TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

articulatefit Archive

View 0 posts and 17 comments by articulatefit on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
3

How old are you and Laura now? And how long married now?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 07:13 PM
5

In what ways do you engage with others on the subject of marriage and/or long term sexual partnerships? Do you actively seek to impact the culture the way Laura does, or?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 07:09 PM
1

I have no idea what may be floatin or sunk on your personal emotional river, but I've noticed that - especially when I or others appear bound up in or fixated on something, the publicly stated 'reason' we are upset is rarely the root, even if it is valid on its own. Not sayin never, but rarely. At the time I divorced my first wife - I told myself it was because i could not imagine any conversation I wanted to have with her 10 years hence, never mind today or tomorrow. In the ~9 years since, I've…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/15 11:13 PM
1

I suspect you will sustain yourself better through the transition if you chose to notice how, while you do not need HER for sexual release, you probably will be more effective if you give your body some type of recurring sexual pleasure.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/15 10:46 PM
2

heh - so you believe that another human being must behave in a certain way while you have your cock inside them, hmmm. Aren't fetishes funny? Full disclosure: I have cut loose a Lover that seemed to be stuck in some deer in the headlights thing during sex, very disconcerting, but this is an area that I think is fraught with entangled feedback loops. I once read an article by a female that men could have more sex if women could have fewer orgasms. Her point being that IF sex means she has to cum,…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/15 04:42 PM
3

So much can be built on the foundation of self restraint. For those really interested in financial freedom, http://www.mrmoneymustache.com will kick your ass in the right direction.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 09:42 PM
1

de Mello (sp?) was an interesting guy, gotta love a Jesuit who runs afoul the Papal thought police.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 02:52 PM
1

How old are you? T levels do shift over time and if we observe the historical anecdotal wisdom on male mid life change, there seems to be a knee in the T curve for many of us. I've noticed that my body responds much better to 19 year olds than 49 year olds, but I do not assume that my libido will be constant for my entire life.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 04:12 PM
1

Interesting how much of the reading recommended here I had already assimilated. Only gap was WISNIFG. Making my way through that and I agree Dr. Smit has the standard 1970's naïveté regarding gender differences, but otherwise excellent. Reminiscent of Wayne Dyer's original work, although more practical. On the subject of passion within marriage, Esther Perel's "Mating in Captivity" describes the problem well, and has some reasonable recommendations, but as I recall she also fails to acknowledge …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 03:51 PM
1

Your house, your rules, all good, thank you. Remember different approaches fit different organizational sizes. Democracies become republics, egalitarian tribes become heirarchical kingdoms, &tc. And countercultural movents seem to be particularly anti-fragile in a certain phase, right up to the point where they become the primary culture, at which point a facist/totalitarian phase seems to ahow up - heh. In the meanwhile, it takes balls to acknowledge the prophets' truths.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 06:22 PM
1

this. The 1% Love, Love, Love for us to be distracted by skin color and gender whatever and blah blah. Follow the money.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 04:34 AM
1

And for all the post menopausal horniness I was blessed to experience, many note that the female drive to be coupled definitely takes a hit as the hormonal shifts happen. I first heard of this in "The Female Brain" but I've heard others note this also. And with culture encouraging women to divorce now, probably a different shape to the risk curve around the menopause zone than there used to be.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 03:48 AM
1

Our mental state has far more impact on our bodies than most people realize. Consider the implications of believing for decades that old people get sick, or lose libido, or alertness...or 'my husband is my orbiter/friend.' I'm sure somewhere there are post menopausal women with uncurable stuff going on, but based on my experience after my divorce, there are plenty of women who have no sexual problems at all after they stop droppin eggs monthly.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 03:42 AM
2

i stopped asking and started making it a surprise. They've all stopped whining and complaining about it and have become quite pleasant dinner companions - heh, well, for hormonal teens. Also every now and then I remind us all how blessed we are to have such first world problems.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 03:30 AM
2

turn off the TV, they are always selling a consumer lifestyle choose to associate with less ostentatious people check out one of the kings of fun frugality - mrmoneymustache.com
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 03:09 AM
8

Each half has their part to bear: We are asked to restrict our desire for sexual variety, and women are asked to refrain from jumping ship when a better man sails near. We are called to continue to deliver at least as much lifestyle as we promised, implicitly or otherwise, and they are called to continue to deliver at least as much feminine caritas as they lead us to believe would be ongoing. Plenty of room for everyone to see the promises they wanted to see if any of this is allowed to remain c…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/15 03:56 PM
1

http://www.mrmoneymustache.com/2013/03/28/the-incomparable-advantage-of-having-to-work-for-what-you-get/
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 02:28 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter