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Women arent a machine where you put "witty personality" coins and get "sex and romance" in exchange You ought to accept that there is a massive chance they have their own unique prefferences that you might not fit in and no amount of trying to bruteforce a bond will change that And sure sometimes people grow into each other after knowing the other for a long time But if you are betting on "im gonna soend 3 years as her friend and then we will shack, she has to i been so nice to her!" Is a losing…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:06 AM
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yeah,but that masses behavior,chaotic spikes counter each other,for every compulsive buyer there is a frugal cheapskate that uses coupons religiously you dont care about what specific individual buyer does,you only care about the agregate/sum, if i want to sell 10 phones i dont care is the ones buying are 10 joes or 10 bobs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:46 PM
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i got bad news,but kissing your homies in the mouth and getting the funny tickles on the womb over it,is not 100% straight
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:18 AM
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*shrug* not everyone has a peer reviewed paper at hand to support their views at any given time is nice when a post has those,but isnt a must take the post as this person take/opinion/observation on the matter based around his experience and biases
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 10:26 PM
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at individual level isnt bad (you aint hurting anyone) but at collective level is probably harmfull,all laws,traditions,culture etc they dont exist as a physical/material thing,no one can measure one kilo of justice or kindness on a lab abstract concept exist only as agreement between people to describe,encourage/dissuade and enforce behaviors society needs this collective lies/agreements to work men that spends their life jacking off the "waifutron-9k" is a men not involved in their community w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:07 AM
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is a average of traits: breasts,hips,ass,a youthful yet developed face etc a nice body is a nice body,regardless if the person is 13 or 71 caveat: being sexually attractive doesnt equal being relation material (maturity,job and compatibility goes into relations too) or being morally right to pursue
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:58 AM
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people like people over a mix of good looks,personality and status (their reputation + charisma + social circles + money etc) compare a akward acne filled 14 boy to a older boy/man (that is handsome) they may find them more appealing and develop all sort of crushes the issue is not the idea of finding someone older or younger attractive,is the issue of lack of maturity,ability to make informed choices and ability to stand for yourself in a relation if a 14 year old boy and girl have roughly the …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:52 AM
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you mean "respect" as in "admiration" or respect as "being treated with some dignity" no one necesarily needs constant admiration/praise but people need constant dignity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:31 AM
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i dont mean "not in a stable relation" i mean "virgin in their late 20s never had any relation whatsoever" the other 50-ish percernt is the one actually having relations you are refering to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:05 AM
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i mean yeah,but this means that half of gen Z men are either broken or keep going for broken women (wich would mean half of gen Z women are damaged) either way is fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:09 AM
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i mean,the "baby factory and disposable soldier/worker" logic still stands see ukraine for example crass as it sounds a single man can get multiple women pregnant in the same span of time,where a women once pregnant has 9 + couple recovery months period where they cant get pregnant this means men populations can easily bounce back from mass deaths,but each women lost takes more generations to recover there is also heavy and highly dangerous works (heavy industries) where high rate of deaths and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:43 AM
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gonna keep it real,most people aint that open to meeting new people even on public events while not openly hostile,they will not warm up or welcome you either without some luck to open up the way how do i know?,because when i go at a festival/concert/cultural activity with a group of my friends, make emphasis on " MY FRIENDS" i dont go so random nobody #4785 can join us,i aint gonna insult them or be agressive,but im just simply ignore them or ask them kindly leave us alone for public spaces to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 02:36 AM
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"There are plenty of acceptable spaces",nope// "the consensus was never that all men stop cold approaching, it was just not to bother women at inappropriate times and locations and to take no for an answer", cold aproaching is innapropiate at any time unless your are really handsome''
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:10 AM
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honestly fair enough,i like the concept of a relation appealing but the reality of it (both in terms of self actualization and mantainance needed from my part aka im not relation material,as well the reality that a theorical partner will never actually live up to the standards of what a relation should be) is discouraging cant blame women for not dating me,i wouldnt either
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:49 PM
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Nope Because you have 10 granpas for every young worker Is a problem of balance (too many old people) If you cant take care of a baby what makes you think you can finance a bunch of granpas (overgrown babies for practical porpuses) You could have 10 workers and 90 granpas 10 thousand workers and 90k granpas Or 10 million workers and 90 million granpas The issue would exist in all groups regardless of size Is a age distribution/balance issue Those can solved either by adding more young people...o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:58 AM
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yeah but is the race inclusive racism,all welcome as long you racist Like latino or south east asian white supremacists
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:16 PM
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I dont know if is the best,but is definetly among the biggest given it came programmed into most people reproductitve insticts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 11:33 PM
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gaslight yourself emotionally enough and a frog becomes fuckable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:43 AM
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and how do you define that? like sure the upper end is obvious,you cant expect to be friends for 7 years before inviting her to a date but the lower end is incredibly blurry is making a move after 3 days too fast and be perceived as shallow (he just talked to me because he wants to get laid) is a week or two too long and will be seen as "manipulative" the bottom line is: if you have to make mental gymnastiques to aproach her she isnt into you and you shouldnt force it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:17 PM
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because if you befriend a girl before making a move is seen as being manipulative and ruining the friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:12 PM
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I mean sure,we can try put males into training camps for drilling mass cooperation into them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 02:40 PM
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Master at your craft i can see
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:50 PM
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Gaslighting,perfect tool of a woman Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:19 PM
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nah it isnt dont confuse people ocasionally getting laid with getting relations and dont confuse fast food relations (that last less than 2 years) with actual supportive long term meaningfull ones for most of human history a considerable group of people are "undatable" and never quite land on a long term relation,most of them not being either asexual or aromantic just kinda akward in that aspect of life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:47 PM
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85% of relations this days begin online So yeah dating apps are that popular
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:02 PM
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fuck no,they got different dating struggles struggle to find a date vs struggle with dealing with the person you are dating
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:46 PM
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gonna keep it real,unconventional attractiveness is usually just conventional attractiveness with one or two more ''exotic'' traits mixed in a dude is attracted to fat girls?,then the tradeoff is likely that he still attracted to conventional face,feminity and so on and so off girl likes lanky guys?,she means lanky with beutifu face,square jaw,'stare at your soul' eyes etc the average person is not "conventionally attractive except for a couple traits" type of exotic beauty is "mediocre across t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 03:56 AM
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foid comes from mixing: -female humanoid -female void (as in head empty,stupid,vane,shallow)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:27 PM
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to a degree yes gender roles means one side plays the "sugar" daddy/mommy side where the other provides sex,fun and emotional support (while dating/hooking up)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:06 AM
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for a more exact example you have the aftermath of paraguay war with the triple alliance,90% of men died leading to changes in law and social structure to keep the country going with poligamy legalized (on a conservative christian nation) for a couple generations sexual behavior influences society is not a hot or a new take,is just such an obvious one than most people dont need to point it out is like saying ''food is important for nations"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:31 PM
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Humans do stuff No motication for sex No more humans No more humans,no stuff gets done At its core demigraphics are destiny for mankind untill you can outsource the work to something else in its entirety
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:21 PM
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pretty much,if you are too ugly or autistic you give up or spend thousands of dollars (gym,surgery,classes to develop oratory skills etc) to compensate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:19 AM
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yes? but he isnt saying is good,he is just saying how it happens his conclusion isnt even "exploit this trait of women",is "dont even bother"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:02 AM
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i mean sure it may happen,but is effort in time that can become a huge dissapointment spending weeks or months getting to know someone just to realize "oh....im not actually appealing to this person" is honestly quite the blow to self steem
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:01 AM
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i mean,i have encountered thousand of women across the streets over the course of my lifetime,but encountered is not the same as ''met'' that implies a conversation of a least 4 minutes i definetly have meet less than 500 women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:07 AM
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thats the point,you fuck up because you are both inmature and lack experience but in HS the collateral damage (career,emotional,economic,social) from breaking up is low breaking up in your 30's is far more of a hasle than in your mid teens
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:40 PM
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nope,up to 85% of people meet online this days,with most of the other % being pubs/clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:36 PM
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no (at least no most of the time) next question
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:46 PM
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men need to be disposable because they build society,you need your workhorse to be a mix of reliable but also easy to replace women are baby makers and carry the kid within them,so you can only get 1 kid (2 if she has twins) at a time,men can cum several times inside different women so the demographic impact of losing men is massively less than losing woman this is just a harsh truth,men are biologically intended to be disposable,but also more independent/free
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:00 AM
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depends on the strenght of the reaction: ''oh thats nice"-prefference *boner followed by lustful groans*-fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:54 PM
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man,the gaslighting is strong on this one there is 2 wrong ideas from the get to go -attraction is purely virtue based (people only like people based on them being good) -only the actions and choices of the pursuer (aka people showing interest and trying to charm the other) matter on the first,there is aspects that dont rely on virtue,timing (if your schedule,goals and lifestyle dont aligne),physical attraction (if you dont get a erection or wet you cant really force it),money (dates,rent,gifts …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:04 PM
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and there is the bait and switch
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:00 PM
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good for him
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:00 AM
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late bloomer cope is hard (im late bloomer)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:44 AM
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you just dont date sorry to tell you this,but life is not fair,and some people dont get to be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:42 AM
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ignored person is a person that is resentful resentful is dangerous Esentially, no ones wants incel ISIS
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:24 AM
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it has to do with gender,but is not a hard rule that is obeyed 1:1,is a approximation or a rule of thumb just like saying"men are stronger than women",they dont mean to demean olympic women lifters (wich are stronger than most men) or wrestlers they mean the comparizon between average vs average so the average girl has a easier time getting a relationship compared to average guy,is it a quality relation? (probably not)but even so,the knowledge that you have options is enough to ease the mind of …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:45 AM
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nah they do,this days online is around 80% of how relationship starts face to face is obsolte this days
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:36 AM
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is truth from a certain point of view,you need to filter out by demographic groups >young (20 to 35) >online dating (wich is around 80% of dating in young demographic) >60-ish of young men are single,where 30-ish of women are single when it comes to this filtering options,wich would be representative of modern young westernized and developed nations,then is truth change the country and demographic groups,then it changes the data
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:34 AM
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is a distribution issue the men that get laid are a mix of: handsome,socially skilled,well off economically you college broke dude cant compete and so he doesnt get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:32 PM
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No they dont Up to 70% of modern relations begin online Admitedly online doesnt equal dating app (online could be meeting in discord,or games etc) But this still a massive percentage,romantic relations is now online
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:58 PM
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Teen love is a fuck up and tends to ends bad Buts thats the whole point Fail early and learn from it when mistakes and consequences are low Breaking up with a partner after 2 years when you are a teen is not much of an issue,your lifestyles and finances are independent Doing it when you are 30 has a much hugher collateral/fallout
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:27 AM
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look sex is an action i would only do with a romantic partner im serious about is just who i am i want a partner with a similar perspective,im not gonna judge if they had sex with former boyfriends/girlfriends (it was done withing a serious relation),but i simply dislike hooks ups and situationships
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:43 PM
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Thats pretty much Hyper competitive enviroment and uneven dating standards make dating a painful experiencie With feminism women gained economical freedom,so now there was a surpluss of "masculine" (read economically self sustaining and job focused) women In theory to keep the dating market balance this working women should be fine dating household males (stay at home partner) or be willing to share 50/50 Instead of that,you got beaty standards stay the same (girls wanting someone traditionally …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:54 PM
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dating has become too competitive and with the ratio between time invested/chance of relationship being not good enough why get to know a girl thats basically being pursued by half a dozen guys on person and several dozens online? (obviously this is a figure,there is variation,but as rule of thumb,you arent actually getting to know another person in modern dating,you are just another profile in a big list) the modern dating process it feels dehuminazing,emasculating and demoralizing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:52 PM
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Thats a catch 22 A declining birth rate society means a dying one in the long term,wich will be replaced by thise that are willing to have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:54 PM
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We aint talking about sucess rates long term Just most common relatinship 63% young dudes lack gf Where 66% young girls have some sorr of relationship arrangement So where this men cant come from the young age racket so they have to come from the other age rackets as well other women sharing men (a fwb that jas multiple girls) casual sex more lesbian relations dating older men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:48 PM
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i agree on that,when i engage on small talk i dont expect long lasting friendships or romance to be born,i just enjoy exchanging neat random facts you were the one suggesting small talk on libraries and museums as a way to meet girls so i was pointing that it isnt really that good,and at risk of sound mysoginist you are girl,there is a certain cultural and sexual bias to girls engaging on conversation that gives you a easier time getting some sort of long lasting outcome (nothing personal agains…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:31 PM
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At most it was a shot exchange about fun facts in a very short and polite manner (the same sort of conversation you migtj strike on a ascensor or public transport when there isnt anything better to do) But overall that sort of conversation is a to burn time and doesnt really open itself to more Is great you are extroverted,but that shut you describe is a unlikely outcome,more likely than not will be a few phrases,nods and go on with life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:11 PM
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nope im just saying that players shouldnt be hypocrites dont get to enjoy the slut life and then judge others for doing the exact same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:10 PM
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yeah,but women cant actively cause man to become smaller on height a slutty man complaining about slutty women,is like a killer complaining over violence,cant complain if you are actively contributing to the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:18 AM
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There is nuance to it i guess Sex as with any other activitie can reveal details over a person character and behaviors To have 130 friends with benefit on top of god knows how many one nigtj stands you gotta have a esentially complete and total emotional detachment between romance and sex Is around a new partner every month Aka,not carinng about esentially treating/perceiving your partners as disposables cum rags and being perceived like one or if they care they do so in a very superficial and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 03:00 AM
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Nah,making the calcs is more like a person ever 1.6 months (or around 7 weeks) Wich still a lot tho,people meet around 300 acquantainces in their life Assuming a 50/50 splot between women and men,that means 150 male acquantainces So having 100-ish partnes is like fucking 2 thirds of the male acquantainces you ever known
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:36 AM
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i mean,even casual sex is usually better with FWB (as you get to know each other to a degree and there is mutual understanding) to have like 20 guys a years it means you are getting a new partner every month and half,wich honestly does scream "im not satisfied with anyone" ​ is one thing to have casual sex and be fun,is other to have a compulsive behavior and treat your partners like cum rags (or enjoy being treated as one)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:08 PM
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There is a balance between "prude virgin that cant look at your eye" and "womanizer slut that will pump and dump you"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:00 PM
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The age where most peopme stop "discovering themselves" (around mid 20's) Past that is no longer late bloomer but rather a couple developmental milestones behind the curve and people will not babysitt you into romantic and sexual competency
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:54 PM
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some people see sex as a way to connect emotionally (beyond the carnal pleasure),so having mindless sex in high amounts might backfire when it comes to seeking a long term partner,as they might think >"im probably just another number to add to the body count" >"he/she probably had not standards and thats why they have so much sex" >"why did they have so much sex with no comitmment,do they have issues settling down for a stable partner" in way,high numbers make you think your partner is only for …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:05 PM
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if you do all of the former (giving healthcare,tax benefits,inheritance benefits,medical authority etc) to someone,you still legally binding to somebody,it would be a sort of marriage in all but name (many countries have categories of free association for couples living together for more than X amount of time in the same place),is just that for simplicity sake we rolled up all this legal stuff associated with long term relations in a single package/bundle wich we call marriage so if a couple if …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 03:41 PM
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marriage is a social contract of forming a new family unit (with family being a group of people who support somewhat love you, and the people you can confide in and trust to a degree as well sharing your life with) "i share a long term relation with you,this comes with certain benefits,duties and quirks" so,you get someone to mutually share and support both good and bad experiences (be it sharing economic issues,doing house labor,be moral support,sharing experiences etc),but in response both adq…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 03:28 AM
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i think is a matter of intimacy,with intimacy as in "special bonding activities and shared experiences",for some people sex is more than just the sexual pleasure but also an act of emotional bonding,so they probably feel put off by the idea of someone doing it without much care or issue there are other non-sexual examples i could think where engaging on the same activity with multiple different partners takes away emotional value,like thinking the songs,poems,music a partner dedicated to you and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 11:34 AM
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thanks,that actually makes it pretty clear
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:12 AM
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i think another important thing is that improvements are less noticeable the more experienced on sports you are gaining 3-5 pound of muscle when you have 60kg is noticeable,gaining them when you are 90 kg,and already buff and training regularily isnt that much of a breakthrough
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:05 AM
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is a mixed bag loving someone just for their looks is dehumanizing and treats them as a piece of meat,as your example perfectly puts it ​ loving someone DESPITE their looks isnt much better,as sex and attraction is a big part of intimacy,and knowing you dont inspire any kind of desire on your partner can be humilliating,as it means you arent special or important in a important part of the relationship dinamics imagine saying "you have a flat ass and look ugly as hell,but hey you kinda nice,but i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:27 PM
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i wouldnt say the "your personality won me over" is a bad thing i find it flattering ​ but i agree no one wants to hear "look,you are ugly as fuck,but you make me laugh",it feels like they are putting you down and treating you as a consolation prize rather than feeling as the focus of your interest
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:22 PM
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rule of thumn,you have outliers cases with ultra skinny people,or people with hormonal issues like tiroids but as rule of thumb >not starving and not a ball of fat seems a good enough indicator of health
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:10 PM
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I suppose is an indirect indicator of how they handle relations Big body counts migth indicate they never really commit to relations and you are simply a rebound of temporal distraction,it takes away the "special" of the relation and bastardizes it Would you find special if someone dedicated you the song he/she dedicated a dozen times over to wildly sifferent people? Dont get me wrong is not like im going to obsses over it or ask any girl about it nor expect a pure virginal girl by any means,but…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:00 AM
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Well she isnt wrong It its a way to generalize people and is unfair (probably there is a lot of fat or people on wheelchairs that if it wasnt for that little detail would be the love of my life) But what can i do if my dick doesnt get up with people of such groups?,force myself to date them? As ugly as migth be romantic and sexual attraction is a selfish and unfair thing that doesnt give a fuck about morality or social equality
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 12:15 AM
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i mean,personally i wont but there is scale or nuance to it,one can learn to live with someone's negative traits if their positive ones are strong and abundant enough to counter the negative ones like,maybe your gf has a ugly face,but has a nice body,nice personality,has been a good friend etc so in the mind of the dude the tradeoff is worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 04:41 AM
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how thats being a shitbag? >''tell me truth'' >tells the truth in a respectful manner while trying to calm her down and remind her that he is with her because of her personality and hearth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 02:47 AM
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>face >frame (broad shoulders,good posture,nice body shape) >height >muscle
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 06:58 AM
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because they should? is not the end of the world,but is a formative experience,there are age rackets for each type of experience childs 1-5 sometimes shit themselves,childs above 12 shouldnt unless something has gone wrong in their health or psycology ​ in a similar manner,teenage experiences serve a porpuse,to be a bridge between childhood and adulthood you make friends,you adquire new responsabilities,you form you persona initial political opinions,you take your first cringy yet necesary steps…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 12:22 AM
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yes it is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 12:45 AM
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basically yes you can make up for it focusing on social skills,but overall ye
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 10:30 AM
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Is an scale,the type of love between friends,family and romantic partner overlaps but rarely can replace the other completely At the end of the day most people desire a partner Someone with they can share their lives,they want a family (read family "nucleous of people you share a life with" not necesarily having kids,2 person that have been living one along the other for decades are family) Friends and family are nice,but at the end of the day they come to their home and have their own shit to w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 01:38 PM
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I never minded women having standards What bothers me is the hypocresy of trying to pass their standards as not being shallow In other words,is fine not dating someone because you find them ugly,is annoying when you try to say "im not superficial,is just that his looks give a vibe.....insert excuses"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 01:27 PM
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i mean im kind of old fashioned,if im going out with a girl i preffer if we are exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:51 PM
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dispossable in the social sense people can afford to not be careful with their social relationships because they have means to meet a lot more people,as well having means to streamline meeting and developing relationships this makes meeting easier,but makes stablishing long term bonding (wich needs effort and compromise) harder
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 10:32 AM
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Jesus Incredible mind reading powers Why arent you helping the FBI or CIA?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 02:21 PM
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It would be a return to tradition Men are supposed to give something of worth to pay for "marriage" just that this time instead of the fathers is given directly to woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:10 AM
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the irony doesnt escape me,im aware
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 03:09 AM
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If a guy in this group maintained positive regard towards women he could still be peak desirable to me. come on,no need to sugar coat it adding the ''if'' and other exception conditions,doesnt make it less obvious what you are saying unexperienced men are less desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 01:05 AM
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>implying i learned
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 11:06 AM
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in practice what i see is that people meet,talk and somehow enjoy each other presence,so they roll on,either they develop that into a relation or just keep being friends ​ never managed to land a relation on my side of things tho
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:40 AM
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im a forever aloner son of a single mother,and for the sake of my life i wouldnt take advice from my mom
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:24 AM
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most men dont have easy time finding a fwb tho
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:40 AM
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>implying im even getting a date
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:38 AM
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who the fuck takes dating advice from their mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:37 AM
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Nothing is stopping you or anyone else from having fun if you wish so But certain acitivities are fun because of social interaction Certain things are "team activities",so being forced to doing them alone can actually reduce the fub you have with them Have you tried to have a soccer game with only 1 player trying simultaneously being both teams? People usually dont go to clubs only for the music (there is music concerts,festivals,auditories expositions,or even hearing music through your headphon…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 07:09 AM
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nope,is real life having the look of being tought isnt necesarily equal to your skill,sure if you look like the rock,is a good indication of being strong but for the average dude,a couple tattoos,and a outfit can make them look tougher than they are
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 06:55 AM
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yes and? like,suffesring isnt binary between ''mental death'' vs ''total bliss'',there is a scale to things while not as bad as rape,you can still kind of understand that it feels shitty to be have 30 years of your life and have no one to share your life with,because at the end of the day you come home and you are alone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 06:49 AM
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realisticly this society limitations exist for a reason a 30 year old dude,alone screams 'im desesperate to get laid',wich if you are handsome or rich is not that much of an issue,but if you are an akward mess kind of compounds ​ in other words,if you dont know how to flirt,going to ''hunt'' alone is even worse
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 06:37 AM
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boners happen when you pump blood into the penis so enough physical excitement (workout,rubbing your crotch over a surface like the sit of a bike in a bumpy road) can cause erections in most situations ​ while a man will get erection for things he feels attracted to,not all boners are attraction motivated in nature
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 09:54 PM
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We all settle for Every human has mistakes and issues So in order to have a relationship you need to learn to somewhat tolerate their issues to a degree If we didnr settle we would expect all our lives seeking unnatainable perfection And there is rangw when it comes to settling down "I learned to appreciate you with and despite your errors vs im scrapping the bottom od the barrel and i donr love you at all"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 11:44 AM
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dont mistake ''minimum standards'' with ''higher standards'' ​ minimum are ''what my partner must look like at least so i feel attracted to it'',maximum is ''my best expectation or ideal''| men have lower minimum than women,where men and women have higher maximums ​ dont pay attention to what men say they find attractive (everybody wants to fuck a supermodel),pay attention to what they actually fuck or have relations with (this show what they are actually willing to settle for)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 11:00 AM
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depends on the quality of the deepfake
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 12:53 PM
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it depends on endurance when you should give up in pursuing relations? when you feel the emotional and physical strain of it is causing you long lasting issues if you are tearing your body to improve your looks,or keep yourself at the border of a mental breakdown by trying to keep up a facade in those cases,is probably for the best to move on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 10:09 PM
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he wasnt lying tho,a billion dollars is a billion dollars
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 06:46 PM
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234 divided across 18 years is roughly 13 thousand dollars a year,wich is 1080 extra dollars a month a considerable extra cost of life,but not maddening high increase
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 05:09 PM
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That's because they're less religious, more expensive to live in, and over-crowded. That's why the USA has the the highest Western birthrates. We're more religious, and we less populated areas to live in, and we live keeping taxes low in half our country. In Japan's case, they're working to death with no free time. is not as simply as a ''single factor'' issue,religious plays an important part on things by giving an existential motivation for birth,as well poverty rates richer and more educated …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 12:59 AM
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why not,may i ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 04:45 AM
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you dont train to be loved no one takes a 6 month course on how to be attractive,you dont take a 3 months course on how to learn to say hello to a girl without getting an akward boner,you dont plan for social interactions as a sort of template you can control every variable you either learn through a combination of trials/testing and luck,or you dont have it and have to rely on finding someone with a soft spot for akward guys by random chance
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 04:20 AM
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red pill mentality is the outrigth opposite of this tho red pill is all about ''i cant make it happen with enough effort'' ​ self improvement is possible,but ''better than before'' not necesarily means ''good enough for others'',wich is the big trap of pill communities,they ignore that is not something you can control entirely,there is another person and if your best effort doesnt meet their standards,no amount of will and positivity will change that for minor akward cases,is perfectly doable to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 02:34 AM
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Yeah pretty much Clenching your buttocks amd jaw while repeating whatever red pill mantra they tought aint gonna magically make girls fall for you if you are a whole package of social fuck ups
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 01:57 AM
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here is the thing,sometimes you cant catch with them,or at least not without destroying yourself in the process imagine a maimed person trying to run equally fast as usain bolt,is unlikely albeit still possible,but the sheer amount of sacrifice and effort involved is likely to break him/her if you are REALLY far behind (not socially akward,but actual major social development issues),then sometimes is best to just dont try so hard and rather rely on luck,because realisticly thats what people so f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:17 PM
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learn to cope and partially move on?,people do that all the time if 30+ girls have rejected you,no amount of clenching your jaw will make the 31 more likely to get you if you are outside the average of ''social skills'' and ''beaty'' leaning into the bad percentile,is not a matter of skills if you meet a girl you connect with,but luck so the only thing you can do is keep living,ocasionally meet new people or girls to befriend and hope that some day you ''click'' with one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:11 PM
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yeah,thats actually quite reasonable its fine to try from time to time,but obsessive chasing of something tends to be self destructive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:09 PM
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there is only so much you can bend something before it breaks human mental health and body is not different ​ healthy self improvement is ''read a book every day'' pill communities self improvement is ''read book all hours,neglecting every other single aspect of life'' im against the self destructive pursuing of single minded goals,at the end you end up burning your self and not even reaching your initial goal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:07 PM
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there is honor in accepting you maybe arent made for some things quitting and focusing in other areas of your life is an option normal self-improvement is adressing one issue at a time,while still having some space to grow,relax etc,so what they improve on becomes ''natural'' to them (practice a language,and because of this you gain a bit more of fluidity when speaking it) pill comunities take self improvement,take the most hardcore aproach (every single second must fit a schedule,every single m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:58 PM
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i know,thougt it fit the feeling i have over most pills communities
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:49 PM
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in real life people dont train to date as hard a pill communities try to make a ''guide'',even bluepill (aka ''only feelings matter'',fall into this),sure they make effort to try to be more appealing,but is more of ''i prepare for the date a day before of it,maybe a week before in most extreme cases,and even is mostly trying to look good and prepare a nice date/gift for my partner'' There’s literally nothing I can think of that’s more cringe than some patethic dead end social outcast low status …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:30 PM
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yeah,you can be creepy through any aproach method if you fuck up bad enough ​ thats how social interaction works,you open yourself and pray the other side is open for interactions too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:30 PM
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might be an asshole,still he spits the truth acting like a blushing teenager scream inmaturity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 03:48 PM
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This is why men are getting ZERO empathy on this topic. cry me a river,you are the one that asked,im answering honestly,acting all offended and stuck up is worthless ''i post a thread asking over a topic i dislike and then read answers that dont agree with me and now im upset'' this a subreddit for discussion,not for getting triggered at every post that might say something we dont like ​ That's already been happening thanks to birth control, abortions, and women having more opportunity to be mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 06:13 AM
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Yes? Lack of sex means no kids No human relations No economical activity I wouldnt put it as a collapse risk but definetly seems like a warning for a demographic crysis in the making 1 in a 3 people up to 30 years old never had sex And the issue is,is a trend that only seems go upward both in number and in total age range
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 05:35 AM
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is a matter of perspective no one likes ''try hards'' people obsessed in achieving something when they clearly are at disadvantage to the point it looks stupid and pathetic,like a 5'3 guy trying to become a basketball player,or a dude harrasing a girl that has rejected his aproachs several times over,because they feel forced and somewhat silly but you dont have to show others how much effort you undergoe for your looks,just avoid talking of all the effort you do to be good looking unless asked a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 03:46 AM
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a lot of what makes ''masculinity'',is socially constructed but all of it is merely an cultural evolution,warping,development or exageration of the ''core'' biological traits that make men be different from women,so you have a lot of bullshit but with a kernel of truth at its core for example,men are naturaly stronger physically,so culture around sports and strength tests is built around this as a natural development of this (the sports culture is social construct,the physical strength of the av…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 12:04 PM
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No Not really Masculinity serves its porpuse by making people assertive,confident and have driven As well strength of character This "we dont need to be physically fit" and "we dont need to have strength of will" leads to this shy guys that esentially live as prisoners of their own room (neets,hikkomoris etc) amd crysis on health by encouraging people to be overweigth Im not saying "you gotta be able to figth a bear with a knife" Is a requisite but for gods sake at least a bit of channeled agres…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 09:22 AM
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all love is conditional the concept of love itself ''baing overly caring of someone over everybody else'' implies that there is something you find ''special'' over said person,a ''condition'' otherwise you would treat them the same as everybody
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 10:14 AM
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i mean if thats you case,congratulations ​ is has never been the case as far as i know ​ the idea that you gotta have a ''checklist of personality traits'' before being considered a sexual object appears not something that most people experience as far as i know,like as if is some sort of ''chore list'' ​ the idea that personality is some sort of universal objective measure that everyone is automatically aware of and that only ''good people'' can be attractive ​ if that was the case,no asshole w…
/r/ExRedPill08/12/20 04:06 PM
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again,have you literally masturbated thinking ''oh yeah empathy''? does empathy give you literal boners(if you are man) or make you wet (if you are female)? does empathy make you cum in the same way having sex or masturabting does? obviusly this are rethoric questions,i dont expect you to answer them,but i use them to ilustrate my point ​ not saying is worthless of anything,but each thing has its context and place as well porpuse ​ usually sexual attraction is well....superficial and shallow as …
/r/ExRedPill08/12/20 03:28 PM
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More like "things that make a good long term relationship" Short term i doubt anyone feels attracted to this Im yet to see anyone getting horny over someone empathy There is really a need to differentiate traits of sexual attraction from "stable relationship" ones
/r/ExRedPill08/12/20 12:28 PM
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men will stick it in most girls,girls have higher standards with their partners ​ so where a famous dude would fuck a slightly chubby average girl,a famous woman would try to fuck someone above average,as well having to stop creeps
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 12:06 PM
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i think is not the number of partners so important but the amount of time between each new one a girl that dates and dumps boyfriends each week scream ''im using men as living fuck toys'' and you should get away as fast as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 10:36 PM
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is pretty redundant that conclussion ​ looks matter because they are easy to spot and we unconciusly seek them ​ obviusly you will care about superficial things the less you know some one
/r/BlackPillScience17/09/18 09:47 AM
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beauty is holistic is the average/sumatory between your physical traits,not only one hyper-specific,some traits can have more weight than others depending the culture,person and biological importance,but at the end is the average between all ​ ​
/r/BlackPillScience22/08/18 10:55 PM
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