artefakt2013 Archive

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21	Do women want to get approached? If so, why do they flake? If you're attractive, yes. If you appear to have decent money, yes. Most of the time, they enjoy being pursued and the validation. They flake bc they get over it, or have other suitors. Source: age 40, male, years of experience- droughts and floods.	/r/seduction	11/07/26 01:00 PM
2	I Slept With 80 Women From Dating Apps, Here’s How I Got 3 Hook ups This Week (Breakdown With Proof) I have great hookup numbers without inviting them to my place for a first date. Most women don't like that. First dates are normally casual and fun- happy hour, ice cream, roller skating, beach. Within ten minutes I know that she wants to see me again. So after an hour or two on the date I ask if she has plans after this. Most of the time they don't. So I'll ask to extend the date and already multiple options lined up. By the end of the day/night she'll more than likely be willing to go back to …	/r/seduction	24/03/26 06:42 PM
3	Is my female coworker coming onto me? Invite her out to happy hour to "catch up." Then make her laugh and keep her yapping. She is interested in you. Tell her youre curious what a kiss with her feels like, 60% of the time it works everytime 🍻	/r/seduction	09/01/26 12:37 AM
13	As a guy in his 30s, is it easier to get dates with women in their 40s or women in their 20s? Almost 40 male here. I attract women as young as 23 and as old as 50. I've dated as old as 46 and as young as 23. Just in the last six months: 29, 46, 26, 33, 23, 25, 32, 42, 36. Currently seeing a 32 year old. I think i fit best with late 20s and early 30s. Which is easier- all of them. I've finessed myself and just make them all laugh, smile and generally have a good time. Never a dull moment, but that's just me.	/r/seduction	17/12/25 05:26 AM
1	Help on dating an avoidant woman? She's not interested. Move on.	/r/seduction	25/07/25 05:06 PM
5	All the guy's I've [F22] asked out so far had girlfriends Good on you! Don't be discouraged. Go ask 7 more! For me with cold approaches, maybe 1/10 women are single. Maybe some of them are just saying they're not available to save me face. But I'm proud of you!	/r/seduction	21/06/25 02:34 PM
1	Talking to multiple girls is the best way. Almost 40 male here. In my early 30s i developed a PACE plan. Primary, Alternate, Contingency, Emergency. A time management tool. When I'm not in an exclusive relationship I have at least four women on my roster. The Emergency gal never sees the light of day. Never have dinner with her, all other events are open. Circles of peers never meet her until she moves up. Stay non-committed to outings. Has to earn the remainder of my time and resources. The Contingency is eager to please and never asks …	/r/seduction	23/03/25 08:32 PM
–	How girls actually want you to text them.. (+3 examples that got me laid) Looking forward to your reports/posts. Comment my username so I get the notification. 🍻 👏	/r/seduction	24/10/24 11:59 PM
–	How girls actually want you to text them.. (+3 examples that got me laid) Homie- I feel for you and want to help. Sounds like we need to develop your confidence. You're not going to like this recommendation. But, you need to try cold approaches. When you're out and about in public, approach a random woman and chat. First week or so, just try saying hi and smile. Next, "hi," smile, and "have a nice day." Do that for a month. Month or so of doing this, your confidence will be higher and you'll feel it. The following month, increase your face time with those random women…	/r/seduction	24/10/24 07:45 PM
–	How girls actually want you to text them.. (+3 examples that got me laid) Do you have any platonic girlfriends or coworkers, you can ask for help? Basically, gotta be very fuckin creative and quick with the wit on the drop. Good ideas are to observe how your favorite movie actors perform or talk. For instance, James Bond, the guys from Mad Men, or if you've watched/read shows/books like sex and the city/50 shades, you get an idea of what women are into.thete may also be some stand up comedians that can teach rapport. I'm in my 30s meow but it's taken me 15 years to ho…	/r/seduction	24/10/24 06:50 PM
1	How girls actually want you to text them.. (+3 examples that got me laid) Great post OP. Wise, skilled and great examples 👏. All I hear from women is that dating apps are awful, they say so on their profiles. I then ask if they receive a decent lineup, matches, messages. They answer yes to all three. Then the app is not awful, it's effective in serving its function. Like any other service, user experiences vary. Their problem lies with the users of the platform, not the app. I develop rapport and have witty/humorous exchanges almost instantly. Within a few exchanges (…	/r/seduction	24/10/24 06:37 PM
1	She invited me to her house, how do I escalate ? You: "I've been thinking." Her: "about?" You: "what it's like to experience a kiss with you." Or After playful banter and touching/flirting You: "I feel like you haven't been kissed in a while."	/r/seduction	17/10/24 08:01 PM
34	Walking a dog is an excellent way to meet women Can confirm. I have a wiener dog. And everyone ignores me and speaks directly to him. So I give out his IG and ask them if they'd like a play date. Later, I'll send them wiener pics.	/r/seduction	24/09/24 08:13 AM
1	Gym girls - here’s how I go success with them Good stuff. Except correcting her form lol as others have said. I have developed rapport as easily as just asking if I can work in. Or asking if she can teach me that workout. Over my last 10 years and 4 cities I've lived in, gym girls are the best. Even if they are in relationships or married, they'll introduce you to their friends.	/r/seduction	25/07/24 04:30 PM
1	She liked my message when I asked her out? Next biggest lie, "I don't have notifications on." Meanwhile, I've sat next to her and hear/see all 13 app icon notifs on her screen	/r/seduction	27/06/24 04:47 PM
0	Yoga class, what to do? Chat them up and just strike a natural and genuine conversation. Over time, they'll warm up to you. The married ones and single ones will become clear. I wouldn't ask one out until they are directly asking for it. Only because you need to play it cool and not stir up drama there. I was frequenting a yoga studio for six months. Never went out with any of the gals there but two of them did connect me with some of their friends.	/r/seduction	17/06/24 04:25 AM
1	Is it over for me or is there any hope left for me Gain confidence in yourself. Plenty of great advice on here. I was you ten years ago. Brown in complexion (hispanic/white) and not very attractive. Threw myself into a full year of development, including physical fitness, leaving my comfort zones like being shy and nervous/anxious all the time. Started attending karaoke bars, bingo events even open mics. Within a few months, I couldn't recognize myself. Suddenly, I had the attention of women. Simce then, I have lost the body physique but I have …	/r/seduction	31/05/24 08:42 PM
2	Would you see it as creepy if a 40 year old kept approaching girls in their 20s or 30s in clubs? Not creepy at all. I dont frequent clubs but in any scenario or environment, it would only depend on your method. I'm in my mid-30s, and I feel cringe just thinking about approaching anyone younger than me. However, I'm well maintained, somewhat in shape and decent looking. I can't help but resist the attention younger gals send my way. If I read two nonverbal messages like eye locking for more than two seconds, and if I smile and they smile back- I approach to say hello.	/r/seduction	17/02/24 03:49 PM