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Dont beat yourself up too badly. We all have a rock bottom, it's subjective to each individual, but what happens next is a choice to make this the moment where change is possible. You can be captain of your own ship, youre in control of steering into oblivion or returning yourself back to Port so you can still be apart of your family's lives, in a positive new way. You're stressed and confused, but you have a compass inside to know what direction you need to go. In the mean time, have patience f…
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/25 08:57 AM
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I wish you lots of strength and courage to look inward while moving forward. Im sorry to hear about what could be the end of a supportive relationship with your college hood sweetheart, i cant imagine that kind of struggle. You are confused, but you still have family and so your work isnt done yet, stay resilient man! Take care of yourself so you can take care of your family, dont stop trying to do good. Best regards brother
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/25 08:10 AM
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Youre correct. And the mutual respect i was suggesting hits different. i let my selfrespect crumble to "princess" an immature brat who threw abusive grown woman tantrums when things didnt go her way. She was a fixer upper for sure, but you can't repair someone elses fundamental lack of general respect for other people, which is what I obsessed with learning the hard way. Sounds like the woman in this story also suffered from similar TikTok culture delusions.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/25 06:26 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss and hardships, brother. Hang in there and have lots of patience for your own processing, I wish you lots of a strength at this time. Sounds like my soon to be ex wife, 1st time divorce for me, her 2nd. I initiate the process after being together just 3yrs because its finally ok. She has an apartment, car, cats, fully furnished, full time job, she literally couldn't manage any of that before - she also claimed the car, the cats, the apartment saying, "its always been m…
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/25 05:18 AM
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Absolutely stand up for yourself, make every reasonable argument if that money is yours
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/25 10:46 AM
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It's a wave buddy, and it can feel like crashing, but you just hold on and the crashing waves will pass. Clear your head and focus on holding on, calm and control, thats the first night - regain some inner peace. I wish you a lot if courage and strength good man.
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/25 10:41 AM
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If its to teach her any kind of lesson in maturity, divorce isn't the solution. If its to reclaim stability and sanity for at least 1 responsible parent, then yes, divorce can be a solid solution.
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/25 12:37 AM
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Be the man. Do the work. Get it done. Don't drag yourself out. Best of luck!
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/25 11:21 PM
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No no no. She she doesn't prioritize anyone's needs above her own. Very dangerous and not loyal. 10/10 signs of a sociopathic narcissist type. Put your foot down and stay away from people like her. Run dont walk
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/25 11:18 PM
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Good job 👏 👍
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/25 09:23 PM
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Exactly 💯 idk why thats funny.. it's really not ok
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/25 03:01 AM
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Providing is really hard, man. You have to be able to afford a 1 bedroom apartment and normal person amenities for yourself as a base/ bare minimum. If you can't afford your own way and need a partner/ room mate, then it's best to assume that you're younger making less than 15k per month or you're older - but climbing the ladder isnt happening, so you just gotta earn what you can.. retirement isnt happening - paycheck to paycheck is all minimum wage can afford... Poverty level income. Try lookin…
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/25 09:41 PM
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No. Just take however much time you need. Its not about her anymore, youre captain of your own ship. 🫡
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 12:57 AM
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Im sorry, its downhill when she thinks any of that mess is justified. Im divorcing my soon to be ex wife who has be a 24/7 portrayal of TikTok culture women with nothing but bad faith arguments about icky stupid uncaring MEN. Im 34 and married a 37. Im sorry for your family, sir.. our modern culture is in a sharp declining trend. I wish you much strength and luck with everything
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 12:45 AM
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Its high emotions releasing stress hormones creating a common performance anxiety. Don't give it any more thought than performance anxiety or you might convince yourself something deeper is broken (nothing is broken, but overthinking can be risky). Youre not broken, you need to reset yourself, absolutely try something from HIMS, over the counter stuff are not a good enough substitute.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 12:34 AM
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