism that puzzle meHoly crap, that's interesting! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 02:39 AM |
| 2 | The "comfort theory" of genderIt sort of seems like autism is high introversion + high neuroticism if you were going to map it to the Big Five traits. It's interesting how testosterone relates to feelings of anger and courage. My theory is that it doesn't really increase anger per se but rather just the physical reaction to it, which explains why men are more likely to be physically violent than women despite not feeling anger any more strongly. I suspect it might also factor into heroic acts in many cases as it may suppress… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 02:37 AM |
| 2 | A couple things about the "male brain" theory of autism that puzzle meI prefer the term "condition" over disorder. You can have autism and not be disabled. Autistic people are more like a minority group, it's not a "defect" although people with autism often have comorbid conditions that are disabling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 02:28 AM |
| 2 | A couple things about the "male brain" theory of autism that puzzle meI wonder if parents/peers also expect less of autistic boys to "act normal". There's more pressure for girls to be socially graceful in general, and autistic boys might be spoken to less as children and given less opportunities to develop their social skills because when autism is recognized, some people have the false notion that autistic people are antisocial and don't need or care for relationships with others. So both autistic girls and boys lose out, because the autism often isn't even reco… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 02:24 AM |
| 1 | The "comfort theory" of genderI would like to know why women are more extroverted than men. I think there are a lot of reasons I know, I just can’t think of any now. Introverts are more easily aroused by sensory stimuli, so they tend to have less energy than extraverts. This is why introverts aren't as socially oriented as extraverts - being around others is more mentally and physically draining for an introvert than it is for an extravert. Extraverts need more stimulus to be aroused so they're more likely to go out and seek… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 02:19 AM |
| 3 | Do women find lesbian sex as repulsive as straight men generally find gay sex?I'm straight as an arrow and a guy and honestly I don't find gay sex gross. It's not my cup of tea, but it doesn't gross me out. I might be an exception to the rule though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 01:17 AM |
| 0 | The "comfort theory" of genderBras are painful? It's pretty obvious that high heels are uncomfortable (I've tried them on just out of curiosity), but it's interesting that bras are uncomfortable too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 01:15 AM |
| 1 | The "comfort theory" of genderIt does seem like more women are sun lovers and men are more likely to tolerate or even prefer the cold, but that's only my anecdotal experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 01:10 AM |
| 1 | The "comfort theory" of genderlmao, nice! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 01:08 AM |
| 1 | The "comfort theory" of genderAlso, woweee, that is one hell of a conclusion to draw from the apparent comfortableness of the clothing of the sexes. It's more than just clothing that made me to to that conclusion if you read my post, it's just what made me think about it initially. There's lots of other factors that seem to suggest a difference in comfort tolerance between the sexes, though it's still just a hunch of mine. I think it could explain a lot of the differences between men and women if it IS true though. I think t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 01:07 AM |
| 1 | The "comfort theory" of genderVery interesting! I'm a guy and I get hungry really easily, though it's rare for me to get angry (I do feel annoyance often though and tension that comes with it, though I rarely express it). Cold doesn't bother me much, though I'm very sensitive to heat. I wonder if feeling more physical discomfort might be the hidden disadvantage to being male. It would be interesting if someone could live in the body of the opposite sex for one day and report how it felt to them physically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 01:04 AM |
| 1 | How much do you agree with the statement, "Most men aren't bad people, but most bad people are men"?Fair enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/17 12:17 AM |
| 1 | How much do you agree with the statement, "Most men aren't bad people, but most bad people are men"?Interesting, i'll watch it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/17 12:16 AM |
| 1 | How much do you agree with the statement, "Most men aren't bad people, but most bad people are men"?Nice girls exist too, but it tends to be within the context of a relationship rather than outside of one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/17 12:15 AM |
| 1 | How much do you agree with the statement, "Most men aren't bad people, but most bad people are men"?In America women are a bit less likely to support it, but in Japan it's actually the opposite. Globally there isn't much of a difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/17 12:13 AM |
| 2 | How much do you agree with the statement, "Most men aren't bad people, but most bad people are men"?I'm talking a lifetime habit of doing this to many people. The overall damage could be comparable in some ways, though you can't really quantify it since everyone is affected differently by things. Of course one act of bullying or emotional abuse is never going to be anywhere near as harmful as those crimes, but people kill themselves over that kind of stuff sometimes, so you can never be sure exactly how much harm a bully inflicts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/17 12:11 AM |
| 1 | How much do you agree with the statement, "Most men aren't bad people, but most bad people are men"?To be fair, my stepdad definitely got a lot madder at me than my mom did growing up when I misbehaved. But in a way my mom's anger scared me more, even though she would rarely express it physically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/17 10:38 PM |
| 1 | How much do you agree with the statement, "Most men aren't bad people, but most bad people are men"?I don't know if men are really angrier, I think they just extrovert their anger more. Women seem to be just as fond of the death penalty as men in my experience, for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/17 10:32 PM |
| 2 | How much do you agree with the statement, "Most men aren't bad people, but most bad people are men"?I meant when women bully, they tend to bully other women, rather than bully men. I have no idea whether women experience more bullying from fellow women (wait ... that's an oxymoron lol) or from men. I'll take your anecdotal experience into account though. My sister mostly experienced bullying from other girls, so I imagine it probably varies based on the person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/17 10:31 PM |
| 3 | How much do you agree with the statement, "Most men aren't bad people, but most bad people are men"?EDIT: I shouldn't say "most murders are happenstance". I should say that many murders are not plotted particularly well, and that murder is a relatively common crime. A very large proportion of murders happen relatively spontaneously during arguments. There may be very limited malice aforethought, but they're generally done in the heat of anger rather than "cold blood". Like when Marvin Gaye was murdered by his father. I think males tend to be more impulsive and that may explain in part why murd… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/17 10:24 PM |
| 1 | How much do you agree with the statement, "Most men aren't bad people, but most bad people are men"?I'm black. You gonna walk away from me and my sister cause a large sector of black people commit crimes? Lmao Of course not. I wouldn't walk away from someone unless they gave me bad vibes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/17 10:20 PM |
| 1 | How much do you agree with the statement, "Most men aren't bad people, but most bad people are men"?And interestingly enough, men commit about 85% of the serious crime in America. I'm curious - are you male or female? Your gender might color your perception somewhat - for example women tend to be a bit "colder" to men than they are to other women, but mean women tend to bully other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/17 10:16 PM |
| 2 | How much do you agree with the statement, "Most men aren't bad people, but most bad people are men"?I more meant that when it comes to accountability for bad behavior, women are seen as being somewhat like children - like they "must be crazy" if they killed their kid, while a father doing the same is "just evil". Granted the Casey Anthony case was different, but I think people just loved to hate her because the media fired up the flames against her and the reason she (probably) killed her daughter was so selfish. But even she was found innocent. When it comes to weirdness or rudeness as oppose… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/17 10:14 PM |
| 1 | How much do you agree with the statement, "Most men aren't bad people, but most bad people are men"?That's basically assuming all men are bad with no context of the man in general. Don't a lot of women kind of do that with men they don't know already though? If it can be verified that men are more likely to be dangerous than women, it makes sense to trust a strange man less than a strange woman. Even I admit I would feel safer hitchhiking with a woman than with a man, even though my principles are against having such a bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/17 09:58 PM |
| 1 | How much do you agree with the statement, "Most men aren't bad people, but most bad people are men"?Victim reports of crimes not reported to police also suggest most crimes are committed by males at similar rates to what arrests find. But it is true that women tend to get lighter sentences for the same crimes, because they're viewed as having less agency and the "women are wonderful" effect plays in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/17 09:55 PM |
| 1 | How much do you agree with the statement, "Most men aren't bad people, but most bad people are men"?What do you mean by entitled exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/17 09:49 PM |
| 1 | How much do you agree with the statement, "Most men aren't bad people, but most bad people are men"?Majority of people in society of course are generally good and not evil. I think that's debatable. If you're talking direct harm, yes. But humanity is destroying the planet, we buy "blood products" made in sweatshops, and our food industry is extremely cruel to animals, and most people (including myself admittedly) go along with it by their consumption habits. Even though we all have the power to at least mitigate these abuses, few people care much. I also know a disturbing number of people who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/17 09:47 PM |
| 1 | How much do you agree with the statement, "Most men aren't bad people, but most bad people are men"?I wonder if women also have a greater fear of ostracism/punishment. I know some studies have shown women have greater empathy than men on average, but I'm not sure if the evidence is rock solid. There's probably a constellation of factors that make men more prone to criminality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/17 09:42 PM |
| 1 | How much do you agree with the statement, "Most men aren't bad people, but most bad people are men"?Armchair expert or researcher? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/17 09:10 PM |
| 1 | How much do you agree with the statement, "Most men aren't bad people, but most bad people are men"?but there's more eye-rolling and sighing when men buck trends. With women, there's more deliberate malice and social engineering to exclude them. Totally agree. It's definitely worse being a weird woman. If you're a guy and don't shower, people think you're gross, but if you're a girl and don't shower people think you're an abomination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/17 09:07 PM |
| 1 | How much do you agree with the statement, "Most men aren't bad people, but most bad people are men"?I'd be curious to know if such a society has ever existed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/17 09:03 PM |
| 5 | How much do you agree with the statement, "Most men aren't bad people, but most bad people are men"?I think things like constant bullying can fuck people up, even to the point of PTSD, so yeah it can definitely be very serious. People have taken their own lives over being treated like shit in that fashion. I'm not talking just about being rude, I'm talking about bullying, emotional abuse and tolerating/encouraging the bad actions of others. Also keep in mind I said "in some ways". It's hard to compare different kinds of evil and say which is worse or truly more harmful, because they harm diffe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/17 09:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The majority of red and blue pillers are unwilling to truly change their views because it would challenge their pre-existing mental schemas and create cognitive dissonance which would signify some oversight in the methodologies and patterns of their own thinking and consequent decisionsI've always been a purple piller, but lately I've "blueshifted" a bit. I think women really do have it worse than men on average, and I accept the fact that as a male I am privileged, but I question whether trying to paint men as the villainous sex is a constructive way to get to equality. There's really no shame in being privileged anyway. A lot of privileged people are very righteous, and a lot of unprivileged people are dicks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/17 07:48 PM |
| 1 | How much do you agree with the statement, "Most men aren't bad people, but most bad people are men"?Yeah, I know it's unpopular to say but I really do think that men are a bit more variable than women in terms of personality as well as intelligence. You'll find more weirdos, freaks, creeps, geniuses, idiots, and other outliers among men than you will among women. I think women tend to trust other women because women tend to have quite a bit in common with other women (for example most women adore children and animals), while men often have little in common with other men so have less of an in-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/17 07:38 PM |
| 3 | How much do you agree with the statement, "Most men aren't bad people, but most bad people are men"?70 percent is a bit harsh. In my experience about 20 percent of both sexes are assholes/bitches, 50 percent are decent and 30 percent are nice. But yeah, I would say about 70 percent of women are guarded and somewhat unfriendly towards most males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/17 07:32 PM |
| 2 | How much do you agree with the statement, "Most men aren't bad people, but most bad people are men"?In some ways I think a person who is consistently nasty their whole lives, bullying and belittling others can be as bad as a murderer or a rapist, so it's complicated. Not just being rude, but being constantly psychologically abusive to others and taking advantage. Even relatively small acts of meanness can have large rippling effects, just like small acts of kindness. I think men are much more likely to do crazy violent shit, or be perverts, but women are equally or at least almost as bad when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/17 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Does removing "men are scum" but not gendered slurs and abuse against women constitute a sexist double-standard by Facebook?Well Mark Zuckerberg is a dick, so it wouldn't surprise me if they are misogynist. Silicon Valley is just as sexist as Hollywood it seems like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/17 07:27 PM |
| 1 | In Myers-Briggs, is ESFJ the "stereotypical female personality" and INTJ the "stereotypical male personality"?I'd say they're also more prone to feeling happiness and excitement. Women tend to be more emotional in general, though of course that's only on average. There are very warm men and very cold women too, they just deviate from the overall trend. It's sort of paradoxical that women tend to be both more agreeable and more neurotic, since you'd think neurotic people would tend to be more negative in their interactions with people due to feeling more negative emotions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/17 01:15 AM |
| 1 | In Myers-Briggs, is ESFJ the "stereotypical female personality" and INTJ the "stereotypical male personality"?So basically women are more prosocial yet also crazier? Haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/17 06:51 AM |
| 1 | In Myers-Briggs, is ESFJ the "stereotypical female personality" and INTJ the "stereotypical male personality"?I got INFP on that one, but on the function ones I get INTP. I think it's because my introverted thinking is so strong. My other functions are pretty typical of INFPs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/17 06:51 AM |
| 1 | In Myers-Briggs, is ESFJ the "stereotypical female personality" and INTJ the "stereotypical male personality"?Agreed completely. Although Apply Magic Sauce insists that my Facebook likes make me the "epitome of masculinity" (maybe it's the raunchy comedies I like?), I've always seen myself as being pretty asexual. I've found I relate a lot to gay males in particular, moreso than I do to other straight men or to women. I think INTPs come off as being agendered because we use the more feminine Fe function as our inferior function and our strong Introverted Thinking makes us unconcerned about fitting in wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/17 06:36 AM |
| 3 | Are most people biased towards their own sex?I wonder how much that figure would vary based on the woman's attractiveness and age. Also, I wonder if soldiers are more chivalrous than the typical man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/17 03:00 PM |
| 1 | In Myers-Briggs, is ESFJ the "stereotypical female personality" and INTJ the "stereotypical male personality"?So do you think even the 25% intuitive figure that's often cited is too high? Is it more like 15% or even 10% of the population in reality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/17 02:52 PM |
| 3 | In Myers-Briggs, is ESFJ the "stereotypical female personality" and INTJ the "stereotypical male personality"?That is very interesting. I do think there is some sexism against women in tech, but that probably has more to do with the fact they're a minority in the industry, rather than them being a minority being a result of sexism. I don't think men are better at the job, just more likely to find it interesting. Males are more likely to have personality types that are oriented towards technological work. I think women and girls getting more into video games has more to do with the fact that modern games… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/17 02:49 PM |
| 1 | In Myers-Briggs, is ESFJ the "stereotypical female personality" and INTJ the "stereotypical male personality"?What are some things N is valued more for? I think N's are considered more creative aren't they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/17 02:45 PM |
| 4 | Are most people biased towards their own sex?I'd say more like it's rare to see women interact with other women in fiction men create. Which makes up the vast majority of Hollywood movies for example, and probably the majority of the best selling authors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/17 02:42 PM |
| 1 | In Myers-Briggs, is ESFJ the "stereotypical female personality" and INTJ the "stereotypical male personality"?I could see a lazy INTJ mistyping as INTP or a hard working INTP mistyping as INTJ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/17 02:41 PM |
| 1 | In Myers-Briggs, is ESFJ the "stereotypical female personality" and INTJ the "stereotypical male personality"?I think S's outnumber N's by a factor of threefold. You're right though, ESTJ and ISTJ males are more numerous than NT males, but I'd argue they're a bit less masculine being that sensing and judging are somewhat feminine qualities (INTJs like I said before only appear to be judgers, but are actually perceivers internally). It might seem odd being that ESTJs have the reputation of being powerful CEO types, but I think they tend to be more "people oriented" than NTs. Edit:Yes, I mean INTJs tend t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/17 02:34 PM |
| 3 | In Myers-Briggs, is ESFJ the "stereotypical female personality" and INTJ the "stereotypical male personality"?I think most women have their guard up for sure, particularly towards males they don't completely trust. But around other women in particular, it seems like the majority of women are energized by the presence of other people in a way most men are not. Even my INTP sister was gushing about her new friends this Thanksgiving in the way a typical extroverted girl might, haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/17 02:30 PM |
| 2 | In Myers-Briggs, is ESFJ the "stereotypical female personality" and INTJ the "stereotypical male personality"?Another interesting thing to note, that might color my perception somewhat - neither of my parents have taken the Myers-Briggs test as far as I know, but I would guess that my mom is an ESFJ and my dad is an INTJ. My mom is a middle school teacher and my dad's an engineer, which are both very gendered occupations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/17 01:40 PM |
| 1 | In terms of personality, which sex is more conservative?I think openness is thought to be equal between the sexes and women are actually theorized to be slightly more conscientious, as some studies have found a small difference favoring women. However, I personally have my doubts as to conscientiousness being a gendered trait at all. Since most women over 30 both work and raise children/do the majority of the housework they're likely going to test as being a bit more conscientious, but I doubt that the difference is inherent. For example, I work at G… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/17 12:47 PM |
| 1 | How prevalent is female sexual harassment of males? More common than you'd think or almost nonexistent?That's interesting that good looking men are far more likely to be harassers than ugly men! The stereotype is that the typical sexual harasser is an ugly, smelly guy that lacks social skills - but in reality I'd imagine "beta" guys tend to be shy around women and if they do hold misogynistic views, they tend to be private about them and not act on them. I could see attractive guys who are used to a lot of attention from women getting cocky and thinking that every woman will be OK with their adva… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/17 12:07 PM |
| 6 | How prevalent is female sexual harassment of males? More common than you'd think or almost nonexistent?It's interesting how American and British culture differs in certain ways. You don't really see a lot of drunk people in the street (outside of Vegas and New Orleans and maybe a few other places), maybe the laws are more intolerant about public intoxication here. We don't really have anything equivalent to your "chavs" here ... maybe the guidos in Jersey and Florida would be the closest thing, but that's not a huge demographic or anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/17 08:30 AM |
| 2 | In terms of personality, which sex is more conservative?Also, financially secure/successful people tend to be more conservative because they hate the fact that their tax money is used to fund welfare for lazy people and for bullshit medical reasons such as "depression/anxiety" which doesn't stop people from working. I don't know, severe depression and anxiety in my experience can make work hard if not impossible. I mean everyone feels sad and anxious sometimes, but if you actually have a disorder it can be truly crippling. Try working as a cashier wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/17 08:27 AM |
| 4 | How prevalent is female sexual harassment of males? More common than you'd think or almost nonexistent?Yeah, that doesn't really sound appealing to me either. British girls seem really reserved and not outgoing towards men in general, so that's kind of interesting. Then again British people in general aren't particularly outgoing lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/17 08:21 AM |
| 2 | How prevalent is female sexual harassment of males? More common than you'd think or almost nonexistent?Maybe it's a cultural difference. Feminism is a pretty big thing in the Pacific Northwest, come to think of it the vast majority of my friends here have pretty strong feminist views. Generally I'd say the strippers here are thankful when you tip them, but probably only about a quarter of the girls on stage acknowledge me by brushing up against me, etc, even if I'm tipping well (which I'm fine with, I'm not entitled to it). They do tend to give female clients more attention as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/17 08:19 AM |
| 2 | In terms of personality, which sex is more conservative?I'd say women are more prone to centrism, and men radicalism on the political spectrum. Yes, I can definitely see that. It's interesting because I think the idea of distributing wealth and socialism in general appeals more to women (men seem more likely to believe that "taxation is theft" and that people on welfare are scum, not that social democracy is the same as communism of course...) but at the same time I think at the far extreme the left probably does appeal to more males. The Communist P… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/17 08:13 AM |
| 1 | How prevalent is female sexual harassment of males? More common than you'd think or almost nonexistent?I'm in Oregon, where they get completely naked but you aren't allowed to touch them unless they explicitly give you permission. I've kissed a stripper before but I asked her first, she also let me touch her. At one very dirty club in Portland my brother was actually offered sex, but he didn't want to cheat on his wife. Where are you from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/17 08:06 AM |
| 7 | How prevalent is female sexual harassment of males? More common than you'd think or almost nonexistent?A girl yelling "you're hot!" at a concert and grabbing a man's ass is absolutely harassment. I mean I wasn't even that bothered by it, the girl was no threat to me, but if a teenage boy grabbed a 27 year old woman's ass and told her she was hot it would definitely be considered harassment by just about anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/17 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Is Calling Out Toxic Femininity Misogynistic?Another example of behavior that seems to be largely feminine but I'd consider "toxic" is what I'd call the "hierarchy of politeness". A lot of women will be smiley and act like they care about someone even though they actually feel contempt for them, then they'll go talk crap behind their backs or "ghost" them when that person tries to become friendly with them. I've come to realize there's a way to tell if this kind of woman dislikes you - don't interpret the way she treats you at face value, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/17 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Will going monk mode and putting girls aside to work on myself too long hurt my chances of a successful marriage?If you are looking for a good christian girl you are better off looking sooner than later. Or move to the South, if you don't live there already. Christian women under the age of 30 in American blue states are an endangered species. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/17 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Will going monk mode and putting girls aside to work on myself too long hurt my chances of a successful marriage?Having female friends is really helpful in understanding the opposite sex (I've learned a lot from my girl friends), so I'd say no. If you only hang around men you're only going to understand male points of view. I'd suggest reading Charlotte Bronte and Jane Austen too ... it's the literary equivalent of snooping on a group of women doing facials together and listening to them talk about "girl stuff" (and much less creepy). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/17 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Can women control their biological urges the way men can?I think hypergamy is a myth. There is a subset of women who are attracted to men of high status and power, groupies for example would be one example of this, but in general I think women are looking for a man who is funny, competent (even if it just means a minimum wage job - I've noticed since I started working again that women are nicer to me, though that could be due to my self esteem and confidence being improved by employment), kind (not all women care that much if you're nice, but I think … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/17 07:04 AM |
| 5 | Q4All: Is a woman in the wrong for breaking up with a man due to premature ejaculation?I don't think so. If a man can break up with a woman for bad or little sex, a woman should be able to do the same if she isn't being satisfied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/17 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Q4BP: Is a guy an asshole or wrong for breaking up with a girlfriend due to lack of sex or not getting good sex?I'd say in general no, physical intimacy is a very important part of most romantic relationships. Personally, I don't think I would break up with someone just for a lack of good sex. Maybe a couple could consider if an open relationship would work for both of them if they don't have the chemical spark anymore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/17 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Apparently mentally ill women suffer and mentally ill men make others suffer, according to this article. Do you think that's generally accurate?So are male children actually more likely to show their emotions than female children? Because that would go against all the conventional wisdom I've ever heard. Or do you mean internal vs external in the sense that mentally ill women tend to harm themselves while mentally ill men tend to harm others? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/17 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Apparently mentally ill women suffer and mentally ill men make others suffer, according to this article. Do you think that's generally accurate?Well not necessarily, but there's a reason why sociopaths and tweakers have a bad rap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/17 07:44 AM |
| 1 | This sub should focus less on the NiceGuy(TM) and instead focus on guys who are genuinely 'nice' but lack game, attractiveness, assertiveness, and are overall just boring. There's a difference between those two.What exactly makes a person a NiceGuyTM vs a genuine nice guy? I think some genuinely nice men can end up getting frustrated with women after lots of rejection, and might even say some things they regret. I think the TM label should be reserved for men who actually cross the line into abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/17 06:20 AM |
| 2 | In your opinion, in feminist/social justice theory, what is factual, what is debatable and what is straight up bullshit?No, I wasn't saying it's totally worthless as a concept ... more that it shouldn't be used as a formula to pseudo-scientifically determine how much privilege a person possesses. But yes, it's a useful tool to have, for example realizing that a black person might have a different opinion of the police because of their own experiences that may differ from your own. My main problem with privilege theory is that it seems to prioritize certain things (in particular sex, race, and sexual orientation) … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/17 10:48 AM |
| 1 | In your opinion, in feminist/social justice theory, what is factual, what is debatable and what is straight up bullshit?Yes, there's clear examples where a certain group is targeted more, but at the same time you can't attribute everything under the sun to privilege or oppression. There's more factors affecting events in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/17 09:45 AM |
| 1 | In your opinion, in feminist/social justice theory, what is factual, what is debatable and what is straight up bullshit?Yes, intersectionalism definitely explains privilege better than simplistic binaries. The thing is, even intersectional analysis is not an accurate way to measure how privileged or oppressed a person is. For example - I imagine virtually every black person in America has had at least a couple setbacks due to their race. However this can range from very trivial, like maybe being subject to a couple racial slurs over the course of their life, to being shot by the police because they're black. Alth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/17 09:42 AM |
| 2 | In your opinion, in feminist/social justice theory, what is factual, what is debatable and what is straight up bullshit?Even though Social Justice is heavily rooted in Marxism, I actually view it as a compromise between the Left and capitalism. By focusing the narrative solely on racial and gender/sexual orientation lines and ignoring other variables such as class the "New Left" has become accepting of capitalism. The idea seems to be that if we modify capitalism through policies such as affirmative action we can make capitalism genuinely meritocratic, and socialism is no longer necessary or even desirable. Of co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/17 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Do "nice girls" exist?It means "involuntary celibate" I believe, so yes by defintion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/17 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Do "nice girls" exist?I feel like when men complain, they're probably more likely to complain online, because nobody likes men who are whiners IRL. Not that people like female whiners either, but it's seen as especially repulsive from a male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/17 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Do "nice girls" exist?They're not really nicegirls if they blame themselves though, are they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/17 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Do "nice girls" exist?I don't think a "nice guy" necessarily equals an incel. You don't have to be a virgin to be a "nice guy". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/17 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Do "nice girls" exist?Or they might not be as vocal about it on the Internet, but might be just as whiny to people IRL. Perhaps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/17 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Do "nice girls" exist?Do these nice girls get frustrated/mad at the guys when they don't return their feelings, or do they just let it go? If it's the latter, I'd argue they're not really "nice girls", they're just female incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/17 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Do "nice girls" exist?I know right? It's not even that I dislike them, I just don't view them as being more special just because they're young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/17 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Do "nice girls" exist?Can you explain that in a different way? For some reason I'm not getting what you're saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/17 09:50 AM |
| 0 | Do "nice girls" exist?A Cool Chick is a girl that isn't actually cool, but acts that way in order to get a relationship. She will pretend to like his hobbies, his drug use and jokes and acts as if she loves giving him amazing blowjobs. She will have casual sex with him and claim that she doesn't care that he doesn't want a LTR. But similarly to the Nice Guy there will be one day where she stops pretending to be cool and she will show that she secretly was a nagging bitch all along. That's genius. I knew a girl who wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/17 09:49 AM |
| -2 | Do "nice girls" exist?That's a very good point. But "relationships" in the romantic sense are almost always sexual as well. So the underlying logic of nice-guyism does ultimately argue that being nice/friendly/kind creates sexual attraction (via an intermediate step, or perhaps concurrently alongside affection). True. I was just pointing out that nice guys aren't solely or even primarily motivated by sex (speaking as a former "nice guy") - mostly they're just needy guys who want a woman to take care of their emotiona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/17 09:38 AM |
| 3 | Do "nice girls" exist?No one tells girls that guys are sexually attracted to kind and understanding and considerate women. I don't think "nice guyism" has solely to do with that. It also relies on the premise that friendship can lead to relationships. Sure, women know very well that men are shallow when it comes to who they're sexually attracted to, but when it comes to long-term relationships most men want a woman who treats them well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/17 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Do "nice girls" exist?The thing is "nice guys" (and presumably "nice girls", assuming they exist in considerable numbers) tend to fixate onto high-status people. Or at least people of a higher status than themselves (which is often virtually everyone else). I imagine a "nice girl" would be far more likely to gravitate towards the captain of the football team, or a CEO than they would to some nerd living in their mom's basement. There's no guarantee a man like this would have sex with a woman like that (especially if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/17 09:03 AM |
| 4 | Would the world be better if it was ruled by women instead of men?The vast majority of politicians and CEOs (ie, the people that run the world) are men. While I'm sure their wives and women in their lives have a lot of influence on them, the fact is that the most powerful people in the world are overwhelmingly male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/17 08:59 AM |
| 1 | In general, are (straight) women less attracted to men than we are to them?When it comes to abuse, anyone being abused is justified in complaining. Of course. "Complaining" was a bad choice of words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/17 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Do you think men committing more crime = men are more likely to be bad people?No, but I was personally a bit uncomfortable with my uncles kissing me on the cheek. I don't think there's anything wrong with it though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/17 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men committing more crime = men are more likely to be bad people?I'm American. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/17 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men committing more crime = men are more likely to be bad people?The most disagreeable people tend to be men-something like 20:1 past the 95th percentile. Very interesting. Do you have a cite for this? I'm curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/17 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men committing more crime = men are more likely to be bad people?I have no idea if she did or not. Basically, the surgeon operated on her but she was an incompetent surgeon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/17 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men committing more crime = men are more likely to be bad people?If Christians are right, Hell is probably 90% dudes and Heaven is probably mostly women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 01:33 PM |
| 3 | In general, are (straight) women less attracted to men than we are to them?I feel like most women would be lesbians if they could choose to be. Bisexuality seems a lot more common in women than it does in men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Do you think men committing more crime = men are more likely to be bad people?I think you're exactly right. It's a combination of higher empathy/prosociality and being more risk-averse. If women were as risk-prone as men female crime would go up, but it wouldn't equal male crime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 12:07 PM |
| 2 | In general, are (straight) women less attracted to men than we are to them?It's crazy that in the US a 19 year old can go to prison for sleeping with a 17 year old. Agreed. There's definitely a need for Romeo and Juliet laws. Still, it's pretty crazy that a 40 year old man could legally have sex with a 14 year old girl in some parts of the world. That's true, but it's "younger woman" and not "younger child". 18-21 will always be more attractive to most men than 14-16 year olds. Of course. But some 16 and 17 year old girls look like they could be 20 or 21, and I don't t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 12:05 PM |
| 1 | In general, are (straight) women less attracted to men than we are to them?In most places in Europe the legal age is 14-16 yet most men still don't want to have sex with them. I could fuck a 14 year old if I wanted to, but I still prefer 21 year olds. Yeah, I don't think most would, but I think quite a few would. I personally would not. That's kind of crazy you could legally have sex with a 14 year old. What country do you live in, Spain? Pornhub statistics say otherwise. In the US "Step mom" is more popular than "teen", but the same is true worldwide with milf being m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 11:27 AM |
| 3 | A thought on "nice guys"Yeah, I mean everyone wants to be loved. If your feelings are unrequited 100 percent of the time, it's not that hard to fall into the fallacy that something is wrong with women. The reality of course, is nothing is wrong with women, and nothing is wrong with you. You might just not be most women's cup of tea, and you're at the very least approaching things wrong by being a suck-up and kissing the woman's ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Do you think men committing more crime = men are more likely to be bad people?I actually think Karla is worse than Paul. She gave her 15 year old sister Tammy as a "gift" to Paul so he could rape and kill her. To me procuring someone to someone like that is even more despicable than the act itself. Especially if it's your own fucking sister. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 11:18 AM |
| 3 | Do you think men committing more crime = men are more likely to be bad people?Yeah I agree. I also think buying cocaine, while not making you a "bad person", is a pretty shitty thing to do. You're supporting criminal activity by adding to the profits of gangs, some of which are very brutal and do harm, kidnap and murder innocent people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 11:16 AM |
| 2 | Do you think men committing more crime = men are more likely to be bad people?That's a good point. I also think a child would be less likely to recognize abuse from a woman as abuse, because normal women are physically affectionate towards children in non-sexual ways, such as kissing them. I remember when my mom's best friend (she's Italian) kissed me on the lips. I was 9 years old, and it kind of shocked me! But of course it wasn't meant to be sexual - Italians don't necessarily view lip kissing as being sexual in all contexts like Americans do. But if a MAN kissed me on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men committing more crime = men are more likely to be bad people?I mean it's really impossible to say, but most people who report being abused as children report a male as the perpetrator, and something like 97% of people charged with animal cruelty are men, though that may be partially because men are more likely to do things like shoot animals. I imagine only the worst animal cruelty tends to be reported to the police, and people might be less willing to report a woman for it. To be fair, when it comes to animal neglect women are almost as bad as man - some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 11:00 AM |
| 0 | Do you think men committing more crime = men are more likely to be bad people?In terms of murder, women's weapon of choice is poison which largely goes undetected. That makes me wonder how much murder in general is going unreported. The stats say about a third of murders are unsolved, but I wouldn't be all that surprised if the murder that we hear about is only the tip of the iceberg. For example, I've heard of some people who work in hospitals do pretty shady things. One (female) surgeon operated on my aunt and fucked her up, knowing very well that she was a terrible sur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men committing more crime = men are more likely to be bad people?What about crimes against the helpless though, like against kids, the elderly, and animals? It's mostly men committing those crimes too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men committing more crime = men are more likely to be bad people?To be honest I think the main reason men are more likely to commit crimes of any kind is largely down to the fact men are more likely to engage in risky behaviour. This is probably a good explanation. A lot of women might want to commit a crime, but refrain because they're more likely to fear punishment, retaliation or social ostracism if they're caught. Although there are certain violent crimes women are more likely to commit. Murdering your own child for example is something women are far more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men committing more crime = men are more likely to be bad people?Committing a crime doesn't necessarily make you a "bad person." Selling weed is a crime, I don't think many people would agree that makes you a "bad person" unless they're ultra conservative. I guess I'm talking about violent crimes. I'm pretty sure men are more likely to commit non-violent crimes such as drug crimes as well, but the gender proportions aren't as dramatic as they are with violent crime. For example, 95% of murderers, and anywhere from 80% to 97% of child molesters are men (from t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 10:33 AM |
| 2 | In general, are (straight) women less attracted to men than we are to them?To be honest I think a huge proportion of men would have sex with teenage girls if it was legal. I mean the "barely legal" porn is like the most popular kind, and until recently jailbait was openly tolerated on Reddit. I personally wouldn't have sex with someone under 18, but realistically some 16-17 year olds don't look any different from a 20 year old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 10:03 AM |
| 2 | In general, are (straight) women less attracted to men than we are to them?That's pretty interesting. It also explains why most pedophiles are men, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 09:56 AM |
| 2 | In general, are (straight) women less attracted to men than we are to them?Lol, is that based on real stats? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 09:51 AM |
| 1 | In general, are (straight) women less attracted to men than we are to them?but then I see horrible couples and hear all kinds of stories and change my mind, that women are not as picky as men. If they were, there would be less tragical/abusive relationships. The thing is abusive men aren't always unattractive. Although we would like to picture them as being invariably ugly brutes and losers, a lot of them are successful, good looking, and have good social skills. Look at Jian Ghomeshi. Gorgeous man, probably Canada's most successful radio host of the time, and very wel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 09:51 AM |
| 1 | In general, are (straight) women less attracted to men than we are to them?But for guys, there's nothing that can balance out an ugly woman's physical looks. There's no amount of fashion, charm, or success that will help her. I'm not sure that's true. It seems like it's more common to see a good looking man with a homely woman than it is to see an ugly man with a good looking woman. Plenty of guys can muster some attraction to a "below-average" looking woman. You also have to consider the desperation of lower status men. Even if they want the hotties, they'll generally… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 09:14 AM |
| 1 | In general, are (straight) women less attracted to men than we are to them?True. It can explain the institution of monogamous marriage (which historically was a form of sexual socialism to ensure each man got a partner, rather than women being distributed among harems of high-status men). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 09:12 AM |
| 2 | A thought on "nice guys"Yeah, I'm not proud of my behavior, but I have sworn to myself not to act that way again. Maybe I was being selfish, but I don't think I was acting with malice. I really was convinced I could make the woman happy, if only she would give me the chance to. But of course I should have just moved on to someone else. Nowadays I don't suffer from "oneitis" like I used to, and can see myself happy with many women, so I don't think I would feel compelled to act immature about rejection again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 08:53 AM |
| 1 | In general, are (straight) women less attracted to men than we are to them?just because men are less likely to complain absolutely does not mean we are enjoying it. i've experienced a lot of groping, kissing, and other "creepy" behavior from women that was very unwanted (and it is typically older and/or less attractive women who are the most blatant about doing this kind of stuff). but there's a very strong social stigma against men complaining about a woman being aggressively sexual. if the man does complain about a woman being aggressively sexual in a bar or club, us… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 08:25 AM |
| 1 | In general, are (straight) women less attracted to men than we are to them?Perhaps because of polyamory? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 03:40 AM |
| 1 | A thought on "nice guys"That's a good point. Elliot Rodger is a pretty extreme example though, that guy had serious issues. What's kind of surprising about Elliot is he was actually a pretty good looking guy, and doesn't come off as socially awkward. Most of the time those kinds of guys are butt ugly and on first impression you wouldn't want to touch them with a twenty foot pole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 03:21 AM |
| 1 | A thought on "nice guys"Yup. I think the purple pill is the healthiest route to take. Don't be a pathetic doormat with oneitis who is always hoping a "no" will someday turn into a "yes", but don't be a player who lets their success with women go to their head and ends up treating them disposably either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 02:47 AM |
| 1 | A thought on "nice guys"I admit I'm speaking in generalities. Obviously there are lesbian women, that goes without statement. In this context it's pretty clear we're talking about heterosexual relationships. But in general I think all other things considered equal, being human women who aren't masochistic due to a history of abuse will prefer someone who treats them well. However attraction is complicated, and sometimes people feel sexually or romantically attracted to shitty people because of other traits they possess… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 02:42 AM |
| 7 | A thought on "nice guys"Misogynistic means you hate women or think they're inferior, or you only value them for their body. "Nice guys" who want a relationship care about and value the woman as a person, unlike people who are solely after sex. So I don't think it's quite the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 02:39 AM |
| 1 | A thought on "nice guys"If it really was about emotional stuff they'd be perfectly satisfied being the shoulder to cry on and nothing more. I don't know if that's necessarily true. Naturally sex is part of what comes with a romantic relationship, but I think what "nice guys" really want is for the woman to reciprocate the romantic feelings. If they don't, they end up feeling like the woman doesn't care as much about them as they do about her, or doesn't even care about him at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 02:38 AM |
| 1 | A thought on "nice guys"It isn't necessarily that they don't care, it's just that they project their own desires onto that person. They may very well think that the woman would be happier with them and just don't realize it. It's delusional and unhealthy behavior, but I don't think it comes from a place of malice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 02:35 AM |
| 1 | A thought on "nice guys"Wanting a relationship doesn't mean it's not transactional. It can be just as transactional as wanting sex. I agree with you, but I don't think it's as bad. I mean, they want a relationship because they genuinely like the person. If they only wanted sex, they'd be total phonies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 02:01 AM |
| 2 | A thought on "nice guys"They want to paint "nice guys" as these monstrous perverts, rather than guys who are frustrated because due to their lack of social skills and good looks women constantly favor other men - even sometimes men who are complete jerks - over them. Sometimes the "nice guy" can take this so far they start becoming a jerk themselves. I felt some anger about being rejected and took it out on the women I was attracted to (nothing violent, but I said some things I'm not proud of), but now I realize that I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 01:58 AM |
| 1 | A thought on "nice guys"I don't know if I would necessarily condemn them as selfish. I don't think they're generally malicious. They're just blinded by their wishful thinking. Their mindset is that while you might reject them now, it's possible you'll change their mind. They can't get it in their heads that you will never change your mind. I'm speaking as someone who used to be what people would probably call a "nice guy". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 01:51 AM |
| 1 | A thought on "nice guys"I think "expecting" sex is the misogynistic part. If you only value women for their pussy, you're pretty much a misogynist. Now, if you're interested in a relationship and all that entails, that doesn't make you a misogynist. It just means you're utilizing a fallacy - the fallacy that being flattering and kind to a woman will automatically make her fall for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 01:48 AM |
| 1 | A thought on "nice guys"Good point. Aladdin had swag. I recognize I'm definitely not Aladdin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 01:46 AM |
| 1 | A thought on "nice guys"A 'nice guy' emulates these behaviours in exchange for sex. They are not 'nice'. That is the joke. That's what I'm arguing against. I don't think all nice guys are sex crazed perverts. I think a lot of them genuinely want a relationship, and get butthurt when things don't pan out. It's not an excuse to throw a fit, but I think it's understandable why some of them might get frustrated, especially after being rejected many times. It doesn't make them monsters to get upset, unless they escalate to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 01:44 AM |
| 1 | A thought on "nice guys"And men who are genuinely nice just to be nice with no expectations, probably aren't bothered by women not dating them or sexing them because they were nice..... And I'd bet they probably get it a fair amount anyway since it's not some sad bartering attempt at affection or attraction. I don't think showing interest in a woman because you want a relationship with them is that bad. Of course, being nice should be your baseline behavior, but it's understandable that if someone has feelings for some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 01:42 AM |
| 4 | A thought on "nice guys"That's the problem. I think winning girls over by doing impressive things is possible - the problem is just that they do indeed have to be impressive, and displaying niceness isn't one of them. Your niceness being considered valuable depends on you having done actually impressive things. It might work in some cases, but when I think of how it would be in my own shoes, even if a woman I wasn't physically and psychologically attracted to saved my life, I don't think I'd want to be with her. I imag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/17 02:13 PM |
| 3 | A thought on "nice guys"Wow, this kid needs help. I'm not the type to give up, and my dad told me persistence pays off, so I started bringing her flowers every day. It sounds like he's been given the wrong ideas about courtship. Personally I think most stalkers are delusional and clueless rather than malicious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/17 02:08 PM |
| 3 | A thought on "nice guys"One I can think of is The Wedding Singer. Like all Adam Sandler characters, Robbie is a good guy, but he's also a loser - he lives at his sister's house, works for meatballs, and sings at weddings. He doesn't slay any figurative dragons. His love interest Julia is engaged to a complete asshole that perfectly fits the imagined assholes "nice guys" perceive their love interests as being with. He ends up with her after he sings "Grow Old With You" on an airplane to Las Vegas, hardly a dragon-slayin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/17 01:51 PM |
| 3 | A thought on "nice guys"Yeah, you're right. But a lot of "nice guys" are so naive they might actually think the very modest chivalry of being an attentive listener and showering a woman with gifts is equivalent to slaying dragons. Someone mentioned Eric and The Little Mermaid. I think that's different. It's been a long time since I watched The Little Mermaid, but if I recall correctly, Ariel had the hots for him from the beginning. A better example of the blue pill trope of the "nice guy getting the girl" is probably a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/17 01:42 PM |
| 8 | A thought on "nice guys"Still, movies like Aladdin imply that you can "win over" a girl by improving your character, or doing impressive things. A lot of "nice guys" think if they figuratively "slay dragons", like listen to a girl's conversations, or buy them gifts, that this will make the girl love them. The reality is that if a woman rejects you, it's highly unlikely she will ever change her mind no matter what you do or who you become. I think of the guy who wrote "Hey There Delilah". He had a crush on this South Am… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/17 01:33 PM |
| 1 | A thought on "nice guys"Can you link me to it? It sounds like an interesting read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/17 12:43 PM |
| 1 | A thought on "nice guys"So you blame movies because you didn't understand that they are about self improvement and growth? Well, I'm kind of exaggerating. Of course I blame myself too, for being too naive. But I do think my view of relationships was strongly shaped by Disney, etc. She is reluctant at first when he is still a shy, awkward and weak boy (plus his chance of getting her is portrayed as impossible), but then faces hardships and saves the world while becoming (mentally) stronger and more confident on the way.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/17 11:51 AM |
| 6 | A thought on "nice guys"No, but being nice and expecting sex for it (if you're a man expecting it from a woman) is misogynistic, or at the very least dishonest. Being nice and expecting a deep romantic relationship for it isn't really misogynistic, but it is very naive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/17 11:22 AM |
| 2 | A thought on "nice guys"And they are solipsistic, they fall in love with any girls that are nice so they believe that works too. Yes, that was my fallacy during my "nice guy" days. I projected my own feelings onto the woman of my affection, not really even pondering that they might be attracted by different things, such as social status, assertiveness and not messaging them all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/17 10:56 AM |
| 10 | A thought on "nice guys"Really, kindness is just one of many characteristics a woman cares about. I think women would rather you be kind than be an asshole, but if the asshole has other traits a woman likes (and often they do), they can still win out over the kind man. I think the worst thing a nice guy can do is decide to act like a dick in order to impress women. As much as women are repulsed by nice guys, even to the point of putting many genuine assholes above them in some cases, they'd be even more repulsed by a f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/17 10:52 AM |
| 12 | A thought on "nice guys"I blame the media in a large way for my past blunders. In the movies the nice guy/hero always ends up getting the girl at the end, even if she is reluctant at first. Think about Aladdin for example, one of the first movies I ever watched. Aladdin is infatuated with Jasmine but only at the end does she return his feelings. Real life is like The Hunchback of Notre Dame. A pretty gypsy woman might be kind to a hunchback, but it's highly unlikely she is going to return his feelings for her. But that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/17 10:47 AM |
| 2 | A thought on "nice guys"The problem is if you're acting too nice, most women can see right through it anyway. I think the problem isn't treating someone decently, it's feigning an interest in companionship when really you just wanna get busy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/17 10:44 AM |
| 4 | A thought on "nice guys"Well I think doing favors for someone and pretending to be their friend just because you want to fuck them is pretty phony and even emotionally abusive, but if you genuinely want a relationship with them and it would hurt you too much to "just be friends" forever, that's more understandable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/17 10:36 AM |
| 1 | A thought on "nice guys"I don't think looks are particularly important to women. I mean they matter, but I think women are more interested in men with good social skills and high social status. This is why girls love guys who play sports - they're athletic, so more likely to be good looking, they generally have good social skills (though to be fair not always), and by being an athlete their social status will automatically be higher. Nerds on the other hand, tend to have poor social skills, are less attractive and gene… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/17 10:32 AM |
| 4 | Does feminism imply that women are the morally superior sex, at least to some extent?There's a biological basis for family yet the concept of family is a social construct. There's a physical basis for the flow of time yet time is a social construct. I would challenge both of those assertions. Animals have families too, look at lions for instance with their prides and wolves with their packs. As for time, it's known to be a spatial dimension, so time itself is definitely not a social construct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/17 12:01 PM |
| 3 | Does feminism imply that women are the morally superior sex, at least to some extent?Aren't the two fundamentally related though? Personally I think there's a biological basis for personality tendencies like men tending to be "thinkers" and women tending to be "feelers", but obviously things like pink being a girly color are socially constructed. Gender roles vary by culture, but key personality tendencies, like men tending to be "thinkers" and women "feelers" and women being more likely to be fond of structure in their lives (who's room is likely to be cleaner - your son's or y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/17 11:22 AM |
| 4 | Does feminism imply that women are the morally superior sex, at least to some extent?And at the same time they believe that transgender/transsexual individuals have got a brain that's more similar to the opposite sex which clearly shows that they do believe in nature as well. That's a good point. I've always got the idea that most feminists believed gender was purely a social construct, but that goes against the fact most of them support trans issues. Though I'm not sure if it reflects an inconsistency in their ideology, or if my perception of them believing gender is a social c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/17 11:01 AM |
| 2 | Female interests vs male interestsI think that why more men get diagnosed with being on the spectrum - we're perceived as having a "head start" on it - we're already closer to being autistic. The thing that worries me about the male brain theory is that people will start associating autism with macho behavior and misogyny (as if autism doesn't already have enough bad publicity). It even happened already with the Elliot Rodger thing (that guy may or may not have been autistic, but he was definitely messed up in other ways too). I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Female interests vs male interestsBecause what the study seems to be talking about is physical difference in volume/thickness of different regions/parts of the brain. It does not appear to be getting into what those physical differences mean, if anything. It's not proof, but you would think at least that brain structure and personality would be related. There is quite a bit of evidence to suggest it is. You're also making a huge leap from 'certain parts of male brains show greater variability than the same parts of women's show … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Female interests vs male interestsYes. Superficially, a lot of autistic women don't seem too much different from other women, due to having more "mainstream" interests. I imagine many even pass as neurotypical for this reason, despite being very mentally different internally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Female interests vs male interestsIs that true though? If anything it seems like when autism hits women, it hits them harder. My guess would be there is more pressure for their own sex to "act normal", while autistic boys are simply ignored by other members of their sex and don't get a chance to learn any social skills. Then again I have heard autistic girls are better at eye contact and such than autistic boys. So I don't really know for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Female interests vs male interestsFor one, the women are not nearly as compelled to do that because they are not shamed for their hobbies or appearance And men aren't shamed for being basement dwellers? I feel like if anything, it would be more acceptable for an adult woman to still live at home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Female interests vs male interestsNaturally maybe 35% of women would take up collecting coins, but we'll never know. I doubt it. I think most men who collect coins would love if their wives shared their hobby, but for some reason coin collecting just doesn't appeal to women. I really wish it did though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/17 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Female interests vs male interestshttp://www.sciencemag.org/news/2017/04/study-finds-some-significant-differences-brains-men-and-women Volumes and cortical thickness between men also tended to vary much more than they did between women, the researchers report this month in a paper posted to the bioRxiv server, which makes articles available before they have been peer reviewed. That’s intriguing because it lines up with previous work looking at sex and IQ tests. “[That previous study] finds no average difference in intelligence, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/17 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Female interests vs male interestsIn Japan manga for girls and women has been huge since forever and the whole otaku subculture (which manga forms the core of) has been a majority female subculture for about a decade now. Manga is a different beast. I realize they are comics, but for some reason superhero type comics appeal more to males, while manga appeals more to females. I'm not exactly sure why - might have something to do with the style/content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/17 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Female interests vs male interestsWould you say autistic women are somewhat more neurotypical than autistic men are? To me it seems like autistic women, though less common, are actually more affected by autism when they do have it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/17 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Female interests vs male interestsIt probably depends on the person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/17 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Female interests vs male interestsSports fanaticism seems somewhat regional too. You don't see it as much in the Western United States because more people are non-natives to their areas. It's very much an East Coast/Midwest/South thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/17 01:47 PM |
| 4 | Female interests vs male interestsI don't think the traits are diametrically opposed either (I don't totally buy into Simon Baron-Cohen's theory). I'm sure there are plenty of people who are both very good at understanding systems, and care deeply about others. I highly doubt it's as much of a factor as 4:1. I think the differences lie largely in the extremes - which explains why most really "bad people" (I'm talking like murderers and stuff), as well as extremely adept systemizers (like Rain Man) are men, while most people who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/17 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Female interests vs male interestsNo but I will! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/17 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Female interests vs male interestsOf course comics are fiction, but I think the reason comics appear more to males is because of the pictures. Men are more visually oriented, women like to paint a picture in their mind. This is why women enjoy erotica and men prefer visual porn. And yeah, I'm not saying nerds are total loners of course. But the whole basement dwelling man child stereotype exists for a reason. There aren't really a lot of women who fit that category. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/17 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Female interests vs male interestsGood question. For me the reason I collect coins is because they're actual pieces of treasure, I like precious metal, and I like how old many of them are. I also like the artwork on them. I'd imagine people collect things for a variety of reasons. Some might be purely in it for investment, others just like looking at them, some might like the history. But a lot of it is about the thrill of the chase and anticipating your next purchase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/17 01:31 PM |
| 5 | Female interests vs male interestsAspie dude here. Totally agree with you. I realize there's probably more autistic males than autistic females, but I don't think it's a 5:1 ratio or anything that extreme that's often claimed. I disagree with the "extreme male brain theory" too. I view autism as being almost like a third psychological gender in a way. We don't really have a lot in common with NT men or NT women. Autistic people don't necessarily dislike people or being social either, I'd say we just have more trouble navigating … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/17 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Do women vary less in personality and intelligence than men?enjoy animals, reading, and looking put together/attractive. I wouldn't really think of those things as stereotypically female. Women seem to have a special love for animals though. I mean don't get me wrong, I love animals. But 42% of American women go as far as to believe they're equal to people! I wouldn't say "reading" itself is a feminine thing (after all Reddit is mostly male!), moreso reading of fiction. As for fashion, yes I think most people want to look good, but it's pretty obvious th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/17 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Do women vary less in personality and intelligence than men?It's probably true to an extent, but I've read many anecdotes about girls being given boy toys and boys given girl toys, yet they still end up preferring the toys tailored toward their sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/17 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Do women vary less in personality and intelligence than men?Yeah, some men look downright strange. Women seem to have more "median" facial features. With that said, there are some very unique looking women like Emma Stone and Uma Thurman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/17 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Do women vary less in personality and intelligence than men?The most rigorous study done by Richard Lynn on men and women w/r/t IQ found about ~5 IQ difference. Nobody's claiming that women have a lower average IQ than men, the claim is that women's IQs cluster closer to the mean. Which from I understand has been replicated multiple times and is not controversial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/17 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Do women vary less in personality and intelligence than men?I think all of this women are the same is more or less women are more socially attuned. Women work harder to tone down their quirks in social settings because they know it's going to look weird and be perceived in an odd manner. Men with quirks aren't adept enough to do this. Perhaps they don't care but that's also a sign of not being socially apt. That's definitely part of it, though being able to keep your weirdness in control in my opinion makes you less weird than someone who can't or won't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/17 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Female interests vs male interestsWell it is true that literature is in decline for both sexes, and I admit it's probably the weakest link of my 4 "common female interests". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/17 08:52 AM |
| 2 | Female interests vs male interestsSorry if my answer is too brief in response to your in depth proposal, but I have something interesting you might want to know. From the moment babies are born it is really clear to see the trend in their interests. As you said male babies are more object and mechanically focused, this would spawn interests in games, sports, and in depth literature/science etc. Where as female babies focus on facial expression etc, picking up on social cues and alike much quicker. Yes, I think it's an inborn dif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/17 08:50 AM |
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