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Caste systems pretty much exist in every human society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:33 PM
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Exactly. For example India. World’s biggest democracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:37 PM
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100% chance she’s cheating and this is a red herring (no pun intended).
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/24 04:04 PM
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You absolutely need to tell his wife. When this happens to me 5 years ago I called his wife and she admitted to knowing about it 3 months before I did. I was furious. She deserves to know so she can plan.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/24 12:13 AM
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STI test should be ordered too. Where there is smoke there’s fire.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/24 12:06 AM
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Yes unfortunately standard protocol is paternity test and STI test. You need to cut the cord ASAP and begin preparing for the coming divorce. Unfortunately it only gets worse before it gets better.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/24 12:05 AM
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Men's standard for physical beauty much higher than women. As a man, if you groom yourself, take a shower, have a decently decorated place (or your own place at all), decent transportation that's yours, and have a stable job you're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:45 PM
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I think Taylor Swift is ugly. That’s just my taste. Kylie Kelce is more my speed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:44 PM
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Right but the common rhetoric may not be as common as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:20 PM
2

Thin? Ew gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:33 PM
8

Self reflection game on point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:19 PM
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What state if you don’t mind me asking?
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/23 01:08 AM
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In my angry days I took it out by being a complete man whore sleeping with up to 5 different girls in a 24 hr period. I kept a logbook 24 women in one year. I kept side chicks around that gave me keys to their places. After about 2 years of doing that I got tired of it. I’m through my hoe phase and ready to settle down again.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/22 09:20 PM
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You’ll get there brother. You’ll find someone so much better and all of a sudden you’re a happier better dad. And your children will see that. We’ve been conditioned that mom and dad must stay in misery together. My kids are so far ahead of theirs miserably married friends children.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/22 12:25 AM
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Well your path is different than mine. My ex cheated on me with her boss who was also married. They are still together and I split 50/50 custody with my ex. It’s my new normal, but I love my children more than I hate my ex. So I’ll eat my shot sandwich because she’s still a good mom even though she’s a horrible ex wife.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/22 10:15 PM
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OP I’m sorry for what you went through. But Fuck karma, I’m not waiting on her ass. Love your life. Win your shit. There is no karma. Only how you take control of the things you can. And give 0 fucks about those you can’t.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/22 09:34 PM
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Same here. Even ex mother in law said you shouldn’t tell anyone because they may try to hook up with your wife.
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/22 03:16 PM
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We do 7 and 7. Exchange on Fridays and dinner with the opposite parent on Tuesday’s from 5-8PM to break the week up. It’s really nice.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/22 09:42 PM
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This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 01:47 PM
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So if someone slept with 12 ppl by the age of 35 that’s considered a lot of casual sex? Assuming losing virginity at 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 07:01 PM
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Maybe she had mind tingles with one and body tingles with the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:47 PM
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In other words: some men make women tingly down there, and others don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:32 PM
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Nope, never. The hate for my cheating ex doesn’t supersede the love for my children. It gets easier over time.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/21 10:18 PM
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I’m balding faster than I should be because of testosterone replacement therapy but it’s a fair trade off for me. TRT has been great for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 07:49 PM
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I’m sorry brother but your attorney sounds like he sucks. A good one can navigate the judges more effectively.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/21 01:57 AM
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But we will run into a burning building for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 01:38 PM
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This is why you have boundaries my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:11 AM
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Men are definitely class conscious but would more likely to pursue a long term relationship across classes than the likelihood of a woman doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 03:56 PM
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I always found that “flaunting” your wealth as a man is seen as tacky and is a huge turn off for most women. “We want you to be rich, no not that way.” As an example: I never talk about my cars even though it’s a hobby of mine because it’s instantly seen as douchey or I’m trying to show off. I just Uber to dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 12:54 PM
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Yes this. The best part about boundaries is that they protect YOU.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/21 09:09 PM
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Another Texan with 50/50 custody here, I do pay child support.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/21 02:41 PM
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This is correct. Furthermore, the physical characteristics that men are most often judged, height and genital size, are unchangeable characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 02:27 PM
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Delete the app or block. Boundaries man, learn how to use them to protect yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/21 08:13 PM
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r/ihavesex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 01:53 AM
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Sure he is. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 02:45 PM
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This is basically summarized in movie form by watching Back to the Future Pt 1. George McFly had to stand up for himself against a bully to get the girl to like him.
/r/seduction07/01/21 04:41 PM
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Were you still married when this new guy “walked” into your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 02:25 PM
3

This is true don’t let them live rent free in your head. Make moves forward.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/20 02:11 PM
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I live in the 4th largest city in the US. Basically it’s a few select zip codes that we are able to both live in. Nothing more than a 10 minute commute.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/20 10:00 AM
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I have 50/50 custody so I can’t move too far or commuting to kids school would be tough. It’s a blessing and a curse. But it is nice to not have to travel too far to get them / see them.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/20 02:22 AM
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You need boundaries my friend, nothing good will come out of this. Some realities, that you probably already know: 1) Your ex is a narcissist. Her relationship with her previous ex failed, and she is also possibly about to enter a tough health related issue. So she needs to you back to make her feel better about herself. 2) No doubt in my mind that she had a physical affair while you were married. 3) Too late to apologize, seeking closure is something that is a fallacy. Keep your boundaries tigh…
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/20 03:49 PM
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As my therapist tells me, you have porous boundaries. It doesn’t do YOU any favors in the long run to sleep with your ex. I know it’s hard, 19 years there will always be an attraction. It’s best for your long term mental health to create some separation. Glad you are taking steps to live separately soon but you will need to accelerate that time line and find temp housing until. It will be best for your mental sanity.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/20 05:21 PM
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Most standard possession orders in the US START at 62-38 favoring the mother. The father of he’s a decent person can lobby for more 50/50 is very rare and has to be granted by the mother.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/20 12:26 PM
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As most cheaters, he’s a cake eater. Has the comfort and stability of the caretaker at home and flirts (and it ain’t just flirting honey) with other women. Get out while you can and lawyer up. The courts favor a woman in your position, you should be able to get more than 50% custody, alimony and CS. Being out of the workforce for a year is nothing and can easily be justified on a resume and interview process.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/20 08:49 AM
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The death of our dog was one of the triggers of my exes affair. 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/20 05:41 AM
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You HAVE to hold your shit together when dealing with the ex in a system that is set up against you. Getting angry and threatening violence (or actually being violent, who knows) only hurts you brother. You have to be zen-like when interacting with her. She can live in your house and be fucking 10 guys. But that is not more important that seeing your kids. I promise you. Get help both legally and emotionally. We’re rooting for you.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/20 03:37 AM
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I hope this was real.
/r/MGTOW28/04/20 12:57 PM
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Well I’m not anymore so that’s a plus.
/r/MGTOW18/04/20 08:31 PM
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I was married for 12 years. Never got a physical compliment or told I was hot (by my wife). I just made a lot of money and was a great dad.
/r/MGTOW18/04/20 03:22 PM
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I was married for 12 years. Never got a physical compliment or told I was hot. I just made a lot of money and was a great dad.
/r/MGTOW18/04/20 03:22 PM
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Even 5-star vacations are better solo.
/r/MGTOW18/04/20 02:58 PM
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Loser, manlet, short, Poor, creepy, Etc
/r/MGTOW18/04/20 02:54 PM
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Sounds like a union brochure.
/r/MGTOW14/04/20 12:42 PM
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Mad respect brother that is a hard job and a great way to learn social interaction. But, if you were a surgeon her tone would be different.
/r/MGTOW07/04/20 11:57 AM
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Despite my situation, I'm not envious of the slow death marriage. With my WW was clear cut infidelity with a literal orgy of evidence, 50 pages of emails, texts, semen stained panties, meetup attempts after DDay. The divorce is going to suck, no doubt but I don't have to question if the right move was made. We have two kids 6 and 3.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/19 04:32 PM
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