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| 10 | Is porn just normalised cheating?I think women have been gaslit into believing that porn isn’t cheating when in reality our inclination is to feel cheated on when men watch it. It’s so “normal” now that we are literally supposed to accept porn viewing is just another aspect of being in a relationship with a man (in addition to cleaning his house for him, cooking his tendies for him, etc) It will never stop until women as a whole demand better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 01:58 AM |
| 2 | THIS is why FDS. Coming from a single mom, I will never again date someone who makes me theirs, too. Too many comments saying "those men don't exist" or "if I tell him ill give him time then he might.."Excellent advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Someone here recommended drawing your ex and the reasons you left....I ran out of space.Wow. Piece of shit of the highest order. Hell is too good for that fucker | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 08:29 AM |
| 269 | Another meme summing up relationship subsTry surprising him with a ps5. He will totally care after that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 10:32 AM |
| 25 | A piece of my soul died knowing she hasn't even considered leaving this shitbag.Wow the advice is literally “it isn’t your husband’s fault” What a dumbass. This poor woman was crying out for help and this bullshit is what she gets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 03:48 AM |
| 3 | If you marry a low value man, it doesn't matter how rich he is, you'll still end up fighting in front of a Wendys like all the other low value couplesI agree; I feel bad for her. Have some empathy people. It can happen to any of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 05:38 AM |
| 8 | This post on Married Red Pill made me so fucking scared.What stupid and dehumanizing bastards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 04:52 AM |
| 17 | I can't help but laugh, look at her contact name though.My thoughts exactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 09:23 AM |
| 12 | Does anyone else here actively avoid elegant/suave/"cultured"/debonair men?Yes, I dated this type of man before. Rich, fancy, etc and completely sociopathic. Money does not buy class whatsoever. I weep for his later girlfriends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 01:38 AM |
| 2 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:This is an amazing picture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 01:32 AM |
| 19 | Can’t make this stuff up. Grown able-bodied men begging and accepting money from Pick-Mesha’s on Twitter. Many had jobs. Many called out those who wisely refused to donate too. They don’t like getting called out either.Don’t give men money. They will shit on you at the next available opportunity. This is sad AF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 01:27 AM |
| 2 | He charges her for coffee at his home.Jesus Christ lady wake the fuck up. Even if it was a cultural thing - fuck any culture that perpetuates anything like this. “I charge my significant other for meals” = shittiest “culture” ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 01:26 AM |
| 8 | I have a question for former pick me or cool girls. How do you come to terms with the things you used to do?I remain aware that I was a young girl being abused and manipulated by older men who treated me like an object due to patriarchal constructs and sociopathy. Forgive yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 07:27 AM |
| 29 | Husband did a LVM thing todayTruth right here. Her husband is the office creepy. I bet that chick wants to run far away from his weird ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 07:18 AM |
| 4 | My mom having a beautiful FDS moment (english is her second language :P )Wow that’s a new low. I can’t say I’ve ever been asked out on a fast food “date.” Jesus what a moron | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 08:18 AM |
| 335 | My mom having a beautiful FDS moment (english is her second language :P )Imagine being a dr and inviting a potential romantic partner out for a fucking donut. What trash. Your mom is a boss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 02:21 AM |
| 3 | COVID 19- Your complete guideI vape. I’m worried but mentally not prepared to deal with quitting. No idea how it affects/will affect my lungs regardless of this virus. Almost totally off nicotine now though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 02:14 AM |
| 21 | Women who standard-shame other womenAfter working with older populations, I can vouch for the fact that that generation of men is full of awful, abusive, drunk assholes. Not that today’s generation isn’t, but our guys learned it somewhere. Women decades ago probably felt lucky if their guy didn’t beat on them. 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 04:15 PM |
| 11 | Why Breadcrumbing is Pure EVILThis is so real. Sadly I let this happen to me more than once. However, the alternative can also happen. You start ignoring the dude for a few days and suddenly “wanna do something tonight?” Trying to reel you back in, fill that food bowl. Fuck those losers. I don’t play that though, I just straight blow them off at that point. Poor babies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 08:17 PM |
| 12 | How do you forgive yourself for what you did before you knew better?The patriarchy literally brainwashes and coerces women from birth to put up with all that shit. You have been conditioned your entire life to behave that way. Movies, role models, books, tv commercials, social media ads, etc. Without learning of an alternative, how could you know what you were doing was hurting you? You’ve been told your whole life to go against your gut? Give yourself a clean slate. Love yourself. You deserve it! You are seeing through the patriarchal bullshit and working on li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 09:28 PM |
| 1 | I saw my ex for the first time in several months today. So glad I dumped his ass!Sounds like he trolls food courts for young teen women. Pedo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 09:24 PM |
| 5 | Was told to cross post my post from twoX..Don’t go back OP! He is a horrible piece of shit abuser and you DID NOTHING TO DESERVE HIS TREATMENT! There is a man (or woman, if you prefer) out there who will treat you like a queen. You will NEVER feel scared and anxious about his actions, he will never ditch you on Valentine’s Day, and he will contribute more th an the bare minimum financially and with regards to keeping the place clean. He is out there! Don’t give up! Fuck this scrote and do not go back to him! You are worth so much more! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 09:19 PM |
| 3 | A recent date with a LVMHe sounds like a tool, and also like a typical software engineer lmaooo. Good for you for one and done-ing that shit - definitely don’t need another “date” to learn more about this tool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 09:15 PM |
| 8 | After 6 months of no contact The wild narcissist appears. 5 years of nothing but sacrifice for a man. It feels good to know he’s upset his power is gone. “You deserve, but I probably can’t” lmao I know. Always that making a negative seem positive. (You ladies have done wonders showing me the light)You are sooo right about narc men. Thank the goddess I only dated one - I was a teenager. I dumped him the second time he cheated on me and he wrote me a HANDWRITTEN five page letter about how perfect I am, how sorry he was, etc etc all lies and bullshit and then emailed it and posted it all over his social media accounts. Lmaooo FUCK THAT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 09:11 PM |
| 3 | LVM I dated for 4 months kept all contact info of all women he datedOmg I do this for my husband for the opposite reason! If I get in an emergency I want the EMTs to know who the right person to call is so I have him as “husband.” Is this bad?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 09:08 PM |
| 58 | 8 years after her husband's passing, she still receives flowers and notes for Valentine's dayThat’s sweet. It says they won’t stop “anytime soon.” Man probably dropped a few gs to make sure his wife was comforted instead of sad. And money was his only option, he got creative cause he was dying. How many men today are living up to this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 09:03 PM |
| 1 | He didn't eat on first dateI see this as weird. If he was sick or whatever and didn’t want to tell you he would have ordered something and then just not touched it or pretended to take sips. Idk what it means but strange for sure. You mention his hands were shaking - could this be a drug thing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 08:57 PM |
| 3 | He didn't eat on first dateBut conventions suggest you order something and then don’t touch it lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 08:57 PM |
| 17 | My husband worked at a sperm bank. The age cut off for donors was 34. Men are apparently delusional about their own biological clock lmaoI wanna hear more stories from your husband about his bad “customers” lmaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 08:40 PM |
| 3 | We’re going out for Saturday night drinks and out of nowhere he says ‘my flat mate is really sexy’ I go back home. My friend says I overreacted and I should be coolerHilarious that you immediately left. Good work girl. He is a tool. Laura prob tells him to fuck off too 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 08:37 PM |
| 21 | Is this grounds to breakup with my boyfriend or am I being dramatic?Imagine being with a low effort stoner who barely gives a fuck about you and texts his exes for the rest of your life. Is that what you want your love life to be? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 01:56 AM |
| 7 | Why are they so grim?Hopefully he’s loaded and she is just waiting for payday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 01:51 AM |
| 11 | Life hack: dump your controlling LVM and find you a HVM who shares your sense of humor and interests! Your entire relationship will thrive.Left dude prob cheating on her and that’s why he is so paranoid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 01:44 AM |
| 3 | 90s TV Shows were all about “empowered” women giving up their hopes, goals, potential, and dreams to slum it with their low achieving boyfriends. No wonder Millennial dating is messed up. Topanga I am so disappoint, sis.Selfish. Wants to stay home near mommy and daddy. Can’t support his gf/wife for 4 freaking years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 04:48 AM |
| 8 | (Some) Women tolerate cultural misogyny because they believe they are better off than previous generations of women.You’re amazing. Goals | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 04:29 PM |
| 11 | "Why some men come back" instagram post by @r.h.sin. As a recovering pickmeisha I had to retype it here on phone to save & internalize that shit FOREVER. Here it goes :The thing about the man having a list of past women he has been with and referencing it is SO TRUE. I think I’ve been hit up by all my exes at least once. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 08:49 AM |
| 36 | Funny that he is treated like a God in Hollywood and nobody is calling him outWhat the hell is this video though this guys profile is all anti Jew and conspiracy theory shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 07:44 AM |
| 3 | Found on r/witchesvspatriarcyYep. Got banned pretty much right after I subbed. Never even engaged there. More like witches for the patriarchy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 02:30 AM |
| 3 | I am dying! Which one of yall made this mod for the sims 4?WTF LMAOOO I need this mod | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Louder for those in the back.I actually dated a dude who ate cold raviolis out of the can. Yes, it was as bad as it sounds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 12:42 AM |
| 3 | NEVER compromise your personal values or integrity for a LVM. Sis needs help.Her edit “I still don’t have clarity on what to do next blah blah” when everyone is calling him toxic and saying to dump and move on is SO SAD. This guy is an abusive fuckstick. WAKE UP, GIRL! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 10:31 PM |
| 19 | Does this seem disturbing to anyone else?Lmao love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 10:29 PM |
| 87 | Does this seem disturbing to anyone else?Polyamory is bullshit. I said what I said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 10:26 PM |
| 3 | He finally showed me his true colors.Glad you picked up on it quickly. Now make sure to block on everything :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 10:23 PM |
| 17 | 14 years...This has to be satire and If it is she fucking nailed it lmaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 10:17 PM |
| 12 | Avoid any man who is into the “van life” trendFor a 4 bedroom? Jelly 😐 a non trash heap is 300k here in a major city suburb... can’t wait to get out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 10:14 PM |
| 5 | Share your LVM older man story here.I’m so sorry you went through that pure hell. What an awful, evil man. I have no words. I’m so glad you kept your promise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 06:09 AM |
| 4 | Another man who “found out” the woman he’s dating is an FDS member 🙄I wanna be her friend, you go girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 05:44 AM |
| 5 | Another man who “found out” the woman he’s dating is an FDS member 🙄Right?!? Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 05:44 AM |
| 48 | She had 2 babies.Holy shit look how common it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 11:35 AM |
| 5 | Once you defeat all the Pickmeishas, you have to battle the Queen.My first thought too lmao sounds like a man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 06:14 AM |
| 12 | Asshole Father eats all his daughters food and the commenters blame the mom!But then those same dudes will go nuts when you point out that most fathers act like babysitters at best | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 03:08 AM |
| 6 | What FOO (family of origin) issue created your current and/or former pickmeisha behavior?An eating disorder that manifested from a bunch of bullying when I was a kid. Lost the weight, was suddenly “hot” and all the boys liked me. Let myself be used by losers for a few years, always hoping for it to turn into something more. Eventually I ended up with my husband, and it’s honestly pure luck that he is a HVM because I was definitely not in the mindset to find HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 03:06 AM |
| 22 | More salty male tears over lopsided result of “open relationship”.Lmao, so true. I had a friend who was married to this loser (thank god they divorced) and he demanded an open relationship. She was super against it at first but eventually she was like ok fine. Right out of the gate she had a different guy every week, always posting on FB about the dates and parties she was attending and pics with her and the guys and how hot they were. Her husband? Didn’t find one single woman willing to sleep with him. Hilarious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 03:02 AM |
| 9 | As if...Mine too. Sooo boring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 09:58 PM |
| 13 | PSA: PLEASE everyone, take the time to educate yourselves about the effects of porn, porn addiction, betrayal trauma and the industry to protect yourselves!! This could literally save your life!!There are men out there who don’t watch porn. Don’t settle for the pornsick losers. Too bad that it’s so prevalent nowadays young boys have it shoved in their faces from elementary school age! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 02:46 AM |
| 3 | Why does it sound so relatable???😂 thé majority of us have been there right?Describes one of my ex boyfriends to a t. Talked to his newer ex years later and he described me as the “psycho ex” to her too. I’m sure he is describing her as the psycho ex to his even newer gf. He’s a piece do shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 11:05 PM |
| 8 | This one hurt - long standing FWB is no more. #kickhimout2020Nice exit though. Better luck next time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 06:34 AM |
| 7 | LVM verbally and emotionally abuses gf as retaliation for not paying enough attention to him and his dick. She was planning him a surprise party.Nice one to the girlfriend dumping his ass ASAP! Now that is a HVW right there. Hope she joins us at this sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 06:28 AM |
| 22 | This is why you need to have your own money...If any woman reading this is stuck in this situation right now, all it takes is pulling a bit of cash back here and there at the grocery store and putting it in a new account at a DIFFERENT BANK. Stockpile that shit for awhile until you have enough to bail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 06:25 AM |
| 25 | Man threatens to murder his own sister if she grows up to be promiscuous. THIS IS WHY YOU DONT TELL MEN JACKSHIT ABOUT YOUR SEXUAL HISTORY.Or pedophile | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 06:10 AM |
| 68 | Male are NOT more rational than woman, exhibit no. 7547486548“Violent” isn’t emotional tho; he is just being “passionate”!! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 06:07 AM |
| 6 | We all were pickmeisha at one point, but let’s talk about how our upbringing influenced our pick me ways!I think bullying (by boys) when I was a little girl influenced my pick me behavior a LOT. They teased me especially for being fat. Well, when I was 13-14 I lost all the weight and suddenly the same guys were all up on me. It felt different to suddenly be wanted and I ate it up. I didn’t have any female role models really - I never would have talked to my mom about it. I think inside I was still that little girl getting bullied so I wanted the affection. Really I should have just given them all t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 12:39 AM |
| 6 | This sub didn't make me hate men. Men did.All very good advice. I can admit I have similar stories from my past that happened before I realized not to put up with those manchildren. You are so right! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 11:06 PM |
| 4 | When your mom is trying to set you up. It took me awhile to straight out say no.Lmao smart mom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 01:44 AM |
| 3 | Choosing your child’s father is one of the most important decisions you will make in your lifeThey do it because they are looking for a mommy/free sex/someone to plan their lives, cool and clean for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 01:37 AM |
| 6 | Choosing your child’s father is one of the most important decisions you will make in your lifeI agree. I’ve seen so many stories where things were peachy until she got pregnant and he went off the rails. It’s also possible she always knew he was off but ignored her gut. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 01:29 AM |
| 7 | I’m trying to figure out why you would have an intro like this? Manager at Target 😂No hate for retail peeps. If he is the actual manager of the location he is likely hitting over 6 figures. Prob working 60+ hours a week. The “fucked over” part is what is giving me red flags tho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 01:23 AM |
| 3 | I'm 14 and a 17 year old is interested. Should I be worried?Oh god fuck those commenters encouraging this clearly uncomfortable young victim of male sexual coercion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 01:13 AM |
| 6 | How do you shut down sexual talk? How do they respond?Yup. It’s over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 01:12 AM |
| 6 | Would you date a religious person?The one thing I’ve had in common with every man I’ve been with is that none were religious. I didn’t consciously choose that but I simply am not attracted to religious men, not to mention chances are higher they are a misogynist who wants to sit back and let women do all the work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 01:10 AM |
| 31 | The Most Important FDS Message: YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR THE BEHAVIOR OF MEN.Love this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 12:55 AM |
| 11 | If he has a picture like this on his profile RUN SIS BLOCK HIMLmaooo I thought I was on r/justbootthings what a loser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 08:20 PM |
| 13 | A comment on youtube about a perfectly cute girlBut coffee date is better because you can escape back to real life after if it doesn’t go well (“meeting up with friends tonight sorry gotta go”) whereas dinner/drinks comes with the expectation for a lot of men that a show comes afterwards... although If you do end up with one of those, just ditch him while he’s paying the bill | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 03:27 AM |
| 18 | Pick me girl - you need to realise it’s not your job to fix his shitty mood.This type of post is why I loveeee this sub. If my man has a problem and it’s not something we can work out in a conversation then he better meditate on it and handle himself like an adult. It’s not up to me to cater to his every whim. Sometimes people will have rough days/tragedies happen in life and it’s being a good partner to show them love during those times but don’t deal with 50 mood swings a day from manbabies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 03:16 AM |
| 6 | Another "Forever GF" is dumped by her "boyfriend" after he wastes 7 years of her youth. Do better, ladies. Ghost them after no more than 1.5 years without a ring. He's just not that into you. LET THIS BE ANOTHER DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE MEN. ZERO SHIT!!!!This is the best advice. His profile picture isn’t one of the two of you together? Byeee boy. None of that “my favorite dead dog from my childhood” picture to hide the secret wife and kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 03:13 AM |
| 8 | When on a date with this dude,he bragged about being a personal trainer the whole time and thinks I'd respond to "sup". Boy byeWe all knew what was coming after the “sup” right?! You have good senses. Fuck this loser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 01:16 PM |
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