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NAH, SISariesv123/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 08:59 PM
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Question For Menariesv123/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 06:30 AM
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Discussionariesv123/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 11:19 AM
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CMVariesv123/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 12:47 AM
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ADVICEariesv123/r/RedPillWomen18/08/19 07:26 PM
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CMVariesv123/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:18 PM
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Discussionariesv123/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 02:17 AM
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Question For Menariesv123/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 10:57 AM
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Question For Menariesv123/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 12:06 AM
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Question For Menariesv123/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 12:42 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYariesv123/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/19 07:02 PM
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RELATIONSHIPSariesv123/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 05:18 AM
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You’re constantly changing your argument and fail to see that you don’t even actually follow the Red pill properly. And this is coming from a woman that exclusively wants masculine men. You don’t keep your frame and show case this with weak arguments and flip flopping. Red pill encourages that whatever you say, it shouldn’t be bullshit because than that leaves you a weak man and women can easily sniff that out. You often bring up “what a man REALLY does” instead of worrying about your own shit a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 08:03 PM
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Read over what I said again EVEN WITH LUBE the vagina won’t relax and that causes tearing and extreme discomfort Also once again, if you’re disregarding her pleasure it’s more than likely that she isn’t getting any!! Women need lots of emotional and mental prep and obviously not getting that is literally what Sex God method says. No prep=lack of pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 07:56 PM
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Lack of pleasure=/pain If you understood female anatomy in the slightest you’d know that those things ALMOST ALWAYS go in hand. If you’re not enjoying it, you’re not gonna be lubricated enough and even with lube, your vagina won’t relax and that causes tearing and extreme discomfort
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 07:50 PM
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I said that men more at risk of being cheated on perform more cunnilingus And I’m pointing that that’s a flaw in the study, because the study equated a more attractive partner to more likely to being cheated on. This is an assumption that doesn’t hold a lot of weight and makes the ethos of the study very poor. It would hold more weight if they screened for their partners having any tendencies that would make them more likely to cheat, like dark triad personality traits. They didn’t though, they …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 07:29 PM
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Your own study goes against your argument. If you read it properly, men performed more oral sex on their partner based on how attractive their partner was. That “risk of infidelity” is just having a hot gf. It’s not linked to any behavior that could deem the female as having a higher tendency to go through with cheating. You proposed your argument like as if you say that the oral sex made a woman more likely to cheat. He was still rough fucking chicks The study you provided mentions this was mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 04:15 PM
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In fact more men that are more at risk of infidelity, perform oral sex I want a source on that one, pal. Also back to the original question, TRP doesn’t teach you how to be good at sex. Good sex is enjoyable sex, and obviously the women isn’t going to enjoy it following the Sex God Method. It’s pretty much fantasy writing. By arguing that “this is what women really want” you’re still giving a sense that there’s purpose in making the female partner like the sex that she’s having with you. The Sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 11:34 AM
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Grung usually raped her. Also it’s funny to assume that these women were even orgasming in the first place. Wanna go back to evolutionary examples? Men provided food for their family’s that they barely got to see (cause obviously you’re hunting all day) and fucking died
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 11:27 AM
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Just completely ignore the second part of my comment. Once again, besides threat of pregnancy, there isn’t much benefit of casual sex to women in most cases
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 02:59 PM
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It’s a fake internet point, chill out. Once again, that doesn’t change the fact that casual sex in general doesn’t really serve women. Even with protection used, there’s a better guarantee that you won’t orgasm, which defeats most of the purpose of casual sex. In fact, many women use it as a form of self-mutilation
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 02:47 PM
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Ah yes, because birth control is 100% , every single woman can take it, and condoms are indestructible /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 02:36 PM
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I like feeling more FEMININE to my ROMANTIC PARTNER. In other cases where it does not benefit me, no I do not want to be seen as smaller and weaker
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 07:40 AM
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If they have power, it’s bad. Especially if that “look or witty comment” isn’t enough to stop their harassment. What next from there?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 07:32 AM
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I understand the reason someone wants to do this, but it could easily go south and honestly it brings up questions of privacy rights. The intention is probably to avoid running into crazy, but now you’ve got some random bozo tryna blackmail you with that hentai you voice-acted for back in 2003
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 07:30 AM
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You think rich people care about the sanctity of marriage? Lots of billionaires have multiple divorces. That’s not the type of thing rich people care about when looking at a person’s image
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 07:28 AM
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This is simply an illusion. These toxic men are just able to point out dumb/low self esteem girls and jump from one to the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 07:19 AM
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The guy isn’t the one carrying a kid and experiencing all the pain and bodily changes lolol or having to go through an abortion, also if he’s that dedicated to not wanting the kid he can simply skip town. On the other hand, he might not even know he knocked someone up if it was a stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 06:59 AM
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I don’t do casual sex. But those are all a risk for women for engaging in casual sex, even if they do “everything right”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 06:43 AM
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of course it’s not, but in the terms of casual sex, there’s more likely to be little benefit. STD’s, pregnancy, sexual violence, and there isn’t even a good chance they’ll atleast get an orgasm out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 06:11 AM
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Women are human and humans often engage in behavior thats mostly harmful for them just so they can experience the few joys they might get from it. I.E. Alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 06:08 AM
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If the goal is to pleasure the woman, they’re completely failing by following that. The writer is writing in his selfish fetish and passing it as a help guide. And these low self esteem men take it as a Bible
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 06:25 PM
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Ah yes, a man telling women what they “actually want”. If these men knew what they were doing, they wouldn’t need TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 06:20 PM
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The Sex God method quite literally starts at not caring about her pleasure though, just forcing her to accept it until she willingly just lets it happen to appease you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 04:13 PM
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I take control of everything in my life so it’s nice to have someone else lead for once, but in a nonaggresive way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 04:08 PM
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literally only three of those things are objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 04:07 PM
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I’m wondering how a person would go about getting the evidence to prove a false claim. Probably from a second party or something. TW:Anyways the backlash that comes from reporting a rape is what stops women from reporting in the first place. First there’s societal, a lot of people wont believe you or if they do there’s a good chance that they just straight up blame you for it happening. Especially if you’re accusing a well-liked person. There’s also a chance that people just sweep it under the r…
/r/PussyPassDenied08/03/21 05:40 PM
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A lot of women that do tell the truth already have to deal with all the negatives :(
/r/PussyPassDenied08/03/21 05:14 PM
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I can second this. Happened to me twice, both females, and nothing really came of it
/r/PussyPassDenied07/03/21 01:24 PM
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why are you calling pedophiles MAPs? you’re literally normalizing it by calling it that
/r/PussyPassDenied07/03/21 01:23 PM
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They’re constant looking at/for the next best thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 09:31 AM
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Because just a few years ago, having a big butt was seen as such a big insult and was the most terrible thing. Now people get surgery for it. Also for example: dark skin (now people fake tan like crazy), thin eyes/“fox eyes” (somehow people just forgot that asians were getting made fun of that not too long ago), big lips
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 09:23 AM
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It’s funny cause with my generation (Gen Z) it’s coming back 😂 for example, Ph1girl is proudly going towards that look
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 09:20 AM
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They definitely separate sex from love See: Madonna Whore complex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 09:19 AM
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You think a majority of women in college are getting by because of this? Sincerely?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 09:19 AM
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I think it’s just the case of self sabotage. “It’s too good to be true, it’s bound to go bad at some point.” And in their cynicism, they end up speeding up that process and in most cases CREATING that outcome. I’m currently struggling with not doing this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:09 PM
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. It’s like a neck beard telling other men how they should handle relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:07 PM
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Not at all, women’s sexuality is deeper than just attraction. It’s mental as well
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:46 AM
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Honestly I’m in the same boat, I want to get married but when I think about it realistically, there’s honestly no reason. Financially, you can get all the same benefits as long as you just live with person. Emotionally, it doesn’t really mean anything cause divorce and that’s a hellstorm to go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:42 AM
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That’s a good question. I wasn’t expecting that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:40 AM
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Personally I assume they just want a person, as long as they aren’t being difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:40 AM
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Honestly with girls my age, it’s just a whole lot of bullshit. With tiktok, you think that girls have a million requirements and won’t settle for anything less, but a good majority of them still date questionable creatures just because they give her feels. None of it means anything. The REAL bullshit is all the dumb ass mind games. Both genders don’t wanna come off as too desperate so they literally refuse to communicate and instead just post sad bart simpson edits with some nonsense that XXXten…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:40 AM
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A person can reject anyone for any reason and there will never be anything wrong with, only how it’s done
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:37 AM
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No? It’s sorta cute! As long as it doesn’t make them cringey than it’s fine
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 03:36 AM
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That’s one of my biggest fears when it comes to possibly having a family in America in the future. It’s one of my main goals but I do despise that there’s no “village culture” here. Where I was literally born here but my ACTUAL culture has that village culture. My parents came here to America and now there’s no village. All of her energy and youthfulness has been sucked out of her because of it. My dad always complains about her child-like happiness and love for play is completely gone and “men …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 03:28 AM
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I care
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 12:32 PM
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Good point made
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 02:40 AM
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Nah, it’s not that deep. If she’s an attractive woman, than lots of guys are trying to get with her. People have lives, there’s no reason to entertain every single man that makes advancements towards you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 02:32 AM
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In all seriousness, that is such a charming saying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 03:23 AM
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I like all races
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:11 AM
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Yea but black women are out at the very bottom
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:01 AM
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No but i’m all seriousness, people care way more about what a woman is doing. Who she hangs out with, how she dresses, who she’s dating, when she goes out. A lot of parents don’t consider this stuff when it comes to a boy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:13 PM
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I hear it time and time again from both genders. Even my current boyfriend has roasted me about it. In terms of looks, people say I date way down
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:08 PM
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Idkkkk, I’ve seen some really cringey and questionable creatures pull girls my age
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:06 PM
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Yes, that’s my answer. I want to be treated as the feminine counterpart and being pretty makes me feel feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:05 PM
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Used to participate but now I realize a lot of this stuff is nit picky with not a lot of real life nuance. 18F, in a relationship, and purple pill
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:58 PM
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Prompt: Tell me you’re bitter with out saying you’re bitter. Go eat some apple sauce and prune juice, oldie
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:55 PM
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You know how rewarding it is to finally talk about something you were afraid to say/admit/come to terms with? And when you finally do, you get love and support. You expected ridicule and shame but instead youre met with open arms and feeling of closeness and deeper understanding with who you shared that information with
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 07:09 PM
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Exactly! So many men on this sub seems to miss that. They assume vulnerability only in detrimental amounts. Vulnerability is healthy because it shows that you recognize your problems and you’re not running away from them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 05:17 PM
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best way to describe it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 04:40 PM
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That’s the whole point of vulnerability. High risk, high reward
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 04:40 PM
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Female physical attraction isn’t fully equitable to how the guy looks, so that’s something to keep in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 04:39 PM
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Exactly, being a rape victim of any gender is hard unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 02:29 AM
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Expectation but after some time it became a natural desire. I like the I am perceived and treated when deemed as an attractive woman. Men just never seem to understand that you’re literally invisible in every single setting if you aren’t considered attractive in any way. Atleast an ugly guy can get recognition for his work or skill, but this is not the case for women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 02:24 AM
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yea it just seems like she’s trying to be playful but is falling short
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 03:34 PM
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I think that’s a real problem that lead to actual cases of sexual harassment and what not.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 03:24 PM
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lolol “that’s what’s up”
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 01:47 AM
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Yea no, though I get some harassment every now and then, I much more prefer when a guy approaches in person
/r/seduction29/01/21 06:31 PM
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Yea it’s just a white savior complex. This isn’t a new truth to any POC, you’re late. But the title is just so brazen that I can’t take you seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 07:35 PM
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Colorism is scientifically real
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:43 AM
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This is obviously satire, come on now. Yeesh, Poe’s Law is very evident on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:42 AM
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The clothing thing is so stupid. We literally have countries were women are covered head to toe but rape still exists there. Kids still get raped and they wear dumb shit that says “lady’s man” and “unicorn fanatic”. It literally does not matter
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:41 AM
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I’m sorry but the title actually made me laugh. Please tell me this is ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:39 AM
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unfortunately, I don’t think it would. We literally have free porn and you can easily find prostitutes but yet people still rape, people still go for children, people still creep. I don’t think it would matter what outlets were provided
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:31 AM
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There’s a BIG DIFFERENCE between a mommas boy and someone who simply has a good relationship with their mom
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:21 AM
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Something that you want isn’t always what you need, and once you get what you need, you’ll be very happy that you’ve found it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:19 AM
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Thank you being realistic instead of just making it a gender issue
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:19 AM
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I’m fully black and I came out pale as snow with wavy hair. I was told that you can usually tell how dark the baby will be later on by their ears
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:18 AM
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Because men and women generally value each other for different things
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:15 AM
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I really don’t meet a lot of men that actually want to fulfill the role of the responsibilities that a traditional man would have. They just want submission without holding up their end
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:14 AM
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I like when he sets healthy unspoken boundaries, I like to feel feminine so I love when he holds me a bit closer when walking through the city or isn’t afraid to flirt with me in front of friends. It makes me feel very cared for and desired and he isn’t being an asshole for doing any of these things
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:10 AM
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Yea, why not? Who wants to be with someone they aren’t attracted to? Also, people should still be fine as individuals even if they are in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:08 AM
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This is the biggest thing for me, but when I say it people think I’m being misogynistic. The sexual revolution and casual sex benefits men the most and it has for the longest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:03 AM
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Fantasy. Quick access to sex with little effort
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:00 AM
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I’m young so not too sure about “in love” so to say- but a feeling of security. I don’t have to question or doubt anything he may say to me, but I can gaurantee that atleast he’ll make me laugh or I know for a fact that he likes my cooking. Lust- SMELL. It’s such a big thing for me, certain physical features. Their laugh, their body movement (also a big one for me). Do they make me feel feminine, either in a motherly nurturing sense or something that is being protected sense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 08:58 AM
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It’s somewhat an expression of a person and what they’re into, or atleast just what they’re comfortable wearing and how it affects them. I do pay attention to it cause I may think a guy is super attractive, but I won’t go for it if I can tell “yea this dude cares way more for his looks than I do, that may possibly be a turn off for him” and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 08:54 AM
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I think it’s due to the fact that women tend to meet and see way too many men like this, even in their adolescence. “Not all men, but too many”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 08:53 AM
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I feel like there would be a lot more fake and forced friendships
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 08:50 AM
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Just because a person isn’t conventionally attractive doesn’t mean that they aren’t attractive period
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 08:49 AM
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Honestly, it’s most likely not about the rejection of sex but more as a rejection of them (it sounds similar but it isn’t completely). It’s well known that women could get sex if they want, so the fact that they’re turned down when they offer something that a lot of men want, they see it as “damn they must really dislike something about me if they’re rejecting those advances”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 08:47 AM
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This is a big one. Halo effect is real
/r/PussyPassDenied20/01/21 12:13 AM
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It would very much bother you. An unhealthy marriage affects a child VERY heavily. Even if the parents don’t fight, they aren’t stupid. Children are very receptive to emotion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 05:43 PM
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I think it’s because they’ve been there and done that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 05:40 PM
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Personally I think about it in terms of health or something
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 05:38 PM
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If a person had the ability to literally pick genetics from a catalog, of course they’d pick the best. The best genetics don’t just appear in your every day life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 05:23 PM
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I’m very into the smell of a guy I may be interested in dating. If I don’t like his natural scent than it’s always 100% a bust
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 05:17 PM
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-Stable family or atleast a civil relationship with family -similar education level or a career of any sort -bilingual (I’m polyglot and it’s just something I prefer for a myriad of reasons) -relationship is much like a friendship + kisses -has his own friends/hobbies and doesn’t mind sharing those with me -child of immigrants and also a person of color (doesn’t matter which race) -healthy attitude towards sex + fairly high sex drive -shows desire outside of sexual instances -someone that my par…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 05:01 PM
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No, but it depends on my life stage. I’m only 18 so I’m definitely not equipped to raise a kid or one that isn’t even my own. At this age I don’t really know how to properly fit myself in as a stepmom. When I’m older (like 30’s) I’d probably consider it, but the question would be if the guy would consider having more kids with me down the line. Not having children is a deal breaker and if they already have some, there’s a good chance they don’t want more/won’t have that first baby excitement wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 04:51 PM
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They shouldn’t get married if they have a struggling bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:15 AM
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I’d like to consider myself one, but I used to be a not cute girl, which explains why I used to spend so much time on reddit in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:25 AM
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I used to come here a lot when I was 16 cause I genuinely cared but now Im just here when i’m bored now that I’m at the age the red pillers dread: college years and seeing how true everything is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:02 AM
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Yes, I miss having a boyfriend for this reason. Just hugging them and smelling their hair
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:59 AM
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Water is wet. Blaxk pill exists for both men and women and most people are aware of it, even without knowing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:53 AM
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She’s delusional. As newly weds, the two of them shouldn’t be able to keep their hands off each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:47 AM
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Physical standards, probably but relationship wise they SHOULD raise their standards. Too often they just go for whatever woman will give them attention but don’t really care if they respect them at all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 05:10 AM
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I guess we’re in the same boat bud. Also “not being interested” in a person doesn’t equal being rude to them. Dunno where you got that idea
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 11:40 PM
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I think only assholes do that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 11:36 PM
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It means that my school is mostly white people. So I think they may not be willing to step out their comfort zone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 11:05 PM
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There’s mostly white guys in the area but I don’t get swipes in general
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 10:29 PM
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idk dude, i’m just tryna make myself laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 04:58 PM
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if I had an extra leg you already know it would be a whole baseball bat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 04:55 PM
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I seriously wouldn’t be here if I didn’t have any problems, but I do. Most people always comment that I’m outgoing and genuinely funny (which I really appreciate), but I try to be self aware of any of my flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 03:37 PM
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I’ve been doing that since forever 😭 but at the same time, it doesn’t work over there and it doesn’t work over here either
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 03:13 PM
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You certainly can’t get the best if you say stuff like the original comment. A girl who values herself won’t give something important to you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 02:37 PM
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Nah I don’t think of myself that way, that’s what I’ve experienced. It’s shitty to say but girls that were really bitchy and not all that attractive still get more attention, that’s what I mean. Also I accept that I won’t be everyone’s cup of tea, that’s just how humans work
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 02:36 PM
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guys my age don’t really want that, unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 02:28 PM
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you’re weird for that one, bud. Not worthy of some girl’s virginity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 02:26 PM
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Yea but are you lighter skinned? Colorism plays a heavy part in it. i’m not overweight, quite fit actually at 116lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 02:15 PM
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The thing is that when i’m UBC, even my looksmatches completely overlook me. When i’m alone I think I’m fine. Funny enough the first time I’ve ever been approached was last week, and it was a really handsome black football player that came to talk to me because he saw I was sitting alone in the dining area. He lost interest when I told him was 18 though, which I actually respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 02:13 PM
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That should be the issue, but so far the issue has been getting to meet any guy that’s interested
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 01:59 PM
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I’m constantly meeting new people because I do a lot of extracurriculars. I’ve met lots of guys that have explicitly or indirectly said that they aren’t open to BW if they have brown dark skin, but they’re open to light skins or mixed girls. The phrase “sorry, I’m not into black girls” isn’t new or shocking to me anymore. For example last week, I guess a guy thought I was interested and he made a point that he doesn’t like dark skin, and this guy was super shy and I always see him eating alone. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 01:55 PM
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It sounds bad but I’m open to literally almost anyone as long as they don’t have major character flaws. I don’t specifically go for white guys, but I already sorta dress the part because once again, I’ve always been to schools that were predominantly white. I’ve met so many people in the past few weeks that it’s crazy and I honestly love it, but I’ve already had experiences of guys that I barely even just met already making digs at me for being the ugly friend (once again, check profile. I’m not…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 01:50 PM
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nah I don’t get any messages at all, despite swiping on everyone and only avoiding profiles that specifically ask for hookups, joke profiles, and those that are boldly fed up with life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 01:40 PM
1

Unfortunately it’s the same either way :/. Black women are usually put as a bottom preference, even if they are attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 01:38 PM
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Atleast where I’m from, the interest is expressed. I’m pretty sure the only media you’re looking at where the black women explicitly say that they don’t like white guys are the ones that focus on the stereotype of black women being loud and hyper sexual. I’m also from PA and the college is a big ten in the middle of butt-fuck-nowhere, so it would make sense that the guys want someone that look like them or they’re used to. That’s understandable. The pain comes from being treated like you’re only…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 01:36 PM
3

this is actually really great advice! football is huge here so that’s a good angle, and there’s a golf course nearby. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 01:27 PM
1

Pretty on my own, but ugly in a group. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 01:19 PM
3

Everyone has their own tastes, but you say it like it’s a bad thing if i’m not interested in someone I don’t find physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 01:05 PM
2

but im not though and i’ve noticed that even in the times I am, barely any response. The guys up here (atleast the ones that are actively looking for girls) all commonly want the same look of girl
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 12:54 PM
2

ew no, please no simps. That’s the worst idea ever
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 12:46 PM
3

I’m fit already so that’s a plus, but no tits. I’m pretty but the thing is that my pretty face is still considered less than an ugly white girl’s face here, which honestly sucks. Hate it here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 12:41 PM
0

I mean this is just anecdotal, so take with a grain of salt
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 12:38 PM
4

Also simps aren’t enjoyable to be around. Like kissing-ass is just really annoying behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 12:35 PM
2

I have no idea where this comes from tbh. I just hope that’s the case but I sincerely hate always having to make the first move of talking to a guy. Also I sorta doubt that’s the case nowadays, because in my group of friends guys always prefer the white girls and white latinas
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 12:29 PM
0

I wouldn’t be asking this question if this actually worked
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 12:22 PM
1

It means that my school is mostly white
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 12:19 PM
2

pfft I wish. I seem to be the only woman without this happening to them, but then again i’m black and go to a PWI, so i’m not exactly a hot commodity here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 07:34 AM
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Problem: no friends and they few I do have are actually hot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 07:28 AM
22

That’s what i’m thinking, obviously this tactic wouldn’t work the same for a girl because most guys don’t want to think about how many dudes have been there before them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 06:35 AM
10

Calm down sir
/r/PussyPassDenied08/08/20 02:50 AM
1

I’ve never been put in any situation to even bring up n-count, because I feel like it’ll have men view me a certain way. For jokes, reference to the line from The Breakfast Club.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:47 PM
2

I mean if that’s your cope?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 07:15 PM
1

I’ve also seen the opposite. I go to a church with a lot of traditionally people that I’ve grown up with. Some of these women were virgins when they got married to their first bf, but end up with that dead look after one kid only a year into the marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 06:44 PM
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Nah I have an answer based on a guess. Once again, I simply don’t know if they sleep around, but they seem like they would (because they’re flirty by nature) so I gave an answer based on that. You’re also admitting that there’s simply just no accurate way to guess if a woman has a high n count or not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 06:41 PM
3

This can happen after just one encounter, or even in her first
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 11:46 AM
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I’ll humor you. What kind of taste indicate what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 11:45 AM
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Nah my position is that their friend’s behavior may not be an indicator of their own behaviors. Yes they do, but once again that doesn’t mean that I or another friend has a high n count
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 11:45 AM
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What i’m trying to say is I don’t know what they’re doing at every hour of the day when we aren’t hanging out or talking. That’s normal
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 11:38 AM
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no we’re all like 18-20 and my friend group is mixed between boys and girls. Some of us are couples well others aren’t. The ones that aren’t coupled idk what they do in their spare time but we know they’re really flirty. And then you have people like me in the friend group who have only had sex with one person and kissed two. Only one of those wasn’t a peck
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 11:35 AM
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I mean this is essentially what I mean. That’s a guess. I know from my group of friends that we’re all different the only thing we have in common is that we like to spend time with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 11:31 AM
2

nah I believe the same thing. Anything higher than three is someone I don’t want
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 11:12 AM
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I understand why people say those things in sarcasm, but it still doesn’t hold much water. When women talk about their experiences, there as just as many people calling them all sorts of things and discrediting their experiences, but there are also people who encourage and support them. It’ll be the same way for men. Don’t let things deter you from speaking your truth
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 11:10 AM
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That also means that they won’t be spared the potential consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 11:08 AM
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As someone who recently turned 18 and that somehow opened up the floodgates, it made me feel pretty unsafe or that if I made the wrong move or just mouthed off to the wrong person, I could end up seriously hurt. Also it’s normal for humans to catch glances, but if a person is straight up staring than it’s different. Most people feel pretty uncomfortable when a stranger is staring at them in general, so idk why it’s any different if a person is staring at my body specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 11:07 AM
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Idk dude, I’ve seen a lot of girls my age go absolutely gaga for dudes that put in the bare minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 11:05 AM
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We’re able to overcome our biology to a certain extent through something called 💖self control💖 If I date a man in the future and he has a high body count, than it’s a no for me on a myriad of reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 11:04 AM
2

I find it really flattering
/r/seduction13/07/20 04:05 AM
1

Not really no, which used to really frustrate me, but the quality of the sex has then increased so it makes up for things. He does express a desire to make it happen for me, but otherwise it really doesn’t bother him
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 05:23 PM
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yes and I’m that party. He does actually try and therefore it’s really satisfying, even without me being able to orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 05:14 PM
1

yea, we’ve been active for like three years now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 04:52 PM
3

Idk the normal way? My boyfriend hasn’t been able to but i’m still head over heels for him
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 04:02 PM
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I’m not sure but all the relationships I’ve been in, it’s the guys who wanted to make things as serious as possible, as fast as possible. You could argue that it’s an abundance thing, but every one of them were older than me and had way more girlfriends and partners
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 03:17 PM
1

What if you’re in the habit of having several long term relationships (as a woman)?
/r/seduction09/06/20 05:47 PM
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They’re just normal looking women and just one nude. I feel like OP doesn’t know what women look like
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 11:09 PM
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Yea I actually 100% agree with that. From the beginning you can tell she’s serious about her career especially when she said “this guy is blowing off his school work, he’s going no where”. I think in this situation it’s justified because once again, she had her own thing going on. What would a doctor be doing with a guy that got kicked out of school and now can’t find a job. I think it’s different from all the average girls that hated their then boyfriend but suddenly came to be super affectiona…
/r/BlackPillScience30/03/20 03:00 PM
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Great comment! From what I understand they both have really demanding careers and it simply makes sense why they would need a date night because for the careers they have, work always comes home. Doctors have to constantly dedicate their time to their patients plus it also just as stressful working with sick and possibly dying kids. Stress won’t allow you to carry a brand new pregnancy but once they went through, they had a second child not long after. Almost what would be considered immediately…
/r/BlackPillScience30/03/20 02:17 PM
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Can you please link the home video of Marc and his wife? I haven’t really seen anything where they may dislike each other. Yea they’re both kinda awkward but they seem to actually love each other. And they met in Harvard, she’s a doctor. Not really betabuxxing if they met before the money and she already had her own thing going on
/r/BlackPillScience30/03/20 05:44 AM
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in a job that requires a person to simply save a life (they don’t need to use their morality or something, they need to save the life regardless) it would make no sense for them to apply such a rule. Something like police work would make more sense
/r/PussyPassDenied02/03/20 08:26 PM
1

I have a friend that’s only studying abroad here in America because his parents wanted him to stop playing video games. He had an addiction though, and he admits to it too. So I guess video games can ruin a relationship if it takes up more time than not.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/20 07:14 PM
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A rational person would only give the ultimatum if the video games take up more time than shared quality time. Or better yet, they’d just break up with them instead
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/20 07:12 PM
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She’s just complaining about life in general. I have the same dreams as her as a woman, but I ‘need’ to go to college in order to BARELY afford those kids in the first place
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/20 05:15 PM
1

okay but the gentle pulling in by the waist thing is so subtle but I usually find that kind if touch to be hot, good job dude!
/r/seduction31/12/19 09:29 PM
1

Yea I can agree with this. I know how emotional I am so actively avoid doing casual things/things too early
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 02:46 PM
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I lurk here all the time, the stuff is interesting but doesn’t apply to me since i’m not in the dating scene and I’ve never done any sort of casual thing
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 02:44 PM
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honestly this should be pinned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 01:45 PM
4

yea 100%, like I said. It’s complete cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 04:38 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with having interests regardless to if I share or understand them, but shoving it in people’s faces like that is so cringey omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 03:30 PM
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but I feel those the site of incels.co isn’t the same as a pressure release but becomes that echo chamber instead
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 05:46 PM
1

as a woman I highly agree. I believe that adults need to have that comrade and I feel like society tries to say that you can and only find that friendship in a romantic partner, which is nice but that isn’t true. Male loneliness is a really big problem that affects all of us. I want our men to be just as happy as women can be
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 05:35 PM
1

tbh it seems like fear of rejection to me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 05:33 PM
1

lolol i’m not referring to myself, I don’t have any personal experience with these kinds of men. I’ve only really been in good relationships, i’m referring to what seems to be the norm once a couple gets married. For some reason things shift
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 05:28 PM
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Tbh don’t both sides tell white lies? Who cares, it’s such a menial thing. The same exact thing can be said for men, I don’t see how it’s bad? People don’t wanna seem shallow, it’s human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 05:26 PM
1

You realize that you literally just restated what I already said in that exact comment you’re replying to, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 05:22 PM
1

Tbh for those that don’t want children, I can kind of see why they’d want marriage (just for the symbolism, I guess. I won’t yuck anyone’s yum) but I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 05:21 PM
1

seems to be so, the different perspectives both agree that marriage is a burden for them in some way
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 05:18 PM
1

thank you for giving an ACTUAL argument, I applaud that much
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 05:16 PM
1

quite literally. I feel bad for any air headed woman that lets him stick it in her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 05:13 PM
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ikr, so that means the wife has to pick up the slack. When they don’t do it, everything doesn’t just disappear or some shit. I like how this exactly proves what i’m saying. because they don’t see it as their responsibility they don’t even think about “who’s going to get it done, than?”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 05:12 PM
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it’s the stupid third wave feminism that has to scream “look men!!! we don’t care about you!! that’s why we’re going out of our way to say it!!” lolol most normal people just do it without needing a pat on the back
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 05:10 PM
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I really didn’t deny that work is important. What I said is that women do almost everything plus work. You’re worried about appreciation now reverse that for a women that makes sure the house isn’t an unlivable pigsty and doesn’t even get a thank you. The woman works too pal, not just you. You just aren’t taking on even half of the workload edit; also i’ve never been treated badly by a man or dated someone useless, I don’t need to have a bad experience to be wary of marriage. Not every girl is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 05:07 PM
1

i’m assuming the “for men” is silent on the first sentence. It seems to benefit men more than women. The only drawback is in case a divorce happens
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 05:05 PM
1

lolol check the edit, but congrats on being functional!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 05:03 PM
2

That’s honestly very true. It’d be like asking a goldfish what it’s like climbing a tree😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:59 PM
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True, but atleast it’s only herself she has to worry about. When you add on more people it’ll quickly become hard to juggle and the plates have to drop at some point. When single they only have to worry about themselves plus they get that freedom
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:58 PM
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This proves you’ve never had to do these things with kids on your hands. It’s a constant run around plus you do these things constantly because there’s no “shifts” or “breaks”. It’s high intensity the entire time. Along with that, your husband doesn’t even appreciate it, atleast your wife appreciates the money made. Along with that, most moms aren’t even stay at home, so she works as well as does everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:56 PM
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Those chores are things that kind of are required to be a certain way. The constant cleaning is just to keep the house at a medium, because it’s well known that with kids, the house will always be some level of a pigsty. If you don’t keep it under control than it’s very quick to have an accident by simply tripping on something and now you might kick the bucket lolol. It’s realized that the house will never be 100% clean with kids around. Women and men both lose that freedom unfortunately, but it…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:53 PM
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yea I think that’s a big one, the main argument i’m seeing is “in cases of divorce”. Like they get a lot of benefits from marriage but the wife may snap one day and leave because they’re doing all the heavy lifting, and honestly that’s plausible. Most people hate their job if they have to take on almost all responsibility with little to no recognition or reward
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:49 PM
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I didn’t deny that? Like I said, in marriage they lose the same things but she gets more in case they divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:47 PM
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Once again, if the woman is taking on so much of all this, she wouldn’t be able to relax enough to have or want sex. Regardless of gender, stress kills the libido. And let us not forget that the archetype of a bachelor is often put into a glorious light, but a part of it is not having proper meals, or a clean place due to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:45 PM
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Argument still stands. The woman takes on a good majority of almost all household chores in order for the house to function. The woman doesn’t get almost any freedom because she has to make sure everything is done. It’d be better for women to be single as well
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:41 PM
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Those are things that are needed for a household to function, doesn’t mean that it’ll help the marriage any. If those chores aren’t done than everyone suffers and she’s left to pick up the slack. You can’t put almost everything on one person and expect them to be content with some kisses or whatever by the end of the day. Marriage should be equal for both
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:40 PM
0

the wife loses the same things, the only argument is that she gets more in case they divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:38 PM
0

but also along with that, even before they could work they still had to do almost everything, they just didn’t have to fix things or get a job, but everything was still on them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:37 PM
3

if she just stops than everyone suffers, that’s the thing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:36 PM
1

I think it just tends to happen, because if a woman started to focus so much on the childcare, it naturally just happens
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:36 PM
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so it’s the same either way, but now they add on an extra kid (the husband) because she has to manage his stuff too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:27 PM
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sorry but i don’t like this. Can we not romanticize this kind of stuff, because this is what creates stalkers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 07:18 PM
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actually it’s based on a true story! The girl stopped to help the guy with his sick dog and she ended up getting kidnapped for years and even had his kid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 08:13 PM
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Ever since I saw the movie ROOM (with the actress that plays as Cpt. Marvel, she’s actually a good actress just not cut out for action movies) I’ve tried to hammer into myself that I don’t have to be polite all the time. Now I have to tell my younger brother that because he almost got robbed last time because he was so set on being nice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 02:14 PM
2

My guy wasn’t my boyfriend at the time of making this comment, we had been apart for 3 months and he was still trying to make the relationship work. I’m taking big steps back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 01:22 PM
1

This is actually really great advice
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/19 01:13 PM
1

does anyone have any advice on how to deflect that “damn I wish I didn’t fuck up” after you call them out? My guy does that SO often to me. At this point I KNOW it’s just a way to make me feel bad and he doesn’t sincerely mean any of that shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 02:57 AM
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does anyone have any advice on how to deflect that “damn I wish I didn’t fuck up” after you call them out? My guy does that SO often to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 02:54 AM
4

how’d you meet the law grad?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 03:46 PM
1

yea because a dude with a small penis is automatically prevented from learning how to be a better partner
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 03:52 AM
1

If it’s something you know you don’t want, than it’s better to break it off. Allowing it when you’re not 100% okay with it will kill you from the inside out.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/19 07:38 PM
3

Words are easy to say. If he were red pilled, what he is doing is filling you with dread. It’s fine to have female friends but you don’t seem to be priority
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/19 12:43 PM
8

Good advice! Duelly, bring condoms yourself too! Male and possibly a female condom as well! Than there’s no excuse for him!! Don’t fuck someone that only cares about getting off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/19 04:28 PM
2

that’s literally the same thing that you were complaining about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 01:07 PM
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you completely ignored the second half. The proposal itself was low quality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 12:36 PM
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I think that’s the point of this post. Obviously having a lot of standards and boundaries will close you off to A LOT of people, but not everyone finds it a bad thing nor do they really care. If a person wants to have certain standards that p much closed them off from 80% sum of the population, it’s really fine. The only time when it’s stupid to get butthurt are the people who don’t fit the standard but want the chance and the person that set those standards being upset that most people don’t me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 10:12 AM
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yea i’m not fond of that one either, but I think the rest is okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 10:00 AM
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i’m 17 and the dating pool is already like this :y A lot of the good ones seem to be taken. Either that or fools’ gold shines just as much :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/19 06:28 PM
1

but women also have a wider range of what makes a guy attractive. For a lot of guys, if the girl isn’t physically attractive than it’s a bust from the beginning, but for girls physical attraction is something that can grow as an afterfact
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 12:41 AM
2

Thank you, I really appreciate that, but I know it’s kind of idealist to assume it’s always a case of just “waiting for the one to come along”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 11:23 PM
1

Some women wanna have dinner dates with chads. What’s more popular is manga which feature the shy nerdy guy, or the guy that gets picked on because no one sees how great he is. Either way they’re fantasy, dude. Not every woman is interested in romance novels and not every dude is interested in POV porn. They aren’t proper representations of what the majority of people want. Romance novels/manga appeal to lonely people, POV porn appeal to lonely people. You’re just throwing in a lot of “bUt wh4t …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 11:13 PM
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I mean any girl that doesn’t get to learn this early on is setting themselves up for failure, yknow
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 11:07 PM
1

big fax as well
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 06:09 PM
2

I don’t believe a high libido constitutes putting yourself in danger
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 05:24 PM
1

yea actually. Idk what you’re trying to get at
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 04:45 PM
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Dude those "standards" women talk about are the ones that don't exist without plastic surgery, or when the guy doesn't or refuses to give the same thing they ask for in women. Statement still stands, don't encourage low RMV women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 03:38 PM
1

BIG FACTS
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 03:36 PM
1

good point stated
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 11:27 AM
0

I agree heavily! It’s a simple comment but this changed my view
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 10:50 AM
1

The last point is where we agree. You see the way I took it was the high standard as having a negative connotation but I see what you mean now. Thank you for communicating it to me! Along with that, I don’t think any man (with common sense lolol) looking for a relationship is basing who they find datable on looks alone. I think it holds true for everyone that a physically 10/10 person with a shit personality automatically becomes a goblin to most people with common sense and self respect. I also…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 10:49 AM
1

Personally, I don’t think there’s any problem with that. People are allowed to want chemistry if they themselves are able to bring it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 10:43 AM
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It’s mostly the influx of them, not the fact they got it in the first place. One or two off hand comments are bound to happen in aspect of life, but so many can cause of thought of ‘well I guess these things can happen when you’re attractive’, not as a positive thing but it seems as a consequence
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 10:42 AM
1

Is the male libido thing something actually true or just something that’s been told by society so we tend to believe it? Is it possible that a majority of women have an equal libido, they’re just rightfully more selective of who to engage in intercourse with? I mean if there’s a possibility you’ll get pregnant, or violently raped, I think it’s in a woman’s best interest to be quite selective and not just fuck whatever looks and sounds good
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 10:39 AM
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Good points made! I think this could also answer the questions of “why do girls think i’m creepy when I flirt with them” or “why can’t I just open with talking about a girl’s looks, that’s what made me wanna talk to her in the first place”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 10:34 AM
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good point, have updoot. I can argue though that this occurs on almost all social media, but I believe Reddit dudes are the worst😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 10:29 AM
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Well I see the disconnect, it’s not gonna matter what I argue if our view of what counts as high standard is different. A woman that wants her match isn’t high standard, neither is a man that wants his match. If a person wants their match, depending on how how they go that population of what fits their match gets smaller and smaller and if that person’s fine with it than I don’t think there’s any point in fussing in it if they’re content about it. Finally on your first point, excuse my wording. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 10:26 AM
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lolol ngl this was a p funny comment. Nonetheless, of course those compliments come from the friend group, but look at it here. If a girl’s current goal is to get married but either all the guys she’s being approached by are ‘low value’ in her eyes or actual bums, eventually she’d start to realize it when either all her friends are in relationships, getting married, or she starts to really become consumed by her loneliness in romantic aspects. Eventually she’ll start to look at reasons as to why…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 10:21 AM
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Yea that’s practically what I’m saying, there seems to be a heavy influx of these types of men, regardless of what you look like or do with your life. If these men would stop showing their faces, I don’t think a lot of women would have standards that don’t even match themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 10:09 AM
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Highly agreeable. No argument here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 10:08 AM
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yea okay pal, creeps aren’t a brag and they aren’t a compliment. That’s another disconnect between men and women. This is negative attention, not positive in any way. It bases value on looks and nothing else, which is the lowest thing you can be valued for. Anyways, to you in general, what counts as ‘high standard’? A woman that only has a highschool degree trying to go for doctors would rightfully be high standard, but a woman with a masters trying to date men that also holds a masters wouldn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 10:07 AM
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I’m literally not. I’m stating a fact as a woman. If I’m uncomfortable, it doesn’t matter if you’re using the Clit-Pleaser 3000, it’s not going to make me cum and that’s how it is for a lot of women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 01:03 AM
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dude that’s still different than letting somebody come into and use your personal space in exchange for money
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 11:58 PM
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Yea I think it’s fine, but maybe it’s because it doesn’t affect me. For example, if i’m dating a dude that wants to go to a hooker (over fucking me assuming that I’m well kempt and attractive to him) than the problem is that i’m dating the wrong dude lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 11:57 PM
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Yea I think a lot of people forget about that age gap having the side effect of immaturity. Like sure, young pussy can be nice, but is it worth it if she’s giving you headache and doesn’t have the maturity to know ‘no, I didn’t like that woman’s picture because I want her’, ‘no, we’ve already taken 30 pictures, why do you need more if you’re only going to post one on instagram,’ or ‘I’m not a mind reader. For the last time, I know you’re not ‘fine’ seriously tell me what’s wrong”. Usually the 40…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 11:44 PM
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I mean if we’re talking about a 40 year old tryna get a 20 year old that hasn’t gone through those life milestones, wouldn’t that be frustrating having a partner that doesn’t understand those things therefore doesn’t appreciate it as much? Along with that, being less jaded usually has a side effect of immaturity. A 40 year old usually has a different mindset to a 20 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 11:40 PM
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this is a really good set of points made
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 11:37 PM
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Damn as someone that lives in America, I wish it were the way (i’m kidding, no one deserves death)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 11:35 PM
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I highly agree with this. So many men forget this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 11:34 PM
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Almost every somewhat attractive woman has gotten an interaction from those ‘nice guys’ that get beyond pissed when you turn them down in any way. That’s entitlement and the truth of it was written in concrete
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 11:32 PM
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I think you mean BaeBae, or is that the one with the shithead kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 11:30 PM
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if you don’t eat you literally fucking die. Not having sex with only top tier stacies won’t kill anyone except the victims of the dudes that get pissed over that fact
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 11:30 PM
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I mean if the woman knows how to make herself orgasm, and instructs her partner on how to do it, should eventually that partner be able to do it??? I mean this only works for LTR’s though, because for people that do casual sex we need to be honest. A guy isn’t gonna know exactly what to do to every single girl he fucks because literally every single girl is different on how to get there. For guys it’s generally all the same with room for occasional difference/preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 11:15 PM
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I’m sorry that your sex partners seem to be walking twats.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 11:07 PM
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If she can’t get even herself to cum, than neither are bad at sex. If she can get herself to cum and tells the partner how to do it, but partner doesn’t wanna try/fails to succeed. The partner is bad at sex. If the guy knows how to get himself to cum, and communicates it to his partner how to do it, but she doesn’t wanna try/fails to succeed, the partner is bad at sex. What are you even asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 11:06 PM
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that’s not even a male or female problem of “being bad at sex”. What usually counts as being bad at sex is how well you can get your PARTNER to orgasm. If that woman doesn’t know how to make herself orgasm but some how expects her partner to be able to, that’s a her problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 11:02 PM
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In no particular order. -I’m a very outgoing and warm person socially and due to this people often find it easy to open up to me and be vulnerable, even people that usually keep that stuff really under tight wraps, but ask me to be vulnerable with someone and I absolutely refuse to in fear it’ll be used against me. I think this came from my older sister who would often get me to confide in her to feed her narcissistic supply, which I think is a reason for the other two things listed. -I downplay…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:49 PM
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men and women both crave companionship. It’s how we are as humans. If what you said in the post is true (only for monetary value) we’d just love with our best friends lolol. Nonetheless, you can’t convince someone that humans want companionship when it’s obvious they have the mindset of “someone’s tryna get me! Not today, shadow lady!” Adding in personal experience: my experiences with boys have been super shitty and others have been great. Companionship isn’t found in everyone and that’s okay, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:22 PM
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Those are literally fantasy and are often catergorized as such. Men have POV porn😂 and both men and women have dating sims. damn what’s up with the tit for tat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 09:35 PM
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Excluding from radfems, nobody shames men for not wanting ugly women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 07:08 PM
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literally ignored every other part of the comment. You’re mad that men don’t get the same words but they still get treated the same. What good are those words of encouragement when really when you turn your back it’s trash talk? You’re upset about wording whether than what actually happens
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 05:27 PM
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and men get to be pointed towards self improvement, but it’s almost like a child that talks a lot on the subject of what you mention. If they’re talking a lot you say “uh huh, okay” but it doesn’t mean they’re listening. Yea women get told these things but that doesn’t mean women get things handed to them. Ugly women don’t get conventionally attractive guys that act like the ones from mangas. Ugly men don’t get to lay conventionally hot girls that’ll screw only them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 05:23 PM
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100% High value men want high value women as well. Everyone else that doesn’t cut it and aren’t self aware get butthurt and has an ax to grind
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 04:37 PM
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Well yea nothing works in a vacuum, but personality isn’t something you can change yourself to get along with. Either the other person is someone you can get along with or it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 04:13 PM
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pretty close to my thoughts on people that hate hypergamy or people that are upset about not getting to pull polygamy on hot girls
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 04:03 PM
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I probably shouldn't have spoken in terms of normal people that have LTR's
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 03:21 PM
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I high value man is the same of what a high value woman is, but it may change due to preference and stuff. Hard working, good looking, kind/charming, and smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 02:55 PM
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positive chad energy right here. Safe sex regardless of what you choose to do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 02:48 PM
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I won’t lie, this is an excellent argument and i’ve come to actually agree with this heavily! Especially on the points of “Fuck everyone else as long as I get mine” and “everyone is having fun except me.” This is a large societal problem of self absorption and it trickles down into a lot of aspects of life. This is maximized with the popularity of social media and public appearances. I really appreciated this comment thread, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 02:46 PM
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What good is intelligence if they’re low on everything else? Likewise, what good is good looks if they’re socially redundant? High value people seek balance. Nobody wants a casanova with greasy hair, and no good person wants a partner with good looks but only stores hot air in their head. It’s all about balance. One obviously is only good for something to look at during sex, but neither get proper, loving, and fulfilling relationships, which is subjective from person to person. People often forg…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 02:37 PM
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You’re talking about the low quality women that are a result of their mothers not picking proper partners. Those women don’t have the luxury of getting proper partners, but that works out for them because a good number of men are fine with fucking very low tier women. A good number are fine with fucking ANY women, honestly. It’s a fluke. The high quality women obviously don’t do that, because the high quality women have the luxury of taking her time and properly picking who she prefers and seems…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 12:56 PM
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nah OP was right. If it’s not the right headspace it doesn’t matter what you’re doing, an orgasm ain’t gonna happen
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 12:49 PM
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Actually it’s both biological. Hypergamy allows for the best to be born and filters out the bad stuff. If not, more people get shitty genes and more incels born due to getting the shit deal in genetics. Keep in mind, though, irl that’s not how either sex works because we’re people and have the ability to go beyond instinctual programming.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 12:39 PM
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I don’t think anyone shames ANYONE for having a high value partner. Regardless of gender, they’re praised, but the pursuit of a high value partner is usually what’s shamed, especially in women. “You’re being too picky. Lower your standards. Men like that don’t exist. You’re a bitch for not giving him a chance. You think you’re too high and mighty if you don’t sleep with me/him”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 12:26 PM
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as if TRP isn’t specifically trying to teach men how to fuck as many people as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 12:23 PM
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But isn’t that the point? Women instinctively make sure the gene pool stays relatively clean and healthy, and also attractive in order to allow survival. In modern times we don’t have to worry about some stuff, but it still applies. The smartest, most good looking, and healthiest survive and go on to repopulate. The main biological function of men is just to cum in as many people as possible. Women make sure only the most fit go into that gene pool. Due to this, of course the values of men are d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 12:23 PM
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you’re so fucking right on this, I needed to hear it too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/19 10:34 AM
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Exactly. It’s the common “stacie’s only go for chad! that’s because you’re specifically going for the girls that go for that kind of person. If you’re so desperate for that kind of girl than you should become Chad, but don’t be surprised when your looks fade and she moves on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 06:07 PM
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do you purposely plate spin?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 06:31 PM
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Sorry to tell you, but you’re one of his plates
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 02:36 PM
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also check out my latest post and try to explain that to me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 02:19 PM
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sounds similar to me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 12:40 PM
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The thing that separates romance from a friendship is sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 10:13 AM
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For the most part he’s level headed and can be affectionate. I think he’s funny too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 05:52 AM
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my boyfriend literally has no money or social status what are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 05:21 AM
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nah what i’m saying is if let’s say you yourself have like 100 partners, would you be willing to wait three months?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 02:28 AM
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it’s like when companies turn their logo rainbow in June, or when companies make memes. Trying so so hard to pander
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 12:47 PM
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I guess on more specific notes, I really like ambition and having a general plan. Nobody can tell the future, but working with realistic and healthy ambition lets you know a lot about a person and how they’ll pursue something they want. It also usually means (not all the time) that they like seeing bigger pictures and figuring out the smaller steps on how to get there. For me, I don’t care how hot I or anyone think you are, but i’m not giving you the time of day if your answer to everything is “…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:58 AM
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you already have good features but you’re too focused on getting other ones. Work with what you already have. Never force yourself to be in a guy’s presence or compete for male attention with anything. If they wanted you they’d already be focused on you
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 04:24 AM
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This is actually a really good reply and I like it. Personally that is the kind of thing that makes my heart race, commitment. And it’s so silly because i’m super young (17) so a good amount of the guys my age are only are viewing commitment in a set of rose colored glasses. It stops being commitment and becomes clinginess and emotional dependence, I don’t want someone that can’t live without me. I don’t want to be the person that can’t live without another, either. I want to be whole as a perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 02:52 AM
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Well obviously I don’t know it all, people grow everyday, but i’m going off of the experiences of people older than me, my own experiences, and what I see to draw my conclusions. Nonetheless, I don’t know a lot of women with my same dream that doesn’t agree to this to some degree
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 07:45 PM
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This is what I’ve constantly been trying to tell the guys here. They think i’m some unicorn for wanting to get married after undergrad and raise a family, but really the real unicorns are the guys in our generation that want actually want this. They’re too focused on fooling and fucking around. They want a girl that’s 100% for them but they don’t have to be for the girl. It’s such bs. I’m know that when I hit college next year, I might as well get rid of that dream
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 06:26 PM
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I think it happens from experience. Like on paper a grown man that asks a kid if he wants candy just sounds like a nice man, but because of things that have happened it gives a negative connotation
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 09:20 PM
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I mean of course the appropriate response is thanks, i’m just saying that you can’t really make a conversation out of it, assuming your goal is to ask her out. Playful banter is a way of pretty much convincing a person on agreeing to a date. If you only say she’s pretty get a thanks and automatically go for whatever question you’re gonna ask, there’s a good chance she’s not gonna be convinced to wanna say yes just out of the blue. Even hot guys don’t get that response.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 08:39 PM
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I mean yea, but the thing is that normal people in society that don’t touch this stuff won’t find this flattering. Looks are something that’ll fade, and in a lot of women’s experiences, guys who opened with how the woman looked were skeezes and/or were looking for a pump and dump without letting the woman know of that condition. ETA: also I was wondering, how would expect a woman to respond to such an opener. It’d most likely only be a thank you, because you can’t really follow up a conversation…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 04:58 PM
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yea I agree with that statement. Either way, nice is something that’s expected. Kindness is something that takes more
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 09:46 AM
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I think the thing is that a lot of people don’t know of situations that don’t include some sort of romantic plan at any point in life, but they do exist. Just because you don’t want one and are completely content without one doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you. You’re also not “giving up” on anything. You’re just living your life in a way that suits you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 01:54 AM
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that really sucks, I’m sorry. I hope you find what you’re looking for, though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 08:10 PM
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It’s not an indication of how much she’s enjoying it though. She’s also getting paid to fake everything else. If you’ve had any type of sex in your life you’ll know that an orgasm isn’t always mind blowing, toe curling, absolute pleasure that makes you lose control of your body. Literally anybody that’s ever fucked atleast twice will know this. That’s a hard fact. You’re literally not addressing why you’re upset at these answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 07:48 PM
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No i’ve literally seen a lot of her work and yes you can. You can’t fake squirting but you can 100% fake all the other stuff, I have on atleast three occasions. Why are you so upset by that? There’s nothing wrong with fantasy but it gets bad when you don’t realize that’s what it is. You asked a question and you got the answer. My question is why does the answer upset you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 07:36 PM
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It’s fake dude, i’m sorry to tell you. She gets paid to act so she acts. Nobody gets off to porn where both parties don’t look to be enjoying themselves and they don’t get paid to just have sex. It’s acting but you don’t seem to want accept that edit: dude she’s obviously up playing it, are you serious. You asked if it was an accurate representation and you’re repeatedly getting the same answer, but you’re still trying to ague otherwise. What you want isn’t what others want and that goes for a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 07:26 PM
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Exactly, my answer is that the only people that 100% need CONVENTIONALLY hot are shallow and usually aren’t the people to be in LTR anyways. I think that’s why there’s so much disagreement and disconnect because there’s no clarification. Are you talking subjectively hot (something that an individual finds attractive but may not be seen as the same for someone else) or conventionally hot (certain facial and body portions and traits that are universally seen as attractive). To most people looking …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 07:19 PM
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that’s a male created lie. An example is the number of men that have been raped or sexually assaulted and not being taken seriously because “guys want it all the time. You’re just a pussy. You should’ve enjoyed it”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 07:04 PM
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So I’ll use my boyfriend as an example. I have a higher sex drive than my boyfriend (a teenage girl wants more sex than her teenage boyfriend?!?!1!? A Unjcorn!!). My love language is also physical affection, so I tend to safe guard sex as something extremely intimate to me. You have no idea. I understand that my boyfriend isn’t going to be in the mood as much as I am or won’t want to have sex as much as I do, but it starts hurting me, my self esteem, and my relationship when he pays no attention…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 07:02 PM
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There’s a difference between recognizing a problem when there is one and insisting that there is a problem when there isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 06:56 PM
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pretty much my experience with my boyfriend now. They don’t take it seriously enough until you’re ready to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 06:53 PM
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That isn’t a woman problem, that’s a problem of being emotionally immature. People with common sense won’t date someone emotionally immature
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 06:52 PM
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No???? Nobody wants games to be played. If i’m the only one working on problems I’m going to feel pretty fucking unloved. I actually more appreciation if they address a problem because it means they care about the relationship to fix anything that may make us unhappy in it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 06:51 PM
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100% no, wtf. If they fuck like a pornstar it’s being done as an ego boost for either themselves or their partner, but regular sex isn’t like that. Girls in porn are getting paid to act so they ACT and they just do what looks good. Just because it looks good DOES NOT mean it feels good. If you go into sex with those expectations, 100% you will be a bad lay and have pretty bad sex edit: please don’t use porn as any sort of basis for sex. I don’t know if you’re young, inexperienced, or both. I’m a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 06:41 PM
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I’m going to talk about how he was at the time. Obviously we’ve both grown and changed. We gave our virginities to eachother at 16 •not sure on SMV because he had a lot of girlfriends but they all seemed to be embarrassed to be with him even though they were all the ones to approach him. I also was the one to approach first. His SMV has definitely gone up by A LOT since we started dating, but we also kinda grew alongside so that’s probably its own separate thing. •I’d say more on the unpopular s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 06:27 PM
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I can vouch for this. I’m a girl literally going to a Catholic school and a lot of the girls hoe it up. It’s even worse at the all girls schools for the ones that aren’t socially inept when it comes to boys
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 06:04 PM
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I know! Sometimes people have things without knowing, and let’s look at the reality, a lot of people have sex in the heat of the moment and aren’t half naked and say “wait! let’s go get tested before the action starts”. Either way, it doesn’t matter. Use a condom every time. People are just mad they won’t get to stick it in raw with this hypothetical girl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 06:02 PM
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I think you’re assuming nice as being equal to being a pushover. Pushovers are also losers. Everyone that likes their significant other see them as somewhat kind people, but i’ve seen that nice is usually reserved for pushovers and times when it’s expected (nice old lady, of a nice evening dinner)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 05:54 PM
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looks like an edgy Forever 21 shirt. I like the dog though. Ah yes...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 05:53 PM
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My top compliment to my boyfriend if they aren’t about skills is me calling him beautiful or gorgeous😂 Idk, it has a preciousness to it that indicates that something beautiful is something you want to take care of and cherish
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 05:48 PM
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If things were to end with my boyfriend, I 100% would ask my next partner. I don’t fuck first and then date and I only want to fuck someone i’ve already established something with. I’d like my partner to also be someone that reserved that act for special people. Of course N-count isn’t an indication of character, but i’d feel a little uneasy giving a big part of myself to someone that’s fucked 30+ people especially since that seems to be the norm. I also know someone that’s had sex with 30+ peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 05:38 PM
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I think it’s the kind of men that usually go for OLD. Not all men are like that, but there’s enough where it taints the image of the few that aren’t. I’m too young for OLD, but from people that do (people that have messaged me on reddit, that’s a good and a bad experience for another time) there’s certain expectations that come with it. When I mention my standards for myself (no casual sex, no sexting, and no PIV until I know I really like the guy and the guy feels the same about me) I always ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 05:26 PM
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The only Stacy I know is someone i’m not very fond of. She’s not model tier but very good looking with long blond hair and blue eyes, standing tall at 5’9”. Shes one of the top of our class and is in almost every extracurricular. Along with that, she’s usually very well liked by almost everyone that comes across her and if they do dislike her, they usually can’t put a finger on why but keep it to themselves because she p much as the ultimate halo effect on everyone around her. The bad thing abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 05:10 PM
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how old were you though? Most Stacies usually know they’re a Stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 05:02 PM
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I mean it depends on what you define chad is. The Chad who has those extremely masculine qualities and looks but is emotionally retarded were assholes to everyone who they didn’t want to sleep with. These ones were the guys that’ve treated me the worst and even the girls they slept with knew they were dickheads. Those girls only had physical value because they were popular for the wrong reasons The Chads who were leaders AND had emotional depth were loved by everyone and well treated in return. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:56 PM
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well yea that’s my main point. Most women aren’t going to date a guy that they don’t physically find attractive in the first place if they don’t even have the personality to cope for lack of conventional looks or the means to provide anything (ie they’re a NEET) In my previous comment I spoke about marriage, before women got the choice to choose who that was with and instead it was their parents who did. In the comment you replied to, I talked about evolutionary, before marriage was a thing and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:26 PM
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I mean even from an evolutionary stand point, women wanted those that provided the most. Such as who were better hunters in addition to looks. It makes way more sense because women give up more when child bearing even if they don’t raise the child. Men only need to ejaculate. If they could have both looks and provider-ship that’s usually what they wanted, but they settled usually for who could provide. I think that still holds true today, because female attraction usually works a little differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:16 PM
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honestly I think it depends on age and what the woman has financially as well. As someone else commented, an 18 year old isn’t even thinking about marriage and they just want stuff that looks good so they look better in society. They want the money to feed their image. A 26–30 year old woman has more reason to want a kid and thinking about settling down. You can’t do either of those very well without both partners having some sort of salary or at least trying to pull their weight. Now Im not say…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 03:30 PM
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no way, because an escort you get the sex and wham bam thank you ma’am. A gold digger you’re paying for her lifestyle as well. In all honesty though, a woman trying to date a dude with a good salary compared to a woman trying to take advantage of a dude with a good salary may sound alike but in reality quite different. The first woman still pulls her weight, but the second treats you as a parent because she expects you to buy all of her stuff and more, for the price of having her around plus you…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 03:25 PM
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I mean idk, when marriage started becoming a thing parents specifically chose men for their daughters that had some kind of money, even if it wasn’t much compared to the norm but atleast more than their family or equal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 03:21 PM
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I don’t think any stable man worth having doesn’t hold women to the same standard. An honest working man with a good salary isn’t looking for a a full grown woman to parent and have sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 03:16 PM
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I like one and two but I prefer one. It doesn’t leave any room for confusion and it lets me know directly he’s interested. I think it’s better for both parties, because if anyone isn’t interested they have the proper chance to state they aren’t interested, instead of stringing anyone along. edit: upon looking at other comments, I’d like to clarify that my answer was based on the assumption I already knew him well enough that we already could hold a conversation. I’d feel really nervous about goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 03:08 PM
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idk, it’s pretty obvious that looks were the first thing. It is for everyone, but it usually does better if you comment on a choice rather than something she just has. “Oh I like how your hair’s styled” tends to work better than “oh I think you’re gorgeous” because the former leads it more to conversation. If the lady is interested, she’ll follow up with something more besides a thank you, because if she only says thank you she’s just being nice but isn’t interested in conversation with you. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 02:05 PM
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Yea in the perfect world, but you’re totally ignoring the fact that you won’t even see that money for years because the company is being difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 02:02 PM
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so you’re saying you don’t care if your girlfriend/boyfriend is physically attractive to you? You’re not gonna be able to get it/get in the mood to make a kid with them if you don’t find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 01:58 PM
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this commentate me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 06:26 AM
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I think there’s mostly a disagreement because most people that use that terminology aren’t even referring to extremes but usually even if just a little bit of of labia sticks out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 06:05 AM
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All of those are traits associated with bad hygiene even if they’re not exclusive to it (like acne). I think that’s all reasonable stuff and it’s not shallow. I think something that would count as shallow is how their penis or vagina looks, because it’s largely out of their control. There’s nothing wrong with preference but it does become shallow when it automatically becomes a deal breaker instead of something to overlook. Personally, I don’t think I like unstyled hair. I’m talking about the ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 06:00 AM
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good point made
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 05:44 AM
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Looks are what gets you the chance and the personality is what gets them to stay. You can’t be gorgeous but treat everyone like shit, most genuine people will treat you just the same and the only ones still licking your feet are white-knights and plate spinners. Usually pretty girls get more leeway to have certain personalities. I cant tell you the number of times I’ve seen this. A pretty girl does boxing? Damn she holds herself well and usually makes her more attractive. Ugly girl: seen as too …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 05:44 AM
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that’s usually the pink pill though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 05:33 AM
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I really enjoy the philosophy and values of that sub, especially as 17 year old girl practically living in fuck boy central
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 05:31 AM
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I think this should be it’s own comment honestly. It’s a great way to explain it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 05:24 AM
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okay that’s a terrible and gross notion. It’s possible the guy could’ve focused on school or he didn’t want to focus on it for something important. I think it goes a tiny bit further because obviously a guy that’s only had sex with one person isn’t the same as someone that’s has sex with multiple. Personally, I’d like a middle ground if the situation occurs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 05:12 AM
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but you need to realize not everyone is you, and you’re not everyone. What may be acceptable for you, may not be acceptable for someone else and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 05:10 AM
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No they don’t. Only unless the relationship is already established. Over sharing on simple questions is a major red flag for crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 05:07 AM
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Yea buddy you really don’t have to lie, you just present too much info. Obviously you’re either looking for a relationship or a hookup, which isn’t a lie. Say that. Obviously you tell them the more important stuff when presented with the situation, such as talking about beginning sexual intimacy or sexual activity is implied
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 05:06 AM
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A good majority of people have a smart phone and most cycle tracking apps are FREE. For people within the exception, they can go old school and get a calendar and count the days. The ones that obviously can’t do this besides reasons of callousness usually aren’t the women trying not to get pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 05:03 AM
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but I think your value is still going to come through in some form. An educated single mom with degrees isn’t the same as trailer trash single mom who’s favorite signature perfume is Marlboro Red smoke and usually its pretty easy to spot people like that (with exceptions of course).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:59 AM
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Also why do guys believe that their penis is some magic fucking wand. You can have the dick of Johnny Sins but if you don’t know what you’re doing and you’re being selfish, it’s going to suck regardless and no one wants bad sex, no matter your experience level or preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:54 AM
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yea it takes atleast two people to have sex. It’s fucking stupid to not both have some responsibility. Condoms can fail, birth control can fail. Also STDs! Don’t be upset when you make a mistake if you weren’t even taking the right precautions in the first place in your end
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:51 AM
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lolol it’ll just be another hookup app but now people know where you work! Also probably more lifestyle catfishing in more hopes to pump and dump or smash and dash
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:47 AM
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for a lot of people, sex isn’t just a call to a physical urge. It’s in the same category as saying I love you and giving a kiss after missing someone you love. I think you’re saying this because you’re viewing sex as something to only relieve an urge or procreate. Unless you marry/date someone with this same logic or no desire for sex, you’ll kill the relationship. Let’s also say you do view sex as a call to physical urge alone, and your partner never wants to do it with you willingly or always …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:44 AM
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You’re acting as if you didn’t have attraction to someone because they had a face you liked. Looks will never be the end all be all for LTR, but obviously in a romantic relationship with them because you get along with them and are attracted to them. Let’s have your significant other stop putting effort into appearance (assuming they still shower and brush hair) a year after dating, there’s a good chance you’ll lose the physical attraction and you’ll start viewing them more as a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:40 AM
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They’re different, but they almost always go hand in hand. Ever heard of r/DeadBedrooms ? Usually really good relationships die because they aren’t sexually compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:36 AM
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A lot of people forget this. The physical attraction always have to be there. I don’t understand the debate. No one in the works dates someone they don’t find attractive by a good amount unless they’re being forced or trying to get something superficial alone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:35 AM
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usually if you find your partner attractive and enjoy frequent and consistent sex with them, you personally find them really good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:33 AM
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yea from experience the only 20 year olds that were unjaded and/or carefree were the party-goers because they didn’t care too much about their responsibilities or they had their responsibilities taken care of by others
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:32 AM
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obviously when I was younger (I’m 17 now) the only thing I really wanted was a guy that looks cute or whatever. In early teens I wanted a guy that was popular for whatever reason. At those ages, a boy that’s cute or popular has literally no benefit to me unless i’m trying to class jump at the ripe age of 14😂. I think my preferences now are a little more mature because I prefer a guy I of course find attractive (everyone looks for a partner they find attractive) but I also want someone that’s ser…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:26 AM
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to put simply what others have said. Life insurance either barely does shit or it’s hell to even get the money. It’s not the tooth fairy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:20 AM
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where are you going to get the money for a divorce if you’re 100% financially dependent 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:13 AM
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I’m too young to really have an opinion that matters too heavily, but simply because of my personality I don’t think i’d like it. If it were a situation where I literally can’t provide to myself due to injury or sickness, I’d feel like a pretty heavy burden. If I do have the ability, I think I wouldn’t like it because it gives up a lot of my individuality and autonomy. If Im a Sahm raising my children also made by my husband, it’d become expected that I only so that and there’s a good chance it …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:12 AM
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I think a majority of people regardless of gender or sexuality would face the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:08 AM
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Watch out! This’ll get you downvoted for suggesting it’s anything but his looks! Gasp!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:07 AM
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A this is what I’ve been trying to explain. This is 100% the case. There minds aren’t based in reality so of course they wonder “whY w0n’t girls fuckM3”. It’s because you’re shooting for sixes when you’re a strong four at best. They think a 6 is the average girl everyday girl but it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 03:59 AM
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I mean same thing that women offer in the modern day. There aren’t really any expected gender roles, so the main factor is companionship. I mean it’s more complicated than that, but if I can recall, most relationships don’t work out because there isn’t companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 03:53 AM
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I mean having casual sex doesn’t really count as dating. If you’re looking for ONLY sex or ONLY to get laid, of course the only thing that matters is that you’re attractive and don’t have any murderous tendencies. This obviously goes for both genders, but obviously girls usually put more effort into there appearance and usually there are a lot of guys that’ll just fuck anything that walks. There’s more risk for girls when having any kind of sex (such as pregnancy or stealthing, this can happen w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 03:49 AM
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especially with everything you see of men not pulling their weight when it comes to child rearing, they think only playing with the kid and changing a few diapers when asked is the same as cooking, feeding, cleaning, transporting, planning, instilling positive behaviors and having almost all free time going to the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 03:43 AM
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I think it still would somewhat apply though, because mostly they’d be looking for companionship. Companionship usually leads to positive child raising because they agree on things. Both sides would benefit child rearing and both sides are hard to find especially in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 03:35 AM
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I mean evolutionarily speaking, it still applies today. People find partners for companionship and child rearing. A woman isn’t going to marry someone who can’t provide for atleast the children. They aren’t being sugar babies, the main motivation is child rearing (if they plan on kids). Equally so, a man or a woman that doesn’t plan on having kids isn’t going to marry someone that wouldn’t be a good companion. It’s not selfish in the least to want to marry someone that will give you a good chanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 03:33 AM
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Honestly form both sides it seems like a LOT of sulking. Usually people fall into the red pill when they don’t want to improve themselves anymore. Otherwise they go to r/TheGlowup or whatever. Yes, sometimes don’t get the chance due to looks but they can also get ahead with how they act. Yes it sounds like fucking bullshit, but it’s not. But it doesn’t work for everyone, unfortunately that’s life. Life is unfair. For example Im black. Personally, I think i’m average but a little more on the attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 07:37 PM
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I think there are a set of people that aren’t meant for it. In this modern society, I also feel like that puts us out of a lot of possible date prospects, whether it’s something voluntary or involuntary. Correct me if i’m wrong, but nowadays when people start talking to someone, they MUST have sex at some point as a test drive. I mean there’s nothing wrong with that. Different strokes for different folks, but I’ve noticed that being a person that wants to hold out usually puts you out of the dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 06:45 AM
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this one is pure bs. She was egging him on the entire time and everyone saw it. He even warned her, but when he defends himself the football team all of a sudden knows how to defend a human. Yea okay
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 06:37 AM
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what if she’s just confident? I mean it could also be possible she’s been in a LTR before and just grew used to it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 12:10 AM
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I don’t think it’s proper to beat yourself up over it. I mean there’s obviously a reason you don’t apply this mentality to him and he’s kind of been around
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 07:21 AM
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lolol I wish this were true with my relationship. It’s the other way around, reallyq
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 07:39 PM
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yea you’re right. A picture is worth a million words and the guy on the right says “I go to the gym, therefore i’m automatically a sex magnet. Check out my chain, that’s totally what girls love”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 04:44 AM
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Left, a lot of people are saying because of his face but think about it. Without the cool guy stance, and awesome hair he’d actually look like a homeless guy ready to rob you of your pizza dinner money or your dignity. His cool hair, outfit, and general demeanor makes him the chad. The guy on the right has a lot of effort in his body, but it looks like it’s only in his body. He has a menacing stance that’s plain and doesn’t give much look into a personality, a face that you make when taking an I…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 04:39 AM
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nah we don’t want the guy on the right
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 04:36 AM
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Don’t dye it unless it’ll look good on you. You have to think about your skin undertones
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/19 02:21 AM
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this was really in-depth and helpful! I’ll definitely make sure to put this into practice! I don’t know why I hadn’t have thought of this, but this is super good advice
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/19 01:18 AM
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That’s actually something I know I can do well! I might feel a bit awkward but I know i’ll be okay. Also, poor bumblebee
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/19 10:26 PM
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The last time we did it we tried a few different things. For one, we had foreplay that lasted for like an hour. This helped to warm me up properly and for us to enjoy eachother for longer. When we finally got on to the act, he was on top. He seems to last a little longer when we’re in laying down missionary because he kinda planks sometimes. Either way, last time was a huge improvement, I wasn’t close to finishing at all but it was still really enjoyable for us
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/19 04:16 PM
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I like how you assumed lolol, I actually like being submissive for my boyfriend. I’m very feminine for him as well, but I NEVER do these things because he ‘expects’ it of me in the same way an employer would expect an employee to finish a task. I do these things because I genuinely enjoy them and find pleasure in them. Allowing your man to make a fool out of you (cheating on you, purposely leaving messes for you to clean up) goes past being willfully submissive and just turns your ‘relationship’…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 09:47 AM
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So you’re telling me even if you tell and directly show them what to do it’ll happen? I’ve honestly given up and this drives it home
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 04:35 AM
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I feel a woman or man should do these things happily and not just to try and keep her boyfriend or husband ‘at bay’. A regular person in a regular relationship would do this and receive proper thanks and respect. A pick-me would do these things because she thinks it’ll help her husband or boyfriend from being a shit head, but he’ll be like that if you make him feel like he could never do anything wrong and cheating on you is absolutely dandy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 07:00 PM
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Nope, it automatically puts you as the least valuable woman. When you’re constantly begging for attention like a child, “look at what I can do” I can guarantee that you’ll have a shit relationship. Your partner will see that youll do whatever for them no matter what, so they’ll cheat, lie, and do whatever they please. They certainly won’t marry you either, because why marry you when I can have a personal maid and fuck toy but still fuck the girls I actually want?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:57 PM
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I personally don’t want to break up due to sex. I honestly believe I’d rather go without. Upon some reflection I honestly feel like i’m current day, if a relationship doesn’t have sex than it’s a bust, but if both people are still intimate in any form that’s not sexual and are happy that way, can’t their relationship survive?
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 09:20 PM
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Does any of this stuff really work? People can behave a certain way without actually giving it up for anyone and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 03:06 PM
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I think he’s considering it as a way of giving up because he does try, but little to no improvement. I think I should probably cut my losses short
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 10:11 PM
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why do I see you all over my notifications? You’re always commenting on my things specifically.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 10:46 AM
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why are you specifically going through my posts to comment things like that
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 10:44 AM
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you’re right. Thank you so much
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 06:56 AM
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Is it truly worth it to break up on this or is this a minor issue that’s become a big one? I’m sorry if this is a redundant question
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 06:53 AM
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He really is trying, and he’s seriously just bad. It makes me feel bad. I’m being as blunt as possible here for clarity.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 06:50 AM
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We’re constantly talking about it. He just doesn’t improve. He truly is bad at sex.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 06:47 AM
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I think this should be the most obvious thing. As a highschool aged girl, I can’t tell you how girls have been fine with dating guys that give them the bare minimum of compromise. I also think that’s one of the main reasons why some older guys prefer young women, because they really don’t hold them to important standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:42 PM
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Creating these double standards doesn’t help anyone and it never will. There’s nothing wrong with having a set dynamic but you shouldn’t be riding a storm to every destination because it was diverted from.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:38 PM
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You my good sir sounds like you’d love some role reversal! I love taking my boyfriend out for dates. I think it has to do with me loving the feeling of caring for his emotional needs? I get the same feeling when i’m the big spoon despite being smaller, I let him fall asleep with his head in my chest. I really wish it was seen as more culturally acceptable to approach men first and to take them out on dates and give them compliments. I’ve never seen anyone’s face light up more than a guy receivin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:35 PM
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It’s not even on accident. Kpop appeals the highest to fantasies of their viewers because every little thing about them has been artificially created and then sold to the public. When they go on ‘reality’ shows (Bangtan Bomb, Weekly Idol) producers give a lot of focus on fabricated personality traits, quirks, and relationships between group members. It’s practically musical porn because all of it is fake, but it looks good so even if you know it is, it’s still enjoyable if done right. I also thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:27 PM
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I used to be really into K-pop and K-HipHop (Jay Park still makes me melt) and I think it’s mostly because of the seemingly feminine qualities that a lot of western men don’t have. Kpop idols care more about appearances and skin care and generally show more gentle personality traits. Even in older European male celebs, I’ve seen that even if they have masculine looks, it’s paired with a gentle or “feminine” personality. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen girls go crazy for Asap Rocky and …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:22 PM
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yea this is exactly what the pink pill is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:15 PM
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this is a nice and simple way of putting it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:14 PM
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I’ve found that red pilled married men seem to actually have a pretty good grasp on having a happy marriage and despite what they say, they both seem to be equals. Of course, with different duties but both pulling their weight and both helping with childcare because it takes two people to make one. I’ve also seen that a lot of women in the red pilled women sub have similar expectations to me, an emphasis on self improvement which means having a happy relationship so that of course includes not b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:10 PM
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Okay but please lets not forget who are the people giving them that power and money in the first place.
/r/MGTOW24/07/19 04:04 AM
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Okay just because she’s an asshole doesn’t mean it’s right to be transphobic guys, come on.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/12/18 06:59 PM
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I think this is more appropriate for r/nicegirls
/r/PussyPassDenied26/11/18 10:36 PM
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people need to also make sure to teach their daughters not to hit people, even if the person in question most likely “won’t hit back” because of societal standards. Don’t be a shithead! Don’t hit anyone! Equally so, don’t be upset when they hit you back!
/r/PussyPassDenied26/11/18 10:28 PM
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