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Yeah I guess my English isn’t as good as it could be 😅 I meant to tell her that she can always drink a coffee and get some energy to join us. But then it’ll be even more funny if we just miscommunicated 😀
/r/seduction08/07/21 05:19 PM
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Well that’s the truth 😀 Never planned on asking her out as I didn’t even know her. She just said she was always down for coffee so I said sure, and set a time and a place. The whole reason I am confused is that it just came about rather than me directly asking her out.
/r/seduction08/07/21 05:03 PM
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It’s only me and her. Well I don’t even know her, like I said I just wrote in a bigger group and she liked the post. And I copied the basic convo here. Just convo editing is kinda bad on mobile
/r/seduction08/07/21 02:17 PM
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It was kinda hard story to comment on as it was about her girlfriend, so I went like: You always visit such calm places, I am really jelaous of your companions. I know it's not the best, but one could respond something to that if wanted....
/r/seduction16/03/21 06:38 PM
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So I did it, she liked my message aaaand that's it... No response other than that, I don't think I should futher bother with it...
/r/seduction16/03/21 06:25 PM
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Yeah nothing to get hang up on... but damn I was like ok you are right so I sent a reaction to her story, and guess what Instagram kinda cockblocked me, meaning it didn't send my message (our conversation is blank not blocked though)? or something is up, now I am wondering wtf is going on :D
/r/seduction14/03/21 08:59 PM
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Yeah, my guess would be, that he read a book, forgot most of what it teaches, and just picks some things out of it and tries applying them. He really needs to analyze his interactions with the girls, and reread some of the books.
/r/seduction25/12/19 12:19 PM
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Sorry dude, but you are the literal example of the other guy calling out bad advices on this sub. 14 girls flaked on you for "no apparent" reason. If that's actual girls, whom you had physical interaction with, then I've got bad news for you, it's not them. So the first one literally told you that she wants to have sex with you, and you thinks it's a test? Why? For what? You act chill about it and you wonder why she flakes? She literally offered herself up, and you were like "ok, whatever"... Du…
/r/seduction24/12/19 10:34 PM
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So I guess in this part, there is no arguement to be had, as I totally agree that, one should anylize how the interaction went, and how it can be improved on. But (yeah there is a but :D ), I feel like the "just be yourself" part mostly refers to just being comfortable in your own skin, for parts that you either dont want to or cannot change. Like what you think is funny, your interests. And I think many people just don't feel comfortable or passionate enough to express it, so they seem to be bo…
/r/seduction24/12/19 08:31 PM
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I kinda agree, kinda, because there is a lot of the same I'm high o'mighty tone coming from your post as well as the ones you deem useless. For everyone, take my response with a grain of salt, as I'm not a pro in any way, but I feel like some points in this post are better addressed. ​ Starting with fancy sounding quotes, ugh. Let's just skip this. How this is relevant to learning the dating game. So your point is that there are a ton of hype guys on this sub, who basically know nothing about se…
/r/seduction24/12/19 11:37 AM
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Hey if you still want to gout out and push each-other to do it I'd be down for it
/r/seduction22/10/19 09:11 PM
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hey, if you are still in Budapest and want to do it, I'd def go out and wingman :D
/r/seduction22/10/19 09:09 PM
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Hey, if it's still available for you, I'd be down to go out and wingman ;)
/r/seduction22/10/19 09:08 PM
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worst thing that could happen: "he comes clean about his feelings" -> girl freaks out, as it is too much for her to handle, and poor guy doesn't understand what he did wrong as he was advised literally this. About the rest of the rant, I don't even know what to go on... So it all depends on instincts and life experience? Then why are we even discussing it? oh right, because we want other perspectives and if we have to experience it all through our own mistakes it can take damn long to learn ever…
/r/seduction11/08/19 02:07 PM
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Partially I agree, that it should be put out there as soon as possible, and not let it just linger around them. BUT The purpose of giving advice is that, you point out his mistakes and walk him through on how to resolve his problem, not giving him a half-assed answer and letting him figure out the rest (especially since it could lead to a much worse outcome). Yeah people learn from life experience, but they can also learn from advices...
/r/seduction11/08/19 01:28 PM
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I love internet chads like you... Talking like an alpha male but instead looking like a wannabe idiot.
/r/seduction11/08/19 12:35 PM
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That first point seems a bit over the top for me... Like many people could interpret that as vomiting all your feelings to her in a message. I'd say something along the lines of: Hey I've been thinking about you, do you want to meet up for a coffee (or something else) after the holdiays? And if she responds positively then set a proper place and time Maybe he can even say date instead of the meet up... And the third advice is sooooooo generic for this sub...
/r/seduction11/08/19 12:33 PM
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Just commenting to remember this post :) I wholeheartedly agree with you. I can name soooo many of my friends (sadly many times including me), who just never go for it and be bold...
/r/seduction22/04/19 09:13 PM
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Well for books as usual I'd recommend: - Coach Corey Wayne (also has videos, but book is better) - Mark Manson - Dale Carnegie: How to win friends and influence people ​ for videos: I haven't really watched anyone particulalry for a while now... so I can't really recommend anyone now, maybe someone else can help :) But I think in the end it comes to actually listening to yourself, finding out what kind of career you want, what your passion is, and how and where you want to meet girls, and what t…
/r/seduction24/03/19 07:40 PM
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I'm not sensitive I just don't put up with this shit. Some stranger on the internet starts calling me a bitch and a pussy why should I bother reading his post? Even if he has some good points it's overshadowed by his fake alpha style and from that that point I can't be bothered by reading it any further... Also alpha males do not act like this, some people here buy it, but in all honesty the type of girl you can pick up with this style is not worth it, as they are usually just trashy.
/r/seduction24/03/19 06:53 PM
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I'm venting because I'm seeing more and more posts written in this style... On one hand I agree some people need the tough love, but often these posts are just stating basic facts with putting pussy/bitch etc in the sentences. It's just cringey, especially on the internet. On the other hand they usually don't provide anything plus. All their points are consumed with making themselves look total alpha gods, instead of writing down how they approached, what the feel like did well, or could improve…
/r/seduction24/03/19 05:58 PM
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I kinda love the irony with the all caps title. 😀
/r/seduction30/10/18 09:02 AM
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Sadly I can only add more once I slept and got back from work... (now drinking) 😉
/r/seduction03/05/18 08:51 PM
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And it's so true. Sometimes I look back at my past self and it seems like it was a different person doing things (even if it happened a year ago). It can put things really into perspective like you may have failed in the past, but now you've changed, you are stronger, wiser, and better, you are basically a new you.
/r/seduction09/04/18 08:26 PM
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I can see where you are coming from, there is a lot of negativity here as well nowadays... I guess listen to Alan Watts? he has a lot of great videos, though it's not about seduction.
/r/seduction25/03/18 02:48 PM
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College party - People are more open, feel more secure, much easier to approach, you probably have similar interests/experiences, a lot of common subject to talk about, similar age group.
/r/seduction24/03/18 06:44 PM
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So why should I take the course, if all my problems can be solved by talking with more women?
/r/seduction04/03/18 02:23 PM
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Well the two subs are exact opposites of each other. One sub is about always pushing yourself and improving your inner/outer self, and believing that once you have it, you'll have your dream girls, while the other is basically resignation and some resentment that you'll never have anyone. They'll never believe that it's not just looks, and they could probably get girls, since that would mean that they were wrong, and they wasted so much time of their life not doing it...
/r/seduction04/03/18 09:40 AM
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Yeah since highschool, I've never seen a girl make eye contact with me... sarcasm
/r/seduction03/03/18 02:57 PM
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You know after reading a lot of books about seduction, watching a lot of pick-up and based on recent events affecting me in this regard, I think you perfectly sum up how to pick up girls in the simplest way, without all the 200+ pages of talk. Look healthy, and somewhat fashionable (or just own your style) Know the signs of attraction (especially eye contact) Look for any common sign of attraction Say hi, and just try to have a conversation/get her number [Maybe analyze what you did wrong (but d…
/r/seduction03/03/18 02:52 PM
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Sadly no, though I've always wanted to visit Rotterdam. I'm a bit more eastern part of Europe. Rather nor say it in public, though.
/r/seduction27/02/18 11:22 PM
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I kinda know who she was bc we are in the same mentor group, so on the next event I'm hoping she is going to be there :)
/r/seduction27/02/18 10:55 PM
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but yeah I'm definitely trying to push that good feeling towards just improving in the meantime, I've forced myself to run quite a bit because of that feeling, and been working on eye contact game in the meantime just to see how girls respond ;)
/r/seduction27/02/18 10:52 PM
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I mean it's not like I'm in love with her/or putting her on a pedestal, rather just can't get her out of my head for some reason and kinda sad about not chatting her up, because it felt like I had a decent shot. (but I can be wrong) If I meet her again I will definitely just try to talk with her about some common theme (erasmus) and see what she is like, rather than drool over her. The weird part I meant was that I've seen hotter girls on campus and I forgot about them on the next day, but for s…
/r/seduction27/02/18 10:50 PM
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You hold people with small talk unintelligent and yet you draw up a parallel between no small talk and cavemen, way to prove your point. I can only applaud you.
/r/seduction12/12/17 09:28 PM
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Hmmm, I don't know... For a while I've been trying to initiate eye contact with almost anyone, just to practice holding it. But still the girls I'm talking about hold it for longer, or even by the time I look at them, they are already looking at me...
/r/seduction21/11/17 05:43 PM
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First week? 6 days out of 7 Second week - about 4 or 5 Third week - about 3 times, but they were almost going to detox type of nights
/r/seduction28/09/17 06:06 PM
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Yeah that's what I'm currently doing, it just feels bad that I was set back so much...
/r/seduction28/09/17 02:56 PM
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It gives a bit different take on picking up girls, and it also follows it through until serious dating and relationship, which usually other books don't. But the main points are mostly the same, but that's the good thing about it, because those things never change...
/r/seduction21/09/17 01:12 PM
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Coach Corey Wayne - How to be a 3% man
/r/seduction20/09/17 03:46 PM
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But that's why you are getting all these links... Because in those books and videos, people who started out like you/me/most men, tell you how to overcome these feelings, and how to approach, start and hold a conversation. They still have approach anxiety, like anyone else but they choose to act against it. The main conclusion is that: You have to go for it and practice it (the approach anxiety won't ever go away if you only watch videos, read books), once there is a point when all you need to d…
/r/seduction14/01/17 06:45 PM
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https://understandingrelationships.com/ You register, and you can read the book and listen to the audio book as well, but I think the book is much better, the audio book is more about relationships.
/r/seduction13/01/17 09:41 AM
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/r/nofap is full of shit. If he feels like going to an escort, then why not(not that it's a big of deal even if it's your first time), in the meantime he can start improving himself.
/r/seduction12/01/17 10:59 PM
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Simple Pickup is very useful, have you seen Project Go? (same guys, a lot more useful videos) only bad thing is that it costs money. Unless piratebay...
/r/seduction12/01/17 06:09 PM
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Holy shit it's annoying: Generally, I want advice what are some places to find girls, and WHAT to talk about with them. How exactly should I start conversation? What should I pay attention to? All of it, in the books and videos (much better explained and shown): but to summarize: -where: anywhere (public place: you approach say: hi you seem cute wanted to meet you, disco, pub, if you have any special interest join a group you can meet girls there) -what to talk about: anything? (try to find comm…
/r/seduction12/01/17 06:06 PM
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But if you don't care about the links/books/videos why are you even here? If you want to start somewhere, then that is where you have to. No one will sit down and tell you what to do, when there are much better representations in the books/videos. It just feels like, that you don't even want to put any work into it, and don't really want to improve.
/r/seduction12/01/17 05:58 PM
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Look at the sidebar ---> Important books I'd recommend: Dale Carnegie: How to win friends and influence people (extremely helpful in every life situation) Coach Corey Wayne: How to be a 3% man (you can read it for free if you register, no credit card etc needed) (the book itself has really good recommendations in it) if you want videos about people picking up girls: Project Go is a good start Plus, also useful stuff: RSD videos on youtube about picking up girls, The Manual is also a good read, M…
/r/seduction11/01/17 06:47 PM
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Well not as soon as you say hi to her, but mid-conversation. I used to watch a lot of Project Go, where they show video footages of the guys picking up girls. They often approach girls with just normal approaches and then tease them with something the girl said. You should definitely check it out, since they show actual picking up, and later analyze it, not just talk about the whole stuff... (Their videos are even up on piratebay, just sayin'....)
/r/seduction07/01/17 05:26 PM
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Maybe that's an issue? That you start with the attitude that if you start with normal opener, it's not going to be fun/successful? And it just resonates throughout the whole conversation, that you feel awkward and just not confident at all. Even starting with normal openers, you can make it fun, you just have to find something to tease her about, or just have some crazy questions mid-conversation.
/r/seduction07/01/17 04:14 PM
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I think the first one was done well enough, he was just unlucky that the girl is taken. (and of course she "saw through him" he went with the intention of picking her up, they should know about this) Second one, you could've been a little more confident, but probably she didn't really want to talk, which happens.... I guess you improve and get more confident as you talk to more girls, so I'd say well done mate!
/r/seduction07/01/17 01:33 PM
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