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Licensed practical nurse
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 08:21 PM
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Yea. What about it?
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 02:37 PM
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I am thankful for my health and job as an LPN. My health because I am not limited in what I can do really and I have a crappy family that wouldn't help me out. As strenous as it is being a nurse it pays well enough for me to be a proer adult and not have to work multiple jobs.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/19 01:34 AM
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I am thankful for my health and job as an LPN. My health because I am not limited in what I can do really and I have a crappy family that wouldn't help me out. As strenous as it is being a nurse it pays well enough for me to be a proer adult and not have to work multiple jobs.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/19 12:58 AM
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I'm sorry for the input (y'all feel free to downvote but I've been in an abusive relationship) but I really don't see this marriage lasting. Nobody should ever put conditions on ANYTHING especially on childbearing. Before I finished reading I just saw too many red flags. I'll be the second to say that your husband seems to be controlling. And why surrogacy when you are perfectly healthy to carry? I'm not sure of this is redpill advice but I think it's time to re-evaluate this marriage. Children …
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/18 09:05 AM
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Yea I only weigh 118 on a good day. Can't gain weight. Most of it is in my hips and i have no boobs almost.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/18 08:32 PM
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Yea I only weigh 118 on a good day. Can't gain weight. Most of it is in my hips and i have no boobs almost.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/18 08:32 PM
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It's funny. Although I am on the opposite end of the spectrum at 5'0 my height doesn't make me feel anymore feminine. In fact there are a lot of days where I don't feel feminine at all and I feel like people view and treat me as a child (I'm 25). It's normal for all of us to be insecure of something we can't change. And plus there's those super models around (corny I know) that are considered the epitome of beauty. You are a unique individual height and all. There's nothing wrong with being that…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/18 02:53 PM
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Just the idea that women can still have it all: career, family and kids. One of those things have to give.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 01:11 AM
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I am unfamiliar with Tinder, but I definitely do not do hook ups. If I decide to date again, it'll be somebody who's likely to become my spouse. The lpn to bsn nursing path is arduous, but I realized considering the pay and work schedule, there really isn't any other side career paths I could take that would work. And to pay off my debt and still have money. I'm in nyc so it'll probably be rocky figuring things out, but I'll get it done. I think I might have to put off a bsn degree for later bc …
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 04:11 AM
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Honestly, I think it boils down to special privileges, such as being in the military, where 'equality' means lowered training standards, which would mean in an actual battlefield, disaster. I realize that 'equality' for women and men sometimes comes at the expense of others or entails changing something or a policy to benefit women. This isn't always true, but achieving equality the way it's seen by the modern world in many places is ironic given that something else has to be compromised, which …
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 01:19 AM
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Honestly, I think it boils down to special privileges, such as being in the military, where 'equality' means lowered training standards, which would mean in an actual battlefield, disaster. I realize that 'equality' for women and men sometimes comes at the expense of others or entails changing something or a policy to benefit women. This isn't always true, but achieving equality the way it's seen by the modern world in many places is ironic given that something else has to be compromised, which …
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 01:19 AM
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That's so crazy. I had a woman in my old church go into 200k+ for dental school. Last I knew she decided to stay home with kid, and I think her husband makes a middle class salary. Don't know how that's working out. I never realized dental school costs so much and the field pays relatively little. Well, at least she's taken care of I suppose.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 10:29 PM
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Wow. I'm guessing her debt has to be in the 6 figure range.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 09:20 PM
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You make some really strong points. I definitely don't plan to spend that much on a studio and I highly doubt I would even get approved for anything of that amount given my credit history. I think the best policy is to budget and go where you can afford, which might mean sacrificing some things. At the moment I'm not even looking for a fancy lifestyle or a certain way of living. I've lived in housing projects and pretty crappy places so I can definitely set my sights lower. While I do realize it…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 08:50 PM
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I've never had money, but I think there's a trend that the more money and success a woman has, I think it becomes harder to be rpw, not that it's impossible. I think its really hard for a woman to step aside from all that and have a good rpw relationship which does require compromise. I think with a lot of relationships where the woman is a high earner, she would need a man who earns more because otherwise there might be a feeling of emasculation in the man. I'm getting off track, but I've notic…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 08:34 PM
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Well that's the thing, I'm really not sure if I want a spouse or children. I like sex but I loathe the idea of sleeping with countless men just to get my fix, and single motherhood isn't something I want to risk, having grown up in that environment. But I don't want to realize too late that I wanted marriage and/or children and can't have any. Then again, I have several relatives (it's shocking considering grandma had 8 kids and only half of them have children)who did not and are unlikely to hav…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 07:53 PM
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Geez those men sound too demanding for my tastes, especially given that childbirth would force a lot of women to settle down and partly or fully give up their careers. Seems there's no happy medium for me when dating. I'm not necessarily limiting myself to the wealthy (and I'm not even sure where to find yuppies that are interested ) but I definitely don't want to marry a bum or someone that is making less than 50-60k. I just feel that would put a strain in the relationship if both parties neede…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 07:43 PM
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I know for certain that I need stability and expressing jobs aren't it. Lots of places are cutting their hours. Besides, healthcare might be a good fit to help with some goals. I do know I need steady employment since its just me and I've got no one else to rely on. I am in a truly frustrating place but it might take a minute to get out.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 07:37 PM
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First of all, how dare you tell me I don't want to work. I am not too stupid to realize I NEED to and WANT to. Being unemployed has given me more anxiety than you could ever realize so I don't appreciate your bs assumptions about my character.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 06:57 PM
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Yup, that's where I'm going to start. Here there are a lot of free programs. I just have to find one.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 02:34 PM
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Well I plan to move pretty soon. Where in the NE us would you suggest I look?
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 02:33 PM
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It's interesting that religion or caring of the poor is not tied into the history of feminism. I think its safe to say even then, those feminists were what we consider now liberals. Though this isn't always the case, it seems that feminism is sometimes a thing of the privileged. I also had a chance to read The feminine mystique years ago. From what I recall, it boiled down to women not having all their personal desires fulfilled while not considering the relationship and the needs of the man. Ir…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 03:29 AM
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Not all parts. But the healthcare fields do pay accordingly to the cost of living.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 02:13 AM
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Definitely. If I could I feel that I would never have gone to college. So, do you work now or stay at home?
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 01:23 AM
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I grew up in the south, so def not going back. But I figure somewhere in this region of us would be a less drastic move. I've been looking at Ct for awhile.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 12:33 AM
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Actually I've mainly been with older guys and it worked out poorly. Looking back I really think it depends on the character of the guy. I really don't want to date any guy over 2-3 years my age. To be honest, I'm not sure if I'm a dating type. Every time I've pursued guys it's ended poorly, but that might have been partly because I wasn't too good at judging character early on. Maybe right now is too soon for me to try to date. There are basic needs I have to take care of, and I definitely don't…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 10:54 PM
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Regarding the rn thing it's not so much the loan thing. There's a myriad of ways nurses have that others do not on repaying loans. My issue is the time commitment. No matter how I slice it, even with some of my credits transferring, it'll still take two years alone to complete a bsn, and that's assuming I'm doing it full time. I'm not sure if summer sessions are available for nursing, but I would definitely do it if it means a quicker path to nursing. I do realize that my time is finite and I do…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 10:50 PM
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Yeah i definitely don't want to attract beta men. But I'm not sure I like the idea of potentially meeting a man who prefers me to dress as something I'm not. I have looked on ModCloth and that's a site with non goth clothing (for the most part) that I may consider. But does a well-planned vintage inspired style seem too much too to guys with good SMV?
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/16 05:46 PM
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Alright. When dealing with low SMV men I have also resorted to ignoring them completely, even if that isn't the best thing to do. Engaging with them seems to always lead into a winded conversation and it's always obvious why they are talking to me. As far as bright colors go, the only one I'm pretty much ok in is a baby blue or turquoise which actually suits my tone. But I absolutely cannot pull off yellows, oranges or greens because they simply don't flatter me. Anything in a jewel tone basical…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/16 05:39 PM
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Yeah. I've been lurking on the male RP thread and things do seem more extreme there than in this reddit.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/16 05:30 PM
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Eww, the middle one is just ugly. I definitely know who the first one is. Also I just remembered Lena Dunham. So basically, neon hair has become an identifier of a feminist, or rather, feminazi. I agree on the fedora. I only see neckbeard otaku wearing those in my area. And they definitely do not look good. I definitely plan to be well-groomed while trying out pastel hair. It's a good thing I suppose I didn't get anymore piercings as I had planned to.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/16 04:02 AM
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Sex is not the key and whoever is telling you this is full of crap. No one looking for a quality relationship ever puts sex as a priority, unless their goal is to get laid at all costs. I was also sexually abused from ages 8 to 11. But I've never held on to my past and have never been held down by it. I didn't lose my viriginity until the year I turned 22. However it wasn't a good idea in the long run for I as a woman to iniate this relationship. Back then sex was my priority because I was crush…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/16 03:21 AM
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It might be possible you're dating a narcissist. I would read up and post on Reddit threads about narcissists. And look on Google too.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/16 12:10 AM
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Ah I've heard about that but I forgot all about it. Thanks for reminding me :) Waxing at home seems scary, but I'll try it. But I'll still need to go somewhere for my back since that's the only area I can't reach.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/16 11:33 PM
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I see what you mean I the styles. The light blue half out of the two times blue/pink combo is my favorite shade of blue and I figured it would make a nice contrast since I have cinnamon-toned skin. If I have a lot of yellow undertones in my skin a cool toned light blue would even out my complexion, right?
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/16 11:31 PM
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Tyvm! I'm black so I'll never be able to pull off whiteface. I have actually known about lolita as a kid and I know where to buy them. The red dress is actually my favorite though and I think I seen it on a website where I bought my clothes at one point. I'm pretty small and short so the only thing I cannot pull off are long skirts and dresses (sigh). I've thought about phasing out the punk part of my style though. I absolutely hate septum piercings, so no worry there. And I don't forsee myself …
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/16 10:42 PM
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Thanks :) I'll be moving to a larger city soon enough, so I figure I could use meetup.com, which I found out about very recently. I'm still unsure why my look is only attracting hip hop dudes/otaku, but it'll probably change once I learn to apply makeup. I'll see how it goes then. I've known about ModCloth for a bit, and considered buying brighter clothes there, but you're probably right about me possibly not being happy in that style. I might also give rockabilly a try once I'm better with make…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/16 10:22 PM
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My routine may look lazy, but I am I the process of working on it as I learn more about make-up. Current Hair/face/body-Nubian heritage soap and Cocoa shea butter (it smells like chocolate) I know it's weird to use one soap in multiple areas, but a really good one makes all the difference. The soap is vegan, so it's chemical free. It has helped to keep my skin clear and works wonders on my hair. I also use it in "other" areas which I would never venture with regular soap. The shea butter is the …
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/16 06:11 AM
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I agree with Eric. Though I'll never be a high earner, I think that households with two high incomes cannot work if you are an RPer. Just look at Little people, Big world on Tlc as proof. The couple is/has divoring/divorced. Both the man and the woman both have high paying jobs. They'll never say it, but I bet you the divorce is partly due to conflicts with money. The man has probably been emasculated in some sort and the wife seemed unyielding, so boom, divorce. Or course there are other factor…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/16 04:26 AM
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Hmm, I guess that can happen too. I just assumed from the pictures that the clothes looked good.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/16 02:35 AM
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I haven't bought from there, but I do plan on buying from Modcloth someday. The clothes look really well made and most of them have that classic, 1940-60s look for the most part. Lots of good feminine and modest stuff there.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/16 11:21 PM
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