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| 20 | Unfortunately asked him out for drinks as a first date... How can I change the dynamic from cool girl who gets drinks late with him to his future queen? | SEEKING ADVICE | artinthesun | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 05:21 AM |
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| 1 | Unfortunately asked him out for drinks as a first date... How can I change the dynamic from cool girl who gets drinks late with him to his future queen?Yes I agree. Most doctors are pretty weird which is why I was so pleasantly surprised that was his profession. Never would have guessed it just by looking and talking to him. But I agree if he can make it through all his schooling he can definitely ask me out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Unfortunately asked him out for drinks as a first date... How can I change the dynamic from cool girl who gets drinks late with him to his future queen?I think I will let him know I’m back and see where he takes it from there. He’s usually quite good with replying promptly even though I myself take forever lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Unfortunately asked him out for drinks as a first date... How can I change the dynamic from cool girl who gets drinks late with him to his future queen?For me I prefer courtship that is way more laid back and casual. I usually don’t enjoy dressing up and going to nice places because my day to day life is pretty tiring that I want my free time to be spent either relaxing or drinking lol. I also don’t care for gifts like jewelry or flowers. I already have more jewelry than I know what to do with and often throw the flowers away. I really value the time I spend in talking and getting to know someone so I could ask to see him more but I don’t have … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Unfortunately asked him out for drinks as a first date... How can I change the dynamic from cool girl who gets drinks late with him to his future queen?Yes so I’ve heard. But good news is that his end goal is cosmetic surgery so now it’s a crazy residency schedule but should definitely become more normal later. But then my struggle becomes adapting FDS to someone with such an extreme life for these next few years. I want to establish that he is going to have to put in effort but at the end of the day I know that medicine will be his reigning priority for the foreseeable future and I am okay with that because my career and hobbies also take most… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 08:41 AM |
| 3 | Unfortunately asked him out for drinks as a first date... How can I change the dynamic from cool girl who gets drinks late with him to his future queen?Ahh you’re right but it’s so hard to not overthink it when everything seemingly counts from date 1. But yes thank you! That is such a well worded transition. Will definitely try to say something similar. But I’m wondering that if I don’t message him first that he’ll think I’m not interested and then doesn’t message me. Especially since I had no problem asking him out in the first place he’s probably not going to think I’m all of a sudden against messaging him first. Even though my game plan has … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 08:24 AM |
| 7 | Unfortunately asked him out for drinks as a first date... How can I change the dynamic from cool girl who gets drinks late with him to his future queen?Yes absolutely love becky vs dreamgirl! A much needed dose of reality every woman should get. I know I’m very far from becky and will always do what’s best for me but I’m also not a demanding person at all. I will pretend to be demanding if it means it keeps him interested and makes it more challenging for him and want to date me for at least a few months. Otherwise I really am easygoing and being demanding would be more tiresome for me and it is not an act I want to keep up forever but only in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 08:14 AM |
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