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| 5 | Put down the phone and meet women in real lifeTexting has only been around for like 10 years and people had no trouble with attraction before that. You need to face the fact the dating is going to bring about awkward and uncomfortable situations. If you're nervous, chances are she's nervous too. You can't use texting as your crutch to communicate. If you're too busy to meet up, then try to talk on the phone. It'll build comfort way better than any text message can. Texting should make meetups easier, not more complicated. | /r/seduction | 07/03/13 05:57 AM |
| 2 | Interested to know Seddit's advice to online dating sitesThe more time you spend on creating a better profile, the less frequent you'll need to send messages. Pictures are most important: NO SELF SHOTS! Good pics are the best way to show your social proof/value/attractiveness so don't half ass it. Don't message anyone until you have that squared away first. Only message girls who give you something to work with in their profile. Make sure there is something interesting from the profile you can put when writing the first message. If her profile is blan… | /r/seduction | 07/03/13 05:42 AM |
| 1 | A few things I've learned from reading Seddit.r/SelfImprovement is pretty much inner game | /r/seduction | 06/03/13 07:07 AM |
| 7 | About texting (too much), a bit of a [FR]While your advice on texting is generally good and this was an entertaining FR, I don't think there is too much to take from this. I mean you've already banged her countless times, hell she wanted to marry you at one point. I just wouldn't want guys who are starting out to think this kind of forwardness is expected, especially ones they haven't gotten to know yet. That being said, nice work on getting her back. Sounds like she's wrapped around your finger. | /r/seduction | 06/03/13 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Calling girls the day after the night you met them?In my college years I would text a half hour after meeting them with a question relating to our conversation. She would usually respond that night and I would continue it the next day. That way you're continuing the connection while you both sober up. | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Just can't open at all (day game)Successful daygame takes an advanced level of confidence that very few people have. If you're not good at conversation, you shouldn't expect to just pick up strangers in the middle of the day. That being said, start small. Say hi or make an observation while keeping eye contact and smile, then just go about your day. Gauge their reaction. If you're getting smiles in return, then they might be open to smalltalk. You get nervous because you don't know how they'll react, and you're putting pressure… | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Before you do anything else, decide what you want.What you stated is very rational and makes a lot of sense...in theory. Is human psychology rational though? Some can argue yes and some no. It's actually rare to find someone who really knows what they want. Are you looking to settle down, have a relationship, and eventually get married? According to statistics there's a 50% chance it will fail. You may want it now, but not later. If you were to ask me what I want, I would hesitate to describe it, but I'll know when it presents itself. I'm never… | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 08:14 AM |
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