arvzi Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	"My boyfriend is a good guy, but I resent him for not being able to spoil me." There was an article a while ago about how Asians are changing the nature of Cal. It's much more conservative than its previous reputation as a hippie hive.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	06/03/20 06:09 PM
26	Men who seek women for unpaid emotional labour are the real gold diggers Dementors	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/20 11:57 AM
6	Most of the guys in your inbox are looking for sex Why painful? I am genuinely curious. I am a recovering Pickme, most specifically for one guy but in general i have always been cynical about male intentions. It just took that extra skilled narcopath to really work me over in the end.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/02/20 05:04 AM
10	"Does she expect you to read her mind?" Yep, next question Eye roll. Those gross weebs also worship a cultural affectation in which indirect communication is the norm? Haragei (腹芸 or はらげい) is a Japanese concept of interpersonal communication.. Literally translated, the term means "stomach art", and it refers to an exchange of thoughts and feelings that is implied in conversation, rather than explicitly stated. It is a form of rhetoric intended to express real intention and true meaning through implication... ... haragei is characterised by euphemisms, v…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/20 09:56 AM
10	We need men for what, exactly? All the help they offer us? same, but it came from both parents. got typical domestic stuff from my mom but dad was more than happy to teach computing, electronics, car mechanics, outdoors sports'man'ship. Recently taught the young daughter of a friend how to build her own PC + basics bc she begged for a minecraft computer so the deal became she'd better learn in exchange.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/02/20 08:29 AM
8	90s PickMeishas: Dates emotionally unavailable man who strings her along for years. Watched him marry a much younger woman within six months of meeting her and then becomes his mistress. He Finally proposes to her but then leaves her at the altar. AND SIS STILL MARRIES HIM IN THE END. 🤡🤡 I don't disagree, just speaking to the whole hard-to-relate-to aspect for women not of that realm.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/20 08:16 PM
20	90s PickMeishas: Dates emotionally unavailable man who strings her along for years. Watched him marry a much younger woman within six months of meeting her and then becomes his mistress. He Finally proposes to her but then leaves her at the altar. AND SIS STILL MARRIES HIM IN THE END. 🤡🤡 Saw it a while ago too and tbh Big actually seems like a rational actor in the face of an irrational borderline personality disorder and really does care deeply about her but has strong boundaries that Carrie keeps finding new ways to violate.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/20 07:52 PM
12	90s PickMeishas: Dates emotionally unavailable man who strings her along for years. Watched him marry a much younger woman within six months of meeting her and then becomes his mistress. He Finally proposes to her but then leaves her at the altar. AND SIS STILL MARRIES HIM IN THE END. 🤡🤡 "third wave feminism"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/20 07:41 PM
38	90s PickMeishas: Dates emotionally unavailable man who strings her along for years. Watched him marry a much younger woman within six months of meeting her and then becomes his mistress. He Finally proposes to her but then leaves her at the altar. AND SIS STILL MARRIES HIM IN THE END. 🤡🤡 I don't remember much about him except for that he made me uncomfortable	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/20 07:40 PM
27	90s PickMeishas: Dates emotionally unavailable man who strings her along for years. Watched him marry a much younger woman within six months of meeting her and then becomes his mistress. He Finally proposes to her but then leaves her at the altar. AND SIS STILL MARRIES HIM IN THE END. 🤡🤡 it's all white women of relative privilege doing white people things in privileged areas of nyc. I'm Asian from los angeles (mention bc it's also a huge, very diverse, urban metro) and vaguely recall lucy liu being the only Asian, much less any people darker than that being represented and somehow being a jew in nyc was somehow a big deal bc OWASP had to convert in order to marry his money or something. It was a long time ago but that's my recollection	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/20 07:33 PM
5	All the relationship subs are FULL of these types!! most of why they boomerang and try to come hoovering back after getting their over inflated egos popped.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/20 04:22 PM
1	Thought this belonged here there's that 49ers joke about Bay Area women. they're all 4's who think they're 9's.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	20/08/19 09:37 PM
1	Thought this belonged here Chinese care, just a weird cultural affectation.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	20/08/19 09:15 PM
2	New Carol Unlocked! The "Epiphany Phase": A woman who is hitting the Wall and is now seeking Alpha Bucks for commitment and a family. (analysis in comments) Your flair made me uncomfortable as fffuuu. Good job. Edit: Google has bad grammar.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	05/06/19 07:41 PM
1	New Carol Unlocked! The "Epiphany Phase": A woman who is hitting the Wall and is now seeking Alpha Bucks for commitment and a family. (analysis in comments) I am female. After 6 months of abusive marriage, my ex walked out the night I returned from my grandparent's double funeral and filed for divorce. He claimed I was SOOOO CRAZY, unstable, he was afraid of me, etc. Tried to have me 5150'd/committed/involuntary psych hold in multiple different ways (lied to my dr, called the police, called my best friends, called my parents. tried to convince them I was SSSOOOOO CRRAAAZZZYYY-- FYI, I'm not). None of it worked, thankfully. But men lie too. Edited fo…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	05/06/19 07:32 PM
3	[28F] "I am now 100% certain that I want a sustainable long term relationship. I'm done riding the carou...I mean I'm done dating strangers." didn't the 'into the wild' dude die a horrible death? girl is guilty of being basic in a different way than we usually see here.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	03/06/19 03:45 PM
8	[26F] "I have a wonderful boyfriend of 6 years, but I'm thinking about ending things because the butterflies haven't been there for a while." not sure if you were just being cheeky, but I've heard it referred to as "the seven year itch". I used to think that it was some kind of really horrible STD until I got older and it was used in the context of longer relationships.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	28/05/19 07:05 PM
6	I tried to kill myself when womanising 'Strictly snake' dumped me: Kevin Clifton's heartbroken second wife Clare Craze reveals how she overdosed on anxiety pills after 'fame-hungry' dancer ended their marriage Unfortunately, this reads as a classic and sad case of serious narcissistic personality disorder. The emotional and psychologically devastated state she was left in is a common result of narcissistic abuse syndrome-- it's real, it's traumatic; a totally different beast from the 'abusive ex baby daddy' often seen on the profiles featured here. Point is, this article and story is sad but I find probably for different reasons than OP may have.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	23/04/19 11:55 AM
3	Women freeze their eggs because you unstable bastards are afraid of commitment, man the fuck up kennedy* wife	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	03/04/19 04:21 PM
8	Innocent little country girl has "been through a lot" but still wants the bad boy. Since the wall is approaching fast and she lost her kids...she will settle for 1/2 a bad boy. her face shows classic signs of fetal alcohol syndrome.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	07/03/19 08:05 AM
5	How Can A Women Provide Value? Female lurker here. +1 your points. Personally, I lurk for the perspective. While this sub is obviously deep internet man-cave territory, it's obvious neither of us disagree with the actual general message here. However, IMO there's a lot of cognitive dissonance, outright hypocrisy, actual misogyny rather than a dignified mgtow, and mixed messages that really don't form any pure cohesive message. Sure, it's man-space and we're only tourists, but it's frustrating that women are categorically fram…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	19/02/19 05:51 PM
1	How Can A Women Provide Value? It's older than camwhores and whoever that wastrel is. It's been a stipulation built into Asian 'pop star' contracts for decades. No boyfriends or (public) romances. Obviously you were just giving an example; offering support and not a contradiction. Edit for fat finger autofill chicanery.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	19/02/19 05:04 PM
31	Carol is putting the pieces together on why she doesn't have a good man yet.. and still getting dates to the extent she's turning down guys there's no sparkle with.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	17/01/19 09:16 PM
1	When her SMV drops with kids but she still has an attitude. brags about not being environment friendly... but hunts, etc.. wtf. some of the most ardent and serious environmental conservationists are outdoors sportspeople. what an idiot.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/01/19 07:49 PM
7	Will you marry her? I am female and am honestly disgusted.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	09/01/19 01:36 AM
4	Short movie illustrating the dating struggles of Indian women. [Chasing white Chads while rejecting white beta males. And not even giving Indian men a chance.] /r/asianmasculinity	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	18/11/18 08:20 PM
19	Pregnant and ready to settle down? Oh boy! to compensate for lack of visible facial bone structure. ie they're fat or fat faced so their face has no real shape OR they have weak bone structure in general even if they're thin and it's another way to try and fake it. see: facial 'contouring' makeup (made especially popular with the average person by the kartrashians) add: women, especially in the West, want ice cutting cheekbones like men want a chin/jawline like an anvil.	/r/MGTOW	04/10/16 04:08 AM