arstim Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	What Are the Best Countries to Have Fun (with Girls)? Tourists, yes. Locals, tough af.	/r/seduction	28/07/26 12:26 PM
2	Mean but sexy I don't need to to justify anything lil bro. I've been doing this when you were still in diapers and have been with all type of women and can tell you that the 9-10s are boring in and outside the bedroom. There are exceptions, but they are a minority.	/r/seduction	25/07/26 06:54 AM
5	Mean but sexy Super hot girls are usually boring af. A 7,5 > 10 in bed.	/r/seduction	24/07/26 10:06 PM
2	Odds of finding a fwb through cold approach Strong communication skills and story telling abilities will get you far.	/r/seduction	22/07/26 05:32 PM
13	How do you charm bad bitches? Not really, i've seen bums dating bad bitches who were broke af. You have to be funny, unpredictable, keep her in check and have a dgaf attitude.	/r/seduction	14/07/26 03:27 PM
0	35M, next european city? Depends on what language you speak	/r/seduction	13/07/26 07:27 PM
1	How does meeting people at bars work? You are broke and looking to get laid in bars and asking for help on how to do it. Seems like you should fix your priorities. No top tier woman is attracted to low effort guys like you.	/r/seduction	27/06/26 11:08 AM
1	I feel so jealous of all the guys women choose to have sex with Elliot Rodger, is this you?	/r/seduction	04/01/26 08:45 PM
2	Are American women or European women easier? It depends on whether you can speak the local language or not. As an American tourist/ppb in Europe you'll likely never get to experience dating real local girls unless you have a strong game and high value just simply because most of them will not interact with you because of the large cultural gap (language, mindset, mutual interests, etc). Might have some luck with those who are well traveled or lived abroad for a long time, but they represent a minority.	/r/seduction	25/10/25 09:21 AM
26	Why doesn't Mystery appreciate direct game Even though MM is outdated on some aspects of the game, it's not about getting a number or contact info. It's about getting in the head and seducing women you encounter. And that's what indirect game does.	/r/seduction	12/09/25 06:56 PM
0	What’s your go-to move for that first date greeting? Awful advice.	/r/seduction	04/09/25 12:03 PM
0	130 Cold Approaches In: Is This Worth It? Keep trying and improving on the areas where it goes wrong.	/r/seduction	04/09/25 08:48 AM
0	130 Cold Approaches In: Is This Worth It? Ask yourself: out of those 130 interactions, with how many did you actually have a conversation where you provoked emotion and got a connection. Did you get to a point where you were already setting up a date and closing the number or instagram was a formality just to stay in touch? Lot of guys mess up in thinking getting a number or instagram is a win, it's just a piece of the puzzle.	/r/seduction	03/09/25 08:36 PM
2	Approach Women Sitting in Groups at Bars Stupid approach, getting a number or instagram is relatively easy, it's about creating emotion and making sure that you see her again. Many guys equal game with getting contact info, which is just an amateur's approach.	/r/seduction	01/09/25 03:12 PM
7	How to approach women as an introvert? That's Mystery method, those lame openers are cringe af.	/r/seduction	31/08/25 01:28 PM
2	Don't try to get a girl to like you, try to get a girl to feel something +1	/r/seduction	21/08/25 07:08 AM
1	If a guy goes in for a kiss on a first date and she turns her head… Yes, happens more often than you'd think. A lot of girls have unwritten rules. No kiss on the 1st date, no sleeping before x amount of dates, etc. Don't take it personal, just understand whether it was too soon or whether she's not into you.	/r/seduction	16/08/25 09:05 AM
3	I left my date because she wants me to pay Depends on the country and the culture. Some places girls, hot or not, don't pay for dates. So nothing to do with self esteem or confidence.	/r/seduction	05/08/25 09:52 PM
4	Quick tips/pointers on how to approach in a club? Unless you look like Henry Cavill, this might be the stupidest take i've heard.	/r/seduction	02/08/25 01:37 PM
5	How do you guys feel about opening the car door for the girl? Agree except for the flowers. Depends on the culture. For instance: in NA: big no, in Russia: big yes.	/r/seduction	29/07/25 05:27 PM
2	I managed to approach a girl at the mall. If the girl is in no rush, you can easily squeeze out a 5-10min. conversation. The longer the conversation, the more talking points, the more common interests you can discover to then escalate to a possible date and then you close with number, insta, etc. If she's in a rush, then respect it and throw a joke or something like "let's continue this conversation via (number, social media). Don't want you to be late to your appointment because of a random stranger you met at location X" or anything s…	/r/seduction	15/07/25 07:03 PM
11	I managed to approach a girl at the mall. Once I made the same mistakes. I'd get numbers, insta, fb etc but not replies or straight up getting ignored because I didn't make a connection. Read that last word again. It's pointless to ask for Insta, WhatsApp, etc etc if you do not make some sort of connection with her. Basically the number, instagram, fb, whatever should be the conclusion of a successful interaction where ideally you even discussed a 1st date based on mutual interests or sth she's very into. It's should be a closure moment…	/r/seduction	14/07/25 07:11 PM
9	Dating in Prague My prediction: the closest interaction you'll have with a girl in Prague will be escorts considering your mindset is already messed up from the beginning.	/r/seduction	03/07/25 11:14 AM
63	How Many Guys Are Using IG To Game? It's a good tool, but remember: girls' DMs are flooded with messages, they use filters to cover up insecurities and they can just decide not to engage. 10min. of game in real life beats 1 month of DM'ing back and forth on IG.	/r/seduction	24/06/25 07:48 PM