| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 25 | Sexual escalation tips | Field Report | arty233 | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 08:14 AM |
| 6 | Ethical Non-monogamy | Lifestyle | arty233 | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Struggling to close in JPN | Escalation & Calibration | arty233 | /r/seduction | 06/12/25 05:06 AM |
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| 1 | Ethical Non-monogamyYes; i literally did this the other night with a 45 year old, single mom milf. But she was pressing to be my girlfirend so i know ima have this convo come up again with her. So what do you do when she wants you to be her girlfriend and exclusive and you want to keep sleeping around? Have you been able keep banging girls and having an intimate relationship with them while you (or them) are banging other people? | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Ethical Non-monogamyThat's a great question. Looking back I always cycle in and out of single & in a relationship. When I'm single i date around. And when in a relationship im committed. This is actually the first time that I want to do polyamory fully, from the start. I wanna do things right. I did it before but my partner didnt want to date around so she stayed in a monogamous relationship with me while i dated around and it really hurt me alot. And her. I had alot of guilt and she jealousy/tarnished self esteem.… | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Ethical Non-monogamyi like how you phrased that. the last girl i was dating monogamously, At one point it felt like she was the one. one of my best relationships. years invested. but somewhere along the way i kinda got bored... like i always had to speak elementary level english with her, i always had to bring up convos and start thedialogue. I couldnt DMC coz she wasnt an English Native. but we built something that couldve easily been marriage if i wasnt insatiable... i hurt her alot and left her for another woman… | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Ethical Non-monogamyVery well said, i like it. How long have you been doing ENM? Do you see yourself having kids or living with your partner/partners (maybe you already have)? | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Ethical Non-monogamyJea same, I don’t like it. Sleeping with someone’s else’s wife is insane tho, Im sure you’ve had some backlash and maybe physical confrontations with that. How do you navigate it so that it doesn’t become scandalous? How do you pull it off without a violent or emotional confrontation? | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Ethical Non-monogamyThanks for the reply. Jea Japan is strange: I hear about there being non-monogamy but it’s always cheating. I haven’t heard anyone openly talk about it ethically, and finding girls who are accepting of it is hard. So I’m always worried to bring up a direct “I’m in an open relationship” convo starter. I try lighten it up and slowly open up to it by saying “I’m seeing other people/i am dating other women”. I’ve met so many great girls who I liked and the minute the polyamory/ENM convo comes up I s… | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Struggling to close in JPNjea ive used escorts before. they fun but i want to game women without paying for it, escorts feel like i failed, like the easy way out. | /r/seduction | 10/12/25 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Struggling to close in JPNGaming hubs is hard, I think ima keep going to keep visiting Ling Ling at the Thai massage parlour instead | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 02:17 PM |
| 5 | Struggling to close in JPNThat was my initial plan, but I’d get a lot of resistance when I text to organise a date. Lots of excuses. Figured I should slow down and banter abit on texts firsts but apparently that don’t work either. Maybe I should just call and organise a date in 1 or 2 phone calls? | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Struggling to close in JPNI’ll try the apps | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Struggling to close in JPNI’ll try. Im honestly too busy to plan a date within 2-4 days. Full time job, extra curriculars, Japanese class, gym, even weekends sometimes packed and that’s just me now imagine her schedule. Best I’ve gotten is a week(end) | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Struggling to close in JPNIm an English teacher driving a 370z so Jea, i make enough money to buy a sports car, live alone, insurance covers me for literal cents, i send money home, travel Asia and invest on the market too. Take home sallary is “only” $2000 but my rent, groceries and bills combined are $400. Next year I wanna move back into a tech job so I can x10 my sallary while keeping living costs the same. So The real question is why don’t you come here? Also had a lot of white friends in my home country, i didn’t m… | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 02:13 PM |
| 3 | Subtle tests for attractionescalate physically, emotionally and logistically. Logistically means changing locations and slowly trying to move the interaction towards more private, secluded areas where making a move would be easy. This can be done in 1 session or over the course of multiple dates. Making a move can be as simple as a light kiss goodbye at her doorway or full on sex in your bedroom if you can get her there. Also build attraction in her. Physically was discussed by Chips and hummus below. But also emotionally… | /r/seduction | 06/12/25 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Subtle tests for attractionthis is great advice. no1 talked a women into bed, got to escalate physically and logistically. | /r/seduction | 06/12/25 04:46 AM |
| 1 | How can you get really hot girls?Improve your body mind and spirit bro: workout, have a dedicated craft or skill, get financially set etc make yourself into the full package. But even then Japanese women are the most flaky, boring, frustrating huns to game. Gorgeous but absolute wet fishes to game. Like I’m Japanese conversational, I’ll approach girls on street/bar/events and talk, have a great convo, number close with a hangout session cemented and STILL get ghosted/bored texting her. Do the same thing in other countries and I… | /r/seduction | 14/11/25 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Sexual escalation tipsleft | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Sexual escalation tipsi like this advice, solid. thank you. I think its also like a numbers game; every encounter will be unique but if i have enough experience and encounters with nightgame ill be able to navigate the hiccups more confidently. I dont have any one to sarge with here so im usually going into places solo and meeting people | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Sexual escalation tips? | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 10:20 AM |
| 0 | Sexual escalation tipsYou right, I’ve heard of this too. I really need to work on that, coz I thght I was escalating well but then I’d hit a wall and be unsure how to proceed. (Btw, This is more the case in the big cities like Tokyo or Osaka. But I live in the countryside, it’s more slow paced here. Regardless I still want to work on this aspect of my gaming) | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 10:19 AM |
| 5 | Sexual escalation tipsI’m in an open relationship. But I don’t want to flaunt it, and be trying to kiss every girl at the bar. Does that make sense?im not a fan of public displays of affection | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 10:18 AM |
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