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If you talk to honest women they will tell you this straight up. In fact I think the man issue they have with abusive men is their insecurity. A confident man that occasionally hit women would not draw the same hate an insecure man who didn’t hit women would.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:05 PM
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If she starts at 18 and has 1 BF per year, every year, her N count would be like 15. Who cares? I’d much rather a woman have a high n count than a bunch of long term relationships, or even just one or two very very serious exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 11:11 PM
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It’s much harder to find romantic and sexual compatibility than it is to find personality compatibility. I can watch movies with my friends, I can’t fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 11:54 AM
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Women get all sorts of hormone boosts from non-romantic relationships that men don’t. It’s obviously true, it’s why men off themselves without a word and are far more successful at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 04:55 PM
0

No it doesn’t. And I’m pro-abortion. I’m not pro-choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 12:11 PM
1

Tertiary Syphilis rots your brain — you’d have to actively avoid the modern medical system to get tertiary syphillis.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 07:26 PM
1

Yeah that’s my point. If someone fucks their FWB raw it doesn’t mean they don’t respect their own body, it means they have different personal boundaries. For example, I don’t mind hugging strangers , while some people find this to be extremely uncomfortable. I respect my body; I just don’t view human touch as necessarily corrupting or bad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 07:25 PM
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Sure, but it’s just a matter of how much risk you’re willing to take. I only fuck pro-abortion women or someone who’s willing to use plan b if necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 07:23 PM
3

What? Personal boundaries are just that — personal.. if someone doesn’t regard sex as something they should only share with a lifelong partner, it doesn’t mean they don’t respect their own boundaries, it means they have different boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 04:50 AM
1

Do you really view other people as completely random/worthless? I don’t really understand why sharing a moment with a stranger is a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 04:48 AM
3

What on earth does wearing a condom have to do with your beautiful mind or whatever? Like raw sex will turn you crazy or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 04:30 AM
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The difference in sensation can be pretty huge
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 04:28 AM
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No, you see these women as prisoners because it’s a life you don’t want, but you don’t factor their feelings into the situation at all. There are still plenty of women today who voluntarily choose to stay home
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:55 PM
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She wouldn’t say “he asked me out for a drink” she would say “I’ve noticed him staring at me for weeks and then he cornered me and asked me out and I felt like I couldn’t say no etc...” A woman only needs to intimate she felt danger and the incident will be taken seriously by all parties involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 06:54 PM
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I have come across that 10% plenty. The issue is politeness is entirely subjective and varies wildly from woman to woman. It’s truly insane what younger women consider to be harrassment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 06:33 PM
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“If you could fuck one living human woman, you have no right to make romantic complaints”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 06:11 PM
1

Seriously, the 10% of women who think it’s harassment should be sent to a fucking desert island, away from civilized society
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 06:10 PM
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You’re telling me if you had a 1 in 10 chance of being reported to HR you’d still ask someone out for a drink? To be quite honest with you, the fact that 13% of younger women consider a drink offer to be sexual harassment is a sign of how thoroughly deranged most feminist discourse is these days. You’re literally saying just asking for a drink has a 10% chance of getting you reported!!! Christ almighty!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 06:08 PM
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Even then it’s a terrible move — if you later get promoted over someone who knows you said that, they could easily use it to take you down. Even if it’s a third party or she was receptive to it at the time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 09:25 PM
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You’re assuming she isn’t lying. It’s actually quite easy to lie. Have you heard of fake news? I’m
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 07:57 PM
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You’re assuming she isn’t lying. It’s actually quite easy to lie. Have you heard of fake news?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 07:57 PM
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Because people lie all the fucking time? Is it really that hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 07:45 PM
1

How could it not be a prevalent worry in the me too age?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 07:32 PM
1

That’s what he’s missing. Fucking other women behind your gf’s back is the firmest fucking boundary one can set in a relationship lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 07:30 PM
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Not caring at all and doing whatever you want is the ultimate form of boundary setting — hence why women find it so fucking attractive. Assholes don’t spend a lot of time reflecting on their past decisions and feeling guilty about the people they’ve hurt and generally don’t care what other people think about them. That is the most supreme confidence there is. Hence women’s attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 07:28 PM
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No, I can assure you that women are attracted to not caring. They read it as confidence and willpower, which drives them wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 07:21 PM
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I’ll jump in — they aren’t attractive and don’t have charisma, which is completely subjective and pretty much unlearnable and thus unattainable. But most dudes aren’t upset about it being hard to successfully approach women — they’re upset that now, in addition to being rejected by the target of their flirting, they’ll be labeled a creep and thus auto rejected by shit loads of other women automatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 07:15 PM
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You used a poly man fucking 6 absolute dogs (who are also poly) as your basis for unattractive men having sexual success. Incredible. I’d actually say lifelong virginity is preferable to whatever the hell your unattractive friends got going on
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 07:11 PM
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Well she started by saying it wasn’t fire at all (“no one’s getting mad about flirting”) but then acknowledged that if you express your interest incorrectly you will in fact get burned.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 07:09 PM
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Telling your female coworker she is sexy is totally inadvisable and will absolutely get you booted from the work place
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 07:06 PM
2

Who is getting called a slut? Name one prominent example from the past decade? Seriously! The multi-billion dollar kardashian phenomenon was all built from a sex tape. You literally get cancelled for calling someone a slut. There are no women being slut shamed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 02:08 PM
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Who in the hell gets socially ostracized for being a slut in today’s times?? Are you kidding me? There have been literal slut walks with women celebrating the fact in a parade. Who is being ostracized for sluttiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 02:04 PM
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It’s not complexity they’re worried about — it’s about being accused of something you can’t reasonably defend yourself from. It’s knowing that all the person you’re expressing interest in has to say is that she feels uncomfortable and suddenly you’re a bad guy and a creep. I really think it’s impossible for women to understand what it might feel like to be totally ostracized. Their empathy is severely limited in this way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 01:58 PM
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It’s high maintenance high reward though. A lot of high maintenance bitches make it worth your while overall
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 08:36 AM
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Fucking bingo! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 08:35 AM
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Having been in a similar position to you — a large percentage of career minded educated professionals are hideously hideously boring
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 08:33 AM
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Hell no are you fucking insane! Physical attractiveness is rarer than intelligence or career drive. And many many many career-focused people are just narcissists, or will prioritize their career over you. Have you never seen a woman and just been utterly entranced with how beautiful she looks? Beauty is just striking to me in a way that any other qualities will not be — perhaps other than genuine kindness. I want a partner who is sexy and kind. All the Career and Passion Mumbo jumbo is just code…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 08:31 AM
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So sort of the opposite of what a pedophile is going for
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/20 12:04 PM
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All Women**
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/20 12:03 PM
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Oh come on that’s lazy stereotyping, I think most lesbians I’ve seen have been really well dressed/put together
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 11:58 PM
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Well there are thousands upon thousands of men in that very situation. No one wants them. The fact that it’s hard for you to even conceptualize the problem is proof positive alone that men have it much much worse overall in the romantic market. There’s a hilarious lack of empathy from women on this subject
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 10:01 PM
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No, you wouldn’t be receiving attention from anyone at all — you’d be totally invisible. You’re telling me you’d rather be like a 32 year old virgin?? I find that extremely hard to believe frankly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 08:45 PM
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Yes you absolutely can. Losing a child is objectively worse than losing a grandparent, to give just one of many many examples. This is very basic stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 08:41 PM
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No, I get that it doesn’t feel great! Only that it pales in comparison to the feeling of having no one interested in you at all. We’re not accusing you of making shit up — only that you’re conflating two very different kinds of pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:37 PM
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Yeah we get you feel shitty — but you’re spoiled!!! No one is contesting that it feels shitty for you, only that you need to contextualize your pain! It’s like you’re complaining about the taste of some food to a bunch of starving African children. It’s a first world problem
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:35 PM
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So would you rather receive no attention at all? I didn’t think so. You continue to put yourself out there because some attention is better than no attention at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:32 PM
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Humor and anger are the two copes men are allowed by stereotypical gender norms, so we have much more practice. Women have other outlets to manage their emotions and thus don’t get as much natural practice as men do. So men are typically funnier than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:56 PM
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This is the answer. For women it’s much more of an existential crisis when her man doesn’t want to fuck her; men are just used to it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 12:34 PM
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New technology!? What bs are you spewing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:29 PM
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Depends on what you mean by slut and what you mean by “mean more to men”. Sure I would much rather date a horny slut but a prudish ugly woman might be the perfect helpful/smart coworker. I think low sex drive hetero women are likely to have a hard time romantically because men tend to like sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:27 PM
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Thank you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:23 PM
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See you just think it’s a slutty thing to do, and a shitty job to have — its all sex negativity. If people like you weren’t so judgmental of people who post their pussies on the internet there’d be way way fewer women harmed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:18 PM
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Have you ever had an orgasm? You seem to afford so little value to sex in all aspects of life — do you like sex yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:15 PM
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Would you say the same for cam girls and insta thots? Or high class escorts? I don’t think most of the women posting in gonewild are mentally damaged
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:14 PM
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The queen of England
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 05:17 PM
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Compared to you and me, yes she is, but compared to bezos, no. Not knocking her at all. She’s clearly hustled for what she has
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 03:33 PM
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What? No not necessarily. I’m confused what you’re even arguing now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:18 PM
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What about that profile screams “national tv celebrity” to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:17 PM
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A diner waitress maybe a remote possibility but what about all the hot ass 25-30 yr old personal assistants, marketing associates, low level actresses and models etc.. there are out there... sure millionaires aren’t pulling up in the Bronx everyday looking for their Cinderella but they also aren’t checking their potential partners resumes and career histories
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:07 PM
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No she hasn’t. She is and was a local TV reporter. Obviously that’s a bigger deal in LA than it is in Harrisburg, PA or whatever but it’s nowhere close to millionaire money
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:02 PM
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I’d fuck both of their wives, but I’m a man. I suspect you’re a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:59 PM
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How do you know he isn’t behind the scenes?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:58 PM
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Yeah she got money from having kids with wealthy men. She isn’t famous for doing red carpet interviews for NBC LA or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:55 PM
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I find this hard to believe given that we’d expect there to be far more male millionaires and billionaires. Unless multiple male millionaires are marrying the same female millionaire I don’t see how that is possible
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:54 PM
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Who is tryna fuck Bill Gates? Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:52 PM
1

You cherry picked those examples for a reason. Look at literally every other rich guy and you’ll see a different picture. To name just a few look at Bezos and Musk
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:51 PM
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He’s dating a local news reporter from LA who has kids with two different celebrities already... pretty much the definition of a gold digger
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:49 PM
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Rich men don’t care about goldiggers though. If anything they realize more than others that everything in life has a price. Many many many of them probably enjoy the dynamic wherein they control their wives or girlfriends spending entirely
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:48 PM
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I guess that’s what I meant by auto-accept — you’re right that it’s not a guarantee
/r/seduction11/05/20 01:43 PM
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What is it about vocal variety that makes it so important? I don’t have a monotonous voice or anything that just stood out to me.
/r/seduction11/05/20 09:41 AM
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Yes auto-reject based on looks and auto-accept based on looks. So many guys think they said a killer line when in reality the girl just thought them hot.
/r/seduction11/05/20 09:40 AM
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(2) respect is extremely important for general seduction — if other people respect you you’ll be an attractive partner. (3) I think you’re arguing against the assertion that confidence will 100% get you laid every time. Or that a broke 2 dude will land 10s if he’s just confident. But that isn’t the assertion I made. What I did assert was that confidence plays a much more significant role in women’s level of attraction to any given man than you think. For men, a woman they rate a 10 in looks will…
/r/seduction07/05/20 04:44 PM
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Black women are the most “discriminatory” in this regard, and asian women are the least, with white men right behind them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:39 PM
2

Who doesn’t love chicken cutlets though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:37 PM
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Being delusional reads as confidence to lots of people. And while I’ve heard women say that about ugly men, At about the same rate I’ve seen guys I thought were the biggest losers ever with attractive women. My point being — it’s all subjective with women. When you heard those women shitting on that ugly dude for being confident while being ugly I can guarantee you there were other women at the bar who liked his “swag”. It’s the whole Big Dick Energy phenomenon. I’m not saying confidence can ove…
/r/seduction07/05/20 02:13 PM
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In other words there should be a certain set of rules for men and another set of rules for women. Now that’s what I call equality
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:14 PM
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I mean in a choice between dangerous and non-dangerous which would you choose? Dangerous is a value judgment. Saying they’re more prone to violence is a description, calling them dangerous is making a value judgment. One could also make the opposite value judgment btw — men’s natural aggressiveness makes them more likely to be CEOs and leaders, hence the disparity in leadership positions between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:07 PM
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Incels are obviously extremely hypocritical about this point. I’m not even saying I agree with the 80/20 model, I’m just saying it makes sense why people who do believe in the model focus their ire on women and not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:31 PM
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So you think men’s impulses are worse and more destructive across the board but they’re somehow not inferior? If I told you black people are less intelligent than whites but still equal to whites, wouldn’t you be a bit skeptical?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:28 PM
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In other words men are biologically inferior?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:23 PM
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I mean I don’t disagree that it’s a woman’s biological imperative/instinct, it’s just that women generally denounce our natural instincts — men are naturally stronger and more violent but we overcome these impulses. If you think ugly men should blame themselves and accept biology, then women shouldn’t be mad at men for not being monogamous, or violent, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:43 PM
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Minimal whining?????? What??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:35 PM
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If every chad became monogamous tomorrow with only their looks match, all the ugly or average women wouldn’t rush to ugly and average men. They’ll stay single. Hence why Incel’s ire is directed at women. They’re the agent of change.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:33 PM
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Because even if the chads didn’t fuck them the women would hold out for the chad. They resent women for liking chads so much. Women would still like chads even if chads didn’t fuck them. Hence the anger. Men also like a sense of accomplishment and don’t like to be condescended to. So getting a woman only because chad is throwing you a charity bone is not going to be satisfying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:30 PM
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Yeah the key here is to have an attractive set of friends — if your friends are ugly or not social butterflies they will actually drag you down. OP just has a set of 3-4 attractive gregarious friends and there’s no way to build that intentionally.
/r/seduction06/05/20 02:47 PM
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You’d be surprised how much confidence plays into a woman’s assessment of attractiveness.
/r/seduction06/05/20 02:43 PM
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The key of this whole post is “have attractive, talented, fun-loving friends” — this guy isn’t doing anything special, he’s just benefitting from having a gregarious group of friends. Even ugly weird men with “cool” friends will get laid fairly regularly. But if you have awkward or weird or less attractive friends, or ones who don’t like to or can’t wingman and whatnot, it’ll be harder to get laid and you’ll need to approach, even if you’re a hot dude.
/r/seduction06/05/20 02:39 PM
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I think this is the issue with online generally, on any topic: gender, religion, politics etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:04 PM
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Lol this made my night, thanks for the laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 03:22 AM
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No argument there!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 11:06 PM
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Don’t give up, just get into sex tourism and marry some woman who wants a visa... a true recipe for love right there
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 08:06 PM
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What no fat chicks stuff?? Also, being fat is a choice, so that seems like a reasonable restriction. I only want to date people who care about their health
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 08:04 PM
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Sorry I was responding to u/muhhsympathy — who was trying to argue against your data by saying it showed women message men they dont find attractive. Since her opinion was that women were forced to marry unattractive men in the past, rather than by choice, the data point that shows women still message some men they find unattractive would suggest they couple up for other reasons — like perhaps working a hard job that provides for a family. You were saying that men are being left in the dust by w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:44 PM
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Yes but have you heard how women talk about women 5 years younger than them? You see 23 year old women on here talking about how 19 year olds seem like babies to them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:34 PM
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In fairness, women seem to do this with their ugly/fat friends too all the time... women see lying about situations like this as being protective of feelings, while most men view it as extremely condescending. As a man it’s been one of the hardest things for me to wrap my mind around about female friendship! They want to be lied to!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:49 PM
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None of my friends beat women, nor do any of their parents etc... but I know abuse exists and I’m not waffling on whether it’s abuse or not. So yes I’d say if not outright ignoring them the pressure on society to care about men’s issues is exactly nil — you’ve never even had to consider the question
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:35 PM
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They do though! And honestly it’s the childless women I see who are the most adamant about creepy older men — it seems like they’re displacing their motherhood instincts onto young women because they don’t have children themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:26 PM
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Surely you incorporate more than that into your opinion of society as a whole? Why use a sample size of 4 for an entire society
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:25 PM
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Who is telling you that?? Are you from South Asia? If you’re from the US UK Australia essentially all of Europe etc... then the predominant message for the past decade at least has been #girlboss. Think of all the women in stem programs alone! My office has a special retreat for the women every year on how to get ahead in the workplace, and they literally make up a majority of the company. We have a female CEO! Everywhere you turn there’s messaging about how badass women are in every respect. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:24 PM
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I actually think my grandmother’s generation is 1000x more badass and independent than modern women. There would be no Rosie the riveters today
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:21 PM
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Most valuable?? I think it’s just plain motherhood instincts. Women were born to raise kids
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:20 PM
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The truth is they want all women to be children eternally — they want men to take care of them. So men who date younger women are being bad fathers in their eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:19 PM
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You don’t see a lot of examples because it isn’t considered abusive! In fact any man who claims he got taken advantage of by a gold digger is far more likely to be condemned by other women for using the term at all. So of course you haven’t noticed it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:17 PM
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Isn’t this just a mothering instinct women have? Women view the young as children in their care. It’s a mom thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:15 PM
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Would you say happiness is a human right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:50 PM
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Obviously high schoolers will be more obvious and cruel about it, but it happens in the adult world constantly. The sheer number of women on the dating apps that have asked me if my height is legit or saying “I hope you’re not 5’8” or whatever is truly astonishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:46 PM
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I don’t even know how this is a controversial opinion. Women see short men as children. Men, while subtly biased, largely could give two shits about height.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:43 PM
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Most people are lazy as shit! It isn’t magic, you just have to be active and not eat bad foods. That’s literally all there is to it. Let me guess, you hate walking, eat 3 solid meals a day with dessert and drink soda/alcohol. A 5’5” woman only needs about 1500 calories a day. My guess is you eat closer to 3000 on a regular basis. Sorry I don’t have sympathy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:41 PM
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People who lose weight are quite common actually. Far better likelihood of losing weight than say quitting smoking or drinking
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:38 PM
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It’s extremely easy!! Just eat fewer calories than you burn. Walk a couple of miles a day, don’t eat breakfast, and don’t drink your calories and you will lose weight. Literally simple as that. Literally the only science to it a simple math problem. Burn more than you take in. All of the science you reference is an effort to help people who want to fundamentally avoid this basic equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:37 PM
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Did they date them? Or just say they would?? Women are notorious for telling men they would totally date them if X/Y/Z happens
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:33 PM
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Considering the stats on how many fat women there are out there, and how few women are virgins, I think fat women are doing just fine! I honestly see far more couples where the women is fatter than the man than the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:32 PM
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You’re either willfully delusional or retarded then
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:30 PM
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Absolutely it is!! why put them as models otherwise??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:29 PM
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Lol women band together in the abstract but they can’t band together in person — even the women’s march was brought down by infighting and the only purpose was to walk a mile down constitution avenue
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:23 PM
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You don’t even have to imagine, there’s a post like that almost everyday on FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:20 PM
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That’s because women believe men are more capable than them deep down.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:19 PM
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In a world where everyone has to fight for everything women will always be last unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:30 PM
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Yeah like grocery store workers during the pandemic. Floating in cash! Are you 7 years old?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:24 PM
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So women are born in a better starting position and are more valued by our society? They have it made !! Thank you I couldn’t have made the point better myself that women are privileged. Look how the rich treat us in our society. I’d say women do about the same. So why should I support feminism if women are better off than men AND hate men for being less than? Editing to add: the same logic applies to female CEOs. Obviously the reason we don’t have more of them is that they don’t work hard enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:20 PM
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Replace attention from men/women with jobs and you’ll see how ridiculous this is. Women can get low paying jobs easy but if they want a high paying job they have to fight. Men have to fight to even get a low paying job. Surely now you can see how silly you’re being??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:10 PM
3

We have to have army grunts no matter what. We need plumbers no matter what. Guys that work the electrical grid. Linemen who put up telephone lines. Front and back hoe operators. Do you really want me to list all of these types of jobs?? We need people doing them at all times
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:06 PM
2

The women that will have to compromise will be average looking to ugly. Considering over half of women are fat, I’d say all the cows
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:03 PM
1

Is that what you want from men re marriage? Just grit my teeth and commit to someone when I can play the market just fine??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:01 PM
5

So the predicament of a shitty man in your mind, where he needs to compete heavily for attention from any woman, is equivalent to the struggle average women face trying to get much hotter and nicer men. Forgive me if I have no sympathy for that plight at all. Most gargantuan victim complex I’ve ever seen
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:59 PM
2

It’s so weird to reply to someone’s comments on the internet! And dming! On a totally anonymous website
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:53 PM
1

So women are happy with bottom tier men??? Doesn’t that ruin your entire premise!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:51 PM
3

So like every fire fighter should just walk off the job?? Every army grunt guarding our nukes and shit??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:50 PM
12

So if you had a bottom tiered son, what would you tell him? That he’s the problem? That he needs to get a better personality, or a better face? It’s just remarkable to me to read these posts where the person doesn’t even attempt to put themselves in a different position. Okay you have a daughter, but what if you had a son? It’s easy to shit on internet neckbeards. But think about the dudes who are fairly normal but just losers, or ugly or whatever. I have a short ugly friend. He’s plenty nice, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:45 PM
1

Exactly!! They will welcome the surveillance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:10 AM
3

Idk what state you’re in, but parties and other sorts of gatherings have been broken up by the police constantly during the shutdown. Sure, they may not arrest someone for going outside, but if every business is closed they’re severely limited in what they can do. The provisions I’m talking about are restaurants, bars, theaters, basically everything man-made remaining closed and off limits for the foreseeable future. Next will be surveillance like the kind they’re doing in South Korea right now …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 08:58 PM
1

It’s truly remarkable how many people seem to get pleasure from being told what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 08:38 PM
1

I mean do you really want to argue that the government and big business don’t take advantage of people? I don’t see how that’s a stupid idea at all. The government almost never has benevolent motives
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 08:36 PM
0

Interesting. Why are they moronic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:57 PM
1

Yeah replace “young love” with “a healthy relationship with your father” or “having children” and you see how fucking mean-spirited this line of attack is! Imagine telling an infertile woman she isn’t entitled to having kids and needs to quit being a whiny bitch about it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:30 PM
1

It also helps that women by and large do not have this problem. They already hate unfuckable men so hearing their complaints about a problem they don’t have makes them intensely contemptuous
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:27 PM
7

It’s truly wild up here. Not shocked they want to give up their gun rights now. They seem almost contemptuous of freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:20 PM
3

Oh for sure! They just happen to be more spread out than other major cities (LA being the major exception!) so they have less corona risk. I very much see this becoming a culture war thing. Outside Texas the conservative states are too small to have an outsize impact on the behavior of little states. Look how much the policies in NY shaped the policies in much smaller places! If they stay closed, lots of other places will stay closed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:18 PM
2

Hell no! They’re just being drowned out. Never doubt the sheer power of the victim hood complex of feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:12 PM
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Your contempt is kinda hard to follow — you hate vegans and conservatives! But you seem anti-feminist! Yet you support the quarantine? What are you??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:12 PM
12

I’m not so confident. A few of the most conservative states will open, but the rest won’t, especially the major cities. There will always be another wave around the corner. The southern states generally have been more lax about the restrictions, but southerners are way way way more weary of government than anyone out west or up north. All of my friends where I live currently (big northeastern liberal city) are super committed to social distancing whereas all my southern friends resent the shutdo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:09 PM
5

Yes, young people are the biggest school marms on earth!! Everything is woke now! Sneaking out is considered bad and not tempting! Where have you been?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:07 PM
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It’s like these people forget that the end result of 9/11 was widespread warantless mass surveillance of American citizens, most of which is still in place!! In many ways the pandemic shit will be much worse because of the scientific element — anyone whos resistant to social distancing or other draconian measures will be labeled anti-science and crazy etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:05 PM
8

“Hey there! Want to me me, a strange man from the internet, alone in the park?” — I’m sure that line will make all the panties drop
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:01 PM
5

Can confirm as a southerner living in a liberal coastal city. All of my southern friends could give a shit about the virus and have been socializing as normal. Even dating. All of my friends up here have totally isolated themselves and aren’t doing anything
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:00 PM
3

The difference here is that the virus is transmitted from other people. It’s extremely easy to get large swaths of people scared of other people. If you tell the population going outside will cause them to catch a disease from some dirty “other”, you’d be surprised how quickly they’ll stay inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:58 PM
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It absolutely will! I think for people in rural and suburban areas, the change hasn’t been super dramatic, but if you live in any northeastern city you know how fucking weird this all is. Life in DC/NYC is totally unrecognizable from what it used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:56 PM
1

These people are totally deluded if they think life will be normal after this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:53 PM
3

R u kidding?? They want an endlessly supply of cheap, replaceable labor. That’s literally what they’re getting with this shutdown.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:52 PM
1

The Dow is doing quite well actually!! How was your trip to the store btw? Like a normal trip? Or really weird and filled with restrictions and people giving you suspicious looks??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:51 PM
1

The virus is here to stay though — there will always be another wave on the horizon that will justify a longer shutdown. And they’ll use economic data to justify the shutdown! There will never be a point where there isn’t another pandemic on the horizon that people will use to justify social isolation. Just the way it is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:50 PM
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Bingo I’m amazed people legitimately think it will ever return to normal. They seem to think businesses can just reopen magically no matter how long they’ve been closed, and that there will always be another pandemic around the corner that will be used to continue ridiculous social distancing measures
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:43 PM
21

Idk, the predominant mood on Reddit seems to be anyone who goes out right now or has a desire for the restrictions to end soon is a retard of the highest order. And it won’t matter if people want to go out if it’s illegal to do so. Or if businesses get fined or shutdown for having too many patrons. They’ve already moved college start dates back. They aren’t afraid to ban anything, and everyone seems happy to comply with whatever is thrown at them. I don’t think you’ll see what you say at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:42 PM
2

Sounds like extreme arrogance masquerading as humility. I like the term
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:59 PM
1

Wrong nothing is normal in the UK
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:02 PM
3

Brad?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:34 PM
2

Oh c’mon the titanic levels of self-pity you have are dragging you down big time. Men aren’t self-pitying. Plain and simple. Don’t complain about your status as a man when you’re acting like a b*tch
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 03:11 PM
1

Thank you for the apology, your immense sympathy is evident
/r/askFDS17/04/20 05:33 PM
1

Choking, slapping and spitting are also symbols of masculinity, so it would make sense why some straight women would like it. It also isn’t necessarily degrading — if me and my male friend do a slap contest, where neither of us passes out, have we both degraded ourselves? I think you’re spot on that no one should ever feel the need to be slapped or choked if they don’t like it just to please a man, but in no way is there one ideal way to have sex.
/r/askFDS17/04/20 05:27 PM
1

That’s fair. I fully agree with that assertion
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:44 PM
1

What is to be gained exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:28 PM
2

I’d disagree there entirely. Again, I very much doubt I’ll ever find fat women attractive, and it’s unclear to me why I’d ever need to?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:27 PM
2

I guess a better way of putting it would be that Women only desire men they consider exceptional. Basically, you’re right, but it doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:15 PM
2

I think we’re talking past each other. What does it matter if a guy is objectively a 6/10 if no woman will fuck him? I took the female commenter to mean “I won’t consider men who I don’t consider attractive, which is most men. You took her statement more literally, and perhaps you’re right, but even if you’re right it doesn’t matter for the issue at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:13 PM
3

Why would it need correcting? Beauty isn’t an objective standard — if women were only attracted to men 6’5” and above it wouldn’t be stupid or an injustice. Just the way the world works. I will never find fat women attractive no matter how high the average weight of women gets. I don’t care if I’m deluded for that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 02:06 PM
1

Isn’t it less beauty but rather perception of beauty that matters here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 11:26 AM
1

I personally think tribalistic thinking is silly, why not advocate on the principles alone? A woman is more likely to listen to other women anyways! Also, if it’s a matter of strength Shouldn’t us men focus on corralling the abusive men among us rather than protecting abused men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 10:56 AM
1

Because nagging is almost always motivated by pure personal preference, and the nagging types usually make it very obvious that their own comfort is the only thing that matters to them. Even more annoying, if you say that you prefer the current state of things (in your example, the boys enjoying living in a mess), you’ll be told you’re objectively incorrect or stupid or for believing that. Basically, it implies complete disrespect, oftentimes pure contempt; and no woman of value I ever dated did…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 10:16 AM
0

Think of average speed of 10 cars. 9 of the cars go 20mph, 1 goes 100mph. The average would be around 30 and only 10% of the cars are above average. So it could be that most men are below average. I’m willing to believe that. But I’m also willing to believe most women are pretty damn busted. The bleak truth of all of this is that many many men will be left out of the romantic game entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 10:11 AM
4

Why the hell would I make men getting beaten up by their girlfriend my dying passion?? Those monks think they’re saving their culture or country or their individual souls. Even most of the women who have dedicated their lives to feminist activism are strongly compelled to do so by their own self-interest. That’s the issue for men. There is literally nothing to be gained from sticking your neck out on men’s issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 10:04 AM
0

Frankly that’s because I think thinking in terms of whole genders is silly! Why would I have solidarity with other people of my gender? Gender is fake, and women’s “solidarity” is more like a skin deep knee-jerk reaction; they’ll talk about how much they love other women all day in the abstract, but they seem to have much less solidarity, and in fact outright hostility, towards certain women once they get to know them. Look at Tara Reade’s accusations against Joe Biden. She isn’t being believed …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 10:01 AM
3

The issue is that most people won’t see it as an innocent man speaking out to help an abused man — imagine if you walked up and saw two dudes confronting a woman, what would you think is happening? I might even be liable to assume that the dude who intervened was abusing the woman and the more quiet dude was the one who intervened but got overpowered by him, or visa versa. Also, let’s be frank, what are the social consequences for intervening as a man, even if you’re justified? I mean just telli…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 09:55 AM
4

What do you mean by “actual society at large”? I don’t doubt that believe all women is a minority idea, but in my experience very very few people condone men hitting women in any instance, especially domestically. Perhaps it’s a class or cultural thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 09:49 AM
2

How many thousands of women are killed by DV every year? I’m curious to know the number. It seems more and more that heterosexual relationships in modern thinking have an inherent inequality to them, they’re naturally unbalanced. Women will always have vastly more to fear physically, and men will always have vastly more to fear socially. Any sympathy for abused men ignores the vast physical differences between men and women and the resulting disparity in deaths from DV, minimizing female victims…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 09:45 AM
3

This is the correct answer — it’s just impossible for men who don’t get laid to understand because they’ve never had women hit on them consistently. Good looking men are mainly fending off average to ugly women and gay men, they’re not getting approached directly by 10s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 08:09 PM
2

This will really depend on the level of deception involved with both! Is the women using the man for his money his longtime wife that has fallen out of love but sticks around for a bit due to the money really anywhere close to a man who deliberately lies to a woman solely to fuck her? Or if you reverse the scenarios, is a man who dates an insane and abusive hot woman because he’s in love with her beauty and the sex worse than a woman who lies about being on BC to get pregnant with a rich man’s k…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:10 PM
0

I“Talking someone into something” is just persuasion. Women have to talk men to things all the time by that definition. I don’t consider that skummy. Although I don’t really believe a sex act both parties agree to can be considered degrading
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:17 AM
2

What I got from your (hilariously bitter) complaint was the attention women receive in their youths is undeserved because it’s based on looks alone, but the lack of attention they receive as they grow older, which is also based on looks alone, is a just outcome and well-deserved. Looks shouldn’t matter when they benefit women but should when they knock women down a peg. Who’s the one with a vendetta against an entire gender again?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:11 AM
1

I’m not making a value judgement at all. I suspect your opposition to their strategy and their bluntness/anger is clouding your judgment here and making you say things you don’t mean. Being a career driven woman doesn’t make you a better person. So even if you think they’re all bitches or entitled or whatever that doesn’t preclude them from being career-focused. In fact plenty of the bitchiest women I know are career-driven to a fault. Now, with that aside, would you expect women who want marria…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 11:07 PM
6

Realistically you’ll both be in the office til 7 and then have some work to finish up after that. Even with the world’s best daycare from 8am-7pm your kids are missing out on a relationship with their parents. It’s a sign of how far we’ve fallen as a society that day care is considered a substitute for raising your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 09:25 PM
8

Makes sense! I mean that’s how anything works in life. If you’re deficient in certain attractive qualities, you need to make up for it by maximizing your other attractive qualities. It’s the same concept as fat women needing to put out more to land dates that would otherwise pursue prettier women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 09:17 PM
1

That’s on the men who put up with that though! If there weren’t simps this wouldn’t be an issue. I can’t fault women who let men with no self-respect tend to their needs. They aren’t coercing those men into anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 09:14 PM
5

Not necessarily! The law school coupling thing is more a phenomenon of close proximity and the sheer workload of both law school and the legal profession. Considering how much lawyers work, if I were going down that path I’d worry that marrying a woman with a similarly time-intensive career would create a shitty environment for a kid to grow up in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 08:45 PM
3

Always fear bitchy bankers ? Amiable Frenchmen beat bastards?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 08:17 PM
-1

Yes I’ve seen lots of dudes trying to ignore the very real biological differences between men and women just as the rad fems do. Had a guy on here mad at me for suggesting women generally are far better caretakers for young children than men. Just as men are generally far better soldiers and firefighters due to our biological differences
/r/MensRights13/04/20 07:36 PM
1

I personally haven’t come across a woman who’s so horny she regularly watches porn to the extent it blurs her idea of what’s normal but also hasn’t had any real world experience. The reason men’s perceptions are so warped, especially at a young age, is that porn is their only access to the female body. A 16 year old girl that watches porn daily and gets off to the dude’s dicks but can’t get any real life action does not exist! What I think throws some women off is that every dude lies about his …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 07:06 PM
1

I’m a bit confused by this scenario. So 10% of men do all the fucking, but aren’t on the birth certificates of any of their children? They’re like sperm donors for every couple? Even in this scenario most women would want to have a semblance of a relationship, I can’t imagine a full 90% of women would be okay with being side pieces
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:55 PM
3

Violence in the home is the best predictor of criminality I believe. Single mothers whose children haven’t been exposed to violence would be better off than kids from an abusive two parent home
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:53 PM
0

Completely depends on the scenario but yes I absolutely would. Raising kids alone is hard and any woman who does it successfully is obviously a fairly extraordinary person. So if they are very good moms to their kids and level headed otherwise I don’t know why I would let the fact she has kids ruin my happiness. Of course her kid will come before you, but that’s exactly how I want my wife to be with my own kids!! If I dated a single mom who ignored her kid for me I would dump her instantly and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:50 PM
7

My buddy in law school has sent me screenshots of a few of his classmates Instagram stories that show them subbing to FDS and preaching how good it is. I’ve met a couple of women who knew about it but weren’t subscribers. It’s one of the very few women’s spaces that’s blunt and direct and it speaks to the concerns of feminist career-driven women who, much to their chagrin, have found that most men aren’t interested in being a traditional husband if their wife doesn’t want to be a traditional wif…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:45 PM
1

If post-gender-switch you still have all your memories of being the previous gender, then I think pretty much anyone would do better for themselves!! The entire difficulty of hetero dating is the chasm between men’s and women’s perceptions of what the other gender likes and wants and what makes them tick. That said I think I have a little bit of insight into how my looksmatch might feel because I get hit on by gay men incessantly and have been harassed by a few at pretty much every school and jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:38 PM
3

I mean yes — why would I not want to be as attractive to women as possible? I’m eventually looking to settle down and have a family and I want to make sure I have the best partner possible. I workout 6 days a week, eat healthy, cultivate hobbies, see friends, work on interpersonal skills and emotion regulation. It never hurts to level up. However, I think my and other men’s definition of HVM differ slightly from FDS’s definition. I’m not waiting 3 months to have sex with someone; they’ve proven …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:31 PM
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Yes but that isn’t their definition of HVM. High value doesn’t equate to high status. An FDSer would tell you it’s much better to date a less attractive but much more attentive man than a high status dude who treats you like shit. It gets tricky of course because FDS also advocates for only dating men you find genuinely attractive — and obviously for some women that’s going to push them towards dating high status men that act poorly rather than uglier, but much nicer men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:13 PM
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